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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will making peace with him confuse him even more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Bit of a strange situation. A while ago I started having an affair with a guy at work and moved in with him after separating with my husband. About 6 months later another guy at work revealled that he had had a big crush on me for years and that he had started to develop ... (370 words)

She is pulling pints and they are trying to pull her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend works 2 jobs, during the day she is an optician and in the evening she works behind the bar in a pub. we have been together for 6 months and at first things were ok at the pub, she used to like me going and talking to some of the blokes and chilling out ( ive been ... (585 words)

How can I keep her from getting mad at stupid things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a half and its getting stressful since it is a long distance relationship. We get along really well and I really do love her, but she gets angry at me for the smallest and stupidest things and it is stressing me out. I dont ... (79 words)

Why is this guy behaving like this after our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - we went on a date.. he kissed me.. he wanted to touch me up.. i didnt let him...(he got a bit distant) when i got home i rang him to tell him i had a nice time.. he said he did too..he said he would call me. didnt hear from him for 5days i texted him.. no reply a few d... (132 words)

Why was he rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - One for girls who liked a guy, but turned him down anyway A guy approaches a girl out of nowhere. He's comfortable in his own skin. He looks pretty good. Dresses pretty good. He's got a good enough build. He's not rude. Etc. The girl doesn't have a BF, but doesn't w... (94 words)

Should I send him a text or just wait and see?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy about a month and a half ago online through a dating website. He was on TDY when we started sending emails back and forth. We did this back and forth about a 1 and 1/2 and I didn't hear from him for about 2 weeks after that. I assumed he was either really busy ... (578 words)

He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I love my boyfriend. We've been friends for like a year and just started dating a month ago but sometimes he can be so embarrassing. I've never really minded it until now. He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do. ... (47 words)

Should I let my abusive ex have visitation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I have somewhat of a complicated question to ask... My husband and I are getting a divorce. Back in November we had a fight, he got physical with me and I called the police. There is a temporary restraining order on him and the hearing for the permanent one is tomor... (247 words)

Weak erections

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why cant the porn I watch on the internet get me hard like before? When my girlfriend said she was gunna give me handjobs and blowjobs I just stopped getting really hard when I watch porn. Why is this? and will eating bananas and fish help my erections too? ... (52 words)

Should I be with a man who is unable to give me the quality of life I have now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a 32 year old female who has two kids i live with a man that is twice my age he is loving in every sense of the word but has hurt me by cheating in the process i lost a baby i was carrying i love him but hate his touch i recently met someone and have fallen in love with ... (134 words)

Why do my friends leave me for other friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My friends eventually leave me for other friends No one really likes me Can you guys and girls please give me some different interpretations of why my friends eventually leave me? Thanks so much... (41 words)

How long to wait for him to totally commit to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there! My question is this. I have a boyfriend of two years and am not sure where it is going to progress. I am Catholic and he is agnostic. How long do I wait for him to make a complete commitment to me? We also live four hours from each other. I have been to see h... (282 words)

Busy? Or just not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a Dr, we're both late 20s). I met him through friends just over a month ago but people have been trying to set us up for months, saying he has seen me around, been asking about me and wanted to meet m... (747 words)

Parents don't want us to date, what can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 16 me and my bf have a weird situation we go 2 a baptist church and the adalts there including our parents dont want us 2 date and we git in trouble 4 the dumbist things like holding hands.we've never kissed or anything lik tat and we've been dateing almost a year! a ... (122 words)

He's the one who cheated but he tells me I can't talk to guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now since we have been together i have caught him cheating ,i have caught him on several dating websites and also caught him on phone dating services chatting and talking with different girls. I still decided to stay ... (169 words)

Is it ok to do it with the shower head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm thirteen years old and i can't stop masturbating. I just figured out the best way to do it (shower head) and I'm in love with it! is it ok?... (30 words)

I left, she kissed somebody else, now I want her back, but she is wary

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 yr old male. Ive been withthe same woman for almost years the first 6 months were better than I could have ever imagined then we hit the one year mark and we start arguing alot more then a few weeks ago I got tired of fighting without realizing that I was the one to ... (222 words)

