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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't understand where he's coming from!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Another Follow up. Just thought i'll ask for some advice AGAIN. My boyfriend gave me another chance after a breakup.After my rude behaivoir and our constant fights. and i dont know why he's giving me another chance.he says that he only forgave me because it was the right... (382 words)

The majority of questions on here are so trivial

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been frequenting the site for quite a while now, and although I believe people can gain insightful advice and in its concept its great I've noticed of late how trivial the majority of questions are. This isn't a post to have ago at certain members, I'm sure most of my ... (119 words)

Did she want to make a move on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a lesbian and i have a straight best frend. well yesterday i was over at her house and we were messing around like we usually do ( non-sexual). well she pushed me on her bed and got on top of me she staired at me with innocent eyes like she wanted to kiss me i started to get ... (100 words)

Pregnancy? STD? What is this???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here is the deal, me and my partner were have sex every other day, sometimes everyday, no pretection, no pulling out. Well, I had my period, but it was extremely stringy and stretchy..Ive never had that before. We had sex during this time. Here I am, 3 weeks la... (134 words)

How can guys think its ok to look at porn when they know it bothers their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just out of curiosity, how can guys think it's alright to lie about porn and continue to look at it when it really bothers their partner? I've never had problems with this (and am not currently), and honestly I don't have problems with porn in general. I actually quite like to ... (293 words)

Is it sex if you...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it sex if you go through the motions of sex but don't do actual sex?... (16 words)

Dating a girl but more interested in her mom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a girl just recently but i seem to be more in love with her mom fantasising about her whenever i get the chance... if i dump my girl i won't get to see her mom ever so what can i do HELP...... (48 words)

I'm ready to settle down and be comitted but I don't think he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im 27 yrs old and im dating a man but he is only 23 and we been together for 6mos now.My question is this he is in schoool and he does work but he does not have quality time for me and im ready to settle down and be commited and i dont know if hes ready what should i do... (61 words)

Virginity as a Christmas present?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, basicaly I do not have such a crazy ideas, but last two weeks I am thinking of something like giving virginity as a Christmas present. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend about two months and I know it is too soon to even think about making love, specialy for the ... (92 words)

I think she has problems that I can't fix

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend three days ago. Sorry that this is quite long, I just think detais are important. We were together for 3 and a half years, lived together for the last one and a half years. We are both 24. She has just finished a teaching course that ... (575 words)

Is it wrong for me to think he's rebounding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i hope im allowed to get some advice here please. im very wooried for my best friend. his wife left him 6 months ago after 10 years and a month ago a girl gave him her number and from that point he has plunged into a relationship with her-they have already been away for a we... (174 words)

Do women prefer leaner guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - just wondered if women like big muscualar lean guys, like body builder type guys or prefer the slimmer skinny build? i ask this as i dont get much attention from women and im hoping to slim down from 225 to 205 lbs. im a muscular guy and thought if i got a bit leaner it might... (77 words)

What should I do? He is happy doing nothing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year and we are great together. But lately things have been a little dull. He spends a lot of time on the couch he only watches television and zones right out or he plays video games. This happens almost every night. I make sug... (169 words)

How do I deal with a boring relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and I'm starting to get bored with our relationship! He NEVER leaves the house not even to go to our friends which live across the street. He thinks that you need money to do everything... which is not true.. ... (121 words)

Is it okay to fantasize?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong of me to fantasize? i have crazy fantasies about a guy he is a cheater. but im insanely attracted to him. i always have been but we have been friends for awhile but we havent done anything even though we liked each other at one point. i dont wanna be in a ... (83 words)

What can I do with a perfectionist child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there you are all so amazing on helping others and this has nothing to do with the subjects you seem to be discussing but i am a child care practitoner and im good at what i do according to others,but there is one little boy in my class aged 4 years old who finds it hard to ... (136 words)

Any clue on how to trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please help me. I love my significant other so much, and yet, I do not trust him. He has NEVER done anything to make me not trust him, but every time he mentions a girl, or says he is with a girl, I get these raging feelings of jealousy that I cannot help. I know that ... (93 words)

Why does she try and make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may not seem too much of a big deal but it really annoys me as it happens all the time! Well my 'best mate' knows about almost every boy iv been out with. I tell her first if a boy says he likes me or if im going out with someone. If me and this lad are keeping it betwe... (225 words)

