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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Don't want to be speechless anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I fancy this guy but I get all tongue-tied when I see him. How can I overcome this and get flirting???... (21 words)

Should I visit my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a chance to visit my ex-bf who's now living in my home country during my family visit next month, and I wonder if it's a good idea. I'm an Asian girl and he's white. Both of us used to live here in the UK, he's working and I'm studying. We met online and were happily... (505 words)

I was his rebound and two years later still think about him... how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry if this is long but I need some help. About 2 years ago I met a guy who I fell really hard for. He was so different to anyone I'd ever met before and he made me feel like I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He's in the military and after our second date he l... (476 words)

He wants to have a kid but I'm definitely NOT ready for it! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he asked me if I would have a kid with him. We are both 15 and I just laughed it off as if he was joking and when he didn't mention it for the rest of the night I thought it was a joke. The next morning he asked me again and ... (200 words)

Why did he get so moody when I invited my friend over too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my parents went away for the weekend and my boyfriend was going to stay over without my parents knowing, anyway i asked my best friend to stay over as well but when my boyfriend came round and she was here he got all moody. then when i told him she was staying over as ... (119 words)

Is this defined as cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend she has been with her bf for a few months and she started talking to an old friend of hers... She started sending pictures of herself to him in her bra and him pictures of himself with out clothes. i told her that i think its cheating but she said no.... Is she ... (62 words)

I am ashamed of my looks...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old guy and I am gay. I have always been Dusky which made me feel ugly as I'm usually attracted to fair guys and It always makes me think that a fair guy will never fall in love with me. I started using a skin lighting cream which made my skin 10 shades lighter ... (116 words)

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend doing this? Is he cheating? my boyfriend left his facebook on and i went through his messages..i felt soo bad but am glad i did cos i found out hes been talking to lots of girls...those girls hardly have any clothes on in their pictures. his relation... (164 words)

How do I get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I know this probably sounds stupid asking for help and advice on this question but i have to. as u all know christmas is approaching. my question is how do i get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house. she is crazy and selfish and passes judgement on everyone else ... (292 words)

Am I being unreasonably insecure about the size of my thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Mm, I'll just start by saying that my penis is only 4 inches long (length) and 4 inches around (girth) at the hardest point of my erections. So yes, my penis is well under the 6 inch average length and I don't know what's the average girth but I can certainly tell that mine is ... (493 words)

What's this guy's deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. there is this guy at work who hangs on a lot of women. He is married, sometimes they are too. I recon he may be the touchy feely type, but it bothers me in general... I just think its inappropriate workplace behavior, yet others participate in the same way. Hugs, rubs, ... (152 words)

Why do I start shaking and get nervous when I chat to my ex on msn etc

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever my ex girlfriend and I speak, via text or instant messenger or when I'm with my mates and I see her chatting to them via text when they show me what she is saying, I start to get shakey and nervous, and shivering mildly, as if I am cold. I get butterflys in my stomach ... (73 words)

Are we going out? Or just acting like it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I have been nonstop texting and flirting, however, we only see each other once or twice a week at church because he lives at his college. He has told me that he really likes me and that he wants to go on a date with me. Last night, he accompanied me to my school's... (263 words)

Why can't he look at me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. Just wondering possible reasons? Over a year ago I had what is called an emotional affair at work. HR got involved and others...nevertheless it caused us to not be friendly anymore because of lies and drama..well we have been friendly here and there, but then he gets hot ... (158 words)

Should I tell her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I have been friends for 4 years now. And we both go to the same school. He started dating this girl that we both became really close too, and it came to the point where she fell for me over him. They broke up and we’re dating now. She has told her parents ... (270 words)

The Flirter!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pretty young, still in middle school. And there's this boy I "like". I think he feels the same way because he is ALWAYS flirting with me. He puts his arm around me and pulls my hair... he even called me sexy haha. But he is known as a flirter. He could be joking with me. ... (62 words)

What do I do when my teacher flirts with me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might sound like reeally really wrong, cuz it kinda is, but i kinda have this massive , lustful, crush for one of my teachers, and another reason why its wrong is that theres quite a big age gap, hes 29 n im 16.... He flirts with almost every girl in school, and ... (92 words)

