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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She is blaming me for my ISP problems

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is pissed at me and wont talk to me because i keep disconnecting because of my internet was stuffing up on msn... i was full stressign and trying to reconnect but then when i got back on she said that when i kept disconnecting she couldnt be bothered talking to me ... (125 words)

She referred to me as a work friend, but I think she wants more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I met a woman at a work conference a few months ago. After the programming, we talked in the hotel bar for several hours before calling it a night and parting ways. Other conference attendees came and went. The discussion covered a lot of ground such as her immediate family ... (295 words)

I am in a legal quandary and am not sure of my rights!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The father of child has custody of my child, and i get to she her every other saturday (as painful as it is to say.)well me, my other daughter and fiance have moved since that court day which was 6 days ago. He says i have to give him address even though we live 10mins from ... (99 words)

Am I being sought for emotional attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure whether anyone can help me on here, but, I thought I'd give it a try. This is going to be pretty long, as it's so complicated, but I would really appreciate help. So where to start? I've known this guy, let's just call him "C", for about 6 years now. I a... (328 words)

How can I introduce myself to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this guy in my gym class and I asked him to ask the guy I like if he knew me and he said no.. so then he asked the guy I like if he had a girlfriend and he said he didnt, so then he asked the guy I like if he would consider going out with me and he said maybe, if I knew ... (86 words)

Why does he keep trying to contact me after I deleted him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, I am wondering about something. A teacher and I got pretty close last year and I fell for him, he found out and he then took advantage of my feelings and wanted me for sex. This really hurt so in october I deleted him off of chat and then about a month later he sent ... (184 words)

My Confusing Ex

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known this girl for like a year or 2. Lets call her S. We finally decided to date and everything was going good and perfect for a while. We made out and everything. One day S suddenly broke up with me. At first, she told me that she had a lot of stuff going on with sc... (768 words)

Why is my dad acting so protective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I graduate this month and I turn 18 in July. I don't plan on staying in town when I go to college and my boyfriend doesn't want me to be alone (good thing too). So I told my father and he flipped saying "not while he [my father] is still around." I don't get why he's doing t... (82 words)

How do I fix my marriage ?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband just had a baby 5 weeks ago and ever since we fight and for some reason he irritates me so much he is a marine so I understand he works a lot everyday but he comes home from work and "relaxes" he doesn't help with the baby he doesn't clean up after himself and ... (223 words)

I feel like I'm not enough for him

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for the past 8 months. When we first started dating he would always ask for a threesome with another girl (a complete stranger that we didn't know), but i always said no. I even threatened to leave him for the other girl IF i did decide to go through ... (195 words)

Do you think it's possible that this guy might have something weird going on with the neice?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been chatting online to a guy that we both know in a round about way. I know the guy's neice, and she apparently goes round to his house every single weekend. The guy is 18 years older than the neice, and my friend says that the guy never sends her e-mails at the ... (187 words)

Should I issue my married lover with an ultimatum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a married man for now a year. I am married but been seperated. It started as a fling. Then we fell in love with each other. His wife found out in May but he has continued to still see me. The thing is i am in my 40s and he is 50s so we are not teenagers and ... (324 words)

How do I handle this situation? What would YOU do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I hope you can help me.. I'm just a guy that has never been in a real relationship and have never been kissed. A few months ago I met this girl through a friend of mine, we became friends and we talked to each other about personal things. A month ago she s... (168 words)

I need your help guys! Should I tell him how I feel?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I worked with this guy on and off for the last few months. When we first worked each with each other, there was just a mutual flirtation. We always found silly excuses to talk to each other, but I didn't know him very well. More recently, it got to the point that we were ... (396 words)

She cheated on me a couple of days after we first started seeing each other... now I just feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not really looking for help, because I don't think there's anything I could possibly do to make myself feel better. I just need a place to share my feelings. But if you want to offer some feedback, please do. About a month ago, I split up with my girlfriend. We w... (307 words)

