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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Taller girl, shorter guy - a couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, there is that guy in college... we have at least about 5 same intrests and we are considering on the same profession in the future,he likes my ideas,when I'm joking and I love everything he does.Once we had a chat on facebook and on the other day I could see how he was ... (134 words)

I break out when I make out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, when i make out with a guy i break out in hives on my chest. This has happened twice. I thought at first it was the cologne but now i beginning to think that maybe its nerves. I'm not sure. Has this append to you? or what do you think. Oh and no i don't normally break o... (72 words)

Crush, Love or nothing at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here goes... I am 16 and I really really like my English teacher who is 36, married with two kids. I think I may be flirting with him a little and he may be flirting a little back. Advice? ... (49 words)

He sent me a freaky message and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was friends with this boy last year but we dont really talk anymore. well, when i say friends, we had to sit together in a lesson but ive never really liked him, although he's always had a bit of a 'thing' for me - flirting, trying to hold hands, although for part of the time ... (175 words)

I want him back because he wants to come back, not because of $23,000.00!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance and I got into a fight and he broke it off with me. Dated for 3 years, engaged for 7 months. We had no contact for 6 weeks and he then email me and said if we are going to fix this relationship and have a start fresh he wanted to know why I didn’t trust him. I told ... (349 words)

Trying to date a real life celebrity... Advice desperatly needed. I think she is playing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm in desperate need of advice, so please can everyone write a response... i'll be forever greatfull! My question is... am i being played?! And is it desperate to take the earliest date she is free? How should I play it? Back Story- Okay, so a few months ag... (430 words)

Is he worth fighting for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so, i'm 16 years old and i know i'm in love but the person i'm in love with doesnt love me, he says he does but two seconds later he's running from me saying he hates me and says he's gonna spill all my secrets. Before i even told him i started developing feelings for him ... (131 words)

Should I send him my picture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I recently made contact with a guy that i have liked for a while, and he has said that he wants me to send a picture of myself to him. He hasn't said whether he means a rude one or a regular picture, so i'm assuming he means a regular one. Do you think ... (91 words)

After what happened I don't trust women any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well where do i start i got outta a relationship a while ago basically my ex aborted my kid she was suppose to be having my kid but because she didnt want to be with me, she aborted it and left me and its been a couple of months sense we split and i feel like any girl i even ... (160 words)

Will it work out this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 17 a junior in high school. ok so i've liked this guy for about 3 years now, and over the years we're almost gone out many times but never acutally ended up happening. well just last week him and his girlfriend of 2 months broke up. me, him, and a couple of friends went to ... (270 words)

Do I have a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! Now some of you may think that i am too young to think about boys but hey i can't help it i'm a girl! Anyway here is my question. I have a guy friend and he is my first friend i ever made since i came to America. I came from South Korea. He moved when we were 10 and ... (99 words)

Why is my wife so bitchy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why has my wife turned so bitchy, and what can I do about it? My wife has always had a strong temper and did not hold back if she was REALLY mad. However, she was easy going most of the time. Now, in the last 6 months or so, she is mad all the time - and often at me. ... (300 words)

I want to try sexual things but get nervous and can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently me and my boyfriend have been engaging in foreplay. He seems to be really confident with it. Whereas I am not. I want to do things, but I get nervous and can't. (I don't want to be too graphic with details - sorry) He tries to help me and is usually patient but now I ... (113 words)

Does she like me? Please help? Why I am to scared to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me and showed an interest in what I was saying. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn... (203 words)

I have a boyfriend but want to kiss another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I like this boy and he's coming over in the week and I really wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but I have a boyfriend and we argue like cat and dog. My boyfriend always says that he is going to kill my next boyfriend if I finish him. What can I do. Please ... (61 words)

My boyfriend has a son with his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for five years now. I was always aware that his ex was pregnant then later had the baby boy. He was 17 and I was 16. I will admit I was very naive and did not think we would still be together after all this time but he just found out that ... (278 words)

I'm attracted to her but she rejected me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few questions about close friendship with a girl - We have an intensely close and deep friendship. We have gone out for dinner together, spent time with each other on every possible ocassion. She's been there for me through very tough times. In the past I have been ... (84 words)

I lost all contacts in my phone! Should I wait for him to text me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I like this guy, he has a ton of friends, so it's hard to ever get him alone. He's SUPER sweet and nice, and always smiles at me and says my name when he says hi. There have been times where we'll text each other for hours. I lost all the contacts in my phone, and I won't ... (82 words)