Yikes... Sex before marriage???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hiii, im 20 years old in a committed 1 year relationship. whilst being a christian and going to church twice a sunday and leading as good a christian life as i can (i drink every so often, dont do drugs or smoke etc) i do however have sex with my boyfriend. i lost my virginit... (186 words)

Why did he start to cry when we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday, while we were having sex, he started crying. I asked him Why he was crying but he didn't say anything. I tried to get him to talk about it later but he wouldn't. I don't know what I can do. Help please!!... (50 words)

"Now that all your money's gone and you have no job and no home I can't use you any more!!!!! "

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm really struggling with this, need help bad !!!!! im thinking of revenge all the time on my ex fiancee i feel im gonna end up in prison i kid you not !!!!! 16 months of my life she took off me, she got everything she asked for off me money, gifts all my love, i put her first ... (181 words)

I don't know how to approach him about the problems we're having without him blowing up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year. Lately, we have been having problems, most start off as little tiffs that escalate to huge blow outs. I'm tired of it and I know he is too. But, I don't know what to do about it or how to talk to him. We both deal ... (212 words)

Is this a crush... or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, now i have this MASSIVE problem... I'm 16 years old and dont know if i have a crush on this guy or not.... like i cant realize if its just a simple crush that'll pass in time or just that i really like this guy as a friend... It happened about 2 months ago, in my school u... (249 words)

Help! Ex boyfriend spread secrets but I still l like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right please answer this. i moved to a new school and a few months in i met this lad and everyone told me to get with him so i did. we went out for 2 weeks i finished it before it got too serious because i am scared of commitment i dont know why. anyway i finished ... (242 words)

I love both of them but I'm really confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I messed up bad. I been in two relationships for the past year. I've got caught by the same boyfriend twice and the first time i apologized and about after a month he took me back. but didnt know i was still in the other relationship.. i lied and told him we had broken up.. now ... (98 words)

Do you think he's trying to use me until he finds someone he's more interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone please help me figure out what this guy is trying to do with me? So I met this guy about 5 months ago... Been talking mostly on text and instant messenger. Even though, I cancelled our first date, we went out once and had a great time. He voluntarily told me that ... (318 words)

How do I overcome insecurities and fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I overcome insecurities and fears? I am scared of pursuing a relationship. I am convinced of that i'll be rejected. It's a combination of many insecurities... (33 words)

What does it mean if I'm unable to function?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was obviously offended when I ... (249 words)

Would a man show up at my place just for friendship or is there any hope he's gonna ask me out eventually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I'm 30 and there's this colleague of mine I met in Sept whom I really really fancy. Anyways, he's 40 and the other day he asked me for my address saying he'd show up to say hi one day. Tonight he showed up, totally unannounced, with a box of chocolates and we spent a couple o... (120 words)

Swollen penis... how can I stop this happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I'm a 16 year old boy and I'm having a hard time masturbating. It never used to be like this. But the thing is, after I climax my penis gets really swollen and it'll go back to normal the next day. That's one of the reasons why I don't masturbate much. I don't why it ... (199 words)

Help her to deal with my past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm new here and looking for some advice. To start, let me fill you in on my past. I am a 23 year old female living in the south. I grew up around a lot of drugs and sex was glorified in my family. I didn't really have any rules at all and was allowed to come and go as I ... (592 words)

Phone conversation help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend's conversations have been kinda dull lately. i want something to spark up our relationship because i dont want it to become boring. im not a boring person and he's not either but the silence on the phone is killing me. Help!... (46 words)

Why is it her friends can look at me but she can't ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So theres this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other time in the eye and never for a ... (294 words)

A job in a different city - how do people make that transition?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to move away from this small town. I recently spent almost the entirety of my savings paying off my medical bills, so I don’t have those to worry about anymore. I have about $1k in the bank now. I’ve never had a job, though not for lack of trying, and I live with my mom. ... (561 words)

My ex smashed my confidence and I have all the insecurities in the world!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex used to call me fat sometimes, even though i am only 5'3 and 125 is that normal, and sometimes he would be like oh i don want to have sex with you b/c ur getting bigger. or like put some makeup on.. everyone says im beautiful and he would too but he had a lot of ... (95 words)