Woops, wrong name, wrong guy, wrong time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a really cool guy online in Sept. and he lives far away. It was going really well, and then I dated someone else I met a little later who lived closer. I felt guilty as I didn't love the second guy, and when we were intimate, I called him by the wrong name- and we stopped ... (270 words)

What's so wrong about our age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i have been talkin to for over a year now, is a lot older then me. Im 18 and hes 32. I want to be with him soo bad, as in a relationship. Am i crazy for even thinkin about that? Is it wrong with me wantin him to give me that title of his girl? My frends think im crazy ... (96 words)

His parents interfere and he is losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, what do u do when u hav been dating almost a year and the others parents prevent u from talking very often and it seems that the other is losing interest in you what do you do to keep them interested?... (49 words)

Jekyl and Hyde, nice to me when friends arent there, horrid when they are!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy talks about you and make fun of you to his friends when your not around. but when his friends are not around he is the nicest guy ever. this guy used to like you and you just recently started returning the feelings. you kno within your heart a ... (94 words)

Why do I get so wet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I get sooooooooo wet? when ever I'm with my boyfriend I get really really wet, the sheets are wet kind of like I peed, yeah it's that much.... but the funny part is sometimes I dont even come or feel any pleasure but it still gets soooooooo wet, what can I do? and what ... (58 words)

Why does sex hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time I have sex it hurts like it is the first time. Why is that and what can I do? I'm going to end up hating sex!... (28 words)

I am cheating but instead of making me happy, it makes me cry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - whenever my boyfriend and I have sex i never come unless he goes down on me, but lately Ive been crying after sex, Im also seeing some1 else and after sleeping with him I also started crying and I didnt even come, I laugh and cry alot its wiered and it freaks them out, why is ... (62 words)

Its only been 4 days but can she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i had sex the other day without a condom and she was on the pill but didnt take it 2 days b4 this happend and didnt take a morning after pill, now she says her stomach aches but its only been 4 days can anyone help ... (52 words)

I'm confused about the comment he made and don't know what to feel now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend are long-distance. To bring us closer I tried to do one thing he fantasizes about: anal sex. I don't like anal sex, never really had much of it and the little I had I didnt like. But my boyfriend wants to try it, and to not loose intimacy when he's so far ... (438 words)

She broke up with me, has moved on and I am sick with hurt/jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together since around the end of September. It was a short relationship but we became very close very quickly and I fell head over heels in love with her, more so than any of my recent exes, with whom things just fizzled out after a while. A few ... (162 words)

What can I do to stop her threatening these girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, This 14 year old girl is calling all the girls who have boyfriends sluts. She's also formed a gang with the other girls of the same religion and threatens all the other girls who are not the same religion as she is. What can I do about it?... (52 words)

I am in love with a 15 yo alcoholic

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I broek up with my boyfriend about 3 moths ago because I had issues with the doubt that I was possibly not IN love with him and we've remained friends and I think I'm finally ready to move on and I tihnk I've fallen for someone, the thing is I highly doubt us is a ... (271 words)

Is he just trying to be friendly or does he like me MORE than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - a month ago i met a really handsome guy. we don't go to the same school, but we have some extra classes together and we see each other only once a week. in our group, besides us, there is one more girl younger than us by one year. i got along very well with her until he ... (417 words)

Who is going to want me looking like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I´ve just been feeling sad about my appearance lately. As a child, I was very early to develop (by the standards of the times I lived in). when I was ten, I suffered from severe acne... and now my face is horribly scarred. My parents were always making comments like, ¨... (473 words)

My husband cheated and I am so numb

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with me. My husband and I were m... (943 words)

He's my friends ex, should I not see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - two weeks ago at this party I kissed my friends friend, we went back to a house after the party and things got a little more heated. I never thought anything more of it, but then he started texting me and now im going to get him on friday and im really nervous. Im a shy kinda ... (152 words)

Looking for consultation help for separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Seperation consultation fees? Is there anywhere in Hamilton to Toronto area that anyone knows of that can consult me. I found one place www.dadslaw.org but the want $300 just basicly to get all my information. I just want to know where to start. How to approach her what to e... (72 words)

