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Should I euthanize my daughter's rabbit to save on vet bills? And not tell her? Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1654 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - Thinking of killing my daughters pet rabbit! The rabbit is ill, it has a tumor (possibly or an abscess behind the eyes) which is visible about the size of one eye and oozes puss. It requires twice daily eye drops and medication which I administer after bathing the rabb... (288 words

Could she just be playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I really need help I am going mad with all this!! I have been seeing this girl on and off for 3 years now when we both started seeing each other we were involved at first it was just whenever we were out together like one a month or so, after about 2 years we started to pick ... (660 words

Been bullied and I have no self-confidence..how do I fix my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - ok well my life is f**ked atm im being bullied at school and have been 4 years because of this i have no self confidence so i can not talk to the girl im madlly inlove with im doing ok in school but my grads are starting to slip im going into my gcse next year and this is ... (93 words

How do you make LDRs work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I have had several relationships, none of them working for very long. What helps make a good relationship continue? And how do you make LDRs work? In general those have been the quickest to fail for me. I really want this to work out with this guy. Thanks for your help!... (51 words

Why doesn't he call during the holidays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - HI, I have been seeing this amazing guy for just over two weeks before the xmas holidays. we spent a lot of time together, had a great time, and then the holidays came and we both left to our hometowns. I got an email from him saying he had arrived home and never heard back. It... (104 words

Why did he do that?? Am sooo upset :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - am working temporary for christmas sales.. and this guy there.. i liked him when i saw him.. i thought it was mutual cos everytime i look up hes looking at me..but i ignored him.. so he came up to me and started talking to me.. we work together.. and we flirt and talk... (261 words

Am I qualified and what do I need to do to apply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi, i'd just like to ask if you know if I would be qualified enough to apply to an acting agency, perhaps in London, as I am from the U.K ?.I was a member of a few drama groups outside of school when i was younger, i also studied Drama at school, and i have a G.N.V.Q ... (73 words

How do I relax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I love my bf to death but when we are, well you know, hugging, kissing and all that stuff and he wants us do go further then some times I cant relax, he says that this is not normal, after 6 months I'm supposed to be totally relaxed. I agree with him, but why am I like this, I ... (83 words

How do I be...just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1663 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I've been friends with a guy for awhile now, he had a girlfriend of 7 months. (hes 22 I'm 20 and shes 18) we were just friends and stuff but developed feelings for each other and ended up fooling around before they broke up. (they did shortly after) We were just talking but we ... (163 words

Should I apologize to him, and when?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - How long should i wait to aplolise to him? Theres a guy i meet about 4 months ago and we spoke every night, i went to see him last weekend on the train. and stayed over (we did other stuff but didnt have sex) it was great though, we couldnt stop laughing. But he didnt m... (301 words

I am genuinely confused here..can you all help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Well...Here's the thing... At 16, first year of college, I started seeing this guy who I knew back in Primary School. I found out I was moving and we ended it. Even though we were moving, I started dating someone else...a second year in college. This first guy thought I had be... (692 words

I lost my gf to a drunk driver 3 years ago..and it still haunts me! How do I cope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - im having a bit of a problem here. About two years, gonna be three Jan 5th, my ex was murdered by a drunk driver. Last year wasn't as bad but this year I keep seeing her everywhere and each time it happens I feel like someone punched me in the stomach. I can't look my current ... (107 words

Should I speak to my mother again? I really need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - my "mother" is a terrible person. She makes me feel worthless everyday. I try talking to her and all she does is make me feel like I'm not worth anything. I am a college student and I am having difficulty adjusting with all the stress in my life. In high school I never had to ... (287 words

He has no idea I like him..how do I let him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hi Everyone, There is this guy that I extremely like and the only thing stopping us from getting together was this girl that he liked even more. I found out that she just got with a guy barely 2 days ago but when my crush finds out I'm sure he's gonna forget about her and gi... (108 words

I'm 14 and scared to death that I may be pregnant. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1656 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hi. I am 14 and I think I am pregnant. My boyfriend knows, he says hes with me all the wall. He told me even befor we had sex that he wanted to marry me so I beleive him. He doesnt think I should get an abortion and neither do I. But my mom is a total different story. She is ... (146 words

