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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there such as a thing as a counsellor or psychiatrist that specialises in sexual issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such as a thing as a councellor/psychiatrist that specialises in sexual issues? And if so how do I arrange to see one? When I was 7 my Dad went into prison for sexual harassment on teenage girls. When I was a teenager I had very strict guidelines on the circumstance... (356 words)

Is my ex just mentally unwell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have got advice on here before which was helpful so this was the first place I came to today because of a big upset. My partner and I split up a few months ago but stayed in touch over the phone and agreed to meet up this week. He can be very insecure and this has cau... (541 words)

Perfect to zero in 3 months--she's as cold as ice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, im very confused at the moment. my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years, and i love her so much, that i cant imagine my life without her. everything was perfect when we first got together, it was intense and pssionate, everything i could imagine. a... (195 words)

My friend thinks the boy I like is a creep!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster says they are in 7th grade, but age is 19. I like this boy in seventh grade that always hangs out with me in the morning. One of my friends thinks he's a creep, and always tells him to go away. How do I ask him out? And how do I deal with my friend?... (60 words)

Crush on my co-worker the Principal

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2 December 2009 (F)

age - I am a manager at my college and have a serious crush on my Principal. He is so warm and apporpachable. He is in his fifties but I think he is handsome. whenever he sees me he double takes me. I feel there is a mutural attraction there. I would like to get to know him ... (123 words)

Help with teenagers required!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age - I have two teenage boys. the oldest I had to rehome as he was insulting, ungrateful and depressed me. He now lives on his own but still tal;k and he comes round and stays and eats. his 15 year brother is developing similiar styles. I feel as though I have lost control of ... (178 words)

I'm stuck in the middle of my feuding friends

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my group of friends are having huge difficulties. We are 6 girls and last year we were a tight group but this year is all weird. I know people change but its all drama shit. My bff elizabeth started telling some pretty shitty lies where she did it just to draw ... (262 words)

Ex and I telling each other that there's someone else and there isn't! How do we straighten this out?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok here it goes i just found out my ex still loves me and is missing me and wants me back. i found out because one my friends was speaking to my ex on msn and my ex was saying that she wants me back etc. but my friend told my ex that i have a girlfriend even though i dont. but ... (234 words)

How to say "you're ok but I don't fancy you?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age - Hi Everybody, Apparently a woman I have recently met through a female friend "likes me". Although I don't know how much, she is the same age as me (46). I have spoken to her a couple of times and she seems OK and looks like she likes a laugh and a joke. She is not the type ... (211 words)

How can I talk to my new found crush??? What can I say to him?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A few days ago I saw a guy in HMV. I think he worked there cause he talked to some of the staff and was being shown round. But last night I realised I have a little bit of a crush on him even thought I only saw him for about 20 minutes. I'm 14 and he looked about 20 something. ... (109 words)

He dumped me for something that happened when I wasn't even with him!!!

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2 December 2009 (F) age 30-35 - What did I do to deserve this? My boyfriend dumped me over some web posts he found. The funny thing is that those posts are from like 5 years ago! Whereas we have been dating for 3 years. That means, those posts are from BEFORE I met him! We have had issues with my past, so... (402 words)

How to make her trust me more?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, well i just need ur advice on how to get the trust of the girl i like which i do and its not a lie !!, ok i know her for a while now, we are almost together, i like her and she likes me back and everything is going well between us, we are going out and seeing each... (280 words)

Did I bring all this on myself?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was going out with my boyfriend, we went through this phase of him liking someone else. And after a while, we got back together, after he apologized and he came back. So some time later, we were kissing and making out and stuff and then i said we should do it. It was my ... (200 words)

Husband doesn't make me feel loved any more...

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2 December 2009 (F) age - I'm really depressed, because my husband does not make me feel loved. The question I have, is that what can I do ,if he says he loves me, but I don't feel it. Is the problem in him or in me? What can you do with a man, who says he loves you,and he can't explain it more than ... (209 words)

I don't want him to end up resenting me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Willing to break up with his girlfriend for me, but, I don't want him to end up resenting me if things don't work out how he plans between the two of us (he's a good friend and I'd hate to lose that). We have such a good time together, doing absolutely nothing really, just ... (132 words)

We can't even be friends with benefits any more as he's seeing someone else now!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy and i really love him. i lost my virginity to him. we broke up 3 days after we had sex for the first time. its been 3 months and weve been friends with benefits since we broke up. its not good enough for me any more. i know its better than nothing but i ... (114 words)

