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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm the cause of our relationship troubles, but I want to work it out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im my name is alicia and i have relationship trouble with my boyfriend giving up on us. im to blame and play games and lie to him for no reson. at the same time i want to work it out. and l been dealing with this issue and i dont know what to do im afraid im lose him for good. ... (71 words)

How much does appearance affect overall attractiveness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - The basics are simple, I'm a little over 300 lbs(mostly fat), I'm a virgin, and I'm 25 years old. I've been losing weight rapidly, lost 25 lbs in 2 months and continuing to lose for my own self esteem. My question is, do girls judge a guy heavily based on his weight? I k... (135 words)

I'm dating a man who seems geniune, but I want outside perspective

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have started dating this guy and he is really nice and it feels he is very interested. We met through online dating. He is 46 and has been single since last year. He was with a woman for 15 years and she could not have children and he wanted them very much. Basicly now he... (324 words)

Why am I taking so much bad behavior from him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 1) Husband infertile, cannot have sex, and not bothered to fix it. 2) Listens only to his mother, father and sister. Completely controlled by them, and expects me to dragged along. They exploit him for money. 3) He was not there for me physically when I went through a... (180 words)

How to stop being nervous about sex and such!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im fine with foreplay with my girlfriend and fingering her and stuff but when it comes to her giving me handjobs and blowjobs and sex im just nervous and it is ruining my erections. how do i stop being nervous cuz im nervous that im not big at all and i wont come a lot please ... (88 words)

Can diarrhea cancel out the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can diarrhea (excessive bowl movement) canel out your pill. No I no the pill can b affected if you get sick and I was wondering does diarrhea affect it in the same way. My boyfriend and I have regular sex and i am on the pill but we never use condoms and neither of us like them ... (132 words)

How do I find out if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 and iv been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years nd 8 months i think shes cheating on me but i love her and dont want to split up with her i just want to no if shes cheating on me how can i find out if she is cheating on me?... (56 words)

My boyfriend won't accept the truth that it's his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do ?? Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6yrs off and on. im 19yrs old he is 29. I am 5mon pregnant. he is constantly dening that its his. About almost 2 months before I got pregnant I started seeing some one else due to the fact that my bf would ... (81 words)

I'm confused, sexually frustrated, not getting any younger or more attractive and I'm afraid I'm going to look back on this with regret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all. My wife has always had a low sex drive. Mine has always been much healthier. A number of years ago she was diagnosed as suffering from depression, which she thinks she'd had since before she met me. She takes medication and it works well. However, she says that it has ... (552 words)

Should I tell my Dad I'm dating a black guy when he said he wouldn't approve?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a black guy, we're both 16. My mom is fine with it, but my dad has always told me he wants me to date white guys only, which I think is awful for him to say. So I haven't told my dad yet. I'm worried how he'll react. Race has not come up yet in my boyfriends and... (147 words)

Why won't he spend his money on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently lost his job, and is now on unemployment, so we don't go out as much as we used to. If we do go out, I usually pay for myself, and he pays for himself. It is just expected for me to pay for myself now, and that's fine,but I have noticed that he claims he ... (119 words)

Are my feelings for her real? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the last 12 months i have lost an amazing amount of weight (6 stone in total) and all by doing keep fit classes with 1 fitness instructor. I do 3- 4 of her classes a week. Because of this i have to feel alot closer to her and have a lot of feelings for her not just in a ... (172 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant if he hasn't penetrated me fully?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi is it possible to get pregnant without properly having sex? Like can i get pregnant if he is just rubbin his penis up and down the inside of my vagina but not actually going right in? ... (38 words)

My gay friends boyfriend is hitting on me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age - I hav a big problem,my friend is gay, his older boyfriend is hiting on me,what do i do? They have been together for about 15 years. Suppose he finds out,my friend,and what do I say to his longtime older boyfriend nexttime he hits on me? I don't know what to do, have enough ... (95 words)

I caught him flirting with another girl, now he's unsure whether he wants to see me again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive recently started seeing this guy that I met at school. We liked each other then but nothing ever happened. 15 years on we finally get it together so there is a huge amount of expectation that I feel I cant live up to. Ive been hurt this year quite badly and I felt he ha... (164 words)

