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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was a fling or does he want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. My boyfriend of 19 months dumped me almost 2 months ago. We were in a long distance relationship as of September this year when he started college, and he's currently home for the X-mas holidays. He attends college overseas. I'm currently 14-years-old and... (595 words)

Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financially, never attempted to get... (526 words)

Rollercoaster relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right so my bf and I have had a big rollercoaster of a reationship. But the happy times have always outweighed the sad in my eyes, so i never gave up. However I did start to feel I cared more for him than he did for me, because I still did all the little things like making ... (141 words)

If she snitches on me I'm done for!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently broke up with a boyfriend and were still friends. Up until a couple days ago we have been hanging around each other every day all day. Then I stopped it because I still really liked him and he was pretty much using me as a booty call. Then a family friend that ... (201 words)

Am I just another "Mr. Nice guy, unfit for girls".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear everyone, Wishing you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! This is going to be a bit long, I apologize. Please forgive me if it tests your patience. At the end of typing this I realized I was simply venting out, so probably you can just skip this unless y... (718 words)

How do I fall back in love with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old (please don't judge on my age, I'm very mature for my age and know what I want) and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. At the beginning, I was madly in love with him. We had so much passion, so much love, and so much happiness. We ... (273 words)

Need space in the relationship.Some advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months.I love him alot but he doesnt give me any space at all!He always wants me to be by his side every second of the day or on the phone with him.He doesnt give me space to meet my other friends or some time to myself.He always wants ... (87 words)

New girlfriend flirts excessively and sits on laps

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I think my girlfriend is crossing some standard boundaries. We just started seeing each other. We are both into each other and she suggested we get into an exclusive relationship. I agreed. However, there has been 3 events that have turned me off. I'm not the jealous ... (353 words)

He flirts online! Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I need advice, I have been married for 7 years now, and my husband has been looking at personals for about 6 years. not only does he look but he replies and his answers are very sexual. He has also registered at single's websites in the past but has not done that in about 4 ... (107 words)

Am I being paranoid or does it mean he has done sumthing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend of 4yrs recantly had an argument which he left our home 4 5days, he spent most of our split in his mates sisters house with his mate. since we got bk 2gether he seems as if he is hiddin sumfing! when ive asked has anythin happened between him and the girl he ... (89 words)

I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age - I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked down to an opening at the bar ... (333 words)

Guys just use me and never want a relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've live my life for 19 years now just. I still feel ugly and i still feel unloved. Everyman i've been with just nail and bails me or wants to be "fuck buddies". i feel used and i cant stop crying. I think im being a little over dramatising about this at the same time ... (143 words)

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue constantly and i cant take it ... (239 words)

17, nearly 18 and I've never had a girlfriend - should I be getting worried?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Less than five months ago I was a complete loner – I had never been to a party, only been out with friends and peers a few times, mostly on events organized by my school. I had a revelation in the summer that I myself would have to do something about the position I was in. ... (747 words)

She's too close to my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy about a year ago. He and I started dating we broke it off 6 months into the relationship and remained friends. One of my best friends met him around the same time. We both met him through the guy she was dating and interested in at the time- he is the cousin of the ... (256 words)

Is it wrong to want a guy who is 8 years older than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If I'm 19 and wanted to talk to this guy whos 27 is that bad? I'm not saying I want to be his wife or girlfriend, I'm just talk or maybe have sex. Nothing more. Is the gap between use bad? He knows how old I am and I've known him for 5 months. ... (54 words)

Is it normal for it to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we went a step further and he fingered me it was okay but nothing like i expected, the next time we met i tossed him of and he fingered me again except this time it hurt and i told him, i just wanted to know is it normal ... (79 words)

He isn't pressureing me which is great but I want to make him happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2 1/2 close to 3 months. All we've done so far is make out and he's felt me up a little. I want to do more stuff but I'm very nervous because my boyfriend has had sex before and several different partners, so I'm in a way intimidated by ... (164 words)

