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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In fact i am her first real ... (210 words)

Should I let the ex see his baby, even though he says it's not his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so im new here and just want to know wat u people think i should do? ok here goes... i have a three yr old child and im currently pregnant again my babys dad and i arnt together he left me wen i was pregnant. hes a dumb @ss. n e wayz about a yr and a half ago i met sum guy ... (228 words)

What do I do?? I don't wanna hurt him :(?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been chatting to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. hes rings me and we met up and went out last night.. hes really sweet.. he even bought me a christmas present and paid for the movie and everything.. but i think he likes me.. cos he was all getting close etc... (181 words)

Is there anyway I can change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so upset right now...when I was 10 years old, my brothers molested me. I am now 18 years old. Everything was solved, they spent their time in jail. I'm upset because my one brother's parole officer came over (my other brother isn't in jail, just one of them is still) and ... (153 words)

What do I do...Nina or Lily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this short. I'm a teenager and I have stupid teenage love problems, but I'd really like some help. There's this girl I was in love with for a few years, Lily, she was my first everything first girlfriend, first kiss, lost my virginity to her. Yeah all that good ... (197 words)

Long distance love is fizzling out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i`m a little confused i`ve been in a long distance relationship with this boy who lives in ireland called Sean but lately i feel like my love for him is fading and some feelings for my last boyfriend called simon are still there. this is a problem cos sean wants me and h... (73 words)

She's selfish and I'm insecure and we're fighting about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a really unsecured person, I met this girl more than a year ago at a summer camp program and we have been together since the third week we met it has been amazing so far. We got so close together and we know each other so good but the problem is that we are young(not that ... (361 words)

Is he just not confessing his whereabouts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all im in a bit of a situation here any advice is taking on board.... Im 24 been with my fiance for 5 years we have 2 sons together the realationship has had its ups and downs as everyones's does. My fiance went to the shops today at like 2.00PM (uk time) and phoned... (326 words)

I'm sick of going to bars and nightclubs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i'm only 25 years old, but lately, i've been thinking that i'm really sick of going out to nightclubs and bars !. I get annoyed with loads of drunk guys trying to chat me up and dance with me, and one thing that happened recently got me kind of depressed.I liked this guy ... (324 words)

No period but I know I'm not pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sooo i been feel throwin up for 3 days now , and i didn't have my period for a month . But i know i ain't pregnant because i didn't have sex ! but like 3 days before i was drunk . I don't know what's wrong with me ! and like 3 weeks ago i was drinkin this medicine for ulcer cuz ... (74 words)

Ladies, was I led on? If so for what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known her for 7 years. She's asked me if I have a girlfriend like 3 times, always touches me, hugs me, even kisses. She asked if I missed her, takes my food, laughs at every one of my very stupid jokes. She asked for my number, then she had no phone for years. She ... (236 words)

I think I might have destroyed our marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I hit my wife over her back with the plastic end of a hoover the other night. We were staying at my dads house in a single bed and had been drinking for a few hours before hand. We were in bed two hours when she ran out of space and hit me in my sleep to move over. I then ... (247 words)

At 28, I resigned myself to a sexless relationship, but then I met someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Six years ago I met the man I thought was my soul mate. We moved in together and started our lives. Soon after moving in we realized there was something wrong with our sex life. It was non existent. My partner has a very low sex drive, so low that he has a borderline asexual ... (286 words)

He gets into things and then stops!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we just starting doing stuff like handjob/fingering. He initiated it by touching me first and while doing that guiding my hand to him so that we were kind of doing the stuff at the same time. Now see the 1st time he ... (373 words)

Why does he feel anxious after awesome sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy friend and i have been together for eight months we both say we agree we like our relationship how it is but lately he says he feels anxious about me after awesome sex why?... (36 words)

My mind wont stop saying why why why...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well.. way back in september.. i was introduced to this girl. dam i fell for her quick but she had never been with a guy before so i new i didnt have much of a chance if the other guys didnt. but then we got real close real fast and we started seeing each other every wednesday ... (285 words)