Please help! How can I revive my troubled marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) age - How do I save my marriage and make my husband fall in love with me again? the romance is gone :( ? how do i put the spark back into my marriage? I feel like my husband and I are growing further and further away every day..we argue about everything and always blow everythi... (140 words)

My young son driving me crazy, how can I change his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This isnt what some would call a relationship question,but it does have to do with the parent/child relationship beetween my son and myself.I have been a single mom for around 4 years now.I have a daughter age 6,and my son is 8 years old.He doesnt have his father in his life ... (429 words)

I love him but don't know if this will go any further, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a guy i work with. He says that he will not date anyone he works with because of problems it has created for him in the past. after i expressed how i felt about him we became even closer friends. he'll call me around one in the morning just to talk about ra... (212 words)

Are all guys this selfish in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about eleven months now, and I really can't help but notice he can really be a selfish guy when he feels like it. Namely, I'm talking about our sex life. When we met I was a virgin. Before we started having actual sex he would always ... (304 words)

How can I stop my former teacher from sexually abusing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am desperately seeking advice or help on this -- I am 19 now; but when i was at school i had a bad experience with my teacher. I had my shirt tucked in by him when i was 11 and thus established a crush on him which pushed me to move into his group when i was 14. At first he... (400 words)

I'm confused! Does he want us to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm still confused me and my partner split up four months ago we have a child and one due anyday he's really good with our son, we haven't talked about getting back together for a few weeks but the thing that drives me crazy is he still got a tattoo of my name and still has ... (148 words)

I need help to drive my boyfriend wild!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I'm an 18 year old female and I was just wondering if anyone had some tips for me. My boyfriend is great and he does things to me that just drive me crazy (in the good way of course) and i was just wondering if anyone had some secret things they loved to do to their ... (110 words)

Should I agree to being a swinger, to stop him from cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 13 years. We have a pretty honest relationship and we have sex about once a week. I know my husband looks at porn and has for years. It doesn't bother me. However there are times when he has problems keeping an erection during intercourse. I asked him ... (263 words)

Overwhelmed by insecure, needy boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to be long, so I apologize in advance and thank you for reading this. I am a 21-year old, divorced single mother and full time student. When I was married, I had been cheated on multiple times, lied to, called names, neglected, and manipulated, among other thin... (1061 words)

She lets them feel her up and I don't want to sit with her anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok here goes one of my best friends is kind of a slag, i mean shes pretty shes really thin has big boobs and is really confident, but even tho she has a boy friend she still lets all of our male friends feel her up at dinner time, she trys to make it look like she doesnt want ... (179 words)

I get very worked up watching lesbian porn, does that mean I am a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am quite young. Like in my early teens. And I just Started Watching Porn. I watched a man and women having sex and it didnt work me up. But I watched Lesbian Porn and I got Very excited with it. It made me wet and very horny. So now i watch lesbian porn and read les... (106 words)

He can't get over my cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (?)

- Ok so I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years now. When we first got together I had cheated on him. He broke up with me and evetually he took me back and its been good ever since. I apoligized to him continuously about how sorry I was I would never cheat on him again ... (92 words)

I get an erection too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi. um i want know how stop an erection when im with my gf? even putting my arm around her waist when we watch tv gives me a woody what do ido?... (32 words)

Do guys always take action when they get a hard on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys, ok my question is mainly for guys. I was just wondering if when u guys get hard do u always act on it! like the other day me and bf where sitting on the couch kissing and just chatting away when i could feel him get hadr but he never tried to do anything about if... (160 words)

Is my boyfriend backing off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused that I really don't know where to start. Basically my boyfriend's best friend came on to me around a month ago, he got quite pushy but I turned him down repeatedly even though I am a woman and i'm not blind, he is a good looking guy. It happened via IM and ... (247 words)

I'm scared my family will disown me if I marry my bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm 25 years old muslim girl. i'm currently in a 5-year relationship with the man of my dreams, he is african and a christian. he treats me with respect, i have never met a man who is as driven, understanding, supportive and kind as he is. and he is very loyal, compared to ... (612 words)

How do I make my friend stop touching me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My best guy mate keeps touching me? He comments on the size of my boobs and touches my ass and my boobs, its not as big an issue as it used to be but ive told him not to and its really starting to piss me off now. What do i do to make him stop without breaking our friendship?... (60 words)

