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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He is making my drinking an issue, and says he cant trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over nine months, and just recently my drinking has begun to cause problems. One I start, I cannot stop and I have said and done hurtful things to him in the past when I was under the influence. Jut recently, he went out with ... (139 words)

I feel my daughter is being left out - what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - My daughter is in fifth grade and is one of four girls. Two are very cliquish and are practically glued together. Buddying up with the other one is not an option as the other girl is more interested in fitting in with the two who are very cliquish. My daughter is very shy. ... (106 words)

We met during troubled times and split, but now we are dating like a normal couple

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I broke up 6 months ago. We started out in a wrong way both our marriages were ending when we met. I was in an abusive marriage . He was and his now exwife had been living as roommates for 3 years ( his ex wife told me this herself, said we made great room mates) A... (140 words)

What should I get him for Christmas if he got me a teddy bear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i get my boyfriend for christmas if he got me a teddy bear that cost 20 dollars???please help me... (21 words)

Pills to prevent pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the names of the pills used in avoiding pregnancy... (11 words)

He gets really quiet when I ask him why he doesn't like sex!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I (24, 23) have been together for around 3 months. He tells me he is crazy about me and it shows with how he treats me. Really loving, really gentle and affectionate and cute and sweet all at the same time. We spend a lot of time together and spend most nights ... (240 words)

He states he loves me, but his actions say different! Should I just leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf says that he luvs me but often times he makes me feel like im just a roommate. We r hardly intimate or there is nothing that feels like luv coming from his end. he says he luvs me,but to me his actions show me differently. should i leave or should i stay?... (54 words)

This girl I am seeing is a maniac! I need to be rid of her..help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am with a girl since a year now. it was great but now she has started dominating me big time. always suspects me of cheating on her. she HAS to check my phone every time. she WANTS all my passwords(email, facebook, bank accounts etc). she doesn't let me go out with my friends ... (157 words)

He's no longer my professor, so should I pursue a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a student in college, and this semester I got to know a professor who offered to help me with another professor's class, because I was having difficulty understanding the material on my own. Over the course of the semester, I went to this professor's office 2-3 times ... (219 words)

Having doubts about my current relationship..how do I get my bf to hear me out on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months. We both started going to different universities this year, and I had to move and rent a house far from where he lives in order to study to that university. At first I felt really excited to be with my boyfriend, and I... (454 words)

Should we take this dating relationship to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I`m in a relationship about two months and I`m really happy with my boyfriend. He is the first guy I ever let him to touch me or something like that. It`s not that I didn`t have anyone before him, but I think he is much special then my other dates. So, here`s the thing; I`d ... (123 words)

I like this guy from work..we get along very well. But..is he sincere or dodgy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're flirting rather than working. eve... (275 words)

The way my bf acts around other girls...really hurts me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for 1 year now and i have tried to tell him that the way he acts around other girls makes me feel like he doesnt care how i feel or if it hurts me but he does it anyways, what am i supposed to do? I love him and i dont want to leave him but im not ... (69 words)

Help! He's going back to his old ways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been close lately considering what we have been through recently n hes tryed to put my feelings first but ive noticed that hes slipping back to his old ways, going out all the time and coming home drunk, only tells me he loves me when we are having sex, he ... (186 words)

Why did this guy suddenly stop calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In September I started college and started casually seeing a guy that was living near me. We had both been hurt in the past and agreed that we were both happy to keep it casual. Things were fine for 2 months and then he suddenly stopped talking to me for no reason. He didnt ... (145 words)

Do I stay away till he figures things out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age - I need help! I have been broken up with commitment phobic boyfriend for almost 7 months. We were together 2 1/2 years. We got together with my daughter yesterday, he is still trying to figure out his issues of confusion. My daughter enjoys the time we spend with him immensely. ... (195 words)

Why should I take crap from my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He makes me so sad, mad and jealous at the same time. Wouldn’t it piss you off if your crush’s friends who are girls wrote on face book that they loved him and he wrote that he loved them too! Yet he treats me like crap after I told him that I liked him. He never treats me as ... (178 words)

