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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Terrified I'll never see him again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really fancy this guy that works in a shop. I've only seen him twice and have been back to the shop twice more and he hasnt been there and now im scared i'll never see him again. :( what will I do? ... (46 words)

Help for chapped lips???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why is it every time I think about a guys strong and lean body(and other parts) I get really horny? Another question is does anyone know of a really good chapstick for REALLY chapped lips? I put chapstick on like 4 times a day and it does not help. ... (56 words)

He doesn't know I'm bi, he thinks I'm gay.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys!, ok I'm really really worried about a few issues in my life right now. I feel as if I've screwed up majorly and really need someones advice. I'm a bisexual guy, british, but two months ago i moved out to budapest (hungary) for a year. only till I moved out of e... (388 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My life is going pretty well, I have a great boyfriend and the problems with abuse have been sorted out. But I dont know what to do about my boyfriends ex girlfriend, she is pretty jealous of me and seems to hate me, but they are still friends, how can I make her see that she... (61 words)

I like this boy, I hope he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, There is this guy that goes to my skool and i really like him and i dont kno if he likes me... im way to scared to talk to him though...... what should i do???? ... (49 words)

Is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hello, I was wondering is anybody familiar with calorie shifting diet. I heard it is a new hot diet, but I can't find the diet itself on the net. If someone would give me the meal plan it would really help? Anniversary is coming up, and out of shape! Thanks... (50 words)

My usually outgoing, goofy b/f has come home very quiet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together, and living together for almost 4 months now. He went to his moms for thanksgiving and just came back Tues dec.8 A lot of stuff came up that he had to help his mom with. Now he's finally home. But I can't help but notice something is wrong. He is ... (110 words)

Is he right, are people at it like rabbits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would really like to know how other people percieve sex. I was having a "discussion" about attitudes to sex with a male friend of mine, and well, lets say it got quite heated - he totally disagreed with what I think, and basically told me that I was a bit of a freak. ... (255 words)

I need help to break it off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking/seeing this guy for the past year and a half and he's perfect, but I just don't feel what he feels. I've been in love once before and i haven't fully gotten over it. He's told me he loves me, but I don't feel that feeling I had before in my previous ... (87 words)

I get violent with my friends when they agree a boy is hot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey aunts i have a problem with jelousy but it isnt with my boyfriends its with guys i fancy, all my friends have noticed well its kind of hard not to because if i say the guy i like (lets call him chris)is fit and they agree i will literally rip their throat out, like one time ... (192 words)

Since we married in October my husband has shut me off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I jsut got married in October 2009 and I am feeling extremely unhappy. I don't know what to do because I love him but I am frustrated with his critical, negative behavior. We are already having sex issues and he blames me for that too. I feel like I am officially on shut off ... (68 words)

Whenever my ex sees me with a new guy he tells the new guy lies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I dated this guy for 3 yrs and we ended on bad terms of hurt but if I see the guy out he will do weird things. First if he saw me talking to another guy rather he knew him or not he would tell the guy I'm his ex and I'm crazy. Second he would follow me around but don't ... (113 words)

I am stuck on a crush and need to unstick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I met this guy in one of my classes. We didn't really talk that much, but I developed a really big crush on him. I guess you could say it's the biggest/strongest crush I've ever had on a guy that wasn't a celebrity. Basically he doesn't like me and I don't know how to ... (176 words)

We've been a couple three days, I want to break it off already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you break up with an extremely sensitive guy who claims he is IN love with you, and its like nothing he has ever felt before, bearing in mind we only started going out 3 days ago? I honestly thought I liked him, I knew he liked me a lot more than I like him, but now it j... (114 words)

Is the discharge normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi guys i had my period 2 weeks ago on the 27th nov and today i realised a yellow/brownish discharge from my vigina and the 2 weeks just past i had intercourse with my boyfriend abut 4-5 times. is the brown discharge normal? plz help... (52 words)

Should I jeapordise her happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my ex 8 years ago. I had never been in a serious relationship before her, and she quickly became my first - everything. I haven't known true love before or since, but I know that what we had was true love. I can remember literally seeing a glow around her as she walked ... (754 words)

After I orgasm, my sex drive goes down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (?)