Period ended 2 weeks ago but I found some blood today!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I finished my last period between 1 and 2 weeks ago but today i found a little blood in my knickers? Is this normal?... (24 words)

Why cant I move on?! I just want to be happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Why Cant I just get over him?! He treated me like I was nothing I knew this and now I know what a stronghold he had over me.I have no contact with him at all, yet still some part of me still melts when he walks past. I hate that part of myself.I always feel insecure ar... (224 words)

Scared my jealousy is making me a bad friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mate is overweight, spotty and has bad teeth, the only attractive physical feature she has is that she has big boobs. She cheats on every single guy she meets (literally) and she has sex with any guy that looks at her. Thing is, i'm sick of guys picking her over me and it's ... (387 words)

I'm worried about STD's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm worried about STD's. Ive not yet actualy hd sex with my boyfriend, but I have given him blowjobs on occasion. However, he precums often and soon, and i never know if ive swallowed some. He hsnt had many sexual partners, and im pretty sure he's clean, but you never know. F... (109 words)

I want to have sex but will need to go to toilet first and I can't do this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am gay and am ready to receive anal sex with my friend but im to embarrassed to ask to go to the toilet when at his house,so we never end up having sex cus I dont want to. He never asks me if we will have sex, but i know he wants to. So I have to be the one to make it happen, ... (268 words)

I am crushing on a celebrity and my friends are teasing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi again aunts, im just curios about something, ok so ive completely fallen for joe off the x factor i mean come on he is fit, any way i told my friend i like him and 4 of my friends who are boys keep saying hes gay an this really annoys me and my friend sair its is cos they ... (86 words)

When husband is angry he completely shuts down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When my husband is angry/upset (at me or otherwise) he completly shuts down. He doesn't want to talk, and he lets all of his responsibilites go by the wayside and seems to deal with it by sleeping. I try to leave him alone (as I have learned, the more I try to approach him, the ... (184 words)

Does he want me back but he's afraid? How to encourage him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - T. and i were together as a couple for 7 months. Before that we both were alone for 3-4 years (we had sex with other people but not real relationships). We are both very attractive and social people, we picked each other right away, had a "one month flirting thing with NO ... (1060 words)

I can't lose weight no matter what I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) age - I'm wondering why I can't lose weight no matter what I do. I've changed the way I eat and I exercise regularly, however, I haven't lost a pound. I vary my workouts so that I've been eating super healthy: oatmeal, salads with no dressing, little to no bread - I eat small ... (193 words)

Women's feelings about "needing time"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i cant really make this clear, because im not seeking a clear answer, i just want a generalization from female members, what are reasons for a girl telling a man she wants time to work on herself? I ask because ive recently had a neighbor with whom I was close with, he and his ... (207 words)

He stole my jewelry, told me where it was, but its not there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a man for a while now, he is an alcoholic who is on and off the wagon. we have had a few problems with him stealing from anyone including myself, when he has done this he admits it when i question him, he was on probation for something else and got caught ... (277 words)

Worried about the party tomorrow night

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Basically I have party tomorrow night and I'm so neverous about it. I'm know once I'm there I'll enjoy myself but, building up to it, I'm dreading it. I've bought a dress and although I do look nice in it, I'm worried about peoples' reactions. It makes me look di... (248 words)

Different sex drives and lesbian dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. we talk about getting married and love each other very much. it just when it comes to sex im not sure if we are on the same page. when we first started dating we would have sex 3 or 4 times a week. now im lucky if it is ... (112 words)

He called me by his ex's name and it hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my name is lana and just lastnight me and my boyfriend was talking and he called me by his exs name and he was with her for three years and has a 2 year old daughter with her we been togather for 1 year and im bout ready to have his son in 5 days.i dont know what to think he ... (159 words)

Is my ex just playing games or does he really want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently had a baby with My ex [so recent it hasn't been 2 weeks] we broke up back in September. Within weeks of our break he started to date this new girl, but kept trying to work things out with me [we were engaged]. As I finally gave up and had enough of his games, I ... (127 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to play hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my GF for several years. how can I get her to flirt, be coy or evasive, and make me work for her? I've secretly researched how to make myself sexier and it definitely works on her. Currently, I can get any sex act I want at the drop of a hat (which isn't so ... (118 words)