We've been on and off -- help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Well where do i start, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for the last year and a bit. we were broken up from february to may (he just didnt want to be with me and that was that). I was on anti depressants and really very low as i just couldnt grasp that after all w... (495 words)

My boyfriend has Asperger's. How do I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I just got into a relationship with this guy. I love him a whole lot. From the begining he told me he has a social disorder, but never which one. About a month ago he told me it was Aspergers. I've been looking it up and it sounds horrible. I dont want this to change our ... (71 words)

Could this mean he likes me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've caught my guy friend staring at me from a distance about 3 times and he doesn't look away when i catch him. Also he doesn't smile when he's staring. I just stare back at him when he does it. He's very confident but i'm really shy. The other day he forgot his pen, ruler ... (132 words)

He's keeping in touch with a "friend"

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my best friend and i have taken it to the next level... we have been serious now for a while. he keeps in touch with a "friend" from his past by text and he has no idea that i know about it and that i know who she is. he says he hasn't been with anyone, but texting is an issue. ... (79 words)

What do I do with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I honestly was wondering,how do i stop being so blind to the world and start enjoying it? I will be honest, I have tired once now to tell her how i felt during a situation, she just didn't respond, she just gave a blank look and walked away. We dated for 20 months, we were ... (447 words)

Should I consider him mature enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 19 years old. My boyfriend is 17. He has certainly surprised me by his maturity so far, but i'm afraid i... could be depriving him of his youth. Somehow i feel old...very old. I'm just wondering if it will work out...if i'm not harming him, he's too young to b... (233 words)

Do men still think sexually about their exs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Trying to get over break up. I know that I do not want him back, yet I feel I am obsessed with wanting to know what he is up to etc. Facebook is EVIL! Anyway, I have changed my privacy settings so he can't see my updates etc, looks like he did the same. I am still friends ... (200 words)

I'm putting everything I got into this marriage when I get nothing in return!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here it goes, I have been married to the same man for 18 years. And we dated for 4 years before that. We have three kids, I am a stay at home mom, as well as running my business from home. I run a dog daycare, grooming and overnight care for dogs out of our home. My ... (806 words)

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't want to lead me on because he ... (134 words)

He wants me to stop taking birth control and see what happens!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 and am in a new relationship of 3 months with my boyfriend who is 26. We have known each other for years, hanging out with mutual friends every now and again through that time. I have always had something for him this whole time but whenever we hung out or ran into each ... (256 words)

Eurotrip gone bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - About four months ago, i went on a trip to europe. As soon as i left, another guy began flirting heavily with my girlfriend and trying to get her to leave me for him. I knew a little bit about it at the time, and i was a little upset. However, my girlfriend sent him a text ... (378 words)

What do you reckon... Friends... or more???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So theres this guy in my english and math class that i really like and i wanted to see what you think he thinks of me. He is usually really outgoing and hes that way around me to but one time when we were laughing about something he was looking at me and the top of his cheeks ... (181 words)

I've gotten involved with a controlling man again. I want to leave but I'm scared!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel a little silly, and scard to type this question, but i'm at a dead end and i don't know what else to do. i am 31 years old, i was divorced 8 years ago from a very controlling manipulative man ... we had 2 children together. i swore to myself i'd never end up in that ... (976 words)

Sexual past creeping in the present...and now my retroactive jealousy is raging.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 15 years. About 7 years of dating and being engaged, about 8 or so of it married. We have 2 amazing kids. I adore my wife. She's beautiful, my best friend, I love spending time with her. We started dating our Senior year of High School. I lost ... (535 words)

Is he just getting comfortable and feels he doesn't have to try anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I just recently started dating this guy and weve been together for about 2 months but ive been really good friend s with him for about 3 years before this. anyways im 21 and hes 18, i ont really know if that makes a difference but anyways im kind of worried about our ... (154 words)