I have fallen for my brother's friend and he has fallen for me...What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a dilemma..I am falling for one of my brother's really good friends. We realized that we had a mutual attraction to one another over two years ago but we did not know it then. We both decided not to say anything to one another about it because my brother was one of his ... (258 words

I want to ask my friend to be my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - ok. now there is this guy who i like. I thought i lost him but he broke up with his girlfriend. First of all i knew that he liked me alot before and he kept on flirting with me. I wasnt ready for a relationship that time because i broke up with my boyfriend, but now we both are ... (127 words

My bestfriend can't make up his mind if he loves me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and that i'd like to be more and ... (398 words

Her brother is trying to break up our marriage...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (? age 26-29 - hello....okay Well i taken leave and went home. im in the military. I went to this party and we was all drinking. i seen this girl named J. who was sitting at the table. i didnt really think much about her but i know her from a really close freind of mine. we were child hood ... (248 words

Girlfriend wants to videotape me with two other girls!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - When my girlfriend and I began to date, she told me she wouldn't mind if I had "women on the side" as long as she was #1. I laughed and dismissed the idea as silly at the time. She is from Indonesia (very smart and a citizen of the U.S. now) and I know it may be a cultural ... (240 words

Will sex affect my relationship with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - So heres the situation: me[im male 18] and my best freind [female19] both virgins. best freinds for 4 years before we dated. been going out for nearly a year now. We are both close to ready to having sex. I want to do what i need to make this relationship last,... (128 words

My husband left me for another women on boxing day!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - I'm not sure where to begin as I'm totally lost but to cut a long story short my husband and me have been having some problems over most of our marriage (we've been together for 22 years and got two children aged 17 and 19). He has always been moody and can be verbally ... (379 words

I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend, and I like the new guy, or is it just a crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I have been together with my boyfriend for just over a year now. Its been great - we've never argued, had any problems and we've got on really well. There's just a few personal issues I have. Firstly, we haven't yet had sex. In fact, we haven't done anything very sexual, ... (211 words

Am I worthless??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Evening everyone.I just feel so worthless at the moment....You know how everyone has something they are good at? Well im rubbish at everything. I failed my driving test, i didnt get a work promotion despite working late and training up several members of my team..I need to move ... (247 words

Commitment phobic boyfriend - do you have any experience with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I think my boyfriend is a commitment phobe. Has anyone had any experience with this? How did you deal with it? I always thought it was something made up in the movies. Or that the guy just wasn't that into you. Anyone have experience with this? Thanks...... (52 words

How do I know when my girlfriend "is in the mood"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - hey im a 14 year old boy who is wondering when a girl gets in "the mood". you know i dont wanna have sex yet cause i know im to young but you know i wanna finger her and all that other stuff. my girlfriend is 14 and she likes the first and second base but just not skin to skin ... (95 words

First sex acts after a 3-week-break were painful, I wasn't a virgin, can you explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1640 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hey all, not a concern just confusion, recently my boyfriend of nearly two years went on holiday to america for 3 weeks, before he went the sex was really good :) But when he returned and we had sex for the first time again it was so painful, it felt like it did when i lost ... (93 words

I feel the need for constant reassurance - how do I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear all, I'm just looking for some advice. I have a big problem relaxing when I meet a new guy. I met a guy the other week and we all met up with our friends last night for drinks. Although he's quiet we did get on and were holding hands and kissing by the end of the night. ... (244 words

What our chances of success, I am in love with her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1653 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - leaving my wife of 10 years 2 kids for a woman who was my wifes good friend of 5 years She(the other woman) is still married but seperated, left her resent boyfriendof 2 yrs for me and we plan to get an apartment next week, we started the affair a month ago and just recently ... (72 words

Cheated and felt ill, what do you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1653 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am a married female, aged 34, with 3 kids. An ex BF from another town persuaded me to meet him on the sly.It started with flattery and ended with a hasty hotel room sex episode. He was unable to perform. I felt revulsion and became physically sick. I brok... (82 words

