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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with his friends that's why he isn't replying. He admitted it. He said that he needed space. So now I only text him when he text me so I won't be an irritant. He tries to give me more time too. Which is great.You can call me materialistic but he didn't get me a christmas present. I got him a box of chocolates and was expecting him to get me something since I hinted him what I like and told him what I want. Those weren't expensive stuff. And it wasn't like he didn't have the money.He used to spend more time and money on me when we first started dating. But now it seems that he doesn't put in as much effort anymore.He is even lazy to give me a smiley on facebook on our 5th month when I asked. He just gave me on MSN where we were chatting. Is that so difficult to do?
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (30 December 2009):
He is not into you. Move on and find another boy friend. There are better ones out here. Dump him before he dumps you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 December 2009):
Think about this carefully. He spends more time with his friends and gaming, he didn't get you a present, he rarely talks to you, he doesn't do much with you and he's had the nerve to ask for space. This all points to one thing - he's not that into you! A guy who loves how girlfriend would not do this. You now know he's not the guy for you, and he won't change. Let him have his computer games and male friends while he grows up a bit more, and you go and focus on your own life. Don't be second best.
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