Is there a possibility of us contracting STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Both my boyfriend and I are virgins. But both of us have progressed to oral sex. Can I just ask if there will still be a possibility of us contracting STDs if we have sex? Since both of us are virgins and even our individual sexual progression is only with one another?... (56 words)

I feel his friends are more important to him than I am...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well im 18 yrs old i turned 18 oct 7th and ive been with this guy every since i was 15. i got pregnant and had my son at 16, so he is basically all the men i knew, he is about to be 21 i am very faithful to him, never lie or cheat or nun to him i give him the most up respect ... (187 words)

It's fine in a dark theatre, but he won't hold my hand in public??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been having a crush on this guy. We always talk online or through text, but when it comes to school, he won't even say hi to me. We've watched movies together, with just us. The first time we went to watch a movie we we're in the movie theater and he would hold my hand and ... (418 words)

Anyone with experience in the stop/start method of PE control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been looking round to try and find a way of stopping my premature ejaculation. I've read about the stop/start technique where you masterbate until you feel ejaculation coming close and then stop and wait until the feel stops and then carry on masterbating and... (151 words)

What can I do to get him to stop 'sexting' other females?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I am 45 years old and am dating a man age 46. He bartends on the side and know many woman. I do go into his phone every now and then and find evidence of him texting and receiving texts from females some of which are dirty (sexting) and numerous phone calls he has made or ... (223 words)

I pretty much ruined his relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay first of all I don't want anyone judging or making rude comments on here. I just need some serious advice. Okay. So last night me and my friends got really drunk at this party. My ex was there.. Well.. I don't even know if I should call him an ex since we dated in 8th ... (183 words)

He's not talking to me much, does that mean he's cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So im pregnant and i told my boyfriend that i am moving. the thing is before i told him he bought me a stuffed animal and chocolate. so i finally told him that im moving. and he thought about us living together. then i told him lastnight that i didnt think we could live toge... (117 words)

He tells me that masturbating to porn everyday before work is normal?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has to watch porn and masturbate everyday before work, even if I'm home he'll do it in the bathroom, he says it has nothing to do with sex, Is this normal, I mean It makes me feel like I'm not enough for him! He don't see a problem... (52 words)

The men I fancy tend to be straight and very rarely gay - why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like to have your opinion on the fact that the men I fancy tend to be straight and very raerly gay and what does it say that I am into men from the age of 16 right up to the age of 79? Your views are welcome!... (49 words)

Our relationship is great thus far, but I haven't said those 3 words!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod note: 2 questions from same poster combined. I'd love some advice, especially from any guys, about my not saying I love you to my boyfriend. We've been going out 4 months. I'd been single 1 year, after splitting up with a guy I'd lived with for 6 years who I found out ... (615 words)

My summer catch wants to go back to his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I met this guy this summer and from the very beginning I just had the feeling of that piece that was always missing there. I went to college and we were great and just one day he broke up with me saying it was the distance, but after awhile he then told me the truth and said he ... (84 words)

Could a relationship and sex with a much younger man be a good experience for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) age 51-59 - I am 42 and I have only been attracting younger men lately. The youngest recently was 24. I told him that’s way too young for me (only 6 years older than my oldest son) but he keeps trying to tell me why it could work between us. Not buying it. He is nice and all and we have ... (152 words)

How can I help my dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, My mother and father divorced when I was 8 years old. He moved across Texas to be with family and ended up with this woman he had known for years before (I met her when I was 2). They got married shortly after my parents divorced and have been together ever sin... (646 words)

How do I reveal to him and his mother that I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known my boyfriend for about a year and we've been dating for nearly 6months. He is a great guy. We are both 24 with me being a few months older. We discussed the possibility of pregnancy when we decided together to have unprotected sex. We were not planning a pregnancy ... (183 words)

It's been 2 months since we've had sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I realy love here and she loves me . We are together for like 2 jears now she's 22 i'm 21 the sex is getting worse and less and its always the same i talk to here about it and i asked her if she still thinks i'm sexy ? or is she seeing someone else ? And now she's... (143 words)

What exactly is a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy just wants to be friends with benefits, does that mean that he only finds you physically attractive, or could he possibly care about you too and like your personality, but just not want a serious relationship ?. ... (41 words)