How does sex feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How does sex feel for a guy, when i decide to have it with my girlfriend, it will be my first time. Like what does it feel like in the inside and in your mind... (35 words)

I blacked out while drunk and was with another guy. How can I get my boyfriend to forgive me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I'm a 24 yr old femaale and have been dating the most amazing man I have ever met in my life for almost 2 years. we find ourselves staying home alot because my bf hates being at bars, but my cousin had a gathering and we went. My bf left early and I stayed. I ... (234 words)

Holiday "Romance" Help Please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age - Holiday Advice Please!!!! I have just returned from a lovely cruise (alone) and on the dinner table was a nice man I could have gone for but he told me there was someone on the table he liked (it was me I know that) but he was reluctant to ask her out as he said if it went ... (334 words)

How ofter should I masturbate if I'm only 13??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how often should i masturbate if im only 13??... (9 words)

I want to have sex like I used to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I never used to have a problem having sex and i used to love it! Now i have a new boyfriend and everytime he goes near me i freak and move away! We have had sex a few times and it was good but he always has a go because i dont have an orgasim. I really want to be able to have ... (88 words)

B/f wears very short shorts..is he showing off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my boyfriend showing off? We live in Florida and the temperature is nice usually year round. My boyfriend likes to wear veryshort running shorts all the time. He has had whistles and been yelled at from females and been asked if he is wearing anything underneath? He has sexy ... (64 words)

B/f comparing me to his ex, questioning my being a virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend has issues with my past, because before I even met him, I gave a former friend with benefits a BJ (I was a teenager back then). That former friend with benefits introduced me to my boyfriend a couple years after the BJ. Of course, in the beginning, my bo... (970 words)

I want him so bad but he doesn't plz help :(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband just can't get into the mood any more with me we have only been married for 7 months but b-cuz of my past and me being hypersexual (AKA nympho maniac), It just feel that because of our age difference (12 yrs) he want someone closer to his age who's sexual drive has ... (81 words)

I'm 15, he's 19, could we get in trouble with the law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy he is fifteen and i am nineteen. I was wondering, how would I get in trouble with the law if his parents seem cool with it and i don't do anything stupid such as getting intimate.He is very mature for his age. How would I handle a situation like this? ... (57 words)

My managers are asking me out and I'm afraid I'm going to get fired because I say no

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to ask for your help to give me some piece of advice. I am working in a big company for 2 yrs now with more than 100 plus employees. I am a silent type of person and when at work I just do my job well but these past 6 months, managers from my company are flir... (255 words)

Do I like my friend? Or do I just like the attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for two years, we now live together. I love him with all my heart, we never argue, are like best friends and my life would be pointless if he wasn't in it. This is why I cant understand why Im feeling the way I am. Recently a good friend of mine t... (240 words)

Dating a nice guy who's been treated badly, how do I proceed & make him trust me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy for a little while who is the stereotypical nice guy who gets dumped on. I'm quite mad about him and let him know how I feel, but he's quite withdrawn from me alot of the time and I can tell he's scared of getting hurt. He's had 2 serious girlfriends... (214 words)

Sex life is a mess, do I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how to leave loveless and sexless,is that possible? I've been married for 6 year now,we hav 6 year girl.the first 2 year we had a very healthy relationship but 4 year was just a mess in sexcuall way,after we got married he wanted sex always,i mean anytime, anywhare but aft... (343 words)

Her ex is in contact and it worries me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi My name is Victor I have been goin wit this girl for a year now and ever since her X been writin her we juss been havin problems I try to trust her ask her has she been talkin to him and she says no but when I catch her its a different story.Im very scared BOUT dem talkin ... (157 words)

She's a party girl and I found messages saying I was boring

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 32 yr old male here...long story short..been with a girl 9 mo now and i love her deeply..we have been having some issues about her liking to go out alot more than i do and where we are at in our relationship. i recently found an e-mail from her to her friend stating that she'd ... (177 words)

His cousin raped me yet he blames me for him cheating on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have no idea what to call this i am so confused and have been through alot u can say from my bf. the beginning was good he treated me very good up until he found out about my past. I had kept a dark secret from him. I was raped by his cousin before i started dating my bf si... (212 words)

