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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he pushing my buttons too see how much I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy that is a Scorpio... I'm 22 and he's 18 and he does things that show he likes me, then when I actually get the courage to talk to him, he kind of pushes me away kind of acts rude, he was smiling while talking to me but acting somewhat rude but to me I felt he ... (342 words)

What are some cute and creative gifts to make for your boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some cute and creative gifts you can make/give to your boyfriend for Christmas?... (15 words)

We were getting along so great, and now .... we are not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've seen that my crushes friend added me on myspace,so i added my crush he sent me a message say hey next thing led to another i gave him my number we started flrting and texting none stop for a week then he said we should hang out the weekent came we were supposed to hang out ... (210 words)

I'm being bullied at school, what can I do? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm really scared of going to school at the moment because im being bullied. Facebook people are calling me things and telling me there's a gang after me. I havent been going to school lately, i will just walk out the door and hide in the wood or something until the school day ... (123 words)

I am constantly daydreaming and fantasising about a man other than my husband!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In my mind, I'm already cheating on my husband. I daydream about this other man constantly and I cannot help it. I try not to think about him, but then my mind starts piecing together these ridiculous stories involving the two of us. From things as innocuous as us bumping into ... (209 words)

She took me home so fast! Does she really just want to be friends or is she looking for more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was at this new school, been there for about 3 days. I started talking to this girl in my last period cuz she was cute. we started talking about weed and she asked if i smoke. i said yes and she asked me if i wanted to smoke with her after school. so after school we went to ... (150 words)

My friend has my jacket, she said she didn't, but then she wore it, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why did she wear it? So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks she has really been staring ... (138 words)

I have a really nice guy for a boyfriend but am attracted to a player

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm completely confused. For months now, I've been going back and forth between these two guys. I've been available for both of them, but now that it has come down to it, I'm lost. The first guy, I've been with for 11 months today. But I haven't exactly been the best gf. Wel... (468 words)

I am attracted to older guys of about 28, could it be because I miss my Dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I attracted to older men? As in old, I mean guys from 28 years or older. I don't know if it's important, but my dad recently died - so maybe I like older men because I want to love a man who reminds me of my dad? I even found myself flirting with my gym coach! What's ... (62 words)

Have I got a REAL big problem on my hands?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello I'm a 22 year old gay male, i have my own house with my boyfriend, we live a great life but we have an issue with our sex life. Recently after sex we've noticed I have blood in my cum, this has happend about 4 times now and we are worried about it. We decided not to go to ... (99 words)

I get a sinking feeling when I realise it will never happen again

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is circumsized, and lately I've found myself CRAVING sex with an uncircumcised man. I've been with both cut and uncut men before, and hands-down I've found sex with uncut men to be more pleasurable. My husband knows that I've been with uncut men in the past and early ... (279 words)

Should I tell her or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in this situation, a girl i had the biggest crush ever on for 6 months i asked her out we when on a date couple days later when i asked her out again she said she didnt feel for me in that kind of way but she loved our friendship and really didnt want that to be lost, so ... (352 words)

I love my boyfriend but I fancy his best friend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im in a relationship with a boy i really like but.... before i got with this boy i got to know his best friend first and now i think im falling him, i dont know why and i dont understand why i really want to stop liking his best friend but how do i do that. But i also think... (144 words)

Is this my head that's affecting me and my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - yesterday me and my girlfriend were making out and i got semi hard. it was my room and it was like 12 pm-5 pm and everyone was home at the time and i just kept hearing people talking and footsteps of people and my parents calling my name and i just dont know but i couldnt get ... (98 words)

If he is just using me why does he text me every day and why come over that night and not even try anything on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know whether I'm wasting my time with a guy I met a month ago but I can't seem to find the strength to walk away. The whole situation is making me feel down. I split up with my ex in July and met this guy about a month ago, him and my ex do know each other. It started ... (363 words)

Why does he always talk about sex to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have an odd question to ask. My best guy friend and I have our free period together, when the teacher doesn't have a class. So basically it's just him and I and we talk the whole time. Anyway, he always brings up sex, especially me having sex with people, like the ... (128 words)

Should I say yes to his proposal... or am I too young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 1)My boyfriend and I are both 16. Him and I have connected on an extremely deep level and already talk about marriage and kids. we've been dating for 7 months, and his friends and mom have told me he's planning to propose (they showed me the ring too!)I really want to marry ... (133 words)