My Dad's gf is threatening to leave him and I don't want her to! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is really hard for me so here it goes. Well I feel as if my dad and his fianceé are always arguing. Today I did not mean to but I heard what they were saying and she(we will call her Alli) is crying. They were arguing and Alli was talking about leaving him. I know there is ... (146 words)

I don't want to be his 2nd choice....how do I tell him without pushing him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy at school (college). We text every now and then, and we occasionally have some makeout sessions in his room. We've never had sex, but we've come really close. Over time, i've stronger feelings for him. We were hanging out the other day, and he told me that he ... (187 words)

Anyone have a fretish for premature ejaculators?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering if there were any girls here who get turned on when a guy prematurely ejaculates? And even like teasing him for it? From intercourse I used to last between 3-6 minutes maybe. However, when I was getting a lapdance a few years ago I came in my pants and it ... (217 words)

Could it be all he wants is sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance has asked me like once or twice if we were to ever break up could we be "Friends with Benefits". Why would he ask me this? What am I supposed to say? He says if we were to ever break up he would not come back to me, and he's also said that if we ever break up, he ... (82 words)

Is it wrong for me to get emotional support behind her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My long-time girlfriend has some serious psychological issues from external factors. I am exhausted and often depressed from dealing with her. She has few friends and I am currently the light of her world. My life would be so much easier if I were to cut and run, but I can't ... (168 words)

Relationship too intense, too fast now g/f wants break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - About a month ago I met the most amazing girl, smart attractive, easy going, pretty much everything that I wanted in a woman. After two weeks she told me that she loved me and that I was her soul mate. I feel the same way. I am the first person she has ever said that too. I am ... (261 words)

Not in committed relationship but jealous that he's seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont like getting in a relashionship cause i always end up crying and getting hurt. its been 6 months since i havent dated but i have been "friends" with alot of guys kissing..just kissing and messing around but not losing my virginty!! ok so this guy that i have been ... (143 words)

Should I say something and see if he tries to get me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, this may be a long one! So I'll be grateful for any help! I'm 15, and I met this guy who was 18. He text me etc, we saw each other a few times and spoke on msn, and I already new of him because I know a lot of his mates. I went to his 18th and then he kissed me etc, after ... (398 words)

Husband using work for coping with our problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) age - Can my husband use his work for coping with our problems? He is a great provider!No question about that!I'm thankful for it!And complement him,all the time/ We have a lot going on in our life, and I'm getting therapy for it. All kind of troubles, adult children on drug... (154 words)

Her boyfriend invited me to a gangbang with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was in a relationship with a girl for the past two years. I was sincere. I had sex with her only once.. but I wanted to do it again. Recently she broke up with me and started a relationship with another guy. But she still calls me and talks in a sexy way. Past week ... (128 words)

Family doesn't want me to be with him because he's not rich

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old.My boyfriend and i have been in a seroius relationship since 2005.My mom and my sister don´t want me to be with him because he is not rich.A week ago,my boyfriend told me to go to Portugal to go live with him but first i should talk to my mom.I told him that i ... (100 words)

Burglarized by friend and they are still stealing from me!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age - i had a big burglery by a so called friend in 2005 and they are still coming in my house now. it made me ill and i ended up under a shrink. im not on tablets now. but she was playing with my head. i changed the lock on the doors 3 times and changed the front door. but they are ... (290 words)

Terminating the relationship will hurt my career

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - i am sleeping with a guy who has a gf and he has told me that he loves his gf and not me...so basically he has been using me and i have to let go. yeah i figured this out after posting numerous posts on this site. Anyways here is the problem it is hard to leave him because we ... (143 words)

Friend that keeps pushing the boundaries

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well,I have a guy friend.We were more than friends a couple months ago,but not boyfriend/girlfriend.He doesnt want a commitment,and because of that I figured ill save myself the heartache and just be friends,who do friend things.He insisted on coming over late last night to ... (262 words)

I never should have let her go and now I want her back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I of 4 years recently separated. In June of this year I decided I wanted to marry her. I was sure. She was the only woman in the world for me. I was so close that I sat down to buy the ring, but they didn't have the diamond I wanted so I decided to wait. Then, ... (1634 words)

