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He blames me for everything and puts his family before me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I first started dating when I was 16 then broke up b/c I felt that he was irritating my.. basically I was totally immature back then. So a month's gone by and I find out that he ended up having a one night stand and getting some woman he barely knows ... (227 words

How do I keep him happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for nearli 3 yrz now, and i think he is getting bored of me now. we have both made mistakes in the past such as cheating and making fake profiles and flirting with girls. however we have managed to get over this yet, there seems to be a problem ... (141 words

I caught her looking at me. What does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone I don't know if this is the place to ask this question or not but i'm going to ask any way I have just come back to the London for Christmas and new years and i meet up with a old friend of mine who was out with his FB (not face book)any way to cut a long st... (130 words

Is there hope for my ex-fiance and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My question is very simple. I am in love, deeplyin love. I went through a rough break up. and usually I handle breakups well, this guy was going to be someone very special to me and a few weeks before our engagement planning he broke up. I was very insecure so I drove him craz... (299 words

Depressed and Panicked... 32 yr old single female.. is there any chance for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I feel so truly depressed.. after making some bad decisions over the last 3 years, in terms of relationships. I've ended up single... i will turn 32 in 2011 and its causing me serious stress and depression. People keep telling me i'll meet someone , but its not that easy. A... (222 words

Should I break the silence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi I was upset with my bf since he cancelled our date to go out with his friends, hence i didnt call him for the past 2 days. I didnt call him/text him. He didnt call me either. He was the one who ignored me to be with his friends, he didnt apologize for canceling th... (100 words

I'm married but I want my mistress back in my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age - My girlfriend/mistress just(september)ended our 4 year relationship because I'm married. I'm 20 years older than my mistress. She has known this all along . We both admit the past 4 years were fabulous in every way for both of us. Dancing,theater,beaches, mountains. She sa... (144 words

Does her "Merry Christmas" mean anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - About 6 weeks weeks ago my ex and I split up, her decision. The last thing she said to me was that she didn't feel comfortable talking to me anymore and I should forget about her. So I haven't spoken with her since. On Christmas Eve I get a text from her "Merry Christmas... (177 words

He has no facial or pubic hair. Is that weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, I'm wondering if it's weird that my 28 yr old bf has no chest or pubic hair or not? He has facial hair, and hair on his arms and legs, but has never had any hair on his chest and never had any pubic hair. He's a tall, strongly built man, has normal genitalia, and is ... (100 words

My LDR man has demonstrating his affection for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. We're in a long distance relationship. California and Asia that is. We dated while he studied abroad at my school last spring semester, and talked every day throughout summer. When fall semester started, we could only talk a little bit on the ... (467 words

I feel so alone. Week before Christmas he left because he needed 'space'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - On Monday, only 5 days before Christmas my husband and I got into a huge argument. It was really over nothing, he was drinking and going on and on about nothing. I asked him to be quiet so I could get some work done at home (I work from home) and he just kept on and on. So I... (650 words

My attraction to my girlfriend's sister is getting more every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - i am with my girlfriend we have 4 children together, but i find myself falling in love with her sister. My girlfriend's sister is exactly like me. In every way we like the same things. Want the same things in life, even my girlfriend said i'm with the wrong sister. i dont know ... (66 words

Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i want to keep it. i know who ... (105 words

Should I be concerned I keep dreaming about sex with my boy friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello. I'm a 14 year old gir with a 13 year old boyfriend (he's turning 14 in 3 days). This is a bit awkward to say but I keep having dreams about us having sex. I don't know why! I don't want to have sex with him and I'm waiting to have sex until marriage, and he's never ... (100 words

I'm unsettled after had threesome, 2 guys 1 girl, but I was more attracted to the other guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - Last week I had a three some with a lady and a good friend (guy) of mine... The thing is, while having sex, my eyes were more attracted by my friend's body then the lady's... I didn't touch him at all, because I thought it would be weird, but it was the only think I wanted t... (118 words