How can I adjust to living with my long lost father and new family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, long story short, my mother didn't tell my father that she was pregnant with me before he left. She died when I was six and then a decade later of being moved around from foster home to foster home, my lovely social worker-person who has been with since my mother died, ... (249 words)

My wife to be broke up with me and I've turned to drinking and fighting to cope

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi erm i new too this but i need help. my wife to be broke up with me and it still hurts. ive started drinking alot an fighting aswell i havent spoke to my mates or my dad for months! i just feel soo small and worthless ive not seen another girl for about 4 months or maybe more ... (61 words)

Flatulence from my privates? At any time. I think this is so weird. Am I normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I read a few things on here how girls sometime "fart" from their vaginas. It's not really farting it's like the air thing people have said. So I tested to see if I have it, and I do. I was laying on my back and lifted my legs up closer to my chest and it happened a lot. ... (76 words)

Am I just not meant to be with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I need help I recently broke up with my girlfriend and I feel extremely bad and sadden I am in love with her but she wasn't she said it was because all the pain I have caused her but this pain to her was based on deceit to her she made herself believed I cheated she made ... (192 words)

Is he stingy or something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been in a serious relationship with a lovely man for 2 years. We live in separate houses as I have two kids to my ex and he has 6 kids to his 3 ex's. He visits me 3 times a week, comes for dinner and breakfast, uses the computer, swims in the pool, takes a shower, ... (190 words)

I'm 17, pregnant and everything is weird with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone! so here is the problem. my boyfriends and i relationship has been awfull! i am pregnant with his baby. our relationship was great untill i found i was pregnant. he tries to be happy with it but he is just scared! i am 17 and he is 18. i know deep down he is ... (450 words)

How should I react?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Me and this guy at school lead a proper love-hate relationship and when we are flirting he does this thing to my knee... you might not have heard about it but it is like, if someone touches your knee in a certain way it is supposed to be "1 8th" of an orgasm. Which of cours... (336 words)

Help!! I'm getting feelings coming back for my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My ex and I broke up a year ago (I was the one who broke it off) and we've slowly but surely developed a friendship since. Last week he and I had dinner... long story short, he ended up kissing me and I kissed him back. A whole slew of feelings I thought I had long since... (323 words)

Am I going through a second puberty???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i don't know if this really counts as question suitable for this site or not, but anyway. i've been in a really good mood lately, i mean really good. the 'i can barely contain my happiness' good mood. which i'm not complaining about, not in the slightest. but it's m... (237 words)

Are girls hypocrites???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Why do women/girls criticize guys when they are just as bad as us? For example: "Guys only care about looks" "all guys are dogs" etc.... (26 words)

Virgins getting erections????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able to control himself more so ... (69 words)

Why does he act and lie like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) Here to ask for advice about my boyfriend. We've been together for about a year, but there are so many problems. I believe he is overall a caring guy but we go through patches where he is nothing but unfair to me. A few examples of things he has done: - Told pers... (330 words)

Why did my ex want to meet up with my father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this abusive ex boyfriend whom i been with him for 2 years and after i decided that i had enough of insults, pain and hurt i broke up with him then the drama started as i never excepted he turned into a very obssesed person that may beg and plead, cry to get back to him ... (302 words)

Going together 2 years now... how often would you have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the average amount of times per week to have sex aged 22 and 25 after being together for two years?as I am paranoid my boyfriend does not want it very often, he says I am worrying for no reason. I think he doesn't fancy me any more, he says it does bt its only natural ... (80 words)

Falling for my best friend's girlfriend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma!!! I have a best friend who has a girlfriend. we three are best friends. i dont know when i fell for my friend's girl. i have even told this to her as she is very close to me and she reacted in a positive way. she often calls me in the night. now i even ... (101 words)

Am I right to feel that other women are just for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - This goes out to married men: How can a married man tell his other woman he loves her so much when he sets boundaries and off limits discussion to protect his wife and family? When you say you love your other woman, what kind of love this is when it is with limitations? ... (133 words)

She's transferring next semester but I want to go for it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sort of felt up my abs at a party(she was sober). Touched my shirt where my stomach was. Smiles with me. Said she had a really fun time with me. Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us. When I asked her why she didn't just ask me, ... (397 words)

