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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I ask a sophmore out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am fourteen years old, and there is this really pretty, and nice girl who sits next to me in Geometry. She is a sophmore and turning 16 in February. Should I ask her out? I feel like she flirts with me, but it might be wishful thinking. Please answer.... (50 words)

Was this guy just playing around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I met a guy online through Facebook and we've been talking for about 3 weeks. We have mutual friends and he goes to a law school in my hometown. He asked me if I'd like to go for coffee sometime this week and we both decided on Tuesday. We never discussed a definite ... (95 words)

Should I be bummed that he didnt ask for my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age - I met this guy through work. He is a truck driver who drives for the company I work for but works for another company he is 50 I am 49. He is divorced and a single cat. (He says this many times in front of me) to let me know? possibly? I am newly separated. I work with all men ... (479 words)

I don't want to be alone for Christmas but I feel like an intruder to join my friend and her family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does this make me pathetic? So I can't make it home for Christmas this year, and I'm trying to make the best of it. I told myself "this will be an opportunity to have a moment to clean house and organize my life a little", but I started thinking this will be the first ... (254 words)

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a university over 200 miles away, co... (359 words)

Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together then he would not be able to ... (117 words)

Is my husband cheating on me with his brother's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my husband and I have been married for over 3 years now. His brother has been dating the same girl for 2 years. My husband used to tell everyone how much he hated his brother's girlfriend b/c of a lot of her personality traits and characteristics. Whenever we see her, he ... (290 words)

Does Sex hurt as bad the second time as it does the first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time with someone I really care about a few days ago. But it hurt- a lot, and when I went to the bathroom afterward, I noticed I was bleeding a little. At first, it hurt so much and I think part of it may of been because I was feeling a little nervous, ... (121 words)

He wants boob pics, but I don't want to give him any..?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps asking me to give him a picture of my chest to him. I keep saying that i dont want to because i feel he might eventually might use it against me one day. I really love him and he is just really persistent! How can i stay with him and get him to understand?... (57 words)

Am I really that hideous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel kinda dumb talking about this on the internet but I'm so shy in real life I wouldn't even begin to know how to. I have absolutely no confidence in physical appearance's attractiveness towards the opposite sex. I'm 17 years old and I've never had a girlfriend, let ... (141 words)

Did he mean what he said about my private parts or was he really joking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were in a fight and I was making fun of the size of his penis. Then he said well what do you call that stuff sticking out of you. He meant my labium majus. I asked him about it later when we had made up. He said he was just joking and he loves it really but ... (87 words)

Why does my brother always want to wrestle?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - why does my brother always want to wrestle with me he's always asking me if we can wrestle i don't like to cause he's always on top and i can't move he's eighteen and i'm thirteen ... (36 words)

Too many women in my life....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian, I've dated guys but i've always had stronger feelings for girls, lately I have had a crush on my teacher who is 26 and my cousins friend who is 15, I'm also in a relationship that is going down hill very fast. I'm not the type of person who ... (254 words)

Found nude photos of another girl on my boyfriends camera!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I found on my boyfriends camera, in his backup memory, a couple photos of a girls VAGINA in his car. I could see her face in the reflection of the mirror in it and I recognize her as a girl I am aquantances with and don't really like. I knew he had hung out with her when ... (243 words)

What does it mean if your ex bf contacts you through a friend after you ignore them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf dumped me a little over 2 months ago and I`m still in the process of trying to move on and get over it. We were both at a small party recently and I chose to ignore him when he once tried to talk to me, enjoyed myself, and had a great time. A little while later after ... (153 words)

Does my ex have any feelings at all towards me? or is she indifferent now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with my ex for nearly 5 years. We met as friends but she was married and I had a crush on her, but obviously did not want her to know that. She was in a bad relationship with a guy she loved who she believed cheated on her. This was her second ... (730 words)

