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G/f wants to strip to make extra money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I am 30 yrs old and my gf of 3 yrs is 25 yrs old, together we have a 15 month old daughter who is my world. I a full time fire fighter and work part time as a janitor at a local middle school. My gf is a full time TA. Even with both of us working we are still having problems ... (223 words

Losing erection during hand job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 18-21 - So a few days ago my girlfriend gave me a hand-job. It was her first time, so she didnt really know how to, and i am in the process of teaching her. I really enjoyed it, but while she was doing it i noticed that after a whle my erection started to go away, it happened twice, ... (109 words

My mom is disappointed that I slept with someone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I wrote about this a while back but I'm still so confused. I'm in my mid 20s and still live at home (my family and I immigrated to the US and I support them financially). I've been with my boyfriend for a few months and the other weekend slept over at his house. He lives ... (352 words

Am I wrong to hold on to hope that we can work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost six years is in prison for dui-related offenses that happened years ago. We have broken up off and on due to trust issues. When he went to prison he asked me to move all his stuff into my storage shed and gave me his bank account numbers, etc. to handle ... (380 words

Does she like me more than a good friend or does she want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (? age 30-35 - Okay I started dating this girl about 2 to 3 months back. She's really nice and she is very attractive. Anyway after about a month of dating she said she wasn't in the right place at the time. She just wanted to be friends and she wished we could have been more but we just coul... (457 words

So much differenece and so much alike!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - Okay I have a big problem. Like a year ago I start going out with a man youngest than me,exactly half of my age. We did have so much good time and we still have it but I know we cant stay together for long because I just don't want nobody in my family find out about us. He ... (149 words

I get teased because I don't make out with g/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 16-17 - everyone of my friends bugs me about not makeout with my gf when we r alone how do imake the move and then how do i makeout... (27 words

Should I keep in contact with my ex or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend had dated for almost a year and just brock up last month. well we seem to keep going back to each kissing and even having sex. and i just started liking this guy and not sure what to do. my ex is still talking to me everyday and stuff should i stop talking ... (60 words

I wasn't penetrated so I'm still a virgin, aren't I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - ok so here's thing... last night my boyfriend and i were in the back seat of his car and we were just mucking around exploring each other's bodies, when he started to push against me which was fine because i wanted him to but i didn't want him to enter me which he didn't. ... (105 words

Give up? Or give him more time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy who is 23 during the summer and we hit it off very well. We talked everyday and hung out a lot. We have a lot of things in common and it just seemed like this were going perfectly. He mentioned many times that he had never met a girl like me that I was very ... (533 words

How much do guys think about sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I've had a question on my mind for some time now. I was wondering how much do guys really think about sex? I've heard from some of my guy friends that they think about it all the time. Is that true? How much of your time is spent thinking about sex?... (52 words

Is she leading me on? Or confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello, I recently have been hanging out with this girl on whom I am very interested in. She flirts with me constantly (touches me, playfully slaps me, she even sort of bit my shoulder). She gives me her number at work and I told her I'll call her when I get a chance. Instead ... (550 words

He said he'd call, but he hasn't. will he?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him back. He then told me that he ... (334 words

What happens if you take the active birth control pills all month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Just wondering... if you took the pill every day all month (and didnt leave a gap for your period) what would happen? I'm assuming it cant be healthy or more people would do it... I just really dont want my period next week as i'm away... but i'd rather have it than risk dam... (63 words

No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I got a text from him saying ... (238 words

I am having second thoughts about my up coming wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship with my fiance' for 5 years now. We have a 3 year old son together who has major health problems, he has already undergone 5 open heart surgeries. My fiance' and I are getting married in March 2010 but I'm really having doubts nearly everyday I just ... (162 words

Best Friend is blowing hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1705 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anymore until he was 100% as he didnt... (822 words

I am going travelling with a 2nd cousin and might fool around with them as well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I am a 19 year old girl who is on a gap year before university. I am going travelling for 7 months with my second cousin (we share great grandparents). In the past we have fooled around when drunk, just kisses and using hands, and there is sexual feelings there, but nothing ... (115 words

I fight to get my anger out now he has walked away!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so i just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, we are very very serious, we've already discussed marriage.The problem with me is that i fight to get my anger out. We have been fighting for over a week now, everyday. It is always my fault and i always start the fight over ... (157 words

My unemployed b/f has anger issues, and I want to confront him about them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend doesn't work and has a bad temper; how do I confront him about this without him breaking up with me?... (22 words