My high school boyfriend is back in touch but I'm married... and so his HE!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 25 years. I always loved my high school boyfriend and kept him in my heart and thoughts. But lost touch with him after he left for college. We recently reconnected and I found out he never forgot me either we have had a couple of encounters in the past ... (122 words)

My best guy friend won't talk to me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my best guy friend who i have been best friends with since 3rd grade wont talk to me now. Last year we went to the same school but he moved and so whenever he hasa girlfriend he wont talk to me at all but as soon as they break up he acts like nothing happend. I think i ... (87 words)

Why oh why is he being this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - HI! Ok, so there's this guy who I'll call X for the time being. And I first met him in my second year of university and we became friends around May. He is a really cool guy, quite flirty and all, and he teased me quite often. So I had one friend called Lucy who had a crush ... (463 words)

Stuck in between 2 flatmates that have fallen out with one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really stuck my two flatmates have fallen out and although they say I don't have to choose it is pretty much implied. Sarah went to stay at her boyfriend's this week and says she will move out if Becky stays. If I'm 100% honest I know who I'd rather have stay but it isn't ... (155 words)

Can someone give sperm donor info?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancee and I have been trying for over a year for a baby, turns out he's unable to have any kids. We were thinking about going to a sperm donor. Does anyone know how this works? How much does it cost? Do they give any papers to take home? Does anyone know where these p... (86 words)

Should I return my ex's mother's calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - The breakup was almost a month ago. My ex left me for some new guy she barely knew. Now my ex's mother has been trying to contact me. I've been keeping my cellphone turned off most of the time, so she ended up calling my dad instead. She wants to know how I am. She says... (234 words)

Does she need space? What shall I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I really like this woman who has a boyfriend, we've hung out a lot over the past year. I get the signs see likes me. I told her i like her and she said only friends. She has been perfectly normal with me since. I told her a few weeks later i cant be friends with som... (184 words)

I just don't know what to do, I've never been in a relationship before.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so first off, I'm 16 years old, and I'm trying to figure out what I should do for what I guess you might call a relationship problem. I've never asked anybody out, before you start thinking poorly of me, I have some small social issues from expereinces when I was young and ... (845 words)

Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not the really serious one). 2. When... (444 words)

Is it really wrong to be in love with my best friend's ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 year old female and I am in love with my best friends ex boyfriend. They had only been with each other for a year or less. My friend is very mean to him all the time and says if she stayed with him she would continue to cheat consistently on him. She says she hates for ... (196 words)

My Privacy Rights vs. My Spouse's Right to Express Themselves

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My spouse has a blog where they routinely express themselves on it. I, by contrast, am very selective as to who knows what about my life and whatever I am / we are going through. I have told my spouse about my need for privacy, and while she says she understands this, w... (176 words)

Our friends are pressuring us into getting our first boyfriend/girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've never had a boyfriend and all my friends are pressuring me and one other person because we are the last two in our friendship group not to have gone out with anyone. I'm a girl and he's a guy but we aren't attracted to each other so we can't solve it that way unfortun... (96 words)

First kiss under the mistletoe: Good idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering if a good way to have your first kiss would be under mistletoe? I'm going to this Christmas party on Tuesday and my crush (who is also my best friend) is going. It's a mutual friend's party and she said that there will definitely be mistletoe so the advice w... (63 words)

My best friend has a girlfriend, wants to go out with someone else, but won't tell me who.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a crush on my best friend for a few years now and he's been going out with this girl for a few months but they haven't done anything, no kissing or anything. He is always open with me about everything but earlier today he was saying how he likes his girlfrie... (120 words)

Boyfriend gets upset when I go overseas says I always leave him when he needs me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf is always upset each time i have to go overseas, saying that i am always away when he needs me. we have been together for over a year now and he always gets upset even if im going off for 2-3 days. my mom is always (once a month) wanting me to go overseas with the family. ... (99 words)

How do I get my baby's daddy back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm would like to know how to get my baby daddy (Jim) back? I want us to be a traditional family and one day get married. We have known each other since we were 13 and had a child together at 25. We have been there for each other for a lot of ups and downs! We broke up ... (248 words)

Why am I having dirty thoughts about my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me start this off by saying I'm not proud of this. I have this cute friend she is very nice and smart. And very pretty But I did something I never have done before I masturbated to her picture. It was a pic her and some clevage was showing( no nipple or anything) it was... (159 words)

Boyfriend caught wanking at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi my name is sally :( my boyfriend (today ex) and i had an open very sexual relationshipd, we watched porn together often, until i found him doing it alone and found out he was doing it at work and even got caught wanking ? when i have conftonted him he has denied it and li... (67 words)

