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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Going out with best friends brother? A do? A don't? How do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is about boys! i'll begin from a year before.oh by da way i'm 15 So last year during December i was going through some problems and i was in a real state, so i went to my best friends house, and she wasn't there, her brother (Jack) a year older than myself open... (831 words)

What does it mean when she says this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a women you like says this to one of your friends? ", he is a lovely lad but im not sure if i like him in that way but i dont really know," Does that mean she only wants to be friends? ... (58 words)

What is consider to be a pedophile? Do these situations fall under that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi guys another question that keeps popping up in my head if your a teenager and your thinking of/having sex with someone else around your age is it considered as paedophilia and another question if your under 14 and your thinking of/ having sex with someone older th... (61 words)

I'm afraid she's going to fall in love with her ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So im with my Girlfreind, ive been with her a year, and we was best freinds, i mean as close as two people can get without going out, for four years before that. im 18 shes 19 Shes my first girlfreind, im her second boyfreind, the only other relationship she had was... (251 words)

Girlfriend and ex talks more to each other than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok i recently broke up with this girl for reasons than were explained in my previous question and i have now a new girl friend this is not a bad thing but what is bad is that my current girlfriend and my ex have now become very very close friends now when ever i get the c... (207 words)

We almost had sex and now b/f is very quiet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - me nd my boyfriend have been together for bout 6 months :) anyway, im underage and hes older and we are both virgins so we waitin for my 16th to first "do it" but a couple of days ago..we almost did.. and ever since then hes been really quiet...hes still nice and all that, bu... (84 words)

Do I even have a right to be angry that I was led on even though he never fully committed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok now where to start? I met this man at a bar (o such a wonderful place to meet them) sarcasm by the way. We were friends for about 3 or 4 monthes. At that time i stupidly suggested we have a friends with benefits relationship, and of course he agreed. You see I never intended ... (429 words)

Should I contact the ex after this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me about a year ago (she said that she "didn't love me"). I went no contact from that day but for the following few months she would contact me, want to talk but then simply act all cold towards me, saying "if i loved her i wouldn't have let her go", that ... (304 words)

I am white and married a black, hubby doesn't see how mean many of his race are to me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married to a black man for 20 years. my problem...well...i am not black and when we go places together i always get the snobby,rolling eyes and staring hard at by black women. some who goes as far as trying to flirt with my husband bluntly in front of me as some ... (287 words)

How could he be mad because she saw a picture of his very own baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a child with a man who has children with another woman as well. The other woman lives with him. My friend posted a picture of OUR baby on her profile on a social network. He instantly got mad and stopped talking to me once he noticed it. The other woman knows about the ... (89 words)

I have no money, a son I cannot leave, and a marriage I am dying to get out of... should I pursue my affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 20 years - he very much in love and me only staying in the relationship for my teenaged son. Thru facebook I met an old schoolmate that I didn't really know in school and we proceeded to have some fun banter back and forth. From the very minute ... (161 words)

I'm feeling vulnerable and stupid, please someone, is this possible friendship ruined now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age - Ok, I met this guy thru work, we don't work for the same company he delivers product to us at least 2-3 days per week. He gave me a christmas card before I gave him mine. I know we have been flirting, so I wrote in my card call me sometime, but I did not leave my number. We ... (498 words)

If you fit the description, what are your 'must haves' in a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If you have all of the following: You're a heterosexual woman who's been in several relationships Goals, that you are working toward, that are your own, e.g. career, financail freedom, kids, charity A great relationship with your father when you were little A mother who wa... (128 words)

She drives me nuts - after two years I don't know if it's going to get better or worse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i need some advice.... my significant other drives me nuts. she micromanages me and doesnt get how it would irritate a man. if I am cleaning the stove and I press to hard to put the electric stove into its place, she'll jump forward in my space and say let me do it. I'll... (601 words)