He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, talked about EVERYTHING, became ... (236 words

We were going great guns but now she has cooled off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok, i am 25 male and the girl i met this 20 yr old girl about a month ago rite before leaving school for the thanksgiving holidays. We share a muttual freind which is also a girl. the first time we met we talked at my apt for a couple hours and whatched a movie. she wound... (232 words

I often dream of sex with siblings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I in no way have any type of physical or sexual attraction to any of my siblings, but I have at some point in the last two years dreamed about having sex with almost every single one of my siblings. Why is this? ... (45 words

I want to hold on to him and show him that real love sticks around and doesn't abuse him.. but am I just kidding myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I met my ex boyfriend less than two months ago. At the time, he had been broken up with his ex for only 3 weeks. They had dated for 4 years and it ended with her cheating on him. We talked about his past relationship and he said that the last year they were together, they were ... (483 words

Cheated in a long distance relationship... can I forgive her???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1636 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman in another country for 3.5 years now. She is 26 now. We love each other very much and our sex is so good that it is almost unbelievable. To my huge dissapointment, after 6 months into our relationships I have found out from her ... (1635 words

Do I just ask him where it's going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I'm 23 and have been single for 4 months now. I've been getting on quite well with a guy who used to work with me, we kept in touch when he was made redundant but I'm not sure where things will go. He has been single for 4-5 months too, he had a bad time with his ex, so I'm not ... (287 words

My Techie Crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Okay. So there is this amazingly beautiful man at my school. He is a techie, he fixes the computers around our school and stuff. And ya, you've guessed it.. I like him. Probley way too much. But its freaky. I've NEVER felt anything like it in my whole entire life, and i cant ... (307 words

First Kiss - Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 16-17 - I really liked a boy and he asked me out and for some reason I said no but he asked me again and I said yes. We've only been going out for a week but I feel pressured to kiss him, I want to and so does he but he is willing to take things at my pace. The problem is, I do... (139 words

By penis only!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I am 20 years old and I am a virgin. I dont know how to have sex, I was looking for educational videos but all i found is porn videos and its disgusting. Can a girl have first time sex (losing virginity) without using the finger, just by penis penetration?... (50 words

How can I make things right again for us, the way it was at the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'll try to make this short. Me and my ex dated for 2 1/2 years, we lived together for the last year. I loved her with all my heart and so did she. She broke up with me when our lease was up, about 2 months after she turned 21, (I'm 23). She said because I'm jealous and ... (271 words

Help!!! I love them BOTH!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone i no its sounds stupid but i love 2 boys but i can never summon up the courage to ask either out but something that i have constantly do is listen to songs and think "god, i wish i could sing this to them" because they say all i want to say and more, i have often ... (126 words

After a serious break up can a guy still be friends with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - After a serious break up can a guy still be friends with his ex? She pleaded and cried that I still be her friend. I said "no" and have maintained no contact thus far. she hasn't tried to call or anything. She hurt me pretty badly (refer to: http://www.dearcupid.org/que... (80 words

We spend way too much time together... I don't know if I love him any more.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16. My boyfriend lives with my parents and I. Well they hate him and think I can do way way better, I'm so confused and don't know what to do. We spend way too much time together and I'm not so sure if I still love him. What do I do??... (52 words

I adore him but he won't ever know and it's killing me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm in a horrible situation - not bad compared to most people's problems but it's horrible. I just need an outsiders perspective before I continue making a fool of myself. I'm insanely in love with my friend. He doesn't know how I feel. He's getting a divorce at the mo... (151 words

My relationship is falling apart. Is there any way to save it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years now, and so far it's been amazing. It's a very healthy relationship, we have good communication and are very close... but lately, in the last few months, things are beginning to fall apart and I don't know where else to turn to. I ... (525 words

I sometimes feel as though I can never fall in love again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i was in a relationship wid a guy for 2 yrs. we broke up last yr coz his mother didnt accept me since i didnt belong to that caste. the guy got married within 6 months. but am still struggling to get over him. sometimes i feel i am over him, sometimes i feel i am as mi... (183 words

My best friend isn't celebrating Christmas or attending birthday parties anymore. I would like for her to make one exception for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I hope you can help me out with a friend of mine. Me and her have been best friends for 8 years. Her dad is a jehovah's witness and over the years she has gradually become one herself. Just a few months ago she told me she won't be celebrating christmas anymore nor any birthday... (218 words