We've been getting more distant since we aren't having fun

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I needed some advice on how to be a boyfriend to my girlfriend, rather than act like a husband. We've been dating for 2 1/2 yrs. It seems as if we have been getting more distant since we have not been having fun. We have a routine relationship. So we basically do the same stuff ... (156 words)

I don't know if I can face sex yet

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Age states 13, but poster stated he is 15. Okay, theres this guy...lets call him Tom. Tom and I have been talking online for about two months, recently we admitted we have feelings for each other. Now, he is 18 and I'm 15, we are planning to meet up (he lives in ... (222 words)

Why is she so distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm completely lost... My girlfriend calls me and texts me all day everyday. But she rarely asks me to come over anymore or asks to stay with me. She doesn't show me any physical emotions, like hugging kissing cuddling or anything. She says she enjoys spending time with me ... (202 words)

Is it wrong for me to pursue a relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age - I dated this beautiful girl in high school and for what ever reason I broke up with her. After high school graduation (1973), I started searching for her as I still loved her and have been searching and just now have found her. We have been chatting on the phone, IM and ... (240 words)

My 38 year old GF is smothering me and wants kids ASAP and I am not ready

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I 34.5 and my girlfriend is 38.5. We've been dating for almost 3 months and knew each other as friends for 2 months before that. I care for her very much, but feel as if I'm constantly being pressured to move quicker than I am comfortable with because of her biological clock. ... (395 words)

How can I get my Mum to see that even though my grades arent as good as my brothers I am still a good kid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my big brother (15) is the clever one, the responsible one, the one who always gets the best marks. i am good at school, but i do get the odd bad mark. but i am still good. i am not as...down to earth , lets say, as my brother. if i ever come home with an 8 (we have the 1-1... (147 words)

These are the things I bought for my BFs family for Christmas. Do you think Santa will bring me lots of goodies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what's you christmas shopping list this year ? finally finished all my christmas shopping... the follow list contains waht i got for the others as presents:, bf's dad: a wine shelf (together with my boyfriend.... we are poor students bf's step mother: a crystal wine stop... (213 words)

I sent my ex a sexy pic to taunt him with what he couldnt have, and now my BF is upset

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my ex husband never got got just a few weeks ago he started texting me at first nothing bad then he came to my work n then started text n me how hot i looked and asking if i would have a affair with him so i sent him a sexy pic and said never he kept the pic and his ... (149 words)

Is this guy worth a second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - pls help me, im a virgin n never been in relatnshps..nw my bf is askin fr a second date....on d first he lockd hs car n grabd my breast n kissed forcibly n tried 2 remove my top.i cried n he left me. he cld n said sry but continues wid horny mesages . hw cn a guy b so ... (67 words)

I am falling in love with my teacher so how can I express it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am fall in love with my teacher so how i can express hin ? ... (17 words)

I think I'm depressed, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am depressed. I have seven of the nine symptoms I found on a list about depression. I have a lot of relationship problems that aren't going to be fixed for a long time. I also have very little extra money and no health insurance. Where can I go for help?... (58 words)

Is he wanting a no strings relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and startd my first relatnshp 3 months back. I found him online and met last month. He's good but on our 1st date he comlimented me that I have huge boobs and suddenly he caught my boobs and smooched me, forcibly. I cried and left the place. He called me and said sorry ... (84 words)

I'm soooo nervous to text him... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm in my second last year of school.. and I like this fella in my year! I've only had like one long relationship (6 months)and I know he had a girlfriend for ages. I've never flirted, I've barely talked to him but I really really like him! He doesn't have Bebo so I d... (116 words)

We got together and now we're drifting apart, advise, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is up with boys ???? I just don't understand at all.Either they want you or they don't. I was kinda serious with this boy for ages and we really liked each other and we were both going to be at the same place for halloween night so we left it till then to meet up. That w... (109 words)

