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He's married but we love each other, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ive just recently started a new job. Me and the manager being very close he knows everything about me and my history of abuse and current abusive situation with my family. It was agreed during holidays i would come work for him to get some extra money (bar work). But over thi... (200 words

During kissing/cuddling/etc I suddenly orgasm without stimulation! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - Me and my fiance are both virgins, we are saving our selves tell we got married, but we do have kisses and cuddling....etc The problem is some of the times when we are kissing i suddenly orgasm !!!!! It been concerning me, should i seek for medical consultation or is it norma... (57 words

I have been building a house, if we broke up, would fiance get the house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - im building a house for the last eight year s with my own money my fiance never wanted anything to do with it were together six year s and have a six month old baby who i adore if we broke up would she be intitled to the house ,... (50 words

I'm dating a 50 year old man and my parents don't understand.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - need your advice. my parents have recently found out that i'm going out with a 50 yr old (and have been for a year). i love him dearly and can't imagine life without him by my side. my parents are devastated, the last thing i want to do was hurt them. i've told my mum that ... (101 words

Ever since we had a child together, he's never home and I don't know what to do.

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23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - So i have been married to my husband for 4 years now and ever since we had our daughter he never seems to be home. He joined the fire department is always doing side jobs going to friends house and whatever else. He told me the day he joined the fire department that part of the ... (150 words

Both my friend and I fancy him, but he sends mixed messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Well tbh I need some advice. Basically what is going on is that I have liked this boy since I first started secondary school with him and he asked me out frequently over the years but I always turned him down because I thought I would only get my heart broken for having a ... (497 words

Whom to choose: the one I'm with or the one I want

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm with this guy who is 25 and we have been together for 4 years now. But there was this 20ish guy at college who i fancied but he didnt fancy me, he just didnt seeem interested, he always had girfriends who where on and off and after college i didnt see him to much beacuse he ... (168 words

I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ... (45 words

Met a new guy, he's really respectful but I have no idea where this is headed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F - I went out with John*[Mod: Name changed to protect Identity], a guy who is a yr older than me on Saturday night. We worked together in the summer. He picked me up which was very cute. He mentioned that my hair cut was cute! I was impressed that he remembered. We went to his ... (234 words

I think precum is disgusting and abnormal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (? age 36-40 - my boyfriend starts leaking his precum before entering my vagina, it is disgusting. i think he is abnormal pls suggesions... (20 words

He's much bigger than my prior boyfriends and I'm worried sex will be painful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (? age 30-35 - hii so imm 16 and this boy imm dating is 18. we have a rlly good time together and he makes me rlly happy (: we havent had sex yet but we both want to and will probably do it soon. the problem is.. ive had sex with 2 other guys, both of which were on the smaller side of ... (214 words

She's having an affair with a married man. How can I make her see the error of her ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm hoping for some perspective. I've been friends with a girl from school for years. She's very clever, attractive, silly and ambitious. We don't have a huge amount in common but we've had common friends over the years, we've been on holidays together, we like each oth... (446 words

My boyfriend makes me wear very revealing outfits all the time, is this right? If not how can I make him stop this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend insists on me wearing very skimpy clothing even in the winter time. I live in Toledo, so it is cold down here! He has made me wear very short skirts and dresses, with little boots,it does look cute but not for every place we go. I am in my teens, so we are limited ... (175 words

He says he doesn't like me but everyone else thinks he does. How can I get him to admit it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok this guy says he doesnt like me but my friends and i arent crazy we see how he looks at me and he stares and smiles, and he talks to me all the time. Why cant he admit to it and plz tell me wat i can do in order to make him admit faster tht he likes me!! thank you... (62 words

Is there something wrong with me for being in love with a much younger girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - [Moderator note: The OP is not asking for advice on how to pursue a young girl. He just wants reassurance that he's normal for fantasizing about being with her when she's older.] Hi I really like this 10 year old girl I dream about her that she is 5 years older my age and she ... (173 words

How can I learn to trust him, when my past experiences won't let me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend n I have been together for 8 months now... Last week I made the mistake of telling him I dont trust him specifically. He knows I have trust issues to begin with due to me being physically and emotionally abused all my life. I love this man with all my heart and I ... (130 words

I suspect her of cheating, because her sex drive has diminished and she has been spending lots of time away.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - Ok, new here and looking for advice. First a question for the ladies. In general, when grooming, if a woman shaves down below, is that usually something they do for themselves, or something they do to make someone else happy? The reason I ask this is leading up to question ... (230 words