Is Chlamydia only transmitted by having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F - Is Chlamydia only transmitted by having sex? and which test is more reliable the Chlamydia swab testing done by the doctor or the Chlamydia self testing kits (wee pot). I ask because I went to the doctors nearly two weeks ago. She thought I might have thrush so she put me on... (242 words

Is he playing hard to get or trying to push me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - hey, okay so here's the thing: i know this guy....lets call him J. Me and J were together a while back, when we first met, but it ended badly and we didnt speak for nearly a year. About four months ago though we started talking again and he's been really flirty with me (dancing ... (202 words

I need guy help - it seems like our relationship is starting to be based on sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for eight months now and things have been a little shaky. i told him that i was keeping my virginity until marriage before we even went out and all this time i've kept it. the thing is every time i come over we are always doing something ... (301 words

I told him he could stay with me until he was on his feet. Over a year later, he's still not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1702 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years and he's been living with me for a year. He was recently divorced when we met and going through some real estate issues, and still is a year and a half later - they are still "settling" stuff! They have no kids, it's two homes ... (472 words

Can't achieve and erection with his wife, but he can with other women??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Does it ever happen ,that your husband can't get it up with you, but if he can with someone else? My husband has bad erectile dysfunction, but the doc thinks he can do it, it is just on his mind. Well, I don't know ,what do you think?... (50 words

How can I feel like a martyr because my married lover makes me feel misled and used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1698 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am very confused and I need your advices. I am with an online relationship for 3 yrs, and I met a senior married man of 65 and I am 34 separated woman. I know it is wrong to involve myself to a married man but I just couldnt resist him. I fell so madly ... (334 words

I need some feedback about a questionable friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age - Re submitt question on my internet friend, I found this person on a looking for friends site , that was all i wanted just someone to e mail.I retired six months ago so i was bored i just needed someone to talk to. Nothing sexual i just wanted to find a genuine friend . We both ... (133 words

If I don't chase her will she lose interest or lose the love she has for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi. my name is mike. i met my ex girlfriend last november and we have had a fantastic relationship. she would tell me everyday how much she loves me and how much she appreciates me. we never fight and we have always been on the same page. there is a distance between where she ... (845 words

Should I cheat or not?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1704 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have already lost interest in having sex with my wife whom I think to be frigid and I had been masturbating about my sister-in-law whom I think to be horny as I saw her on many occasions masturbating with her pillow. I have plans to secretly approach my sist... (98 words

Is it worth pursuing a relationhsip knowing it can't be sexual unless we're married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a little over 2 months now. When we first began seeing each other, it was already understood about his standpoint with God. His faith is strong and he furthers his relationship with Him everyday. I respect that. Actually, it's one of the ... (262 words

Is love enough when everything else in the relationship is crumbling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hello all, I have been with my Fiance for 3 and 1/2 yrs. I don't know what to do. She has 3 children from a previous relationship, (that I love so much) but I am trying to leave them out of this equation, because I cannot stay w/someone just for the sake of the children. S... (96 words

What is the least painful sexual position for a virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Im 14, and me and my bf are ready for sex for the first time, im kinda scared though, whats the easiest/ least painful position for first timers?... (28 words

I keep dreaming of my past love. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1221 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am on my third marriage...I know that sounds bad, but it's a very long story. Let's just say that the term "Young and Dumb" applies most appropriately here. My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years, and are happy for the most part. My guilt, however, overwhe... (356 words

I'm afraid my mom is pregnant...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1591 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Ugh, I think my mom's pregnant. I'm 16 and an only child, my parents are married and I love how my life is. I don't want anything to change and i'm in shock.. I feel like crying... My mom is 38 and she got pregnant last year, too, but had an abortion. I'm not even sure if she's ... (187 words

How do I tell my friend to stop flirting with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - my best friend is always firlting with my boyfriend that i have been dating for a while and i dont know how to tell her cause i dont want to lose her as i did before and she means everything to me but i don't know what to say to her help meeeeeee... (53 words

My boyrfriend is treating me to a vacation in Firenze after which I'll be on vacation for 3 weeks with another man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Please do not post identifying information about yourself] My boyfriend will bring me for a 10 days holiday in Firenze and he will pay everything for me. But at the end of the holiday I will tell him that I booked a flight for a 3 week holiday in january ... (72 words

