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How do I get her to date me?

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Question - (30 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

alright, so i've known this girl since she was in second grade and i was in third...and we've always been close to each other. i really care about her and at first i thought it was just a best friends/ sisters kinda feelings, but then my heart would skip a beat when she'd kiss my cheek. soon she met this guy and they've been together for a while...the problem is, i really hate seeing her with him. its not like he's bad to her, but i viemently try my hardest to get her to spend her time with me, or at least in a way that i can be close to her......now those feelings don't seem so innocent and i keep thinking about kissing her, and just being with her. my problem is, first she's with a guy, second she's always reffered to me as her big sister.....i really don't want to ruin our current relationship, but i keep thinking about being with her. she's pretty much the one bisexual that i'd consider dating (i'm gay and really don't want to deal with being left by someone for a guy)...so i kinda need some advice on what to do, cuz at the moment she's trying to help me find a girlfriend, and honestly i kinda want to stick with her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

helo i see your problem is very arkward at the moment and its not a very easy situation i would suggest you say that you still want to be mates and you dont want this to effect ure friend relationship but just say your feeling and hope that they get taken on board but if they dont then just say i hope my feelings wont wreck our relationship can we forget about it.i hope everythink goes well .x

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