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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can Iflirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Hey how can I flirt with this guy I have know for two years. And how will I know if he likes me back thanks... (27 words)

Can an unclebe attracted to his niece?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - surely not? can an uncle be attracted sexually to his niece? when i was with my partner(ex now} i had nagging gut feelings to the way he was around his niece.this is his sisters daughter by the way. shes 18 hes 42 and she was staying at her grans where he was also living. ... (192 words)

Time for myspace, but not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I like this guy and lately, I haven't heard from him even though he claims he likes me. I've tried the not texting him for a while to see if he'll text me but that doesn't work. I've even deleted his number from my phone (mistake) so now I can't contact him unless he do... (191 words)

He said he wants a divorce over my refusal to have sex without a condom...how can I prove I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my husband since i was 15. we have been togethor for 5 years. and married for 1 year. we have 2 children. a 3 year old and a 6 month old. we have been through alot together. after a huge fight last year we were able to patch things up. however after the birth ... (339 words)

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am. And is a sweetheart. So as fa... (707 words)

Sex w/o condoms safe?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I didn't have any condoms (which ... (114 words)

Is this a good time to make amends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys Happy New Year to everyone! My problem is that I confessed feelings I had for a female friend of mine this year, and to cut a very long story short, we haven't spoke since I did so, and basically cut each other out of each others lives. I miss her, and I feel th... (112 words)

Lied about my age .. again :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Help :( I have always had a problem with revealing my true age, I guess it relates back to primary and high school days where I was bullied and I guess I have had a "make up for lost time" kind of attitude towards life. I am currently 26 and tell people I am 23, problem is I... (139 words)

He wants me out right this minute!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a man living in Michigan and have been seeing / living with another man for 6 months. Now he wants me out because I didn't get him a card for Christmas. It is his house and he wants me out this very second. I refused because I don't have anywhere to go but what are... (85 words)

I want our first date to be something nice, not clubbing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. hes sweet.. we have some laugh together..hes on holiday at the moment and he calls me from there. does that sound like he really likes me? he wants us to meet up.. but he asked me to come clubbing with him.. ... (106 words)

Will my long labia be a turn off to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and i have extremely long inner labia and like all of my friends, well lets just say you cant even see theirs, and i dont know if it is abnormal. My boyfriend wants to go 'down there' and play around but i am nervous that he will be turned off my my long labia. Is it a ... (70 words)

Shooting Blanks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is scared he's shooting blanks. He has one brother who is setrile and another who has like super sperm three kids in three years with birth control and condoms super sperm. He's scared that he is shooting blanks which i highly doubt but how could he tell?... (49 words)

How do I get over this stupid guy!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so this summer I worked at a camp from june to july. I met this guy that I had seen 2 years previous who I had thought was cute when I was at the camp as a camper. He was my CC (camp crush).A camp crush is just an innocent crush campers have on one another or the staff for ... (270 words)

B/f says I'm selfish and keeping him away from his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and living together for 3 years! We have a two year old boy and i am pregnant with our second!! I know our relationship has never been the best in the world or the healthiest Lately we have been fighting everyday pretty much!! ... (380 words)

Will I go to jail if I had sex wit my exgirlfriend who is 17 and now pregnant.??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i met my ex at 16 yrs of age at a 18 yr and older club she lied to me and told me she was 18..She looked 18 and was at a 18 yr and older club.We started dating had unprotected sex now shes pregnant.And she bearly decided to tell me her age.I was trying to be responsible i ... (205 words)

We're getting really close, but only by text

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really fancy this guy, i meet him on holiday every year and we have started getting really close but only by text, he lives in London and i live in Yorkshire, i don't know what to do to see if he likes me. ... (44 words)

I don't want to blow this chance to date her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been working in a supermarket over christmas a temporary job. i got the job because my mum works in the same shop full time. i have really enjoyed it and one of the first people i met was this 18 year old girl i don't believe in love at first sight but i now do after ... (194 words)

Our affair..does it stand a chance to last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a married man for 18 months we call and text daily. I am seperated from my husband he moved out 4months ago due to my affair. Last week my estranged husband confronted my lover informing him he is naming him in the divorce. My lover says he ... (115 words)