We were friends until he told me he loved me...help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of 2 and half years told me he loved me a few weeks ago and i was very happy and told him how i felt about him in return. Later on in the conversation he then said he was unsure of his feelings for me and didn't want to say anymore until he was 100% as he didnt... (818 words)

My wife watches porn while I'm at work. How do I get past this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is pregnant with our third child. We've been married for 13 years. Over the years I've been constantly trying to spice things up in the bedroom and failed. She always seemed satisfied with the simple wham bam. She claimed to be open to anything but it always felt one... (318 words)

Is a friends crush a no go zone??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend likes this guy. he is kinda hot but i dont like him in that way. i got his email address and we chat sometimes... but now...i don't know..i sort of like him. wat do i do now?? i mean...is a friends crush a total no-go?? help!... (56 words)

Is there a chance that I might be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since i thought i was pregnant, my periods have become more irregular... and i actually skipped one last month! My mother keeps questioning me about pregnancy, of which i've been denying because the last time i had intercourse was back in July and i haven't gained weight ... (186 words)

I feel envious at people who have slept with much younger girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, This is how it is. I'm 17 years old and I've seen many people around my age have sex. I'm still a virgin and I really feel envy at people who can have sex with those young girls [15 or 16 years old girls] I seem to be a really horrible person but that's how I feel. I mean ... (139 words)

He loves me but he doesn't show me any "love". What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) age - I need some smart advice!. So this is a long long marriage ,and I would like to stay in it, if its possible!!!!!! But ,I'm not sure this is possible. Here is the problem!My husband does not show love, yet he says he does love me. I'm very very confused,because I do not know... (240 words)

Complicated relationship issues, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So two years I was out for my best friends, brothers birthday when i walked into a pub and instantly noticed a male. I said to my friend, i will marry him, jokingly. She gave me this look to say how dare you. As it turns out this male was my friends brothers best friend, who... (446 words)

We broke up, but I miss him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex a year ago in a bit of a hasty decision. I think I still have feelings for him but I'm not interested in a relationship or anything serious as I'm in college. But I miss just talking to him and wanted to get back in touch with him. Would this be a bad ... (79 words)

Is this cougar after my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im in my twenties and have been with my partner for 4 years.he is in his thirties.iv always bee abit jeleous but am getting better.any way theres a woman he woks wiv that realy likes him.shes 50 she texts most days and trys to ring though he doesnt normally respond.hes very ... (234 words)

Do I have a legal case to end this marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age - I've been married 32 yrs to a totally aloof man who can't communicate and has no joy or smile on his face. When I've tried to communicate,he always becomes defensive and says I'm attacking him. He's never had a normal relationship with me,his 2 sons,even his parents as... (451 words)

20 and never had a serious relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am 20 and ive never had a serious relationship... am a nice girl with a big heart.. friends loves me and everyone i meet says am a lovely person..guys all say am pretty and sexy. but i want a guy who would love me.. am always alone on Christmas and Valentin... (161 words)

What's right for my partner in regards to size?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake of keeping things simple, ... (304 words)

I want to find out who my biological father is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I must admit I have a worse problem than my fiances sisters and his ex. This is a problem I'm afraid to talk to him about. I was adopted at birth and after 17 years finally went this last summer to meet my biological mother. I feel like that wasn't enough for me though.(My fi... (165 words)

2 boys love me and never want to lose me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have two boys telling me they love me and never want to lose me, One was from a previous long term relationship the second boy ive been with a month but he keeps threatning my ex and his having trust issues. I still really like my ex I dont know what to do help ?... (62 words)

Should I resign myself to my current unhappy life or pursue the new relationship...it's just so hard. Is there an answer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't know where to begin, so I will start with some background information. I have been married for 20 years, have a child in college, 1 in high school and 1 in 4th grade. I got married at age 26. When I dated my wife we had a lot in common. She liked the same m... (609 words)

What if I still like him and he just wants to be friends...how do I deal with this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think that I'm giving up on him. I went through telling him how I feel and that i like him but its been way too long! In class sometimes I catch him staring at me and when we catch each others eye I look away because Im embarassed that I was loking at him. We talk all the ... (140 words)