How can I know if he still loves me or just after the sex? Is there hope in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This weekend was a crazy one. I was still in contact with my ex for like twice a month since we broke up 8 months ago. At first we were treating each other like enemies but later we quit and started being friends. 4 months after our break-up he starts to initiate c... (479 words)

Is it likely I am pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My menstrual cycle is generally pretty regular, usually from around 29-34 days in length, averaging at about 33 days in the past 9 months. My last cycle was 34 days, and i had sex the night before it started, where my boyfriend came inside me. The next morning, I noticed my ... (110 words)

He's been full on hot, now gone a bit cold, wtf? But tells me he wants to be with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok - to cut a long story short - Dating guy, taking it slow as both recently-ish out of relationships. He's a nice guy who's been completely and totally f***ed over by his last 2 GF's. I'm a nice, normal girl. All is going well, both of us seemingly quite into e... (199 words)

She wants me to do things in bed that I disagree with

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I have a major problem. I have been dating this new girl for 3 months now. I have always been known as the sweet guy and I am very repsectful towards women. The thing is my girlfreidn is kinda kiny when it coems to sex. Which I think is fun but she wants me to cum on her ... (111 words)

I had a miscarriage and I can't move on, how long will I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a miscarriage in September 2008, i was nearly 4 months gone. I had to have my baby surgically removed on the 8th October 2008 and it broke my heart. I split up from my long-term boyfriend and was in deep depression for months (i also have bipolar). Im with a new man now, ... (149 words)

My boyfriend is so lazy, I feel like his mother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

- my bf seem so lazy all the time and im starting to feel like his mother. when i ask him to do anything he take weeks to do it. for a few examples i asked him 7 weeks ago if i left one of my fave tops at his and he still not looked, 8 months ago i gave him a housing form to fill ... (189 words)

I found porn on his computer, why does he need it??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi should i be worried , i stayed round my boyfriend house and was on his computer when i noticed a porn website that he vists should i say something to him , or keep quiet about it and why does he look at this when he has me as his girlfriend ... (54 words)

I asked him if he was gay and he stopped talking to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so here is my problem... so was in a realationship for 7 months... i actually had real feelings for this guy... we stopped talkin on my birthday in nov.. cause i heard that he was gay.. when i asked him about he told me he wasnt gay and that i shouldnt listen to what other ... (317 words)

We show each other our private bits, is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - there is this girl but im not dating her. we do this thing where she shows me her self exposed i mean breasts and all that and i show her things like my penis is it wrong for me to encourage her to do so. i am being mature about this so your comments would be help full... (65 words)

He asks his kids for info on his ex... Should he be doing that?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been w/ the guy I'm dating now for almost 3 years. He has children from a previous relationship that ended over 10 years ago. I have no kids. Alot of times when we pick up his kids for the weekend he is always asking them certain questions and asking how does your mom feel ... (384 words)

She lives 50 miles away bit thinks I'm to smothering

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I met this girl online about 2 months ago and we hit it off and started dating. She lives 50 miles away. She works during the week and has weekends off so I try to go up on the weekends. We are VERY into each other and have already agreed to get together as soon as I ... (580 words)

I met him, really like him, he flirted, then I found out he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently went to a close friends house Party this was the first time i went out in weeks. I never really see much of my friends since they are all at collage. At my friends house Party I met this guy. I never seen him before So i asked my friend who was he. He told me his ... (265 words)

Starving for Sex with the woman I love - Am I crazy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Starving for Sex with the woman I love - Am I crazy? I feel pretty weird for even writing this, and I dont know how to even talk about it with her anymore. My gf and I have been dating seriously for almost 2 yrs now (She's a Leo and I'm a Sagittarius). I strongly believe... (579 words)

Hooked up with my neighbor, who happens to be a woman, and married... oh, and he was there too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is the strangest thing for me to talk about, but I have no one to talk to about it, literally, so I've come here. My neighbor is also my best friend. She's married and has kids. In the past she was gay (for 5 years) and we've always joked together about how if the marri... (185 words)

