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I'm worried about a 2 year age gap

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Question - (30 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ono194 writes:

G'day...

A girl and I like eachother- a lot. However, I am 15 and she is 13. When we are out together, it seems right and all that jazz. But the only thing im worried about is the two year age gap. Would be greatful for any advice!

Thanks :).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010):

Well i have to tell youh. Me and my boyfriend are 3 years apart. He even lives in another state and my parents are totally against our love. But he is the first guy that i have ever loved and i trust him more than i trust myself. Im 14 hes 16. so i want to tell you to keep your head high up. Age doesnt matter in love. Be proud of your lady and be proud of her age and yours. Your a teen and your finding out what love really is. And no matter what, never give up on her unless you just stop loving her. Dont listen to people that talk about age diffrence being bad. They just hating. Well i wish you and your little lady the best of luck.

Lubb, la nena loka and her babe curious george

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A female reader, loveprincess United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2009):

loveprincess agony auntmy mum and dad were together until they died and there was a 12 year difference so no reason why two years should matter if you love her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009):

Like PB says as long as you respect her age, two years is fine.

Your girlfriend is like a lot of women who like their boyfriend older than themselves.

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (30 December 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntHey there! It is interesting that you are mindful of the age gap, 2 years can seem a world away when you are only 15! My mum and my dad were a whole 15 years apart and they survived for many years without much trouble and so a 2 year age gap really isn't much these days.

If you like one another there is no reason why you cannot hang out together and spend some time getting to know eachother. Just remember that hormones will come into play and that you should be respectful of her age with regards to any physical contact until you are both old enough.

Other than that, really, you'll do fine.

Good luck

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A male reader, WiseGuy710 United States +, writes (30 December 2009):

Don't worry about the 2 year gap as a teenager. Soon, as you get older, if you stay together, the gap will easily not be much of a big deal. Some relationships are as far as 10 years apart.

I understand that at your age, it means a lot, but even 3 or 4 years later, you won't see it very important.

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