He kept ignoring me so I broke it off with him. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - This is abit long please read til the end It all started out with him forgetting to call me at times and his excuse for this was "i fell asleep", and we went from speaking 3 to 4 hours a night to just 2 and i didn't see him on msn much. He had no credit so he couldnt call ... (538 words

Is this a sexual addiction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I think I have a serious problem. I want to have sex with every woman that I get close to. Each time I am alone with a woman, however older than me, I will find a way of having sex with them. Especially if they are welcoming. Is this normal? Please help me out if it is not... (61 words

I'm a born again Christian. How to prevent the relationship while keeping the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1695 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - My name is Jerusalem, i'm 24 born again christain and i am not allowed to be in a realtionship and i met this gay his very nice person, he is realy nice to me. when we met I told him that i can't be in a relationship because i realy want to be a good christain but we keep ... (169 words

I need advice for a manipulative and rude mother in law.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - This is what happened recently My husbands father came to stay with us after he got out of jail for not paying child support (it was from my ( husband and my BIL who are both grown) this man never works, smokes pot all day, and hadn't seen my husband in 20 years because he ... (1480 words

We are mis-matched in terms of height, can we still have sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1635 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - my height is 5'3 and my bf is 6'2 can we have sex??? if so how????... (16 words

Am I wrong for not wanting my 22 year old daugther to bring boys home?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - Im a 49 year old divorcee and have a boyfriend. We get on well and my 22 year-old daughter also accepts him. My daughter never has a boyfriend until recently she starts asking a boy at work out for a drink. She said they are just friends he is not sexually attracted to her. ... (124 words

How do I give him subtle hints that I like him without putting myself out there too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have known this guy for 25 years and we have gotten close in the last two years. We talk everyday all day on email, facebook and text. I know everything about him... as a friend. Six months ago we crossed that friendship line and have slept together a few times since. Its ... (325 words

Long distance relationship!!Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Me and my g/f have been together for 4 years we lived together and traveled together but then we spent a yr apart from each other occasionally seeing each other every month etc. We decided to move in together which she said she was a bit nervous about , but when i came to hers ... (196 words

I am over worrying about not falling pregnant yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I know this is probably a question for doctors but I just want opinions really as I am worried. Just over 2 years ago I got pregnant after 8 months of trying but suffered a miscarriage at around 8 weeks which has made me worried about getting pregnant again incase the same ... (322 words

I'm worried I'm getting too much sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello dear eaders, well i'm 22 and my GF is 19, we are together 5 months.We have sex 2-4 times per day each 2-3 days.And i didn't look at the watch, but maybe 1 sex act is like 40-50 minutes...so i wanted to ask is it normal? or it's addiction.We don't complain we like ... (80 words

I feel very protective of this man who has been married twice and already in another relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1708 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - omg i dont know whats happened to me i came out of a bad relationship 8 months ago-he left me financially crippled etc-used me for what he could get so no way am i looking for anyone-but this guy started at my work a month ago and we have worked together and get on REALLY w... (222 words

I really want this relationship to work but I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Hi, i have been dating a boy that i love with all my heart for 1 year and 7 month. I am not going to go off saying hes completely horrible because i dont think he is. sometime he is very sweet and caring. I met him second year of college and i left my three year relationship ... (635 words

How can I tell if I'm going to be a girl he wants to settle down with, or a girl he just wants to use for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - Okay so I been talkin to this guy for like 3 weeks now and I am really likein him a lot. I have never met him before I was wondering if us talkin sexual to each other will ruin anything between us? Because I wanna take things slow between us and really get to know him on a ... (119 words

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi Aunties! How are you? It's been a while since I've been on here, a lot has happened since last time I came on here. I broke up with the boyfriend that had me dazed and confused. But moving on to my question. I have been single for probably 1 month now. Recently I... (213 words

We both had affairs but she is so angry with me, I don't want to lose her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - My wife is so angry about the affair that i had and the affair that she had, one minute she is calm and confident, the next she is so angry towards me, telling me to leave her alone. I dont want to lose her what can i do?, what should i say? Please help... (54 words

Had dry sex and worried a lot.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1705 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Doctors or any experienced persons please help. I have never ever touched a girl before in my life, i am 22 now and i was about to join my company within few months. I have a GF, i met her just before 8 months. now i am worried a lot, because 2 times we had dry sex. I was ... (195 words

We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I would let him be a part of mine ... (326 words

How can my girlfriend achieve an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1705 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - my girlfriend has expressed to me she cannot masturbate to an orgasm, and she wants to know tips on how (without toys, vibrators, etc) she can. thanks!... (30 words

My b/f's party animal mate is back in town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1710 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His friend moved to France, so ... (104 words

I am taking too long to finish and it's making my partner sad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1699 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi every one.. i am a healthy man and i love sex my problem is the time i need to ejaculate.. i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte .. but since 4 months, the time has encreased to 50-90 min wich is very unhealthy ..my partner ... (104 words

I love my husband but I TOTALLY love my best friend!