Is my boyfriend insecure and following the masses?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Is my boyfriend insecure? You see, he's a very nice, sweet, low profile, smart guy. Really down to earth with most things, he's like the perfect guy! But there's one thing that kind of bothers me... Sexually it's like he's been brainwashed by the masses. He likes big breast... (484 words)

How can I increase my self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - what are good ways to increase yourself esteem?... (8 words)

I can't get over him & it's killing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have not long ago came out from a 2 year relationshp with the most wonderful guy. The relationship wa sunexpected at first and it was pretty weird how we met suppose things like that happend. We were friends at first then I found out he start to develope feelings for me and I ... (282 words)

My ex has moved on with her life and is even in a year long relationship now but I keep waiting for her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this isnt going to get me anywhere but i cant help it. Its been a year and shes still on my mind all day everyday. It feels like eternal limbo yknow what i mean? Shes currently in a relationship thats about a year long and yes we do still talk often. She tells me about ... (104 words)

His family won't let him marry her because of their religion

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi thier is one guy whose relationship has been ended with his girlfriend since the girls parents dont allow her to marrya person who is not of their caste he is my friend from childhood and he also has purpose me in school days but due to my parents and our family relationship ... (144 words)

He wouldn't have sex with me this weekend. What's up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I don't know whats going on with my fiance lately. We have not had sex for a while and this past weekend I was trying to start something but nothing happend. Usually during the week we do not do anything because we get home very late. But when the weekend comes we... (156 words)

I want a baby but he says we have no savings...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband got married only last year but we've been boyfriend and girlfriend for more than 6 years and decided to get married.Now i want to have a baby bcoz Iam in the right age right now his younger than me,i am very upset with him until now he don't like to have ... (123 words)

I can't stop thinking about my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help! I had this teacher last year he was amazing he is so sweet and caring he is 12 years older than me .i really love him.I know that he knows that i like him because one of my bestfriends asked him out for me .He makes me get shivers all over when he speak to me .... (186 words)

She thinks she loves me but we've never met and I'm just not feeling it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I'm friends with. We've been friends for a while now but never met because she lives in a different country from me. We talk on the phone alot and have become really close. She tells me that she loves me, I'm the first boy to treat her right and make her feel ... (152 words)

I love my girlfriend so so much but can it really last forever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to begin. I guess ill start with the basics. I am 17 and me and my girlfriend have been going out around 5months and i am so in love with her. I can really see us being more than a high school thing and us never breaking up and shes agreed. Heres the catch ... (213 words)

The romance has gone! Does he love me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner makes me feel so worthless, i want things to change but no they are never going to but still cling on. we got together a year ago, there is 32 yrs between us (i'm 18 but that's not the problem). it was love at first sight and i know he felt it too and we always t... (693 words)

He didn't want to be with me because of distance, but now has a long distance girlfriend!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy on the internet a few years ago and we've gotten really close, though we've not met in person. We've always flirted etc but lately we just got closer and shared how we really feel for each other. However, he said this made him feel bad because... (157 words)

I need help making sense of the events, which caused our break up, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

- My g\f (now ex) was not jealous, possessive, aggressive and didn’t mind me seeing friends\family but was so controlling in other ways, especially domestically. I couldn’t wash up properly, clean properly, make the bed, i was clumsy, a grot etc. If she was in kitchen she would ... (609 words)

He broke up with me 3 days before Christmas, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my boyfriend came home from a ski trip. When he came back he told me we should break up. He said that the reason was that he felt like more of just a friend then a boyfriend and that it was better for him. I told him we can try and fix it. He said that we cant and ... (165 words)

I think I made a mistake by breaking up with her, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Agony readers, I need the best advice here. I found a girl I truly and honestly love, we dated for roughly a year and a half... I lost my virginity to her... I felt I couldn't trust her so I broke up with her. My parents absolutely hate her, even my church isn't fond of her, ... (184 words)

How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while we were broken up, but it ... (115 words)