Should I tell him how sad I am our "friendship" is over or just move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello to anyone who reads this, your time is greatly appreciated. My best friend has broken my heart. For the past 2 years he has lived his own life, studying on the other side of the country. It has been hard staying in each other’s lives, and I always thought I was part of ... (345 words)

Need advice on sexual techniques??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, This might sound a bit weird but here it goes. My boyfriend an I have been together 2 years now, I used to be good at woman on top sex position but now when we do it he takes ages to cum or I can't go fast enough. I thought maybe it was just he doesn't cum as q... (90 words)

How can I become friends with her for the right reasons??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so basically I've been in love with this guy that is my ex-bestfriends older brother! When her and I were bestfriends this other girl said stuff about her that wasnt true (which she happens to tell me now) and I got mad at that ex bestfriend and stopped talking to her a... (211 words)

Is she out to sabotage my love life??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who Ive known since I was 12. Shes one of my bestfriends, love her to death. But lately Ive been feeling a little funny about her. Years ago when I was in highschool, I had a boyfriend. Things were good between us until she came around. She was being a little ... (229 words)

I'm just one of the girls to him, suggestions needed to change that please??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This will seem reminiscent of highschool drama, which is quite immature for a University student, but I need help from you pro’s. Since you’re on this site and reading this intro, you might as well answer, right? Say yes please. Anyway, here goes: I’ve recently starte... (510 words)

My relationships go nowhere, any secrets to finding a good guy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female that can not find the right guy for anything. i have dated soo many guys and only have had 2 serious relationships that both lasted 2 years. both of those guys left me heartbroken. they both left out of nowhere. this one guy i just recently met seems ... (174 words)

Baby is on the way, how do I tell him when we have broken up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya girls and guys. I recently found out that I'm pregnant. I'm only 17 and the father is 19. We broke up about a month ago but we're still friends. He is unemployed at the moment and still lives with his parents. I'm a student and I was hoping to finish my studies before ... (247 words)

Is he cheating and am I wrong for wanting more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been out of a 7 year relationship with a previous man of whom would never marry me, but expected to live with me and have children, I was dumb enough to have one. The relationship was over for 7 months. I had met another man one night out with some friends, and as the n... (465 words)

Should I tell her now or never, break up with her now or later??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for the past several months. I use the term dating loosely because we haven't had any conversations on boundaries yet or monogamy. That's a problem in itself because she is much more in to me than I am in to her. Don't get me wrong I do enjoy her company ... (231 words)

Should I try to keep the relationship going regardless??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - People in the story : Me (year 9) His ex-gf (year 11) And my boyfriend (year 10) The other girl in this story dated my boyfriend a little while ago. He dumped her because he really didnt like her anymore and then he asked me out a few of weeks later. I said yes to him... (322 words)

Does what he said sound genuine to you??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my ex-boyfriend (mid 30s) was in contact with a Japanese lady (at least 30yo) he hooked up with on a business trip before we became official. He met her on the internet before his trip because he wanted someone to show him around in Tokyo as Japanese people ... (340 words)

..Should I just forget about my superstar love??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm just another average girl, with just another average life. But my problem is that I'm unconditionally and completely in love with this guy, which is kinda normal. But what's not normal is that now he's a super star and if I named him most people would most probab... (138 words)

My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so scared if he won't come out and ... (102 words)

Is it healthy/normal for a man to have so many female friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it weird for a guy to have a lot of friends that are girls, and whose closest friends are girls? Is there ever a time when this is perfectly healthy and NOT a red flag?? The last two guys I've dated have had mostly female friends. At the time I didn't think it was a b... (350 words)

I am in good shape,but can't get her attention, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Why can't I get this girl to like me uber been trying for ages I have a six pack... (19 words)

Does he just like the chase?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been talking to this guy online for a while now. He claims he is interested and he cares about me, but lately he has been busy. So, we haven't had the opportunity to talk much. We usually send each other messages on facebook but lately he hasnt been doing much of that ... (151 words)

I kissed a girl on my course, both in relationships, do I approach the subject?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - It was our christmas party at University last night and we all out for drinks afterwards. I ended up spending most of the night hanging out with a girl I get on with on the course. We where both drunk and things where a bit flirtatious between us all night long but not ... (182 words)

Is it normal to be in a relationship and not use tongues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't anything serious - I saw a question yesterday and it got me thinking. I hate snogging (as in kissing with tongues.)I've been with my boyfriend for a while now (just over a year) and when we first started dating that's how we used to kiss but I told him that I didn't ... (164 words)