What do I do and how do I get through this week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months... it's going well, but when we met she was kind of involved in this long distance relationship with some other guy. She was very hesitant to get too involved with me due to that fact but a couple weeks ago she tells me she's ... (259 words)

Just a simple and sincere thank you to all of you...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've asked for help many times and I'm so thankful that so many wonderful people I have never met take the time to read other peoples stories and respond. This is not a message in request for advice but just a thank you to you all. Without the advice you guys are willing... (130 words)

Mole on face pretty or ugly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well, i have a mole on my top left forehead and i feel so insecure about it. but my mum tells me it makes me look 'pretty' and il never be allowed to remove it. Are moles ugly? please help!... (40 words)

Busy, or not interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a dr). I met this guy through friends and we really hit it off when he joined a group of us on a night out. As soon as I got home that night my friends were all calling telling me how into me he was a... (663 words)

My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty. I know this is probably over reacting but i got very upset by this, he always told me he never even looks at girls and i can't stand that he would look at a girl and think about how pretty she is. He's not a sexual person ... (317 words)

Is there a problem with us or am I just over analyzing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and i have been dating for a year and a half now.We only see each other weekends bcoz i work and she also recently started working and she has a 2year old child to attend to,which i have no problem with.The thing is we usually see each other friday nights and ... (290 words)

Drifting Apart

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been in a relationship for just over three months now, and it seems that in the last few days we are drifting apart... in the beggining of the relationship things started off quite quickly, and then immediately slowed almost to a halt. there were some serious mental ... (168 words)

How do you know when your hymen is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when your hymen is gone? I've managed to stick 2 fingers in there and a 6 inch dildo. Is it still gonna hurt my first time??... (32 words)

How do I help my friend forget her love from 2 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi a very good friend of mine had a crush with a guy 2 years back. He also liked her but he was new in school and didnt know other girls. They both had silent love for a month then he started ignoring her. After time he told another girl that he likes her but she kicked him ... (110 words)

I'm not sure I feel the same way I once felt about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months now. he's one of the few good guys left in the world. he's sweet, nice, and caring. but the only problem is he doesnt go to the same school i do and he doesnt live near me. we met through a work progra... (307 words)

I love my son, I love my ex but I have to chose between them!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again after being broken up for almost a year. Things seemed to be going okay . My teenage son who has never liked him, recently did something terrible to try to cause problems for us. I won't get into detail but my ex has seemed to ... (100 words)

I want my ex b/f back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 17 years old and about 2 weeks ago me and my 18 year old boyfriend broke up because he told me that he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. When we were dating I asked him more then once "Are you still in love with your ex"? and he always said no. Out of nowhere he ... (270 words)

I've fallen in love with my science teacher!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! I have fallen in love with my science teacher! he's really hot and nice. I can't stop thinking about him. I've had this problem before and i told my friends, but one of them told her brothers friends on me, so I'm not trusting them again. I got over it by telling a female ... (93 words)

DOes my ex like me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's not that long, so help me out a little, please? :) Okay, so we went out for about 7 months and we were both each others very first love. Now he has a new girlfriend for about a month now, and I'm just single and having fun. (But I still like him). The problem here is ... (255 words)

Does he love her more than he loves me?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my ex were still in love, but never had a releationship going after the other two didnt turn out. then him and this girl were married on facebook, and i asked him who she was and he said just a mate. and i kept asking, then finally he admitted to me that he liked her. ... (346 words)

Infatuated for over a year with him, he feels something too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this short. Basically, I am really infatuated with a guy i've known a little over a year. I told him in the early stage of our friendship (i.e. 1 month after we'd known each other) however, he made up some excuse to let me down gently. Fast forward a few months, he... (381 words)

Did I ruin my chances?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so it's kind of a long and confusing story, but I'll try my best to explain it. Last April, I started seeing a new guy that I really really liked. Throughout the ENTIRE time that we were together my ex boyfriend that I dated for two years was constantly texting me and ... (395 words)

Every time I have sex, it always hurts.