Am I turning bitter or am I still in love with him?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - spilt with husband 3 years ago after 6 years of physical abuse, he's down every day to see the 2 kids. he has a new girl every other week and it really hurts that he's getting it so easy, i havent been with anyone in the 3 years weve been apart and i'm a getting very depressed ... (169 words)

My ex is texting me, why, when he broke up with me

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why is my recent ex-boyfriend texting me when he currently has a girlfriend whom he starting seeing right after our break up?... (22 words)

Am I being unreasonable not wanting them to meet up?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! Well basically I met up with an old friend as he was tutoring me for my end of year exams. We got pretty close and have ended up sort of seeing each other. Well we act like a couple, but were not officially going out.. I guess were still dating. Anyway hes been ver... (311 words)

In love with my husband's cousin!!!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my husband's cousin. I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for 18 mths and we have 3 gorgeous kids. Our relationship has been turbulent but i care very much for him. Just over a yr into our relationship after the birth of our first child we split, he ... (356 words)

He wants the benifits of marriage without the piece of paper

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm a woman of 35 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. I have never lived with anyone but he has been married before (amicable breakup though, a long time ago). He wants us to sell our properties and live together next year, I want to get marr... (273 words)

My Latin Lover has become a Latin Monster

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a Canadian woman, late-20’s, and dated an Italian man for just over three years. At first it was magnificent, the hand holding, gentle face touches, dancing in the dark, romantic romantic romantic. We moved in together and it was downhill from there. He was unemployed, I ... (367 words)

I need help here. How can I get him to see that me and his daughter are important to him too?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i havae been together 3 years, married for 3 months and have a 2 months old daughter. He has always had anger issues but it seems since having our daughter it has gotten worse. He works 48 hr shifts at a time so i only see him half the month but when we do s... (170 words)

We are a pair of cheaters, but not in it for the long haul

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,I am dating a 20 year old guy and i am 25 years old. I find it odd dating him due to our age gap (especially if a woman is older) but i know that i am happy whenever i am around him. He is always there to comfort me and do things for me when i asked or even if i don't. He is ... (252 words)

His girlfriends says I have to stop texting him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this guy friend who I'm pretty close with and we always find ourselves texting each other hours at a time. The problem is his girlfriend texted me last week not asking me but telling me that I'm not allowed to text him... at all. Is she overreacting or ... (136 words)

He's cheated on me 8 times. Will he grow out of it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is extremely attractive, like the hottest boy I have ever laid eyes on in my life. He's got the tightest body made of solid muscle and the cutest face and he is sooooooooo much the best sex I have ever had a million times over. The only problem is that he knows how ... (756 words)

I want to try a home cure, but am not sure about vinegar

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have found out that i have a bladder infection from reading the sympthoms online and i was reading about home cures so it said to drink apple cider vinegar but we have white distilled and im wondering if it is the same thing can i just drink that instead of going and ... (61 words)

My boyfriend watches porn and masturbates, why am I not enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Since my last writing, I was a bad girl and figured out how to hack onto my boyfriends computer. Looking at the history on his computer it said he was looking at gay porn,BIG women porn, and old woman porn. He said that that is just what comes up with a general search but i ... (125 words)

I've been cheating, but only out of politeness!

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2 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'd been going out with my boyfriend for one and a half years when he cheated on me with my best friend. That was 2 months ago. I saw them kissing at school (needless to say I am only just forgiving my friend). He immediately stopped seeing and speaking to her when I found out. ... (359 words)

I was planning to lose virginity to my b/f when my male friend kissed me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and feel that we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins and believe that you should only have sex with someone you love. The date was set for last night. He tried to make it really special for me and I could tell ... (297 words)

B/f was depressed, wanted a break and now he wants me back

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years. he's been depressed recently and i don't know what is causing it and he says he doesn't either. Shortly afterwards we took a break so he could date the co worker he liked. they were together for two weeks but he called ... (118 words)

Husband has a fetish with my soiled panties!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - We've been married 11 years, together 14 years. A few months ago, I discovered by accident that he's been stealing my soiled panties and keeping them in his home office. I just happened to go into his desk to look for the car keys to move one of our vehicles out of ... (446 words)

Been in love with this woman for 19 years and I still don't have her!