My husband went to sex therpist promised to be with me,and lied!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age - WellI caught my husband masterbating after he promised he would come to me after we went to a sex therpist, he is addicted for sure, please only decent replys, any proverbed replies will be reported. sure everyone masterbates, but a husband doesn't tell his wife he loves and ... (291 words)

Is it alright for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it ok for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old? ... (15 words)

I have developed asthma and want to leave the military sooner than they are taking, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Is there any one out there that can give me advice? Ive been in the millitary for five years now. I've developed asthma last year. The medical desission is taking to long and now they have me on deploying status. I currently have a temp profile and have been deemed n... (116 words)

My culture does not accept non-virgins, getting married soon, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all..i am an egyptain 21.5 year old girl..i lost my hymen by my ex boy friend, we were musterbating in bed but suddenly he rapped me and made me lose my hymen :( but my vagina is still tight i guess.. coz we didnt have sex... my problem is that i live in a culture that nev... (153 words)

I have a crush on one of my teachers, how do I stop the rumors?P

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this teacher at my school.i know it's just a crush and all so i won't sit here and talk about how i'm in love with him. i know nothing will happen between us and nothings happening now.all the kids tease me and i'm scared if i tell my parnets they'll give some big speech ... (79 words)

I need help, should I keep talking to him, or should I back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heya, i need your help. There is this boys.. and he moved to my school and into my form a couple of months ago. Me and my best friend welcomed him with open arms and we were really nice to him. He then began to make friends and thats when the truth came out. He was a 'Chav' a... (169 words)

I like my history teacher and cannot concentrate on my classroom studies, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Hey. I really, really like my history I have liked him since last year. This year I got 38% on my exam this christmas and I have been thinking I got this low because of my feelings for him. I have always been bad at history I have found it really difficult, he noticed this and ... (147 words)

I feel sad, I cry a lot, have low self-esteem, can you help me in some way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don’t really know what’s wrong with me, or how to write this. Basically, I’m very unhappy, and I have been for a year now, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve had various issues with self-esteem, sleeping, my mood, confidence, appetite and energy levels. This all started around ... (496 words)

He is sweet but lacks the initiative, does he really care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Which one says the truth about my ex who I recently reconciled with? When I am with him, he doesn't want me to do anything but sit or lie beside him. He stares at me all the time and like to cuddle the whole day. When I am not beside him, he gets up to look for me and would... (193 words)

The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - (MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to me i just think all kinds of dir... (153 words)

I'm caught in the middle of a family fight!!! Please, I need your help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am stuck in the middle of three sisters one my Mums side of the family and a bad relationship with my mum and my Dad's sister. I try to be nice to everyone in My family because I hardly see them and when I do I like it to be a good, happy time, but that never happens. First ... (426 words)

More questions than answers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Over vacation I've been thinking about me and my best friend who I have known for 2 years. I really think our friendship can last through anything. A couple of months ago I told him that I liked him and he still stuck around. sure he hasn't asked me out like I hoped but now it ... (247 words)

My boyfriend wants to split the cost of a big ticket item with me, but I don't think I'll be with him that long!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend wants to get a ps3 (he lives with me)he wants us to split the cost to get it. the thing is i do not want to since i do not think i will be with him for that long. he thinks everything is going great but i am just not that happy with him anymore. he never sp... (157 words)

Attracted to a colleague who has suddenly turned cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im sitting here needing advice-this is so sad. i met a guy at my job two months ago-i cant explain it but we clicked and get along so well-we have coffee breaks etc-he says he likes working with me too and we had a coffee out once and i sent a text saying thanks and he replied ... (210 words)

Engaged and attracted to another man. How do I overcome these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - there's this lady who is engaged and she's having deep feelings for another suitor. what can she do to stop these feelings? this guy is someone that they see each other almost everyday. ... (35 words)

My boyfriend of 13 years talks marriage but still no date set

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old the mother of 1, 10 year old boy with my boy friend and we are now 13 years in relationship. He really loves me and i trust him and he always talk about married but still not yet decided. can i wait or can i leave him? ... (54 words)