What am I doing wrong? Guys flock to her and I never get that.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - So, one of my close friends, is constantly getting hit on by guys. She claims to have low self esteem, yet whenever we go out, she gets a bunch of guys asking for her number. Now, don't get me wrong, I love her and everything, she's my friend, but I'm starting to feel a little ... (312 words

What are the signs of bad character versus good in a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I recently got out of an almost 7 year relationship, where my ex fiance cheated, was emotionally abusive, and I felt trapped. I am finally over it and have met a new guy who I have been seeing for about a month. So, far it's going great, but I am unsure if I am a good judge of ... (92 words

He spilt with me. I still fancy him. Now he's sending mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey, im very confused about my situation and i was hoping someone could help me. i liked this guy for about three years but i was cripplingly shy and couldnt tell him. i went out with him for two months, but he never wanted to meet up because he was too shy. I was understa... (428 words

It's a woman's right to change her mind, but what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My friend (who is a boy), recently asked me out, I said no, because at the time I didn't like him. I now really like him, problem is he asked out another girl two days after asking me. He's still really nice to me, tries to help me and all that, but I don't know whether to tell ... (64 words

She's my best friend, but not my GF now. How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I guess I am here to try to mend my broken heart. I was in a long distance lesbian relationship with my ex for four and a half years. We hardly ever fought and I thought we got along really well. Yes, we were very different in our interests, but in our life goals and v... (597 words

Is he just that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay so i am 13 and just broke up with a guy that truely was head over heels for me. I have known this other guy for like a year we get to see each other often. Hes 14..soon too be 15. I like him so much!!!!:) He broke up with his gf he had seen for a year, now they got back ... (142 words

Am I dealing with a sociopath?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - First, to anyone who may read this I hope your holidays are going great...also want to thank everyone who answered my question last week regarding the same person...it was very very helpful. My question now is am I dealing with a true sociopath? and what should I do? or ... (818 words

If he's single why does his relationship status clearly say "in a relationship"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really want my ex boyfriend back and he wants me back too. So, he keeps saying that he's going to ask me back out. But...on his Facebook page, it says that he's in a relationship with this other girl. So I asked him about it and he said that they're just joking around. But ... (74 words

Where to now? I do not know what to do with my feelings for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Happy st.stephens day to yee all!! I have posted the problem related to this guy before- and I hope you all could help me again!! i met him in late Sept this year 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of dating him, I knew that I reall... (284 words

Did I hurt him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - its really a long story but im gonna make it short so i have a crush on a guy 4 almost a year and we re both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to talk to me and show me that he ... (334 words

Are there any guys that don't mind girls who just trim?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Are there any guys that actually don't mind girls just trimming their pubes nowadays? I've stopped getting rid of mine now cos of the itchiness and ingrown hairs, but all my guy friends say they find pubes extremely unattractive. Is this true for all young ( between 16-19) ... (49 words

To flirt or not to flirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Too flirt or not too flirt? So, I am dating a new guy and I am still unsure of my feelings for him. Some days I am really into him others not so much. But, there are times (in the moment) when I feel like being a little flirty. But, as I am unsure of my feelings wondering if ... (78 words

He called it quits after 11 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age - I'm 57 and he is 61. We were together for 11 years, but didn't live together. We were both married twice before, I have a 21 year old daughter he has no children. He was so very good to me and my daughter, generous financially, but being a alcoholic and previous drug user, he ... (176 words

Why is my married colleague acting so weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I’m confused. I am a single woman in her 30’s who has not been a relationship now for a year. A few weeks ago started a new job whereby I share an office with three other colleagues, 2 of whom are married men and one of which I find attractive but obviously know he’s off ... (1346 words

Can having rough sex while pregnant harm the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Can having really rough sex while pregnant harm my baby? My boyfriend was rough last night to the point where he made me bleed. It only lasted a few minutes then stopped but im 5 and a half months pregnant and this has worried me. Its my first pregnancy and i feel fine in ... (73 words

