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female
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30-35,
*shboo2yu
writes:I have this friend with benefits we decided we didnt want a relationship but tonight i called and asked what i was doing i invited him over. he said make sure im awake and dont fall asleep on him, which i always do. two hours later he text me and says "bABE IM JUST GONNA GO TO SLEEP, Gotta work"....he always comes days he have to work the next day. so i said "cool....Ok" then he text back "imma come see yu tomorrow definiely" i asked if he was home No response! did he replace me or i have nothing to worry about because he never cancels and him having to work is a lame excuse. he nevers goes to bed at 2 something more like 4 am to 5 am timing.
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reader, Shyclau +, writes (13 December 2010):
You said it friends with benefits. In my opinion
U get to use him when available and he gets to use
You the same way. I think u need to be very careful
Because if u dont put an end to it u can get hurt. Don't
Do that to yourself you are worth more than that. Find
That guy who can give you what you want he is out there.
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reader, Ashboo2yu +, writes (13 December 2010):
Ashboo2yu is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys. i have thought about what you've said and realized i have falling for him. he doesnt want a relationship so im going to leave him alone and wait for someone else who appreciates me. this was my friend time with the benefits thing and it was hard enough for me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Well the thing is you are not in a relationship and you are wondering if he replaced you, but you guys have no commitments to each other so he is free to have sex with who ever else he wants just remember that. if you want to be the only girl in his life then tell him. Thats the thing with friends with benefits they may also have other friends with benefits that they just dont mention and it can get messy thats why its always good to only have sex with someone you are committed to and want to be with.
If he never replied yes it could have meant that he was somewere else and just didnt want you to know about it but also he may have just been tired and fell asleep. I think you need to talk to him about this.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Well to say he is a friend with benefits I'm afraid that you are having more feelings for him than you care to mention. You arent supposed to care about that are you if it's just for sex. No one of course can do this without feeling for someone when you get close. Your friend has obviously other friends with benefits, he's having a good life. You may aquire something that you may regret as well, an STD or worse. If you are questioning where he is and what he's up to then it's time to question how you really feel about this.
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