She can't remember if she had sex while drunk!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week (it was just one semester so she will be back on campus here next semester). We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in Europe there’s a friend of ... (354 words)

I'v been faking orgasms, and I want a real one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dont know if something is wrong with me or what. but my boyfriend and i have been intimate for 2years and he is my first and i have not yet had any O's wit him. i be faking it and i really want to have one so any suggestions on what i should do??... (54 words)

How can I stop his ex girlfriend from getting to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating one of my good guy friends for a few months now. I realized I didn't like him like I thought I did, but he's fun to hang out with and I really enjoy having sex with him, so we're keeping things casual and I've been happy with that... until recently. I'm now w... (284 words)

How can I give a good handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tomorrow night I'm going to my boyfriend's house and we agreed that we were ready and mature enough to give that step in our relationship. How can I give a good handjob? ... (32 words)

How do I initiate giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the thing. I'm most likely going to give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon, and I was just wondering how I could get to that moment to where I am. You know what I mean like do I just say hey I'm going to give you a blowjob! Or like slowly just move downwards ... (68 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend and cannot stop thinking about the other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been happily seeing my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We have never had any problems and she is now 2 months pregnant which is something we are both happy about. However, on a night out at work, i ended up spending most of the night talking and having a great t... (193 words)

Does she like me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, i like this girl and ive liked her for a while (since late october). But recently like about 2 weeks ago, my good friend said he liked her and he flirts with her a lot and she kinda flirts back with him but not as much as him. And when we have hung out the last 2 fridays ... (216 words)

Ex won't take no for an answer and has anger issues, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He won't take no for an answer and he's been violent in the past so I'm scared of what to do next. :( Texts: (btw, the guy he's talking about is my best mate.) Him: y cant i b ur bf still?xxx Me: Cause you argue about the same stuff everyday and you always threaten me! you ... (235 words)

To go or not to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, he has two children from a previous marriage. When we first started dating I wasn't sure if I wanted children or marriage. Now I know I do want one (a child) and I would like to get married. I am getting older so I can't wait much ... (142 words)

Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff? I am with a man I love dearly, but he is not one for showing his emotions. When I questioned him about it he replied that the kissing and cuddling isn't really for him but he shows his affections when in the b... (70 words)

Does she really want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl that I am real good friends with and I honestly love her and am willing to do anything for her. The reason I am righting this is because she has a boyfriend that she says she loves more than anything in the world, but every time I talk to her she is always ... (299 words)

Is it a coincidence that he keeps showing up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a history with this guy and I seem to have always loved him( even though there are times when I have hated him)We didnt really end in the best way- yet it wasnt the worst. Well I recently decided that Im done with the boys since they have been distracting me( ... (345 words)

Is it me being in an emotionally weak state or just normal because he is the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice re my situation. 9 months ago I split up with my partner of 7 years because he walked out after a series of arguments which I think were mainly caused by him being depressed and at that time he was verbally abusive to me also. We had a lot of ... (332 words)

When you are friends with your ex, what is the best way to act to get him to show even more interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have a very simple question and I hope I can get as many replies as possible ... males and females pleasssseee ... so here's my question when your friends with your ex and he is giving you mixed signals what is the best way to act to get him to show even more interest?... (56 words)

I am confused, I love and hate my ex boyfriend, how can I keep my cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused I love and hate my ex boyfriend. I know i can never date him again cuz he was a jerk and would use me but that was at the end in the begining he was realy sweet and kind, thats why i love him but now were over and hes being a real big jerk and i hate him. My ... (118 words)

Should I Let Him Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, me and my boyfriend Jack* have been together for six months, I moved in with him four months ago when he found out my father was abusing me (my father said I could go live with Jack if I never went home again..I was fine with that) Anyway, about a year ago I was diagnose... (182 words)

How can I best help this relationship grow without putting too much pressure on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need a guy's opinion - I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man. We have been dating for a less than a year so we are still learning one another. I just turned 30 and this is, sad to say, my first serious relationship. He has pretty much always had a girlfriend ... (336 words)

Things are tearing us apart, how do I fix them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ive been with this girl for 8 months now, at first it was great...but things in her family and things that happened between us are commanly beign brought up now and it is tearing us apart and i dont want to break up with her, i love her... how could i show her how much she ... (69 words)

He's insisting on seeing me and I don't know if I can do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i broke up with my bf, and he insists on being on good terms with me.. i know he loves me and he might have hope or maybe im wrong. but he just asked me out to dinner and hes like im not asking u im telling you. i want us to be good terms and we both agreed to be friends so ... (265 words)