How to deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i get over him its so tough I really need advice on this please We are seperating and its not easy I just spoke to him and he is so calm about everything How can two people that was so inlove and dedicated to each other turn out to hate each other. ... (67 words)

Newly-wed virgin looking for tips...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm newly wed and am n virgin i need tips on sex... (12 words)

How do I respond to the e-mail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a man for about 6 months. We had incredible chemistry and a ton of fun in and out of bed. One day a very small misunderstanding occured and he chose to end the relationship. This was 5 months ago. Since then, we have remained in contact about once a month. He calls ... (244 words)

I want to move on...I really do...but how do I come out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months back, because of a few problems we had. Its been months, but I still love him. I miss him a lot. I cry all the time just thinking of all the times we spent together. I was so happy with him. I never felt that way with any of my previo... (163 words)

Should I meet for sexual activity? I don't want to date him and I'm 15.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am meeting with this boy this friday from my school. He is just so mmmmmm sexyyy its weird coz i never fort i wus ever go out with him before in my life. i think he wants to have sex with me but so do i ha i dont wanna go out with him tho just sexual activity haha. sho... (73 words)

Should I pursue she shy guy or let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ! I need some serious help! I like this guy so much and we are in the same class together, he is so shy !! I know that he likes me back, because I've seen him a lot of time looking at me but when I look at him, he looks away or leaves, he smiles when I smile and ... (95 words)

How to break hymen before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)... (41 words)

Stubborn boyfriend is rethinking relationship because I'm not ready to move in.

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks to anyone who reads and replies to this. Ok me and my bf have been going out for about 3 years. Hes just recently asked me if we could move in together after my 1st year of uni. I am not ready for such a commitment like that. Ive just started to get on my own two feet... (230 words)

I have her Xmas presents even though she dumped me... do I give them?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago, Ive asked why, but been given no clear answers. I do miss her very much and am really hurting, Id like to hear from her-yes id like her back. I have already brought her, her Christmas presents. A friend from the club has suggest... (124 words)

Everyone started picking on me about this girl - even my teacher!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I propose a girl 2 months ago . She said that she wont believe in commitment . Even though i keep falling for her. We become good friends. Everytime we met i told her that i like her. I regularly told about this to my friend . She also started taking intrest in me. She also ... (203 words)

He's ripped me off and left me. What do I do now?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for four years, we met through a mutual friend. Our relationship felt perfect. We were engaged for the last two years (he proposed) and early this summer booked our wedding; we'd been living together for a year and before that i stayed at his most ... (1599 words)

How do you get tested for STIs? and How long do I wait before getting it done?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay - firstly i was stupid enough to sleep with someone without a condom - yes, aware of this. But i am now in the wanting to get tested stage to make sure i am okay. I know chalamydia and syphilis are the most common STI's so i am gonna get tested for those first - partner ... (265 words)

Is / Has my girlfriend cheated on me?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm an 18 year-old male and my girlfriend is 16 and bi-sexual. my problem is i cant trust my girlfriend cause i keep thinking that she has meesed around with someone or is messing around when im not there. the first time i noticed it was when i came off course with the ... (265 words)

She's too scared to leave her violent boyfriend!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really feel sad about the situation now. She has been wanting to brake up with her bf of 4 years but she is scared. She broke up with him many times but she patched back with him by force, her bf forced her. Now she is saying she likes me but scared to move on because she is ... (143 words)

How do I ask my husband to give me some space during our separation?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are seperated at the moment, but he still sends me sms's. I want him to give me some breathing space. How can I tell him to give me some space ? ... (37 words)

How do I get over my anger at the girl who slept with my boyfriend?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to get over my anger at the girl that slept with my boyfiend. I think because she didn't have to deal with anything and I have lived with the aftermath for so long, my boyfriend has gotten it from me continuosly and suffered himself and has shown so much ... (186 words)

Fiance cheated on me and I can't cope...

