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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm nuts about her and want her to know it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello cupid. I've never been in any relation with any girl. now there's this girl whom Im interested in and we do the internet chatting, but its been a couple of months and things haven't even progressed to a stage where I can even express my interest in her freely. we both got... (156 words)

Could anyone help me out on a good colour that suits blonde/brown hair please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - This is just a quick question really, I was just wondering on any one's opinion really.. I have Blonde and brown hair (Dark brown my natural hair on bottom, and blonde on top) I don't like to be a person that blends in with the crowd, i like to be who I am, and i woould lik... (124 words)

I'm not a virgin and that bothers him, we are starting to get 'physical' but I'm concerned about the arguments.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boy friend for a year we are getting physical now but there is a problem. I am not a virgin and he is, and that bothers him so we always get in arguements for that reason. What should i do if we fight alot but still want to get "physical" but i know we'll ... (67 words)

Emotionally upset with boyfriend after anal sex and his past with prostitutes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am feeling upset and insecure in my relationship of 10 months now. My partner is 53 and I am 38. He told me early on in the relationship that he went to prostitutes when he was in his 38 for about 3 months but stopped because he was wasting his money. Then he was into porn ... (595 words)

I think my relationship may be nearly over...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I dont know if its me but i think my girlfriend is kinda very selfish. I'm an artist and I need to keep my skills up in all sections I deal with. When i'm drawing or doing something in general she feels to be all affectionate, shes not like this when im idle. If I do this ... (280 words)

If you chose to recreate yourself as a 24 year old guy....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello women... If you have high self esteem and chose to recreate yourself as a 24 year old guy, what are all the qualities, looks, and attitudes you would choose to have that trigger a strong gut level (or should I say groin level) desire in women? And maybe more importantly, ... (96 words)

My boyfriend is completely unsupportive of my new business...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, i've been with my boyfriend 4 years now. He is married with 2 kids, but separated, we've lived together abroad for 4 yrs while his wife n kids lived back home. I put up with this situation for 4 yrs then decided that it was time to put him to the test. i asked to move ... (643 words)

Is this what you call being in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there was this guy in my life he asked me out but i siad no but we are still friends on facebook i think he loves me he always walked me home and was so nice to me but never made a move on me because i wouldnt be his girlfriend but he did ring me a lot too, was he in love with ... (77 words)

Why is he being so immature when I'm around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so about a week and a half ago my bf(now ex) broke up and idk what his deal is but lately hes been acting so immature towards me lately. like one day i tried to get him, our friend, and me to hang out the way we did when we were all just friends and when i went inside to ... (200 words)

Would I become a wannabe???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends in school has a really cute style, but I'm afraid that if I start dressing like her, I will become a wannabe. Do you think it would be a bad thing if I want to dress like her???... (42 words)

Is it too much to ask that we spend our time off together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please let me know if I am being unreasonable. I have been dating this guy of 7 months and we have been living together for 3. During Thanksgiving break we visited some of his friends a few states away. Shortly after he told me they invited us to come down after Christmas. ... (245 words)

Where do I begin to heal the pain learn to love who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age - Dear Cupid perhaps you can help me, I am a 47 year man who has been divorced for 8 years, I have recently been in a friendship which sadly has come to abrupt end, for various reasons. The young lady in question has decided after a summer together that she wishes to be alone du... (333 words)

Should I hurt this person just to make me feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I feel guilty about something, but I don't know why I do. I havent done anything. The problem is if I do this "something" it should make me feel better but this one person will be hurt. One of my teachers told me to think about the repercussions. But when I asked my friends ... (98 words)

I'm worried about his blue balls!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i always have foreplay without having sex because i told him i was a virgin so he sticking to his promise not to have sex with me. But when ever we are done, he always complain bitterly of having "blue - balls" to the extent that he can't even sta... (145 words)

What else can we do to make things better in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been having problems with my relationship. my guy and i started going out 8 months back and we decided to get married, he has been having financial problems for which my family is not agreeing to get me married to him. the main problem is that from 2 months we both... (131 words)

Do you always bleed your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of one and a half year wanted to have sex with me some time ago i cried and told him i was a virgin so he should please exercise patient because i want to get married before having sex. He understands that but said it isn't easy but he will try to wait ... (171 words)

How can I tell her she needs to be more patient re sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, my girlfriend gets mad when i cant get off when she is on top or giving me head? It gets to the point where when she feels like she is done, she just quits and goes to bed leaving me hanging. i dont know if she thinks that she dosent turn me on.. or what? she does turn me ... (145 words)