Price isn't important, I don't know what to get him as a gift!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship lasts about two months and now Christmas is coming and my boyfriend`s birthday (in January) but I still haven`t any idea what to give him. Presents for sisters, friends, parents etc are so easily to fing, but I don`t know my boyfriend very well and I`m not sure ... (109 words)

Stay with boyfriend or go to far away college--which do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I have big ambitions to become a vet and i have the qualifications to go to university and do what i want. I also have a boyfriend with whom i've been with since i was just 13. So we are extremely close. The problem is the uni i want to go to is very far away. So i would ... (214 words)

She fell in love with the person I was pretending to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I pretended to be someone I wasn't online and a girl fell in love with me. At first i was just messing about because I was bord but then it was like I couldn't stop. The girl started to fall in love with the person I was pretending to be. She even gave me her number and we ... (224 words)

Is my ex making me jealous through facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I wondered if you could help me out. Basically my ex boyfriend dumped me about a week ago because 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore', and I agreed with it, and deleted him off Facebook and told him I would do just to make it easier. I che... (237 words)

I love myself but this girl makes me feel ugly...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh and clear skin i love me ... (74 words)

How can I gain confidence in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi again! I am having problem about cofidence, so can you help me in that? Plz, as i told i am a shy guy but very confident also, but i dont what happens to me in school? When my teachers asks questions from me, i dont give the answer even when i know them. I dont know why i ... (128 words)

Was he joking around or serious? I couldn't tell

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - here goes, so lately me and my friend have been flirting abit and i like him so much hes everything i look for in a boy he has blond hair, brown eyes, hes slightly taller than me, hes slim and he has braces(dont ask). At first i thought he liked me back even to it was kind o... (204 words)

He's found out I like him and has gone strange around me... HELP!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Just wondering what other people thought; am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to ask me out. We have been close friends since September and I always got the impression he liked me back so my feelings grewbut I kept them to myself until last halloween I blurted ... (161 words)

Am I weird for liking "looser" girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really prefer a women who is loose over one that is tight. I just think it feels better. Also I really enjoy girls playing with big toy. Am I really weird or is there other people that feel this way as well.... (43 words)

I really like him but since I told him to stop being so sexual he's gone... what did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok is there anyway of getting this back... advice please!! Really liked this guy, he would always stop and chat to me as we work near eachother, he would stop his car to talk to me, flirt etc, this went on for a while ... the thing is i coould never be myself and think of ... (335 words)

I cannot get a boyfriend and don't know why...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.I am a 19 year old girl. My problem is I might never find a boyfriend. I dated this guy once but we were 12 and were just kids. Our idea of gf and bf were occasional hugs and love letters. He gave me my first kiss. actually my friend matched us up. He is gay now and he ... (221 words)

I need time to reflect on my marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 27 years. I fell in love with her in college. About 8 years ago, I told her I was gay. She was hurt, as was I. We had children still in school, and I promised myself that I would stay with her until our youngest graduated from high school, ... (254 words)

Myspace is killing my relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my question has to do with myspace. my boyfriend can be a very sweet bf at times and then sometimes i feel as if i dont mean anything to him. myspace is my biggest issue. he wont put me on his top friends and his number one is a porn star. every picture we take he crops me out ... (134 words)

How do I make him forget the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend can't forget my past... This is a LONG story About 4 years ago I moved country with my now ex boyfriend of nearly 5 years... when I turned 20 we split up as I felt I was too young when we met. When we split up just before Christmas I went mental, I'd nev... (1189 words)

How do I start a relationship with a girl I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - to be honest i haven't been in any serious relationship. but as a human being i have feelings for girls but i haven't made any move tho i have found the one my heart would love and be given. i need advices on how to start. things i would do to ensure that the relationship ... (56 words)

She cheated and I didnt...but she says she doesn't remember the details..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week. We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in Europe there was a guy who showed a lot of interest in her and I didn't care for him. She said that ... (232 words)

How to avoid the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was beautiful and perfect and we t... (1078 words)

Somethings missing from my new relationship...i still long for my old half-lover/half-friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a friend, a boy, who means a lot to me about 4 years by now. And now when I`m in a relationship, I started to miss him. We were much closer before, and I was always hoping that we will become more then just friends cause he used to give me a lot of differen... (132 words)

