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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He doesn't want sex when he always said he did!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I met this guy online. We fell in love and we couldn't wait to meet...or wait to finally make love. 6 months I move in and we had sex once. It Lasted a few seconds. He was so excited to have sex when we talked on the phone. And now he doesn't want it at all. We don't ... (174 words)

Need HELP picking a xmas gift for my GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This may not be a relationship question but the DC community has helped me many times and I hope you can offer some advice now. I've been in a relationship with the most wonderful woman I've ever met for about 2 years now and maybe because of that I've never needed a holiday... (206 words)

Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, I recently went back out with this guy i used to date and our reltionships never quite worked and i can't remember why. so after we broke up and i recently saw him at a friends engagement party and all my feelings came flooding back for him. So I as if he wanted... (192 words)

He's just told me he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship at the moment...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont like myself at the moment. Today i was incredibly happy, i realised how fantastic my friends are, im seeing a great guy... yet now i feel so so different. I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks, and he is lovely... brought me a lovely present and at the start made suc... (169 words)

I'm torn between to different guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm torn between to different guys. When i say different, i meen compleatly different! The first is annoying and infuriating, he is so arragont and up himself, but he is so funny, and can be nice when he wants to be.He dosn't sound like a good guy, he don't to me either,but... (353 words)

Do you think this boy likes me and wants to get to know me better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy that keeps on coming to my school to pick up his friend he knows me from church but every time he is at my school he stares at me like he wants to tell me something but he nerver does? Does he like me?... (49 words)

My husband abused my daughter, she won't prosecute! Can I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age - SORRY FOR JUMPING IN ON YOUR TOPIC BUT i need advice as hitting my head on brick walls and getting no further i have a 24 year old married daughter who has just spoken up after 13 years of child abuse from her step father she never ever said no to him and was willing s... (279 words)

Is it at all possible to be attractive and just slightly "curvy?"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a slightly overweight 20-year old female and I feel that my weight really affects how men view me. I feel that I'm really ready to be in a relationship, but it seems that absolutely no one is interested. I feel even more discouraged when I go to work (there are two other ... (90 words)

Why are Western men so infatuated with the idea of being with an Asian female?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are Western men so infatuated with the idea of being with an Asian female and why do you rarely see Asian men with foreign women?... (26 words)

It's so stressful to equally like four people - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone reading this ever Loved or had Lust for more than 1 person at the same time. Well thats the way my life leads at the moment. I have around 3 or 4 people that I really like all equally. Firstly there is my friend from Canada. I have real strong feelings for him... (322 words)

They just sit and talk about people all the time!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and at my age in my school people talk about people and i hate being talked about and i never speak up or anything in class because i don't wanna be talked about or at the centre of attention so i avoid participating in class and going to board or something because of ... (126 words)

I enjoy sex much more while I have my period, does anyone else agree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. i enjoy sex much more when im on my period. it feels so good "down there". does enybody else agree? and why is this? ... (34 words)

He's a senior, I'm a freshman, and he blows hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Today, I was walking with my friend to go outside because of a fire alarm, and I saw him and he clearly saw me. I waved at him and he ignored me and said hi to my friend. Then afterwards when we were walking inside, I tried waving again but he ignored me and waved to my frien... (139 words)

I am a 16 year old boy, strongly attracted to another 16 yo boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Every Friday evening I go to a youth club with 2 of my friends (for arguments sake, they’re called Keiron and Tom), both male, like myself. Every Friday after the Youth club, me and my two friends muck about, playfighting for an hour or so. Recently, I've really started ... (239 words)

He is a lovely man but his hairy back turns me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive met this lovely man after a very unhappy 3 yr being in a mental abuse relationship and didnt believe there could be any nice men out there! Ive been single a yr got my head sorted with counciling and finally ready to move on! And thats when this perfect man entered my life! ... (177 words)