Should I break up with him, even if I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend last January by internet. We become a couple in the first date. After three weeks he broke up with me. One moth later i had to move to another country. After that we started to communicate by e-mail, until we end up being a couple again. I went to visit hi... (227 words)

She was sexually liberal and tried a lot of things. It's intimidating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I met a gorgeous girl a while ago who I like loads and have never felt so connected with someone. Anyway we were making love and I made her have mulitple orgasms and asked her later on whether she had them before. She replied with yes and the most she had at one time was ... (222 words)

I cut off contact and did the right thing, so what now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I did it. I thought of my girlfriend of ten years and her feelings first, like everyone always says, and I cut off contact with my best friend (who is a woman) who I was getting too close to. She understood, of course, because she's awesome. So now I'm with my ... (293 words)

After 2 years, was he trying to say he wants me?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have honestly had a dream come true!! Well kind of. Ive been in love with one of my best guy friends for near 2 yrs now, he knew i liked him however he only got told by other people. We were never allowed to be friends at college for some reason the rest of the group didnt ... (1358 words)

This pervy man has threatened me, posted pictures of me on the internet and I just don't know what to do!,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This might seem like a strange question to ask help for, but I don't know who to turn to for advice. When I was 16 I was friends with an older man who told me he was a photographer. I was happy at first because I was studying photography at college. I was going through a ... (378 words)

I texted my wife's sister and she's no longer talking to me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i have this sexually fantasy of doing it with my wife's only and youngest sister. she's not pretty. dark, thin, small breasted and all but i am really turned on when i think of having sex with her. i texted her anonymously but she's very bright she kew it was me. when i texted ... (99 words)

I have only one ball!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this makes me afraid to have sex ... (106 words)

How can we help her see that her relationship with him is ruining her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been best friends with this girl for 15 years. She has been seeing the same guy for over 6 years. They met in Grade 9 and have been together ever since. She followed him to University, and they are currently in their 3rd year together. This guy treats her awful. H... (234 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What do I do when I think my girlfriend is cheating on me?... (13 words)

Is my ex trying to play mind games with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex fiance contacted me this year -he told me he got married-we'd had a bad split -mutual but i always just wanted to clear the air so i did and we emailed a couple of times but i noticed he was answering the emails early in the morning and would only reply when he wanted ... (138 words)

I'm so tired of my boyfriend's accusations, I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we live together. Monday-Friday he works in another state and I'm at home by myself. I have three children from a previous relationship that lives with us too. I only get to see him Friday-Sunday and ... (383 words)

Stimulating my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can anyone help me. I have met a new guy and we have had intercourse on a couple of occasions but he has hinted that he would like a hand job. One problem. He doesnt seem to have any skin to pull up and down over his penis. he has a plump shiney purple head at the end of his ... (95 words)

I've fallen in love with someone I cant have, and its my cousin! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, this is really hard for me to say, and I know some of you will mock me but I have nowhere else to turn, I have to ask these questions, and I need the anonymity of the Internet. I don't believe you can ask somebody to control who they fall in love with, and I'm ... (117 words)

I've really messed up, is there any chance of fixing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've messed up with a girl I care deeply for, is there any chance of fixing this? A girl I've been friends with for six years has recently become more interested in me. We've had the beginnings of a long distance (2 hours by car) relationship, and I recently went to visit he... (270 words)

We were due to be getting married before Christmas but his close frienship with another woman is ruining everything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age - A coule of months ago I posted a question regarding my fiance's very close friendship with another woman and how I felt uncomfortable with it. Well we are due to be married before Christmas and ths lady has started calling him more and more. Apparently it is for help and advice ... (296 words)

Where do I begin with dating/socialising?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I've recently become very interested in girls. I'm going out a lot more now in the hope that something might happen, or I might meet someone. But i'm not sure where to go now. Is my urge for sex wrong? Looking on a possible opportunity in the future, i'm not sure if i'd b... (123 words)

How do I prove I'm sorry and I want her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hii, my girlfriend ended things with me because im over protective,she texted another boy with x`s, (AM I WRONG) to be upset, the truth is i love her more than anything and i know she loves me too, How can i tell/prove to her that i love her and can look over the texts? a... (61 words)

I wish he would treat me better and be there for me as a friend! Is that to much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I move on when whatever I do he still talks to me? I and my friend/crush have been having some problems. He ignores me and treats his other friends better than me. So I’ve been confused. I already told him that I like him and he acted normal and never shooed me away. ... (346 words)

