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I wish I had a big sister!

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - hey everyone, i really wish i had a big sister! when i get sad, i feel like i need to tell someone and thats why i wish i had a big sister! im just asking what do think i should do? ... (41 words

Boyfriend's past trouble me..am I overreacting?

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known he looks at porn, which I ... (341 words

The thought of what my girlfriend does in her sleep keeps me awake

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - For some reason this is really bothering me. I woke up the other night sleeping next to my girlfriend and i thought she was masturbating. Now i dont know for certain but the reasons i thought this were because the covers were slightly moving, abit of twitching, heavy... (244 words

I can't get me a man and I don't know why

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - okey! I need help for this one , I can't get a boyfriend!! I don't know what should I do to make guys want to be in a relationship with me .. the thing is that boys see me in a sexual way, I don't know maybe I send them wrong messages but I don't mean to..all the guys that I've ... (123 words

He committed to me but I just found out he is still married

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I was dating a man 15 years ago and had a child with him. He wanted more than I was willing to give at the time and so we both went our separate ways. I still loved him I just felt as if I wasn't ready to get married and move away from my family. Anyway, we both married other ... (215 words

I don't like Granny's new husband

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Ok, i am 18 years old now, i am really getting annoyed with my gran and her "new husband" who thinks that he is the head of the family when nobody likes either of them because of there marage!. i am a full-time student and have had enough of living at home with her, since ... (230 words

I am being forced to chose and she isn!t going to like my choice

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Me and my gf have been dating over a year she is great until it comes time for me to hang out with my friends. she doesnt get along at all with my best friend and after many failed attempts its just not working. i know if it comes down to me choosing between the two i am going ... (328 words

I want to please my girl but I don't know how

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1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - Helloo, wondered if I could get some tips on something: i'm going to finger my girlfriend next time she comes round mine (if she's comfortable with it of course) but i've never fingered someone before, so i'm slightly nervous.. She is a virgin (as am I) so i'm not just going ... (97 words

I think I might be pregnant, but I don't know how to tell

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - What are the chances that I could be pregnant? My last period was on the 9th November and I had sex on the 24th about 5 times and on the 25th once. All times we used the withdrawral method. I've realised I've been very stupid, and it won't be happening again. ... (56 words

We want to have a baby but it's not happening for us

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Me and my fience really want to start a family..we have been together for 4 years but are only in our 20's,were planing to move in together in the new year. when we have sex we normally use without a condom then put one on at the end of sex just in case...soo if it happens ... (83 words

How can he have a girlfriend if he really loves me!

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - hey..i know im only 16 but i really need help! i already talked to my mom about it but i need some one elses opinion too please. ok so i know this guy since like 4 years ago and the very first day i seen him i was like WOW!(and i was only 12) we started talking two years ago ... (408 words

We have been dating for a month and he is breaking my heart!

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I,ve been dating my boyfriend since the beginning of November and he was happy for about 2 weeks. Now he tells mehow depressed he is and It hurts me coz I thought I was making him happy .I,ve tried everything to help him and Now he,s withdrawn from everything and everyone He ... (100 words

Am I going to get dumped rather than a gift for Christmas?

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1 December 2009 (F - My bf of almost 11 months moved back with his family after being unemployed as he was giving work with his dad. He now lives 80 miles away and says he won't see me at Christmas as he can't afford the £19 train fare even when I said I come pick him up and drive him home he said ... (188 words

He likes to party but I don't

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - i like this guy, and he seems to like me back. the problem is that he loves to party, and i don't party because i was brought up in a Christian home and i have no problem with the fact that i don't party. for months since school started we've been texting each other and ... (91 words

I want suggestions for pleasing my man

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1 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - What do guys like the most? Me and my partner have talked alot but I want ideas of different sex positions.... (22 words

Everybody hates me and nobody likes me

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - i am 17 years old. My 32yo sister won't have anything to do with me because i am "f***cked in the head, a s**t, a wh*re, embarrassing, stupid.. the list goes on. She has never met my 3 month old daughter as she told me to abort it or she would never see me again. She kept to ... (377 words

My boyfriend makes me feel insecure. My fault? Help!

