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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

This girl is a thorn in my side...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

- My bf is really good friends with this girl and her bf. I get the feeling that the girl is trying to break me and my bf up, or something like that anyway. I am interested in other peoples outsiders veiws of the situation. Just so you know, my bf, this girl and his friends ... (967 words)

He wants to get more intimate with me and I feel I'm ready. How can I be less nervous about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my boyfriend has been trying to finger me for the past month but I never let him because I wasn't ready. I'm ready now and I want him to, but I'm a little nervous about it! Ya know like whether or not I should shave down there, and that kinda of stuff? Is it going to ... (77 words)

My mother's ideas and mine clash on morality

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom has these outdated ideas about relationships/dating/sex. She’s not a strict person but when it comes to these things she’s very prude. I stayed over at my bf’s house the other night. The day before I told her where I would be spending the night…she didn’t say anything. ... (249 words)

Why am I so attracted to black guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, white. Okay so I've always been attracted to guys of all races, but recently I've been really attracted to black guys. What's with my sudden interest?... (28 words)

Will it be third time lucky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Well....I like this boy and his name is Bill, but i asked hi, if he liked me at thee beginning of the school year, and he said no i would like to just stay friends, then i asked him again later in thee year and he said the same thing. But i asked him 2 days ago and he said i ... (170 words)

I struggle to trust, and I "found" a text he sent another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I am struggling to trust him. It is probably my own trust issues but I keep finding reasons not to trust him. He swears he is loyal and loves me. But I found a text message he sent to another girl, a supposed friend, telling ... (68 words)

He keeps promising, but never follows through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was introduced to a guy about 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up. From what I know of him I really like him. We have been out a couple of times and we also go to the same church. I thought we were having a good time when we went out... (407 words)

I am in love, but she's my boss

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I know i'm in love but should i tell her,i'm 43 and not getting any younger. I've known this woman for about 8 years i was instantly attracted to her as soon as i saw her and there isn't a day that goes by that i don't think about her.I really want to tell her how i feel but ... (152 words)

I don't know how to tell if a woman is flirting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 December 2009 (?)

- What would you consider the best signs being in regards to a 55 year old woman flirting with a 48 year old woman? What signs would you look for in order to get a better handle on whether or not she is flirting with you?... (45 words)

It's driving me crazy how this "thing" is not progressing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have a classmate (we have all classes together) and I like him. A lot. and I thought he liked/like me too BUT I'm not so sure anymore.. This has been going on for a year and in the meantime we've kinda become friends. At first there was a lot of staring and w... (542 words)

I have been married for a few short months, but the no sex is getting to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married several months now. Things didn't start too postively when my wife was too tired to make love on our wedding night. It was a tiring day so this was fair enough and I didn't create a fuss. Howver ever since we have sex so rarely, every few weeks at best. I ... (135 words)

Will he wake up and realise what he has lost?

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, I'd be really grateful if you could let me know what you think i should do or how to get over my ex fiance. I haven't spoken to him since last week when i stormed out the house and haven't responded to his email. I've written a mega long essay question called 'he's ... (121 words)

My girlfriend of 13 wont even kiss me, she is frigid!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok i am 13 years old and have a girlfriend who is friged but dosent want to be and she gets scared and backs away when i try to kiss OR EVEN HUG HER i like her alot and really dont want to dump her but for weeks now it seems that she dosent even want to hang around with me at ... (89 words)

My girl is sexually selfish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much work it is, or something ... (95 words)

My cheatin' heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my fiance. We have been together 6 years. I cheated and about a week later I couldn't handle it anymore, I had to tell her. I know I made a mistake and wanted to be honest. I love her to much to lie and get away with it. I knew it would hurt her by me telling ... (209 words)

I am so down after breaking up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice re my situation. 9 months ago I split up with my partner of 7 years because he walked out after a series of arguments which I think were mainly caused by him being depressed and at that time he was verbally abusive to me also. We had a lot of ... (305 words)