I would LOVE to go out with her but she only likes me as a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - help! i have a total crush on a girl but she doesnt like me like me she likes me as friend but thats it. i love her so much and i just wondered if anyone had any tips for me not to be big headed or anthing but im quite attractive and most people think humourous how can i get ... (71 words)

Should I bring this very dodgy subject up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was hanging out with my boyfriend the other day and he was all going through my phone (of course i didnt have anything to hide) but anyways, then he kept trying to take pictures of me and i was being dumb and like shy so then he had to get the mail and he left his phone on ... (161 words)

Why is my on/off older boyfriend making my pregnancy so miserable??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a man much older then me for a year and a half. The relationship has been rocky - on and off and I have lost count of the silly breakups and makeups. I am currently half way through a pregnancy and would like opinions on this. We were starting to ... (931 words)

I was in love with him, until he fell in love with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no. I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey went off him. It's really frea... (91 words)

My ice cream craving!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why do I have a craving of ice-cream so much? I have a bowl to the rim every day and that's not enough for me? Is this normal?... (31 words)

Why do married men have affairs with less attractive women?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 December 2009 (?) age 51-59 - On a Dr. Phil show it was said that 80 percent of married men have affairs with women who are less attractive than their wives, why do married men choose women who are less attractive, my husband had an affair and the women was not what I ever thought he would sleep with.....I ... (68 words)

Is my brain my problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I get answers saying that it's a psychological thing in my brain - the reason why I dont get erections. Is that true? If so what can I do to stop worrying about my penis size because I think that since I'm not 6 inches erect I'm 5 and a half erect, my girlfriend won't enjoy ... (131 words)

I bought a test kit but its too soon to see if I am up the duff

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with no condom 4 days after the last day of my period, he didn't cum but i still know there is a risk of havin a kid. what r my chances of bein up the duff do u think? got a abot 2 - 3 weeks til my period comes to worry, already got a test but can't take it yet.... (64 words)

We are not going out and he started touching me, does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well thers this guy and we're not goin out or any thing but when we snogged he got close to me and started fellin me up what does this mean does it mean he like me as more than a friend... (41 words)

I want to initiate contact again, but should I use the "read receipt" option?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age - I just have a quick question - but first a little background. While visiting fammily in London in October I attended the church I normally go to when there. I was able to attend on two Sundays out of my three weekends. I met and talked with a very nice man both Sundays. H... (467 words)

I feel worthless, upset and unloved because he doesn't like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend and I talk to each other a lot. He used to wink at me, joke around and flirt with me a lot. I really thought he actually liked me. Sadly enough, I like him a lot. On the contrary, he's always distant with me when he's around his friend. Additionally, sometimes, he ... (114 words)

My creative son calls me judgemental

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - How can you tell your son or daughter,if you don't really like something what they create,or dress up,or any other thing ,where they ask your opinion? I have very creative son, and he is good at music , and painting. But many times, I don't think, that it was good what he ... (203 words)

My b/f talks to his former FWB daily. Is he in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now, and though it hasn't been easy (we both have some baggage), we're very happy together. We have awesome sexual chemistry, we laugh together and share lots of experiences and great conversation, and ... (480 words)

How can I accept that I can never be hot for my b/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm not a hot and sexy female. I know this because ever since I hit puberty, I've lacked the attention my friends got. Then I got a boyfriend, and I felt secure... until time passed, we started getting more comfortable with each other and I started learning about his physical ... (934 words)

In school, I lose my confidence!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there, Ok! So i am 13 years old. I have a medium height and am little overweighed. I am very unconfident guy. When teachers asks questions, i know the answer but i cant tell it to them. If they ask me, i say that i don't know or didn't answer, thats why they think that i am ... (154 words)

Shyness can get in the way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i need some help i like this boy in my college course and he is really shy and so am i but i dont think he likes me in the same way. I wanna try but i just cant get the confidence to go for it. I have tried talking to him on facebook but he only answers with one word ans... (167 words)

How will I know when he wants to kiss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend and we have never been on a date and i want 2 know how will i know when he wants to kiss me on our date... (30 words)