I don't want to be cast aside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for six years until on our anniversary I get taken to my favorite restaurant (I picked the place when I clearly said I didn't want to) so the big question pops up! And I say yes because I love him unconditionally. Now he's acting like a bit distant or ... (121 words

I'm in love with my cute third cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm in love with my third cousin. We didn't grow up together so I don't look at her like my other cousins, she's really hot and cute. We met about 5 months ago, I can't get her out of my head. She's in love with me too. We see each other very often, we text and she invites me ... (99 words

What do most women 35 and up look for in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 51-59 - what do most older women 35 and above look for in a relationship ? the reason i ask is because i was involved with a women for 5 years she has (3) kid from pervisous relationships and i did also most everything for her but got nothing in return she came from an abusive ... (187 words

Browsing the interent for a nice dress, any suggestions for sites?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have a day event with my bf in a few weeks and I'd like to find a nice dress to wear [day dress]. I live in UK and want to buy online. I have looked on asos.com but can anyone name any likewise websites that arent just online street shops. Thank you :)... (54 words

I cheated on my wife with the girl we previously had a threesome with!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - About a week ago I cheated on my wife with a girl that my wife and I have been having threesomes with. Now she says she wants me out she dosent love me and I disgust her. She keeps talking about her broken family I told her I'm sorry and I love her. She says I don't or I ... (112 words

How do I tell her about my trust issues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - How do I tell my girlfriend how I feel without making it look like I don't trust her? My girlfriend of 4 months is hanging out a lot with a new guy friend at work. She tells me about him quite often and seems to talk with him nearly as much as she talks with me. Both my girl... (583 words

What causes Trictillomania?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - Does anyone know what causes Trictillomania. IE: the compulsive urge to pull one's hair out? I am finding it very hard to stop doing it at present and it is becomming quite distressing.... (33 words

Odd girl out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - So im another average teen girl. Asian tall super skinny size 00 back hair with red streaks not gorgeous but not entirely ugly either. I havent been in a relationship for about 2 years now. An i was wondering how to get a boyfriend. I mean i have a lot of guy friends and ... (110 words

We can't seem to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I want to break up with my boy friend.It is a 11 years relationship and we are still good friends. We both feel that there is no future in our realationship. we are not staying together.I want a commitment from him and he is afraid of marriage. we both have feelings for eac... (237 words

What are the Best strategies and tips to interest and date a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 36-40 - I can't find a girl, no matter what I do. I can't find anyone to even go out on a date with me. It's gone beyond even trying to find "that special someone" or "the one", I'm just trying to find any girl who will go out with me. Every girl I ask out pretty much just says no (the ... (264 words

I've managed to find nobody.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - OK, I'm really, really struggling now, and I don't know who I can turn to. Basically I just want honest answers, which my friends and family in real life don't seem to wish to give. Anyway, I'm almost 29. I will be 30 in a little over a year. I've tried for the longest... (222 words

Why am I so obsessed with his previous relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - wel here goes... my boyfriend of one yr had a fiance of 8 yrs, had two kids with her. I can be a very jealous person anyways and am booked in to see a counsellor in the New Year. however, the holidays has thrown up a lot of jealous emotions for me. Me and John are both ... (441 words

I don't want an abortion this time around!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - i am pregnant by my first cousin.we have been together for last 4 years and now that i am pregnant by him, he is not able to decide further. i want to have this baby as he has already got my 2 abortions before in fear of facing the family.this time i don't want to kill my baby ... (67 words

What's he trying to accomplish with his stealth campaign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My ex bf was the center of my universe and he knew it. Most times I felt like a yoyo from emotional ups and downs. He did everything that you could imagine under the sun to mess me about. At the ende of the day he broke up with me by text. Yes I did go through the breakup ... (154 words