Just found out my ex is pregnant with my baby but I have moved on!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there I was with this girl for 6 years and just saw her weekends told her it was over cos i said i fell out of love with her really i just found someone new, well my ex is pregnant and its mine but i now want to live with this new girl i met and i don't want anything to... (111 words)

Should I leave him because of his mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I realised that my boyfriend mother look down on me as I studied Chinese language as my major degree while my boyfriend is a engineer. She thinks that I won't get a good job as a Chinese graduate. However, I don't think so I don't want to be a teacher but I am sure I can find ... (131 words)

Does my sexual openess turn him off? The lack of sex is corroding my love for him....

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my partner have agreed we have a very strong emotional connection and love, but not sexually. At the start of our relationship it was great! He wa really into me and we'd have sex twice in the same moring sometimes! He was really keen and had ... (939 words)

She is married but said she wants to marry me and have children with me, but now she has told me she needs some time! Why the change of mind so suddenly?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, please help me clear out my thought. I'm apologize for it kind of long. here is my situation. 7 years ago, me and this girl were really good friend, always hangout together and shared all our up and down with each other. we both have feeling for each other but we ... (293 words)

Am I wrong for disliking her? Did I actually cheat on her as she claimed?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I find it funny that most of the people on this site who answer questions often times have some problems of their own - and since I've commented on a few people's stories myself, I felt it was fair that I shared my own. It would suffice to say that I fe... (1112 words)

Why does my ex text me? What does it mean?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why does my ex boyfriend text me? what does it mean? some back ground on the relationship. we cared about each other very much and then he found out he had a child from an ex and he was freakin out and i couldnt deal with it and we decided to seperate ways. that was ... (110 words)

My daughter was taken advantage of by my cousin, how do I handle this?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Our daughter of 18-21yrs recently went to Australia to stay with a cousin of mine, he is a man in his 30's and a devoted Christian (he even took her to church). My husband and I were worried about her going as she has had what seemed to be a late teenage rebellion over the last ... (785 words)

Is he just a good guy, or the right guy?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently split up with a long term boyfriend because he was so occupied with the future that he wasn't there for me in the present. He is a good guy, but I don't know if he's the one. Now I am starting to date another man who is currently making me really happy, bu... (128 words)

I'm married, in love with another but he doesn't love me back

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't seem to know what went wrong! I have posted here about my feelings for a certain Mr. X even when I am married. My marriage has always been good except for some problems with my In-Laws. My husband is a very nice person who takes care of me very well. Although there a... (654 words)

He's married, but I want him back. What should I do?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i had been in affair with married man for 7 months. i knew having sex with married man is no good. but he was a good looking 47 years man and he has a nice body. first, he drove me home after work and he was saying he had cheated his wife before and since then, their bedr... (478 words)

Should I trust her? Says she she loves me, but dates another.

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex gf say said she loved, then a guy walks up on us, and turns out she was on a date with that guy that night? we hung out almost every day for a week, then we talk, but don't do see each other, then the next night shes on a date with a guy, after she said she loves me ... (73 words)

Why would she say she loves me and then walk off with another guy?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i dated a girl for about a 1 1/2 years, then for the next year it was like we were dating but without the title. She recently has broken up with her bf of 10 months in october. We started talking and hanging out over thanksgiving. She goes to school in mississippi i live in ... (582 words)

Why does he always criticize me?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never really understand my boyfriend he criticize my past a lot. I only really been out with like 2 guys in my life excluding him and he always seems to find a way to make me feel bad. He always mentions that he can't believe those are the guys I went out with and uses ... (232 words)

My boyfriend becomes verbally abusive when he drinks

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20 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - When I first met my boyfriend he was always a gentleman and always made sure to say the sweetest things. As time went by we began to hang out and I began to fall for his act of kindness. Off the bat I knew this relationship was not an attraction through physical appearance ... (767 words)

How can I help my boyfriend learn how to love himself?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been with my boyfriend, "Francis" for 6 months now. I am almost 20 and he is in his mid 20s. I'm a second year university student and he already graduated and is working. For the last few months I have been learning more and more about him and his past.... (456 words)

Ouch!! I just saw my half-brother and my step brother making out!!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This story is really akward and amusing, I think. My parents had to leave Friday suddenly because my grandmother is ill and in the hospital. They left me in charge of my half brother, whose 14 and my stepbrother whose 15. After I got home from work (at like eleven at night)... (203 words)

Are his gifts guilt free? Or is there a cheating price attached?