Should we do anything about this teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Mod note: I think it's safe to assume that the poster is not between the ages of 26-29.] A new teacher came to my school this year and I don't have him except for roll call in the mornings. But my friend has him for geography, and she is the type that all the girls in my year... (297 words)

Will my crossdressing tendency be inherited by my children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am mtf married crossdresser ,my wife is supportive to me, after evening i turnr myself in fem mode and my wife is in man,we enjoy fully in bed too,now my wife is pregnent, Is my crossdressing tendency will go to my kids?... (52 words)

Ideas on how to work on my confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys ive got abit of a confidence crisis. I think it started in primary when i was bullied alot for how i look because i was 11 stone, was wearing glasses and my hair was terrible and i have a lisp but i wanted that to change for high school so i went on a diet an lost a s... (199 words)

What can I do to be healthier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a university going girl of age 20. My height is between 5'5 and 5'6 and my weight remains between 39 to 43 kg. Recently due to severe sickness, it fell to 36 kg. I have a problem of irregular periods since my 1st period that was in my 9th standard. I get my periods ... (136 words)

What do I do if my feelings aren't as strong as his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday I decided to say yes to this guy who asked me out and has really liked me for a while, it was a hard decision because I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship and I thought it would be weird for him because he likes me more than I like him. Everybody has always been ... (305 words)

Should I tell my fiance about my feelings or forget my ex all together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm currently engaged to my high school sweetheart of almost 4 years. But this past spring, we took a break and i dated another guy for almost 6 months and was forced to break up with him by my controlling mother. i can't stop thinking about him, and if i could find a way, i ... (96 words)

Is he just using me if he doesn't want to marry me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age - I have been with this man for going on three years,he shows me in many ways that he truely loves me,but he wont marry me or even make plans,he just tells me we cant aford it.that makes me think all he wants is a clean house to come home to and someone to cook.before in the ... (119 words)

What are your opinions about sex play between siblings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - From about age 9 until I was 15 my sister (13 months older) and I would have sex play. It started off as just playing doctor and looking at each other, but progressed as we got older. We never had intercourse, but there were several instances of mutual masturbation, in... (184 words)

How do you keep a relationship without sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age - I've divorced my husband after 20 years of marriage. There is no sex in the last year as he has lost his libido and do nothing to put it right. Then I've met this older man gives me the love and sex I've been craving for. Three years on I've lost my sex drive and feel bad ... (115 words)

She has a boyfriend so how can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you fall out of love with someone that has a boyfriend and you see everyday? I teach a class at the gym and go almost everyday, and for the last 4months there has been a very attractive girl going, i worked up a conversation with her and we hit things off, i got her n... (298 words)

Is this a phase you hit when you are under pressure?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been thinking about this other guy lately. He and I dated a few years ago but never got to see eachother so we decided to just be friends. I'm getting married soon to the most amazing guy ever and I really do love him with all my heart... I really would die for him (I am ... (111 words)

Does a guy like you if he asks for your MSN?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy ask you for your msn does that does to show that he is interested in you?... (19 words)

He is denying he's my boyfriend because he and his other girlfriend are still together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

10 December 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I am in a relationship that i do not understand.I have a boyfriend but he is denying that he is my boyfriend because he has a girlfriend before me and they are still together. I have slept with him and i love him but he refuses to tell me how he feels about me. I do not unde... (188 words)

Why do people like to inflict pain on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always wondered this and it's getting worse by the months. More and more people tend to be horrible to me and i don't know why. Is it because of the person i am? Or what? People like to afflict pain on me. Why? For example, one of my friends was walking past me and i tr... (440 words)

Do women like short, skinny men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - are there any wemen out there who go for short skinny men??... (12 words)

What should I do about my future father in law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. This is a short question but in order for me to get good answers, I think you need to hear all aspects of the problem. I live with my fiance and our daughter, who is a year and a half. We've been engaged for a year but next month is my 21st and I decided to co-jo... (436 words)

