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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Has anyone ever felt 'cursed' in life? Any insights?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I know, its a hard question, but I wonder ,if anybody has anything to say about this question. Maybe, also if you can recommend me an other site , what is more suitable,for spiritual dilemmas like that. So I wonder if anybody ever been felt cursed? I used to be very skeptica... (168 words)

He wants me to ride him but I don't know how!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and i been having sex and he is complaining that we dont do a new position and that he wants me to ride him only one problem i dont know how to ride lol what should i do ???... (45 words)

Lost and depressed..did I allow an old flame to 'take me for a ride'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, been looking for some help and advice as I feel very much on my own at the moment and feel that nobody else is in the same boat as myself. Looking at the site however, I feel that there are people who are experiencing the pain I am going through at the moment and can ... (655 words)

How long does it take for birth control to be effective?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how long does it take for birth control to be effective?... (11 words)

Fell for him only to find out that he's taken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago and weve been close mates ever since he told me about a month in that he liked me but i told him i wasnt sure how i felt yet. For the past few weeks ive totally fallen for him, hes all i think about. I asked to meet but 2 other girls came along... (265 words)

She says she loves me but forgot to tell me...that she's with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - have been broken up with my ex coming up six months now. all the time had been saying she still loves me ect, on the 14th she had told me she still loves me, did i still love her so i answerd her, but got no answer. The next morning i get a text says," why have you been texing ... (266 words)

What does it mean when a guy blows into a girl's ear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy blows in a girls ear?... (12 words)

Still scared that I could be pregnant...how to cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay . Me and my boyfriend had sex earlier for the first time. I haven't had sex since the end of may. We used a condom but a little after he said he had to ask me a question. And he asked me when my next period is and I really don't know. It should be soon but he's just got... (88 words)

Marriage was great until I had a baby, now I don't love him any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my husband for 8 years now and we have a beautiful little girl. I've loved him almost since we met, but since the birth of our daughter my feelings for him have completely changed. I don't know if its the change of having a child to cope with, I did have post ... (365 words)

Guys, what do you really think about breast implants?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hey guys, is this true? http://www.implantforum.com/men.html I always thought the MAJORITY of guys hated fake breasts. Is this true? I'm small and natural, and well, I've toyed with the idea of getting implants because frankly, I don't feel sexy in my skin, with all this "... (64 words)

How do I know if the love has gone from my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years through a recent chain of events I am unsure what I think about the marriage anymore..I say "i love you" but there is no feeling in it. My wife is upset but there is little I can do or say and I think I care enough to say its not you but I don't ... (107 words)

I'm dating a guy, but I can't get over my ex bf! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get over my ex boyfriend.?? I really want to get over my ex bf, but i cant, he broke up with me nearly 2 months ago now, he wants me bk but i have a new bf now and i dont want to take him bk. but i cant get over him, i love him loads, the last week i though i was over... (274 words)

If we marry, I will have to move to his country...not sure if I can do this! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are considering getting married. Actually, from the beginning of our relationship, our intention is to see if we were a match. Over the year, we have communicated almost every day and are completely in love. The problem is that he is on the othe... (191 words)

He loves me but he is not passionate about me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for a year and two month. I am completely in love with him. We have had a great relationship from the beginning and there have been no problems. We are open, communicative and the relationship itself is really healthy. He just revealed to me that ... (272 words)

I had sex saturday night and the condom split.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?... (34 words)

Am I being selfish shen I make love to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't like being on top. I feel vulnerable and I'm very self concious. But my boyfriend always asks me to. I feel bad if I don't do it. Am I being selfish?... (33 words)

I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me. I am very attracted to ideas of being harshly dominated by men or animals. I imagine working as a prostitute or being raped among other things. These ideas horrify me. I even allowed myself to play into one of these ... (350 words)