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20 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - is this a sign of cheating? i know its almost christmas. but there for awhile our relationship got weird. we wasnt seeing eachother and we was fighting. we wasnt seeing each other cause my bf has work. and i am pregnant and we was fighting about everything! we stopped s... (323 words)

The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was the starting of everthing ... (474 words)

I was sick and having hallucinations! Is this normal?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I got sick the other day and began having these sick hallucinations. They were awesome, lol, but I was a little afraid my mind had been pushed to its limit like that by a simple cold (severe though it was). Is this normal? Has it happened to anyone else? Should I see a doctor... (65 words)

Getting married in 11 days...but I'm scared and going to miss my family!! How do I deal with it??

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and will be getting married in 11 days. I've lived in the same house my entire life and with the exception of my brother moving to Texas, my family has always been around. After the wedding I'm moving to Florida where my fiance has lived for a year now. His ... (116 words)

Learning to pleasure myself without pain?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i don't know how to masterbate, i mean, i do know, but almost every way hurts except the running shower, what are some ways i can sucessfully get an orgasm without inserting anything "up there", oh and what postions are best... (41 words)

Should I give him another chance?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and this guy are always on and off, he's only 2 years old than me * 1st time- we hooked up, he stopped talking to me * 2nd time- we kinda worked things out and talked for a little then we hooked up again, then we ended things after a little * 3rd time- we hooked up ... (198 words)

My girlfriend compliments in public and it embarrasses me!

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have this girlfriend, "Dana" (I keep the names of the people in my questions fake, but consistent). We're realy happy. One problem. She's always making comments about my "nice butt" and "cut arms" and it embarrasses me. I'm not shy, but I am a bit humble. So when ... (135 words)

If he loves me then why does he call me all these names?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfrind says he loves me but calls me all these names. we go out n evey lil thing I do bothers him we live together n wen we get home its a non ending battle he gets mad at me he tells me he hates me n den wants to have sex n den he gets mad n walks away n comes back n ... (104 words)

My ex, who I split up with 3 years ago, wants me to be a dad to her baby! How do I handle this?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a friend "Agenol". He moved from our city, to Britain about 2 years ago. Last year, he came back to our city in America for a brief vacation. While here, he "got freaky" with my ex "Daniela". I don't care that they were together; I'm not jealous. Agenol went back... (242 words)

I love my boyfriend but kissed another guy...what do I do now?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. However recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I kissed him and find myself thinking about him, but I love my boyfriend. What do I do?... (43 words)

Crying after sex -- has anyone else experienced it and what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over seven months. We became physically intimate after two months and things were great in other respects, too (ie. having fun hanging out, lots of laughs, getting to know each other and each other's friends, etc.) Then into... (924 words)

Love across continents, never met him, my parents are hell bent against him....but I cant seem to give up!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We met online January this year, and it started off with a friendship. We shared a lot of things in common and one day he asked me if we could be something more than just friends. And I s... (427 words)

She becomes defensive when I talk to her

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20 December 2010 (M)

age - i meet this girl a year ago anyway we now live together i pay all the bills and take care of her and her 2 kids she says she loves but do,s not sleep with me and always wants money and leaves me for awhile comes back and hides in the bathroom and always has the phone with her ... (124 words)

She doesn't enjoy sex, but I do.

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend doesnt like sex but I do. Ive tried making it interesting and fun for us both, but she is just not interested in sex. She was like this when we met but I thought she was just shy. She will have sex, but she is doing it for me rather than because she want... (171 words)

Family expcting too much? Free babysitting vs. New city!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ya’ll, so here’s the question. It’s my first winter in my new city and I’ve worked long and hard to get here. I’m not making much money yet and it’s a struggle sometimes but I have a plan and I have a job and that’s saying more than a lot of folks have. So my parents are ... (587 words)

How to make sex more enjoyable.