I am unhappy in my marriage, should I get a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I just told my wife I am not happy in our marriage of 2 and 1/2 years. We dated for 5 years prior to getting married. We have no children and both of us are skeptical about even having them. Which is weird cause when we first started dating we both wanted children. Through ... (596 words)

We had an argument, I kicked him out and he found someone else. I want my husband back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with my boyfriend for three years and we got married on the 7th june this yr beleive it or not. wat a joke. i had a bad arguement i told him i didnt love him and kicked him out, but i lied i do love him i just said it in anger. now his gone for 6 weeks met someone come ... (284 words)

More submissive then he is Dominant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a submissive into the BDSM lifestyle and ive been with my Dominant/boyfriend for over a year now. My problem is, he's not Dominant enough for me. i know hes young, (25) but i just never see/feel him trying to become a better Dominant. Ive recently had to take away a good... (313 words)

Should I have sex with ANY guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - should i have sex with any guy. i am always horny and i am always chanting online with guys and it always end up with we talking about sex should i hook up with this guy.... (36 words)

Trust issues with the boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i need alot of edvice on this one...i have trust issues with my bf and i really think that our relationship is getting rocky but i dont want to loose him, we both think we have a some what un healthy relationship becuse of trust isuues, but we both dont want to end i... (107 words)

I want to kiss my teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, k I'm a girl going to school and i have this hot teacher. when i have him by me in class all i want to do is kiss him. I'm always smiling at him. i go to his class when he doesn't have students so we can talk. i want to kiss him and i think he knows. should i kiss hi... (95 words)

Are these synonyms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a difference between cuming and an orgasm or are they the same thing? do they happen at the same time?... (22 words)

I love my dad and my boyfriend. Why is he making me choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for 5 months. He works for my dad and my father hates him (and that's an understatement). My father forbade all contact with him even when we weren't dating. We were just sitting on the hood of his car at a party when my dad drove up (he... (226 words)

I like speaking to her and calling, but she does not. Am I wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - if a long term g/f tells you that she thinks having to call u while she is out with her friends is being up her ass, what does that mean? lol..I thinking calling each other, saying where u are going, letting each other know where u are is part of bonding in a relationship, for ... (223 words)

Marriage problem with my wife's attitude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i wonder if i can have some advice. my wife behaves so differently since we were married. tell you how. for the past 5 years of marriage, if i take pictures of her she goes extremely angry. for the past 5 years of marriage, if i start to DISCUSS to her about anything we... (359 words)

Should I report my manager for coming on to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To get started, I'm 17 and my manager at work (who's a 30 year old loser, by the way) has been pushing himself on me. Saying crap like, "I love you!" or "Are you willing to date me?" Does he honestly think I'm that stupid? I find it amusing because I'm not dumb and I can see ... (111 words)

How can my boyfriend not understand we need to go slow when it comes to losing our virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a little over a month just tried having sex with me last night. We had not done anything other than making out so at first I thought he was going to finger me but then he unbuttoned his pants. I asked him what we were doing and he said having sex and I told him ... (185 words)

How can I win her trust back after we both had an affair?

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24 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had an affair, ihad an affair first, but she didnt know. She had an affair because she felt like shit. I want to get back with her, emotionally i am attached to her. I know that things will never be the same, i dont want them to be the same, has i had an affair first. ... (65 words)

Can I date an ex-prisoner? I teach in prisons.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i work in a prison as a teacher , recently i met a guy who was an ex - prisoner.can i date him - because i love him very much.... (30 words)

Is is "better" to be a close friend to someone, or a love interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is is "better" to be a close friend to someone, or a love interest? Assuming the person sees these two things as mutually exclusive... And is there a way to transfer from one to the other?... (37 words)

Dear cupid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Guys and Girls, I sincerley hope you all have a problem free 2010!! and all your dreams come true... Happy Christmas. Love NatMarie. xxx... (30 words)

We talk a lot but does he like me more than that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this lad that i've known for like a year, we was sort of seein each other last year but then i moved and we didnt see as much as each other and it faded out. We recently started talking to each other in the past two months but online. I really still like him a... (195 words)