I live in my twin's shadow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello. I am 19 years old and I will be turning 20 in a few short months. I have a twin sister and a little sister and I am currently attending my first year of college. I have always been known to be very level-headed and dedicated and when I am on my own or with friends, I am ... (782 words

What are signs that a guy wants to commit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - Does my guy friend know that I want more than a friendship now? What are signs he will commit to me being his girlfriend... (24 words

Am I giving a good enough blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Could i be giving my bf too much stimulation to the head of his penis? Is that possible? I'll lick it suck on it and stuff alot and twirl my tongue around it. Would that be too much for you guys or would you like it?... (47 words

How to move on when your heart has been tossed in the trash can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in love with a man for 4 years, we have been LDR. Well, today Christmas day he erased me from his Skype contacts without saying a word. I text him and he didn't replied. I feel like he threw all we shared and all he promised during this time to the trash. He was so ... (78 words

Should we break up or get hitched?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating a while now about a year and we were both obese and I got really fit and joined the army, now im back on leave and she wants to get married in the next week but I dont feel attracted to her anymore, she doesnt care about herself very much, ... (165 words

My testicles were hurting after I made out with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi im a 15 year old boy turning 16 this year. today i was making out with my girlfriend.we made out for a good 10-15 minutes.then we stopped and just watched a movie.when we stopped i realized my testicles were hurting. the area around my pelvis was hurting as well. i want to ... (69 words

He forgot about me on Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and are spending Christmas holidays with our families. We're being together for 14 months and he didn't text me for Christmas. We have a great relationship, we love each other so much. Or so I thought... I thought he didn't text or call me because he had n... (268 words

Never had a relationship in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - Im a 20 years old guy, Im a virgin, I havent had a relationship in my life.. its eatn me up inside, I want all of that to change.. How can deal with this?... (34 words

He talks about making me his wife yet, he never texts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - please help me i cant help but think about him and our situation here few months i met this guy at a club i had a thing with his friend nothing expect flirting and exchanging numbers. few weeks after that the guy added me and weve talked also exchanged numbers. he neve... (253 words

My boyfriend treats me like his personal assistant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend gets very angry at me for no reason he dislikes me to talk with friends sometimes even family. He makes me get his cell phone and makes me do everything he treats me like a personal assistant. he has a soft side though were he will do things for me and compliment ... (164 words

Her parents will disown her if she continues to date me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm 27 years old and my gf is 27 to. The problem is that her parents hate me because I got an owi. Now that she is with her parents treat her like shit. They Said as long as she is with me they don't want no part of her life. Her parent are judging me when they don't even kno... (91 words

I'm not cheating on anybody but he is!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy who graduated and left home for college about 2 hours away. I always thought he was cute but nothing too big. A few months ago we started chatting alot on facebook and I became a bit interested but then I found out he had recently got a girlfriend. So I ... (219 words

Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, he's going through intense ... (185 words

I have an online friend that I confide in rather than my boyfriend. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone .. Please help me think.... Ok...I've been living with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We love each other. We like doing things together and spend 24 hours a day together coz we have the same Job and work at the same place and same office. The first year,seco... (454 words

I never got to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really like this boy i've know him for a year but i don't know how he feels about me. Not to long ago he move an hour away and we haven't talk but i still like him so much. We use to talk all the time and he wouldn't really talk to anyother girl but me and on the last day of ... (82 words

Should I go out with man I dated from 9 years ago again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I recently bumped into a man i dated 9 years ago,we never ended it we just drifted apart and pursued other lives,the attraction was still there and he asked if he could see me again and i said no as im not ready to be with another man due to past pain i was dealing with from my ... (162 words

My boyfriend is being a jerk, my mom blames me that I'm not married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I need so much help that I don't even know where to start. First of all, I need some help understanding my boyfriend. Secondly, I need help dealing with my mum in response to my boyfriend problems. My boyfriend of 10 months has been mistreating me for some time. At... (500 words