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well im a teen and been having sex for a while and it seem like every time i have sex it always hurts. like it's the first time .And i dont know what to do ... (36 words)

Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting...

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5 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Me and my ex keep arguing and it's really upsetting.He thinks that when you are in a relationship, you should see each other once a week at least.However, i have a different view.I'm more of a " go with the flow " kind of person.He goes mad at me every time i back out of ... (317 words)

What are your biggest problems these days?

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5 December 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I wonder ,what are your biggest problems these days? I 'm really interested to know what are,or what were,the most painful things in your life so far? My life is truly horrible right now,and I need to see,I'm not alone. Whenever I talk about my situation,people don't believe ... (113 words)

I miss my dogs and I can't have any now

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5 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My dog died 1 and a little more than half a year ago, he ran after a cat on the road and teenagers who were going way to fast hit him. Then I got another dog and since we moved, where we live now we cant have pets so we had to send him back too. They were my favorite and I ... (112 words)

This MSN guy says he wants to have sex with me and we've just met!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If this sounds a little weird, I've just gotten out of a difficult relationship so I'm paranoid about new guys ha. I started talking to a guy on msn 2-3 days ago and he lives near me but we haven't met, the thing is that he says he REALLY likes me and he seems really rea... (170 words)

Any tips for me to reach climax more often and in more ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 yrs old and been having sex with my live in boyfriend for about 9 months. The sex, passion, foreplay, everything is amazing with this man. He knows my body and does everything right. However, I have, even in the past, always had to work extra hard for an orgasm and ... (96 words)

Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know about the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with this girl who studies in my college but in different course ,she too seems to interested in me as she gives hints whenever we talk or while talking to her friends,whenever we are in sight of each other but little away we both keep gazing at each other ,but now ... (281 words)

I am again pregnant with my nephew's child and don't know if I can keep this a secret this time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My shameful secret had eaten away at me for years. But I always knew the truth had to come out eventually. Everyone knows secrets have a horrible way of coming back to haunt you. Usually, when you least expect it. Certainly, the sordid secret in my past was the last thing on my ... (562 words)

He is still loving but the texting and calling came to such an abrupt stop! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There's probably no way I can post this question without you thinking I'm insecure or irrational. I don't consider myself to be either, in relationships I definately like my space and the biggest problem I have come up against is ex's not giving me any space in a relationshi... (305 words)

I'm 13, he's 23 and he's my teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well i have a super mega crush on my teacher. real bad. im 13 and hes 23. we are about nine years and a half years apart. hes adorable and es super nice and super sweet, and he might like me back. please dont be mean or make fun of me because all my friends agree he acts waaaay ... (246 words)

I feel like crying because I feel nothing is going to happen between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, So I like this guy in my class. He's just a friend, but suddenly I've developed feelings for him. I really like him, but i don't know why I like him This much... is it because he's playing hard to get (unintentionally) or I genuinely really like him ? He's really fu... (263 words)

She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate her because i tried running ... (557 words)

Is this relationship worth working at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I recently went through a bad patch and it seems to have recurred. We had our first arguement, it was only a small thing, I was snappy with him and he ignored me for 5 days until I had had enough of wondering if it was over or not (jumping to conclusi... (433 words)

I am unsure about how he feels towards me as he is nice to all girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I like this guy but I am not sure if he likes me? We are going to a holiday trip with one couple and another girl who is single plus the me and the guy I like. And I am really very excited about it! However, I am unsure about how he feels towards me as he is nice to all ... (91 words)

How can I ask her out without it being weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Last summer was my last term at university and during that time I met a girl in one of my classes who I kind of ended up having feelings for but never made a move. She's still in school and I'm not so I don't see her anymore and the only time we communicate at a... (96 words)

I really want to go stay with him but he is being different with me and not replying to my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is he being off with me? Basically theres a guy i met on holiday, we speak everyday, we like each other. He lives 2 hours away, im going uni next year in the city he lives in. We've always spoke loads, saying how much we cant wait to see each other again etc etc. H... (243 words)