I'm insecure and he finds other women attractive, how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend, but he did something that reallyhurt me and makes me angry, as insignificant as it may sound and I can't let go! So, he was angry with me on Tuesday. That day I called him and he told me that he had seen so many really hot chicks in the street (he ... (617 words)

How do you give the perfect hand job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well, im 19 and my girlfriend is 19 also. she wanted me 2 ask the public of DearCupid hoow do i give the perfect hand job?... (26 words)

What do guys like in oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - wat do guys really want in a blow job..therre are sites that tell you what to do but i really want to please him so i need to kno if im doin the right things frm a guys point of view..... (41 words)

Was it wrong of me to get him a gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I gave my crush a Christmas gift that he loved. Maybe I didn’t give it to him but he got it because I gave it to his cousin and my best friend g. He thanked me by texting right after he got it. He said that it was a good surprise. I told him that I liked him a while ... (324 words)

I'm female and in love with my teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there im girl . i have a problem very big problem . i dont like boys and i hate that, so i just fill in love with girls , and other problem (now i fill in love with my teacher every day i love her more) im so upset for my self so please any one can help me please please... (81 words)

So is my gut instinct correct that he is just being friendly after all?

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24 December 2009 (F) - I occasionally go out for an afternoon coffee with a female friend of mine and the other day she emailed me to tell me that she thought the guy at the coffee shop kept looking at me. The last few times I have gone in the shop he has asked me if I have had a good day (but th... (303 words)

Is 5 inches too small?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 18 a virgin with a 5 inch penis........i am really shy when it comes to sex...am i an ok size ... (22 words)

Is cheating acceptable? Why would they want to stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About two months ago I split with my fiance of over 4 years. We were living together and engaged. We hit a bad patch and instead of trying to solve things, she went looking in private and then cheated on me. Two months later I threw her out when I found out, and now the guy she ... (222 words)

I'm so through with letting people into my heart

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I've got this computer till after Christmas. I am 19 not a manwhore (3 partners) and have been in a relationship with a long time friend of 12 years for 1 year and we have a daughter which is now 6 months. My mother died when I was 15 and it was to cancer, my house was a ... (404 words)

I love my boyfriend but he keeps hurting me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I've been dating this guy for a while. and we been through everything.okay frist off I have trust problems, I don't trust anyone. But he came along and he was the one. Like everything I liked he like. But one day I lie to him about not talking to my ex and he found ... (250 words)

Confusion about masturbation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, im a 16 male and i masturbate quite a lot maybe evan 3 - 5 times a day and its kind of like a habbit to me, for some reason im getting really horny really easily but then sometimes when im horny i wont get an erection but i will masturbate till i ejaculate, everytime i ... (78 words)

It was from sex to cuddling, is this progress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been having sex with this guy a few times and he is a really good friend... its kind of a big deal that we have crossed that line... The first couple of times it was just about the sex...but last weekend when we had sex, it was slow, sweet and we kissed thru most of it.. ... (92 words)

Why am I so dry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my new boyfriend are both 16 and sexually active..we've known each othersince about 10 years old but he just recently told me how hw felt which sparked a relationship..with my previous sex partners getting wet is absolutely nevr a problem for me but with him mit is..i ... (70 words)

Should I find someone who can be with me all year long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for 3 years. He helped me when my bf of 2 years broke up with me, and has made it clear that he likes me alot. And I adore him. He lives 5 hours away, but he's gonna come spend the summer with me. But when I text him, he doesn't always text me back, so I try ... (109 words)

Flirting without being bold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This a just a general question. I want to know how to flirt with a guy without coming across as a bold or bad girl??? Any tips? ... (27 words)

Same sex relationships..are they wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old.. since i was 14 i have wanted to sleep with another girl... the problem is that i have no idea what to do.. I'm too shy and i don't even know how to approach someone... also there are people that i have confided in that have told me that is morally wrong... is ... (70 words)