He doesn't put forth any effort to make me happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with his friends that's why he isn't rep... (222 words)

I'm staying for my son basically but I Want to know how to remove myself from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have only dated my bf for a little over a year. He had previously dated the girl before me for 4 years. 4 months after we started dating we found out I was pregnant and 3 months into pregnancy I started having nightmares about his ex, that he was cheating on me, s... (433 words)

Nice guy that got away or Sociopathic Player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Everyone, This is my first time writing here, but it’s the holiday season, and it has been kinda ruined by my ex. So here goes a little background info: My ex and I were first platonic friends to this date we have known each other for 7 years, but were mainly friends ... (1606 words)

He's both great and not so great...do I stay or do I go?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My new bf is great in some ways but in other ways not so great. i just have to decide whether we are good together or whether its a destructive relationship. First off hes crazy jealous of me and other guys esp my ex, he seems kinda obsessive about it. He is also quite ... (160 words)

How do I make up to my gf with actions, not just a simple sorry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my gf for 4 and a half years now. She has gone back to her home country for 2 months and will be returning in February next year. The thing is that she's hurt by my actions and wants me to make it up to her to prove my love to her. Here is the ... (485 words)

I like him but am afraid to be his girlfriend...he says he'll wait til I'm ready but he didnt....what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and this guy have liked eachother for almost 7 months but havnt kissed yet but sometimes he holds me and when he walks me home we hold hands, but we havnt kissed because im afraid to cause im almost 15 and he just turned 15 this october but i have always been scared of ... (173 words)

I am interested in swinging but I worry the other men are too 'big' for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I are very interested in swinging. I have been wanting to try this for years and now that we have discussed it for some time now we both are anxious to get into the game! I have a little fear though. I am small, height, weight and "otherwise". My husband is ... (138 words)

He slept with a prostitute

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i found out that my boyfriend of 7 years slept with a prostitute on a lads weekend. he had been to a STD clinic and i found the appointment slip. at first he tried to deny anthing and then admitted it. i asked him to leave, and he left the next day taking everything with him. i ... (191 words)

How can I save my friends and keep these boys away from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i have a problem well i have two best friends and they are also best friends too!!! But recently some boys are coming between their friendship,the two boys are using one of my friends,to get to her virginity and i found out and i told her that,i also gave her a long ... (271 words)

Is he using me for sex? Friends with benefits maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Dr. Cupid, I'm in a real sticky situation. I'm seperated from my husband and i have been seeing this guy (best friend) for about 4+ months now. We see eachother 2-3 times per week. We have the best time when we are together and he did tell me he was in love with me abo... (195 words)

In love with my sister-in-law and afraid of losing her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age - i was alone with my wife's sister march of 2008. we were alone at a place where she used to live. i was and still am really in love with her, and i am pretty sure she feels the same about me. we were alone in her kitchen i froze. i could have stood next to her and kissed her, ... (210 words)

What should I do: get over it or let him know how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY ITS SO LONG! this is the background story: okay, so over the summer my group of guy friends kind of merged with this other group of boys. i had hung out with them before but i didnt really know all of them too well. one of them (joe*) is the brother of my brothers b... (610 words)

Is this a lost cause? I feel threatened by his best friend, she will soon come here and I'll study in another city.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry about this being so long. I honestly didn't realize I went on this long rant until I was finished. Anyways, I hope you have the patience... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now (January 1, 2010 will be our one-year). Anyways, his best friend (who... (753 words)

He gets upset about my b/f. Does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok at the beginning of the year i met this boy online called simon. he lives 2 hours away from me and he is the same age as me. i`ve got loads of pictures of him and we have chatted once on the phone. the first time we talked he asked me out and he told me that he fell in love ... (133 words)

Should I delete him off facebook, or is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if to delete him. Basically we met at a festival 4 months ago, when we met we couldnt stop talking and it was dead sweet because we lost each other. And i thought id never see him again and i searched for him on facebook when i got home with just his first name and... (360 words)