He lied to me about where he lived. Should I just show up and then dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hey I want to know if I should do this. Ok so I had enough of my exbfs bs so I breoke it off and starting going out with other guys. Anyways I gave him another chance and he knows if he mess up this time it's never another chance for him. Well anyways I just found out he lied ... (161 words

I'm going to lose my baby and my boyfriend is not comforting me !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hello, I just found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago. completely by surprise i am always careful with my birth control and my youngest child is 18 years old with out so much as a scare since he was born. My boyfriend did not take it well. we have been together for 3.5 years . ... (304 words

I am married but want to be wife my ex girlfriend who is my wife's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am married to my ex girl friend's small sister and have two kids but strongly desire my ex girl friend, her big sister who is also married and has her own kids. How can I get over the desire or get her to bed ?... (46 words

My boyfriend HATES affection.Should I seriously reconsider this relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years....he hates affection. I on the other hand am very, very affectionate. We are both in our early 30's and there have been talks about getting married in the future but I'm not sure that I can marry someone who HATES affection. We ... (157 words

Why do my sister's ex's keep coming after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 26-29 - Alright. I'll get straight to the point. Ive had 2 relationships with my sisters ex's. Now I have a 3rd one who I think is coming at me slowly, because he's afraid of what will happen. And I've liked him for a long time. Im just wondering, why do they keep coming after me? Even ... (70 words

I think I love my cousin! Is it legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - i don't know what this is! i feel so warm and fuzzy when I'm around him. Every time he's around it's like I'm happy. I couldn't help but think, am I in love with my cousin? Is that even illegal? He's just so darn cute and I can't but think I am. When he's around other girls I ... (142 words

Will he leave me if I have sex with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so im 17 and my bf is 15 we dated for about 6 months till i broke up with him we got back together now its been 3 months. . everythings great so far but we've been geting sexual and we been wanting to have sex but i have to many what if's in my head and scared that he'll ... (184 words

What's the point of his behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - so i am extremely confused and am in desperate need of some new perspective on the issue. i met this guy and we hit it off right away he approached me and we just had a great time together. we kissed but nothing more. after that night we texted eachother and he soon asked me ... (416 words

I had a good thing with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 36-40 - so this is sort of complicated. i was with my ex boyfriend for years off and on since high school. we had our ups and downs. we broke up a few months ago. i got a new place and my roommate is another man. we have ended up starting a relationship and things were good for a ... (185 words

Regaining Wife's Respect

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone I am newly married to my wife well about a year.I recently made a mistake and left my job to invest into a business.It didn't work out so here I am unemployed looking for a job.My wife already was complaining about me i.e. I don't have a fashion sense,I ... (191 words

After 3 years he wants to start seeing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I've been best friends with my guy friend for about 3 years and it was never intimate until recently and he says he wants to start a relationship but something tells me its all bullshit and hes just trying to sleep with me? He still talks to girls and he tries to be ... (70 words

Why do we get so nervous around one another?

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She lied, how do I respond?

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Should I leave him for his best friend?????

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26 December 2010 (? age 26-29 - I am soon to be 14, and in a relationship with this really sweet guy. But here's the problem: I'm falling for this other guy, Garrett. He is so funny and I'm am the BIGGEST sucker for green eyes, also a sense of humor. I think he likes me also. We just click. Whenever one ... (115 words

She's everything that I wish my wife was!

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I think I like my 21 year old cousin

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My heart says he loves me but my brains says hes just screwing around

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26 December 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I have a huge problem. I am in love with my next door neighbor and I have been since I was in second grade.He is two years older than me and he and my brother HATE each other. But I still find myself thinking about him every 5 minutes.The question I ask myself everyday is ... (298 words

I broke a promise and now she left me

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26 December 2010 (M age 30-35 - i promised my girlfriend i would never ever let her suck my dick. she always gave me handjobs but this ttime i actually got her to suck it and after that she's just mad at me. and she left me because of that. how can i get her back???... (49 words

Is it right to date him when I don't feel the same as he feels?

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