- Whenever I have sex I want my orgasams to last long any ideas? Also after having sex I don't want to continue anymore but I want too! My sex drive goes way down! Help!... (34 words)

Why does he keep asking me these questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy and i are getting to know each other.. i like him and he tells me he likes me too.. but he keeps asking me how long has it been since ive been single, if ive ever gotten pregnant before or had an abortion:( i told him my ex was careful, he said how can he be ca... (93 words)

My mum is trying to control my life!!!

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11 December 2009 (?)

- I've just about had it already!! I'm 21 years old and my mom is trying to control my life!!! I've been out of a job for 3 weeks now and Im getting frustrated because no one is calling me back and I understand I can only do so much and my mother is taking it out on me! So she is ... (77 words)

Why do I feel this way about sex?? Am I weird???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and I've not had sex for a year and couple of months now... I've had 4 bfs.. I slept with 2... cos i loved them but they broke my heart and left me. All my friends think i should just have fun.. cos they sleep with guys like within a week of meeting them and am ... (136 words)

How do I subtly show him I'm into him and get him to show whether he's into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on my counselor at my uni. I started seeing him a few months ago for some personal issues and the moment I saw him, I thought he was REALLY cute. Now, I know it's a huge no-no for a therapist to get involved with a client but 1. He's an just an intern a... (184 words)

Should I drop this guy or give him chance to explain and make things right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I met on a intenet dating site. We kicked it really good and I have never met anyone like him. He has told me that he has cheated once before in the past and lost his marraige and everything because of it and he would never do that again. But this morning I ... (231 words)

Do you think he was attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I met this guy that my friend's boyfriend introduced me to. We have been talking on the [hone for about a week now and today we finally met to see each other. I swear he is so sweet it's ridiculous We had described to each other how we looked over the phone. He sounded so ... (260 words)

I need your help guys! Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi aunts, ok so where should i start im 14 years old in year 9 and in love with 2 different guys one of them is one of my best friends lets call him scott and the other 1 lets call him chris i havent talked 2 in nearly a year now, they both go 2 my school but i think i have ... (234 words)

An orgasm out of nowhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Sitting in class writing a paper I had an orgasm like feeling but I was not doing anything. Just writing a paper and listening to a teacher. Is it possible to have an orgasm out of no where and since I was wearing a long tampon instead of wide could that have caused it?... (58 words)

Men's opinions on this please!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like a male opinion on how the vagina looks with the inside labia bigger than the outside.... Women's opinions are welcome also! PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL!!... (35 words)

One minute we're lovey dovey... next he doesn't care. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya. There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer room at school)... we are like... (113 words)

How do you get over a bastard? Suggestions welcome.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get over a bastard? I fell head over heels in love with someone who treated me wonderfully most of the time. Problem was that he had just (a year ago) got out of a long term serious relationship that had gone bad and was obviously not as over it as he thought he was. ... (341 words)

Christmas ideas needed, desperately!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, it's so long but, Okay, so PLEASE don't judge me on my age or anything. I'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16. We've been together since October of 2008, I love him with all my heart and I've been wondering, a lot about what to get him for Christmas. I found out ... (257 words)

What happened to us? Are my actions in the past to blame for his actions now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are real happy together most of the times but ever since he’s gotten off probation he’s been a whole different person. We’ve been going out for a year and the whole time we have been going out he’s been on probation for a crime he didn’t commit. At the ... (691 words)

I've lost all trust in him. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and have just married the love of my life in May. It has not been a happy marraige. I've lost all trust in him. Just before we got married, I took a loan to buy a car, a month later I find out, that he took the money from my account. I was trusting him with finding ... (379 words)

Is it worth it? Should I hang in there on our way to 'exclusive'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the man I’m dating several months ago, at which time we started getting to know each other a little. There was minor flirting, and we admitted after a few months that we had crushes on each other. He had just gotten out of a ten-year relationship and just prior I left a ... (705 words)

Boyfriend and Christmas, any present ideas for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boy friend just turned 14 and i am 13 and him and i have been going out for almost 3 weeks, but we have liked eachother for months! it took him awhile to decide how to ask me out. Anyways, christmas day is gonna of course be christmas, but it is also gonna be out one month ... (194 words)

Should I wait until he realizes he was wrong or text him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy in a band for a few months now, he is incredibly sweet and treats me well but the last few days have confusing. We see each other evey weekend and during the week. When his band usually plays a show, he takes me along, makes sure I get in the venue and... (565 words)