It is just too late? Or should I try again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, maybe you could help me figure this out! Im sorry this may get long....I have been friends with a guy for about 3 years now and when we first became friends he was into me and eventually asked me out. I did not feel the same way and so i said no but we still remained... (227 words)

Everything is a mess! Dad threatened my boyfriend and I haven't heard anything from him since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - [Mod: Stated age incorrect poster is 15] hey im 15 and my ex is 17 We broke up because my dad caught him round mine when he wasnt aloud(We wernt doing anything just sitting there chatting) and my dad phoned his mum up and started shouting at her like "im going to kill your s... (274 words)

How do I get him to stop acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear GirlShrink, Me and my boyfriend have been broken up for 3 months. And hes in a new "relationship" already, although i think its clearly not that after the break up he spent most of his time with this girl thats always just been his friend, like kinda good friends, but got ... (723 words)

I can't figure him out, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a year ago and started seeing him at work every day. I like to flirt and he was receptive and flirted back with me. He started getting me little gifts every once in a while and acting interested, but sometimes he didn't seem into me at all, you know? After a ... (248 words)

Please Help! My jealousy is ruining my relationships and I have lost custody of my son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name is [Mod: Removed to protect Identity]. I need help from someone. I'm going thru alor right now over my baby daddy. He broke up with me in feb.of 09'. And we were together for almost 4 years. We have a 2 yrs old son together. Well I tend to have a jealousy problem I ... (366 words)

I'm in love with 2 teachers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iwas and still am in love with my it teacher...he was over 20 's /30's..and i was 17 then....we started to have an affair...he was on my mind 24/7...i couldn't stop dreaming about him...i didnt want to reck his career...i suddenly found out that i was in love with my art ... (74 words)

How can I know when my BF has his orgasm so I can respond to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started having regular intercourse with my boyfriend. We both enjoy being a little bit vocal during the act and since my boyfriend always wears a condom I'm not quite sure when he actually has his orgasm. I'd like to respond to it so are there any clues to look out ... (55 words)

Fetishes and fantasies, are we normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi i have a extra ordinary fantasy, i would like my boyfriend to tie in bed both his hands and legs and then have intercourse with him. how do i ask him and 2nd thing is he likes to dress like a lady, he asks me for my skirts and blouses and all my undergarments, i... (97 words)

He married me for my money and cheated, but I love our children.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age - I married a man who seemed perfect. We both have 2 children each. Everyone thinks he's perfect, my parents, my friends, I can't talk to any. After 1 year of marriage I found out he had been cheating on me b4 we married, when he and his kids moved into my house and after we ... (231 words)

I like this boy so much, but he just confuses me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for more than half the year now. Ever since i met him i felt like we have had a connection. Whenever we both used to get really drunk we hooked up. We have stopped this and said we would never do it again and since then become really close friends. I have ... (107 words)

My BF is being really controlling... could this get worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is being very overprotective (or is controlling a better word?) at the moment (this has never been an issue in the past). For example, he doesn't like it when I hug my guy friends; he'll get all tense when I do. He's been touching my face and hair a lot too. ... (69 words)

We like each other but are too shy to express ourselves!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - a girl likes me and i like her but we havnt been able to express our selves. i am too shy what do i do?... (25 words)

My partner appeared in an adult movie to get money to support her and our baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have come across that my current girlfriend was recently in an adult film. we weren't together at the time, but we have a child together, i am 22, we had our daughter when we were 20 we were together for 1 year prior to the baby's birth. We had separated while ... (465 words)

I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The reasons I cited were: 1) I didn... (567 words)

I am getting all the communications from his friends, but little from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his was trying to make me catch him ... (232 words)

I want to talk girl talk with my mother, but she doesn't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help everybody! I have communication problems with my mother, I want to talk to her about some "girls' things" but I can't, she never had "the talk" that every mother has to have with her daughter; So I really want her to understand that I can't find anyone else to talk ... (92 words)

My ex hacks into my computer and has sent nude pics of me to my dad

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Disaster. My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice. He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad. What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's just a freak like that. How... (77 words)