Ideas for our 1 year of dating anniversary...???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help quick please! Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and i dont know what to get her. I am writing her a letter but i dontknow what else to give her. I have already given her many stuffed animals before and a necklace, i dont know what to give her. Also, if it matters, ... (78 words)

Pregnant and alone again...Should I abort? will I have regrets?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm pregnant and very depressed. Its very hard for anyone to understand what I'm going through. I already have a 17 year old son which I raised alone which was damn hard and now I'm pregnant again and I'm alone again. I'm starting all over again which depresses me so much. I ... (87 words)

Do I forgive him or just move on...I feel gutted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. I moved country to be with him and everything was going great - or so i thought. He never logged onto facebook or msn in front of me and i used to question this. So he did 2 nights ago and i see he had sent a message to some ... (373 words)

Do I expect too much from him and this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for about six months now, and I feel no closer to him now than I did at the beginning. I have been in a serious relationship before of two years, and was cheated on, but our relationship was so strong and even at four months with that ... (459 words)

How do I deal with this friendship between my boyfriend and another woman he used to be interested in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Trust Issues: I posted a question yesterday about finding a text my boyfriend of 7 months sent a female friend of his telling her he missed her. I received very insightful responses reminding me it was wrong to read his text messages in the first place and I should check my ... (336 words)

Please help me understand boys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need help understanding boys. how they flirt, what they enjoy talking about, what they find funny, are they really as laid back as they seem. any thing really cos i am clueless. so if any guys or gals here have any info on how boys tick please tell me! thank you X... (59 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant but I also have feelings for another...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My relationship with my girlfriend became rocky and it was coming to a stage where i didnt love her anymore and was ready to try to end it with her when my partner told me she was 6 weeks pregnant. After the initial shock I was overjoyed. But 3 weeks after I met someone who I ... (366 words)

Am I a lesbian? Will I ever fall in love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I haven't had feelings for a guy since last year. I went out with this guy and he gave me goose bumps, he made me smile and laugh. But he cheated on me, then he dumped me by getting my two friends to call me up. Three days later he had a new girlfriend. This really hurt me ... (172 words)

He stood me up - how should I act next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was introduced to a guy 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up for ages but warned me he was really busy with work and may not be free that often (that had been the reason his last girlfiend dumped him). From what I knew of him I really ... (435 words)

Help!!! Why is he acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres a guy in my year who i really like, we didnt used to talk much but recently he's been really (kinda over)friendly n spoke to me loads. but last time i was in a lesson with him he was with lots of his mates and he wouldnt look me in the eye. he spoke to me n messed around ... (138 words)

Have you given into the "what if??"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've posted quite recently in the past couple of weeks about my boyfriend who was using an internet dating site and if I should break up with him. I ended up breaking up with him but I really want to take him back. I'm so confused and dont know what to do. He says he... (206 words)

I found a video of my girlfriend and her ex having sex and now I cant get it out of my head!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been going out with this 24 years old girl from foreign country for 6 months now. she got 8 years old daughter which she gave birth during her young and innocent age. then she leave her country to my coutry and work in pub as a PR and never went back to her country till ... (372 words)

I'm worried I could end up marrying the wrong person! Should I accept him or let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiance a year now, he proposed to me 8mths ago, but since then he's been going off and on. for no reasons he'll start avoiding me later he'll come back and beg me. Last 2 month he came to my house i saw him off, when he got home he called and said he has a... (242 words)

How many times a day should you masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i know it sounds weird but i really want to know. how many times should a person masturbate. because i do it 5-6 times a day which i think it is unhealthy. i tried stopping but i just cant. so tell me how times so i can be convinced and limit myself. ... (52 words)

How do you go about saying "I love you"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

- Is there a "appropriate situation" to say "I love you" for the first time? How do you go about saying it? Do you just blurt it out randomly? Or do you start up a conversation about your feelings towards the other person, do you wait for a really romantic time/moment and sett... (90 words)

Is the way I'm feeling normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (F)

How do I make him realise he is better off with me?