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16 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been married for 11yrs.I love my husband,but I'm totally in love with my best friend. we've been together since 2nd grade.We r just made for each other. We see each other offten and talk everyday.I just don't know how 2 be without him.Do anyone have advice.... (47 words

The most amazing man is my boyfriend but I worry that I might lose him

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - Hi, This might be a bit silly, but I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and everything is AMAZING... He's sweet, kind, caring and everything is great. We broke up once unexpectedly, because he was scared of commitment but go... (138 words

I am 14 and wishing, and hoping and kinda wondering if I might be pregnant

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16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - hey, my name is jena. around september 25th maybe i had unprotected sex with my kinda boyfrind. a couple days later we had unprotected sex again. i havent takin a pregnancy test yet...but im not feeling any of the symptoms except being tired and sore boobs.i have had two ... (116 words

I've been dumped, but am unsure if I should leave the door open for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months. He said he didn't feel the same way about me that he did when he first got together with me, and he thinks the relationship is pretty much doomed. He told me he wants to think about things and call me to say hi once in a while in ... (191 words

I can't maintain my "oomph"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Ok, serious problem, I have finally met the girl of my dreams and we really have a future together, But there is a problem i am having with her that i have NEVER had with another girl. When we are going to have sex, i get very hard and really turned on, but about 5 minutes into ... (151 words

I said "no way! no more! so he blocked me on myspace, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1710 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - We've Ben together for 9 months, kinda off and on. We got back together Sunday night and I thought everythin was fine now. We talked about life and kids ad marriage and then bam! Last night I find iut he's cheating on me.. For 3 weeks with this girl he used to like. I send him ... (154 words

I cant fit the mould my parents have waiting for me

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16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - (This is long, sorry.) I feel like such a misfit in my family. I'm 16 and the middle child (I have an older brother, whose 17 and younger brother, whose 10). First of all, my parents favor my brothers. Honestly, I've felt for a long time that my parents don't love me at all. ... (301 words

I haven't been able to contact my online g/f for a few months, I think she is cheating on me

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16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - For the past few months my girlfriend and I have lost contact. I've not been able to get hold of her at the best or worst of times with the constant reasoning that she's sleeping. I do understand some people have sleeping problems, however I call once every 4 hours to just say ... (410 words

Whenever I see him my heart beats faster!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 34. I know a guy, who regularly comes to our Church. He's around 22-23 years old. I talk less, he too talks less... If we get time, we talk more. The point is, if I see him, my heart starts beating fast... Why is this happening? One more question I have is, ... (102 words

Coin flip time, which girl will win me, A or B?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - 2 girls... girl A i have liked for a long time(5years), but she was in a relationship which has been broken off which she has a kid from, which is 1 year old.the father is a loser who doesnt help out and who there is constantly problems with. She is 23 and just got out of ... (270 words

I am hooked into cheating with a man just married

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16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I had an affair and now im lost. I am married n he wasnt, he was engaged but never told me when he was getting married. He even called me the morning of his weddin to tell me he loved me. He is a newlywed cheating on his wife and I dont know about me. I love my husband and dont ... (141 words

I have a Christmas Gift Conundrum!

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16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I know, I know - how can I expect someone who hasn't met him to have more of an idea of what I can get my boyfriend for Christmas than I do? I'm willing to try it just in case because I'm getting desperate. One of his friends told me how much he has been agonising over what to ... (270 words

I called it quits but now want him back!

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16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him back. He did not want to break ... (263 words

After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman

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16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he never asked ms to come along ... (330 words

He has me confused, is he messing with me?