He has a boyfriend and says the prospect of dumping him for me is tempting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Last weekend at my friends 18th I met this guy Matt. We flirted for a while and then we were making out for pretty much the whole night. Then the next day we started texting each other and chatting on msn. He is such a sweet guy and tells me I really turn him on etc and ... (201 words)

I'm scared of shouting out my demands in bed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem stupid, but I'm afraid of shouting out any demands in bed. Sometimes I feel like saying this or that, but I hold back cause I'm afraid he'll look at me like I'm stupid and suddenly stop. I do this in all situations to begin with (normal life situations)but is this ... (62 words)

All about orgasms...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the different orgasms for a girl? when I use a dildo I cum white stuff from my vagina. when I use a vibrator on my clit it just pulsates and nothing else except moaning and panting and when I manually play with my clit I squirt out of my urethra... sorry it's expli... (80 words)

Will he call me after second date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After coming out of a 5 year relationship, I have finally given dating a try to start afresh. I recently met a guy on a dating website and we got chatting and found out we shared a lot of things in common. We chatted via email everyday for three weeks until we both decided ... (398 words)

My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emotional affair. we spend many hours... (666 words)

Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting or is it just something few women are born with?... (18 words)

Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what he wants or he'll tell my ... (94 words)

I love this guy so much but am afraid to tell him in case I ruin what we already have...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophmore and I'm 16 years old BI (NOT OUT)....ok so I recently met this guy, he's a foreign exchange student and he's a senior(18) and he's in 2 of my classes... we've been friends for about 2 months(we became friends after 2 weeks of hes arrival) and now we are extremely ... (593 words)

Should I leave my girlfriend of 4 years for an old friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have recently started having feelings for an old friend. I have liked her in the past, quite intensly though I don't know if it was lust or love. She is the little sister of my best friend, which is why we never ended up dating in the past, though we have slept together a few ... (451 words)

My roomates talk behind my back! How can I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with 5 girls and 4 of them talk shit behind my back. We all know each other through a mutual friend who used to be my best friend until she really betrayed mw. She moved away and we had a falling out but the other girls worship the ground she walks on. One of my room... (359 words)

How do I turn him on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay first of all, I don't want to have sex with him. Not yet, anyway. Maybe eventually. We've only been going out for 2 months and I'm only 15 and still a virgin. But I want him to know what he's missing. I want to make him groan and hold me tighter in his arms. I know for a ... (85 words)

Do I tell my parents exactly where this sleepover is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am invited to a sleepover tomorrow with 2 boys and 2 girls. I know them all well and we are all just FRIENDS. Nothing more and just want a good night in watching films and eating stuff. However, I don't know whether to tell my parents I am stopping at a guy's house or to lie ... (97 words)

I need help with love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm bi and me and this girl are going out secretly. I hate having to hide my feelings. The thing is that she has a boyfriend I did but she told me she hated my past with him so I broke up with him. I don't know if she really loves me I feel that she does but I think she ... (230 words)

I need reassurance - people are saying I am not really in love with him.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone has said that because I am not shouting out my love for my boyfriend to the world that I am not really in love with him. I don't know if I should believe this or not because they haven't taken into fact that I am an extremely shy person and don't open up easily. ... (250 words)

Do women find penises attractive?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Do women find penises attractive? As a guy I know I'd get easily turned on by thinking of vaginas and boobs, but do women think the same way about a man's penis?... (32 words)

Towel falls off!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 23 year old male studying in university, recently I had a verbal fight with my engineering teacher, she is a 30 year old single female, I have misbehaved in her class many times.. Right now I stay in my room in the university dorms and have a single room, my teach... (152 words)

Cervical orgasms, are they possible?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in an explorative state of a love affair, and I'm learning and improving my love making skills. The question I have is about cervical stimulation, or deep pelvic orgasm. How is this achieved? I'm already interested and practicing Karezza and Tantra, and I'm looking to ... (62 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm in love with a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im bi curious. im in love with this girl. we are dating secretly and we also have boyfriends. i dont know how to tell my parents cuz every time i tell them they dont believe me but they dont see how i am with her! they think im boy crazy but im in love with a girl how do i te... (72 words)