My husband leaves all family responsibility on me, how can I be happy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married now for 2years i was married with two kids i work and he works also, my salary is smaller than his but i pay more bills than he pays and he spends his money in pubs with friends, i feel very bad, i am responsible for all, for my kids and also for him, what can ... (76 words)

Does it always hurt to be fingered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and my boyfriend is 16. he has been fingering me on and off for the past two years. I could say I am normally relaxed I think :S. I also tell my boyfriend what to do and if its hurting,it even hurts when he uses one finger so we stick to that,but it never feels ... (95 words)

I just started birth control and haven't had my period yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so i started birth control the end of last month/ the begining if this month. and this sunday i should have started my period, but its tuesday and still nothing. i havent fully had sex yet. like my boyfriends when half way in. but he never ised a condom. but he always pulled ... (93 words)

Why do I feel jealous when my teacher talks to other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

29 December 2009 (?) age 26-29 - I've had this teacher last year now I have him this year. I've caught him looking at me and we talk for ages and we have walked out of school together laughing and joking on numerous ocasions we are interested in the same things and we make each other laugh and he's always ... (102 words)

An older man I fancy is sending me mixed messages

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, Im 18 years old and in June i met a guy in the army who was 25 when i was 17. He came onto me, kissed me and asked me for my number etc. I wanted to see him again so text him the next day asking if he wanted to go for drinks. He said due to the nature of his job, it ... (355 words)

My boyfriend wants to me to date another man as well

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've got questions for those who have lived this certain way. My boyfriend and I are very turned on by the idea of me dating another guy LTR - long term relationship. We have a second bedroom that we would decorate and setup, the second guy would think I'm single a... (184 words)

How should I suggest my girlfriend have her nipples pierced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I think pierced nipples are really sexy and I want my girlfriend to get hers done. How should I bring it up? She was going to get her nose pierced a while back but decided not to because her employers would have frowned on it. We've been together four years.... (53 words)

I use masturbation to relieve stress...but I feel guilty afterwards. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm 15 years old and i've been masterbating since I was 2...Literally. I tried to stop last year but I still do it up to this day, although I feel guilty, dirty, and ashamed after. I heard it's a stress reliever , it does take away all my other stress but puts this new ... (119 words)

Should I be worried about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has this friend who is a girl. He has been friends with her for a long time way before he met me. The thing is she acts nice to me but you could tell its a fake nice because its over the top. Don't any of you ever get that feeling? It's just something in your gut ... (719 words)

Can't Let an Arguement Go, Wont Fight Fair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. He has been thus far the best boyfriend I've ever had, loving, caring, always there for me. Since around September, things haven't been the same. We spent WAY too much time together, and when we went back to schoo... (491 words)

Should I ask him to wear a condom even though we are not having intercourse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - New Year`s coming soon and my boyfriend and I will be together on one of the party in my friends house. We`re dating about 2 months and now we want to be a little more intimate. I`m not going to sleep with him cause I`m not ready for that yet but we were thinking on something ... (128 words)

Girl texts my boyfriend at odd hours late at night. Is she more than a colleague or a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for approx. 8 months now. We belong to different cultures. He is an introvert and likes his space. He does not share a lot about his friends. I assume that is because he wants to give them their privacy. Quite recently, a girl has started texting ... (199 words)

Are people everywhere using these guys pics or what is going on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - a couple of months ago i started to use this site called meez where u create an avatar and interact with others (im a guy and im bi but like guys a little more). so i made a girl avatar because i wanted to talk to guys and its a little harder to find guys interested in guys. so ... (401 words)

I cheated on him and now he won't respond to my texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my ex boyfriend and I’m unsure whether he likes me or not. We have a bit of a history so I don’t know whether to say anything to him or not. We’ve been out 3 times and I know that sounds really bad. The first time we went out things just didn’t work, the second time I d... (281 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 18 an my bf an i had been dating for over a yr,i am suppose to be ovalation on 27th of dec on tht day a drop of sprem hit my vagina, could i prego, i dont want to but if it is i'm ready for the responsiblity plz help me in answerin the questio... (57 words)