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Help I have been in love with a women for 19yrs. It was love at first sight but I was involved with someone and she ended up with a good friend of mine.The four of us hung now and then we both always got accused of wanting the other one. Nothing ever happened between us until ... (1546 words)

Torn between 2 girls and really confused

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm on a dilemma of 2 girls, I know what I'm doing is bad. The thing is, we've been going out for 4years and 5mos. of my current Girlfriend. apparently way back before I met her, I had this girl whom I'm supposed to be with, I courted her dated her and we we're like couples ... (1137 words)

Cheating men and pornography..what can I do?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering what do I do? My dad has had issues with watching porn in the past. It was never really a big concern of mine because I thought it was just something guys do. Then just recently my dad has found another woman online (my dad is still married and living with ... (278 words)

B/f wanted to meet up with my fake post, but now I'm finding it hard to break up with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay bear with me, this might be a bit long. So I recently posted a question about how my boyfriend (now ex I suppose) had an internet dating site and checked it now and then. Which I was a bit dodgy about. I then went and did the wrong thing and created a fake profile... (483 words)

I'm crushed... was I not good enough for him?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was going out with this guy for a little over 3 months, at the start he really liked me and got into a relationship with me straight away. I hit it off with his best mates too and they said it was so strange that he introduced me to them as his girlfriend because he never ... (268 words)

I am bisexual and I have a crush on another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here it goes, I have a massive crush on another girl who is in my drama class. She is gorgeous and wish I could tell her. However I think she is straight, don't talk to her often and don't want to make a big fool of myself if I do tell her and I am very worried that if it ... (79 words)

Is this emotional abuse from my sister?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, since i was born (20 yrs ago) my sister hasnt liked me at all, my mum says she was jealous when i was born, she's 24, aka 4 years older then me, ever since i can remember she has beaten me up, my first memory is when i was about 3 years old, we shared a bedroom, i wanted m... (342 words)

We are just friends to him. If I tell him, I'm scared it will spoil everything!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya, i really really need your help on this one. There is this boy and he has been my friend now for like 2 years, but there is one slight problem, I have fancied him all along but just never told him. About 1 month ago we had just become friends again after a massive fallout ... (187 words)

I saw my best friend and my boyfriend getting it on together!!! What to do?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when they were 2 years old, since ... (230 words)

Should I continue to push the subject until she deals with the problem?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. Everything has been going smoothly until as of late. First, her parents, even after years, still invite her ex over to their house. When I say how much this bothers me, they don't care. They say he is like a son to th... (358 words)

Is it normal to have cramps and bleed after taking the morning after pill?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I took the morning after pill yesterday, towards the end of the 72 hour period (like the 60th hour or something) because I drunkenly had sex on saturday night, and even though I know we used protection, I just wanted to be on the safe side. Since then though i've been having a... (77 words)

What would make him accuse my brother of taking his wallet? Should I be alarmed?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for one month now. I find that i have huge commitment issues and usually read way more into a situation than needed but keep my feelings to myself. I thought things were going fine until he lost his wallet at my house. I have ... (165 words)

I dumped him by text, hoping he would ring me to fight for me but my plan backfired! Did he ever really care for me?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've just dumped my long term boyfriend, after I got sick of him not calling, not texting me, not wanting to see me, and just basically ignoring me and pretending I didn't even exist. I dumped him by text, because he won't meet up with me for love nor money. But he... (174 words)

I cant cope with the idea of my boyfriend living in my pretty little house!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my commitment-phobiac bf for 3 and a half yers now and we've lived together for 2 years. Now I've bought a house of my own and I really don't want him to move in with me. I tried talking to him about it and he said that once you live together you cannot not live... (113 words)

I have lustful feelings towards another male teacher.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

2 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, theres this teacher at my school who teaches me English and well...basically every time I see him, I get hormonal..so to speak, I cant help it, I guess you could say I lust for him. Anyway...a few days ago I had a detention with him (for not handing in homework) and ... (211 words)

I snooped on my boyfriend, should I confess?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I did a really silly thing and snooped on my bf, and found out his ex is pregnant. We have been seeing each other for 6 weeks, however the relationships been pretty intense and we've already discussed long term commitment. In fact I can truly say I haven't been as happy fo... (209 words)

Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college, I don't like the teacher... (134 words)

I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the delivery. He says he doesn't even ... (208 words)