My girlfriend is still in regular contact with the woman she cheated on me with, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am female and i am in a relationship with a girl we have been together over a year now and in November i proposed to her on our year anniversary she said yes. the only thing is six month into our relationship she cheated on she told me straight away after it happened and she ... (421 words)

Why do I get these bad feelings in my tummy just before something bad is going to happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am having bad feelings in my belly it hurts then something bad happens like once i was out and my tummy was hurting and then i got a call and my loved one died can someone please answer this it will help me a lot thank you very much xx... (51 words)

Should I presume my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i know i seam to b asking lots but that's only because i've found somewhere to get it off my chest and u guys have helped with the other 2 questions. my third and last thing is to ask should i be jealous of my boy friend and my best mate are meeting up and chillin out all ... (126 words)

What am I supposed to learn from my affair and failed marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

15 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I had the affair first, im still trying to understand why. I pushed my wife away then she had an affair. I have lied and cheated, i have been egotistical and controlling. I have hurt my wife and my young children. I have destroyed everything that i ever wanted, a family a wife ... (146 words)

Am I crazy to be consumed by the idea of having a threesome with my husband and another man?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been happily married for 20 yrs. Recently I have had fantasies about having a threesome with him and one of his friends. I mentioned this to him and he loved the idea and asked which friend? It doesn't matter to me as long as he is attractive. I love sex ... (89 words)

She doesn't want me to love her because we are both girls!

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my problem is that i love my friend so much and she does too but i feel she doesn't want this love because we both girls! i know that but it doesn't matter for me, and what makes me sad and Confused is that she sometimes treats me well and lets me know that she loves me a ... (72 words)

Why am I having these feelings every time I see this man?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 34 years old. I know a person since 2 years or so. He is about 22-23 years old. Whenever I see him, my heart starts beating hard. I dont know why. I think at least more than once a day about him. Why is this happening?... (52 words)

What should I do with this girl? I think she still has not gotten over her ex!

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl a while back and we have dated a little, hooked up a couple of times and ive been to her place a few times, but we never went passed kissing and everytime I asked to stay over she refused. I asked her why and she says she broke up with her boyfriend 2 mont... (200 words)

Are these normal customs in Switzerland or am I being taken for a fool?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 2 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and think that is my boyfriend l... (869 words)

Will my dependency on sex workers affect any future relationships with women?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm worried that my dependancy on sex workers might one day make it impossible for me to be in a real relationship with a woman I see strippers about 2x a week and visit prostitutes 3-4x a month. i also call sex phone lines or watch pornography once or twice a week if I get lo... (629 words)

What should I do if talking to her about our problems doesn't work?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a very sweet loving and charismatic girl for just under 6 months now (6 months exactly on the 27th of December). I'm really worried about our compatibility; although I sincerely am in love with her, we share almost zero common interests. She enjoys virtually ... (422 words)

She is more concerned about the age difference than I am, how can I help her get over it?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 21 year old and I met this beautiful waitress at a local club(didnt know her age at the time). She had a great personality and she was really easy to talk to. I could really tell that she was into me so i asked her for her number and she asked me for mine instead so I gave ... (343 words)

Ever since we have fallen out he ignores me, how do I move on from this?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I cared deeply for and I had a falling out recently. I met him in 2008 and we were briefly "dating" for a few months. At first we saw each other a lot and he would always bring me around his friends. He was affectionate and seemed like a gentleman. We texted a lot. I ... (313 words)

Why can't he be just a good brother to me?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an uneasy situation. There's a guy who would suppose to be just a brother to me. Our relationship is like he is my sworn brother. I rarely talk to him cuz I feel a little shy with boys. Then one day his friends and him decided to make a feast for their brothers and s... (393 words)

Did our date go well?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This post has more than one q wrapped in it. I recently had a 2nd date w. this guy.He made a candlelit dinner. there was a wine, dessert and we watched a horror movie,chatted and just hung out. He was a gentleman and I was the one he pretty much put the moves on him lol... (429 words)

Why can't I come during sex?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know I'm not alone in this by any means. Why can't I come during sex? I know I can have orgasms, certainly. I've masturbated quite frequently from a young age, and have been consistently able to come (granted, it takes twenty minutes or so). Fantasy plays a huge par... (340 words)

In love with a dj

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this popular radio station in my city and i have been chatting with one of its well know dj for 4 years via emails,we became very good friend we know almost everything about each other. we call and text but when have never met and when ever that comes up i chick... (259 words)

How can I help my boyfriend?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, looking for a little advice here. My boyfriend of a few months/friend of several years has a lot of general issues. I love him dearly and I'm sticking with him, I'd just like some advice on how to help him. He has mild anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorders and ... (228 words)

I don't think online dating ever works..

