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writes:right so my lezbian teacher asks me to stay after school so i did.she starts talking to me about responsibility and all that and then starts feeling and rubbing my leg.at the time it was makin me feel quite uncomfortable but then she leaned in for kiss and told me not to worry,and i wasent for some reason i liked it.now i have never had any feelings towards girls but i thnik i might be gay and i think i might be in love with my english teacherplease help me
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reader, LoveIsRough  +, writes (11 September 2009):
 First of all, whoever you are, I think you've been molested. You need to stay away from your English teacher. She's officially a pervert.It's fine if you are gay...Just make sure that you don't date your English teacher! It's against the law!
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reader, porrasa  +, writes (4 June 2009):
no this doesnt sound right at all but you are a young lady and have to make up your own mind up. oh yes one kiss doesnt make you a lesbian.
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady + ♥, writes (3 June 2009):
Shit. What concerns me is that she said 'dont worry'. The reason that concerns me is because that's what you say to a 'child'. I have seen and read about countless cases of sexual predators; and one of the things they do/say is not to worry, that it's ok. Well I'll say this; yes, you do worry. Maybe you are attracted to her and you would like a relationship, you are an adult and therefore capable of making a decision on that front, however i would consider that this woman is possibly skilled, experienced and has done this many times before. The fact that she initiated this says something for her morals and i would be concerned about her using you. This woman is potentially a sex predator and although you enjoyed the kiss, consider if you hadnt? She didnt know you would enjoy it, she did it because she would. I would be extremely concerned if any teacher said 'dont worry' before initiating a relationship with a student. This is obscenely innappropriate. Also, by saying 'dont worry' she is not treating you an equal, she is treating you as a subordinate; this says something about her attitude towards you and possible attitudes of a relationship. It's obviously not you she likes but rather the idea and your age. Be careful
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reader, writerpookie +, writes (18 May 2009):
Well, I know the majority of people told you to report her, but I think that's really up to you. If you liked it and want to pursue the relationship, I say what's the harm? But do keep in mind of all the girls she may have done this to; if she did this herself without you provoking it, then consider anonymously reporting her. I once dated a male instructor, but it was mutual and he got kicked out because policy prevented us from dating. It was either me or his job and he chose me, which everyone congratulated him for doing. But we're not together now, and it was probably more of an infatuation than anything. Your school may have this policy, too.
Whatever you decide, consider the girls she may have hurt, and please be careful. Oh, and one kiss does not make you lesbian. You can't decide that overnight. It's something you feel for a very long time. If you are, you will know. Good luck!
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reader, oneFOOTwrong  +, writes (21 January 2009):
 You should speak to an adult about this, ideally the principal of your school, and your parents, because this is against the law, she could (she should) go to prison. Do not let her continue, tell someone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): it was VERY wrong of your teacher to do that, and u should tell her boss. this is the right thing to do. and i highly doubt u r a lesbian because one kiss. I had a one nighter with a girl and i was really into it that night and i questioned myself.. but it fades away and im now sure im straight:) u might be bi but lesbian? i doubt it.
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reader, scorpian lady +, writes (11 January 2009):
Your teacher was wrong to kiss you. You may or may not be gay but, that is not an issue right now. Tell your teacher to stay away from you or you will report her.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (11 January 2009):
 hahaha.. ah.. hot.bte. one kiss does not = being in love. you're having Emotions but this does not mean you're inlove.ie : do you know what the difference between love and lust is?do you know what love isn't?as for your teacher.. well balls to her for pulling that but she didn't have the right to do that.. course if you're cool with it then no foul.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Why do you ask for help? You're a grown woman who can make her own decisions about who or who not she wishes to have relations with. If it feels good - go with it. Who's being harmed?
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reader, Confident- C  +, writes (11 January 2009):
Hmmmmm.....
I think you teacher is in the wrong field and you shouldn't have allowed this to have went so far, still i wish to advise you to anonymously report this to the principal as she might be doing this to more than one girl,she is violating innocent ladies and in many cases not everyone will seek advise the way you did
please promise me that you will put a end to this not just for yourself but do it for other women who may not have the courage and Confidence that you had to publish this on this site -
Hats up to you for being So confident and raising this discussion for our in-puts!!!
Oh and you are not gay- you can not evaluate such after just 1 silly kiss-All the best and FOCUS ON YOU SCHOOL WORK -Confident-C
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