How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better? ... (22 words)

Is it the drink talking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I recently stayed at a friend's house for the weekend. We got very drunk, and we ended up arguing. He started to grab my arms as I was smacking him, but not hard, just on his arms, but when he would grab me he would do it really hard. Then he would start ... (84 words)

Boyfriend or bestfriend, I NEED help...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It was my 17th birthday last month, ive been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year, he is the sweetest and funest guy ive ever went out with, he has never cheated or hurt me, he always texts to say he loves me and misses me. I've started going out to the pubs with my boy... (378 words)

Why does he only want to see me alone, never with my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been talking to this guy, alot!!!! we get along very well!! im really busy at the moment so he told me to call HIM when i can see him. you know, girls it dont work like that. but anyway. ill do that when i get the time. but when im going out with friends ill invite him a... (153 words)

How do I leave him without hurting my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two sons and I am tired of their father cheating on me with other women and denying it. How can I leave this man that I love and who is the father of my two children without hurting my children? ... (49 words)

I sent a letter saying how I felt - but was it the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm still in love with my ex. She wants us to remain friends so we have been hanging out and talking on the phone. We have a child together so we see each other almost every day. I feel like she has been stringing me along. I feel like I'm the safety net while she goes o... (291 words)

She used to be a prostitute!! I just found out and I'm trying to get past it...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Everybody, I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We have been long distance for one year. I just proposed to her a month ago and we are happily engaged. However, a few days ago, she told me that to pay for school, she had been a prostitute (work... (459 words)

Why do guys think boobs are sexy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do guys think that boobs are so sexy? I've always wondered that. And stop with the whole mates-that-support-children-and-produce-better-milk crap. Do you honestly think that when a guy looks at a girl with big boobs he is thinking "Wow I bet that girl could support my ... (79 words)

My cousin's boyfriend came onto me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was at a birthday party for my cousin. and my cousin and her boyfriend and their daughter were there with my aunt and uncle. well my cousin's boyfriend and are good friends. well at the party we decided to go hang outside together and talk about stuff. so we went for a walk ... (135 words)

Do you think I can fix this and get back with her later on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - mi girlfriend(ex) of 4 months broke up with me she did it was cuz she couldnt talk to me and that i didnt understant her. she said that she had that problem b4 and she didnt want to end up hating me and thats she broke up with me. also cuz she didnt want to hurt me anymore ... (129 words)

Girls/ Woman, When should I pop the question????

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months now and we are in love : ) I want to propose to her because I know she's the one. I have a plan all worked out, I'm going to put 'You Are So Beautiful' on by Joe Cocker (I think that sums her up and how I feel about her) and ... (143 words)

Hoe do I figure out if he loves me when he flirts with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I realy love my boyfriend but he likes to flirt with other girls such as a jealous gal called Ruby(COW)I wish there was a way to make him notice me again. Is there a way to get him to notice me? But what i realy want to know is does he LOVE me and NOT Ruby? please help. Emma... (60 words)

Trouble with his ex, but it's none of my business!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, This could be long and complicated! A few months ago my friend and I realised we had feelings for each other. Over several months we grew closer and then we began seeing each other. Unfortunately at the time we both had partners (please don't gi... (554 words)

He was teasing - I had a go at him? Did I do the right thing or was I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - In the last year, I've had occassions where I've gotten very upset over something which I'm not even certain happened or whether I've got the right end of the stick. The situations both involve other people, who I've felt have been getting at me indirectly or making fun of me, ... (418 words)

I fell for a man, and now I have no idea to get over the depression ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I have passionately fell for a man. Hes not married or anything but the problem is he barely knows my name but I do. All the things i think of him is ruining me. I don't feel like doing anything -I noticed I'm bored with everything and I have no motives. ... (259 words)