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and we got engaged last year. we had been very happy and everyone said we were good for each other. I am 33 and she is 23 but the age issue never even came into it, it really didnt, she was quite mature and i look and act ... (748 words)

He finds out I like him, and blows it off with another girl the next day! Does this mean he likes me?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Im going to go straight into this question, im 17 years old and im in sixth form doing my a levels. In my sixth people come from all over the place, but ive been in that school since the age of 12. Well in september this boy came to the sixth form, and he had... (565 words)

I'm confused about the way she feels about me!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i told this girl i liked her but she said she was not looking for a relationship so i asked her to the christmas dance and she said yes. Then we were taking normally for about a week. After about a week she calls me and asks me if i was on drugs and i said ya i s... (267 words)

How do I get my 38 year old lover back?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Ive got a big problem. He's 38 and im 18 and even though ive heard all the comments about robbing the cradle, hes only using you for sex. I dont care and I love him and he loved me. it all started on saturday when he came up from the south of england ( wher... (425 words)

Am I doing the right thing by staying with her?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a big issue and i dont know how to handle it ,i met this girl on a party and well we hooked up that day without knowing each other in the dark ,but we didnt have no intercourse but the second time i saw her we did have sexual intercourse she would always party and get ... (450 words)

How do I deal with being unattractive?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is going to sound shallow, but I can't help it. I'm really feeling sad about my appearance. I LONG to be attractive and have a nice figure, but, let's face it, I'm too fat. I am at the point where I feel depressed all the time aobut my appearance and I hate l... (210 words)

What does he want?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex were together for three years not all of the time was the relationship good, his mother didn't like me for some reason and when I was pregnant with my son who's now two she did everything she could to cause problems she told him the baby couldn't be his and that if ... (258 words)

How to support her in her career?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 26, living a metro city in India. I am well qualified and have good experience in my filed of work. I am working in a multi national company, have a stable job and earning well. I have my flat which I took on loan and living with my parents. I also have grandfat... (286 words)

Was I wrong? I need help!

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. After a year and a half together. He said he couldn't deal with the relationship anymore. But we still talk and try to rebuild our friendship to get back into a relationship. I feel like I have no control in this relationship! He has all ... (192 words)

How not to masturbate?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I get rid of habit of masturbating? I guess I began to mastb since I was at primary school. Sometimes I do hate it, but I can't help doing it again. I feel upset each time after I do it.... (45 words)

How can I get out of this despair?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I couldn't have ever imagined even in the wildest dream of mine about such an end to my blind faith in her.It was a relationship where though we didn't exchanged words but the hearts knew it all.To be very fair,I absolutely have no idea when it all started.The only thing that i ... (360 words)

I snooped and found things, now how to confront him!

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i know its wrong of me but i recently went thru my bfs cell phone and found things that bother me. How can i confront him without him knowing i went in his phone?... (34 words)

Please give me some insight on how to get him back...

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and for the last year and 5 months have been in love with a 38 year old man. I've heard it all before, oh he's too old for you, oh he's only using you for sex. So I really dont need to hear it from people on here who dont even know me and him. Just a little b... (498 words)

Should I tell my lover's wife her husband is a philandering fink?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i thought i was the only woman who is involved with a married man but it seems there are out many out here and i wish someone can help me. we works for different companies, then texted, emailed, he sent me flowers, chocolate and we met. i was deeply in love wit... (933 words)

I took him back, but I still feel betrayed!

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now, but a year ago, he cheated. I took him back after only a week of thinking on it and feeling sorry for myself. I just knew I couldn't handle life without him, but I still get images of them together (yes, I caught them). ... (248 words)

My girl's biological clock is ticking after 8 years together but I wont commit

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there My girlfriend and I have been together for 8yrs. She is 29 and I am 31 in three days. She really wants to have kids, but I am not sure. Sorry for the long story that follows but it gets a bit more complicated. I can imagine having kids at some point in the future... (443 words)

I have a girlfriend but think about others girls, and told my girl this!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently dating a girl I have been with for 3.5 years. Here recently I have been getting strong feelings for other girls. Especially her roommate who also happens to be my best friend and my girlfriend's best friend. I have told her about how I feel about her roommate. ... (133 words)

