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*etchemimi20
writes:Okay now I know this may sound ridiculously jerkette and dumb, but...I don't want to be in love. But I am. Now yes I am happy because of it but the other side of my mind snarls at the happiness. With my personality, I just do not feel under control, on the safe side, or watchful in this relationship. An since I began knowing this I've become withdrawn in it and it's like living through it numbly. Ive been with him for 2 years now. He has messed up in the past but sideline kisses doesn't anger me so much. I don't know why. It's just not worth ending your relationship over. I'm not saying I never want to be in a relationship, I just don't want to become vulnerable and puppetized in it. I need the self-reigns in it. He had sex with three girls in a 3-4 month range. We dealed if he messed up again it's completely done. My idiotic self said "Deal!"Now. I just want to end it and just put my whole mind on my self and not have to worry about someone else in there too. But I also know when I do half of my heart will leave with him. But that half is causing me too much mental stress. What should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lakisha +, writes (15 May 2010):
 I would say end it cause u don't want to catch somthing u can't get rid of and the way that it works to u don't know who has what u can't say weather r not he use protection cause u weren't there but I think that u can find someone who wants u for u inside and out follow u heart if it says stay if u do just be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): Way to go :) Good luck with things =)
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reader, metchemimi20 +, writes (15 May 2010):
metchemimi20 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well thankyou guys SO much! I had went through alot of struggle: wanting to break up with him but afraid what would I be feeling after I did and if it would be too late. But I did it(: Obviously, sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion. Its usually the right one I guess. And I AM doing better without him. So that stress block has been broken down. Of course I find my mind wandering to missing him, but not enough this time.(:
I really appreciate the answers thank you guys trememndously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): You are too young to be dealing with this. Dump the cheater and go back to being a carefree teenager. He isn't worth all this pain you are going through, believe me.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 December 2009):
Your heart won't leave with him, because there will be someone better than this guy. He cheated 3 times! Don't waste your time being fourth best in a man's life. You can do better. Your Mr Right is still out there waiting for you. Dump this guy!
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reader, hameleon89  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 I think here you have a friend sex partner, because if you don't feel so seriously atached, then you could see other people too.
Or if you do feel atached and you love, like, can't leave without him then you should be ready for a break because he is a jerk.He isn't worth you,
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