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Mom's short skirts are causing me to have troubled sexual thoughts

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Question - (30 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2010)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:


Hope i can get some advise here. I am 22 now originally India only a son for my parents. I got a small traditional family back in my Country. My mother she is 37(5'4" tall, medium built, dark complexion) and my dad is 56(yes nearly 20 years difference between my mother and dad).

Nearly 2 years ago we migrated to one of the Western Country(sorry i am not confortable mentioning the Country). We were bit struggle here at the start and my mother managed to get a clerical job in a private office and dad goes for casual jobs, mainly he could not find the proper job here for his experience and qualification in INdia and i study in University.

Things were smooth(even thought its like queen rule at home) until nearly 3months ago some changes in my mother's attitude which makes me not only upset bit sad as well.

She started wearing short skirts nearly 3 months ago when goes to work or outside, mostly pleated short skirt around 14 inches above from her knee level, which shows her fat thigh hips visible and also clearly visual her lace G-string.

First i thought my dad would say something, however notice he is also encouraging her to wear short skirt, sometimes in the morning before she goes to work he kiss her as normal n lift her skirt even up above her knee level and put his hand inside her skirt and adjust her g-string.

When i see my mother with this very short skirt and high heel shoe i get strange feeling and my penis getting errected. Sometimes i take her worn G-string she put in the bathroom to shake my tool.

My mother and dad are very nice with me and kind. I told my mother i get upset she wear short dress, she replied me with smily says its freedom here i will be ok

I am not sure what to do. As i am full time student, i cant afford to get seperate flat to live. I have to stay with them until i finish study and get a job

ANyone can give me an advise

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010):

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Hi All,

Thanks for all of your answers, yes what to do she is still the same even i asked her..

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (1 January 2010):

bharat mehta agony aunt"she replied me with smily says its freedom here i will be ok"

Most wisest statement, I am reading as a Indian, which came from the Indian head, and that too from Indian female,notably addressed to young son.

Its freedom!!! Of what? Certainly from Orthodoxy that lead negative approach about sex. And, Indian Female think positively that it will be ok for son.

I am Indian, and live almost tortuous life, but it is ok here.I choose to live in philosophy, and not with society, and this is the reason, I feel pleasure here with westerners.

few thing to this young son. Erection in 20 is normal, it is not attributed exclusively to mother's body, but it occur even without any female's body.The reason of erection is hormonal, and admiration is spiritual. Such erection is required to understand in its proper context. It is private, it is enjoyable, and not to be shared for causeless reason, and even with erection one should learn to respect any any female with heart,and not with insult is the essence of civilization. This is not a religious matter but spiritual matter. Mutual respect is the essence of Freedom.

Your mother is right in saying 'it will be ok'. And, you are also right in thinking to live separately on your own.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

drain it before you see her

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

You should tell your "nice" parents the truth, I am sure your mother will start wearing long skirts if she thought she causing u to do that... I would if my son said that??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

her skirts are so short you can see her lacy g~string? That doesnt sound plausible to not sure that there are any office jobs where this is acceptable...

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