Where can you turn with almost impossible problems?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I know it is hard to describe ,what I'm trying to tell. I'm not even hoping for full understanding. But ,I'm hoping someone maybe familiar with such an issue. My problem is ,that my life has sooo much horrible things in it, that even the therapist feels, that he can't get it.... (146 words)

What could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i shouldve started my period already, but i dont keep track of them so they might be irregular. I usually get acne and cramps like a day or 2 before my period comes. But ive had cramps on and off for about a week and ive got a REALLY BAD BREAK OUT on my chin which NE... (278 words)

How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was great friends with my girl friend. We studied together and I helped her in ways that no one would ever do for another person. I beleived in her. After she passed her exams she apparently decided I was not worthy of her friendship and stopped talking and emailing me. ... (110 words)

I would tell her how I feel but she has a boyfriend and her brother is one of my best friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college. What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolutely anything. We even talk abo... (105 words)

I don't know how to tell to my hubby that I don't love him anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married and i felt i don't love my hubby since i gave birth to my first son. and we were married for 6 years now, and now i am having friends online, there is someone that caught my attention. he is way older than me, but i have feelings for him already. in fact i know i ... (180 words)

I had the best sex with my ex, but I feel guilty and don't know whether I should tell my husband or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hello Everyone, I'm currently married to my son's father( been knowing each other for 10 yrs, married for 6, together for 3, and separated 1 1/2 years). Anyhow, throughout our relationship, my husband has cheated in my face with 2 other females that we had a threesome with, ... (162 words)

I'm shy and not very good looking - how can I make her my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: You dont actually ask a question here - please feel free to resubmit but make it clear what your problem is and what you want to ask the aunts/uncles here on Dear Cupid] hi there, ok so i am in love with a girl. I am little overweighed and very much shy so... (173 words)

Is it normal to dream about a boy that doesn't even know I'm alive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i was wondering... well...i had this dream about i guy i like and that we were together and me just lying in his arms... except he doesnt talk 2 me or practicaly know im alive but i was just wondering (because this isnt the first time iv had dreams like that) is it like... (79 words)

Any suggestions to help our friend live a little?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend has a friend who I've known for 5 years now. Now this friend is currently 21 and has never had sex. Actually she has never had a boyfriend or even been kissed before. This is common knowledge for anyone who had met her because she's just so innocent. She's too ... (216 words)

Why does my ex hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does my ex hate me so much? My ex just hates me. He's terrible. He spreads lies, stirs the pot with friends, loves a good drama scene, loves making me feel crazy...We're not togther anymore, and since the summer- we haven't even been in contact. But I hear things through ... (198 words)

I've lost that loving feeling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been married now for close to 17 years. We have three children. For the past 5 years my husband and I have been through a lot of financial stress. During that time he used a lot of profane language,(even around the children) Became ver... (221 words)

Facebook ruins relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have decided that things like facebook and myspace are definate relationship problems... I was just on fb, and I decided to send a comment to my boyfriend, because we've not really spoken today, and I saw that he'd commented on a girl's photo. I decided that I'd have a ... (215 words)

How do I get a DNA test to prove that my ex really is the father to my baby girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just had My daughter a week ago. The father was well informed that I was in labor and we ended up in the hospital for 2 days because of how she was eating, his excuse on not being there was because he couldn't find a ride. He doesn't have a licenses. And when we finally ... (199 words)

Its our first Christmas together, any ideas for a gift on a tight budget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - mY boyfriend is 17 im 15 and this is our first christmas toghether. He works i dont so i dont want him to spend a lot of money on a gift form me when i dont even know what to get him... what can i do? help... (47 words)

Will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a break up with my boy friend 7-8 months back. i really loved him but i think he cheated me, but i still love him.will he come back to me and does he have the same feelings for me as have.he is dating one more girl these days.will he come back to me?... (56 words)

Relationships between aunts and nephews

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - just to understand, why does, most of the time, aunt-nephew relationship gets into sex flavor. i have had experiences. many friends of mine told me they too similar kind of experiences. i think most guys goes thru this session. can people in here suggest the reason. i know ... (89 words)

My girlfriend has left out some vital information about her character, now I feel differently towards her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my gf been together almost 2 years. I really love her. But there is one situation that really bothers me. Let's rewind back to when we had been dating almost 5 months. I was her 6th guy and I was the first to hit it right and give her orgasm after orgasm. Not only did... (696 words)