To men: top ten things you want in a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is, I hope, a very simple question for you men to answer. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything, but I have always been curious about how they see girls... Hopefully not as just a blow-up doll for most of you guys out there. Basically, what are the top ten things ... (60 words)

Long distance relationship, a guy and his emails. I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being having a long distance relationship with a guy I met a year ago as a customer. What it was supposed to be a simple email contact has become into a very special email relationship. We have talked on the phone once. He's in the air force and gets deployed every 1... (218 words)

My friend flirts with my boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have this friend that i think likes my boyfriend. she denies liking him but behind my back she texts him and stuff. she tells him how good he looks and flirts with him. my boyfriend says he does not like her either. but he talks to her anyway. i mean i dont mind ... (103 words)

How should I feel when I find out my ex husband is seeing a new woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - how should i feel when i find out my ex husband is seeing a new woman? i have been separated from my husband for nearly 2 years and he has started seeing a girl. i thought it would not bother me but i feel irritated and when i first found out i was short and snapped and have... (77 words)

Can this girl be trusted for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a girl who is engaged to a boy, but makes out with another guy (often), be trusted enough to marry, or do you think it likely she'll cheat in marriage?... (31 words)

Do I hold out hoping for the boy I want or go out with the boy I know likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy, he is my best friend and my friends think he likes me, i dont think he does but my friends are pretty sure. He has another best friend and my best friend told me that his best friends likes, i dont have feelings for this guy but im sure if i get to know him ... (157 words)

What to do to make it up to my close friend after kissing her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - basically i feel like a car crash would be the best punishment for me now. i feel so bad about myself. last night i kissed my close friend's boyfriend.I have known her since we were 9. our families were close together. She's been with her boyfriend 5 years. he's always fanc... (352 words)

Why can't he just leave me alone so I can get over him???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend dumped me for another girl a few weeks ago. He stopped talking to me for a while, then he sends me random messages like asking what a good dare is for truth or dare, or if I got my book back or whatever. Then a few days ago he sent me a picture of him with just... (99 words)

We got on great at camp... how can I continue this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have never had a girlfriend I am not the fighting type or anything like that but recently me and this really popular girl randomly met at this camp. We started off being in the same group and that then it got to sitting in the same chair and then cuddling. I really really ... (115 words)

Baby mama problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend in August 2006, we dated and then broke up. He has a total of 4 kids. 3 of them with his ex wife and 1 with another woman. I have met all the kids. Well we recently got back together in June 2008 and now BOTH women have told him that as long as he is with ... (119 words)

How do you know that you're bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know that you are bisexual?... (8 words)

Confusion over an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Everytime I talk to my ex on the phone he talks about us. I talk about us he acts cold. He left me for making him really jealous but he doesn't know till now that I knew all along even though he didn't want his ex back, he was sneaking around behind my back. I finally ... (73 words)

I need some ideas from you for him to tell me what is troubling him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship with my 35 year old boyfriend for nearly 1 1/2 years. I have never been with a man this long (whilst all his relationships have been long-term) and I am not sure how to handle my current situation. At first he was the most loving, ... (665 words)

I want to introduce him to my family cause I love him but he's black and I know how my family can be...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm Pacific Islander and my boyfriend is black. I would never have been attracted or gotten real close to a black guy because of the "typical" negative characteristics that is placed upon them, but my boyfriend isn't even like that. He is even considered white cause he is ... (256 words)

Did I do something wrong during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks that HE did something wrong ... (76 words)

What is the best form of contraceptive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the best form of contraceptive?... (7 words)

I hate being stuck in the middle?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend named Amber, who is my best friend and confides in me. She is in a relationship with another one of my friends, Adam, who also confides in me about their relationship. They have been in a relationship for about a year now and I played a large part in getting ... (151 words)