She says I don't understand her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been seeing this girl for over a year and a half now. We've broken up and got back together countless numbers of times. We're sooooo in love and the whole world can see it. Even can't deny it, even when we hate each other's guts. The problem is, she doesn't think I ... (431 words)

I can't stand that I have to share her with her beloved guy friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm just posting this 'cause I'm tired. I've been thinking about this the whole morning and even had some bad dreams during the night. Here's my problem: I have a girlfriend that I really love. I want us to stay togheter for a long time. She's smart, beautiful and, t... (806 words)

Would the Police treat this as real domestic abuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband mentally abuses me. i want to call the police but i dont know if they would think him shouting at me and smashing things in the house serious enough.... (31 words)

Are all girls neurotic and evil?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do; I've been with this girl for 19 months now. When we were first dating, everything was like a dream. It all went so smoothly. She was nice to me and we never fought. NOW, it seems that all we do is fight. She feels self-conscious every time she ea... (335 words)

How can I move on from abuse by Ex, to enjoy a loving relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in an abusive relationship for 7 yrs both physical and emotional and I've been trying to date new men objectively but I'm unable to be phsyically/sexually comfortable with them. I take medications and I have counseling but I don't have a love life. What kind of other ... (55 words)

Why if girls/women are around each other do they get their periods at the same time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - After going through a lot of girls only parties (because I live with my mom and sister .) I've noticed one thing...Why do all girls get there periods at the same time! Its so weird and dont get me started with their mood swings mood swings. Why is this?... (50 words)

It feels like hell when he can't even spare a thought for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. It was my birthday 2 months ago, and he didnt get me any present. Money is not an issue as he spends exuberantly on himself. i told him that it hurt me that i didnt receive anything,that he did not even try. he got angry ... (124 words)

Being confident and making better conversation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've got this issue, I'm quite confident yet very very shy at the same time and I'm have a lot of trouble sociailizing on a one on one basis and with people I feel are better than me, like more popular or older because I feel that they'll judge me. I find it very easy to be ... (113 words)

How to make a good first impression on a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm gonna meet him. He's my mom's business partner's son. He is a teenager. So how to make good first impression on him?... (23 words)

Do you bleed during your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you bleed before or during your first time? Me and my boyfriend are about to have sex, and its going to be my first time. But i've heard you bleed after your first time. But do you bleed after you've had sex or during?... (45 words)

I'm ruining everything and I feel powerless to stop what I'm doing. Help please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am so confused and don't know what to do. I've fallen in love with this guy and sometimes i feel like I shouldn't talk to him. That I might do too much, I may annoy him or disturb him. I think he may think the same way. The problem now is that I feel like we kind of ... (150 words)

My wife now wants a threesome. Who exactly will be the third person? Not me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has stated she would be open to a threesome encounter with a male or female. I'm not interested in being the third person in this. What can I do?... (32 words)

What's got into my wife? She says infidelity will enhance our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

18 December 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 17 years. She has never had sex with anyone other than me. She told me just two days ago that our sex life was great but that she wanted to experience sex with another man and also said she wanted me to be with another woman. She said that ... (117 words)

My first, but he does not want the blood when its expected.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts! Im 15 and in a serious LDR. We spoke about what if we had sex. It would be my first, not his. But OUR first together. Obviously not soon, but what really bugged me was that I was asked if I had popped my cherry, I said no. I don't want to be the one to that.... (236 words)

How and if I will stop thinking about him and what we had.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me seemingly out of the blue. It was strange because half an hour before he broke it off, we were holding hands and being our usual selves. And opportunity to hang out with his friends arose and i felt pushed aside. He told me he was choosing his ... (247 words)

Sexually frustrated and there's nothing I can do about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone! so i have this problem...kinda... so im 14...long story short...i had sex with this guy..."for fun" and that was the first and only time i did it...and it was great! and fun! and amazing! but heres the thing...i cant have sex with him again..it was just a one time... (144 words)

Should I give a second change, or give up.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have met this wonderful man 11 months ago whom i am now engaged to...the problem is his ex wont let him see his kids while he is with me...obviously she cant let go of him, and is jealous, even tho they were not together when we met...My fiance has not seen his kids for 3 ... (203 words)

I can't leave my boyfriend

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years he is 21 and im 18, we started dating a week after we met because he tried everyday and no one had ever done that essentially basically everyone told him i was way out of his league but my friends insisted maybe i should... (605 words)

Offended, what's his problem?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I just came back from the office Christmas party and feel really shaken. I am friends with this colleague at work, but casually and we don't see each other that much. But every time we meet I feel this very strange and strong sensation, to the extent that I wonder, what ... (234 words)

In love with my straight best friend.