Can a relationship recover from infidelity if the cheating partner still denies it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that my husband cheated on me. However he denies it. I do love him and want to move past this but if he will not admit it can we move on? We have been together for 15 years. Now this just happened after he started this job about 2 years ago and he still works with her... (106 words)

Why does my brother try to steal my girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - why the hell is my brother tring to steal my girlfriend when he knows i love her and she loves me to make matters worse he has a girlfriend. my girl is not what he likes, she is not his type, but hes giving hints and shes falling for them. i tried talking to the both of t... (154 words)

Not ready to say the "L" word

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when he says I love you and your not ready to say it back? I have been seeing this guy, but we havent been together all that long ( I would say we have gone out about ten times). The other day, when we were talking he said he loved me. I like him, but it is ... (179 words)

Boyfriend asked if his was biggest

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to be honest and open with my boyfriend who I adore. It was about my past in bed, past boyfriends. I was only serious with one other. The question of size came up. It wasn't good, actually bad with my first serious boyfriend. Is great with current boyfriend, but his ... (202 words)

How do you make it bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my penis is not so large and some time feel ashamed while havin sex how can i increase its lenght ... (20 words)

First time sex and he wants me to plan everything

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex it is my first time but not his. He wants me to plan everything but idk what a comfortable position is. Can anyone please help me and tell me so i know. He also wants to know if he should finger me and eat me out and idk because no ones ... (72 words)

I'm worried about a 2 year age gap

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - G'day... A girl and I like eachother- a lot. However, I am 15 and she is 13. When we are out together, it seems right and all that jazz. But the only thing im worried about is the two year age gap. Would be greatful for any advice! Thanks :).... (52 words)

I don't have any parenting skills and she has a 2 year old...should there be some instant bond or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

- I have met a old flame from school, I havnt seen her in 6years. When we met the same chemistry was still there and we hit it off as though we hadn't stopped seeing each other all those years! She has recently came out of a relationship as have I. The only thing I'm scared of is ... (92 words)

Can I tell my family I'm pregnant without disclosing the relationship information?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay - i am preganant and living with my folks. Most of my family still believe me to be a virgin, they have no idea that i had a boyfriend for a few months a little while ago. This is gonna be hard because they will not exspect it at all - if i was seeing someone and they knew ... (202 words)

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will get from members will be EXACT to... (1588 words)

Finger fun

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - want to make my girlfriend cum from touching/fingering her. is there any goog technigues positions to get her in. i can make her cum from oral but it would be nice to do it with fingers. I know it can happen because she told me she cums while masterbating ... (49 words)

Does he ever think about "us"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I just want some ideas about whether he thinks of me and why he doesn't seem to want to "be" with me again. We were friends for about the past year and eventually we moved past that stage when he came clean about his feeling for me. I am married so this was extremely difficult ... (284 words)

Tightness causing pain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi does anyone have any advice. been with girlfriend for 3 years but she has an extremely tight vagina and it causes pain on entrance during sex. it is also hard for me to get it in and im only a normal average sized guy. she went docters and he said she was nturally tight an... (151 words)

My 2 children don't know their father! Should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am married woman the mother of two kids,the man i am married is not the father of my kids , they are from relationship before my kids do not know there father we separate when one was one year and other was not yet born i do not see father any more but i know where he ... (94 words)

I want to masturbate and not sure how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm a teenager and i was just wondering how to masterrbate. what do i do with my fingers and how to i masturbate with a pillow and a bed. please help. thanks.... (34 words)

I'm really confused about my sexual feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 year old male and im confused about my sexuality. i think i like boys, when i masterbate i think of them and i watch gay porn. ive been reading other questions and they seem to say that this dosent always mean your gay. ive been out with a few girls but i dont ... (237 words)

After our breakup he seems to have rewritten history

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a real problem which is distressing me so much. I was with my partner for 6 years and he was the love of my life and we broke up last February because he left after an argument then we were on and off together since then and he seems to be in two minds about whether we ... (379 words)

Why do boys stare at my lips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why do boys tend to stare at my lips? its happened to me ocaasionaly and i find it weird. One minute there talking to me next they're talking and staring at my lips.I've caught 2 atleast doing that on regular basis. why?... (45 words)