How does hypnosis "fractionation" work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How EXACTLY does the hypnosis "fractionation" work? How exactly could you seduce a girl with it? What are some examples of this type of seduction? ... (25 words)

Confused about my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I'm 30 years old and very confused. There is a woman I have been dating for six months now. We have a lot of fun and many things in common. We take interest in each other's hobbies and have many of the elements of a good relationship. With the exception of a few minor bumps ... (424 words)

How do I save my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1: i am using this site to hopefully get some q's answered ,my marrage is going bad an i need some advice i am 27 years old have a huband a 5 children my husband is25 years old an dosentt ... (287 words)

What does my dream mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can somebody help me to understand this.i had a dream about my feet.i was soaking it in my footspa and when i took it out it was full of holes.there was'nt blood or anything jus many deep holes.this dream is very disturbing.does any1 knw what it means?... (47 words)

I can't stop thinking about him (even though he's related to my ex)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me his number I realised it was ... (146 words)

Help! What is going through his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused. Until last year I was a mature student at college. I got on with all my teachers, but particularly with one of them. In fact, he still comes to see me at my home. I see him as a friend, a good one, but I'm starting to wonder why he comes to see me! His ... (398 words)

First date in 3 years...why am I so paranoid about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ok so I'm in a pickle and I have to solve it by tonight, which unfortunately doesn't leave me much time. From May til November I was constantly trying to be rid of my ex-bf. He was verbally abusive, lied about everything and I was sick of. For 6 months he kept ... (397 words)

Is his pride stopping him from having a relationship with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi , Please tell me what to do, i went to visit my relatives in a another country met a nice man we just clicked and started dating and we even talked about marriage, everything was good and he promised to come to visit me in my country so i left. He used to contact me about... (155 words)

He's my world... so why can't I say these 3 special words to him...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i can't say i love him and i can't say i don't. let me explain. i'm so paranoid.i worry about things i shouldn't be worrying about and i overthink things. this has been going on for exactly a year and i'm worried and i'm loosing sleep and ugh. i have a wonderful boy... (324 words)

What have I did wrong that he's acting this way towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im sorry if this wastes your time but i have a weird situation with a guy mate of mine. For the past nearly two years ive always felt like i get treated differently from the others. I wouldnt say always in a bad way but its definately not good. People(three of our mates) ... (773 words)

He says he needs some space, and I am confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently decided that we both need space together. He says we rushed into a lot of things. We are both 18 and have been together for a year and almost two months. We've been best friends for about four years. After a while, we started spending time wi... (360 words)

I am hoping he will change his mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy who admitted from the beginning that he wasnt ready for a committed relationship with a single mother. We thought we could see each other and find a middle ground. Recently he decided that he didnt think us seeing each other was a good idea. He says he's ... (171 words)

She left him for me, will we end up happy ever after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'll try not to write too much, but I'm sure it'll happen anyways. Try to keep up with the story and I'll do my best not to confuse you. Those of you who don't care to answer, you might find our story quite interesting, I believe it to be a true love story. My... (1077 words)

I can't tell if he is a keeper or just playing games

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5 December 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hello all, id like to know if there is a way you can tell if your man loves you or if your a "bootycall" with his actions in the bedroom apart from the obvious lol? eg do you feel a connection, do you just know because im confuse why so many girls get the impresion the guy ... (81 words)

I want to save my marriage but does my wife?