A whole world of hurt...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey y'all I need some help. Let me start off by talking about my girlfriend. This girl is one of those girls that always makes sure you are smiling, she is just one of a kind. I could write about how much we are in love and how amazing we are together, but id be going on for ... (487 words)

How can I make him happy and satisfied when we are together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my guy for some time now, though we are in a long distance relationship, whenever my boyfriend comes around and we are together, i don't know what to do to get him aroused. Whenever he touches and fondles me too i don't feel anything running... (83 words)

How can I convince my friend to stop getting high and ruining their life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I convince my friend to stop getting high and ruining their life? I need something to scare them. I know that I can't control them but this is serious because they're under 18 and I know the effects. please please please help ... (44 words)

Am I over analysing here or is she losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

15 December 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My situation is this: I have known this woman for quite a while although it was more like we knew of each other rather than actually knowing each other. Anyway, we formally met about six months ago while out with a bunch of mutual friends and we ended up having sex that ... (909 words)

Does it sound all healthy to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having some kind of "open relationship" with this guy and I'm not experienced in dating and relationships at all. I'd like to know if this sounds healthy. I met this guy online 11 months ago, met in person 10 months ago, he proposed a relationship 9 months ago. I'm ... (616 words)

Why do some people seem to fall into relationships easier than others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

- I'm 23 at uni and I get depressed when I see most people in relationships at university and get into them fairly easily. I have no problem asking women out (though I used to until recently) but then I seem to struggle to get into the relationship phase. It is depressing as I ... (143 words)

Will me being a "long stayer" cause her problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, Me and my girlfriend are gonna be moving in with each other, To make the long story short. we will be having sex a lot, and I usally last about 2-4 hours, We have had sex about 3 times and we have been together for 6 months, I just want to know if I will be hurting her ... (80 words)

Boyfriend's family hates me so bad he has to choose between them or me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am dating a very wonderful guy who I have been with 8 months. At first everything was great and his family liked me. Then, things got messy between me and the guy and we had several arguments and both said mean very hurtful things. We got back together after being broke n... (309 words)

She's come back to me, but I'm uneasy about what went on with the other guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a bit of a problem. my ex girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 5 months ago ans only about a week later she was seeing someone new. the thing is that her relationship progressed quickly and went as far as telling him she loved him and having sex with him ... (235 words)

I really like her but she's dating another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok the girl I like has a boyfriend. They have broken up and got back together a couple of times. When they are together tough I feel like she is always anoied with him. They are currently together at the moment. I am friends with her right now but I want her to be my ... (117 words)

What kind of things would a desperate person do to break up a relationship short of breaking the law?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - In a fictional setting of course, let's say you wanted your ex back so badly that it drove you to act in ways you never would normally. How would you sabotage his/her current relationship so you could have a chance of reuniting? What kind of things would a desperate person do ... (113 words)

Rebound dating: is it a bad idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been about a month since my girlfriend of two years broke up with me and I've been trying to get out of this "mopey" stage. I've been working out, painting, writing, doing my school work, hanging out with friends... you name it. However, it just hasn't cheered me up an... (220 words)

He's different when he's not around his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid. this boy ive been crushing on is not what i suspected , when he with his friends he gets high, smokes and drinks but when im with him myself and his friends aren't around i dont beileve the stuff , i know when he leaves for collage im just going to get hurt and ... (95 words)

Is being a friend going to work in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my now ex girlfriend cheated on me with a random guy she now doesn't talk to anymore. We broke up, then she got back together with an ex boyfriend. She says she still wants to be my "best friend." And in the past couple of weeks has been texting me and talking to me on the ... (123 words)

Should I move in with my FWB?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been talking to this guy from work now for about three month, we kinda argreeded that it is a FWB relationship, but now we r taking about moving in with each other and still see other people. The problem is that I am falling for him and I don't know really how he ... (271 words)

After months of no contact the ex sent a note. Should I respond?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and i had disagreements and broke up 6 months ago, i wrote him emails and called but he ignored me and didn't respond for the 3 months i tried to contact him. i finally quit trying to contact him, and then 3 months later he contacts me, but with what i call a cryptic ... (249 words)