It took him three years to decide he didnt like my past and he dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three years just dumped me. He has issues with my past from a long time, and yet again he's giving me hard time over it. He said he feels he will never be able to forgive me. I never did anything too wild in my past, but he knew a couple of the guys I'd kissed ... (224 words)

I am the woman who dated the committment shy guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age - I am thew women that dated the commitment phobic guy for 2 1/2 years and broke up with him 7 months ago. How do I interpret this mans response? We got together this weekend and kept it platonic. He told me before he came out he is trying to figure himself out to be the man I am ... (171 words)

I have set high standards but worry those standards might be TOO HIGH!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for two years. That was the best relationship I had, but I matured a lot during the relationship. The things that i looked for in a relationship when it began, i no longer look for. I need more and i wont settle for less. However, since then, I fe... (158 words)

My dad doesn't want me dating black guys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My dad doesn't want me dating black guys. Which I think is terrible, but there's nothing I can do to change it. I just started going out with this back guy (I'm white), and I'm afraid of how my dad might react.. it's not that he's racist, he has many black friends himself, ... (172 words)

I try to have sex and my husband pushes me away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so confused and don't know what to do. I feel so distant from my husband. He does not seem to realize it but I feel like he is pushing me away. For the past three to four months he has been slowly doing this and it has been getting worse. He is more wrapped up in work, ... (189 words)

If he likes me, is there a chance he won't forget about me and we could get together next year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i know if he likes me? i met a very handsome and popular boy in our town a few weeks ago. we don't go to the same school, but we have some extra classes together once a week. in our group there is one more girl that doesn't like the fact he is in our group and ... (323 words)

My husband isn't interested in my well being

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13 December 2009 (F) age - It seems my husband isn't interested in my well-being. He is unloving to me, that is a sign that he is not caring about me. It is impossible for me to de-tach from this person while I'm living together because it seems I still love him. I don't believe I want to detach from ... (243 words)

I'm always the one to fix things after a fight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ...me and my bf got into an arguement ..nd he got really angry and told me not to text or call him anymore that he will do it whenever he feelz like it ...he also told me to do whatever the f**** i want nd that he'll do the same..so im asssumin he was sorta breaking up ... (126 words)

He knows I'm a virgin and play for keeps

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my mid 20s now and a few years ago I realized I wasn't completely straight and began to fancy guys. A few months ago I signed up on a dating site and identified myself as bi. I still don't feel totally ok with this, and for the past few weeks I've been talking online ... (138 words)

Although she denies it, her actions speak differently than her words

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (?)

- I'm a middle aged woman in love with another middle aged woman. She is married but has told me she loves her husband but is not in love with him. I told her that my feelings went deeper for her than just friendship and although she denied feeling the same way her actions ... (293 words)

Every time I work with him I don't want the time to end!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're flirting rathe... (347 words)

I met two men same night, blew off the single guy and am now crushing on the one with a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I went out to a nightclub with my friend last night.There was this guy i was interested in at first, and i danced with him for most of the night,but later on, i saw another guy i found attractive ( he looked like a younger Robert Downey jr, so in my opinion, he was very ... (599 words)

Second date confusion!

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13 December 2009 (F) - Had a great date over a week ago with a guy met on net..he made all the right moves added me as a friend on FB etc (i wouldnt have so early on as it tells you so much about people and you can see what the other is doing all the time!). The date was great we were out all night ... (353 words)

This isn't just lust I adore his personality too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, there's this guy I like, and I mean REALLY like and I'm really confused about the whole thing! The thing is, I can't go a day without thinking of him and I just find him perfect in every way even though he has his faults, but I think his faults make him . . .HIM. I've felt... (224 words)

Boyfriend doesn't act like he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend said he loves me but doesnt act like he loves me! he wont hold my hand when his friends are around but he held his ex-girlfriends hand all the time! should i tell him how i feel or just leave him?... (43 words)