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I'll start. I don't Believe in Online Dating but I met a REALLY AWESOME girl and we talk, we webcam. and for a while we were just really good friends! and then she became distant, and when she came back she flat out told me she LIKES me. I don't know what to do, She is V... (90 words)

He comes too fast how do I control this?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been with my bf for 5 months and recently started having sex with him. I was a virgin and he wasn’t. I enjoy it so far but I find that he doesn’t last long enough. He fingers me first but I like actual sex with him a lot more and I’d like to experience what he’s ... (147 words)

How do I make the move to be more intimate?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 me and my gf are really close,i lie on the couch with her and she likes it. how do i make the move to be more intimate?... (29 words)

16 year old has diapers?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mom of 2 girls, 16 and 13. I was cleaning there rooms while they were at school and found a pack of open adult diapers in the 16 years olds room. I have no idea why they are in there and really am concerned about what to do. Should I talk to her or let her come to me? I ... (78 words)

I'm a woman and hate my genitals!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I feel female, I love being a woman, and love being my gender. I was born a woman etc... However, I hate having the genitals I have. I've asked a question here before and someone responded telling me I had bad self-esteem and asking if I also hate my hips, my thighs, etc... ... (167 words)

Brother--how to pacify his aggression?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i have an unusual query, in regards to helping my 11 year old brother. no he isnt depressed, no he isnt in some other bad situation, he just gets very upset over video games. when he is playing by himself, even on a placid golf game on wii, every time he does a b... (97 words)

All about the senior

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, once again it's about the senior. He's sending me mixed signals again. He's been ignoring me for about a day or two, but then suddenly today, he starts to talk to me and acts all sweet again. Then he starts texting me again after about a week. I don't know what's up with ... (116 words)

I'm starting to develop feelings for my friend

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my best friend I think I'm starting to develope feelings for her. I just don't know how to go about this situation because we have bein friends for about 2 maby 3 three years and I don't feel like ruining my relationship with her. All of my friends make ... (102 words)

Friends--is it worth the stress?

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15 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My best friend, "Jane" and I have known each other for 10 years now. I moved away and she stayed in the town where we both grew up. I became busy with grad school and work and she was busy with her job. Over time, she figured if I didn't call her, I didn't want to talk to her - ... (419 words)

17 and a 40 year old having sex?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, but we connect on so many ... (98 words)

Do I have to change the way I act when he's over?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Sorry, not a relationship question!) My mother's friend are the epitome of proper-ness. One in particular looks down on everything. For example, rock music. His two nine-year-old sons play in the same youth orchestra (I'm 17, btw) as me. At rehearsal, he gives my friend ... (260 words)

How can I stop arguing with my mom?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i argue with my mom when i go down at the weekends i live o n my own adn have done for sometime now and dont know how to stop all thease arguments dose any 1 have any tips that can help me not argue back xx... (48 words)

Found messages on his phone am I being jealous?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been together with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. When I knew him, he was somewhat of a player and just liking to get attention from the ladies and stuff like that. I didn't really think anything of it at that time because I didn't expect our relationship to become ... (289 words)

Pain after sex should I see a doctor?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MY boyfriend has a three inch penis when its erect, bummer i know but he knows how to use it so its good, but yesterday he put it in to far, and it hurt, but i dont tell him cus it feels good at the same time, but yesterday i guess he put it in too far because today my stomach ... (97 words)

Husband has no time for family

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married over 20 years. He has never been very affectionate. But, my previous relationship was too affectionate, so I thought this was what I wanted. Anyway, he has never shown me a lot of attention, but lately it is worse. He prefers to spend more ... (118 words)

I don't know what I want to do with my life and school stress

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - k this is not about a relationship but i need help idk what to do. ok im a college student tha does not have financial aid so my mom is paying cash for me to go to school. i spent one year there and failed one class. i didnt go to school thia semester due to lack of money. now ... (181 words)

What turns women on?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We all know what the female sexual assets are that make guys drool. They're pretty much all physical ones. However, guys' sexual assets can be intangible. Just wondering, what are the intangible male sexual assets that make girls go, 'I Want'? Are they body language, postur... (84 words)

What can I do to get out of this marriage????