Is he too young for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my friends on facebook asked me to add there brother coz they wanted me to add them so i did (on 12 December) and then as we started chatting. he then said that he could not help his feelings for me so i just replied ok coz i didnt know what to say back as we dont even ... (130 words)

Should I leave my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all I am writing because I do not know what to do about my relationship. I met a lovely girl, actually on a dating website (which was new to me). We have now been together for around 5 months. The relationship is for the most part a distance relationship, she lives... (497 words)

How do I find out if my new boss has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married woman, and share a good relationship with my husband. Just moved jobs,and my new boss is a really attractive man. While we behave really professional at work I feel he has feelings for me. How do I find out?... (43 words)

How do I stop this? I don't want to jeopardize my marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused by attention! Im happily married for 6 years and working. I was initially working on a project with a colleague in a different location. Later I moved to a new office location. Since then, this ex-colleague has been chatting with me and gradually started flirting... (197 words)

I kissed a girl on a business trip and now I am getting Facebook messages from her friends about our "affair"! I don't want my wife to find out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my wife have had some trouble in our relationship which unfortunately is not being resolved. We have been separated for 5 months and she is back home in her country. I was away on a business trip and talked to a girl who worked at the hotel. We were chit chatting for a ... (282 words)

Am I wrong to wonder what my husband is getting up to on his computer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i only been married three months maybe i should have asked you first my husband uses the internet a lot has loads of people he im`s i know some are people for business but about a week after we got married he let me use his computer and i tried to upload our wedding pictures ... (168 words)

Should I get back in touch with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello! I need advice as to whether I should get back in touch with my ex! Please let me know what you think... I dated this guy for only 4 months last year - we broke up about 15 months ago now. It was the first gay relationship for both of us – I had come out a couple yea... (755 words)

Should she get a divorce because of our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am a 24 yrs old guy. i m in love from last 4 yrs i love her so much but last month she got married. i tried a lot to marry her but i couldn't make her father agree bcos of castism.she told everything that guy about us before marriage. that guy didn't broke that angagement.... (169 words)

Why did he break up with me? I'm really struggling to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having trouble getting over my ex-boyfriend/babies father.My ex-friend broke up with me in Feb 09, when I was 3 months pregnant. before we get started let me say he is still in my life everyday because he watches are son while I work in the day, and he goes to work at ... (893 words)

He says he loves me but won't be with me because he's not supposed to be happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please can someone help me. I lost a baby 4 weeks ago and would be due to have my dating scan today. Since then my boyfriend has walked out on me and his parents have said it was a good thing that our baby died, as they would of made sure i had the child taken off me and put ... (193 words)

I found out my very close friend is a peophile!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a bit of a unique problem I need help with. Its not a relationship problem but its kinda something I feel I can't ask people I'm friends with incase of how they react :( I just need some advice and thoughts. For the last 3 years, I had a very close male friend, who... (485 words)

My boyfriend is 8 years older then me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and i love this guy i think he loves me to but the problem is he is 23 and everyone is saying he is too old for me and only wants one thing but we have been together for 3 months now and he havn't had sex or anything i now that it will be ilegal if we do and he said he ... (85 words)

I tried to get over my best friend and I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and in love with my beast friend, He dosn't know this and i really want him to love me back but the only problem he is gay, and i have tried to get over him and date other guys but i just cant, what shall i do? x... (51 words)

The love of my life is 24 years younger than me, but age is only a number.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am 41 and have had only a few relationships. I met an absolutely beautiful girl about 3 years ago, she is autistic, yet only on a small level. I connected with her immediately, which is unusual for an autistic person to do. I looked on the net to find out more about ... (802 words)

I kissed my cousin by accident what do I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I kissed my cousin i dont know why we was talking about something and we where close and i just kissed her i didnt mean it i felt like i was dreamin. I have this huge crush on her like huge but was never gonna tell. she didnt even move when i did it i kissed on the li... (182 words)