Why has she started ignoring me when it was going so well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - right, so i've been going out with this girl for three weeks and we get on really well. we seem to be getting closer every time we see each other, we always hold hands and have kissed a couple of times. we went out last wednesday night and it was all good, we kissed again and ... (173 words)

He doesn't seem as "into me" any more! Is this down to his illness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of a month and a half is Bipolar II. For the first month he was attentive, romantic, physical and completely into me. He mentioned love before I did and couldn't wait to see me. Now he has become less physical and affectionate and seems distant. He still says he ... (142 words)

Please help!!! How can I tell her how I feel about her without scaring her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi! I am Ali and lookin for help for my problems so can you help me? Plz! ok!! So i'm 13 and am in love with a girl but i am very shy. I am overweight and have a medium height. I always get nervous whenever she passes me nearby, i think she also loves me bcoz i had seen her ... (117 words)

Help!!! Falling out of love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years. I am in love with him. The thing is, i dont want to love him any more. I tried to break up with him numerous times but it doesnt work. How do you fall out of love?... (50 words)

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then after i texed him and told him i... (111 words)

Did I make the right choice in dumping him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last night because my close friend told me that she asked him if its true that we got back together and he said "No we are not together". He's denying our relationship. It was very very painful to hear this. I called him and I confronted him about ... (210 words)

What's the best thing to do to cheer myself up after hearing this news?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a horrible mood, I just found out that my gf slept with some guy while she was really drunk (we were on a break at the time but she told me she wouldn't sleep with anyone). We took a break b/c she is in Europe studying abroad and hasn't gotten back yet. I'm very upset ... (120 words)

How can I make my cup runneth over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 24 F i want to increase my cupsize presently it should be 30 now i need it 36 how it can be possible pls sugest.... (25 words)

How do I finger my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is coming over to my house today. She might give me a hand/blowjob for the first time. I might also finger/rub her. Need some advice though as to what to do.... (33 words)

I lost my virginity on Friday and I'm worried about the bleeding

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i lost my virginity on friday and i lost quiet alot of blood straight after (about a full knicker lining) then after that the bleeding stopped and the next day i had a bit in another set of knickers as well. i havent yet started my periods so could the sex have started my ... (64 words)

My brother raped me when I was in 4th grade

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was in fourth grade, my brother (9th grade) had been touching me a lot lately and saying sexual things and putting on porn while I was there in the room, showing me his genitals. I would try to cover him up but he'd uncover himself again. I didn't know what was going on, ... (481 words)

My first time giving my boyfriend a handjob. How do I know if I did it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just gave my boyfriend a hand job for the first time last nigh. It was also the first time I have ever given one. I was just wondering how I could tell if he enjoyed it or not?... (39 words)

My wife and I both had affairs but she won't forgive me for mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - After many months of hell, and my wife's affair, my suspected affair, myself and my wife decided to give it another go. She has been honest with all that has happenned, so I decided to confirm to her the affair I had that she suspected. She's gone crazy and now its all over, ... (103 words)

What is the Kama Sutra?

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13 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - What is Kama Sutra or however you spell it? My boyfriend whats to do it or have it or whatever. But I have no idea what it is.... (29 words)

How do I tell a friend I fancy that I might be bi-curous?

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i need some help. ok im not sure if i am bi or not. i guess you can say bi curious. but im not sure how to tell my friends, and i kind of like one of my really good friends. she is bi herslef but she has a boyfriend and im not sure if she feels the same towards me. im ... (102 words)

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. and everything was going great he treated me better than any other guy ever has. but a couple days ago people kept coming up to me and telling me that my boyfriend was planning on breaking up with me. so when i asked him he ... (168 words)

Is this a sign he cares???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had to break up with my bf and havent heard a word from him since. He has messaged me and is apparently too scared to talk to me, or call me. i feel kind of hurt by this, as we've shared so many years together and he doesnt have the guts to pick up the phone yet send tex... (96 words)