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16 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I need some advise. I dated a guy for about two months. When I met him things moved at his pace. I met his fam right away and he made me his girlfriend. I thought nuthing of it, but i knew things had moved to fast since I had been in a long term relationship before and he had ... (237 words

I want to learn how to take the initiative

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16 December 2009 (? age 22-25 - How can I be more assertive with my boyfriend? We have been dating for two years and whenever we do spend time together he is all over me and it's great. I want to be able to return the favor. He tries to get me in the mood, and I can but then stop because I don't know where to ... (80 words

I gave some gifts to my professor, but apart from sying thankyou I havent heard further from him

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my cellphone number, and a call ... (216 words

I feel devalued by my friend

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16 December 2009 (? age 30-35 - I have this friend and I tell her she's wonderful and a great friend when she is feeling down or depressed. But as soon as someone else, someone that means nothing tells her what I have been saying all along all of a sudden that person is the best and she walks around al... (244 words

He tells me how lucky he is, he tells me how perfect I am, he tells me his life is complete with me in it, but he hasn't said he loves me!

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16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he's an amazing guy. He's told me how lucky he is to have me, that to him I'm perfect and that he couldn't imagine his life without me in it. The other day we were talking and he said that he can imagine spending the rest of his ... (139 words

Was I a rebound girl or did he end things because I was moving?

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16 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - So the guy that I was seeing ended things with his ex a few months before seeing me. (I didn't ask him about his past or anything.. I found out from him afterwards) We saw each other for two months when I told him that I was moving (just 20 minutes away from him). That's when ... (324 words

Is he playing head games because he's afraid of getting hurt?

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - This guy knows I like him, and since fall qtr started he's been showing interest towards me and I felt it getting stronger but something happened and I'm not sure what I did wrong..because he stopped and started to kind of ignore me, he might have gotten jealous because I was ... (199 words

What should I wear to get his attention?

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - To all guys out there: What do you think is sexy? Like what do you like to see women wear? I am asking because I want my crush to notice me--scratch that--my body. I want his attention on my figure. What should I wear to catch his attention? I know that makes me seem kind of ... (76 words

Who gets custody of our child before we go to court?

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16 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - me and my wife of 5 years are splitting up. we have a 1 year old child. who has rights of the childs custody till we go to custody court? I live in indiana ... (37 words

I feel trapped in this relationship! No way out of this box!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1709 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I am in a 4 year relationship. I wouldn't call it an abusive relationship but my friends do. He is very over protective over me but somtimes it feels good 2 kno somone cares so much. We'v had good times aswel as bad. Last year, September,he left me, then in November he wanted ... (123 words

What to get my boyfriend for Christmas?

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16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hey, i'm tailor and I don't know what to get my boyfriend for Christmas were both 14 and in love I know were young but we have liked each other since kindergarten. He's getting me something and I don't know what to get him can you help me out please?!!.... It would mean alot. ... (67 words

What's going on with this girl?

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16 December 2009 (M age 22-25 - so Im confused of what actually is goin on here. im goin to try to explain this the best I can. at the place I work this girl started about a couple months ago. we became pretty much immediate friends. she has a boyfriend. we got pretty close over that time. she told me about ... (239 words

Long distance and separated but both still in love. Maybe.

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16 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Long distance "relationship" I dated my girlfriend for a year and things were perfect. The entire relationship, we always had this tension hanging over our head. I'm 23 years old and told her right off the bat that in a year, I'd be moving to LA to pursue my career. Somethin... (667 words

Who should I believe, my dream guy or everyone else?

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. Well now that I'm on vaca... (804 words

My boyfriend has changed so much in two weeks. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1706 days ago

16 December 2009 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend of over two years has changed so much in the past 2 weeks .. Hes become so distant that i never see him anymore .. We get in stupid little fights over nothing then he goes crazy calling me a slapper and a bitch .. I love him so much apart from all that . I dont ... (138 words

We're 13 and this is our first Christmas together. How can I make it special?

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16 December 2009 (M age 16-17 - deck the hall with bells of holly fa la la la la la la la la. im 13 and it my first Christmas with my girlfriend. how should i show her my love?... (36 words

Am I correct in thinking he used his son as an excuse to cancel our wedding?

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16 December 2009 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a few weeks after his son left for Afghanistan for 1 year. Two days before our wedding he told me we had to wait for another year. He could not get married without his son being present. I was in total shock because of the last minute notice ... (276 words

Gift ideas for a teenage boy who already has everything?

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16 December 2009 (F age 22-25 - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I've gotten him presents before but this time around seems harder because it seems I have gotten him the gifts he's already wanted for his birthday, previous holidays and so on. What should I get him... he loves his ... (59 words

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