In a relationship with no title

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's my situation. I'm 19 and I'm dating a 28 yrd. We started off just hanging out then i moved in with her to help pay bills, then we started dating. Now she was in several relationships before me and suposedly cheated on in all of them. She also td me that she has been ... (292 words)

He cheated and yet I'm in love with him still

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am sixteen years old. in love. yea i know. i'm an idiot right? don't know what i'm talking about. believe me when i say i do. i fall hard for this boy. lost the vcard to him. LOVE him. he cheated on me...with my best friend. and with a french exchange student...and with some ... (88 words)

Why do people hate virgins so much?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do people hate virgins so much? What did we ever do to be treated the way we are? It just isn't right.I never criticize my friends decision to have sex,so why cant they just respect my choices.It's not as if I'm some kind of saint constantly chastising there every move.Far ... (176 words)

Really confused and not sure where to turn with this relationship

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years we have a son who is gonna be one years old, my boyfriend is 37 im 21, me and him been on and off for awhile now, i never really been single for very long.... i dident like to be at the time... my boyfriend was there through the ... (313 words)

Why am I having sex dreams about cheating on my boyfriend?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having a ton of sex dreams where I cheat on my boyfriend, with boys I used to think were hot. I am still totally devoted to him and would never, ever cheat on him, because that's just not the kind of person I am. I still love him and nothing has really changed, ... (110 words)

The girl I like has gone cold on me

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i like keeps ignoring me. not long ago when we met we use to talk all the time i think she knows that i like her but why doesnt she talk to me that much anymore?... (40 words)

How can I ask her without sounding weird?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl i like but i dont know what to do how do i bring up a conversation that leads me to tell her that i like her and to ask her if she likes me? what do i start with or what do i talk about?... (51 words)

I'm jealous of my boyfriend's anatomy!

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So recently I realized that I'm constantly feeling envious of my boyfriend's sex organs. I don't know what to do, it is a constant obsession that actually interferes with my life. I'm incredibly satisfied in bed, always, and have an orgasm every time, a really mind-blowing one ... (227 words)

Hands jobs and embarassment

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over five months and just a few days ago i gave him his first hand job (in his life) and he gave me my first(in my life). i have a few questions now though. 1:since it was my first hand job, i feel like while he was giving it to... (278 words)

How do I got about rekindling our friendship

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9 December 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I fell in love with my best friend, a girl, about two years ago. We dated and crossed borders we had tried to set, but we stopped that and forgave each other. Then a few months later she broke up with me, saying I wasn't the one she was going to marry. Not three weeks later she ... (254 words)

Separated for 2 years, finally file for divorce why is my husband still a basket case?

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9 December 2009 (F)

- Separated from husband a couple of years ago, we'd been drifting apart for many years, doing separate things, different hobbies, different friends, it got to the point where I didn't know why we were together. We talked about the problems in our marrage; we tried counseling, ... (249 words)

Alot of sex sometimes without condom equals pregnancy?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i used the pull out method ,but one night we did it several times, and after he pulled out i would give him a hand job then an hour or less later we did it again. I am not really sure how long its been since that night and we have had sex a lot of other times ... (165 words)

Tips for a heartbroken insomniac?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tips for a heartbroken insomniac? Dumped by the guy I love + long-time insomniac = not very stable version of me I'm too young (15) for many sleep aides according toy parents, but as I try to sleep, I can't help but to think of my ex that dumped me 7 months ago because my f... (86 words)

So jealous of my boyfriend's ex--what do I do?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship. We love eachother dearly and do everything together. So why, even when we're cuddling on the sofa watching telly, or tucked up in bed talking about our future, do I have these horrible thoughts about his past? Since we've... (329 words)

He told me to move out because his ex said he was a bad person

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got involved with a much older man. It began asu almost a fling. I had only had two boyfriends in my life and when a smart handsome older man showed me attention I thought I needed to live a little. We got together for a week and I had the best experience of my life. For ... (226 words)

HIV & oral sex

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9 December 2009 (M)

age - I need advice from only men an women that know! My girl friend is hiv + ! I am not! I so much want to please her orally ! What are the risk to me if I do an often! Also right now her hiv is undetecable! I need to know if it is being done by other an for how long? An is there ... (78 words)