Should I explain to my ex's friend why I couldn't speak to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i feel like a made a big mistake and i need help realy bad. Il try to make it short me and my ex were togather for 10 months and he was the love of my life, he broke up with me a little over a couple weeks ago and me and his friend started talking and he said he liked me a ... (206 words)

Thanks to all...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age - First of all thank you all for answering the question posted yesterday it helped. I've made up my mind, marriage means nothing more than a loss to me. Not only would I lose my ss check off my husband that passed away seven years ago but I'd lose my self respect. I won't sit ... (158 words)

Help!!! Pregnant and struggling...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

- I'm 19 weeks pregnant by my ex boyfriend. It wasnt planned. We split in August and I found out I was pregnant in September. At first I was apprehensive about having the child but he promised me he would be there and support me however he didnt want to get back with me. I ... (325 words)

To be or not to be... friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just broke up with my bf of 2 years, he was too occupied with his new friends, it was never the same again, so i just about had it. he texted me "i fucked up, and im guessing there is no second chances, maybe in the future we'll resolve things, and maybe we're not meant to be ... (147 words)

Does it sound like a good idea to sort of give him time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago due to just being tired (especially him) from arguments, etc..and other issues.. no one cheated, there was alot of love i think.. we did not have contact because he knows I can't be friends with him and he knows my intentions now.(to get ... (244 words)

He's always maintained he is gay yet he will get drunk and mess around with girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, i really feel down and need to speak to someone. there's this guy i was mad about for years. He's a good friend of mine, but since we met he said he was interested in guys. anyway, one day he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said i did, then he said if he wa... (289 words)

Can I believe that she has stopped having affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age - Hi everyone, I am hoping someone out their will help me with my dilema. I am a middle age man and has been in relationship with a very young lady half of my age, we have been together for 9 years and blessed with one child, 5 years ago I travel abroad for few weeks and by the ... (215 words)

Should I be concerned that my girlfriend wants an STD test? And how can I stop my girlfriend's mum interfering so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have 2 issues in this one 1st off, last night my GF said she was thinking about getting tested for chlamidya(sp?) why now all of a sudden after being with me for the last 9 months, she said she has done one since she slept with her ex last year in september and ca... (519 words)

Should I just get over it? Or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship for two years but have recently started developing feelings for my friend and i feel i need to end things. There have been a couple of drunken nights together with this friend, and he is very sweet to me, but have no idea how he f... (106 words)

I have stopped talking to my lover but I miss him, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I MARRIED WITH 2 KIDS, some emptiness was there in my life so i involve with a person who also in same situation like mine..we are friends from last 8yrs. we had a good time but now im feeling like he is changed but he denied .i stop talking to him . but he is trying to contact ... (83 words)

How can I make my vagina tighter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to make my vagina tight as i m getting married instead of my boyfriend, pls suggest me some medicines or other tips so my husband should not be in doubt, pls help me... (35 words)

Married sex issues! He says I take too long to orgasm.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for two years been with him total 10.5 yrs. I enjoy giving oral...he does not..he says I take too long...and has "sighed" in the middle of it once. I seem to only get oral when he's been away with work...like it's a welcome home present. he constantly asks for ... (119 words)

Is it worth it for me to stay with him, or let him go with all the drama that follows?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my current boyfriend for about 8 months now. DUring our relationship I broke up with him because i thought he was cheating because of text messages and phone calls he received. Not long after we broke up he called me pleading his case and we got back together. ... (329 words)

My boyfriend always goes home each festive season, I think he has somebody else there

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi friends i know that i can count on you,its been two years spending festive on my own and this is killing me.my boyfriend always when it is festive he always goes home i've tried to talk to him about this but he always do it and this makes me think he got someone at ... (149 words)

Does she feel masturbating is wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, how do I get my girlfriend to masturbate... I've told her to try it several times and said she didn't feel anything. She says she only feels it when I do it. She also doesn't like putting her finger in herself... does she not enjoy masturbating because she thin... (91 words)

My ex is blackmailing me and I like skinny women but she is average

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I get my ex to stop blackmailing me. I don't want to get into alot of detail as this is the internet. It was a crime that was committed by both of us and she has the evidence to prove it. We will both be facing charges and she does not care. We will also both lose ... (175 words)

He got another girl pregnant during one of our breakups, and my heart is breaking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I'm 14 years old and I thought I found the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with... We quickly fell in love but we also faught way to much. These weren't just silly little fights they got serious to the point were he tried to kill himself and so did I. No matter ... (262 words)

I feel kind of silly for asking, but is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a very hard bone like knob Right inside of my vagina. like, it's the top part of the opening, beneath the clitoris. i've had this far back as i can remember and always thought it was normal, that it was my pubic bone or something. but recently i was talking with a ... (130 words)

Is our relationship going to survive, if we interact better by sms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so if you and your bf talk beter when you text each other then you do in person, is your relationship doomed to fail? xoxo, miny... (92 words)

I'm ready to have a child but hubby says no. How to handle the situation? I almost resent him.