Am I staying because I am in love or because I'm just comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A lot of relationships where girls date a gamer, refer to the problem that he doesn't pay enough attention to the girl... but that is not my problem. He does pay attention to me, and if I do ask him to go somewhere or do something with me, he usually will. The problem is, I ... (390 words)

Husband does not find me sexy, feeling like I may end up cheating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have always been a very faithful person I have never even thought of cheating in any of my relationships. Me and my husband got married about 6 months ago and for some reason I feel like I am going to cheat on him. I am trying to figure out why I don't trus... (238 words)

Am I wrong to feel there should be nothing hidden in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved in with my boyfriend to then find out he had been cheating on me with several women throughout our entire relationship. I have since tried to trust but told him it will take some extra steps on his part to help me rebuild the confidence. He now is angry I check his ... (176 words)

Which one would you pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is jsut a curiousty question. Some of my friends were wondering would you marry a women who gave countless oral sex, vaginal sex, or anal sex if you coud pick one? what would it be?... (38 words)

I'm scared that I'm going insane staying with him! WHY am I still with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why the hell am i still in love with this guy 1. who never wants to marry me since im older to him 2. who breaks up with me whenver he feels that i am pressureing him for commitment and gets back after few days as if nothing hpnd 3. Never commits even for an long term re... (340 words)

Sex with a younger guy? but not just any younger guy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

15 December 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My story is this: I am currently divorced from my second marriage. My first marriage was over in 2003. And I had a son and daughter and my husband had a son and daughter. So basically I had a step son and step daughter for a little ovr 6 years. It was his second marriage.... (267 words)

Should I meet with him and also tell the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for nearly a year and it seems all along he had never completely finished with his ex. I cant quite get my head around how someone can do this and get away with it for a year but he did! I have always been suspicious of her and ive found some evidence that ... (171 words)

What did he mean by he realized he was shallow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age - yesterday was my boyfriends birthday, when we went to lunch he told me about the party he went to the night before to celebrate his birthday, i was unable to go. he was going on and on about all these funny sexual birthday cards he got. i bought him a mushy one and didn't give ... (204 words)

Does anyone here have any success stories with coming out the other side of this kind of thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there to all you guys reading this site. Well I have finally realised I have very bad problems with jealousy, possessiveness and self-esteem. I have read on the internet loads of literature on this thing and I have spoken to various people, got advice etc, and I am at... (126 words)

Why does he flirt with other women on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - why is my partner like to flirt on facebook i been with him for a year and half he was married for ten years his ex wife never new why is he doing this two me i give him anything he wants i love him so much when i ask him about it he just smiles about it i been married twice my ... (85 words)

What's wrong with me that I can't see that he's obviously not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why I'm so into him and why I sit around waiting for him to call. I've been seeing this guy on and off for a few months now. Seeing is actually an exaggeration, more like saw him once and text often. I met at a party where he asked for my number. Since then ... (211 words)

Does anyone else have problems with adult stepchildren and their spouses?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age - Does anyone else have problems with adult stepchildren and their spouses? I have 3 who are for the most part, polite and courteous to me when in my presence. They do, however, fail to recognize me as a legitimate family member. Its dad's house, dad's things, yadda yadda ... (727 words)

Am I crazy for feeling jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone..:) i am a 19 yr. old girl..i am going around with my bf from last 2 yrs.. We both love each other like anything. But i had a fight with him just now that puzzled me on my own behaviour.. We had a great day together..we both were discussing it and i pu... (347 words)

What should I do? I could give up on it but I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I joined an online dating site. I guy messaged me and we have been chatting since then. Probably on average of 4 times a week if not more. I didn't see his picture before we started chatting on Skype. We decided to meet after about 2 weeks. The date went well and we have a ... (164 words)

Is she having an emotional affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We were in married for 10 years and have 2 kids. She have a restaurant. There is no or few customers coming to the restaurant after 11:00pm. She can close before 1:00am and come home. But usually she come home after 2:00am. I know for sure for the last 2 years she stay in the ... (371 words)

Am I weird?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - people make me feel a bit weird just because iv never had a boyfriend or done anything with a boy and its starting to get to me. i want to know if anyone thinks this is weird too. (I'm 18 if you're wondering) ... (43 words)

Am I doomed to be the girl who passes up nice guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I suck. There's something wrong with me! I'm in an "un-labeled" exclusive relationship with a man whose good to me but has traces of Mr Hyde..I dunno. We'll call him Angelo. But this is the bad part, I've skipped over two...three..four nice guys for him. Two that ... (145 words)