Haven't had my period yet, but now I'm getting a strange discharge, any ideas what this could be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I'll just dive right in. I am 14 years old and have never had a period before. But about 2 days ago I found a huge brown/bloody splotch on my underwear. I changed them and put on a pad just because. Then later that night nothing else had happened, the pad was clean. The next ... (84 words

They say he bad mouths me behind my back, but to my face he's lovely, what's going on!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok well i like this guy alot and people say he talks behind my back about me negativly, but every time i confront him he rejects it 100%. i sometimes see him look at me from the corner of his eye. i want to talk to him about a relationship but hes always walking too fast or hes ... (76 words

I don't like his marijuana usage, he won't stop! Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months now. We've have a somewhat rocky relationship. I caught him cheating on me with his ex 4 months into our relationship. However, he sincerely apologized and begged for another chance, so since then we've been trying to ... (412 words

He's not contacting me as often, did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - I finally got to go on the date with the guy I like. I think I bored him a bit but otherwise, it went well and we really clicked, (in my opinion.) He held my hand, hugged me, acted really sweet. But introduced me as a friend. I guess that was understandable since we weren't ... (246 words

Is it normal to still be in love with someone a year after it ended?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - Is it normal for people to still be completely and utterly in love with someone a year after it ended? There's been no contact, I haven't seen him and yet I still think about him every second of every day and still can't help but beam when I talk about him. Does it ever g... (59 words

Hi everyone, I really need advice on how to convince my boss to make my temp job permanent.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - hi there everyone i a currently working at my local supermarket as a christmas temp and i really want a permanent job on the department that iam working on and i am asking if anybody could give me any tips on what i could do to make my managers concider me for a perminant ... (97 words

My girlfriend gives horrible oral, but is more than happy to give it, how can I make her better at it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm with a girl who I love a lot, and things are fantastic... to a point. When I give her oral sex, she loves it, moaning and grabbing and clawing... all the things I could imagine are good signs. But when she goes down on me (she is very willing to do this) I hardly feel the ... (102 words

Is she just being really friendly or does she like me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - A few months back I met this girl, at the fitness club, in the pool. We had seen each other a couple of times there as we are pretty regular swimmers but never talked to each other. Finally one day we did and started talking to each other. After a few days she even introduced ... (368 words

Is it normal to fantasize about people other than your partner during sex/masturbation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - How often do you masturbate to thoughts of people that are not your girlfriend/boyfriend and when does this become abnormal? Is it normal to fantasize about other people when you are having sex with your bf?... (40 words

2 week holiday fling was so special I want to emigrate to be with her, what do you guys think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M - I have just come back from a wonderful 3 week holiday in New zealand, where i had an amazing fling of 2 weeks with an amazing girl( a friend of a friend) I am now back in UK but she is talking about me moving out to NZ, getting a job, be together etc I am mad about her b... (119 words

I did nothing while we were on a break, but now he says it's over because he thinks I cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up on Saturday over a heated argument, he went out that night and mingled with other females and enjoyed hiself according to my friends. He also reactivated his facebook account, which is something that we got rid of because it put a strain on our ... (376 words

My husband has become too close to another woman, how can I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age - My husband likes to be dominated .right now he seems like he is at the point where his friend who is female has control over him ( they met online and have met in person) . I can't get him to do anything and he and she talk everyday for long periods at time on text. I asked him ... (87 words

I just need to find a way to get him to trust me, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey I've been in a relationship for 9 months, when it started out I was just getting out of a bad relationship and my current boyfriend helped me through, he helped me with my University work and my relationship problems. So I broke up with the previous boyfriend and ... (599 words

I have a crush on my married teacher, I told him and he blew me off! What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi every one, I really need help a very serious help. My story is different. I fell in love with a teacher in my college for a year.It's really diffcult to write what I've through ,but i will give it a try. At first, It started as a normal thing would happen with any ... (556 words

My wife has no problem exposing herself to others, is this normal behaviour?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - this is about a strange behavior of my wife. she is 25. i see that she has a tendency to exhibit. she rarely cares about her dress. whenever somebody comes to our home they have a very explicit view of her assets and other parts. i tlaked to her about this. she isn't in the l... (86 words

Couldn't be with the one I love now I've met someone new. How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - HI I am in love with a girl we want to get marry also but her parents was against our relationship and now the girl whom i love is not ready to go against her parents she will mrry to the guy where her parents will tell there is one girl whom i like and also she likes me too ... (211 words

I'm becoming violent and very angry because I suspect of him cheating, are my fears justified?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello i really need some help i dont have anybody to talk to. i just got married 4 months ago,my husband is 33 years and i'm 21 years old.my problem is that i can't trust my husband at all. i have been for a while obssesed with him cheating on me. we have a lot of fights ab... (408 words

I'm playing hard to get and it seems to beworking, where do I go from here?