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Ok, so...I have been dating this boy for 6 months. At first, he was amazing. He complimented me all the time, and he made me feel like a princess. However, over the last few months, he has started making little comments that are starting to break down my self esteem. He told me ... (290 words

Ex or new boyfriend...?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Me and my ex have been really close since we have split up and we see each other a lot more than what we did when we was going out and get on a lot better too. I have a new boyfriend that i hardly see as he lives so far away but we get on and when we do see each other its ... (236 words

I stay unhappy to make him happy...

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I really need some help from someone, ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months so not very long and he loves me so much but i dont feel the same way, i really like him but im not attracted to him in any way so find it very hard to have a physical relationship with him ... (144 words

Why am I so sad and scared to make friends?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have lost interest in friendships. After I have been tolerating and accomodating my friends all these years. I am someone whom they turned to when they had problems, they always liked me saying I was a caring person and I was never judgemental. All they did was take and nevr ... (741 words

Three years down the line and he's still never told me he loves me...

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - Why won't my boyfriend of 3+ years not profess his love for me...?... (13 words

My best friend and I BOTH like the same boy... help!

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - My so called best friend is so very immature and insensitive. For the second time she has gone out with the boy that I really fancy after promising me she doesnt like them and knowing that I do. The boy in question this time told 1 of my other best friends that he likes bo... (384 words

Is it okay to make out with someone when you're about to break up with your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1430 days ago

1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hi everyone. I was just wondering if it's okay to cheat if you're about to break up. I have a gf and i'm not really happy with things so i'm going to break up with her when I see her next. I was wondering if it's okay if I make out with someone else. I'm sure it's not ... (73 words

Best friend told me he loved me, everythings changed, now its as if we're not even friends.

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - My best male friend told me he loved me 2 weeks ago, at first i wasn't sure if he said it jokingly or if he was being serious as he has confronted me about past feelings of being more than friends in the years i've known him. The night he told me he loved me, we had a giant d... (625 words

I don't want to be the idiot that's used as a doormat.

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I found out that my boyfriend has been sending texts to other girls of a sexual nature along with this he has also been sending texts saying that he wanted to be with them. this is the second time that I've found this out in the space of a couple of weeks. When i confron... (274 words

What are crisco parties?

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1 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - What are crisco parties and bird whatever? I looking for some ideas for some kinky fun not spanking so hard I'm bruised but fun and exciting for both of us.... (31 words

I don't know how to get over this other girl without pursuing something with her.

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for two years now and i love her but lately i have been thinking about someone else. One night i got very drunk and tried to kiss this other girl, luckily we didn't but i cant stop thinking about her and i have told my girlfriend i have feelings ... (130 words

I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him D) me and D have been ... (116 words

I would rather be single than be cheated on...

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1 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for 10 years and we have 4 kids and one on the way. My husband for the most part is a wonderful man and a wonderful father. My problem is that he has a great fascination with online porn and I keep finding he's putting his profile out there on singles sites. ... (177 words

I don't want to break up a relationship, but I think he's the one.

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - A friend of mine and I have known each other for a few years now, we have been interested in one another in the past, but, never at the same time. He has been with his girlfriend for over a year (during which time we didn't talk), but he has shared with mutual friends of ours ... (186 words

Who should tell the maid???

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I moved out and he hired a maid. She met me during her interview while I was packing. They have had sex each time she comes in to do housekeeping (once a week) since I left. We've decided to get back together and I am moving back in. I managed the household and I will not be ... (80 words

I've been seeing him for 3 months so why am I so nervous around him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1586 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I am 14, and I am dating this guy, and I love him a lot, me and him have been dating for 3 months yesterday, November 30. and I am wondering how do I keep from being nervous with him?... (41 words

Can men have multiple orgasms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1585 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - This might seem like a silly question - can men get multiple orgasms after each other, if so is it rare or common?... (23 words

I don't know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not.

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I dont know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not. He was awful the way he broke up with me and told me not to contact him again. It was only in the very early stages of pregnancy and i didnt know i was pregnant until the doctors told me that my ... (101 words

What rights does my ex have to this unborn child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am pregnant with my ex boyfriend's un born child and i was wondering will he have rights? when we broke up all he did was just be nasty to me and i dont want to see him ever again. what can i do?... (45 words

Am I not satisfying him?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, but if I run to the store or take a shower he goes and plays with himself. He works 3rd shift and gets home, talks to me for a few minutes and goes to bed. He goes and plays with himself then too. He pretty much does it every time I ... (69 words

Help! She cheated on me and I forgave her but I can't get the incident out of my head...