Why doesn't my wife want me going down on her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife won't let me go down on her, I LOVE doing it and I am actually pretty damn good at it. (5 girls have told me I have given them their only orgasm from oral) I try to head down south but she tells me 'I don't want you doing that right now'...when I have done it in the ... (75 words)

He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?... (36 words)

He wants to end our affair and be best friends. I work with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married co-worker for 18 months. We started off as friends and our relationship developed into love over a period of months. We have had many special times together and I love this man more than anyone I have ever loved. I am in a... (215 words)

Attracted to friend in a relationship with another friend, but don't want to ruin anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is possibly one of the most tangled up problem you might see, and I hope I'm clear with exactly what I am troubled about. Some background info - I'm bi-curious, possibly bi-sexual. But that's not the main issue I'm having, although it does play a bit of a part. I ha... (338 words)

I'm his wife and yet I feel like a "dirty secret"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Needing Advice My husband and I recently married. We had discussions about concerns prior to marrying and I thought all was settled....Wrong...My husband went to visit his new Grandbaby at his ex's home on Christmas. His son, who is in his 30's was visiting with the grandbab... (372 words)

After 3 years I still don't have the confidence to ask her out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im going through my teenage years but struggling quite a lot.Im a teenage boy of 14 years old and ive never asked a girl out.Ive liked this particular one for three years and i still dont have the confidence to speak to her.I have thought about asking my mum for advice but i ... (155 words)

Why would I condemn his child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I searched for my first boyfriend from years ago on a social network in Jan 2010. I did not contact him, but one of his friends contacted me about a relative becoming a client. Come to find out this woman is the mother of his adult daughter. She contacted the ex on the social ... (240 words)

I love him but I don't know if he's trying to reconcile with his wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I never thought I would be in love with a married man, and thats not what we both were looking for when we met again after 24 years. And it was just like magic looking in his eyes for the first time again. When we met he was actually separated from his wife, but they had ... (443 words)

I resent my stepson and his mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an issue that is making me feel absolutely awful and is threatening the future of my relationship. My partner of five years has an 11 year old son, and I just can't bond with him. In fact, I have always experienced feelings of resentment and jealousy surrounding the ... (519 words)

What's the best spacing between kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my husband both want to have a lot of kids but theres one problem, we cant agree on the spaceing of it. He wants to have them all close togather but i want them to be spaced out. So they each can have a "specail moment" like when they all want your atenchin and that ... (114 words)

Husband lied about HIV

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (?) age 36-40 - i have been with mt husband for 7 yrs got married when i was 21 we have two young kids. my issue is he did'nt tell me he was h.i.v positive when we got together and only found out after a year of going out by that time i had it as well he has lied about how he got so many ... (167 words)

How to deal with the game he seems to be playing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know how to deal with this guy that seems to be playing games. Basically, when I show interest in him, he backs off even though he was the one who pursued me. He would always be the first to call, to ask me out, etc. But like I said, when I agreed to go out with him, he ... (107 words)

I'm paranoid about what could possibly be going on with my girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello , i just want to know if its just my mind or if its actually happening !! im in a long distance relationship and believe me when i say my gf and i were soooooo much inlove , i still love her though like crazy but we had our ups and downs and we broke up for a while th... (275 words)

Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if i'll go out with him and if ... (148 words)

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a state of depression. It is lucky she ... (731 words)

I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the fact that I want to be with him ... (212 words)

My best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a birthday party and I liked him immediately! Later I found out that my best friend really likes him as well, eventhough she never really talks to him. Me and him became friends right away and had fun, which made her mad. Later me and him started writing ... (197 words)

How to talk to a grieving friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I've looked on the web but it ... (157 words)

Is there any real way to "break through" to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I realized this year that I have probably had a relationship with a sociopath. Although we never got romantically involved, we became "close"--at least from my end. (I have written about her before here, but in short, the reason I say she is likely a sociopath is: ... (299 words)