Am I selfish for wanting more affection from my boyfriend?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend coming up to 3 years, i love him so much. I've had moments where i've wondered if i do really love him or if i do want to be with him, but the fact is he's the best thing thats ever happened to me, and i know i don't want to lose him. i worry ... (302 words)

I kicked my husband out and now I'm regretting it, but he's already moved on to another woman!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i made a mistake, i kicked my husband out after a stupid arguement. we only got married 7th june this year,we have been apart a month. he has three kids from previous,i have two children from previous. i love his kids and they love me. ive tryed writing to my husband texting ... (125 words)

Doe anyone else have a hubby likes to give gifts to everyone but his wife?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age - I may be writing this prematurely but based on past birthdays, I'm seeing the same pattern forming. I am married to a man who is a gift giver. He loves it. He spends $100 each birthday and Christmas for his three adult children, also buys nice gifts for the in laws (adult ... (480 words)

Mother-in-laws are a pain in the ass!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I need to know if my mother-in-law is keeping my mail and not giving it to me. Is she that evil? Every time I get mail from my family, it always comes a little torn or I never get it. My grandfather sent me a letter a month ago and he asked if I got it and of course no I ... (419 words)

Would he be happier on his own, without me?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a weird situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years 4 months. We've had our ups and downs, like any couple, and he's a really sweet guy in most circumstances. We have lived together since February. We moved into a small apartment and I haven't had many ... (619 words)

He offered his ex his spare room should she ever need it! Is this normal?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex is down and he offered her his spare room if she ever needs it. Should this weird me out? Because it really does!... (30 words)

Why is she now like this?

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2 December 2009 (M)

- Hello I think the honeymoon period is over in my relationship. After a wonderful 5 months my girl has changed. She is happy for me to see buddies, my family and is not the jealous type but in other ways I feel so criticised She says I put the dish cloth in wrong place af... (165 words)

Why has he never mentioned this girl to me before???

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello people. I know its crazy to ask help in public like this but I'm seriously in a state where i find myself helpless. My age is 25 and i am in a relationship with a man aged 29. we are in a live in relationship. I fell for him in march 2009 and its been almost 8 months ... (612 words)

What do to for the best? Should I confront him?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is cheating on me. I followed him from home one night and I know where she lives. I want to confront this girl but I don't know that to do. If I confront her I will lose him altogether but if I don't I can always use this as blackmail to keep him with me, what ... (61 words)

I'm in love with a guy that made me cry more than once... What do do?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago I dated a guy who I'll call Dave. Dave and I dated for a little over a year and we were very much in love. All was well until I accused him of cheating. He didnt take it very well so he broke up with me because he felt I was too insecure, and jealous. I later ... (209 words)

Why am I overreacting so much about all of this?

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2 December 2009 (F)

- okayyy, i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we get on amazing but his ex issues seriously bother me. she tried breaking us up until she got a bf of her own a couple of months ago, but im still majorly iunsecure. Everything was great until i found out he had pictures of ... (133 words)

I'm getting married and I'm very sad. Why am I feeling like this? Red flag???

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm getting married. But i'm very sad. I don't know why. I'm anxious and very scared about marrying this man. I love him, but i am scared that im making a mistake. I feel alone for some reason. We went to get our Marriage License the other day and technically we are ... (138 words)

What can I do to help Harry?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi it's not really a love question but i hope you can help anyway. My friend *harry is being framed by this girl i used to be friends with *ellie. according to ellie, harry asked her for a topless photo of her over msn. she's told the police and i've already given my statemen... (294 words)

Help me to write this love letter...

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i need a little help.. my boyfriend is going away overseas on a business trip. i would like to write him a love letter before he goes letting him know how much i love him and miss him already. i know kind of old school... im not exactly sure what to say though, i want it to ... (88 words)

She wants some space to see if she misses me...

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 8 months broke up with me because i was very jealous and it got to the point of beginning of arguments. 2 weeks after the break up i began counselling and was letting her know about it. she still loves me and i still love her. She says she needs space to go ... (109 words)

Help! Where did it all go wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in love with the sweetest kindest man. He knows I am smitten with him. We sms each other ever other day. I see him at my work as he does consulting for us for the last year. He is 2 years younger then I (42) am. He is obese (150kg) and I am 55kg. He turns me on so much ... (215 words)

Ex troubles!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am in a good relationship with a boy. I have recently spilt with one of his friends, before I started seeing him. I love my boyfriend and am really happy, but my ex is ignoring me and I just want to be friends with him. He is not only ignoring me but spreadin... (100 words)

Should I keep chasing this girl?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone :) I like a girl in my workplace, who is 8 years older than me. One day, in a conversation, she said she can't accept a guy younger than her as bf. Reason, girl gets old faster than guys do. Guess she knows I like her lol. Since she never tries to avoid convers... (267 words)

I just wanted to be in someone's arms...