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - I was dating my girlfriend for 2 years, she recently felt tied down and is in her last year of high school and says she wants to be free and able to go out with her friends. she tells me she loves me and can see us being together in the future she just needs a little time and ... (198 words

Do you think I've scared him off?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - He drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride. I asked him what he wants from me and he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. I haven't heard from him since thursday night.. I am confused. Should I text him anything please help thnx...x ... (104 words

Is the age gap too much here?

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - When we first started dating we were in love and wanted to do everything together, we both were virgins and we had our first time with each other together, after that i wanted sex all the time and she was giving it to me on a regular basis then i messed up a couple times, did ... (646 words

Wow!!! Was this an orgasm????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1587 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Last night something weird happened. Me and my bf were touching, kissing doing stuff like that. For the first time yesterday he fingered me, it felt so good but he did touch me in a way that I started to shiver and it felt like I almost lost conscious. It was a very weird ... (70 words

Girlfriend doesn't want me any more, all of a sudden she's seeing someone else but won't say why!

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1 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hey to all. My name is Rodrigo and I am from Lima, Peru. On the months from beginning december of 2007 till the end of march of 2008 I went to an exchange program to Burlington, Vermont. Is there when I met my now ex girlfriend, we lived together for all those 4 months, after ... (888 words

We both said we'd delete our Facebook profiles but she still hasn't deleted hers yet!

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1 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi, ok i posted a question a couple of days, and here i am. Well i'm 22, I'm 2nd year university, i'm dating this girl for 5 months, everything is fine... but a couple of days i began to worry a lot... i'm texting her 3 maybe 4 times as usual. I'm calling her to often. ... (221 words

I'm really falling for him...

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy couple months back. we've become real close, closer than i imagined. i mean we talk all the time, he trusts me and i trust him. i think i'm falling for this guy he's amazing. we hardly see each other since he goes to school and works, though we talk almost every ... (102 words

Should I talk to him?

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1 December 2009 (F age 16-17 - My friend and I about six months ago were having this little thing... I liked the same guy as her, I liked him after I hung out with him a couple of times... Me and him would text for two hours straight and never run out of something to talk about... It was adorable... (368 words

My little sister is pushing me away

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is becoming a stranger to me, we don't ... (126 words

Is she overweight, and how do I handle this?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, well my niece is 12 years old and keeps asking me if she is overweight. I tell her that it is going to be alright and she isn't. She is about 120 lbs and hasn't had her period yet. Is she overweight? I don't know because when I was 12 I already had my period and was at ... (65 words

I really like him, but aren't guys supposed to ask the girl out?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want to ask him out. The thing is ... (93 words

My husband of four years watches gay porn and denies it! What should I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a real problem! My husband of four years watches gay porn online and denies it. We have two children and I’m 8 months pregnant with our third. I first caught him about two years ago. He refused to admit it! So, I confronted him with printouts of his browsing ... (261 words

The person I love is in an incestrous relationship... and I'm shocked!

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1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - i am in love with a girl in my class we were friends since childhood, shes cute and smart and am totally over her so i wanted to confess to her but when i came to her house(we use to studying maths together) saw her making out savagely with her older brother!! i was so ... (105 words

How can I tell my husband I want to do this myself???

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1 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been married 18 years to a great man...he's my knight in shinning armor. He's been a great father to my two boys from a previous marriage and our own two boys (yes, 4 boys) but I'm having some issues with him wanting to have access to my mother's bank account. There's ... (225 words

Has my husband fallen out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1578 days ago

1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. The last couple of months my husband has been treating me different. Some background on us.. We have been together since high school. We were both 15, now we have been living together for 8 years and married for 5 years and have 3 children.... (305 words

Jealous of a girl who just got in with the family

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 23 years old and I am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. We have been together for 6 years and for some reason I am still jealous. He has never given me a reason to be but I just am. We are always at his family's house and his little brother recently got a ... (225 words

Torn between 2 and don't know what to do!