Long distance, nosy mom and commitment issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the first time I have a long-distance relationship due to school and work, and it totally bums me out not to be able to see my boyfriend more often. Anyway, I met this guy online about 8 months ago and we started dating. Everything has been amazing but differen... (166 words)

Should I try to help my sister or just let her get on with things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very concerned about my younger sister, she's recently turned 18 and has moved in with her boyfriend of 6 months. What worries me is the fact that their relationship is not stable; they have both cheated on eachother within the 6 months of being together, they've tried to ... (161 words)

I'm having a hard time thinking that she's been with someone else...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years, and are in love. I was the first guy she had sex with and she was the first one i had sex with, and this was always really special to me. Recently she told me she was raped when she was 15 and was unconcious during everything. I am ... (92 words)

I don't know what to say to him or even about how I feel!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - In my group of friends I am normally the one that sorts out the problems but I will be the first to admit that I am rubbish at solving my own. Mainly because I think it takes someone with a clear head and someone that doesn't know you personally just to help guide you ... (242 words)

Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner. What is the best way to refrain from being jealous on a present girl with her past sex and love lives??? Considering she did everything in sex, how would i convince myself that it is ok to accept her past... but i al... (88 words)

The rebound girl - ignore stage - need for closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if my story is too long and messy. Please bear with me :) At the time, I was a needy girl, with low self-esteem, no real friends... We started off as friends; then dated for 1 month. Then, he started to shut me out, I wasn't willing to put up with that so requeste... (1048 words)

Why do I get mad at my boyfriend so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now but I always get mad at him like every day!! He tells me you need to stop tripping before I leave you I trip because he always prefers other people than to see me and it gets me soo mad! I love him with all my heart and I ... (87 words)

A few things are worrying me about my friend's older man, does anyone else find this strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well let me start off by saying that I'm seeking some opinions. My best friend has always been into younger men, she is 18 like me. Over the summer she met a 38 year old man at another friends job. She was hesitant because he is so much older but decided to go for it. They've ... (169 words)

It seems like our paths are meant to diverge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Two months ago I met a really great guy. We are taking things slow but are developing strong feelings for each other. I think that I can def see him in my future (although it's too early to be sure). The problem is that I need to get a Master's degree, which will take two ye... (235 words)

Is it wrong for me to be sharing these feelings with him or should I just keep my mouth shut in future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

- after having a conversation with my friend last night, about sex, he admitted to me that he loves the way i 'think like men' with regards to sex, that i am not lady like at all. i was just saying about how when i have a FWB i like to keep the distance and not get emotionally ... (168 words)

I think he might like me but I cant tell if this girl is his girlfriend or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a really really hot guy, he got a lot of girl friends( just friends) but he is pretty close to a few girls and I'm not sure if she's his gf... But I think this guy might Like me coz he does this funny thing when me and my Friend were taking photos of a cute little possum ... (191 words)

How can I get my parents to accept him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but my parnets don't agree with me . I had a 9 mouth old baby he treats him good n me too. What can I do so my parnets can accpet him so I can be his girlfriend... (42 words)

My boyfriend has stopped replying to my texts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend stop replying my text since like 2 days ago. I dont know why he stop replying me. We didnt quarrel when we last text each other. I didnt say anything to piss him off. I have texted him yesterday and today asking why hasnt he reply. I want to send more messages to ... (142 words)

Why do I never get it right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

- I was dating a girl recently and I thought it was going well but then she made excuses to avoid me and as a result we broke up. I'm 23 and I have dated 3 other women. The first broke up and got back together with her ex, the second was not looking for a boyfriend and the thir... (150 words)

Drunk and possibly cheated, this is so out of character for me! Should I come clean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for two and a half years and we are amazing together!many peole comment on what a close and genuine couple we are! we are so happy! But a couple of months ago he left the pub early and i stayed out with his friends. unfortunately i got very intoxica... (196 words)

Feeling left out.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this best friend and I love her like a sister, but I feel that every time we go out somewhere together she gets all the attention and guys never even notice me. I know I'm not unattractive, or anything, but she's really pretty and guys are always all over her. I also ... (121 words)

Did I make the wrong choice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need someones help. for more than one year now i have been talking to a man who lives in argentina, we met on xbox and we have done a lot of stuff together. i live in the uk. we keep meaning to meet but problems occur which means we have to put it back. we were boy... (662 words)