She's sending dirty text messages and lying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What should I do? First, let me explain the entire situation. My girlfriend and I play World of Warcraft. She got me into it. Her character is a healer, which keeps the other players alive. You need to know this, to understand my reasons for asking for help. Just ye... (257 words)

My boyfriend has naked photos of girls he knows

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I didn't really know where else to turn, I feel that this isn't something I can talk about with friends, I'd be embarrassed. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend for around 18 months, it's not the best relationship, we seem to argue a lot, but when we make up again, it's gre... (440 words)

I've fallen in love with my religious brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello guys, I just want to talk to you about my trouble... I've fallen in love with my brother. he doesn't know anything and I can't tell him because he is very religious person... I don't know how did it happen... as far as I can remember I always wanted to make love wit... (71 words)

Convincing my parents for a date.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I like has finally asked me out on a date. Now the only complication of things is with my parents. They're asian, so most who have asian parents are VERY strict. I'd basically have to beg for them to let me go to the mall, let alone with a GUY. I just wanted to know if ... (87 words)

Fluid comes out after anal..is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had anal a fu times,n a fu times ther has bin light brown liquid come out after that is that normal?and what is it? And also Where can i buy ben wa balls?... (35 words)

Boyfriend has porn videos on his phone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: This is 2 posts that were incorporated into one. Hey wel im 20 n my bf of 2yrz is 23. We used to be so close,but i dnt kno wot hapend. Anyway my bf had been acting realy sus 4 a wile n afta proving to a friend that i wasnt paranoid,i went thru hes phone when he was a... (264 words)

How can I get over him and have a good christmas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya, I really need your help on this one. :( There is this boy... and we have been really close friends for god knows long. About a year ago , i really started to like him.. and we got closer and closer until I became probably 'obsessed'. Talking about him 24/7 with my frien... (306 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me for lying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half .. and i really loved him from my heart and gave him everything .. but once when i graduated you know people have graduation parties and i had to go .. i told him i didnt dance .. i really didnt it was just when they got the ... (138 words)

Ready for a relationship but no one asks me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really feel like I am ready for a relationship... But no one likes me enough to ask me out. Is there anything I can do to make boys like me?... (33 words)

I told my net lover I'm a larger cup-size and now he wants to meet me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, Im 24 and i met an amazing guy in a chatroom and we hit it off right away.We had great chemistry from the start.Although it was all cybersex i didnt even realise he'd fall for me the way he did. He writes me the most romantic messages everyday never stops telling ... (295 words)

Sex with 2 guys, messed up on b/c and now wondering if I could be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I guess maybe I should be asking a dr this, but I just wanna kno if I'm bugging or what? I been on the pill for about six mnths now. I had unprotected sex with guy a on dec 6th nd again on dec 13th. He pulled out both times. The thing is, the week before the ... (184 words)

My friends all encourage me to dump my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and all my guy friends say to dump my gf (of 7 months) i love her to bits and see us together for a long time. is this because guys my age are commitment phobes? or dont we care at this age? i certainly do, but i am more mature than most guys my age. all my mates seem ... (109 words)

The do's and dont's of labor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. To all the ladies that have kids, I am 20 years old and 35 weeks pregnant. Its getting very close to birth and I just wanted advice for the do's and don't's when I go into labor. I've been over this dozens of times in my head, and I've read books and asked other ... (103 words)

My Co-workers Disapprove of Our Interracial Relationship

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started dating a co-worker and I am very happy, except for one thing: my other co-workers question us all the time and even criticize us for one simple thing-we're an interracial couple. He is of Middle Eastern decent and I am half Caucasian and half Hispanic. It's ... (86 words)

Long distance trouble

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl long distance now for 5 months. 2 days after i came back from one of my trips to go see her, she broke up with me. It has now been a few weeks and I can't help but constantly think about her. I still want to be friends but she doesn't want to. She ... (131 words)

Why is my ex bf suddenly contacting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex that I dated for 7 months broke up with me about 2 months ago and it wasn't pretty. We live in the same town, but I was away at school so at the time it was long distance. He broke up with me via text messaging telling me he was moving in a month and couldn't do the ... (775 words)

Girls: after you have 'come', how long do you need to wait before you can handle more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Girls, after you have come, say from oral, how long do each of you need to wait on account of sensitivity before you can handle more?... (26 words)