Mom's short skirts are causing me to have troubled sexual thoughts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Hope i can get some advise here. I am 22 now originally India only a son for my parents. I got a small traditional family back in my Country. My mother she is 37(5'4" tall, medium built, dark complexion) and my dad is 56(yes nearly 20 years difference between my mothe... (400 words)

In love but the feeling isn't mutual, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with someone but she ignores me and I get the feeling that she just doesn't like me. What can i do, please help?... (29 words)

Does a woman become clingy after losing her Virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - They say that when a woman loses her virginity to a man she becomes clingy. Is this true in all cases? In addition what are the other signs that a woman is truly a virgin, one pattern I have noticed is her behavior to make elaborate fantasies with her boyfriend of mar... (64 words)

How do you eat someone out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, well I feel a little weird posting here but I don't know where else to go. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and she's been tickling with the idea of having me eat her out. Firstly, I had no idea what this meant until she told me. Secondly, I l... (99 words)

B/f says he doesn't know why he does the things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and I love him a lot, but some things he do. leave me thinking is he the one for me. I know that he watch porn when im in school, cuz I go to school out of state. I don't have no problem with him watching it, but I don't understand ... (181 words)

I'm dating my teacher, and I'm confused, Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had this enormous crush on this teacher of mine for almost 3 years. Actually it's not just a crush, it has turned into an obsession kinda. I've finally worked up the courage to tell him of my feelings a few weeks ago because I just REALLY couldnt contain them any longer. ... (391 words)

Why doesn't he take me out on a proper date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Its kind of difficult to know where to start. I think that i am head over heels in love with my friend(male)but he doesn't seem to share the feeling. We have known each other for nearly a year but been really good friends for the past 6 months. I think he likes me a lot - he ... (239 words)

Is our relationship ever going to settle down? Is he ever going to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my bf when we both werent looking for a relationship. we never wanted to be apart, he made me feel wonderful, he was inspired to change his outlook on life, we were both so alike(and still are in some ways). passionate, kind, thoughtful, happy were just some of wha... (874 words)

Embarassed by drunken friend in front of my date! Will he want to meet up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a date tonight w/ this guy but had canceled before.So despite the fact I had a killer migraine tonight - We got together (i didnt want to cancel again n come off as a flake).I had an obligation to be a des. driver for a friend later in the night.Meanwhile this guy and I ... (330 words)

Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sure what to do about this situa... (586 words)

Attracted to a straight man, I am bi sexual, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If you have an attraction towards a straight man but he is unaware that you are a bi sexual, what do you do?.... i have a real close friend that i do a lot with ( getting girls, playing sports etc.) but i'm attracted to him more than i think im supposed to be..... what do i do ... (61 words)

Should I end a happy loving relationship because... he had sex with 3 girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay now I know this may sound ridiculously jerkette and dumb, but...I don't want to be in love. But I am. Now yes I am happy because of it but the other side of my mind snarls at the happiness. With my personality, I just do not feel under control, on the safe side, or ... (223 words)

Her kiss felt different to his, I can't understand why, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, female and bi. A while ago me and my closest friend who's a girl kissed (So I could "experiment"-I told her that, but I actually just wanted to kiss her) A few weeks later a guy I've known for almost a year randomly wanted to hang out. We talked, kissed a few times, ... (115 words)

I am now on a bitter liver...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright...--- Well I guess I should start explaining my spot in life. I'm a freshman in highschool and I'm an all around person kinda girl. I never believed in friends but always acquaintences. Just to keep wild emotions out. Im patient, reassuring, entertaining, an... (326 words)

He isn't giving me enough attention and now he wants space! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with his friends that's why he isn't rep... (222 words)

I can't get over this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for 8 months who moved away in august for another job. we weren't serious and he was very selfish and treated me poorly. i knew deep down i should have dumped him on date two, but i held on because i wanted a boyfriend. stupid, i know. i miss the heck out of ... (180 words)

Is it wrong to wish he'd just pass away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My dad has been a severe alcoholic most of my life. He was emotionally dead when I was a teen and went through a brief point of sobriety when i was in my early 20''s. for the last couple of years, he's cheated death several times. he has survived cancer, spinal infection, ... (196 words)