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14 December 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have a guy friend who I'm extremely close with. He has a girlfriend who has been giving him nothing but grief for ages. I care strongly about him and knows he feels the same way, but I have told him I'll support him no matter what and understand he's with her. But he has ... (85 words)

Is my boyfriend a nice guy? I think he is lying to me!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and think that is my boyfriend l... (1005 words)

Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though... (46 words)

I want a relationship, but I'm worried he just wants to be friends!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship with this man goes a long way back. We were together 2 years ago for about 5 months but ended it because he was depressed after having come out of a 7-year engagement that ended up badly. We didn't speak for months after that, until he rang me to ask for support ... (383 words)

Does this sound like the beginning of Erectile Dysfunction to you?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, we see each other weekends mainly due to distance. But are looking for a place of our own. Obviously our sex life revolves around the weekends. This weekend seemed fine, we made love friday night and on the saturday mo... (242 words)

If we are friends how come he doesn't message me like he does other friends?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey again :) ok... theres this guy in class. he's one of my best friends. the thing is we became best friends all of a sudden. i mean we've known each other for a year and a half, initially we hardly used to speak to each other. n in the past two months, we've become really c... (207 words)

I like this girl and am not sure if I should let her know I want to be more than friends

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this friend, I liked her a lot for some time and I eventually told her, but she had already gotten a boyfriend and sort of friendzoned me. I stopped all kinds of contact with her for around five months. Two months ago we saw each other at a party and we talked a little. ... (139 words)

She put me in the friend zone and then broke up with me

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I had been dating this girl for a year and a half and she started acting more distant. I pressed her on it and she said she no longer has romantic feelings for me. She said she has never felt so comfortable with a boyfriend before and she automatically puts me in the ... (210 words)

He is not in the mood for sex

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half but the past few months we have been long distance because I have been away at school. I came home about a week and a half ago after not seeing him for weeks and we had sex the first three nights I was back (which i ... (245 words)

Do I forget about him forever... or do I keep trying?

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14 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because I asked him to answer his phone or to call me back soon and before he goes to sleep whenever he goes to a party with his friends. I didnt even like the idea of him going to a party to begin with but i was willing to be okay with it as long ... (436 words)

He said he only liked me as a friend, so now I worry he will behave differently towards me

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been hanging out with a guy for a while now. We get on well - flirt, hug and talk a lot. This gave me a positive view so recently I asked him whether he feels the same toward me. He said that he likes me as a friend, which disappointed me a bit. However, I am glad that ... (93 words)

He bought condoms was that a BIG hint?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much. He bought condoms righttt infronttt of me and I dont know why. Hinting? How do I hint that I would like to be fingered? Im not shy, neither is he. I just dont know how to tell him hey...Im up for it?... (48 words)

Help, I think I have a tampon lost inside me!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so like 3 days ago i was on the last day of my period and had in a light tampon, I got extremely drunk later on that night and had sex with my guy friend.. I don't remember if I took my tampon out or not, and my guy friend was just as drunk as me so I doubt he realized ... (301 words)

The man I am involved with is waiting for a married woman, how do I get rid of her from our lives?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm seeing a man who has been involved with a married woman for a few years, she tells him that she will leave her husband but they have children and has yet to do so, how do I get her out of our lives.... (45 words)

My guy has never come straight out and said " I love You"

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - SO my guy has never said these three words "I love you." right out like that...Instead he says things like "Love yah lots!" Or he will tell his friends he "love yah lots!" then turn to me and say "love yah lots...more." Or if I do something stupid he will say "thats alright,... (172 words)

I am starting to have doubts about my husband and my marriage

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hii i m really desperate and i need ur help...we have been married for 5yrs nw.i am 29 and he is 35 now .but there s somethng wrong with our relationshp .my parents were initialy against this marriage as they found my husband had lied about his personal details...but th... (187 words)

I want to experiment more buy my g/f says its too weird

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have been wanting to ask fro some advice. My girlfriend of about 10 months barely gave me my and her first hand job about a week ago, and it was also the first time i rubbed/fingered a girl and it was her first time too. She ended up liking giving me a handjob because she ... (218 words)

I've met a really nice man but it turns out he already has a boyfriend.

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently met a loving and caring guy on an online dating site. We hit it off right away, and we went on a couple of really good dates. Things started moving into the realm of a possible relationship. Then I found out that he had a boyfriend. Now, he and his boyfriend ar... (126 words)

Husband deployed in Iraq and I think he is cheating!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is in Iraq and I haven't talked to him in two weeks. Before he left we were on the verge of getting a divorce. He had to train in Alabama for a month and during that month he called me just once. After the month training He didn't even come home. He stayed over his ... (320 words)

What are the best and worst condoms?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what is the best protection condom for not getting my girlfriend pregnant,and what is the worst protection condom?... (18 words)

Does she fancy my friend or me?