What are more sure signs a guy likes you?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What are the signs a guy likes you? Since this can be slightly vague at times, what are more sure signs a guy likes you?... (25 words)

He told me early last month that he could not do 'us' . This is so hard on me!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am writing to see if someone can help me please with a problem that I am going through. I had been dating my partner for 12 months before we broke up a month ago. Things were going great, I was refered to as my beautiful boy, and on my birthday thanked me for ... (451 words)

I don't know how to stop missing him

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to stop. I don't know how to stop loving my ex boyfriend. I don't know how to stop missing him. It seems over the past year, I can only go a few weeks before I run back to him all over again. He's like a drug and I am honestly addicted. I know that's a st... (251 words)

He isthe love of my life and I let him slip away!

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married really young at the age of 19 to my first boyfriend.I'm married but deeply inlove with someone else who also happens to have a girlfriend and is expecting his first child. I met this guy about 5 years ago and we have so much incommon. Throughtout the years we kept ... (185 words)

How do I find out if he's interested?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so there is this guy I work with, he works the night shift and I come on for my shift just as his shift ends, but I only work a couple of times a week, and dont really see him too much. But the last few times I have seen him, I have been late and he has stayed back half ... (435 words)

Sometimes there's blood when I wipe!

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really worried. I need your help. Ok, this barely started some time ago, not that long ago, but the problem is that sometimes when i go to the bathroom and then i wipr theres blood. What can this be a sign of ? What shoudl I do ?!... (50 words)

Everyone is telling me my boyfriend will dump me because he just wants sex!

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9 December 2009 (F)

- Everyone keeps telling me that my bf will dump me and leave me and just want sex, is this true? Should I listen to them? Basicaly whats happened is that when my bf and I first met he wanted sex early in the relationship, but I didnt because I beleive in waiting until yo... (340 words)

He seems to be avoiding me now! Why?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age - I met this man at work. He does not work at my company but delivers to the receiving office where I work on a daily basis. We were really getting to know each other and I actually thought we were flirting with each other. It attracted me and I think him too. He is 50 and ... (415 words)

Why is he so hostile? And why do I allow him to keep hurting me?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance ended it with me 6 months ago. After 4 months of messing with my emotions, I changed my number and we had no contact for 2 months. Then last week he emailed and left his number and asked to see me. I called and ended up going to see him. I went for closure and to f... (334 words)

Should I stop flirting and keep it just as a friendship?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay same guy same senario kinda.. so ive stayed with this guy several times now. i know he wants me to stay the night with him because he is the one who asks me to. but! every single time when it comes down to having sex there is always some excuse or something stopping us ... (108 words)

A kind act for my boss for Christmas?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am considering offering to work for my boss on Christmas so that he can go home out of state for a couple of days to see his family for the holiday. Would a kind act be misconstrued for more? In reality, I have had a crush on him, but its over for the most part now. I am ... (134 words)

Do his good points outweigh his bad ones?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently starting dating this guy who i am totally besotted with he is like all I think about but I don't know why its really strange. He is charming, sensitive, funny, mysterious, caring and very very handsome but at the same time he is rude, arrogant, and offensive. ... (169 words)

He didn't say the right things when I asked how I would know he would never cheat on me!

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9 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just got back together after a year of being broken up. The difference this time is that i moved to my mom's house on april so we live an hour and a half away now. We used to live together at his parents when we were toegther by the way. Anways, he cheated on ... (241 words)

What makes a healthy relationship?

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - a simple question. what makes a healthy relationship?... (11 words)

Maybe in love?

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9 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I may be bi? I have a best friend who is a "straight" girl- I am closer to her than any other person I know. We literally spend all of our time together. We sleep next to each other whenever she's over. We change and I even talk to her while she's in the shower. A... (192 words)

Is my ex girlfriend playing mind games???

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9 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi sorry this question is going to be really long with the details and such. Me and this girl dated for 3 years. You could say she was my first love. I was her first love too. Our relationship was wonderful she was tight with my family i was tight with hers and it seemed as... (1271 words)