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i know your probably going to say i shouldnt be having sex but i am. Well (clearly) im sexually active with my boyfriend. His had sex before but i havnt, he was my first. we have only had sex a total of 6times. Each time he doesnt really please me, he does for a f... (128 words)

I can't leave her, she will nap out of it

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 4 years just gave me an xmas card from her. It was just a standard card from a standard pack and said 'merry xmas and all the best for the new year'. This is the usual stuff she has given me and written for past 2 years now. I always get her a birthday... (260 words)

Why does he have cold feet?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I been dating 3yrs living together for 2yrs. When we got involved with was both separated from our spouses for over a year with the intend of getting a divorce from our spouses. Well my divorce was finalized this year he has put his off several times. I told ... (176 words)

Should I try to make it work, for the sake of my kids?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all I know I am a pig and a horrible person, so there is no need to tell me that. I have been married for almost 8 years and have 3 beautiful children with her. Since the begininning of our marriage I questioned our marriage, we were different people and probably got ... (418 words)

Says he's not having sex with her, is he using me for sex?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been dateing having sex with a man for 12 years he has been dateing his girl for about a year and a half he tell's me that he his not having sex with her but hs spen the night and go out of town with her is he useing me just for sex. ... (57 words)

Upset he hadn't got me anything for Christmas.

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A week away from Xmas and my partner tells me yesterday he's not got me anything; doesn't know what to get me and has had other things on his mind! Hints for a particular ($10.00) DVD I've been chasing and found have obviously gone unheard... (All he had to do was give me his ... (354 words)

He won't call me!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so this boy asked me out after i told him i wanted him to ask me out. I don't have his number but i gave him mine. my whole grade knows that he asked me out. and its been like a little less than 3 days since he asked me out and he hasnt called me. ALSO he won't answer any ... (93 words)

Did she have an orgasm?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months ago, I met a beautiful girl and we started dating sporadically. We started seeing eachother more frequently until she got comfortable with me and confessed she was on meds because she had panic attacks following a street rape that occurred a little over a year ... (550 words)

Help my girlfriend turned into a different person.

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I apologize for the length of this but I really need some perspective and advice on how to behave with my girlfriend right now: I met and starting dating a girl a little over two years ago and thought I had found the love of my life. She lived out of state so after initially ... (1593 words)

Is kissing him or asking him out a great alternative to an actual Xmas present?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I didn't get the guy I fancy a Christmas present. My mistake admittedly. I just couldnt find something which would show I am totally into him . Recently, we've been flirting loads at the youth club we both go to. So I was wondering if asking him out or kissing him or ... (72 words)

Star crossed lovers or friends? What's the best advice to give?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Right so, here is a situation. My friend, who is a girl, has just broken up with her boyfriend of a year and a half. Now, she is an extremely attractive young girl, funny and intelligent. All of that. However, I can't bear to see her upset and giving up everything so easily ju... (276 words)

Addicted to my ex's FaceBook, what can I do?

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20 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been two weeks since I broke up. I have managed to get her to talking terms(though on facebook). Apologised and been forgiven my wrong doing. She told me she doesn't want a come back and I have decided to wait because I love her. She has been adding too many guys as friends ... (183 words)

Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?

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20 December 2010 (F) age 30-35 - How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always end up not enjoying myself, ... (413 words)

It bothers me that he was once engaged to someone else!

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a fairly simple question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and I love him. He is older than me and 5 years ago he was engaged. They ended up not getting married because she wasn't ready to give up her life of partying, as he says. They haven't spoken in 5 ... (90 words)

What happened to my period?

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm 17 and sexually active with a long term bf. I used to be on the pill but kept on forgetting to take it and messing it up so i decided i should come of it, wait for my next period to come along so my system could sort itself out and then maby have the implant or ... (217 words)

Should I try to clear messy things up after such a long time has past??

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - HI at work there was a big ta do with my boss at the time and myself..to this day I see him glancing over at me...he goes hot and cold and I won't deal with the emotional flip flop anymore so I avoid him or at least don't look at him if I have to be in close proximity...this ... (213 words)

Is it alright to go out with married co workers ourside of work??

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20 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: Is it un appropriate to go out with the married co workers of the opposite sex after work?? What if they come to parties without their spouses and like you as a person to hang with..is that not good??? I realize a lot of marriages are not very good, perhaps in some of ... (81 words)