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23 December 2009 (F age - Here's the situation - this guy I have know for over a year. Works at his family business. When i first met I thought too handsome, must live with someone. Got friendly with his sister as they both work p/t in family hairdressers. Found out he is a single parent of twins,... (433 words

I had a miscarriage, now I'm pregnant again. Is there a high risk of it happening again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - When I was 17 I got pregnant and thought was having a miscarriage so had a scan at 6 weeks and was fine with healthy heartbeat then at 7 weeks slow heartbeat and they said it doesnt look good then at 8 weeks no heartbeat at all but no bleeding so had to have tablets to ... (171 words

I've had genital warts, what do I say if she says she's on the pill?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - i want to have sex with someone but i have had genital warts before. its advised that i should wear a condom all the time, but what if she says 'im on the pill its fine you dont have to wear one?' i dont want to tell her ive had the warts before. also, is it safe to recieve ... (76 words

Parents wouldn't approve of my young relationship, how do I keep it from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 36-40 - [Mod Note: Stated age incorrect, OP is 13 years old] Ok so I liked this girl and she asked me out at a party and I said yes. We're now going out and I am really happy. The one problem, were 13, and if my parents find out, I will get in a lot of trouble!! How can I keep our rela... (66 words

Ex-Professor and I, have grown quite close. Are these signs that he is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my cellphone number, and a call ... (462 words

11 year age gap plus baggage, can this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and this guy met on a dating site,started chatting and exchanged numbers.We decided to meet.Im 20 and he is 31.When he saw me he said I was perfect and I liked his very genuine sweet personality and he was quite good looking,after meeting up a few more times it was clear ... (152 words

My friend's ex is sending me messages on Facebook, is he interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - ok, about a month ago my best friend went out with this boy who isnt that close a friend of ours but still a friend and he started messaging me on facebook. I thought it was just because he was going out with my best friend and he wanted us to get along. After they broke up he ... (96 words

Still bleeding 3 months after giving birth, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I just had a baby sept 28th and has been 3months and i have had a problem i am stil bleeding i dont remember bleeding this long with my other 3 kids.i got a depo shot before i left the hospital should i be worried about all this bleeding... (49 words

Could I be pregnant? We had sex but no intercourse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Could I be pregnant? We had sex, but no intercourse. We both had our underpants, but hes penis was right in front of my vagina, when he orgasmed and everything was very wet... I'm right in the middle of my cyclus, so if we had intercourse, the posibility to be pregnant would be... (77 words

Why was my best mate saying horrible stuff about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - A while ago I moved, so I didn't know anyone. Then my sort of mate seemed to help me a little so then we became best mates, or at least that's what she called it. I never trusted her because of how two faced she is. In the past she's slept with 4 of my boyfriends whilst I was ... (306 words

Made to feel bad for not wanting anal sex??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, I just wanted some advice! I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. He's a gentleman, charming and does everything under the sun for me. There's just one thing that's concerning me. I first let me boyfriend try anal sex about 3 months ago - it took a w... (383 words

Domestic Violence, Cheating and Love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey there, I was in an intense relationship for nearly two years. My ex and I had known each other as friends for about six months before we started dating. We got along great, our relationship was normal and happy for the first six months. He was a heavy drinker, but it was ... (686 words

Should I go back to dating black men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am trying to date to try to get over my last relationship.. I know that they say finish a chapter before you start another, but I say the only way to get over the last one is to have sex with a new one. Anyway, I am an interracial dater and it is so very hard to find a s... (223 words

Who gets custody when mother has been physically abusive and father has failed a drug test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - my brother is having domestic issues hes divorced his son lived with their mother and the teacher just reported marks over his body to the police shes arrested the father failed drug test over pot the son reported that his mom and his moms mom and her bf hit him etc the... (131 words

Is my dream proof that my ex was my soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up five months ago and I just can't get over him. I have known him for about a year and we were good friends for most of that time. We would go on dates whenever he came to town because it was long distance and we would talk on the phone about twice a ... (413 words

Had a child, gained weight and now I'm missing my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 8 damn years and I went through the cheating (with strippers) lying, and just plain old dogging out. Now we have a baby.. and of course after we have the baby, we break up! I actually kicked him out, because this man was playing video games for 8 hr... (279 words

My husband says he watches porn because I don't look the same after having kids. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am thinking of leaving my husband, is this too extreme? When we met I made it very clear to him that I'm not intereted in being with someone who uses porn. I find it insulting and disrespectful. At the time he said this is fine as he is not interested. Seven years and two ... (155 words