He tells me that he wants to work it out with his new girlfriend...but he fantasizes about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, My ex boyfriend is a very confused man. Well we have been broken up for 8 months now and honestly our relationship was great. I do think he got scared of how fast things were moving. It was a very passionate relationship. Since we broke up he went back to his ex. ... (277 words)

I want to have sex as a Christmas present!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I want to have sex for the first time with my boyfriend for a late Christmas present. I know where everything goes and the mechanics of it, but how do I go about beginning it, making myself horny so that I feel less self-conscious and I can enjoy it more? ... (53 words)

B/f doing something wrong and projecting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I might just be paranoid but my boyfriend has been acting jealous lately and it makes me think maybe he might be the one doing something wrong and projecting. I know he used to pine away for a girl who would hook up with him between her on-and-off again boyfriend. They are ... (223 words)

I wasted all my christmas money for my old boyfriend now what to do for my new one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well as everyone knows that Christmas is comming close. Only thing is I bought my ex a present and I gave Otto him to be nice and let him know I still cared blah blah but now i Llike this other guy and I have no money to spend on him cuz I wasted it allll. Gah. I feel bad. ... (105 words)

How do I properly welcome him home in the bedroom?

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20 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I need some quick help. My boyfriend of two years is finally home and I will be seeing him tomorrow. I know this is last minute. I want to do something for him to "welcome him home". Anything but sex, because we have decided to wait but something in that general area. I thought ... (105 words)

How do I keep the bullies at bay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 and i live in a pretty rough place my school is bad i get bullied all the time and beat up i stick up for myself but theres to many they use weapons too. when i walk home they will follow me and beat me up in the alleys. I dont bother any one but it seems like im never ... (259 words)

Did holding my PC muscle prevent me from cumming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf gave me a hanjjobs and blowjobs and we had sex for like 1 hour and 15 mins but i didnt cum because i kept holding my pc muscle and i didnt cum cuz she had to leave and i was going for so long and it was so nice and stuff but why didnt i cum? is it cuz i was holding the pc ... (79 words)

Will he divorce his wife for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at work and he was interested in me a lot bcuz he started talking to me and he told me he was in the process of a divorce. Little by little he mentioned to me several times that he loved me. I fell deeply in love with him and we would always go out to eat or to ... (196 words)

Did I completely blow it with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. My last day of college was this past tuesday. I graduated with my BA, complete siked I decided to go out for drinks with my friends. Well I didn't eat at all and i got really drunk. There was this guy there that i have had a crush on for two years now well i was ... (130 words)

Does anyone have any pleasure/pain sexual suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and myself have been together a while now and have always enjoyed ore sex life but the other day we got the topic of taking it a step further. I have always been into the pleasure/pain side of sex and so has my partner so we decided to try dripping candle wax on ea... (106 words)

How can I improve my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 yrs old and been married for 6 yrs. i met my husband when i was 16. i have always loved him. we been having trouble. we argue alot. he never wants to cuddle or kiss.even when we have sex all he wants to do is stick it in. he never wants to kiss me or touch my boobs or ... (111 words)

I'm getting worse instead of better trying to heal from this breakup!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi-- My ex and I broke up about 7 1/2 months ago. I'm not over him. Even a little bit. I thought I'd heal in time, but I'm finding that I'm getting worse. I do cry myself to sleep less often now, but I still feel terrible most of the time. I've dated a few guys since, but ... (370 words)

Should I take the chance even though he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a guy who lives in a different state than I do. We went to h.s. together and knew who each other were but never talked. About 2 weeks ago he initiated conversation with me and we have talked every day since. Only problem is, he says he doesnt want a long distance ... (325 words)

Girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her with supermodels!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - If i could get some advice on this it would be great, I met this great girl in a clothing store where she worked, I saw her in there through the window so i went in the store and talked to her originally to see if she wanted a better job but ..she said she was single and i as... (438 words)

Is my wife trying to push me away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been together for almost 10 years now. We have four kids together. She is a stay at home mom and i usually work at least 5 days a week.. I know she gets tired. In the last 5 months she only had sex with me once. During it she felt as if she really didn't ... (241 words)

Any advice on loneliness and relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age - Christmas is going and my boyfriend whome I am going off is hovering around. I am frightened to make plans as I feel he will let me know. We have a child together and the year of his birth my bf left me alone with the baby and my older children for xmas and when away tellin... (366 words)