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a little more then a year, I adore her, i love everything about her. problem is that we are in a long distance relationship, so we have such trust issues and miss each other dearly. so we were broken up, she said she still wanted to be tog... (276 words)

I want a friend to be MORE than just a friend...

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with this girl for nearly 2 years. We have become close friends but now I know that I like her more than just a friend. She has never given me the impression that she wants to be more than friends but she is single currently. We are also now housemates too. ... (104 words)

Is there another side to my boyfriend that I'm unaware of???

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice about my partner. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and we don't live together but do see each other 3 times a week, either he stays at mine or i stay at his. The problem is that I have always known he looks at porn, which I didn't ... (329 words)

I don't know why my husband doesn't care for me... even when I love him so much...

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2 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I dont know why my husband doesnt care for me. Even when I love him so much.. He doesnt want to help me. He doesnt see my love either. Some times i Feel he is too tied up with his work.. And thats the reason a NO from him for everything.. But Even when he is free.. Its the same ... (227 words)

Shall I leave him to it or fight for my man?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years we have been through so much. i got drunk a week ago and apparently kicked him out but i dont remember that. i texed, rang and never got any response then last night a week after this all happened he said he was coming round then when ... (178 words)

I lied to my girlfriend...

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl at work about 6 months ago and my friend told her i was in the military cause she liked military guys.... we didnt start hanging out or talking till 3 months after that and like an idiot i kept up with the lie. we started dating and everything was perfect we were ... (237 words)

Gay partner lying again... another man in my horizon?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes.. i have been in a relationship with my Partner of 7 years, and we have booked our civil partnership for next summer! We both are a good match and people love seeing us together, especially our family. Throughout our years together on at least 5 occasions i have... (314 words)

I don't want to rush things and mess this up. What do I do next?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi About a year ago I first set my eyes on this fantastic girl. I gradually became friends with her (through other friends) and I started to develop feelings for her. The problem was her and my friend were in that stage where they were about to start a relationship an... (283 words)

I am totally in love with a man who will not love me back.

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy I cannot get over. He is amazing and charismatic and I just can't get him out of my mind. Sometimes I hate his guts and other times I swear that he's going to be mine. It's been more than a year now and I'm stuck, I really don't know what to do. I am totally in ... (81 words)

I need your input guys. Is she lying to me?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I seperated as of a week ago, over her lying about her talking to her ex and meeting him at a park, this is not the first time I caught her. During our seperation we talked about seeing a counsellor and working through our problems, well she went to a party where ... (215 words)

Is masturbating a bad thing?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - is masterbating a bad thing? im a 15 year old guy and i dont know if its a health issue if i masterbate a lot?... (25 words)

I'm insecure about my looks and can't stand to see sexy women on tv

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 23 year old girl who is overweight but i take pride in how i present myself most days. i guess ill say i am attractive for my weight. i have this wonderful boyfriend whome i love very much. we have been dating for over a year and live together. i cant seem to be happy th... (186 words)

Because of my past I'm overprotective of g/f

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a problem that prevents me from having a relationship. about a couple years ago my ex was murdered when I made her come down to my house and she was raped and killed on the way over. I loved her. it took some about 2 years but I started dating again, I still think about ... (243 words)

We can't let go but maybe its best if we did?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At times my boyfriend will make me feel like the most special person in the world, but sometimes he treats me poorly. We think differently. Talking about our arguments helps me heal faster, but he doesn't like to try to solve our problems. Instead, he likes to be left alone... (235 words)

I'd like to hear from older virgins

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! Older virgins, I need you to come out of the shadows for a second and talk to me. I'm 22 and I made the decision a while ago to try and wait till I'm married to have sex, or at least a strong relationship. I think in the long run I've made the right choice. Plus the fact ... (327 words)