I really want to know why he would rather masturbate than sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi I am 38 and have been married for 4 years (hubby is same age). It is both of ours' second marriage. There is 2 children. One 7y from my previous marriage and one of 2y that we had together. Our sexlife has never been massively passionate. More like comfortable. Past y... (370 words)

What can I do to get him back and mend all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, my partner and i have just broken up after 2 years. we were living together and ive had to move out with some of the pets. my ex broke it off because of a misunderstanding between me and his boss. ive explained and apologised to him but he doesnt want to know. we had ... (236 words)

All he thinks about is sex, sex, sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm having a problem with my boyfriend.I am nearly 26 and this is the first time to fall in love, we are having some problems the first and important one is in the way we think, all he thinks of is sex and I don't think of it that much. He lived 15 years of his life get... (433 words)

I want to stop thinking about him sleeping with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help and advice, something is playing on my mind and is detrimental to my relationship. My boyfriend has a good female friend, and they always used to flirt and I did wonder if anything was underlying. Me and my boyfriend had a month or so of not being together, during ... (185 words)

Need advice on how to top thinking about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need help and advice on how I can do this, finally let go of my ex... Today after 10 years and 3 years seriously I have finally realised in my heart, soul and head that my ex partner has to be gone from my life. He is so bad for me, for any woman, despite fact I st... (644 words)

How can I stop being so paranoid about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my boyfriend of two months made out with another girl a week before he asked me out, she's pretty,skinny and i'm well not like her lets say. i have a very low ego but put on confidence. i am going to a party where she is going to be and she is pretty slutty and tries to ... (80 words)

Boyfriend doesn't trust me and I'm sick of it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just saw the search history on my boyfriends computer. We've been together for almost two years, and I have never once been unfaithful or lied. I reassure him constantly that he is the one I want to be with. He tells me that he trusts me and then accuses me of in... (223 words)

Promises she makes to me often get broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - wel this is serious i belong from a conservative family and i m in love with a girl who lives far away from me, we never met b4 in person and we hv been in to this for 3years. we both put a lot of efforts for this relation and i hv been throughly committed and faithful... (556 words)

I'm too needy and g/f & I got off on the wrong foot

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help please! I feel I am just too needy and that my girlfriend and I have got off on the wrong foot. My girlfriend and I moved in together about three months ago and we've been together for just over a year altogether. When we first met, to be honest I think her own i... (524 words)

I don't know whether we should be together or not?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - re-united or not hi, my emotions are all over the place at the moment and therefore felt the urge to write to cupid to have a litle light shed on this situaton. I am now 29. I knew this guy 10 years ago. One night he walked me home from work as he didn't want me wa... (886 words)

Hormonal with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well basically I like this guy that goes to a different school then me. I used to go to the same school as him but I moved about 15 minutes and had to go to another school district! Anyway we always liked eachother when i went to his school! So two years ago and now I'm ... (274 words)

I have a fantasy of the "perfect man"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a bit confused at the moment, hope someone can help. I have this thing for cute, blond men and I've always dreamed of ending up with a man like that. I met one a year ago, we dated a little and I fell head over heels for him. But he said he didn't want a relationship and... (395 words)

Am I living in a little world of my own? I want to have a baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid, I just need some advice. I will put the picture together for you.. Im 20 years old and am from and living in the UK. My boyfriend who i have been with for just over a year, is in the US Navy and living in california with work. We fly to see each other every 2 or 3 m... (198 words)

Being friends with your best friend's girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is so long: So my best friend dumped his old girlfriend for a new girl. In my circle of friends both of them were big parts of the group. The new girl is not very welcome in the group now and my best friend has pretty much burned bridges and now I am really his only... (322 words)

Is it normal for me to be so afraid of his penis?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been seeing this boy for while now, and thing are starting to get intense, sexually. He rub me and makes me orgasm, but I'm too scared to do anything to him. I don't know what's wrong with me but every time I touch his penis I get jumpy and scared. I've given him a ... (140 words)