Do father's tend to be closer their sons or their daughters?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my question is do dads tend to be closer to their sons or their daughters?? ... (16 words)

Is knowing he will never be there emotionally when I need him the most enough to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is in the military and has been gone for the majority of the year. He was only back for a couple of weeks when I had gotten a hysterectomy. We have 4 children and he has been great helping out while I recover the problem is he is working really hard to find stuff to ... (276 words)

I confessed my sexuality to her and haven't heard from her since, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. im 17 year old female virgin, i have been questioning my sexuality from a young age, about 11. i dont want to have these thoughts but i dont think anyone ever does really do they? i have been kinda tryin to tell my friend for the past 6 months or so but i think deep down ... (242 words)

We love each other,so why aren't we together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids , I don't even know where to start , it's so complicated ... I met a guy about a year ago , I fell for him pretty quickly and we were hooking up quite alot in the beginning , he was a bit of a player in the beginning and i slowly backed away from him but remained... (313 words)

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that I barely get to speak to her.... (402 words)

Is he uninterested? Or just shy to go out together alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'll try to make it short. I met a guy at my uni, and instantly we found a lot in common, talked a lot and stuff...I really started to like him, and overall I'm a shy person, but he seems to be pretty reserved too, even though he's kind of sociable. He's showed slight si... (241 words)

Why am I not into the whole commitment before sex thing like most girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am fourteen years old, and many people have told me that I was one of the most mature 14 year olds they've ever met. But this is my problem: A lot of the ways and things I think, are more like a typical boy's attitude towards things. Like, for one, I think that if I want t... (288 words)

What makes a man fall in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why men fall in love? Is it beauty? Is it intelligence? ... (12 words)

Torn between the love of my life and being my mother's full time carer, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a *British male beauty pageant winner*. I am in Australia and I have known him for years but I am finding it very difficult because I know he is the one for me and he feels the same. The problem is that I am my Mum's full time carer and none of my 4 older ... (147 words)

How do I make my first offical relationship work? Any tips??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK. The whole story about what happened is written below, my question is, I'm new at this, so how do I experience this relationship right? It's been a long time in the making, but today at a friend's birthday party, a guy I like that also amazingly likes me too asked me ... (251 words)

Should I really be doing this or am I getting a little ahead of myself?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm 14 years old, and just recently, I've made plans with this guy, a friend, who I've known for years, to lose my virginity...and I know a lot of people might say I'm too young, but I know what I want.. my thing is, I have a fear of pregnancy, that I think will stop ... (123 words)

Is it too soon for two college students to consider marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i'm 21 and i am kind of confused. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and and a half. he has always been there for me, in the good times and the bad times. i know for sure he loves me for real, and that he would do anything for me. we're both in college and i know we're ... (141 words)

Retrojealousy is killing me, how can I make it stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 46, my girlfriend is 35, we've been together for about 16 months, we told each other we loved each other after a year, we're both divorced with two children each. We do love each other, early on w did the whole... How many people have you sleep with thing, I've slept with a ... (588 words)

I want to tell him that I feel he takes me for granted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I just need some advise for a situation with a friend. im going to be very brief sorry. Tomorrow I'm seeing a friend, who I have not spoken to or seen in quite a while. Both studying away from home, I tried to keep us together but he made new friends and has a new li... (216 words)

What types of signals does a guy send when he likes you ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this boy and i told him that i like him in person but it was really acward and he diden't say anything ometimes he sends signals that he likes me well it seams like it im rally confused . what tipes of ignals dose a guy send when he likes u ?... (54 words)

Do you think he feels guilty about being with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age - My partner and I are both 58. He's widowed 3 years and I'm divorced 11 years.We adore each other.We both have sons in their twenties (all still at home) but he also has a son of 8, a late surprise child.As a result I spend most of my time travelling to my partners house,living ... (293 words)

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and when I came back, she was ... (810 words)

I'm in love with my boss and I know its wrong

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - good day everyone im in love with my boss i spent more time with him than my bf we do stay together but im more by my mom than by him i dn't know what to do plz help im madly in love with my boss and he with me i know its not right what im doing is the first time in my life ... (72 words)

This has gone on too long. How can I get him to ask me out?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us is going nowhere. This h... (96 words)

Out Of Town Lover!