I have hpv, do I talk to my partner about it? I think I got it from him!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to tha gyn a few months ago and found out i have hpv. I have only had three partnersz since i been sexually active but only two that i was serious with. I didnt have any symptoms before, but i think my current partner gave it to me. Now im starting to notice bumpsz down ... (205 words)

He saw a photo taken before we met and flipped!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im one of those troubled by a recent broken relationship after about 1.5 yrs and i dont know what to do. it was VERY suprising and sudden for both of us, he saw a pic of me before we met with some guys and he flipped and left. he wanted to be friends after but then all he asks ... (139 words)

My b/f sends me poetry, but he doesn't write it himself!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every so often, in an e-mail my bf will send me a poem. Call me a skeptic or whatever, but I usually google the first few lines to see if this was original or if he copied it from somewhere else. Most of the time, they're copied from somewhere else. For better or worse,... (93 words)

My OBGYN tells me to dump abusive boyfriend, should I?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My boyfriend says that my vagina does not feel teh same as it did when we began having sex 9 months ago. He refers to it as being loose and accuses me of cheating on him. I have tried kegels (excessively and obsessively) and have been unsuccesful. I have also tried ... (138 words)

I want to date her but am worried about what will happen if I then dump her

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a girl recently after a terrible long-term relationship of mine ended. This new girl is kind, loving, quiet, and has a heart of gold, but she also has flaws. She was raped as a child by her own mother and her mother's countless boyfriends. She doesn't ... (127 words)

I am in love with a player who doesn't give a damn

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my guy for five years. He refuses to agree to have a monogamous relationship but says that I am the only one. I have knowledge that he has cheated several time. He wont say that he loves me but wont say that he dosent. Our lives are so intertwined that I dont ... (271 words)

I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from visiting my grandparents' one ... (227 words)

I am marrying one man, while pining for another

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure I know how to go about explaining myself and I'm sorry for making this too lengthy but it is a long story. Here it goes: Before you start there are a few things you need to know about me:1) I am from a culture where family is everything.. you can not disobey your... (1611 words)

We met online, we met in person, now I hear nothing from him, why?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been out of the dating scene for a while, anyway, i met a guy online, and we went out on saturday and chatted in a bar for 3.5 hours, i knew he was interested because he kept reaching over the table to hold my hand, or touch me, he would stare at me, tell me how good i ... (213 words)

I was Drunk and Dancing and am now on facebook

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when u go to a party and people take picturez of u dancing when u were really drunk! and posted them on myspace and a guy u like saw them he parties too but always knew u as a good girl does girls that like to drink and party develop like a bad repuation? like being called ... (60 words)

I am new to the sex scene and worried I am not good at it!

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2 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - i'd likfe to know what i'm doing wrong , when i give my boyfriend oral he would star hard and after like a minute he would start getting .. flacid ,he wont be orgasming or finishing just flacid . i am new at it so i know i'm not good but can i be that terrible !! .. any ... (65 words)

How do I know what is more important

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?... (18 words)

I want to go back to the way things were before we split

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we broke up about a month 1/2 ago. we love each other very much. we were living together. we had a good relationship, but also had fights. we even bought a car together last years and still have 3 more years left for the ... (129 words)

We want to explore but not have sex

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What would be some fun things for me and my girlfriend to do, without having sex, but things to do with some of that sort. Like exploring each other in an intimate way. We are both up for it but we dont have any ideas. Any one out there have any suggestions ???... (55 words)

My brother in law bad mouths our country

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am currently staying in USA with my sisters family. My brother in law too is an Indian like me but he always grombles and cribs about the Indian system. He always uses foul language while talking about India and says that the country has not given him anything but America ... (105 words)

I have questions about my body, can somebody answer them please

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am still a virgin but have fingered myself. I cannot fit more then one finger in even if I lubricate. Is there something wrong with me? Im scared that when I am ready to have sex in the future, it won't stretch enough. Help!... (45 words)

I worry a lot about his commitment to our relationship

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i have another problem, i have the hardest time trusting my bf, he tells me he is so in love with me and that im the only one, but then he tells me i wouldnt trust you if i were you you and i ask him why and he says look at how much trouble i have been in i dont thi... (419 words)

Cold shoulder or brush off, I just don't know

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy i like has been showing huge interest in me the past few weeks, and then today he was trying to not look at me...I don't feel like he is running from me or totally giving me the cold shoulder, but I just don't understand what happened that he is trying to ignore ... (154 words)