Am I going to be alone forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a lot of advice. I am good for an afternoon and then I get sad again. I broke up with my ex of 6 years and after 3 miscarriages. I now have a beautifull 15 month son. I will graduate in March with my Masters degree. I have a very close family, try to volunteer, donate ... (98 words)

Is this love or am I addicted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - actually i have a boyfriend he loves me a lot, i'd always hurt and shout at him for nothing but yet he always forgive me, he has dated many women, he is 40yrs and i 20yrs, he said for the first time he has loved someone truly and deeply and that's me. he wants to marry me ... (136 words)

Too shy to ask my husband for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my husband, but I am too shy to ask, what can I do?... (19 words)

His daughter will always be more special to him than I am, how do I get over this?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me, I want to leave but am so scared. I have been with my boyfriend 1 year. He is 7 years older than me. He has a daughter of 5 and I get along well with his daughter but do sometimes suffer with jealousy towards her,, although I never show it to the daughter, I ... (197 words)

I met the love of my life, my soulmate...but he cheated on me with his ex!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out a month ago that the love of my life was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend at the beginning of our relationship. I have NEVER IN MY WHOLE LIFE met anyone like him. It was like we instantly had a connection and we could already see ourselves together ... (531 words)

Can you get morning sickness if you havn't slept yet? Does it always happen in the morning?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I work 12 hour night shifts which my body is used to. I am 20 years young. My question is this: Ive been getting nauseous in the past 3 or 4 days. The first time was a morning I woke up to. The second I was working my night shift and everything was okay, up until around 5 am. I ... (171 words)

Its been a week and he hasn't called, should I forget about it?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A few weeks ago, my roommate was telling me about a cute single friend of her boyfriend's and she thought I should meet him. Soon after, we met when a bunch of us (friends) went camping together and I was interested, so a couple weeks later I contacted him and we ended up ... (130 words)

Do girls look at porn?

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Do girls look at porn? And why are girls so shy to say they "flick the bean"? ... (19 words)

I think she got back with me only because she's pregnant

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15 December 2010 (M)

- hi, me and my girlfrind have recently got backtogether from a break, but i feel that she has only got back with me because she found out she was pregnant, we have another child together, but i am doubting pperternity of the child she is carrying, as the last time we had sex was ... (176 words)

Am I wrong because I feel uncomfortable about girlfriend's relationship with her ex?

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together about 10 months now and the only issue we really fight about is her ex boyfriend who she is still friends with. Now, they only dated for a month or two and then decided to be friends.. which I was generally ok with. However the ex... (247 words)

Will 1st time sex still hurt when I am 32?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so embarrassed to be a 32 year old virgin and am wondering if sex still hurts even when you're this old. I have kept my virginity for so long because I was caught up with studying and also because of cultural beliefs. I am just worried if I ever decide to get married and ... (70 words)

I need assurance that he'll stick around but I don't want to freak him out!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just recently started dating this guy about a month ago. We've been best friends for about four years. The relationship so far is going extremely well, but I have major trust issues with people. The reason for this is simply because of my past, (For some reason I've alw... (275 words)

My mom and sister are like the gruesome twosome!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! My sister has suffered from manic depression and a chronic eating disorder for the past seven years. Living at home with her had been an absolute nightmare! I stayed in my self-contained flat at the house because I wanted to be there for my parents. I someh... (951 words)

I had a surgical procedure, am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I just want to know if im still a virgin coz i was curious i did put my finger on my vagina (masturbate) a lot of times. does this means im not virgin anymore? im 26 and dont have any experience so im curious that's y do the masturbation. when i was 23 years old i undergo ... (106 words)

My gay best male friend wants to get drunk and have sex with me

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i've been in love my bestfriend for about 6 months and he has no idea but hes gay so that gives it no chance but these past couple weeks hes been talking about how he wants to have sex with a female and saying all these things he would do to a female and its ... (245 words)

I told my inlaws that their son cheated on me and they have taken my side

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i have been married for last 10 yrs and have a child aged 8yrs. we ha a love marriage. last year in jan2010 we faced some family problems due to which we had to seperate from our in-laws. my husband was quite attached to them and went into depression. during this phase he ... (234 words)

No matter what my girlfriend is always mad at me!