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for about 6-7 months. He lives outside the city that I live, however we met here in my city. Anyway he is a business man, and I am a career woman myself who has went back to school, so we dont get that much time to spend together. However we see ... (206 words)

How does a person gain confidence and not worry what others think?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi There! How does one gain confidence and not fear what others think of you? At 40 you would think I would know better! My story begins from when I was only 13. I was sexually-physically abused or maybe more like my uncle didn't penetrate me but touched me inappropiatel... (406 words)

Messy situation with 2 friends

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - You'd think I would be smarter than this, however, I used to be friends with "Jan" and "Martha". We were known as the 3 Musketeers, but until 5 years ago, Jan decided she no longer wanted to be friends with Martha because of her behavior and just the overall nature of Martha. ... (453 words)

Husband is cold fish - no loving cuddles or hugs..

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not sure what to do about this situation. My husband of 14 years does not (or can not) give any loving cuddles or embraces. I watched my sister and her husband cuddle while visiting at my parents house, I was very envious, and it broke my heart that my husband can't seem ... (120 words)

Me? too shy. But I want too tell her how I feel, and I think she has a crush on me

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a crush on this girl and i think she also has a crush on me. But i'm very shy to even chat with her on phone, except through text. It's been 3yrs since i've known her and i can say the chating i've had with her since then till now is not more than 6 minutes. yeah 6min ... (83 words)

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and making me feel like I am ... (73 words)

What is a good time frame in giving each other space?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how long is a good time frame to give each other space? we are both out of a recent long term relationship break-up and have fallen in love. but realize that we are too emotionally damaged to get into something to soon. but we both dont like the idea of losing each other. we ... (90 words)

I am still resentful that my wife left during a very low point in my life

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 yeare old male. I got married about 3 and a half years ago. Within the last year I feel that my marrage has realy taken some difficult hits, and I just feel like I need to vent or gain some perspective on feelings I am having. The history: I was born into a ve... (1275 words)

Do I tell my sister that her boyfriend is coming on to me?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my sister is 2 years younger than me and she has a bf the same age as me. They've gone out 4r a year! She's lost her virginity with him and has told me that he is the one and that she loves him. And she isn't messing, she takes love very seriously! But a week ago her bf said ... (126 words)

Do guys date their former friends flames?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys date their friend's former flames? I dated this guy for a month or so and regrettably we slept together. Things went way too fast, he was very aggressive and self absorbed, traits I didn't notice until my feet touched the ground again (not sexually guys!) He didn't... (356 words)

Why do the corners of my eye bleed?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a weird question.... why do the corner of my eyes bleed? First my best friend told me her eyes were bleeding about 6 months ago and I thought she was crazy but she whiped the corner of her eye one day and showed me and it was like purple gewy stuff like blood it was a ... (97 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant without penetrative sex?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have heard a lot of what I think are myths but I want to be sure about the subject of unplanned pregnancy. My question is if is really possible to get pregnant without even having intercourse. I have heard about the guy cummin on you and getting pregnant, so is that rea... (107 words)

Can you get pregnant without having sex?