My girlfriend and I broke up but I want her back and she is confused! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello, After a big fight we had after 3 years(said some mean things that shocked her alot, hurt her alot, and it was too much for her). Basically, she done something that bothered me and she didnt know how fix it. Bottled up anger and vented her on, said that maybe we should ... (490 words

Is it weird that I like guys to 'gag me' and control me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1656 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Im a 15 year old girl n i have a questn. Ive given head to guys before its really fun to me and i just love it (love it!)when guys gag me while im doing it. When they put their hand on the back of my head and force more dick in my mouth i get this feeling like they are ... (106 words

I'm going mad because I have strong feelings for my work mate, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - im falling in love with my work friend and i cant tell him. hes only been there 2 months but i swear by the way we'e connected its like we've known each other 20 years-we laugh,joke,doesnt even feel like being at work. i miss him madly when we're not together. is this normal ?... (202 words

This jealousy is killing me!! Please help. Any advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I have a real big jealousy problem about my ex. She split up with me about 4 months ago as she said she no longer wanted to be with me. It hurt me a lot and im still not totally over her. I've read all the advise and done the things to get over her- new hobbies, writing... (226 words

I am afraid that if I say no to giving him loans, it will hurt our relationship!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 months now,before we met there was this gal he has been in love with for 3 years and told me he got over her just before we met, they still talk alot and he still acts like i do not exist in his life while he is with her, he just ... (269 words

Should I tell him I like him? He has mentioned that he doesn’t want a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1640 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I started to like this guy I know from a university club I am involved in about 2/3 months ago. I had known him for about 6 months before that but never really thought about him in that way, even though when I first met him I thought he was attractive. I first started liking ... (364 words

What does everything but sex actually mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - My best friend (a girl, but that's not alll thatrelevent) was telling me about her new boyfriend. We're very close. Anyway she told me tht her bf had said he'd do everything but sex with her. Not wanting to look stupid cos I like that this girl feels comfortable enough with me ... (80 words

I got slapped on Boxing day, he says he will not drink again, I'm scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my fiance now for 2 ans half years we have a 9 month old baby together. the whole time through our relationship was amazing i knew he had a temper because i had seen it towards others whenwe had been out, he always get very agressive when he drinks, otherwise ... (187 words

Am I overeacting with my friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - It's not a love question, but yesterday i got into argument w/my american friends about this issue, and was very upset w/their answer to the point that now i question if i ever had anything in comon w/them and if we should continue our friendship. We immigrated to United s... (1085 words

How can I convince my bf I am not cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - what do u do to let your boyfriend trust you and believe you are not cheating on him.... (19 words

I have the most amazing boyfriend but I'm stuck on the military guy whom I don't even know well! How to forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I can't get over this guy who I dated for only 2 months and it's driving me insane. We went out a few times (just dates, no sex etc) and he then went on a short deployment (he's in the military). While he was away he called every second day and we got to know each other bette... (244 words

Can opposites attract and last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - hey me and my bf are best friends very much in love but we are very very different. our hobbis are different we like different music, wear different clothes and come from different cultures. however deep down we have the same core beliefs. we are both devoted christia... (107 words

Should I have a baby at 24?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I'm about to completely change my life and I need some advice from people in a similar situation. I am 23 and have been with my partner for 3 years and we've been living together for the past 2.5 years. Our relationship is strong and we have great communication. We have picked ... (310 words

I have insomnia and it affects my work, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Hey just thought I'd say first hope everyone had a good Xmas and happy new year when it comes. I have this problem nobody seems to take seriously but I have quite bad sleeping problems. I don't seem to get tired until about 4am and because of that I don't end up getting ... (149 words

How much does he actually like me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - How much does he actually like me??? I met a guy 3 months ago, we worked at the same place but he was just at my work for few weeks until we got another head chef. He is 23 and i am 26, i really liked him from the beginning and turned out he liked me as well. I knew he would... (1097 words

Am I stupid for wanting to be with him again or am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - my ex bf and I broke up a few weeks ago. He didn't tell me why but I think it was because of my medical condition as i got really sick when I was there at his place. ever since then I can't stop thinking about him, every time i see his pic i get butterflies in my tummy. I... (171 words