How can I get my friend back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi My question is what should i do about this situation my best friend tried to have sex with me and i hurt her feelings and now she hates me. My best friend is a girl she ive known her for forever we just get along so well and have alot of fun togather shes really smart. ... (651 words)

Why is my hair greasy at the moment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all i have a wierd problem at the moment i have washed my hair three times in the past 2 days and i have a patch of really greasy hair :S i have used a new product (heat protector) and i think it may be that so i have stopped using it so hopefully will go away after a w... (122 words)

As a friend I only want to help him, so what could his problem with sex be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I have a bunch of friends and we hang out a lot together. Recently I got closer and closer to a guy in this bunch and one day when we were drunk we slipped away from our friends and made out. We talked about it the next day and I said that for me , we coul... (291 words)

Everything about my boyfriend disgusts me, how do I get out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship that i don't like but i don't know how to come out of it. Everything about my b/f disgust me. I want out, but i don't know how. Pls i need help!... (36 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never had sex with my boyfriend bu i let him finger me last week and ever since i have had a sore stomach i keep thinking he might have got me pregnant he said he was toucing himself to turn him on now i am worried bu it could just be because i'm thinking about it to ... (77 words)

Getting back with my ex feels like we are a new couple again, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice about sex with my bf. I'm getting back together with my ex after being apart for a year and we agreed to give it another go. We've been talking on the phone, meeting up for lunch etc, sort of like dating all over again I guess. I'm not sure how soon is ... (148 words)

My best friend had revealed he's in love with me, but I don't feel the same!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, One of my best friends has revealed he has stronger feelings for me than as friends, but I don't feel the same... Can we stay friends? Please read it all, as there are details that change circumstances in what i've written. Thanks! I met him about 2 months ago, ... (1141 words)

I found my soulmate and things are getting hot....but she is married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We started out just being friends and now we are really close friends. Things are becoming different now. When I am around her, my heart litrally beats faster. I find myself thinking about her all day ((daydreaming)). When I close my eyes at night, I dream of us being ... (661 words)

I love and want to be with him but I feel there are so many negative points?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok people i have a complicated situations and i wanted peoples opinion about it. i have been dating this guy for 3 years now. i am in love with him and i feel he loves me too. This is my fist time being in love like this. i meet him at a college party the ending semeter of my ... (403 words)

Do girls like red headed guys?

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 20 year old guy,and im a natural red head, my question is do girls like red headed guys or do they find them a turn off?... (28 words)

Gay and in love with a straight friend, he says there is hope, but what about our partners?

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm 30 and gay. I'm still in my first relationship of three years. He is 22. We are happy with no more problems than any other relationship. But I have met a straight guy that has befriended us and he and his girlfriend have become our housefriends. I ... (194 words)

He often jokes about me getting pregnant and I'm beginning to wonder...?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago I met and got involved with a really great guy. He told me right away that he had a vasectomy, but seemd startled when I told him I couldn't get pregnant because I had an IUD. The IUD occasionally caused me some mild discomfort (nothing out of the ordinary) ... (115 words)

My friend leads a disorderly life, I worry, what do you advise?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my friend is 26years of age and she has 3 children with different fathers and now she is pregnant again, she did not finish school, she had a job then she decided to resign because she said that she was not earning enough. what makes me scared is that she is not sure who is the ... (64 words)

My married boss says he loves me, how can I forget him or should I give in?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago I started new job, my older boss Rob (Im 23 he is 44),started flirting with me like crazy. he asked me out to dinner and I said yes. We started hanging out and then things turned into more. In the beginning I thought nothing of it and just kinda thought it was f... (349 words)

Did he mean what he told me this morning?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid My married boyfriend called me this morning at 5.30am simply to tell to stop this relation, stop smsing him and its an official break up. I know that he was pressurised by his wife to call me at wee hours simply to annouce a break off. Its been half a day gone and... (84 words)

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters....