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29 December 2010 (F)

Cheating with my brother's friend on my boyfriend

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend with whom I've been dating for a year and half (long distance relationship). We see each other every 5-6 months. Everything was perfect. I know he loves me and he is the nicest guy I've ever met. But we r different. He is 24 now,kinda settled down, but me, ... (324 words)

No boyfriend makes me feel very lonely and sad

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Feeling really lonely: I, not to sound cocky, believe and truly feel that I am a down to earth, smart, attractive, fit, interesting, fun and caring. However it feels as though no one will ever love me or even look my way... I am still in high school so I tell myself "this is... (257 words)

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two - what bothers me - he onc... (367 words)

Should I fight for him even though I'll get a nasty label at school?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a sophmore in high school currently but I've liked this guy since freshmen year. He was in my English one class and we had a lot of the same interests; music and stuff. Now, I'm a chubby girl then most and the fact the were the same size-ish makes me really happy cause a ... (298 words)

He likes me but he doesn't know if he can handle a long distance relationship

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this guy for 2 months now. He's a marine curretly stationed in North Carolina while im here in Cali. over the 2 months Our relationship had progressed well and sometimes i would even hint that i wanted to become official and his answer would always be "yes ... (405 words)

Is there hope her with this girl? How should I proceed?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi friends, I am 27 years old ,I am attracted towards a girl who is 21yrs old. She has boyfriend from last 4 years Three months back i some how managed to get her number. I called her, told her I messaged her. But she did not reply, and she told her father and her boyfriend ab... (132 words)

My ex has no contact in our son's life but can he step things up later?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everybody,i had a two years relationship that end up with a cute little boy.since i got pregnant,my boyfriend had run away with another girl,he had never visited me,he does not even know my son's name.he called me weeks after my baby was born,i was so upset and skipped ... (121 words)

Do You Think It Was Okay For Him To Call Me Fat?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have this friend, or i thought he was my friend, and he's athletic, and he thinks he's perfect. We were talking and joking around like we always do, and then out of nowhere he goes all serious on me and tells me (in his exact words) "You know what? Seriously, you're just ... (345 words)

Why does my ex say he still loves me when he doesn't want to be anything more than friends?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well its a pretty common situation im in love with a my ex for more than a year now. We dated for about a month and a half earlier this year but he ended the relationship because we didnt see each other as often as we would like. This crushed me but i still manage to talk to ... (140 words)

I have always love her, how can I make her mine?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive known this girl for almost 4 years we have been best friends since the day we met. Ive always wanted to be with her and she wants me to take her out on her birthday tomorrow. I want to make her mine how do i do it?... (48 words)

I am AWFUL at reading women and I really need help here. Does this girl still like me?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a party. Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me. Said she had a really fun time with me. Told... (437 words)

I fall in love with a guy I met online. We are not compatible physically except emotionally. Should I follow my feelings or follow my head?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 32 and I've been on dating websites for a year now since my last break up. The guy i was with was very different to me, and i vowed not to get involved with somebody similar. he was a nice guy, but we disagreed strongly on a few things, namely my keeping pets, my... (460 words)

Seeing my ex boyfriend tomorrow. How should I handle it?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod note: What do you mean by "do something stupid"? A little more information on what you want people to stop you from doing might help! Keep smiling and don't let him get to you!] i have an ex boyfriend that broke up with me because i moved not cause we had anything bad in o... (102 words)

Boyfriend dependable on me and others, but I love him?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here's my problem-o. I have a boyfriend, who I've been with for five months and counting. We've known each other for almost 4 years, and at first we were just friends with benefits (Before you guys judge me, we would only make-out, never have sex). Now that we go out, ... (587 words)

Should I pretend it doesn't matter that she's not consistent in her feelings for me?.