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14 December 2009 (M)

Help...I'm pregnant...again

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.... Well me and my Boyfriend have been dating alil longer then 4months... yesterday i found out i was pregnant... Scared shitless and verry unexpected... but we were taking the risk im not on birth control and he hated condoms... so we used the pull out methed... obsessively ... (160 words)

Does pre-cum contain sperm?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Does Pre cum have sperm in it? I wiped it off myself still yet to cum and the decided to finger my girl friend there was time in between and i tried to wipe as much off onto another surface... i was just not thinking... (45 words)

Does cheating empower women?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is infidelity in the male/female relationship immoral or empowering for the women? Religion can be a factor in the answer if needed.... (22 words)

7 Years later and I still love my ex

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i dated this guy like 7 years ago we broke up. but i still love him and want to be with him after all this years, and when i see him i just get all happy and stuff what should i do... (42 words)

Is my husband cheating in Iraq???

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together for almost 7 years now, no children. In the beginning everything was wonderful, I trusted my husband with eveything I had. In my opinion our problems started when he went out with my cousin and a bunch of guys to a club. I was at work that ... (1669 words)

I thought my ex cheated so I left rude voice messages. Now I want him back.

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator note: OP, if you post any replies to this thread, please use proper case. 'Talking' not 'tawken'] im 16 yrs old and i have been tawken t0 this b0y that use t0 be my b0yfriend until my ex bestie t0ld me he cheated 0n me s0 me and her sent him s0me rude v0ice mails ... (155 words)

I'm starting to fancy my friend, but he has a girlfriend!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very complicated. Okay, so I'm single, and a friend of mine who I was never very close with has just moved ten hours away. He randomly starting talking to me on facebook a few weeks ago, and the conversation flows so perfectly. We talk about EVERYTHING and within a few ... (400 words)

My ex is threatening to rape me!

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14 December 2009 (?) age 30-35 - help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona get allll tht youre aski... (134 words)

Why do I smell 'down there'?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ... (33 words)

Do teen guys like "it" shaved?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a 14 year old girl and I want to know... do guys from 14 to 17 years old like "it" shaved? I am too young to go that far, but I'm really curious about it! And I want to be ready in case "something" happens! Thanks!... (50 words)

Did I over-react when he told me my friend was hot?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - During the summer I was seeing this guy for 2 months when he ended things to be w/ his ex. It wasn't serious and I barely knew him, so eventually I got over it. I ran into him after a month and he started texting me again- he said it was a big mistake to get back with his ex. ... (193 words)

Help..how to seduce my cousin?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". First I don't want to go far wit... (73 words)

Could our adolescent sex play have turned her into a lesbian?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have to talk me into playing ... (180 words)

I want to date her but don't want to ruin the friendship in case she declines

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl about 4 years ago. But we never really spoke properly until about a year ago. For the last year, we have spoke basically every single day, sometimes for up to like 12 hours, but the problem is all this takes place on MSN and not in person. It might seem like a ... (238 words)

I feel guilty and can't decide!

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relationship, I slept with a mar... (331 words)

My boyfriend is talking to his ex behind my back!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this girl messaged me on myspace saying she was a friend of my bf's ex. She was telling me how he was calling her and messaging her on myspace saying how he missed her but he wants to keep it from me till he is ready to tell me. I didn't want to believe her but i decided ... (143 words)

I told him I love him and now he is backing off!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his was trying to make me catch him ... (225 words)

How can I deal with all of this stress and anxiety?

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14 December 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm stressing out and don't know how to deal with it. I issues of my own, like finding a job and dealing with a death in my family. But my friends are making me feel stressed- my best friend gets herself into stupid situations and puts the blame on everyone else. She's also ... (193 words)

Who is the father of my baby?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 27 weeks pregnant tomorrow and my due date is on the 18 march 2010. Me and my partner were having a bit of trouble round the time I think I fell pregnant and I slept with a different boy on the 17th may and 26th june. I wanted to know if anybody could tell me the date ... (74 words)

Why am I attracted to older men?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am seventeen and a senior in high school. I have a little bit of a problem. I'm only attracted to older men. My friends try to set me up with people in my grade, but I always say no. They ask me why not and I have to lie to them, because I'm afraid to tell them that I ... (95 words)

Gift ideas for Christmas with no money to spend?

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14 December 2009 (?)