Will my obsessive ex scare my new boyfriend off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Alright so I just started dating this guy last week. We are having fun, going out, getting to know each other better etc. I really like him and things couldn't be better... Except for my obsessive ex-boyfriend. Him and I broke up a few months back because I c... (300 words)

Should I carry on trying to act like I believe in this fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi sorry really long post. I ignored my intuition and moved back in with my ex husband again, we kept splitting up because he refused to have babies or commit to anything except work. Years later I am stuck in my ex husband's house. Before we were equal but now he has all the ... (480 words)

How could you be sure of your sexuality if you never had any indication towards the same sex before an online encounter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am confused and upset. I had a chat a while back that has really been ingrained in my head. I had a chat with another guy. At first I thought the guy was joking so I joked around back being a smart a$$, but became aroused and the rest is history. After that chat I co... (166 words)

Planning on losing my virginity tomorrow; can we have sex twice in the same day? Will it be better second time round?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Hey all, I have a girlfriend of 16 months and 10 days. We are both virgins and we decided to do it tomorrow. I have been reading posts here and I know the first is not very good. But if we want to have sex again the same day ,is it possible? Will it also hurt? Will it be... (63 words)

My girlfriend is self concious when it comes to sex and it makes it difficult for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is self concious. as a result she wont let me use my fingers on her or let me please her with oral sex. at first i accepted this but now i makes things abit more difficult for me. she barely lets me feel her vagina and when she does her hand is always close by ... (140 words)

The right foods to eat???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Cupid hey and thanks for this site. I am Milly and I get stressed up a lot about my size. I've slimmed down a lot so how can i regain fat faster, tell me what i need to eat. thanks so much... (44 words)

My crush for a college tutor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i need help as i am 16 and i have just started college and i fancy my 35 year old tutor. He takes me for most of my classes and i cant stop thinking about him. It started strangley from the first time i had him realy as he seemed really nice and very funny. He is just the... (344 words)

I hardly ever get to speak to my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so long story short lateley me and my bf havent been talking much becuase his got queit abit on his plate (college work, finding a job). It's been more than a week now and im finding it extremly hard not speaking to him, he used to come on msn but since his laptop has ... (190 words)

Boyfriend won't participate in our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend won't participate in the relationship. refuses to answer any of my questions such as how did you feel about me when we met or your being very distant and always just doing what you want without any consideration of us. He spends lots of time with me and ... (252 words)

We have to start standing up for us Guys!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it that every one thinks that guys only want sex and if you say anything your going to make the woman mad,what about how i feel?i would like to see women thinking about us guys the way we realy think about them.im a guy who loves the one im with,but cant realy tell if ... (79 words)

My FWB is acting very strangely, unsure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! Currently I have been having troubles with a male friend/ex bf and wanted to gain some insight from it. My friend and I date when we were very young (15-16) for about it year. He ended up cheating on me, I forgave him and he ended up breaking my heart and dating one o... (447 words)

Boyfriend won't have sex with me! Self-conscious? Something else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are usually very sexual but lately it seems like he doesn't want to have sex with me, we only get to see eachother once or twice a month because of college but it seems like every other time he either wants to have sex with me (and I can't because of my ... (928 words)

No period for 2 months--am I pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, last October me and my boyfriend had sex. I am getting a little bit worried that I may be pregnant. I havent had my period for two whole stinkin months!!! Could i be pregnant? I'm 14 and I can barely take care of myself. Help please?... (47 words)

In love with an engaged woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello I recently met up with an old friend that I hadn't seen for many years. We met on Facebook and decided to catch up. She came an dvisited me for a couple of days as I now live in a different city. We hit it off..as friends..and really enjoyed each others company. ... (188 words)

Should I sign my christmas card to my boyfriend with "love from"? We havent said "I love you" to each other yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