Should I be patient with him and wait it out?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been friends with this guy for nearly two years, we work together. after about 3 months of working together, we started getting into a very intense relationship - all by email and phone as i work as a consultant in a different city. This went on for about 3 months, daily ... (440 words)

I have oral herpes so can I transmit herpes through oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Growing up, I got a cold sore once a year or so, and never thought anything of it. My dad got them, mom, grandma, grandpa, brother, etc--I never thought anything of it. Call me stupid, sheltered, or whatever, but it wasn't until this past May when I went to the gyno for the... (327 words)

What can I do to win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - About 2 years ago I met an amazing girl at the hospital where I work. Both of us 23 and in nursing school. After working together for a couple months we began to develop a friendship at work and then outside of work when she asked me to hang out sometime. We soon began having ... (363 words)

How do I stop hating myself and become more confident?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age - so hi... i really need help. i have horrible confidence problems. and i dont know how to become confident. like its becoming so bad that i think about killing myself. i feel worthless all of the time. and i am jealous of pretty much all of my feiends.. i really need help to ... (71 words)

Will I have to wait until the baby is born to see who the father is?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have found out that I am pregnant. I was with my ex boyfriend for 2 years and we broke up in September, to help get over him I started dating someone else. While being with my new boyfriend I had a 1 night stand with my ex partner. I am now 11 weeks pregnant and the... (123 words)

Should my fiance meet up with his ex every so often?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Relationship question???? I have a finance and going to get marry next year. His ex-girlfriend calls here and there. I dont have a problem with that. I realize we all knew other people before me and him. My questions is: Do you think it is ok for him and her to go and sh... (76 words)

He doesn't want to marry a fat girl...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with the same guy for 4 years. he took everything from me. we are like night and day. he tells me he loves me but when we get into fights he calls me fat and tells me he will not have a fat wife. i am about 125 pounds and a little over 5 feet. i do not feel like a ... (147 words)

What's my sexuality?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - so here's the deal: i'm a girl, i don't find my friends who are girls attractive in a sexual way or anything, i do with some guys. but i do fantasize about kissing and doing stuff with other girls and often picture them when masturbating. i've seen porn of a man and a women ... (118 words)

What could this itchy rash be?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi recently i have come up in a really strange rash, it started on my back and now has appeared on my breasts. Its coming up in red sores and is so itchy i cant wear a bra for long or not at all small lumps are also appearing too. It is alot worse on my breasts too than my ... (194 words)

Should we lose our virginity to each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok i have a question... my friend introduced me to a girl I fell in love with almost immediately and she wants to to take it to the next leveland have sex.... We have known each other for three years now and I want to. but my parents don't understand how i feel and my pare... (75 words)

How can he have a new girfriend after I broke up with him?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well this is how everything works. Either yu agree with me or yu don't. Well I broke up with my boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I made sure he knew that it was just a break like to get my thoughts together. Not forever. But after a few days I kissed someone ... (269 words)

Am I masterbating right?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and i masturbate but i don't know whether im doing it right, and i have trouble getting aroused and in the mood for it. any tips for me on how to do it? how to get myself ready for it and pleasure myself properly? please help, thank-you :)... (53 words)

Why did she switch on me after marriage?

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20 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok before we got marryed we disscussed oral sex, it's my mind blowing moment or highlights my first sexual exp was going down on a girl so it thrills me .2 weeks after we get marryed she switch on me. Been marryed 1 1/2 yr I can count on one hand how many times I had oral sex. ... (155 words)

Will he ever come back?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This has happened before. My boyfriend of 3 years has broken up with me again. This will be his third time. The first time it was when we first started dating.. No reason, Robert leaves me.. dates another girl.. Comes back.. The next year.. Robert ignored me for a while dumped ... (337 words)

Is he lying about breaking up with his girlfriend?

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20 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met a guy on a dating site. We talked for like 12 hours on AIM the other day. I didn't find out til I was talking to him for a while that he was still in a relationship. His myspace said he was, but the dating site said he was single. He said he was planning on being ... (291 words)

I was used and abandoned. Found new love but have trust issues

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

20 December 2009 (M)

age - 7 years ago I was at a low point in my life. I was very sad, heartbroken and unhappy. I met my ex girlfriend in the Spring of 2003. She came into my life and pursued me vigorously for two months. In May I agreed to meet with her in person as we had met on the internet. For se... (1577 words)