Pregnant: yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am shantha am an indian 33 years old i have irregular period, i took a treatment vide ayurveda. After treatment, past five month i have regular period. last month i missed my period and also i got pregnancy symptoms, like frequent urination, light illness, stomach paid ... (91 words)

Should I ask out my cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

30 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is a... predicament, so i will remain anonymous for obvious reasons- Here's the story: I recently traveled out of state to visit aunts, uncles, cousins, and so on... I was hanging out with one of my male cousins, when two girls walked through the room. One ... (182 words)

How can I get him to cum faster?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I recently started hooking up with a boy Ive known for a really long time, and I gave him head the other night. He said it was great and he did cum, but it took him FOREVER. My whole body is sore, my neck the worst. He said that he had alot of girls try to give him blow ... (164 words)

Advice on sex and pregnancy?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I had a quick question concerning sex and pregnancy. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with our first baby and my boyfriend and I still have sex, its not as often as it once was, maybe only 3-5 times a week. My doctor never told us that we should stop having sex. I know that sex ... (112 words)

How 'perfect' should a boyfriend be to consider marriage with him?

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30 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have had about 6 boyfriends(apart from the current one), from the time i was 16 till now (am 31), and of the six, five of them had "defects" i couldnt imagine myslef leaving with. This ranged from low self esteem to violence. I have always dreamt of having a 'close to ... (163 words)

Do you think he hates me for all the stupid mistakes I've made?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this is a relatively long question/story, just warning you. In December of last year, I started visiting a chatroom especially for the iPod touch. I was pretty bored, telling people I was 17, and I'm 14 was 13 then. I did not have pics, since I wasn't 17 and pics of me would... (425 words)

She doesn't want to risk our friendship so how do I move on?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have known a girl for about 6 years. I have always liked her. She tells me I am her best friend. Even though I have feelings for her we have both dated different people, but we're both currently single. She seems to date guys older than her. We go out together all the ... (165 words)

Why am I not able to get pleasure from oral with him anymore?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for about 3months and I've been having issues involving sex since the 3rd week. 1st 2 times we had sex he got me to orgasm with oral. Next time he tried I didn't feel much pleasure from it although he was doing the exact same thing he had done before. I ... (124 words)

I'm not cheating so why doesn't he believe that?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend always accuses me of cheating. i have have done everything i think i can to show him i would never ever do that. i have tried begging for him to beleive me, told him all my secrets to get trust, been 100% honest about my past, alot of sex, and gifts. what can i do ... (66 words)

Would it be stupid to start something with him?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Met this boy online. I'm falling for him but he lives about a hour away from me. Neither of us can drive and I haven't even met him yet. Would it be stupid to start something with him? Or can this actully be the start of something amazing?... (48 words)

Why doesn't she talk to me anymore?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this shy girl, who happens to be the sister of one of my best friends. I’ve known the two of them (off and on) for the past nine years. Back then she wasn’t so shy. She would talk to me all the time and play games with me and her brother. However, in 2004, I stopped ... (279 words)

How do I get her to date me?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, so i've known this girl since she was in second grade and i was in third...and we've always been close to each other. i really care about her and at first i thought it was just a best friends/ sisters kinda feelings, but then my heart would skip a beat when she'd kiss ... (222 words)

Is he giving me a second chance?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for 2 months. He broke it off and said he wanted to stay friends. So it took about 3 weeks and he took me to lunch was good had good conversation. And now were gonna be going to the movies in the next week...now is he maybe giving it a second chance? Or? Its hard ... (83 words)

What do I do in the meantime while my boyfriend is in jail?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is going to jail. I'm very confused about what to do. Here is the thing: we had dated previously and had had a very rocky relationship which ultimately ended badly. It had been a relationship full of lies and cheating and both parties took part in it. One thing ... (949 words)

Why couldn't I get hard?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so i had sex for the first time tonight and my girlfriend said she love it and we are doidn it again tomorrow. She seems honest but i really have hard time beliving it because for some odd odd reason i could not get hard. I was so ready and when we started foreplay... (277 words)

Should I see him again?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused! I just don't know whether I should go out on a date with this guy I saw over the summer. I didn't tell him that my mother died just two months shorter before I met him and he didn't tell me he broke up with his ex just two months short before he met me.At the ... (517 words)

If I end up with my Spanish teacher in the end, would I still be considered straight?