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I am extremely confused... I have been best friends with this guy for about 10 years. We do just about everthing together and we both really value the time we spend together. We are also currently room mates... We have become extremely close and know everything there is... (709 words)

Am I going crazy or does my boyfriend's relationship with his sister seem worrying?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and myself have been together for 3 and a half years, lived together for 3 and have two little girls. His family is scattered all over the world. he has a brother, a half brother, 2 sisters and a step sister. When we met, his sister, who's two years younger th... (431 words)

Should I feel guilty or are my feelings justified?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused. I moved to a new city where I had the opportunity to stay with my younger cousin. She was looking for a roomie and I was looking for a room. So it worked in both our favors. She had been in the city for a while so I moved in with the expectation that she would ... (978 words)

I'm unable to cum during sex

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the past few years Ive heard lots of tales of the infamous "3 minute man" but when it acctually did come time to lose my virginity at 15 my expectations of myself were quite low, now my girlfriend is quite attractive and I have no troble geting stiff and precum isent a ... (175 words)

I feel this relationship is one sided

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i do? Well, i love my girlfriend and she loves me. We have been going out now for 10 months and she told me at 6 months that she had decided to practice abstinence at a young age, and she had expected for me to break up with her. I did not because i love her and r... (391 words)

Can't forget his exgirlfriend, I'm heartbroken

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - three years ago this guy proposed me,i was soo sincere and loyal to him,im very confused with his attitude,i loved him for almost 4 years,i went so down and deep for this relationship and even met many failures in my life,sometimes he loves me a lot like i'm his world and ... (278 words)

How to overcome him leaving me for another woman

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm a single mother with a 6 yrs old boy. Have been divorced for 3 yrs. In the late 2009, I bumped into one guy friend whom I knew 13 yrs ago. We are just mutual friends at that time... Anyway after I met him again last yr, we ended up together. He promised me lots if ... (425 words)

It needs to end

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and in the begining it was great... it just didn't stay that way for long. We are now off and on as it seems and him and I are both tired of it. We love it when we're together..or at least I do. When we're not together or ... (182 words)

Help me figure on hitching a gallavat gal.

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hiya guys n girls there's a gal I my bowling league I fancy. Thing is the fellas say she's been around and back. Lots of 1 nighters, lots of a affairs with married men n women she's bi. I've talked with her n she seems quite a lady. She's fancying me likewise. I'd like to court ... (160 words)

My ex-girlfriend is furious at me

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend is furious at me. About 3 weeks earlier I was talking to her current boyfriend since we have been good friends for a while. Previosly she has given me notes talking about how she wanted to have sex with me. I turned her down since the flame really wasn't there, ... (223 words)

Do I like boys or girls?

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i'm 25 and love having sex with girls wether it be a relationship or one night stands i've had several girlfriends and love the emotion of falling in love.... when i'm not having sex i masturbate 3-6 times a day but heres the problem i find the majority of the time i think ... (235 words)

Girl I like is moving.... do I tell her I like her?

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who is a girl that I met this year. She is dating one of my friends and I get along with her and make her laugh a lot. I found out that she is moving (she is moving today actually) and I like her a lot. I didn't want to say anything to her since it could piss my ... (155 words)

He wants to be friends and start fresh -- what can I do to get him to the place where he feels again?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a pretty long story but I would like some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost nine months. A few weeks ago he said that he didn't really feel like he had feelings for me anymore but that he would try to get them back. He broke up with me the ... (366 words)

To tell or not to tell

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm embarrassed by how much i love you because you may not "love " me as much as i love you. i gush about you...i do. i can't look at your picture without losing my breath. i laugh really hard at your jokes. they're actually really funny to me, but also because you're so darn ... (733 words)

Whats the deal with this guy and his ex?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here it goes! I met this new guy a couple of months ago through a mutual friend. We remained in contact even though we hadn't seen each other for about a month. We went out last night, i was hammered, so was he. His ex girlfriend shows up at the bar we were at. He and I dan... (259 words)

I cant believe I stooped so low!!