How can I give the boy I fancy an extra Christmas present without him guessing that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok for christmas im giving presants to my friends but my friends who are boys are just gunna get packets of sweets but with the one i like i really want to give him two but what excuse can i use to give it him without him knowing i like him? x x x... (54 words)

Why does he act like this when we are not together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, i have a problem and im just getting sick of it. My bf has been acting really weird lately and in a mean way, he has been ignoring me and pushing me away. I try to talk to him about it but he just pretends he doesnt hear me or he just wont say anything back. I ask hi... (251 words)

Does my boss I fancy know that I was snooping on his facebook profile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I have been view my bosses facebook page (not on company computer). His photo, music, profile were open. (I have not ask him to be facebook friends do to the fact he is my boss but I am curious about him) A couple of days after I viewed his photos and music they ... (89 words)

What is going on here? He is wanting to exchange presents with his ex, but he has just proposed to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. I find myself in a situation where most females are on here on the website. Me and boyfriend well now fiance have been together for a little over two years. Hw told me he was in love very quickly and we just sprang from there. Everything isn't all peacy though, he has an ... (427 words)

My friend had a child with a one night stand, should she tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A friend of mine asked my advice on this situation and I had no idea what to tell her. She is a 19 year old single mother and the father of her baby doesn’t know that she had his baby. She feels that she doesn’t want to tell him because he has such bad habits and she doesn’t ... (122 words)

I regret having my son because he ties me to this relationship! Should I leave or am I just bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have lived with my boyfirend for three years and we have a 2 year old son together. My elder son of 17 also lives with us. I have two grown-up daughters who live away. Although I do still have strong feelings towards my partner I realise we are very mismatched in nearly every ... (151 words)

I don't understand why he's treating me like this!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I met a guy about a week ago through my friend's boyfriend. We had been talking for about a week but we didn't know how each other looked. I mean he was so sweet that I immediately became attached. We met up friday and everything went downhill. We he first looked at me I ... (230 words)

Japanese women really annoy me. What is their problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Maybe it's just me, but I've been here in Japan for almost half a year and I'm noticing that I'm becoming increasingly more and more annoyed with Japanese women. Now, I'm not racist, but a lot of Japanese women absolutely irk me. I think the thing that annoys me the most is how ... (142 words)

Sex and masturbation.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been combined into one] 1. hi.......can somebody tel me wht are d different types of doing sex m new cn somebody help me pls pls cn someone tel me hw to do sex ??? 2. can sumbody tel me wht is masturbation????... (57 words)

How to respond without scaring him off?

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone and merry X-mas, I need some help if you can; my ex and I broke up 5 months ago, at first we didn't talk at all, but like 2 months after the break up we started talking, he would txt me every day, all day. Then without reason he stopped txting me for 2 days, last ... (142 words)

If I follow my career dream it means another three years apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. We met when we were both working abroad over the summer, and when the summer ended we decided to keep things going even though he lives in Holland and myself in England. With the help of Skype and cheap flights ... (426 words)

I don't know whether I should wait for him to tell me stuff or just out and ask!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know did my boyfriend have any serious relationship before me... it`s only because I`m curious, not because I think that is realy important. Also, I`m not sure that he`s virgin like me, so I have a little doubt, should I just ask him and how to do that or should ... (71 words)

I just have to get this off my chest .................

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this one is quite long...sorry. ill start from the begining. i am in a long term reationship and after about 1year and a half, things werent soo great, lots of arguments, etc and he really didnt pay me any attention ant more. i really loved him but just didnt want to be there... (230 words)

I keep having bad dreams

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i keep having really long vivid not very nice dreams. i wouldn't call them nightmares because they don't scare me as such, they are just unpleasant and do not give me restful sleep as i seem to act out my dreams in my sleep (or thats how my muscles feel when i wake up). there ... (238 words)