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30 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I know what love is despite what everyone will say. Yes, I'm just a 17 year old girl, but there's not a certain age that breaks the barrier of being able to be in love or not. Anyways, I'm in love with my Spanish teacher. That's not the problem. Problem is, that Spanish teacher ... (131 words)

Am I wasting my time if he doesn't love me yet?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, me and my bf have been dating a bit over three months now, and have pretty much spent every day together (we attend the same college). on christmas, he left for a trip to asia. on this day, i also emailed him telling him that i loved him for the first time. i kn... (263 words)

Is it normal for him to view porn?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend looks at porn and he dose not know i know he dose but it realy bothers me bc it makes me feel like he dont want me anymore. is this normal for him to look at it or am i just over reacting about it... (49 words)

Age difference and disapproving parents?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i decided to go back to college and further my education. I am a bit older than normal college age (late 30's). While there I've met a woman that I fell for. She tells me that she has the same feelings for me, but her family disapproves of it because of the 15+ year age ... (90 words)

Why does my penis not discharge?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have had 4time sex with different different girls from past 4-5days. but after having sex my pennis doesnot discharge . . . . every time girl come angry that why ur penis does not discharging even girl come very tired?????????? so plzz suggest me that whts behind this ... (64 words)

Does a player ever change?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started a dating this guy i liked for a while (lets call him D) but the problem is another guy i know(M)is causing problems. I have never dated M or did any more then flirt with him and play games with him but we didnt really talk as much the month before i started ... (201 words)

What can I do about this girl I'm in love with?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i fell in love with my best friends girlfriend and i told her on the night of a party that we were all at. My best friend was in her car while we were talking and i told her i was in love with someone that i was afraid to tell and she kept bugging me to tell her and i told her ... (219 words)

Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course because I am writing on here. ... (237 words)

Are these feelings wrong for me to have?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in love with my boyfried we have been together for over a yr. i was talking to another guy when we hooked up. i recently chatted w/him and i kind of feel like i want to talk more to him. i feel quilty b/c i like i wouldn't mind seeing him again but i know where it will ... (70 words)

I lied about my virginity so what do I do now?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sort of seeing this boy who is 20 even though i am 15 and we are thinking about having sex, the bottom line is i told him i was not a virgin and i dont know what to do. plz help xx... (46 words)

Do I try and show her father I've changed? He's a cop.

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok , I live in a small town wehre everyone knows everyone. As a teenager and in to my ealrie 20's i went through the whole bad boy stage. Ditching school , drinking, fighting, racing cars, drugs, tattoos, I did jail time for break and enter and drug possesion. Now that I'm that ... (281 words)

What does it mean when a girl "appreciates" you?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - this girl i really like tells me the other day that she appreciates me. what does she really mean? ... (19 words)

Why didn't he let me know where he was being deployed?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I made a male friend 3 years ago. He's is in the USAF and we met on a temporary duty. We kinda liked each other so became quite friendly and flirty , but never intimate. He left soon enough and started emailing since. We shared jokes, thoughts and keep in touch kinda stuff. ... (234 words)

Is it okay to think of her when I masturbate?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, im 14 and has been in a relationship for a week, and i just wanted to know that is it ok for me to not master bate thinking of her,... (31 words)

What is this emotion I get?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i've been with my girlfriend a couple of months now, and we have connected, spiritually, emotionally/mentally, and physically. NO! We have not had sex, and we're proud that our relationship doesn't rely solely on sexual purposes. But once in a while, we get into ... (139 words)

Should I make one last effort to commit to him?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age - I was about to split up with my bf and child's father but xmas he has been making an effort. I had been so unhappy - hardly saw him. Did not introduce me to his family etc. Well there is still away to go. He asked me if I loved him and I could not answer as I had gone of... (157 words)

Why does he lose his erection during sex?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im 24 years old and my boyfriend is 42 when we have sex he loses his erection why is this? he stays hard when we have foreplay... (27 words)

I march to the beat of a dfferent drum...I just don't know where I fit in anymore?