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for a year but together for 9 years. He is a student pilot for the military and I am a stay at home wife. I'm having baby fever and he is aware of my feelings. He is the kind of guy who likes to plan EVERYTHING. I have stopped my career to ... (317 words)

Would you tell a new partner about your bad experiences in the past?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After a year and a half of working through the issues my abusive ex left me with, I'm now seeing a really great guy. I'm not entirely sure how a relationship works when it doesn't revolve around me trying to make a controlling and insecure partner happy. I'm starting to get ... (280 words)

Is he abusive/dangerous?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a (long) question about my ex. My best friend says he emotionally and almost physically abused me and needs help or he may go on to physically as well as emotionally abuse other girls. But my friend is really overprotective of me and has had bad experiences with ... (389 words)

I am in love, but she has a boyfriend and when I see them together I die inside

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i'm on love with my best friend (a girl) i mean want whats best for her love not just the humdrum. but she has a boyfriend whos. well. bound to get her into trouble. they make a nice couple and all but everytime i see him with her (always) i basicly die inside. it's to the ... (133 words)

Could my period be messed up because of stress?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm not sure whether i'm pregnant or not. I had sex about 5 days ago but we used a condom, pretty sure it didn't break but i have this uncontrollable fear of being pregnant. What I think was my period came on yesterday but it seems to be getting a bit lighter and I r... (262 words)

She has a b/f, do I tell her I still like her and hope the feeling is mutual?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, wen i was,like, 10, I lost contact w/ a girl who was realy important to me. She was my first kiss, first girl i ever had feelings for, and the first person who ever made me truely happy. It's been 3 years sinc I last talked to her, but, the other day, I got an email from ... (159 words)

My married neighbour kissed me, do I let it go or should we talk about us?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here goes, I am unhappily married and have been attracted to my friend/neighbours husband for about 6 months now. It was never anthing but harmless flirting. My husband and I would get together with him and his wife and have drinks and let our kids play together. This ... (266 words)

She is bisexual, should I tell her I am, too? Does this explain her recent behaviour?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, whole problem has changed now so it needs a new question. Basically theres a girl in one of my college classes, who I really like. problem was I'm a girl, and I found out she had a boyfriend. Straight? My Gaydar thought otherwise, but having been hurt one too many times b... (369 words)

How do I break the bad news to my Mom?

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is not really sex or love or anything, but i need advice on how to break some bad news to my mum. see, i through being foolish got my laptop infected by a virus, and i sent it off the factory for other repairs hoping it would be fixed, which it however wasnt. how ca... (77 words)

Do I just spit on all that I have built with my girlfriend just to be with her?

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - First off a little about me.I have a girlfriend been going out 9 years living together for 7.I own a home with her and we have a 4 year old son.She has a friend that i've known for about 8 years,she has a boyfriend to whom i'm close but not as close with him than with her. I... (221 words)

Now that we are FWB, he is no longer in love with me. What can I do?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i jus need advice/opinions plz no judgement. I have a fwb and weve known eachother for awhile (graduated from high school together) and he told me that he used to think he was in love with me in high school. so now that were fwb he said he loves me but isnt in love wit me. ... (114 words)

He doesn't care for sex...could it be the porn?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and so is my fiance'. We have been together on and off for the past 3 years. In the beginning we were very intimate with each other. Now we have a 3 month old little girl and I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. I know I was only 14 but I wouldn't ... (402 words)

Does my ex friend stare at me because she's jealous?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does she do this? My ex best friend will stare at me when I'm not looking, then I'll turn around (not on purpose just turning around) and catch her and she'll turn around real fast. She always looks at me, but really when I'm with my new friend that I just made and she look... (151 words)

Why does she sign her emails this way?