- This probably sounds like a silly question but should I sign my christmas card to my bf 'love from...' or leave the love part out? The thing is we have been together in a relationship for 7 months now and havent said "I love you", so im not sure whats appropiate here. Any ... (54 words)

Why is he always questioning me about other men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - here goes, i have known this guy(KS)for three years, but we became close friends this past year. at first he would call me or text me all the time, seems he was intrested in me. making moves and asking questions about the guy am dating and so on. my best friend was the first to ... (392 words)

I feel so insecure after his female friend came to him for advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. I love my bf so much. I can't imagine living without him a sec. One his friend is getting divorce( a woman). She came to talk to him. he was giving her advice, and i was here too. before she left she said to him, i ... (112 words)

I want us to remain friends but also let him know I do not love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi I know you can help me! I am a lady who has a friend who thinks that I am his wife to be. That's great but I honestly have no feelings at all for him. I am not even attracted! But he's kind, understanding and supportive. The first problem is that he's hustling to make en... (154 words)

I still really like her but she's got a boyfriend now! What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been best friends with this girl for a year now and I love her so much and she likes me to, we were rely close we used to spend all are time together and were constantly on the phone to each other. Shes been with her boyfriend for nearly six months since shes been ... (118 words)

Is it odd that he is going to his ex-wife's house for Christmas when they supposedly hate each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I've posted on her before and got some really helpful advice so I'm back for more! I split up with my partner about 6 months ago (after 7 years together). He walked out after us having many problems and I was upset and in the meantime he had... (550 words)

I want her back, but for what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi i originally posted here on the 11th july, asking advice as to whether my wife was having an affair. Well 5 months on i have the truth. My wife had an affair for about 6 weeks, she went to hotels for chat and sex and sex in this guys flat above his shop. He was aa asian and ... (381 words)

Nothing will make this guy stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a problem this guy won't go away. What started out whatseemed like a crush has progressed to begging for one date. I have told him no I'm not interested . I'm in love with someone elae . I ignore his texts and phone calls I'm rude to him. But nothing makes him stop. How ... (61 words)

I just cant talk to my boss, waht can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

10 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - sorry for the length..need to explain... Im a quieter person at work, I work in a hospital environment. I have no enemies and get along with most of my colleagues, I dont socialise with them as they are all clicky and most are freinds (typical for a hospital setting)... (449 words)

Paranoid over size, what are girls honest opinions?

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - One of my female friends, not a girlfriend but I've known her for a while, knows about my 3 inch "problem" and when she talks to me alone she reassures me that even though I'm "small" in the sexual regions of the body, it truly doesn't matter. Other times though, she's sa... (254 words)

I was sexually abused and don't feel comfortable kissing a child, why can't my man understand this?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell deep in love with a man (Jake) who has a 4 year old son from his previous marriage (Leo). I also fell in love with Leo in a way, as well: I love him as if he were my own son. Over a year into our relationship, we decided to get pregnant and had a beautiful son (Dak... (592 words)

I want to trust him, but I also don't want to look like a fool

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he had a past of cheating not long after we got together. We've been together for over two years now. Throughout his twenties, he always had at least three girls at a time. There have been deaths, etc in his family that have had a serious effect on him. ... (190 words)

We've been seeeing each other for months but I think he's losing interest

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im only 16 an iv been meeting this boy about 11 months recently got togther..but often ignores me an talks about other girls to me. i don know wether he likes me anymore or is cheating on me.... (41 words)

How do I make her feel wanted but not needed?

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has been feeling neglected for the last 6 months! She feels needed not wanted! We both love each other very much! I have been smothering her with my love which has caused her to feel NEEDED not wanted! A guy at her work made her feel the way she wanted to feel... ... (84 words)

I lose interest in my lovers. How can I curb this pattern?