I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is really embarassing. I'm 15 and still a virgin. My boyfriend is 17 and not a virgin. I'm really nervous about having sex with him because I want him to enjoy himself. I want him to love me even more than he does now, and he really REALLY loves me. I want him to come ... (64 words)

Married and in love with two people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that this is ulimately my choice but feedback is always nice and its so hard to share the total truth with the people you know. I have been married for 12 years and overall its been great. If I look back when we first met I fell in love with him because he was n... (873 words)

Is he going to be disgusted when he sees me naked?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and I'm ready to have sex with him. I'm a virgin and he's not. He loves me so much and i love him back, but I'm not comfortable with my body AT ALL. I find it ugly, but he says that I'm beautiful every day. I'm not a big girl at ... (135 words)

I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have suffered from depression for a few years now and lately it seems worse than ever and I dunno if i can take it anymore.. The problem is that noone knows about how i feel because I have never been able to tell anyone but I really need to talk to someone before I... (247 words)

am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.I just can't like a girl without a nice big ass no matter how i try i just cannot get aroused. Sometimes, I can like a girl just because of her ass and it has nothing to do wit her or how she looks.Does anyone feel this way about ... (61 words)

I want us to touch each other in a more intimate way. I want him, and I know he wants me too. How can I give him a "sign"? Am I rushing things ?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I'm a girl, almost 20 and I'm really happy, i'm dating an amazing guy who really makes me laugh and I feel great when I'm around him. We started as friends, we already liked each other but decided to see if what we felt for eachother was "important" enough f... (176 words)

This is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is really embarrassing.. but my vagina smells gross! I produce a lot of discharge, clear and white. its gross. it smells nasty. I probably produce more than the normal amount. what can I use to clean it? I wash it everyday. should I douche? I'm fifteen.... (47 words)

I'm in love with my very good friend's

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on the phone. I told her how i ... (306 words)

Is it normal to bleed between periods whilst on the pill?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been on the pill for a week now, I've finished my period and i keep bleeding, its dark and blotchy and has happened about three times now, is this normal? ... (34 words)

Am I the "Back-up" girl ?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He broke up with me for someone else but he says i can still talk to him on the phone if i wanted to why does he still want to talk to me if he didnt want me anymore, i'm not aloud to meet him just talk on the phone Is it as I'm a back up if things dont go well with this n... (69 words)

How do I find that one-night-stand again ? I want to get to know him better.

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a question on how far it is ok to go to find someone you met only once before but really would like to know better? The story is this: I met a guy in a club a few weeks ago and we spend the night together. I wasn’t thinking I would have anything more because... (401 words)

We finally got our lives straightened out, but now there is no time for me...Help !

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - we have been married for 17 yrs and i was an alcoholic and he was a drug addict(wont admit it). after he was caught and spent 3 yrs in prison he was still abusive and i still drank. we split up for 11 mo. then got back together. things were ok but not great. he started anger ... (152 words)

How do I break up with him and get over it? Or how can I make him want me the way he used to?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 18 years old, my boyfriend is 20. We’ve been dating for two years, with our share of ups and downs but lately he’s been acting a lot different. It all started when I left for college, it’s 2 hours away from home. The first week was fine and I came home and spent the fi... (505 words)

My boyfriend left me after 8½ months to go back to his ex, what can I do to make him come back to me again?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im so confused with myself at the moment, i really want my ex bf back we split 2 weeks today his choice, he wanted his ex back we where together for 8 1/2 months, i still talk to him and everything seems fine, hes now back with his old ex gf and deep down im upset still ev... (241 words)

Should I meet up with my ex for a last goodbye or not?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me ive decided 2 meet up with my ex one last time to say are goodbyes we both like eatchother stil and he said he allways will but its the age diffrence hes 15yrs older than me i dont know whether i should meet with him? h... (104 words)

My girlfriend wants to move in with me and so do I, but her mom doesn't approve. What shall I do to make this happen in the best way?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I seriously need ur help and advice on my love life and will appreciate every bit of it. I am seriously in love with a girl of 17, just 17 and she is seriously in love wit me. She is ready to do anything to make me happy and im also ready to go outta ma way to keep her ... (375 words)

I don't feel ready for sex, but still enjoy my boyfriend touching me. What does this mean, am I into it or not??