I fell in love with a girl on a train, found out who she is, but she doesn't want anything to do with me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am i love with this girl that i saw a couple of times when i took a train. i found out about her from a common friend of ours.. He gave me her contact details and i contacted her, i chatted with her a couple of times under the pretense that i found a book of hers. when i told ... (150 words)

Two people I love are having problems in their relationship and I don't know how to help them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - howdy pretty people. so i have my cousin whose also my best friend. well hes datin my friend who just happens to be a really good girlfriend. they have been datin for about 4 months and its perfect. but my cousin had been acting really weird lately. in like a mean way. he ... (99 words)

I'm scared that he's still not over his ex, I don't know if I should break up with him over this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about one and a half years now. He's very sweet to me and cares about me, but he still hasn't said "i love you" yet. I know that I shouldn't be comparing, but he said "i love you" to his ex way before one and a half year. He also talks about ... (156 words)

My boyfriend wished his ex happy birthday on facebook but ignored mine!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Things have been going amazingly well recently between me and my boyfriend. But I recently saw something which really upset me and got me thinking. This year, despite the fact that we text/call each other every day, my boyfriend didn't wish me a happy birthday. I didn't receive ... (344 words)

My ex is now going out with my friend and I am sooo jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so im inlove with my ex, and hes got a new girlfriend now. she and i r friends and im so jealous. i want him back sooooo badly. idk wat to do. and i cant just move on. iv tried. its so hard. i want to be with him. any advice on how to get him back?... (57 words)

My husbands anger is getting worse and he is resorting to violence

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

13 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know what to do!!! my husband and i have our problems but i think we argue more than anything. it has resently gotten worse. the other day he got pulled over for the third time without a license and i told him he isn't driving anymore. he didn't like that idea and when ... (146 words)

My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 months old, and we are ... (186 words)

My girl has changed over the past 5 months and now I don't love her the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For a few weeks (about 3), I've been confused about the way i feel about my girlfriend. We have been going on strong for 5 months now, and we were completely attached to each other. But recently I've been having doubts. Now that she has this new apprenticeship, I barely see ... (161 words)

I rang the guy my friend is interested in, because I believe he is married and cheating

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't registered on this site, thankyou so much in advance for all of your advice :) Sandra tells me that she meets this really good looking guy at work. She told me this a week ago. Says he is funny, and outgoing and witty. One day while they were both working, so... (630 words)

I want to encourage my wife to have more sex!

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am very interested in sex, talking about sex, trying different things .... my wife too enjoys it a lot. but not always. she gets into mood only once in a while. actually there were occasions where she was over powering me, this happens only some times. i would like to ha... (172 words)

I think two staff members at my school are having an affair

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think that 2 people at my high school are having an affair. The thing is, their not students. I think he knows I know as well. Lets call my principal 'Street' and my vice principal 'Watson'. Street is the macho principal. Watson, is the woman who wears low cut shirts and ... (326 words)

I want to chat up somebody I don't know on facebook

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw a guy on facebook who is extremely good looking. Unfortunately, i do not know him. I want to talk to him, but do not want to come off as desperate. What is the best way to open communication?... (40 words)

I don't want to give a gift in bad taste

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it in bad taste or bad relationship etiquette to give my GF the same gift (a custom-designed collectible) two christmases in a row? She loved the one I got her last year and I thought about getting her another one this year.... (48 words)

I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that even though him and i broke ... (182 words)

I don't know how to tell if boys are interested!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Not very long, but I feel really stupid asking this question. Guy #1: We've never talked in person to each other before. He started to text me in October, and when he did, he asked me a bunch of questions like what my favorite bands are, etc. and he said he wanted to ha... (169 words)

I have heard rumours my 15 yo boyfriend is gay, and I am a girl!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriends 15. i'm worried about his sexuality and i'm not sure if its just rumors starting to sink in or if he really is. don't get me wrong he is really sweet and very funny but sometimes he sends off signals. when we first started dating people questioned ... (124 words)

A boy who wants to have sex with me and his girlfriend are upset with me, my ex wont get back with me and another friend is pregnant and I am dropping grades due to all this