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as soon as his inside me... he realeases. thank you ... (57 words)

How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job and in the past two months ... (147 words)

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters...

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Original Title)my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as soon as his inside me... he ... (60 words)

Can anyone offer any insight into my situation?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I ended things with my first boyfriend of not even two months (I was his first girlfriend also). Not officially, but I just started ignoring him because it was getting ridiculous. I could see that it was gonna get to the point of immature name calling and I feel like I'm ... (1595 words)

Why did my on and off again boyfriend get me nothing for this Christmas this year?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - (MOD NOTE: ORIGNAL POSTERS TITLE) I got my on and off again bf of 1.5 yrs a christmas gift - he loved it. But was acting kinda weird after. We have just gotten back together. Its been bit tense between us. Anyway, the next day, he txts me and tells me he doesn't have ... (466 words)

Age gap

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a nineteen year old male who has always been into girls my own age or older. Recently a girl of 15 has started flirting and asking to date. I know her pretty well and she isn't a typical teen - she has a very mature personality and doesn't look her age, but I'm new to ... (89 words)

Built up resentment?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what to do like four months ago. my cousin n this guy i like told me im boring. i didnt speak to them about it were not that kind of people to talk things out. lately he flirts with n tried to hug me like 20 times saturday because he liked my perfume.now jokingly he still says ... (110 words)

How does love work inside the brain?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi-- I was wondering if anybody could send me a link or explanation of how love works inside the brain. What causes the joy? Butterflies? Electricity? Pain? I haven't really understood the sources I've found, and I'm just curious. The pain is so sharp, it feels like the... (68 words)

Should I wait to have sex?

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22 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have been dating the same man for 2 years now. We have been friends for several years before that. I am 19, in college and still a virgin.My question is for those who have had sex and are married, do you think that it would have been more special if you had just waited until ... (94 words)

Am I scared or just being smart?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age - I met a wonderful guy about 3-wks ago and I feel that he is moving entirely too fast. He is about 9-yrs my senior. Has been married x 4 (now divorced 8-yrs). *He says he is crazy about me *He wants me to move with in with him *It seems he only hears what he is saying and do... (358 words)

Young girl with a big problem...

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I think he loves me too. So... (278 words)

What's a good present for your friend-with-benefits?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at work during the summer and we've been in what could be considered a casual relationship for the past 5months, meaning that we have a sexual relationship but we also do just hang out and talk. It's very relaxed, no obligations. Since it's Christmas and his ... (109 words)

Trapped in an unhealthy lesbian relationship

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm eighteen and I'm bisexaul but I lean more towards girls. I've been dating my girlfriend for three years on and off, eventually we stopped hanging out with friends and litterally spent every waking momment together and the rare occassion we didn't she would cheat on ... (511 words)

Please don't lecture me, I need advice on what I should do next!

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently had unprotected sex several times within the past month or two. lately i have been feeling nauseous, tired for no reason at all, having weird food cravings, going to the bathroom more, and my breasts have been sore. i have had what i believe is my period ... (151 words)

She is too tight, how can we solve this?

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my gf have tried intercourse 5-6 times. my penis is not circumcized and I am her first sexual partner. I have had sex before, but this girl is just too tight. my penis penetrates just about an inch inside her and my foreskin is pushed back painfully. she gets aroused ... (106 words)

I'm 18 she is 14 we need some legal advise

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am turning 18 soon. my girlfriend is 14. we live in pennsylvania. we have been dating for a month. i was told i can be arrested for sexual harassment and be a registered sex offender for dating a minor, even so much as kissing her. is there a way to get a legal document ... (72 words)

He says he'll wait for me, but can I trust him?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend 20 we been dating for almost 10 months officaly but we been talkinng over a year now. he knows everything about me n i about him..im a jelous freak also n he is a lil only. He says sweet stuff once in a while. I love him with all my heartn ... (171 words)

Can I get pregnant if ....................