Can I ask why he's suddenly become very consistent with the condoms or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Let's skip the safe sex talk cause, yeah I know better but anyway... I've had a friends with benefits relationship with this guy for the past 5 months. He's overall a decent and respectful guy and we used to see each other at least once a week when we were home in the same... (209 words)

We are on a break,what should I do to show her that I love her more than anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend are on a break,what should I do to show her that I love her more than anything?She says that she needs space and some time apart from eachother and says that I must not see it as a bad thing,but I don't know what to think and how she feels.I was jeal... (109 words)

Married for less than a month then she want me no more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - helo good people. im a traditionally married for less than a year to a lady who had sex more times than i did and she also had a big penis penetrating in her b4 me. her pussy is big for my penis and her pussy is very wet and sometimes it stinks very bad that at night she had ... (383 words)

Are these signs that he likes me or just doesn't want to be my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my guy best friend are really really close. when we started the new school year he used to find me in the halls and talk to me and always wanted to hug me. when i would see him in his class he would always wave and smile at me. recently whenhe would see me in the halls ... (117 words)

I'm a virgin at the age of 23...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I will be 23 in february and i am still a virgin. My best friend and the family members who know say its such a good thing and hold me up on some sort of pedestal. I know they are saying this because its the right thing to say and life experiences (as far as my fr... (306 words)

I don't want to give her the impression that I like her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

29 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well this girl I used to like keeps telling me she loves me and well I kind of look at her and give her this look like smile and a small shake of the head idk how to better explain but I think I'm giving her the impression that I like her but I don't and I don't want to just ... (70 words)

Creepy Cousin

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well when I was about 5 or 6, my teenage cousin raped me, not molested. He actually penetrated me. Anyways 2day is my 16th bday and my cousin and I have the same bday. So his mom called and told me happy bday then she gave the phone to him. As he talked to me I was kinda ... (143 words)

How Can I Break Them Up?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I have like 4ever is dating some freshmen (we are juniors)that he only met a week ago, its obvious hes rebounding from his last gf cause they only broke up a month ago. I stayed out of his last relationship and let it take its course but this time I cant wait it out. ... (83 words)

My ex keeps texting out of the blue.

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex over a year ago. I have to admit, she is the only girl I have ever loved. But I don't mind being single and she never seemed to really commit after a year and a half. Early on after the break-up she would ask me to dinner and then cancel at the least ... (192 words)

Trapped! What do I do about him?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Recently, I went to my friend's church. I met a guy there. Let's call him Bob. He gave me his number after the service and ever since We've been talking. At first, things went great. He is such a sweetheart. Always calling me cute names, telling me he wants to hold ... (413 words)

How to ask her out without ruining our future

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright my best friend and i ahve been friends for a while now and i have recently fallen in love with her. She knows that i love her, because i tell her all the time. I cant stop thinking about her and even when i sleep i literally dreams about her. They're not sexual dreams ... (152 words)

We won't be getting back together and it hurts

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, ok... I am in love with someone and I never felt this way about anyone in my life. We broke up and we are still really good friends but we have talks. We still love eachother and still tell eachother we love them. My only problem is that we wont be getting back together ... (153 words)

At first I found him rather repulsive but now I like him

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there was this guy that I used to find repulsive but he started to change his attitude and I became attracted to him. We started to have some kind of connection but there was one problem there was a girl he was already hanging out with only they just talked to eachother ... (236 words)

I need to get out of this relationship!

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The person who I call my "boyfriend" is very abusive, but I'm too way too scared to leave him. I've quite literally woken up from the delusion that he "loves" me. He has never hit me, but he has been intentionally rough: He has left bruises all over my body and sctratches o... (163 words)

Weird feeling about teacher in a bad way

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always had this weird feeling about my teacher in a bad way. I cannot describe it but he does stuff. Like looks at me for to long and when I turn to look back he turns away. And whenever we r discussing something in class he always sits on the table in front of me with ... (179 words)

We're in love but my mom and his dad doesn't like us going out.