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - im with my boyfriend named joey for over 2 years and a half.he's 14years older than me.over 1 year ago,we got into a big fight.i left him and he didnt return my calls or my text or try to find me back cause i know that is what he wants from me but he's just too afraid to say ... (655 words

Computer game idea for g/f?

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder that I love her more than an... (92 words

NYC or Los Angeles?

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1 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi I wonder if any of you can help me out here. I am planning a travel with my gf (who lives in Spain) and I would like some advice...we are intending to go to the USA next summer and would like to know what is a better City. New York City or Los Angeles. I would like to know ... (268 words

He's into anal sex and I am not

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am not. I have never had anal ... (405 words

How big of an issue is it that he prefers anal and I dont?

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am not. I have never had anal ... (405 words

Am I Pregnant...Or Being Super Silly???

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 18 months now and I have never fallen pregnant! And when I was with my ex-husband (who later went on to have 2 kids with another woman, damn him!) I never fell pregnant and always presumed I was infertile! I was due on my period wit... (120 words

I fell like such and idiot!!! Where do I go from here?

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I feel a bit stupid at the minute because if Im honest, I feel like I set myself up for a fall. Basic back ground..Met lovely Italian guy 2 years ago in Isle of Mann during the races, we stayed in touch after the races on what I thought was only a friendship basis. He came to ... (735 words

I don't want to destroy this woman..should I really stay in a relationship out of pity?is there a good way to end this?

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1 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - Back in 1998 my wife of 10 years walked out of our marriage and moved to the US. There was no sinister reason - she basically just got tired with married life. Fortunately we had no kids, so the break was clean. Within 6 months I was back in the saddle and looking for a ne... (783 words

Is it innappropriate for a gay guy in a committed relationship to have other gay friends?

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1 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - Is it inappropriate for a gay man in a committed relationship to have gay friends? I knew my boyfriend wouldn't like me having gay friends but since I am 25, gay and had never had any I decided I wanted some. My motives were purely innocent - just friendship. So I went online... (262 words

Oral sex and aging...will it still be as good?

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1 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Help I LOVE oral sex but am concerned that being an older woman it just wont be as good HELP ANY ADVICE ?... (23 words

Do I tell her the rumours about him?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so about a year or so ago, my cousin started "talking/dating" this guy..well me and this guys best friend would talk alot and hang out also..one day he told me that my cousins guy cheated on his last girlfriend..and a couple months ago my cousin and this guy broke up ... (97 words

Although my instinct here is to end it...i want to salvage this relationship?

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1 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - Bit of a long question here, but I'll try to be concise: My girlfriend has said some things over the last month that have made me very suspicious of her and some of her male relations. For context: She has a lot of male friends, who are all either people she has dated,... (965 words

Is she telling me her own story, from a third person perspective?

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1 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello Long story short: We are 24. My girlfriend was in a 5 year relationship with an abusive drunk. We always liked each other and hooked up right away after she broke up with him. It's been rocky, but after 5 months and confrontation and telling her to take her space i... (271 words

When I'm with my boyfriend it doesn't feel like we are a couple...any advice?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - ok, so ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months now and we hardly ever see each other, but when we do we dont act like a couple what i mean by this is we dont hold hands and walk and i guess the reason for that is because he walks fast and i walk slow.I went to see ... (138 words

Please can anyone help Me? ..I am headed for a breakdown!

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but underneath it all things ain't so rosy an... (346 words

Will it be like this every time?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Well me and my bf are going out for about 6 months now, he fingered me for the first time yesterday and today the whole day it feel kind of uncomfortable down there... Will it be like this every time or is it just because I'm not used to it, cause it was my first time? (p.s... (65 words

My live in rarely wants sex..is it me or our situation?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - My live-in boyfriend and father of two of my children never wants sex. We are intimate maybe once every two or so months. Our two yo does sleep in the bed with us, but when he or I really really want it we move to another room or move our child into her room. I also know tha... (124 words

What is the source of this bleeding and discomfort?

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I'm 15 though i turn 16 in 2 days. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a few weeks,we were both virgins to begin with but we always use a condom. I had my period last week and it finished on Saturday. On Sunday we were having sex and he went deeper and wa... (152 words

Is he giving me the cold shoulder, or is there something really wrong?