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10 December 2009 (F)

- I have a couple of questions and am interesting in knowing how others feel about his topic. 1. Why do people who've been together for a number of years fall out of love? What causes this? 2. What can I do to prevent this? I fear it has become a pattern in my life, that after... (162 words)

He says he likes me too, but I wonder if he's playing me

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this guy that I really like and he knows it. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We talk, text each other, sometimes talk on the phone too. He acts like he likes me. Like, I sent him a text saying that I was talking to my guy BFF and that he could be my BFF, and he ... (252 words)

Some advice needed for losing my virginity

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10 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, I'm looking for some advice for first-time sex. I'm 25 and engaged, and I'm a virgin, and plan to be until my wedding night. Same for my finace. Now, we both know that sex will hurt me at first, though I'm not overly worried because I trust him to be gentle. He's worried ... (123 words)

I'm afraid to pursue a girl who likes me because of what my friend says

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm talking to this girl who likes me, and I really like her. Its been almost a week, and things are going great but my best friend is getting in the way sorta now. He just found out today that we are talking and the first thing he said was "don't date her". When I aked why... (242 words)

I hate my life

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - pleasee hellppppppp me..im an 18 year old male that hates his life and everything in it..i think i am veryy uglyy. fat people tell me im ugly all the time and when they do it brakes my heart because i should be used to it by now. i was always teased in school about being ga... (241 words)

Are these symptons a sign of pregnancy?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 14 years old, and im stressing because i think i might be pregnant. recently i had sex with my boyfriend, but only twice before we dicided to stop becoz it didnt feel right. ive been having many pregnancy symptoms like missed period, i have had spotting which lasted for... (156 words)

After 3 months, is it too late to call her?

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Just curious... is 2 1/2 - 3 months too long to call someone? I exchanged numbers with a girl after having a polite conversation with her. I told her in a text, after a couple were exchanged, that I would give her a call some time. Well, to add a bit to the back story, I've... (202 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me saying he didn't love me. Now we're back together but I'm afraid he'll leave again.

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok....... i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and at the beggining everything was great, we had split up once or twice in this period but only once was major!! he claimed he did not love me..... but after a couple weeks he realised he did and we got back t... (159 words)

I found pictures of nude women on my b/f's computer!

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found a bunch of pictures of naked women on my boyfriend's cd and a small sex video. Is there something I should be worried about? I feel that he has a problem? Or also feeling that he's not getting enough sex in our relationship which leads me to think that he might be ... (91 words)

I like a girl I don't know, and I don't know if she is gay or straight either!

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10 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hey all...I have a rather immature question, I think. So this year at college, I noticed this other girl in a couple of my classes, and from what I can tell, she is my definition of awesome. I've only talked to her a few times but she's been nice to me and we've made each other ... (166 words)

I get all uptight around women and I want to unbend a little

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys and gals, I have a problem. For a long, long time I've convinced myself that I'm just incompatible with women. That I'm not handsome enough, fit enough, funny enough etc to draw the attention of any females. I've also told myself that women simply aren't "interested" in me ... (301 words)

I don't want history to repeat itself!

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to break up with my long distance boyfriend when I come home for Christmas break. I can't stop crying. It's light crying, not excessive but it still hurts so much. I love him but things between us have only been getting worse, although he fails to acknowledge it. I ... (544 words)

He is the sweetest guy but after a month I don't want to date him any more!

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have the sweetest guy ever. He's the one every girl wants but the thing is I don't want him and I don't know what to do because he's so in love with me. We've known each other for a year but just started dating a month ago and now Im just tired of him and his closeness. IDK ... (65 words)

Any ideas on how I can lose weight?

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10 December 2009 (?)

- I really want to lose weight! In high school I was in such great shape, but now it's been 3 years since I've been out and I gained quite a bit of weight. So my question is are there any ideas you all could give me on how to lose weight? Thanks ... (58 words)

Is this what relationships are about, or am I being taken for granted?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with this guy for 6 years. I stood by his side through thick and thin, I put up with things that I would never have. Ok lately in the past year our relationship has crumbled, he's been totally emotionally abusive towards me. He claims it's because I don't keep a ... (446 words)

Crazy in love...