We were doing great, until I said I liked him

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We never met, we talked for hours, he was clearly intersted until i told him i liked him, and now he doesnt wanna talk to me, he told me he got freaked out and scared, that hes not ready for that (that hes not as mature as me) and that hes not as grown up about certain ... (287 words)

I think I am his stop-gap girl

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I was dating a guy for two months. Instantly we connected. He immediately asked me for another date after our first date. He called me everyday, texted me everyday, and we saw each other maybe 2-3 times a week. We became intimate a little too soon in my eyes, but ... (620 words)

He looks at other girls and I'm not sure he's fully committed like I am!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both know we love each other everyday, and I know he means it. However, I tell him things like "I only want to be with you and nobody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with you because I can't be happy with ... (458 words)

I'm in love with my sister's ex!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been struggling with the right thing to do for years. Four years ago I met a wonderful man, whom I am still with.(not married but we do have a daughter) The problem is I have been in love with someone else all this time. I was honest with him and he knew this. I chose ... (264 words)

Do I keep on seeing where this goes, even if he is taken? Or do I just let him go?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a non-date with a good friend of mine from high school, who happens to have a girlfriend who he's been with for quite awhile. Nothing happened between the two of us but the very little that did happen, his girlfriend would not be happy about (no sex, kissing, nothing ... (276 words)

If I am pregnant what do I do? Am I pregnant?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im pregnant. but im not sure. im still young and im scared to tell anyone because my parents will kill me and i dont want anyone thinking anything bad. it was just once and it got carried away. it happend 2 3 weeks agoo.. and im supposed to be on my periods in these few ... (122 words)

After her affair, all her flaws seriously annoy me. Is it possible to fall out of love with somebody?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been involved with a girl for three years. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years. I've tried hard to make the long distance thing work. It almost did, as she is planning on moving to live with me in 6 months after she graduates from college. ... (317 words)

He broke up a week before moving to my city

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have been with a guy for about 15 months now, however most of this ( over a year) has been long distance, as he moves about for work each year. He is due to move to the same city as me in 3 days time! I thought everything was fine and I was so excited abo... (281 words)

I don't believe pretty women with breasts make good wives!

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, There's a song that goes "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.." Homely women aren't as sought after and they're not as likely to cheat on a husband or boyfriend. It sounds like beauty, marital fidelity... (97 words)

Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed

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2 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy wants to get to know me at all?... (72 words)

He is blowing hot and cold and I am left confused

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for a year and everything in our relationship was great. We were loving and romantic to eachother and the physical part was good too. Then during the last month of our relationship he was acting weird like not saying i love you as much and stopped ... (612 words)

I want sex all the time and I don't want too!

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - well i have a problem me and my girlfriend have started having sex resently and ever since we had our first time together i cant quit wanting sex with her or anyone i am like always horny now and this has been going on for like a week now can someone help me...how do i quit ... (66 words)

He wants me to sleep over but we have never dated!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age - A friend recently introduced me to a man (57 yrs. old). He invited me for dinner at his house along with my friend. He is a gentleman. The problem or what I see as a problem is that he keeps asking me over to cook dinner for me and then wants me to stay over (which I haven't ... (109 words)

I think he is setting me up for a night of sex

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2 December 2009 (F)

I have feelings for my boyfriends brother!

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in a bad situation.I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years and we have two kids together. I love him but I dont know if im in love anymore. I cheated on him with his brother almost two years ago. He found out about it and he still wanted to be together also I ... (403 words)

Will the curve and size of my penis cause trouble?

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2 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm 16 and soon to loose my virginity with my girlfriend. My penis is 5.9" in length and about 5.6" in girth. My penis also curves up and to the left. Can anyone tell me weather this will be a problem or if there will be any downsides during sex? Thank you, responses will ... (59 words)

What are signs that he's going to propose?

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the signs hes going to propose?... (8 words)

I need advise on women's problems

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i bled for 3 days on and off lightly it was brown then ended pink, also it was ten days early. have had unprotected sex a few times. whats wrong with me and why did this happen? i have never experienced this type of bleeding before... any advice would be helpful thanks.... (52 words)

One night stand couldn't get it up

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2 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i (attempted) to have a one night stand with this guy. things were getting really hot and heavy when he asked if i had a condom i told him i didnt we kept fooling around but he couldnt get hard then he went to go check if he had a condom but he said he didnt. i asked him why he ... (138 words)