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there I'm 15, and right now, I'm extremely stressed out, so I thought I'd come to you guys and ask for some advice. Within the past few months, I've had a hard time social wise because of a boy that I can't seem to fall out of love with. He's one of the few people that m... (425 words)

I don't understand the difference between girlfriend and best friend!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need some advice on how to handle a situation I have. Let me warn you this is a little long... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half, and over time I've slowly come to see him as my best friend too while being a romantic relationship with him. I feel... (657 words)

Mixing alcohol and drugs

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm hoping that someone can give me some advice here. Can being on a course of anti depressants and drinking alcohol be destructive to someone and cause them to make rash decisions? I would really appreciate some advice on this subject. Thank you.... (46 words)

I don't know if I should start dating a new guy when I am still not over the last guy

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I go dating with a guy I have feelings for when I am still not over the pain and hurt from the last relationship? I have feelings for this guy but I am really afraid to fall in love again because of the betrayal from my previous relationship (half a year ago). I don't ... (97 words)

I don't know how soon after starting to date we can have sex!

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, guys! I need your help. Several questions: 1)after how long, 3 months or longer they have dated gf nd bf often have sex? 2)knowing little about sex, what should i pay attin to for the first time having sex? 3) how many sex positions nd which s good... (49 words)

Is an age gap of 6 years at age 16 and 22 immoral in the UK?

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I am a gay 22 year old and I live in England. There is a guy who has liked me for months, I've only liked him for a week (before last week I really wasnt interested despite him telling me how much he cares for me as a friend and a romantic interest) he is 16 years ... (230 words)

Your average sized guy...

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How are us average sized guys meant to reconcile the fact that the average sized girl can take more than 50% volume of dick that we have? Our goal is to give maximum sexual pleasure, and in almost all cases, bigger is better (up to a point) (don't talk about dicks that are t... (383 words)

My emotions are taking over my life...

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My emotions are runing my life at the moment. im extremely conscious of myself, its ALWAYS on my mind and when lots of people are around itend to cover my mouth and nose up so no one can see my face. my counciler says i worrie too much. i dont like to tell people about how... (210 words)

I'm willing to let him go to make him happy... should I fight for him and try to get back together?

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, its kind of a long story. but short version. i was dating this guy for a year and i had been flirting throughout the whole relationship and not being such a good gf but i never cheated, at least not physically. i just flirted a lot and well eventually he and i moved in... (315 words)

I am in love with my same sex teacher

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, first off, I realize this situation is incredibly cliche, but I can't seem to get over it by myself. I'm eighteen years old, female, a senior in high school, and I am completely in love with my female government teacher. Blah, blah, blah, yes I know I'm gay, I've ha... (448 words)

Should I give him space in the hope that he contacts me again?

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13 December 2009 (F) - Okay where do I start?? I met this guy through a friend 2 years ago. When I met him, I could tell he was really attracted to me. He was SO nice to me that it was too obvious that he liked me so that was sort of a turn off for me so I acted like I wasn't into him, and I really ... (1673 words)

I need to learn how to have fun and enjoy life

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, i recently moved in with him in an upper part of a house. i just had knee surgery and had to quit my job as a hair stylist, its very hard to find a job now so he has been taking care of me because its hard ... (240 words)

My boyfriend has a baby and spends time with the baby Mama!

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13 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I been with my boyfriend for close to 3yrs there is a big age difference between us but I love him very much. Anyway about 1yr ago he cheated on me and got another woman pregnant that hurted my soul because although I'm older then he is it still hurts. My question is am I ... (150 words)

I want to know how to strike up a friendship with her without looking silly!

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13 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Her: funny, cute, is in all the little clubs (NHS, Freshman support, Early childhood development, Key Club, choir, etc, etc) she gives amazing advice (one of the many reasons i like her) shes a senior in high school, and is really well known in the fine arts dep. at our school. ... (217 words)