I really want to move on but how do I tell my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - i really hav a mess sex life with my husband,i tried all i could,i tried to talk to him about counseling either but he keep on saying we don't we hav problem to take to counseling and he says that's just wast of money,we had been tryiny to make our married work for years now ... (184 words

My lips are very dry and swell.....why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - I'm not sure why, but ever since going on roaccutane 2 years ago (I've been off it for a year), my lips have been incredibly dry. I use blistex/paw paw ointment several times a day and have had pregnazone to try ease swelling. Any ideas?... (45 words

Boyfriend still texting his ex behind my back. its driving me insane :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1663 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - On christmas eve my friends and i went to a local bar where we knew our boyfriends were hanging out because we wanted to see our boyfriends for midnight. The only problem is, i walked in and he was talking to his ex. I never had a problem with this before, but he just looked up ... (360 words

I'm Bi and I Like my best friend thats a guy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1649 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Hi I am 19 years old. I think i am bi since i like girls and guys. I would jack off watching straight porn. I dont really enjoy gay porn and i havent watched it that many times but i do get attracted to guys. I am straight in public. I have a lot of girls that want to be girlf... (613 words

I know its wrong but teacher is the love of my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - okay, this all started a year ago, I told my teacher I loved him and he said he had feelings for me too and he also said '' but Im the teacher and your the student'' so that was a bummer. But after that things got better he looked at me differently he called me, he texted me, ... (410 words

Should I let my guard down with my new bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Hey. So I'm with this guy that I've known since about March or April. We work together and we've been good friends since we met. He's easy to talk to and a really nice guy. He's smart, funny, sweet, caring and I definetly can see myself with him in a long term relationship. The ... (234 words

I have a sensitive heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - My first love broke up with me the other day and it's been hurting me real bad and nobody seems to understand that I have such a sensitive heart and that it affects me more than the average person but she did it because we had a couple fights recently but after the last one way ... (570 words

He hasn't contacted me in 5 weeks since father's death--tradition?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - i need to know all the rituals of a death in saudi arabia especially when its the father how does the sons react i feel. for five weeks he has not worried aboiut me where as before he had to go home to attend his dads funeral we were starting a buisness and planning a life ... (95 words

My work colleague has left his wife for me. Should I get involved?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 1612 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I have been working at my work place for 11 months. It became obvious 6 months ago that one of my married work colleagues had developed feelings for me. He constantly hung around my office area during his lunch. I steadfastly ignored him. Even some of my co-workers noticed and ... (388 words

My girlfriend wants to wait until marriage to have sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1652 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - So wat do i do, me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 years plus and have talked about having sex? She finally said she would talk to her mom about getting birth control. She has been avoiding it and so i reminded her that she should go talk to her, than i get ... (116 words

How can I make my breasts bigger, apart from surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I have an extremly small breast and it makes me feel so shy when i see ma friends with big ones. Im 21, if there is any means of making it bigger apart from going for surgery. I'll really appreciate ur help.... (42 words

My feelings are tearing me apart. help me plez I'm lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - i was on here about a yr and a half ago about how i was in love with my best friend but he had a girlfriend and i didnt know if i should say anything. i got some really good advice. i told him and he respected the way i felt but i was too late and he was still taken anyway. he ... (619 words

She says she is happy with her new relationship, do I keep telling her how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - ok 2 1/2 months ago my gf and i called it quits after 7 years and two kids, we both did a lot of hurtful things to each other verbally and some physically and she said she finally couldnt take it anymore so were done, the thing is i still care for her especially since we have ... (158 words

I think I've desensetized my penis due to masturbating, if I stop this will it get better? How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - Hi there. Im 20 years old and i have been masturbating since i was about 12-13, and problaby 2 a day since i was 15. Now when i was about 17 i started having sex and ever since that time i have had problems ejaculating. Recently this problem has gotten worse and now i have ... (205 words

Cyber cheated... Now my wife hates me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1653 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - I did a really really stupid thing and cyber cheated on my wife, I met a girl through a chat room and for 3 months we sent dirty emails to each other and spoke on the phone a dozen times and emailed pictures of our privates to each and pictures of each other pleasursing ... (361 words