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend was supposed to come on a trip with me last friday, and he never showed up...a few hours later he texted me and told me his mom was in the hospital, and that he was there all night and his phone was dead, so his room mate brang his charger over..then the next ... (454 words

Should I end things with my wife in order to be with her sister?

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1 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - i am overwhelmingly in love with my wife's sister, and have been for almost 4 years since her divorce. she has 2 boys. i am not in love with my wife and we haven't been intimate in years (at least 10). i want to divorce my wife, and begin a relationship that will hopefully lead ... (60 words

How do I deal with listening to my friend's love interest rants?

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I'm tired of listening to my friends complains about all her love interests.... Is it normal? ... (16 words

He says he won't contact me again. Is this normal?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi i have a question. I met this man we started dating for 7 days everything was good then suddenly i was at work he tried to call me i could not answer, He sent me an e-mail saying he tried to talk to me but i refused so he will not contact me again. Now please tell me i... (85 words

Should I wish her well or leave it to no contact at all?

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1 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - Was Dumped last thursday by text message, am hurting so much ! I havent contacted her, onlyl got a bland short email from her with her Meal choices for our groups Christmas meal. Her mother is going into hospital tomorrow, should I text her tomorrow just to say hope it all ... (64 words

Not sure if he likes me 100%....to initiate or not to initiate?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a friend who is helping me talk to the guy I like and he doesn't know its my friend. He told my friend he wants a gf but he feels its difficult to get one. He mentions girls he rejected, my friend asked if any other girls liked him and he said there wasn't....so...so far ... (361 words

Girlfriend or booty call?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi , I am just out of a long relationship. i am doing my masters and became close to one of my classmates. He jokes light heartedly about me and is always ready to help me. But hes not very good at talking about emotions and feelings and hence we havent really talked ab... (246 words

Is it silly to be upset that my husband of 27 years puts his brother as next of kin on his passport?

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1 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - Recently my hubby got his renewed passport and when I went with him to get his travellers cheques I picked up his passport [while we were waiting for his stuff] and noticed that on the page that asks for next of kin that he had filled in his brothers details. Am I being sil... (153 words

Flirting with an older married woman, not sure where it has gone now

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I've long admired from afar an older woman I know, and it's obvious that she has, at least at one time, fancied me too. Since it's been many months since our last meeting or communication, I'm not sure of where she stands today. But, I remember our connection to be intense. We ... (730 words

He says he wants to marry me and then I don't hear from him!

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - A guy I have been seeing on and off for several months told me that he loves me and wants to marry me. He didn't sound like he was expecting to hear it back but, I wanted to repeat it however, I didn't because I'm not at I love you yet and I assumed it was the alcohol talking. ... (214 words

3 years, and she dumps me for another guy

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - 3 years, that's how long me and my ex-girlfriend were together before we broke up 2 weeks ago. We were in love, madly in love. Although we were only allowed to hang out 2-3 days a week dued to her family, there has not been a single day where we didn't talk on the phone. We ... (406 words

Wrong makeup! How do I handle this buying situation?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi,this isnt a relationship question but i desperatly need some advice. 2 months ago my lady who does my wax and facials etc held a make-up party where we could test the items and then purchase etc... I was after some foundation and she found me 1 and tested on my skin -it l... (158 words

Everything is getting better-should I tell her that I love her?

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - i uv a girl who has been my best friend for last 2years! 8 months ago we had a great fight as i did comment about her x-boyfriend who ditched her! i said that whatever he did was absolutely right!! during this time we were in no contact and i started missing her very badly no... (137 words

25 year old virgin 6 years out of previous relationship

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1 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi. I'm a twenty-five year old virgin man with Asperger's Syndrome. Back in middle school, something happened that left me very self-conscious. a girl had walked up to me during class and asked me to to the movies, but when she walked back to her friends, she pointed at me ... (299 words

Maybe he's somewhat interested?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Ok so there is this guy I'm interested in that i met a week and a half ago. I have absolutely no idea whether he's interested in me or not. he called me a couple days after we met, then a couple days after, and once more a couple days after that. between those days he sends me... (115 words

How much do looks matter in sex?