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30 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I've always done my own thing in life- marched to the beat of my own drum so to speak. I just feel like the odd one out at times because I have different interests than people my age. I never liked to go to parties or clubs- it’s too crowded, I can’t hear anything, and don’t ... (207 words)

I have faked it for 10 years...help?

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30 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - i have had sex for 10 years and have never felt any sexual pleasure form it for ten years i have faked it. it hurts becasue my marriage is now over becasue it gets worst everytime, i know i wont feel nothing os i dont get horny. oral sex only gives me some form of pleasure for ... (84 words)

Can someone tell if you are having an orgasm in the shower?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I Orgasm in the shower at least once a day, most days more than that. I was wondering, I live with a roomate, do you think she knows what I'm doing in the shower? ... (34 words)

Do mixed signals mean he likes me?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy i know, we get along pretty well, we have our moments but then at times He Acts like he likes me- then he ignores me! i just get all these mixed signals.... at times i catch him looking at me in class, when we watch movies together he cuddles me..and if he to... (195 words)

Is it normal for me to have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we still have a passionate relationship and have sex up to 3-4 times a week, we try different things such as sex outside, sex against the wall, sex in different rooms, i love it and orgasm everytime... but i feel guilty because when he ... (209 words)

At what age do the majority of people settle down?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At what age do the majority of people settle down at? In a sense of have a relationship that will work and last.... (23 words)

How do I handle this habit of my mothers....she wants whats best for me, but we disagree on what that is...

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom has this strange habit, and I´m curious as to what it means. I´ve never been married and not sure I want to be. I have this childhood friend, and I only think of him as a friend. He´s a good friend and I like him as a person but he isn´t my type at all. I´m not sur... (676 words)

I need to know all the risks of having sex!

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :).... (56 words)

Are these signs he's planning to propose?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my fella have been together for 9 months now, we tell eachother everyday how much we love eachother, we do everything together, have alot of fun. hes my best friend aswell as my lover. thing is hes brought me a lovely ring for christmas which i loved (wasnt an engagment ... (244 words)

How do long distance relationships work out?

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30 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So right now im a member of this site where gay or bi guys can chat, share pics, share music... its basically a myspace for dudes only but betta den them otha sites cuz u dont gotta pay nuthin to earn gold memba status or nuthin like dat (btw this site is very good and its ... (108 words)

Did he get his ideas from a porn movie?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed doing this but i just wanted to ... (140 words)

Loneliness or desperation?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - loneliness. for the whole of 2009. i have not dated not even talk to a guy in the process of dating him. now i dont need a guy to be happy but i like the companionship n knowin someone to b there for me.there is this guy thas been there all year ive seen him in and out of ... (186 words)

Ex leaving threatening messages!

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30 December 2009 (F)

- Hi, I have recently emigrated to another country with my 9 year old son. I am a single mother and have been for some time. My son has had very little contact with his father during his 9 years of life (even though his dad lived only 5 minutes down the road). He would only ... (715 words)

It sticks out a bit. Is this normal?

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30 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - It is a bit embarrassing to talk about. So,I have a large clitoris. I wonder ,if it means anything.Some people says ,I could be more of a lesbian because of that. I', confused. Is this normal? Its not like a penis,but if there is a naked picture, you can see it a bit stick out. ... (60 words)

What to do with a three-year online relationship punctuated by a handful of real-life meetings

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's a part of me that's just shaking my head at the fact that I'm posting a question like this. I am very, very aware of the whole wishful thinking element involved. By the same token, I'm also aware of the fact that people that I click with are few and far between. So with ... (653 words)

Should I throw in the towel with him?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year(Im a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my x bff who knew I liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. Be4 I got my chance to show him how i feel he starts dating a girl named Shelly. Year later they broke up I ... (198 words)

Might be Pregnant again after break up

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here goes... I've been in an on again/off again relationship with a mn 11 yrs older then me since February this year... its been a wild ride including a miscarraige ... the thing is before I found out I was pregnant I had given up on the idea of us because for one he didn't ... (181 words)

Morning after pill will it affect me if I'm already pregnant?

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30 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex a a week ago wid my ex and i think i might be pregnant n then i had unprotected sex again monday morning with this guy i was seeing n am thinking of taking the morning after pill tomorrow will it effect me if i am already pregnant ... (52 words)