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been kind of attached to this girl for a while and we text and talk all day. We have known each other about 5 years. she is very caring and does think a lot about me. But her actions have terribly confused me. She makes me feel that i am the world for her, and it hurts... (342 words)

Why is he so mean to her but nice to me?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to play cod if he wanted. he said ... (560 words)

My Inconstant friend has hurt my trust in her. Can I trust her again?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I got a text from my best friend. She asked if i wanted to go to the mall on Thursday. i said sure, and then i got another text from her today at 1 pm. She had said that she couldn't go because her ride bailed, and i told her it was fine. Then at 2pm her new facebook ... (117 words)

Why is he blowing hot and cold? Is he insecure or he is not serious in the first place?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to this guy for about a month when suddenly he went completely M.I.A for two weeks...then he contacted me apologizing, saying that things were moving too quickly and he didnt want to get hurt so he tried to just cut it all off between us, BUT that he also needed ... (282 words)

My boyfriend deleted his porn collection. Is he serious about it or just pretending?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend deleted his porn collection from his P.C. I never asked him to. Earlier on we was watching a program, with asian girls on it. I called him a hypocrite for defending them, when he calls so many types people. So in our arguementhe deleted his porn. He said it was to ... (174 words)

Guys, please advise me if my boyfriend have sex with me because he loves me or just to satisfy himself?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last month i had sex with my boyfriend. It was for the first time for me, but he already told me that he is a experienced person. I am in relationship with him for the last 3 years. Now i have moved to a city which is at 15h distance to his city. Finally he told me that he has ... (137 words)

How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threesome with another guy?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP My sexual fantasy is to have a threesome with a hot guy and my girlfriend, but I am too shy to tell her, she is very religious... but it turns me on the idea of she being with another man... Is that normal? what shou... (54 words)

Why do my classmates make fun of me? How can I blend in and make them accept me?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My name is Cailtyn, but I go by the nickname Cat. In my classes I'm barked at and people make fun of it all the time. I've asked them to stop and I've explained it's just a shortening for my name when they ask. They say I think I'm better than them. I think it's because I don't ... (311 words)

How do I know if he will be serious with me unlike the other girls he has played with?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy on and off for the last seven months. He treats me amazing and has always been there but my friends think something is alittle off. He has told me he played other girls before me but I am different. Would a player stay around for this long? Should ... (60 words)

I'm staying with my brother but my mum wants me to move in with her. I would like to but I don't know how to tell my brother.

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my life has always been full of drama. right now im going through hell. i lived with my mom my whole life. im 15 year so old right now. anyways so a year ago my mom just started going a little crazy. no she was heartbroken her husband of 18 years divorced her for no good ... (172 words)

My cousin loves me but I don't as I love my boyfriend. How do I reject him without hurting his feelings?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been super close with my male cousin (who is two months older than me) since we were newborns. We're now both 21 and things are just friggin' weird between us. He's always been the shy cousin while I've been the outgoing one trying to get him to take risks and what ... (273 words)

Will my boyfriend become gay? Why was he intimate with his gay friend in the past if he is not?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has had some expiriments with his best guy friend in the past before we dated. He had another girlfriend at the time, and while he was dating her, continued to have this sort of 'secret relationship' with this friend. His friend had told me that it all the touching ... (112 words)

Parents don't agree...Help!

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm turning fifteen and I am dating a guy who is turning seventeen. We kiss, make-out but have never gone to far. His parents have begun to think that he is too old for me by two years, they also think that my parents don't agree with our relationship but my parents and I have ... (76 words)

He has a girlfriend...how do I tell him I like him?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here we go again. So I used to like this guy A LOT. I was or maybe still am on and off with liking him. When he didn't have a girlfriend I didn't want him to know that I liked him but somehow it got out and he gave me his number. I am the type of person who really plays hard to ... (252 words)

My heart still aches, how do I get him off my mind?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19years old had a beautiful son 7months ago,moved in with my childs father,things began to change he started stayin out late,disrespecting me, basically treated me like trash! dont help me out with my son, chose his friends over me and my son,he cheated on me i finally had ... (154 words)

I'm not sure I'm ready to make out!

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. but we havent even got the chance to kiss. we are going somewhere in a few days and it will be the perfect time. he says he wants to makeout and alot of other things, but im not sure im ready. what do i do?... (56 words)

Is my order of protection against my husband valid even though he disappeared?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am married, and recently had a baby. My huband and I have been seperated since the night I told him I was pregnant, he kicked me out. I talked to him a few times after that, mainly for him to verbally abuse me and to ask me to get an abortion. I had an order of protection ... (105 words)

I don't know where I go wrong!