I have a crush and we are meant to be friends but sometimes she wont even talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl are supposed to be friends because she said she wanted to be friends. However I am pretty sure she has a crush on me and she already knows I like her. As every time me and her walk past each other her best friend looks at me and glances back at her with a s... (552 words)

A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? thnx..x hes 24.. am 20... (72 words)

I love him but he has no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i love him so much but he got no time for me at all, we dont see each other i want to give him space so that he can miss me but i cant, what should i do? ... (40 words)

Why are some guys only interested in sex, I am losing faith in love

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why do some guys.. make you think HE REALLY LIKES YOU..but he just wants sex... when you DO GIVE in he never calls you again.. and if u DON'T GIVE in he doesn't call and changes his number?? why are all they looking for one night stands?? ive been single for ... (132 words)

I would blow my friends off for him,,but wont blow his off for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiiya, i really need your help. Im so confused and upset. There is this boy.. We are in the same year at school and same year. we have about 8 lessons together a week, that is out of 25. We have been pretty close for about 2 years now... but there is one problem, i have ... (257 words)

I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm reasonable and rarely get angry. ... (304 words)

We broke up and he has a new girl, but he knows I am still in love with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my ex broke up almost a year ago, and since then have remained really good friends, he told me that if i changed my attitude and was the girl he fell in love with again i would be hard to resist, we talk all the time (i live with him, for financial reasons) but hes got a ... (88 words)

I love a girl from afar and she just ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so im new to this web and im desperate. Im 13 going on 14 in march. I have liked this girl since second grade. Now that im in 8t grade I fell everyday she keeps slipping away. Shes dating people more popular and closer to her group and doesnt know I exist. She says hi to all ... (76 words)

I love her and I just want to be with her, but how to let her know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend and i love her but want whats happiest for her and idk how to tell her i love her. i don't want to make it awkward because i know she likes me but i love her and i just wanna be with her... (51 words)

My friends don't take me seriously, there is either a problem or I am too needy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

12 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My friends seem to not take what I say seriously- when I tell them something they kind of brush me off or not take what I say to heart. Maybe I'm being too sensitive, but it feels like they don't really care about me or my life. But then when they have a problem, they come ... (149 words)

I am living the American Dream, so why am I not happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for six years, since we were twenty-three; married for two years. I'm currently pregnant with our first child, a son. Both my husband and I grew up decently. The most "worse-off" either of us have ever been was when my husband's dad di... (266 words)

A guy I dated between his prison sentences wants to go out with me again, but I don't know if I should or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for several months and he broke up with me cause he went to prison and then we dated again after he got out but he went back for 2 years and then we where friends for a while but he went back again. He wonts to go back out with me when he gets out should i con... (84 words)

I want to improve my relationship with my mother, but don't know where to start

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok can someone tell me some tricks to get closer to my mom. last year i graduated highschool n didnt introduce her to any of my friends. that really hurt her. i mean a few met her after we graduated but it still plays on my conscience.(if i cud take it back i wud) then later i ... (371 words)

I don't know if I am being paranoid, or if there is a problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently seeing a married man who had separated from the wife before we met. He told me the truth from the start and we had a beautiful friendship. My gut at the time told me to give him a chance, after all, he was the sweetest guy I had met he spent time with me, did ... (1290 words)

I'm nearly sweet sixteen and he is twenty ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I just met this guy about a month ago through a couple of my good girl-friends. He is really nice and is so sweet to me, which some guys aren't because Im kinda overweight. I really like him and I don't know how to show that I do without being annoying or really obvious. I ... (134 words)

He cheated with his ex, now we are FWB

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with this guy for 8 yrs and then a year and a half ago I caught him cheating with his ex wife. he left and i moved out,and since then we have became friends with benefits. what i would like to ask is, i want to end it but i do not know how , how do i tell him it is ... (90 words)

Do they ever come back and commit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever been involved with someone who wasn't ready to be in a full blown relationship, and then later after some time apart, the person wants to be with you afterall? I dated a guy for 8 months, but he was still hurting from a break-up, was having job troubles and... (157 words)

I can't be happy without a man in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't stand being single anymore! I was involved with a guy for 9 months, not seriously but then he moved and our romantic relationship ended. It's been 3 months since he left and I'm still having trouble moving on. I know he wasn't that great, but it was better being with ... (203 words)

When I decided to marry my female friend, who was my friends g/f became very distant!