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, I'm 21 years old and i was involved with an older man 32 now, for two years. I was undeniably in love with him, totally and completely. To me he was perfect and my everything, my best friend and lover, we were both in love crazy about each other. But my ... (770 words)

How do I get over my baby's dad?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is how do I get over my baby's dad? we only dated for 2 months i got pregnant on the second month. For reason i had to move back to my old state where i then had my daughter and we have been talking over the phone for about a year now. my daughter is now 1 year old... (207 words)

Does anyone think it is odd him going to his ex wife for Christmas day... or am I being jealous and unreasonable?

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10 December 2009 (F)

He said he doesn't care about my past dating experiences.

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my new boyfriend for only 3 weeks after getting to know each other for about 4 months. He hasn't had a girlfriend or had sex before and he says we can take things as fast or slow as I want. I'm not sure how fast to move things along! To build something real and ... (211 words)

Why does it hurt every time we have sex?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I have sex it feels like the first time, We sometimes do it 5-6 times in a night and it hurts every time, sometimes he doesn't even put it in all the way, but it still hurts, he says I just have to get used to it but I don't think so, we did it many times and every ... (77 words)

Married man confuses me...

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 19 my friend introduced me to her friend from MO through myspace, he was 22 and had a four year old daughter. Him and i became good friends and we felt each other, but could not be together because i live in NJ. Though our relationship was great and i would talk to ... (448 words)

Would I be more manly if I played a sport?

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10 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and i don't feel like a normal teen boy i don't play sports nor watch them (i'd rather watch cartoons) I don't try to go out with girls or anything im just nerdy and quiet and im the only child so im used to being lonely and to me i feel like i'll be normal if i just ... (267 words)

How can I lower my sex drive?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman who is involved with a man who is 65. He suffers from ED and does take cialis for this. The problem is my sex drive is still just so high and I seem to just never get enough of him when we are intimate. I have even turned down opportunities to be ... (190 words)

What can I do to still feel like he's around and not have to cry every night because I miss him?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk on the phone and text every day. We're always in contact, but tomorrow he's leaving for his winter vacation and won't be back until January 7th. That's 4 weeks! He's going to a different country (Thailand) and ... (124 words)

Is it possible to grow to love someone?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant and engaged. I just graduated college this past spring. I dated someone when I went to college, I still love him. He is not the man I am marrying. I am marrying the father of my baby, we met this past summer. I hardly talk to my college flame... it's just too hard ... (346 words)

What are causing these pains in my back and my stomach?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having really bad pains in my back and in my stomach it feels like I kinda have real bad gas in my back it even hurts when I breathe in too hard. Now I been having symphtoms of a bladder infection so I thought this was what I had. I have been doing the things I need to to ... (153 words)

I just can't stop texting him!

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I still can't seem to stop messaging him and texting him... he always blows me off and says he's busy and can't talk etc... I can't blame him for not really wanting to talk to me but I can't seem to stop trying... every morning I think ... (159 words)

How do I handle my traditional mother?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am soon to be 24 years-old and am a student in graduate school currently. I have a traditional mother who is proud of virginity. She is proud that she was still a virgin till her marriage day and she expects the same from me, too. My mom expects me to maintain only holding ... (442 words)

He wants to break up with me over my labia hanging looser!

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in dire need of explaining to my boyfriend that I am not cheating on him. He says that when we have sex that sometimes my labia hangs and is more loose than other times. Is that normal? I don't know why it is that way sometimes, and I am so insecure about it now. he wants ... (117 words)

Is there any way to lower my sex drive so I'll be more compatible with my older partner?

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10 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a problem in my relationship. I am 30 year old woman and my boyfriend is 65 years old. We get along great and have the best time together. Surprisingly we have a lot in common. He far from acts his age. The only problem we have is sex. I am a overly sexual ... (275 words)

Why are orgasms on my period better?

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10 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why was the orgasms I had today on my period better than they ever were when I am not on it?... (21 words)