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, this is going to be a long story as it requires as much information as I know about the situation to even begin comprehending this, so grab a drink, and settle in a minute. I am going to try to keep my identity anonymous so forgive me, but here it goes... My wi... (1519 words)

My ex told my current that she is pregnant, but I think she is just creating mischief

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a girl and my ex had told em she was pregnant with my child so i told my partner at the time of this but she had asked me not tot tell her or i would not see the child, my girlfriend at the time left me as she didnt want to come between me and the ... (155 words)

I am on an emotional roller coaster and I don't know where my life is headed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i sat down tonight and started thinking..what am i gonna do with the rest of my life? and all i came up with was-i dont want to go to school the rest of my days and go to college and learn to do something i dont even want to do but at the same time..my boyfriend doesnt want ... (154 words)

Is he dangerous or harmless?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an online friend that is 40 years old and i'm 15. We met in a game. He plays around 7 hours per day in this game. At the beginning he spent a lot of his time with me and all our conversations were game related. He usually made me feel like i was just a little kid to ... (470 words)

Rumour has it he left his wife and children for me, but I hardly know him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (M)

age - I started working at my current job at the beginning of the year. This is my first job after university. I am a fairly open and friendly person and am friendly towards all the people I work with. This has led to one of the men at work to develop a crush on me. He constantly ... (205 words)

I think a fellow student is mentally unbalanced

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 20 year old childcare student, and i'm a bit concerned about another girl on my course.. I think she may have mental health issues. I was walking from the train station yesterday toward the college and initially she was behind me, but when I turned around and said ... (192 words)

I don't think my boyfriend likes me any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a lot of friends that don't like me. But in the beginning of the relationship he did not care. Now he calls me names, he wont make love to me, he doesn't even kiss me any more. And every time I try to have a conversation with him he just turns his ipod up. He ... (83 words)

My girl is ill but the doctors can't find anything wrong!

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am worried about my girlfriend. The past couple of weeks she has had a very high fever. I took her to doctor but he just gave her antibiotics, this happened with three different doctors. She refuses to eat, saying the taste burns her mouth. At night she sleeps roughly and she ... (267 words)

He wants to wait but I want him now!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and a 26 year old likes me and i like him he say he'll wait till im 18 i want him now tho what should i do?... (30 words)

My boyfriend is a yoyo, here, gone, here, gone, will he be back?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Well basically, I was with my boyfriend for over 8 months... my first proper relationship. He dumped me on Thursday, saying that 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend right now.' Yep, I know what you're thinking, another commitment phobe! S... (310 words)

Am I bi... or straight?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I am bi or straight. When I was like 10, I fell in love with this girl and I am still in love with her and have been for 9 years but I still like boys too, just not as much as I like her. So... am I bi... or straight?... (56 words)

He is married but still comes looking for me!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thank you so much for taking the time to read this because I really need some advice - me and my ex boyfriend (also my best friend) dated for 2 years and for the first time, I fell madly in love.. However our relationship was not perfect nor was he and ended due to ... (258 words)

He wont talk so I don't know where I stand

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been dating a guy for the last 4 months, and within the last month or so he's been mentioning how he'd like to see me more often (we usually see each other once or twice a week). Last week after we went out I msged him when I got home and asked what our situatio... (316 words)

My guy prefers his male friends company to mine

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just broke up with my bf after realizing hes too attached to his friends that he decided to NOT communicate with me for 4 days straight and it was right after my bday to top it off, he didnt get me anything, not even a rose. I called 2 nights ago at 2 am and he was at some ... (278 words)

I'm doing all the chasing, but can't quite catch him!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i met this guy about a month ago at a college bar. i was dancing with my friends and he caught my attention as he was dancing with his friends so i popped a piece of gum in my mouth and approached him we started talking/dancing for about 10 mins and then we just danced ... (312 words)

He spends more time with his male friends than he does with me!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for your boyfriend to hang out with his friends 3 times a week after work without you? I know guys need time out with the boys alone sometimes but is 3 times a week to much? He only see's me twice a week on his days off. Thanks for any advice ... (54 words)

I am getting mixed signals, and I don't know if she likes me!

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently me and a girl who i got on fairly well with in the past, have got on like a house on fire. For some days we are even unseparable, well one day we literally were! As we were tied to each other by the arm so obviously we were very close that whole time and got quite ... (322 words)

How do I get my wife to give a decent blow job?