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my husband 15 years and married for 11.. I have no feelings for him at all anymore and as i think honestly i dont think i ever really Loved him as a wife should love her husband... i married him when i was 31... out of 11 years i probably have been happy for 1 ... (272 words)

Help for a tight foreskin???

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey... I'm 14 years old an I have a slightly embarassing problem. All my life I've had a tight foreskin, it's impossible to retract. I'm a little concerned because I don't want this to restrain or prevent my sex life in the future. I really don't want circumcision, and going to ... (77 words)

School cast system (or something similar) eating away at me.

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a crush on a teacher of mine. I'm in high school, and I know nothing could ever happen--or at least, the REALITY of the situation tells me that. He's not so much older than me (there's only a six year difference), and he's actually quite young in his own right. So ... (350 words)

I would love to give him a big hug... but I'm only a friend to him at the moment...

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm falling in love with my work mate - we're together every day and he's so much fun to be with. He's going through a second divorce and is already dating a girl - I was gutted. Anyway he's changed his facebook status to single but I know they're dating. I'm so crushed ... (74 words)

How do I become her close friend without messing up her relationship?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok to start off there is this girl I really like. And she's sort of my friend. But she has a boyfriend already. I'm not going to interfere with that cause that make me an A hole. But I want to be a better friend nut not sire how. I talk to her sometimes but not nearly enough. ... (219 words)

Guys is this sweet or weird?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys is this sweet or weird? So I am a broke college student and I have no money to buy my boyfriend of almost two months a Christmas gift. (We were close friends two months prior) He insists on getting me something... but I keep telling him not to because I would feel bad... (201 words)

What's the best way to get in touch with him again?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm just wondering if anyone can help me with this problem I have. It's a long story. When I was 15 I had this huge crush on a guy that was also a brother of one of my best friends at the time. I was (and still am) very shy and never told him or anyone else my feelings... (276 words)

What is the best way for my friend to deal with this situation?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My friend met this person a year and half ago and thought she had found her soul mate. He told her he felt the same. But at the same time he told her they could never be socially together because he comes from a Bangladeshi rural family and he is the only child. He has ne... (319 words)

Serious doubts... or marriage jitters?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are making plans to get married. i have known him and his family my whole life, i love him and so do my parents wich is a big plus. But for a couple of days now i have been feeling really strange. I'm having doubts a... (178 words)

Was it a miscarriage or not?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was two weeks late on my period but didn't think anything of it since I had been irregular months before.. Well one night I was being carried up a flight of stairs by two friends (because I was intoxicated) and they dropped me down them (I think on my back not stomach) well ... (153 words)

Why do I need so much love shown to me?

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old male that finally found the person that ive always been looking for but for some reason i always feel as if she doesn't love me when i know she really does. she is really independent and self confident and i admire her sooooo much but i have trust issues ... (392 words)

Help! My fling was talking to my boyfriend!!!

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I mistakenly diverted incoming calls with my fling boyfriend's cell number because I didnt want him to call me while I was with my boyfriend. This fling is also a colleague and I have to explain to him tomorrow at work why he was talking with a man who claims to be my boyfriend ... (55 words)

I hate my life... I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic... please help!

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15 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I hate my life. I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not very social, i don't have a social life. I feel all alone, with no one who really cares.I don't really have any true friends and i've never had a girlfriend. So life pretty much ... (344 words)

What should I do, I'm afraid to hang out with my ex?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So my ex boyfriend says he wants to hangout wiht me. Im afraid to though. When we dated he was abusive to me and tried forcing me to pleasure him. So what do i do? We have been friends for so long. But what if he gets me alone? Im scared he willt ry to get his way.... (58 words)

Tips on taking steps?

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15 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so i've been in a relationship for a while and my boyfriend wants to do some stuff. I've been fingered before and that's it. I started giving a guy a handjob but had to quit. My current boyfriend is older than me and i'm nervous about doing anyhting wiht him. I'm afraid ... (117 words)