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl I like who I've been exchanging emails with. She always responds the same day I send an email and sometimes it takes me a week to write back because these are long emails and I am busy. At the bottoms of her emails she started writing "Don't feel like you have ... (72 words)

I need help finding the right Christmas gift for my boyfriend!

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having problems finding the right gift for my 18 year old boyfriend for christmas, n he already has a gift for me..what should i get him??... (27 words)

Will being out of his league cause us problems?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my new boyfriend for about a month and I think he's incredible. The only problem I can see is that he (and everyone else) thinks I'm way out of his league. Can something like that cause problems down the track? The guys I usually go out with are highly ... (177 words)

Why does sex with me make him sick?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my bf for 10 months and for the last 3 he has been complaining about my vagina being loose and says that it was not like that before. because of this he believes that i have been cheating. I have one child, 7 years old by CS, not vaginal and have... (203 words)

Should I go back out with him?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and in the 9th grade. Well my ex boyfriend is 17 and in the 12th grade. I could tell that he liked me, because I got kicked out of the classroom and he stood outside in the hallway with me and was flirting around with me. At that time I didn't really like him, until he ... (365 words)

How do I bring up the idea of my conservative boyfriend dominating me in bed?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a huge interest in this for a long time, but I can never figure out how the heck to bring it up without sounding like a freak. ...and to me, being a freak isn't a bad thing, lol, but my BF is super conservative. I was surprised even when I found out he would be ha... (127 words)

Why do I feel like his mother?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like I am more of a mother to my boyfriend then a girlfriend. I feel like this because I am always telling him what he has done right and wrong it's like he is only saying the answers that I want to hear. I am always the one that ends up paying for him. I f... (361 words)

Will he be turned off when he sees me naked?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im scared to let my boyfriend see me without my shit or pants off because im self conscience about my body and the fact that i have "smaller breasts" he went from being with a skinny chick with a D cup to me which im not fat im athletic with a okay body and a barely "b" cup. im ... (77 words)

How do I win her?

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, there is this girl I like. She has been dating this other guy for a year and plans on getting married to him. Well, she likes me to. She hates it when other guys flirt with her however, when I flirt with her, she likes it. She also flirts back with me. She said that ... (193 words)

My friend is a maneater and now she really likes the guy I'm seeing!

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend (lets call her gemma) and she is a maneater ! She has a boyfriend but yet wouldn't pass if anything better came along. She is getting a reputation for herself but that isn't what bothers me as it is her life... however, my problem is she really likes the... (159 words)

He says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually.

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 months and we haven't really gotten too physical, I mean I know he wants to but he says that knowing how "in love" I was with my ex totally turns him off to idea of being with me sexually. I mean what do I do? I really like him ... (115 words)

I like him but he used to be my best friend's boyfriend.

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of lengthy.. but please read and help.. So recently I just started talking to an old guy friend of mine. He was seriously one of my best friends; I felt so comfortable around him, we were into the same kind of music, movies, etc. I always liked him as a good fr... (388 words)

Help!!! I'm in love with my sister in law!!!

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11 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my sister in law. My wife's sister. I think about her all the time. I'm just concerned about taking it too far. I am married with a boy and a girl. She is married with 3 girls. We are both in our late 30's but she is a couple of years younger. I just want to ... (186 words)

Why has he gone cold on me?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have currently known and have been friends with a guy for around 2 months now and i really like him. I have been round to his house a few times and shared passionate kisses. I really like this guy and want to be his girlfriend... his was really full on talking to me ev... (111 words)

Where can we go to have sex?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are high schoolers and are thinking about having sex, but we don't want to get caught or anything. We live about two miles apart so it's a bit hard to just walk over to eachothers houses. I've been trying to get him over to my house but my room is on the ... (106 words)

Should I have a chlymidia test?

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am too minds about having a chlymidia test... i haven't slept with the guy i was last with but i did do oral sex...and he is known for being a player. As we all no chlymidia has NO symptoms...and college are giving tests out for free. My friend says i should be f... (66 words)

I really am falling for him but it's so complicated.

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - omg i dont know whats happened to me i came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked together and get on REALLY w... (212 words)

He asked me to masturbate in front of him but I feel so guilty doing it!

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11 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend asked me to masturbate in front of him, but I've never masturbated before. I started to rub myself but I had to stop as I was overcome with guilt. He wants me to try again but I'm worried that I will start to feel guilty again. He says it's perfectly natural for ... (64 words)