- ok so christmas is around the corner and i dont have any money to buy gifts this year so any gift ideas that is free or cheap for family and boyfriend? Thanks!... (35 words)

Converting between Christian Religions?

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14 December 2009 (?)

- I was born and raised a catholic, recently I've been going to a Christian services and I absolutely love it. My question is it bad that I want to convert and be baptized as a Christian?... (36 words)

Does he want me yes or no? I need an answer so that I can deal with issues and move on with my life!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I used to date this guy like 2 years ago and he lived on the same street that I did and the Chemistry was there and everything so I wound up getting pregnant and I did the un thnkable thing and got a abortion I regret it everyday but I wound up telling him and he was so hurt ... (259 words)

Christmas is anything but a time to be joyful for me

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14 December 2009 (F)

age - I have always hated xmas. Firstly my older childrens father use to two time me at this time which seriously damaged me emotionally. Secondly I come from a very large family and since back in the UK for 26 years, they have never invited me for xmas. I havent spoken to my hal... (244 words)

I want to find the bubbly person I used to be, and be her again.

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well let's see where to start well my now exboyfriend and I broke couple days ago and the reason was because I felt as tho we have been a relationship for a year and he has no rletionship with my eight year old so i felt like I was being split in half so I feel if a Man. Don't ... (326 words)

Engaged but having second thoughts!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - should i get married? i have been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and have been engaged for 8 months. I have lived in apartment with him for about 41/2 years... and things have been good... except for the last couple months. We are supposed to get married in about 7 ... (277 words)

I feel my life slipping away and I want to be happy!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age - I have been posting asking for advice in relation to moving on a mutual attraction. I have been trying to get out of a relationship but find it hard as do not want to be totally alone. I feel b/f is seeing other peoplke as he has not been with me since our holiday in Aug. ... (295 words)

I can't help but feel like he is lying to me...

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, about a month ago I accidently came across some opened e-mails from dating sites in my boyfriends e-mail account (he always forgets to signout so hotmail opened up to his, and I didn't realize it was his right away). Anyways, he denied opening them, then finally he admitted ... (177 words)

Childish by nature

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy off of a dating website (strike 1 on me) in February of this year. We went on a date, hit it off, talked for a couple of days and then I didnt hear from him again for about a week. He informed me that his exgirlfriend of 9 months had called him and he didnt ... (349 words)

Major problem, that won't go out of my mind

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a major problem. I work for a major national service, at a major location, I don't really want to say more than that though. Recently we took on some college students on work placement, they are there one day a week. Last week was the first week and I was asked ... (529 words)

Opinions needed... What can I do to stop thinking about her past?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - help! i've been with my gf for nearly a year. We can get on great, but im finding it harder and more often to forget about her past. I now find me analayzing everything, I met my gf 3 years ago, she and her bf at the time and of 4 years came to a party at a beach, she got d... (571 words)

Nervous... Sex for the first time!!!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so my boyfriend and i are about to have sex for the first time... we are both virgins, and i really want to and so does he but im scared. please help. i love him and everything is perfect but im just a little nervous and stuff. HELPP!... (49 words)

Break up help...

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know what I need to do, but... ...but I still need reassurance? Strength? My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. He comes to see me twice a month and stays at my house. We talk to each other every day. I wanted to go see him, and he told me if I di... (726 words)

Can I regain the trust of an ex-cheater?

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14 December 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend "befriended" another man when her and I were serious. I caught her sleeping at his place multiple times, but she would never admit to cheating. As soon as I broke up with her (for cheating) she immediately entered a relationship with him. We are back togethe... (117 words)

He only stayed a minute on the phone... why was he so cool with me tonight?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i cant sleep through worrying about this - I feel very stupid. I've developed strong feelings for a new guy i work with, I dont know how. hes going through his second divorce and I've been on my own 8 months. Anyway he's already seeing someone else 3 weeks ago after having s... (184 words)

How can I save this doomed friendship/relationship?

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14 December 2009 (F)

age - Hi, two saturdays ago I met a guy I'll call him Marty. He was very forward, kissing on the dance floor, I thought I could trust him. Hmmmm... Two days later I told him I was in his area and he asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. Mistake... or not! His daughter ... (127 words)

My husband doesn't show me any attention... he prefers porn!

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14 December 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I've been married for 1 year and a couple months ago my husband has started watching porn on his i phone and he was so caught up with it that he wouldn't even go to bed up until 4 am in the morning. He wouldn't even pay attention to me even though i exercised and made sure ... (106 words)