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29 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok, so Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a very long time now, and we fell in love, I love him soooooooooo much, he's everything Ive ever wanted and Id rather die than live without him. But my mom HATES him! Idk why, she just does, and she wont tell me why when i ask ... (304 words)

If its just a crush I don't want to act on it

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused as to whether I like this girl or not, as I don't wish to follow suit if its just a crush. Theres at girl I work with who I've hung around with a lot more, we've even gone out with a couple a few times and the other day when I saw her I remember being shocked ... (150 words)

Head over heels in love since October

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I have been entirely head over heels in love with this boy since October. He is also my best friend. The 'I can tell you anything whatsoever' type of best friend. The issue is he's in love with a girl that lives very far away, (she loves him too) he has a girlfrie... (203 words)

My gf lied and cheat on me back in hometown

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid, I've been going out with my philippine gf for 6 months now and we have lots of great time together. lemme introduce herself first. as i did before in my previous post, i will do it again here. she have a kid in philippine when she was 17. she came to my country 7... (841 words)

Desire during sex!

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So what does it mean, when a girl says she wants to feel desired during sex? I guess im just stupid, but if im doing her, obviously i desire her? are there any tips, on making her feel desired?... (39 words)

The perfect relationship

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 months now....and well were perfect for each other. I mean we both make each other feel good about ourselves, for example I am kinda fat and she is too but i tell her she is beauitful everyday cause I think so, she tells me im cute. but my ... (108 words)

Nervous about doing something wrong during sex

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - help! my boyfriend is 18 and i'm 15. my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months. both him and i have never been in a relationship this long. i really do love him, i've NEVER felt like this before. we broke up once, and it was horrible. i couldn't get out of bed. i ... (96 words)

5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn to make the relationship work ... (56 words)

How can I find him?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want help on this one... So this is the beginning... In 2008 I met this guy. We talked a lot and had a lot in common. We ended up liking each other. But I think it was more like love. He wanted to be together with me, but couldn't because he is bad with long distance ... (188 words)

I'm too obsessed with the desire to have sex!

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I have a pretty big problem. The thing is, I've been way too obsessed with the desire to have sex that it's really frustrating me lately. I come from a very conservative family but I've been hooked on pornography for about half a year now. I don't have a boyfriend ... (165 words)

I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me.

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me. At the same time I'm reluctant to fit the whole paranoid-woman stereotype, but I can't help it. For starters, he cheated on his girlfriend before me. Multiple times, with multiple girls. While I didn't exactly think this was s... (284 words)

Confused sub, please help.

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a submissive in a D/s relationship and my Dom actually asked me to marry him yesterday. I love him and naturally said yes, but I'm not sure how it will affect our dynamic. I really enjoy being his sub and don't want to lose the feeling of being his when we wed. Can anyone ... (69 words)

What does it mean when someone says this?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ..what doess it mean if someone says that they dnt ever want to lose you,and they will never hurt you,and when they say" i love you with all my heart"and when they say"we have a special bond"..and when they say"they will never leave you"... (44 words)

He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??... (33 words)

What are some of the early signs of pregnancy?

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my question is about before a missed period and pregnancy ... what were some mild symptoms before finding out ur preggo... not the throwing up stuff but more like ain in ovaries and stuff like that?... (38 words)

Not enjoying sex, whats wrong with me?

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29 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So a few months ago I lost my virginity to my gf. It went okay if not a little quick (which is expected) however now ive had alot of sex, I do not enjoy it. It comes down to my penis being a little on the small side. When im having sex with my gf (she never complains) I feel ... (91 words)

Sputtering idiot when it comes to goodlooking guys...HELP!

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29 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Can anyone offer any advice or in the same boat? I have a confidence problem that is really starting to annoy me now, as I think it is jeopordising my chances at relationships!! Ok it's not a problem with friends/work colleagues/people I dont romantically like, I am very ... (232 words)