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, this is kinda awkward. my boyfriend and i have only been kissing for while and thats all im into. whenever i think of doing more i feel awkward and im just not into that stuff yet. but we were kissing and he put his hand under my shirt and started fondling around in m... (122 words)

My mom hates my boyfriend and me, because weve had sex, she's going to kick me out of her life, help please!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OKay um, im 14 and my boyfriends 15,ive been having sex with him for about two months now, weve been together 3months.My mam found out about a month ago and asked me directly if i was having sex with him. (my mams 8 months pregnant after a condom split with her boyfriend, i ... (322 words)

My first sexual experience turned out to be a big mistake and now I feel guilt and self-disgust, what can I do to stop feeling like this?

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26 October 2008 (F)

- Im 19 and i first had sex when i was 18. I regret it so much. My bf at the time guilted me into it and pressured me. I wish I was stronger. Everyday I feel disgusted by myself because of what I did. I regret it because he turned out to not be who i thoguht he was, he turned o... (242 words)

I suspect my boyfriend could be bisexual, what do you think?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age - I thought my boyfriend was gay when i first met him,he asked me out and we have had sex,but he wont come inside me,he sometimes has problems keeping an errection,could he be gay?... (33 words)

I met a wonderful girl but after 6 months I see my feelings change and I feel trapped, why?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Help, i've got myself into a right mess! I'm about 6 months into a relationship with this wonderful woman but my feelings have suddenly changed. When we first started dating it was great, we had fun I loved being around her and i thought this would last. I was so happy to ... (327 words)

To guys in particular; what would make you come back to an ex gf?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I want my ex back. Besides giving him space and time; is there anything else I can do that would help? Something proactive? I haven't talked to him in a while. Is it possible after two years that his feelings just disappeared? Or can I re-ignite something? Guys in ... (66 words)

He is 18 and I'm 15, should I dare to ask him out??

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26 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i really like this guy 'brian', but the problem is that he's eighteen and i'm only fifteen. but i've liked him since i was eleven and he was fifteen. he turned eighteen in july and i only turned fifteen yesterday. but anyway, i really want to tell him i like him. i may even be ... (119 words)

What can I buy to get rid of this cold, I cant afford time off work?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How can I get rid of this stinking cold. Its been here a couple of days now, horrendous nose, cough, sore throat, headache. I started a job just over a week ago, I am really struggling with it as its a physical job and the hours they have me doing are more than advertised. ... (133 words)

I'm dating a perfect guy and I feel I might never be good enough for him. Should I talk to him about it?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 17 and I met my first boyfriend, who's 19 a little less than a year ago and we've been dating for around 5 months. He's absolutely perfect! He's nice, smart, funny, and has a stunning body (bonus!) He is a type of person who is good at everything he does. When he... (610 words)

I dumped this no good for a boyfriend but why won't he get out of my head??

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I posted about 6 weeks ago about this guy I had been seeing. In a nutshell, he cheated, lied and had me believe we had something special going on. I walked away and we had no communication for a month. Then he mailed me, asking me if I had a problem with him! (after a... (209 words)

My parents moved with me to another state, they say I can stay behind living with my friend, but I'm not sure it would be right, should I stay or should I go?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt a sex or love question, but i could use some advice. I recently just moved to a different state, leaving my friends behind. I hate it here. I'm almost 16, and my parents agree that I can go live with my best friend back in Adelaide. But I don't know whether I can... (129 words)

My 5 year old sister who lives with me and my girlfriend, has started asking me questions about birds and bees. I feel she is too young to know, what shall I do?