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1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hello everyone. I was wondering if I how much looks matter in sex. What I mean by that is i'm 16 and in high school and I wanted to know how much woman care about physical appearances during sex. I'm really skinny and my ribs kinda show and I wanted to know what they would ... (90 words

Common dating questions!

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1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - MOD NOTE: 2 questions have been put into one post hey to all im going to ask two of the most commonly thought but not necessarily asked question by most guys. firstly, i like a girl very much but how to i ask her out or to be my girl friend. and secondly how can guys tell if... (117 words

I think we did everything right, do I still have a chance of being pregnant?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - i had just had sex for the second time, and i would like to know whether how i handled it was okay and i wouldnt get pregnant. i used a condom and my bf had the decency to check every 5 minutes by just making sure it was slipped on himself. When he was about to climax we took ... (82 words

B/f says I lay there and don't do anything! What am I supposed to do?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - i need advice on how to turn my boyfriend on before sex. he takes forever to get hard. he says its cuz i just lay there and dont do anything. what am i supposed to do?... (36 words

I feel like he was never sorry

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I need some advice about what to do. I don’t know what’s wrong with me:/ So there is this guy and we’ve had a good/bad friendship. Well I liked him and I guess he liked me. He knew I had a crush on him. He’s treated me badly. He likes to take me out of his life and then add me ... (930 words

Girlfriend of 17 years is cheating on me!

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1 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 17 years is cheating on me and its happend a few times in the past..I stayed because of our kids and wanted it to work..but now I am fed up with it...the thing is her sister has been there for me through this and is in a bad relationship hereself and now we ... (82 words

Is there a secret to the first kiss?

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1 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - how can i get her in for the first kiss? is there a secret to it?... (16 words

Our relationship was a fake relationship

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've known this guy for 4-5 yrs.We've fooled around on and off the whole time.I got married and during that time that guy told me he loved me etc.I got divorced (not cos of him though).We fooled around for awhile and disappeared - everytime it seems things r going ... (296 words

Why is there no smell to his semen

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriends semen doesnt smell like anything. He says he smells it and it smells disgusting but when i smell it it doesnt smell like anything why is that? beause i smell my own and its stinks but how come i cant smell his?... (44 words

I want to spice up my love life

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1 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - ok we have been married for 12 yrs. while sex with my wife is great, i want to take it a bit further. i no stuff like couple swaps and 3 somes would be fantastic in my eyes, i also no that they can do more damage than good. so i spose i am looking for ideas and suggesti... (80 words

My partner cheats while I am at work

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - my partner and I have been together 5 years, he is 29 I am 25, we have been living together for 4 years. ok, this is the story its very long,about 3 years ago he started using a chat/dating sites to make friends and chat to people,he would use webcam etc....I had my suspicion... (844 words

She sees me as a funky bandbuddy, but I want to be more

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1 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - hey all, so, I play in a rock band with two dudes and a pretty cool girl. I started the band in the summer and for a while only saw her as a bandmate, I could tell she was pretty and interesting, but no other feelings surfaced, it was all business. Then one day about a... (367 words

I don't want to be stuck in the "Friends Zone"

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1 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about a week or two ago. Everything was going perfect between us before that. She would normally take her anger out on me because she saw me outside of school more than anyone else and it was never me that she was mad at. She told me that at first she broke ... (440 words

One year anniversary ideas?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - hey guys, its coming up to my one year anniversary with my partner in january. i like to plan ahead for things. ive really got no idea. guys ur advice wud be appreciated... my bf is not the romantic type and dosent do soppy very often... however him not being romantic doesn... (112 words

What if you're too tight for sex?

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - What if your ready to have sex but your too tight? Is that a bad thing what do you do.... I feel like that would be so embarrising!?? ... (28 words

I want to ask him out, but don't know how to do it!