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Three months ago, my boyfriend of 7yrs left me. We lived together for 5 of those years. I found out that two weeks after he moved out, he was already dating someone else. Even though we broke up, we still communicated , thru txts, nearly everyday. Lately he began telling me ... (285 words)

My ex is asking to meet with me over Christmas break?

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got home from college for Christmas break and my ex-girlfriend had sent me an email saying she wants to meet while we're both home. We were friends for a long time before getting in a serious relationship and it ended because of the distance college brought, even th... (110 words)

How do I wean myself off him?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I fall out of love with this man. He is on my mind constantly, so much so that I cannot concentrate on what people are saying to me, think I see him around everywhere I go, even think I hear his name in a sentence when I do deign to listen to people. I know it is n... (404 words)

An unrequited love actually loved you.

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My story is like many others on here... A girl I was friends with in college fell in love with me. But for me, I wasn't interested. She was too fat. As time progressed we became good friends. At one point I fell for her best friend. Hard. But she never loved me back. I ... (340 words)

I tried marriage counseling, so now what?

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18 December 2010 (M)

age - Its been about 6 months since i posted my question asking what to do about my marriage (25 years) as i have been unfaithful to my wife with a woman that i truly believe to be my soul mate,.Ive followed advice given and have tried marriage counseling and to work things out with ... (108 words)

Is my girlfriend as insecure and unforgiving as I think she is?

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18 December 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl officially for a little over 4 months now. We had some rough times before we were officially dating because she was seeing me and some other guy at the same time. She originally was gonna date the other guy instead of me, and I got upset because I ... (474 words)

Do you think he is worth the risk, or should I move on?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I've been having some huge issues lately. I really like this one guy, Tom*. He is really sweet and understanding, and I suspect he likes me back. But, of course, there is a catch. My ex-best friend, Celeste*, likes him too. I'm a little worried that she ... (77 words)

Am I just grieving over the baby I lost?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need a little advice on miscarriages... altho my story is slightly different to the normal. in august this year i found out i was pregnant. it wasnt planned. i live with my boyfriend and his parents and was told if we got pregnant we would have to move out. we und... (458 words)

There's a school dance coming up but, I don't know how to ask him!

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy that i really like and we are pretty good friends. we weren't always friends. the first time i actually had a good conversation with him was when he was going out with my friend last year. this is the first year that i think he is actually considering me his ... (178 words)

My parents have killed my social life!

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old with absolutely no social life! guess who i blame???? My Parents!!!! Yes i knw if you look at it why blame your parents???..they love u..look out for you..protect you..blah blah but there is a limit! Well let me tell you why.....to start off, since i started ... (1016 words)

She dropped me like that after she found out she was pregnant!

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and this girl have been seein eachother for about 3 months but during this time we both were currently in a relationship with someone eles, and we still are. But I recently found out that she is pregnant by her bf and I'm devastated and its awkward when we see ... (92 words)

I hate seeing my best friend with my ex!

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so i'm totally inlove with this guy but because of all the crap we've been through i like hate him now. so now my bff is dateing him and i want to cry my sees out everytime i think about it, am i over reacting?... (46 words)

Is this just the pregnancy?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now I have a very low tolerance of men! They make me so angry, especially my fiance. Is it the fact that I'm 3 and 1/2 months pregnant? Is this like a mood swing or something?... (37 words)

We fight, argue and I nag. But now I'm questioning if he's a good guy. Is he?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and like we have been arguing a lot lately and i want to strengthen the relationship and so does he. He brought up the idea of marriage and a bright future. But we want to manage a way to stop arguing or at least reduce it. Then ... (118 words)

I feel weird because I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend. What can I do to change this?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I personally find it weird. I know you guys are probably thinking "you're only 19, you have your whole life ahead of you to fall in love/be in a relationship/have a boyfriend/etc..." and you're probably right but the fact is, thats not ... (446 words)

Should I reveal to my straight friend that I am interested in a possible sexual relationship with her?

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18 December 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, my female friend and I share the same interests, beliefs, opinions and understand each other without saying. I consider her as my very soulmate. Lately, I felt something that goes beyond friendship. I desire to be with her, start something new with her, love her... (210 words)

Where is our two week relationship going? I need advice please

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18 December 2010 (?) age 30-35 - It's a bit long winded, but please bear with me, am in serious need of advice. I've known the guy I like (maybe love) for about thirteen years. He's always been nice but the past year (since we both started college) we've got much closer and I realised I was crushing on him quit... (452 words)