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5 December 2009 (M)

age - How can I get my wife to give a decent BJ? She does give a BJ but she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth or on her. she says she is scared.... ... (34 words)

I have a boyfriend but hanker after somebody else

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like two guys. One of them is my boyfriend... one is not. The other one has the best conversations with me ever, while my boyfriend will not call me on the phone and rarely has much to say. However, he is such a sweetheart and I can't stand to hurt him, I tried to break up ... (120 words)

My real life version of "Bend It Like Beckham!"

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, any of you guys watched bend it like beckham? well my situations sort of like that (apart from the football) im an indian girl and i do what i want, only rule is dont fall for anyone who isnt indian! well i have broken this rule, i have been seeing a caucasian guy... (268 words)

I laughed at the wrong moment, now my family are grumpy with me

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My family is mad at my fiance and I for laughing at a really inappropriate time and I just want to know if people on here think that they are over-reacting or if we really were being that bad. This might be hard to understand but I'll explain it the best I can. We were at ... (621 words)

I am in the middle of my own soap opera!

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well to make a few things clear i am a lesbian, but my spouse is bi sexual...and we are seniors in high school. okay so i really don't know ware to begin. It all started junior year i began to like her. but she was still straight so i keep my mouth shut till she came out as ... (477 words)

Men's Opinion Wanted! Advice on how to blow his mind

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is coming back after being gone almost a month. I'd like to suprise him by doing something that will totally blow his mind! I'm in desperate need of a mans opinion! What is it you've always wanted your girl to do for you? I need sexy, confident thoughts here. I ... (69 words)

We broke up when he wouldn't commit. Now he's back, what do I do?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age - I need advice how to handle a situation. I dated a man for 2 1/2 years, he is smart, kind, loyal successful. We are both in our mid forties. I was the first women he ever fell for. He was used to being alone and took things very slow. As the third year was approach... (299 words)

He met my parents and then he dumped me.

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 31 y-o woman, jobless and just got dumped by a divorcee who was an old buddy of me. the relationship went well until he came home to meet my parents, things really changed after that. after a couple of arguing, he changed his mind of getting married all of a sudden, and... (354 words)

My girlfirend admitted to cheating and I don't know what to do.

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend Cheated on me and i seeing the circumstances I don't know if I should take her back. We are both in love and have talked about getting married and had some details planned out. we talked about our kids and how we would want to raise them. Everything was going gr... (450 words)

How can I just let her down easy?

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5 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, its not really a problem but i need help. one of my bestfriends has a sister that really likes me but im not interested plus she too young. shes 13 and im 19. i just wanna know what to say to let her know im not interested without hurting her feelings. ... (53 words)

Should I just let sleeping dogs lie?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age - I was molested as a child by my brothers but even though I was the youngest, we were only one and two years apart. I remember things from when I was 5 up until I left home at 15. I never spoke to them after that and have a lot of anxiety when it comes to sex but my husband is ... (123 words)

Is there an easier way to do this?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married but not happily and i have found comfort in a long time good friend. We ahve been texting and tlking on the phone for about 3 months now. He tells me that he left his girlfriend and is liveing with his mom. We text all day until about 8 pm. Then the other night i ... (148 words)

Is it me or is it them?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently not speaking with a freind who was offended about the fact that i am not used to mingling with the rough side of neighborhoods, or with people who are rough around the edges. She is a little that way, but i never allowed that to keep me from being my friend. ... (336 words)

How do I get him to earn my trust back?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 8 months ago. We had a very unhealthy relationship. No physical abuse, but cheating, horrible fights, constant worrying, constantly breaking up, until one day he finally ended things and I was completely torn. It took me at least 6 months to get ... (348 words)

What could this gunk around my eyes be?

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5 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i Havnt Been Tested Yet Cuz Iv Been On Holz But i Need 2 Go Soon My Eyez Feel Really Hevy And It Gose Blurry Sum Times And Evry Time i Wake Up From a Sleep i Have Gunk All Round My Eyes Could Dis Be The Chlamidya Spreeding ? ... (51 words)