How do I make intercourse more enjoyable for my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - This question is for ladies. I got married 5 months back, and we have intercourse once every 2 days (almost). The problem is that when I am pumping, she has very little or no sensation. She does feel really good sometimes, but I have been unable to notice any pattern in ... (134 words

My new boyfriend is great, but I'm worried about my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am stuck in the middle of a real dilemma and it's tearing me apart on the inside. This year my boyfriend (now ex-) of 2.5 years and I both went off to college. During my first week there, I met this incredible guy. We started talking and we both developed crushes on one anot... (306 words

I can't read her signals about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - I have been going out with an amazing girl for nearly a year. I have felt her up before and she hasn't stopped me. She knows that I want it but she hasn't given anything back but signs I can't read. I need some help on asking her, and reading her signs. please answer both ... (57 words

13 and addicted to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello I am 13 years old, but I'm addicted to porn. It sounds bad and my family knows I am, but I can't help but keep going back!!! I have tried everything, but it doesn't work! I have been in trouble with the family because of this. I need help but I can't help but go back. ... (59 words

What might be the cause of my boyfriend's moodswings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been dating a guy for about 6 months and been official for about 2 months. i have noticed and he has admitted to me he gets mood swings. for instance, today was a great day. we went to the gym, we later ate lunch and talked on the phone. later in the evening, we started ... (206 words

In love with an older, unhappily married woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am a 18 year old female who is madly in love with a woman who is 37 years old. I know that she love me too but she is married unhappily. Is she worth fighting for?... (37 words

No feeling during my first blowjob

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 30-35 - I just got my first blow job today, and for some reason when she went to do it i just couldn't feel it. it just felt like i was moving my wet hand on it. she wasn't sucking and she didn't want me to look the first time... could something be wrong with my penis?... (55 words

When men watch porn is it the sexual acts or the actors who arouse them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have read on here many times men saying women are insecure and overeacting to porn . They claim the man is not comparing his wife or girlfriend to the porn star and he is not getting aroused over another women but that he is aroused by the sight of what she is doing. Ok fai... (184 words

Did my husband rape my sister or was it consensual?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 36-40 - i found out that my sister woke up to find my husband on top her having intercourse with her. shes saying this is what happened and she pushed him off and that he kept calling her BABE referring to me. for some reason he hought it was me. yeah right. but when speaking to my si... (202 words

Do friendships have rules, and who makes them up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 41-50 - Is it considered going behind your best friends back if you don't share things like who you are hanging out with or who you like or even what is on your mind?... (32 words

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other guys. last night. things got ... (137 words

I love him, I love him not, I love him, oh dear I love him not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 26-29 - so i have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and we say we are in love, which i am. so recently i broke up with him and made out with another guy, then we got back together - broke up, got back together - broke up and now were back together. now im having doubts, i do ... (79 words

How do I fix this problem with my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - My wife was not so happy with me so I invited my friend to have sex with her. but a year now I feel I am not happy at all. she always likes him, I feel depresed with the way my wife behaves with me....... (45 words

I don't want to do the same as the rest of my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a sister and a brother. We're all 16 (obviously, we're triplets). My mother is the cheer leading coach for our high school. My father is a football coach. I guess you could say I'm "the runt of the litter": I'm smaller, weaker, and I've never been doing well healt... (195 words

He seems to like me but never actually answers my questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 41-50 - i like a guy. and he goes to my church.. every sunday he makes a point to invite me to sit with him.. well actually he ask if im coming in then leads me to a seat and then sits with me. he smile at me alot.. and we email back and forward.. but he never actually addresses a lot ... (96 words

I immigrated to be closer to my mother, but its not working out

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

23 December 2009 (F - HELP - I have a very serious problem which is depressing me. I have recently migrated to be with my mother who has retired to the caribbean. I have been here with my son now for about 3 months and it has been a living nightmare. My mother is not the person I thought she was. ... (409 words

My marriage is going downhill and I have met somebody who I can love as I once loved her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

23 December 2009 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for twelve years, and before we were married we dated for ten years and lived together during those times. We have two beautiful children nine and eleven years old. My marriage has been going downwards for the last five years. I don't have the same love for ... (227 words

My boyfriend is 10 years older, and my male friend called him a cradle robber!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to me. My boyfriend told m... (211 words

Summer Lovin' .. I want my summer romance back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - This passed summer my best friend's brother and i got really close and ended up together, well the whole time she and i didn't speak because of a few other issues. We had this amazing relationship for about a month and then suddenly he just stopped talking to me over a silly ... (171 words

What is the name of this game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

23 December 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so i played this game a few years ago and im hoping there are a few gamers out there that can tell me the name of this game i compleatly forget. ok so theres this chick that lives supposably in the furture and she travels between two wards and ... (258 words

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