Porn - how is it fair to the mother of your children

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1653 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - So often I seem to see questions posted by women hurt by their partners use if porn. So many men seem to feel justified in using it even when in committed relationshis. The question I have is how it can possibly be fair to women? So often a couple get together or marry and have ... (181 words

It makes no sense. Did he just lose interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy awhile ago at a friend's party. I was a little drunk, but my friend came up to me and told me this guy thought I was beautiful. So I walked right up to him and gave him a kiss on the check. We talked and he asked for my number, and we kissed for a few minutes. As I ... (642 words

Why and How to Play the Game before Love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok.. so I want to know why we people have to play a game before giving into love n how to play... Why does it have to be difficult and confusing to just be like "Hey I like u very much and would like it if we stick with eachother and develop , mature, and explore one another ... (103 words

Is settling for best ever an option?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Is settling for second best ever an option? I am crazy about this one guy who understands me right to the core. He's like gasoline to an open flame, so much passion and fire. Trouble is he's got so much going on that a relationship is out of the question right now but I know I ... (122 words

2 year age gap

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1670 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - She's 2 years older than me and told me she likes me I mean I like her but what should I do know? She wishes I was 2 yrs older and we get close holding hands leaning on each other but... She told me in a txt but wHat should I do know I'm sure she has a problem with the age gap... (63 words

Could I suffer from premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1670 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - I am a virgin but hopefully not for long ;) anyways i obvioulsy dont know how long i can last in bed but it REALLY worries me that i wont be long enough. I understand PE to be the inability to delay ejaculation. Well like i said im not experienced so i dont know but i ... (161 words

Stressed out over feelings for my best male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1666 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - okkayy, i think im in love with my bestfriend.. wehang out all the time and if were not together were texing, or im-ing or on the phone hes really sweet and i just like him so much but i know things wont work out becuz i already talked to him about it and that went nowhere cuz ... (204 words

Why can't I ejeculate with masturbation or handjobs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - why can't I cum when I masterbate Im not circumsized and I haven't ejeculated from masterbating or handjobs... (18 words

Should I take my chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - ok, i've had a crush on this guy ryan since freshmen year. (i'm a junior now)at the end of freshmen year my ex bff who knew i liked him went out w/him, they broke up that summer. be4 i got my chance 2 show him how i feel he starts dating a girl named shelly. a year later they ... (214 words

I always hesitated because I wasn't sure of my feelings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

27 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - its a bit long...please read it, i will be very thankful to you....i am damn shit scared about something at this point of life ...i have been with this girl since 2 years and we are very close to each other ....we are very special for each other and know each other very well ... (609 words

What's up with the "What's up" texting?

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27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy on facebook (we have tons of mutual friends and he thought he had met me and added me..but we never have met). We started talking a lot back and forth and it was a lot of getting to know you stuff. I gave him my number and he texts me almost everyday or at least ... (269 words

Give me something witty to say to him about the fact that he didn't ask for my number after I told him to call me?

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27 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - Ok, so I like this guy at work (but we work at different companies and only see each other 3-4 times a week) and we exchanged Christmas cards with each other. He gave me his 1st, then I gave him mine. He gave me a small coffee gift card and both of us used the pet names we ... (294 words

We are close friends but he has a g/f and I'm starting to develop feelings for him, help?

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27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - It seems like nothing is ever simple for me when it comes to guys. Last year, this guy and I became acquaintances at school. We sat at the same lunch table and sometimes we would talk to each other. We said hi to each other in the hallways every now and then. That was all. ... (843 words

Should I write to apologise for the past to my boyfriend's ex?

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27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - In the summer, I was working away and had a very strong connection with a guy who was recently engaged. Over the summer months that we were working together 24/7 he began telling me he didn't have strong feelings for his fiance anymore, and he eventually told me that he fell in ... (296 words

I have fantasies about my ex-girlfriend talking about and sometimes actually cheating on me with another man. Why?