Futanaria..anyone give me any info about this web site?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question... This really weirded me out when I found pictures of girls with dicks on his computer. Futanaria iswhat it's called and I think it's kind of messed up. Can anyone give me anything about this??I m kind of freaking out. He even got a paid subscription to ... (66 words)

Trying to lose weight the easy way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna loose weight do anybody have any advice on a diet pill or drink..I was lookn into the kardashians quicktrim diet but fda hasn't approved it but gnc will be saling it really soon..pros and cons or anything that you have takin that can help me..thank you... (48 words)

S This Relationship Going Anywhere??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 yrs old and I've been dating a 38 yr old man for 10 months... he seems to have a problem with commitment but no problem with me spending time with him and his kids.. They adore me and I them... why would he include me in the time spent with the kids if he doesn't want to ... (60 words)

I need someone who loves me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Im donr beying alone. Im done beying depressed and feeling sorry for myself..i need my own life from my parents. And i wanna be in a relationship someone,some one that trully cares about me and i care about them. I dont care if it's a girl or a guy...becuase ive been ... (170 words)

I don't want to ruin his marriage but he took my soul and I cant move on!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lived in Singapore for 2 years and ready to move to the States for college. Before I left, I prayed hard that I would taste what real relationship is because I have never really been in one. I only had flings. I was a virgin until I met this bunch of US military guys th... (514 words)

Am I depressed? Unlucky? Both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have quite a happy life, but I'm always in a bad mood. I rarely go outside, and i can't stand sunlight. This is caused by me being secluded within my own thoughts. people have tried to make me happy, but it never work. Every time i get happy, something bad happen that sends ... (67 words)

I'm scared of my boyfriend at times but afraid to end things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend complains about everything I do. He goes through my cell phone, follows me to the grocery store, check to see if I am at work, wants sex everyday, hates my best friend(female), goes through my mail, tells me how to dress, and I am scared of him at times. I'm ... (110 words)

He hasn't said it but I think he needs space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost five months. We love each other a lot and lately have been doing..more things. It started as the kissing/ making out thing, then we started the hickey thing. Then it was the getting on each other thing, now the undoing the bra ... (199 words)

I see the light, but I still feel in the dark.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all. looking for some guy and girl perspectives here. i'm completely open to any and all of your helpful input. i've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 and a half years. things were always great...of course some ups and downs. the important thing is that we always m... (750 words)

Is there a condition where people consider themselves blameless no matter what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend confuses me. We fell madly in love and we've been through heaven and hell together but it made us strong. But he is very manipulative and spiteful. We argue and he always manages to turn it around on me somehow even though I know I havent done anything wrong to ... (546 words)

Like me or Heartbreak?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so I meet this guy 2 months ago and I really like him. We don't talk on the phone we only text eachother, and When we are together though all we really do is listen to music and make out. which is fine but I guess my question is. Sometimes when I am with him it seems like I ... (83 words)

Can't orgasm without vibrator!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

- Heya, I'm a 20 year old woman. When I was about 15- 16 years old, I realised I could not achieve orgasm via touching. At that time, I spent loads of time trying to use my fingers, but nothing would ever happen. So I started using vibrators. They worked really well. When I sta... (271 words)

20 and no sex drive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP! I'm 20 years old and have absolutely no sex drive anymore! It started a few months ago, I just couldn't get horny no matter how hard I tried, I thought I might be gay but that really grossed me out, it's really affecting me with girls obviously, any suggestions, remedies?... (51 words)

Are we moving far too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Iv"e met this guy and he needs to move but he needs someone to help him pay the other half of the rent. we have seen each other 2 weeks but,I also have to give a 30 day notice so I actually would'nt be able to move in until jan 31 is this to soon? I really like him. but I'm ... (78 words)

Should I invest everything for this girl or have a back up plan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay..so i have fallen madly in love with this other girl on the internet. im 20 and she is 17. from the first chat,things just flowed and its gotten to a ridiculously sweet level that it scares me! we havent talked on the phone yet as she lives far off but we communicate via ... (188 words)