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend (of 2 years) is constantly mad at me. Nothing I do is good enough for her, I try so hard to make her happy you know do cute stuff for her and everything, still upset. Just lately she is just mad at me, almost mean to me, even when I don't do anything wrong. I've ... (86 words)

I want to watch my wife with a bigger guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am married and have a great relationship. But I have this fantasy of watching my wife with a bigger guy. How do I talk her into it. We have stories we tell each other over the phone and they involve me watching or taping.she loves them but said she would never really do it ... (66 words)

I have strong feelings for him I just don't know if its love?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my person a while, and usually i'm happy, but sometimes, like right now, for no reason in particular, i feel trapped. i feel like i'm being compromised, that i could be settling that there might be more out there and I'm scared about what I'm doing with my (love) ... (259 words)

I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The problem is, is that i dont ... (267 words)

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to buy his ex a mother's day gift?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has a daughter and he and i have been together for 5 years. Do u think its appropriate for him to buy the kid's mom a mother's day gift? is it ok for me to feel a little jealous over that?... (43 words)

Almost 8 years together and STILL no marriage proposal!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm stuck in a rut. I've been with the same guy for almost a eight years now. I love him more than anything. He's my best friend. He loves me just as much. I know that he loves me, not ONLY from what he says, but the lovely things he does for me. We've been together ... (411 words)

Should he have called to wish me a happy birthday?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you be offended if the father of your kid did not call and wish you a happy birthday? We're not together and haven't been for 7 years...... (28 words)

B/f said he thought anal was gross and only did it because I liked it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

15 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1.5 years and I decided to try anal a few months back. It hurt in the beginning but once I saw through the pain, it became very enjoyable to him. We were talking the other day and he accidentally said that he thinks anal is "kinda gross". I continued asking ... (114 words)

How Should I Treat a Guy Who Does Not Seem to be Interested?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on a date with this guy and it's starting to become pretty apparent that he is not interested: keeps giving excuses about not being able to get ahold of him, him not calling, yada yada yada...Though, he has told me several times (without me asking him) that he likes me ... (193 words)

There are no romantic guys out there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a horrible relationship of five years. the guys was a dick and never really did anything special for me ..I'm starting to believe that there are no romantic guys out there, or guys that like literature, and stuff i like.. the guy i dated was opposite and that ... (106 words)

Am I crazy? Or is he crazy? Or are we both crazy?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy who has, in the space of less than 2 months, told me that he loved me, he could see us being together, that he had changed his mind about having kids and that he could see us having kids together, helped me a lot on a home improvement project, and just was so kind ... (504 words)

Am I bisexual, bicurious or what?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 4 years ago when I was a freshman in catholic high school I had a huge crush on my computer teacher. Yeah I know it's common and wrong but and wrong but I felt attracted to him. When sophomore year came around I became attracted to one of the girls in my grade who looked ... (155 words)

How can I make him feel like a man?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I stop taking my boyfriends manhood from him? I grew up with a single mother and two older sisters. The women in my life have always been very take charge and motivated, like myself. MY boyfriend on the other hand is different. He by no means is a whimp. But he's... (191 words)

Tricky situation between a shy girl and a shy guy.

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Its been 3 months since my last relationship ended, that itself lasted for about 7-8 months and has been my longest to date. Since then i have been talking online a lot too a girl who i've known in real life for over a year. We've been talking a lot online and getting quit... (828 words)

How do I deal with unrequited love?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young woman who has fallen for an older man. I know it can never really work, but I find myself upset and dejected by the unfair way things have turned out. The reasons it wouldn't work are not within our age difference, but our differences in emotional maturi... (221 words)

Am I simply being needy or are my feelings valid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well my relationship with my girlfriend was very happy in the beginning, and we both felt really happy to be around each other. She gave me a good amount of attention and affection to me and i did the same for her. However these past couple of weeks we haven't been abl... (544 words)

Is he playing games? Or is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some straight up advice. I'm 19 and I met this guy, hes 22, (I think age sometimes makes a difference) In the beginning of November, and we exchanged numbers. For the first week we texted and talked non stop and we would be on the phone until 4 or 5 in the morning, we ... (217 words)

Should I go back and try to find him?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My freshman year of high school, I met a really nice senior boy and a few of his friends. I suffered from extremely low-self esteem, and I think that what they did was to make me feel welcome. I would hide in the bathroom stalls during lunch time, but eventually a teacher found ... (587 words)

Love me or hate me. Just don't leave me hanging.

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm sort of confused here. a while ago, I had a very short relationship with a guy. story goes, he liked me, I liked him, we both found out and he asked me out, and I felt sparks fly. he didn't though. a couple short days later, like 5 of them, he dumped me b... (835 words)

He can't spend time with me until next year??