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been in several relationships were the guy has been head over heels in love with me and I'm not joking :\ but I can't cope with relationships at all my most recent one was a guy I really liked and I daydreamed about him asking me out ALOT and when he did ask me out I was ... (141 words)

He's been horrible to me since he broke up with me, but I still have feelings for him!

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating this boy for about 5 months, we was really happy together until he finshed me on my birthday. ever since then, he's been really horrible to me, insulting me all the time, spreading horrible rumors about me and hacking my facebook, it's not just him, it's his ... (114 words)

How do I make him fall in love with me?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my name is noni,i am in love with this guy,but he loves my cousin and he proposed to her behind my back,how do i get him back because i am deeply in love with him.help!!!! ... (36 words)

My boyfriend likes anal sex but it hurts

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been talking about anal sex since after we had vaginal sex. So, it's been about six months now... We had anal sex (barely) once before and it hurt like hell. I ended up crapping blood for a couple days after that. That was about a month or so ago. Well... (101 words)

How can I get out of this mess?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just really do not know what to do now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.. We were both in relationships when we had a one night stand which lead to our relationship but ended them. For the first few months it was a brilliant relationship. He helped me ... (305 words)

So I fancy this boy who messed me around and ended up playing me, then he lost his virginity to some other girl, then we got back together, then he told me he was bored with me, now he wants to have sex with me. What do you think?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay heres my story.. i fancied this boy for a while since back in march 2010, i was absolutely obsessed with him.. (im 14 and hes 15) he messed me around abit and ended up playing me, luckily all i did was kiss him.. about 6 months later we started talking again, we got cl... (357 words)

What if I never get married because of this?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i can really like a boy for a really long time then when it finally comes to when we go out , like after a week ill lose all the strong feelings i had for them . i dont know what it is . like even if the boy acts the same way he did befor we started dating it still happends . i ... (82 words)

Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's every other weekend and a boy who ... (242 words)

Is he just shy or should I take the lead?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! A month ago, I moved into a new town and a new town implies a new gym! I'm gay and I'm okay with it... The thing is, in the new gym, the trainer is really hot although he's kinda old (nearly 50). I feel like he's looking a lot at me but it's not very clear... I de... (135 words)

What do I do when I see my cousin again?

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29 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm 14 and the other night I went to a party things got dirty a lot of kissing and sex but I decided not to get involved and then my girl cousins best mate pulls me into a room and try's to take my clothes off, I managed to get away later my cousin said why did you have sex ... (127 words)

Is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him bcuz he promises he will ... (215 words)

My 12 yr old brother controls my life... HELP!? Please?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am here to say that my younger brother won't stop controlling my life. I'm 16 and he's 12. On christmas my pearents have just got me a new small mini laptop. I am very happy beacause I finally have my own computer. But whenever I want privacy, he doesn't leave me alone. He ... (103 words)

Should I give this secretive relationship more time or just seize the day and go for it?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past six months, I have sort of been seeing this guy. We met at a house party and got talking the day after when he asked for my number and things happened from there. We have spent time with friends and more time alone. Recently, we were at another party together and ... (238 words)

What should I do after graduation?

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... i know there are alot of questions on her about this, but i need some input. i am a senior in college, about 5 months from graduation and i have a crush on my professor. I know nothing can happen right now because of the whole teacher-student situation. he is 16 years o... (102 words)

I don't feel like I get a fair return in relationships

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29 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I feel this? Let's say everyday I come home from work. I have to cook, clean, and keep my child quiet and inactive. At night I relieve my man (not saying that I don't enjoy sex, I actually very much do.) My man just pretends to help out with chores then numb out in front ... (285 words)