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writes:Okay, so I am 17 and I live in Arkansas and I have a girlfriend who lives in Oregon that I have been with just over a year. We have only met once and it was 2 months ago. As much as I feel we are deeply in love and want to be with each other for eternity... I still feel like she is going to dump me and and break my heart. I talk to her every day, she sees me on webcam every day, and everything. But I still feel like no matter how many times she tells me she loves me forever and always, I feel like it want be forever. I haven't cheated on her not once in the year we have been together, not even so much as kissed another girl and as far as I know she hasn't done anything with any other guys. I'm very loyal... and I feel like she is but I have my doubts too and Ii don't know why? The only explanation I think of is that it's the distance. Can anyone tell me what I should do to make myself trust her and be more positive and how to prove to myself that she won't ever break my heart. I love her more than anything, even my on life! I was her first and I want to be her last... forever and always. Someone help me. Should I be worried when we get in an argument? Should I be worried and jealous of other guys? I love her.. someone give me some guidance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): thats pretty much how my ex bf & i ended our relationship.i did love him so much but i think he had ur very same issues .he probably didnt trust me or believe in our love..maybe becoz he had had BAD breakups in the past ,he wanted to trust me fully but couldnt.well, i guess if as u said u love ur gf & she does love u , then u must trust her BLINDLY even if u had to tell urself that "its okay if i left with a broken heart".
i wish those words of urs had been said to me by my ex "of course with mentioning ,"I love her more than anything, even my on life! I was her first and I want to be her last... forever and always." i would have understood how he felt &would have proven it to him "with every possible way" that his doubts were false & that i loved him so much :(
by the way, after i broke up with him , i met another guy& he got really jealous & even tried to get me back but i didnt allow that to happen coz he was the one who didnt BELIEVE IN OUR LOVE.
listen to ur heart ..
wish u the best !
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