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering what is the best way to ask a guy out? I like to get straight to the point/keep it short and dont want to have to repeatedly visit/work up the nerve to ask them out and find out theyre not interested or taken. Theres this guy im interested in that works... (151 words

I am a girl and I want her to love me back

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I'm a 14 year old female who is bisexual. A few days ago I told one of my close friends who is a girl that I like them. They said they didn't feel the same, but today they texted me saying this: "How do you tell a person that sometimes when you talk to them you get butterflies ... (151 words

My boyfriend has lost interest in sex, but I haven't

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for over a yr now and we used to have sex about 3 times a day. now it seems like i have to beg him for it, and he doesn't really do any fore play with me anymore. i have talked to him about this a number of times and he just tells me that ... (117 words

Kissing (and sleeping) Cousins, what if the family finds out?

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1 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Me and my second cousin are 17 we fell in love in secret, slept together in secret i also found out i was pregnant but we had a miscarriage, our family would go crazy at us he said he dosent care as long as he's with me but i cant help but be very concerned in what they would ... (67 words

I am on the pill, but have questions about it

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - What is the likelyhood of the pill stopping your period? I'm on Cerazette, which is a 28 day pill and I'm just at the end of my 3rd month (i've been on 2 different pills before this though). Ever since I first started taking the pill back in April, I have not once been late, ... (259 words

Should I try and have a deeper relationship with her?

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1 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Hi I'm 19. I've been sorta of dating this girl for a while and she's been asking me if I've ever had a girlfriend. Which I haven't. I really like her and stuff but I'm not sure that I want a girlfriend. I've never had one and never been close to a girl ever. I've never really ... (128 words

Romantic interest... or not???

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - If a guy says "Thanks for being my friend" or "Thanks friend" does this mean he has no romantic interest?... (20 words

Guys, would you sleep with a girl , then call her your "friend" ???

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - hi people, i met a guy online a year ago, and we met up the other week finally for the weekend. Because we knew eachother well enough, we slept together (safely), then he left as hes from a diff city. Things havnt been the same since. I think i might of been used. and i feel... (375 words

How can I come out of my shell when I'm with him?

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1 December 2009 (? age 22-25 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and when I am with him i want to be able to come out of my shell. in my mind, i see myself being free and aggressive, but when i am with him i have trouble with that. also, what are some fun things my boyfriend and i can do ... (65 words

I gave him my number and he hasn't contacted me yet. Did I do the right thing?

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1 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I spoke to a guy at work about 3 months ago. During the conversation we both dropped it in that we were single. But nothing else. I then spoke to a friend who is good friends with him. I asked him what he's like etc. He told me that I've got nothing to worry about b... (174 words

Condomless threesome and now I'm worried I'm pregnant!

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - i know this is going to make me sound really bad, and i am really upset about this which is why this is the only confidential thing i could think of for advice, well a month ago i had a threesome with 2 guys, i was really drunk and i know theres no excuse for my behaviour, bu... (169 words

Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression?

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1 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression? I have been in a 25-year marriage and being rejected or deprived of affection and sex is making me nearly ill to the point that I am questioning my desirability. and wondering what is wrong with me. I am bes... (141 words

I don't always feel that crazy spark when we're kissing!

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend and think he's just absolutely perfect for me. One thing that causes some major hangups, though, is that I don't always feel some crazy spark when we're kissing. I love being close to him and we get each other on so many levels, and kissing sometimes IS ... (141 words

Did this boy lose interest/feelings for me? And do you guys think he meant it when he agreed to remain friends with me? (or was it to make me happy?)

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I met this boy over the summer. all along he was giving me these little hints that he liked me but didn't wanna see obvious...but EVERYONE told me that he REALLY liked me and that he was VERY shy...anyway, We knew eachother for 5 months and we were GOOD FRIENDS and then FINALLY ... (439 words

What are Herpes?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - What are herpies? i have been told that ther some sort of spots that grow after u have sex, does this apply for when u masturbate aswell though?? x... (35 words

How will I tell my daughter about us?

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1 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with my 2nd cousin for 4 years now I don't know how it start but were in love n have a 2 year old daughter together of course my family found out n its cause a black hole in my family I love him deeply , but evertday I wonder how will I tell my ... (78 words

Watching lesbian porn turns me on! Normal or not?

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1 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - right, this might sound wierd but i enjoy watching lesbian porn, in turns me on. but im not a lesbian, is this really strange? does it make me a lesbian, because i really like men and i wud defo say im staight but then i dont know why i get turned on my lesbian porn :S ... (71 words

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