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12 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i utilize thus to express my feelings, in the open. i have a female friend, girl friend of one of my male friends, whom i met and introduced by her boyfriend. we developed a very good company and we were loving so much. this is a case where the term love does not mean living ... (758 words)

I want to get back together, he wants to be casual and not rush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

12 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows my intentions now.(to get ... (327 words)

I have to initiate all physical contact, and even then he sometimes wont respond!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me, and we've been together for just 4 months? Thing is, he really loves me, as I can feel it. We hold hands and stuff. But, when it comes to hugging or kissing, he doesn't really like to do it in the public and i would be the one who ... (430 words)

My boyfriend says he's tired of me

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12 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls on facebook and he completely ... (522 words)

My cheatin' man has eyes for my man eatin' friend!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am having some relationship issues here is my problem He did it again he wants to talk to her again but i fear her might fall for her again like last time and if he does i will be heart broken and i love him to death i fell in love with this boy but idk if he feels the ... (237 words)

Unwanted by my father, abused by family member

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm crying as i write this and feel so silly for doing it. i feel like my brain isn't functioning properly sometimes like theres something missing, i feel like i don't think like other people. it's only in the last couple of months that I've kind of accepted it i just don't ... (469 words)

1 year anniversary panic!!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello my boyfriend and i have almost made it to our 1 year anniversary and i was stressing myself over what to get him this month! what should i wear and how do i wish him ive already made a scrap book, given him a teddy bear , chocolates and sweaters before but this time i w... (153 words)

My period problem...

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Eh, this is a bit awkward, so please i am very sorry if it is too much info. I have irregular periods, meaning I have a period about once every 3 months, well, I started using vitex (chasteberry) a while back, and my period began on time, (it was a little weird though, it was j... (234 words)

How can I make him hate her and love me instead???

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12 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - i am sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend that he cannot sleep with because of her religion. Anyways i am confused. people have told me that he is playing me and i think he is. he has said some really hurtful things to me like he loves her but he doesn't love me and it is ... (128 words)

How do you get tested for bacterial vaginosis?

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well im new to this so i hope you can help me, i think i have a STI Bacterial Vaginosis so yh im just wondrin dose any one no how the test is done because i dont want any1 lookin at me ;/ Hope you can help Thank you... (52 words)

Help!! Confused and Hurting. How do you know if it's love? I don't know which guy!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need serious help. I have been with this guy for almost 2 years. I love him, but Im not in love with him I dont think. Hes like in love with me though. We're like best friends and he's always been perfect. But With my ex I got butterflies and I was always smiling. we did ... (229 words)

Is she taking advantage of me or do I give her a chance?

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So I've been getting like in these situations. So, one of my friends did this to me a long time ago, but we worked it out, cuz she lives in Tx n im in Cali. Its happening again though! This gurl started playing with me, sayn im her her girlfriend, n i told her i don't like ... (145 words)

Sex advice needed please!

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 15:) I have a bf of barely 2 weeks he is 15 too we have known each other for a long time.. We have liked each other since we met. We went out once it didn't work out but we still like each other we have had foreplay like fingering sucking licking but we haven't gona all ... (106 words)

She's so perfect for me... I just don't find her physically attractive...

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12 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i was in a relationship with a girl that ended about 3 years ago, it was my longest relationship and most serious, we dated for about 2 1/2yrs. I didnt think i was happy with her, i thought i could find someone better, someone with which i was more physically attracted to. My ... (163 words)

Should I try getting into a relationship with him again?

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12 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This kind of goes along with the another one of my questions. But I very recently started talking with a very good guy friend of mine. I really really like him, and I knew at one time he really really liked me. I still think that he does but.. Anyway, I guess he just got out ... (240 words)

Help!!! Why did she reject me?

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12 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hello guys girl 1 (girl I like) umm... I told this girl i like her, and she was like wow and then 2 weeks later i asked her who she likes and she said she likes nobody.. after 4 weeks, my friend (girl)came up to me and told me that she knows that i like girl 1 then i ... (251 words)