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is th first time I have devoted my energy to write a letter open for everyone to see about my love. This love has provided me with happiness, strength and smile for almost a year now. I write now because I have discovered that I have become tired of being strong and happ... (629 words)

Do teenage boys like Asian girls?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a freshman in highschool and have been told that i am very pretty...Keep in mind that I am asian. I was wondering if teenage boys find pretty asian girls attractive and want to maybe even date them. Have you ever liked an asian girl if so why? Also to give you a hint of ... (94 words)

How do I stop my best friend from thinking of me as his future girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How in the world, am I spouse to make my best friend stop thinking about me as his future girl friend??? he is my oldest and best friend, I just dunno how to make him understand that I don't love him the way he loves me. Every now and then he have to tell me that I am his only ... (152 words)

What are the reasons a guy would ignore a girl?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this question is aimed more at the guys, however I'm open to everyone opinion... What are the reasons a guy would suddenly start ignoring a girl?? I have a certain guy in mind as I ask this question; just this weekend I felt we were finally starting to get comforta... (297 words)

Should I wish her "Happy Birthday", even though she may not respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright well my birthday was a few months back and this might be kinda a stupid post but its confusing the crap out of me. So the girl I have feelings for and am really trying to get over as she is now dating one of my friends and most likely doesn't care about me at all ... (390 words)

I want to be friends but, I'm pretty sure he just wants sex?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm gonna try to make this short and sweet. I met this guy almost two years ago through a friend. We get along great, have a lot in common, etc. We've been texting on and off since we met, which isn't *too* often. I really enjoy conversations with him. We've hung a few times... (158 words)

His teenage daughters and ex dictate his life!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyf of two years has two kids - 18 yr old girl and 16 old boy who have never liked me even though i've made the effort but they claim they want to see their daddy 'alone'. we split up for 6 months and during that period they have started to have their own life and have ... (409 words)

Why is it that I find this one guy attractive?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little confused. I've always been interested in girls, ever since I first started finding myself liking someone. But I met this one guy recently and I feel things about him that I've never felt for a guy before. I know people would likely just tell me it's just my age; ... (101 words)

Whats better for penis size?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

15 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - So this may sound dumb but I'm wondering from a girls point of view. What's better for penis size, length or Gerth? Cause I'm 5.5 long and 5.75 around, so which one is more enjoyable... (35 words)

Am I a nyphomaniac?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've engaged in foreplay before but I've never had full blown sexual intercorse. I'm constantly horny and faithfully masterbate everday, several times a day. Does this mean I'm a nymphomaniac and when I do start having sexual intercourse ache for it everyday, several times a ... (46 words)

Do you think this relationship is worth waiting? Because I am almost at the of my patience's rope. Please help... Thank you kindly

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15 December 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 3 years now. He has a stable job, very supportive to me, but he was a bit slow when it comes to our relationship. We don't talk about marriage at all. I already asked him twice if he ever have any plans for our relationship. First, he said, he didn't ... (168 words)

How do I find out if he thinks of me as a sister or more?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with 22 year old , and i am 16. our families are best friends, and we talk ocassionally. our families are so close that i call his parents mom and dad. we have been on a vacation together, because our families went together. but we spent the time together, and we ... (129 words)

How do you know if she is the one?

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15 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I certainly didn't mean for this to happen. I have been with this woman for 3 years and we live together. About 2 months ago I had a chance meeting with this woman I will call J. Literally, it was chance. I was sitting on this bench reading. Every Monday and Wednesday I am ... (323 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about leftover problems from my ex?

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it a bad idea to tell my boyfriend about some leftover problems I have from my ex? My boyfriend knows my ex was jealous but not that he was really controlling, judging and abusive and put me down all the time. I've recently realised that although it was a couple of years ago ... (201 words)

I have heard silences quite this loud!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this boy ive crushing on about a year now, and hes leavin for collage soon. We sit next to each other in all the classes were in togther we always talk in maths cause my best friend is on the other side so i can freely talk to him without being nearvous. But in i.c.t its ... (126 words)

How to stop an inappropriate relationship...help!!!

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15 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friendship with a married man, I am married too, it is nothing physical. The relationship began thru work and has slowly developed over 3 years. It started out a casual text or a phone call just to chat and now is an everyday event. We are both happily married but I ... (281 words)