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27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and I was upset at first, eventually got over it, etc. but then somewhere along the line (we were still going out) I began fantasizing about her with other men...sometimes black men, other times one of my friends. I broke up with her after a ... (132 words

I'm in love with my first female cousin

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27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - ok here's whats up I'm in love with my younger female first cousin and i think she likes me back because when we are around each other she sits with me and we hold hands and we cuddle a lot even our family say were kissing cousins their is a slight age difference about three ... (136 words

Crushing on my best friends boyfriend

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27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I have known my best friend since 7th grade, we hang out almost like everyday. Two's months ago i hookeed her up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is on the swim team with me. Me and him see each other every day(in bathing suits. we also text all the time.) And I'm starting to ... (95 words

I'm in love with my former boyfriend!?

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27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hello my name is Jodie, I'm fifteen years old. And it may sound corny but I need someones help, well I'm crying out for it here. Well there is a boy called Tom in my life, he is a former boyfriend, and I'm madly, in love with him, so much he's mostly all I can focus on, but ... (283 words

Talk dirty to me

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27 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - My bf wants me to talk dirty to him in bed and I don't know what to say .Please help.... (20 words

First time horror sex story--help!

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27 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi all, Lets get right into it. So I've been playing around with a girl I'm dating for a few months. It comes down to us having sex and, a long story short, I couldn't maintain an erection (yes its all right to gasp, even smile a little. I did after I finished crying.... (595 words

I know how much I put her through and I want her back!

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27 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. I my ex of 2 and a bit years broke up with me 3 months ago, we had known each other from our last years teaching teaching college. I have done so much wrong in our relationship and I do not know how to make it up to her. I love her and I want to spend my life wi... (1017 words

I love her and I think she feels the same but she is married!

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27 December 2009 (? - Im a middle aged female in love with another middle aged female. I told her my feelings went deeper than friendship and I can assure you that her actions and words speak volumns that she feels the same way. I don't believe she will ever act out her feelings for me or admit ... (175 words

Are our feelings on the relationship too different to work out?

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27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - i'm scared i don't like my boyfriend of 4 years enough for it to last forever. we are long distance and in several months we're going to be living together and i'm very looking forward to that and our future, but he made me nervous because he sent me a love letter declaring his ... (403 words

I caught my girlfriend in a couple lies. What do you think?

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27 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - hey guys just found out that my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, was at a guys place few months ago just them two and she smoked weed with him for the first time but lead me to believe she has never done it. she also admitted to having been a few times to two guys hou... (74 words

Was it right me sleeping with my boyfriend christmas night despite our problems?

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27 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Was I right to sleep with my babies father Christmas night? I have not been very happy with him for sometime as we do not live together, we are not talking about a more commited relationship. He has not introduced me to his family. (Our son is now nearly 7!) He is also v... (233 words

I don't know what I want!

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27 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up.. 4 years ago now when he went to College, as it was 3 hours away from where we lived, and he didn't want to do a Long distance relationship. The saddest thing, is that I'm not sure if I'm over him or not. I still find him attractive, wonder what ... (592 words

I want to have his baby but he doesn't love me!

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27 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - im 24 and pregnant. Ive been in love wit the same man since i was 18 and he def isnt in love wit me. He has another gf who ive seen he loves yet we still sleep together ive not told him yet. We have a bad past ive previously told his current gf we were still sleeping together ... (162 words

I said sure... but I don't know how?

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27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - I am 15 years old and I have been dateing my boyfriend for a few months now. That might not seem long but it is to me. He asked me lastnight if I would be willing to give him a handjob. I said sure because I like him so so much but I don't know how or what to do! Please help.... (62 words

Techniques and tips?

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27 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Okay im a 15 year old girl and im alittle curious about something. What are some good ways for girls to masturbate like different techniques and stuff. I finger and play with myself alot but i wana know a few other ways girls masturbate. Thanx 4 ur answers... (49 words

Do I tell him I enjoyed it?

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27 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - A few nights ago when my mate slept over, him on the floor and me in my bed, he made a move on me while he thought l was asleep, l felt him play with me only for a couple of minutes l got an errection but pretened to stay asleep. I am not saying l didnt enjoy it because l ... (109 words

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