Should I resume contact with my first love who broke my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - On June the 25th 2007 I got my first taste of heartache. My long distance girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. I felt the worst pain of my entire life on that day, and I never felt that I would recover. It was the worst time of my entire life. Now, almost 2 and a half yea... (261 words)

Very Confused-Marriage or back to being single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age - 2 posts combined into 1: I've been married to a wonderful man for 9 yrs but in September he decided that I didn't treat him well and asked for a divorce. There was no other woman. Since he is working out of state and we saw each other only 2 weekends a month,even though I... (354 words)

He gives a damn while my boyfriend doesnt! Which one do I chose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had previously been going out with my boyfriend last year but broke it off when i had feelings for someone else. Ever since then I regretted it so when the opportunity came to get back together i jumped at it. We've been going out for 4 months now. I hardly see him and on the ... (124 words)

Tell him or lock it in my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel confused and wrong. I'm 17 and i'm crushing on my 29 year old teacher. i have it bad, i can't stop thinking about him and being around him makes me excited and happy as well as nervous and scared. i need help i dont know why im feeling this or what it even is, is it a ... (106 words)

Which one likes me and which one should I go out with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so i need some help i am 13 and iv liked the same guy for 3 years and i like everything about him but he can be a jerk to other people but not to me and i dont think he knows i like him but i relly do!! And he always gave me hugs when i had a boyfriend but not when i dont ... (230 words)

My ex has a new boyfriend, better in everyway than me. How am I supposed to get a girlfriend of equal looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I, let's just say we were about equal in looks. I'm introverted (most of the time), and she likes extroverts. She got a new BF that is very socially confident, outgoing, charming, taller, and probably intelligent. Hands down, better than me. How am I supposed to get a ... (90 words)

How can a woman stay with the man she's with, if someone better comes along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If women are turned on more and more as a guy gets more confident, wealthier, higher in status, famous, stronger, bigger, wittier, etc, how are they able to fall in love, and have a relationship without feeling like going off with a guy who is better than who she's with? ... (52 words)

I told him I had been treated for genital warts after we had sex? Would you forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with someone and didn't tell him I had been treated for genital warts nine months ago. I felt guilty and told him after we had sex. Would you forgive me?... (32 words)

Can anyone make me feel better about this? I think porn has changed the way people perceive women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

24 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I had a boyfriend a few years back and we'd both never done anything with anyone. when i trusted him, i took my clothes of for the first time in front of him and the first thing he said was "Urgh, youre not like the girls off porn" I was very upset and ran out the room and ... (142 words)

Do other girls do this? He's changed things up in our sex life!

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24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and our sexlife is great, but the last month, he has been changing things around and I'm wondering if any other girls do this. He will start with vagina sex, then go to anal, then immediately after put it in my mouth until he ... (90 words)

I am very attracted to my professor's daughter. Could I be in love?

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24 December 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I feel very attracted to my college professor's 16 year old daughter. As sad as it may seem, I've never truly been in love. I have had girlfriends (I just got out of a relationship that lasted one year), but I never felt this way about them as I do with her. She's almost lik... (105 words)

I can't handle getting treated with no respect, I could use some advice on how to fix that!

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24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i have a problem with my bf. he can be the biggest sweet heart ever but then sometimes its like he doesnt care, i wanted to think its because he is a guy and they like there space and i kinda think he acts this way because of that but i dont think thats the whole re... (187 words)

Why isn't he staying for me?

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24 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend so much and i am so afraid to lose him. We have been together almost a year. But we are from different country. We are get on well but he is going back his country soon. I want him to stay with me and i wana spend my future with him. He is so nice to me but ... (167 words)

He is really hurting me!

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24 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this man for atleast 4 years we got really close within the first year and since then i have always been attracted to him about a year ago i fell in love with him but by then he had found a girlfriend we text and talk every day except from when he is with his ... (321 words)