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend cums on my vagina but then wipes it off? It wasnt all the way inside but i kno they swim. He wiped it really good but im not sure if theres a chance i can get prego.... (45 words)

I can't do this anymore... I'm obsessed with his ex!

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm losing grip, and I'm losing my mind... I've written on here before, but I'm still suffering. Things got better, and now they're falling back into a place that is haunting me, and it's a place that I can't escape. I am 20 years old (almost 21), and my boyfriend (22) a... (907 words)

Sometimes I think I'm ready for sex, and sometimes not! So confused!

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years (he's 18 and im 16) hes had sex but im still a virgin, i love him but im not sure if im ready some times i think i am and other times not so much.im confussed and need help please. thankyou x... (56 words)

Is he feeling me or not?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy in my math class,he used to sit infront of me but now his in the back one seat away from me. i get confusing vibes from him. at first i thought he moved to talk to me but some girl in the class sits right by him,he always flirts wit her. but whenever i see his ... (202 words)

Fingering hurt really bad!

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I got fingered by a guy for the first time and it hurt realllllly bad. I was really wet and im comfortable with him but i kept stopping him because it hurt so bad. i want him to do it but its hurts too much. is this normal and what should i do?... (54 words)

I think he likes me back but I'm not certain.

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so heres the problem. theres this guy, who i have managed to really open upto and feel really strongly about. we have a great time when we are together, and im constantly craving his company, the thing is that we have actually slept together tw... (237 words)

I pushed her away because I thought I was HIV positive. I'm not, now I want her to know!

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, My situation is rather embarassing, but regardless, i'd like to know how people would handle it. I dated a very special girl for four years. Right before I dated her, I had an incident while on vacation in south east asia. I was at a crowded night club and ... (851 words)

Yaz and full protection?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I should've known better, but I am ... (102 words)

Will my family reject my girlfriend?

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my gf for about half a year, but last night when one of my cousins heard who i am dating is that girl she reject my dating. My cousin thought my gf doesn't match me, for she is a little short. Further more, my cousin told me that my aunt and other ... (136 words)

Please tell me why people (mostly straight guys) think I'm gay

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't get it. I love women, perhaps too much. I am a college student and haven't had a girlfriend in years, but occasionally have a random hookup. I am very passionate, especially in bed (of course), but I think that people are mistaking this passion for being gay. I ... (214 words)

I'm 19 and my parents are trying to control my life

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is going to be really long, so please bear with me. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. My parents don't want me to move out, therefore I was pretty much forced into going to the local college so I could live at home while I go to school. My parents didn't even ... (828 words)

Is it the winter blues that have me wanting to stay home with a mug of hot chocolate and a longing for someone to cuddle up with?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is i cannot seem to find a nice or decent boyfriend. i really want a guy i can settle into a relationship with for a while now, i have done a lot of dating (i know im still quite young but i have been with quite a few guys) (please dont think im a slut) well most... (370 words)

Wait for him? Or propose myself?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and my bf is 19. We have been dating for 1 yr and 3 months and we have lived together for 6 months. We love each other very much and have talked about getting married and having kids together. I want to marry him so badly. How long should I wait for him to propose?... (95 words)

Missing money--we think son's friend is responsible, how do I approach this?

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my son earned some extra Christmas bonus money doing a job recently and he left it in his room his friend visited that day and my son remembers seeing the money prior to the friend leaving his friend received a call from another friend saying he was owed money and needed it ... (158 words)

18 year old boyfriend can't keep it up!

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22 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months and it is going really well. We have run into an issue while having sex. It is usually amazing but for some reason he can't keep it up. He's a healthy 18 yr. old so this is totally weird if any one has any ideas of ... (80 words)

G/f doesn't want sex and I do!

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22 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well I have a weird problem. Basically the last 7 months me and my GF have not had sex. We had a 4 month break in that 7 month, neither of us had sex (her because of lack of drive, me because I love her, but thats a different story) Anyway we are back together, a... (412 words)