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26 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister (who's 5) lives with me and my girlfriend (for personal reasons.) She keeps asking me sexual questions. Once she ask me what a blow job was. I told her that when its someone get paid to blow on stuff. She's way too young to know about this kind of stuff. My girlfriend ... (101 words)

I'm in a LDR since 4 months and I planned to go see her soon, but recently she seems less interested and now I'm not sure what to do?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been in a LDR with this girl for about 4 months. at first we couldn't stop chatting on msn and texting each other but now when i talk to her on msn she may not reply for ages and i know she is there because if I ask if she is she always replies yes. I love her so ... (106 words)

My friend says I always seem fearless but I sometimes feel afraid and shy, how come it can be so different what you show and what you feel?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - HEY!!!! GUESS WHO!!!!! ITS ME LOTMONEY13!!! and i have a question!!! DUHHH!!!!!! I ALWAYS HAVE QUESTIONS!!!! HEHEHEHEHE!!!! well i was talking to my friend cause she's the only one who knows so yeah.... and she said it suprised her because she always saw me as show-no-fear-sam ... (124 words)

Is 6 months too soon to be moving in together?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, soon ill be starting college 2 hours away from home and my bf will be starting university near there too... to minimise travelling my bf wants to move closer to uni...and has asked me to move with him, as it will be convienent as it is near my college and because I will ... (88 words)

Marry or not marry? Need your help to sort out the pros and cons!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently asked a question on here about what to do now that my boyfriend wished to propose but I wasn't sure I was ready. Recently my boyfriend and I have begun talking about our future, about what we want and about marriage and proposing. If it were up to him we would have ... (584 words)

My guy friend doesn't like me the same way I like him and now I'm heartbroken, what should I do?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel heartbroken cause me and my guy friend dont talk or see eachother anymore only write. i told him i like him but he said he didnt like me that way only as a friend but its hard only for me to write him because we dont have any other contact anymore. i still miss him have ... (67 words)

Me and my gf are careholders of my 5 year old sister. Now she is getting into trouble at school and I don't know what to do, can anyone please help us with advice?

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26 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My 5 year old sister *Tiffany* (she has trouble making friend) lives with me and my girlfriend for personal reasons. My girlfriend set up a play date with one of her friends. Her friend brought her son *Bryan* (also 5) the play started out fine until *Bryan* began throwing ... (225 words)

What can I say to him that will help? I want to support him for his interview!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf has a big interview coming up next week, and he's nervous about it. He asked me if I thought he would do okay. I told him I thought he'd be great, which upset him -- he said he doesn't want a "line" and wants to know what I honestly think about how he'll do and why. ... (521 words)

I work and study hard and don't have time for things I used to like and it makes me feel lonely and depressed. Do you have any advice on how to get out of this?

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26 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I keep on having this nagging feeling that won't go away...namely I am so lonely that it's amking me depressed. I am student teaching three times a week (working on my master's degree) and taking three classes in addition to it and I feel overhwehlemed. I wish there w... (210 words)

My friend will wait for me to divorce but why is he on dating sites then?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age - I'm going through divorce after 20 some years of marriage. I met a guy on a bike ride a few weeks before I filed and we hit it off as friends we've been friends since 4 months now I moved out of the house and live with friends. I spend a lot of time with my guy friend. I cook ... (256 words)

The breakup felt so right at the time so why am I still missing her so much after 6 months??

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, about six months ago I ended a relationship that was on and off for two years. I broke up with my gf 4 times in the 2 years we were together and mostly for the same reasons. We'd be together for 3-5 months and seperate for 3-5 months. It would be so perfect at... (506 words)

I've started an affair while my abusive boyfriend is in jail. When he gets out, I have to make a choice. Help!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 4 years has now been incarcerated for 6 months. Before this, our relationship was rocky because he would lie, cheat, break things when he got angry,call me degrading names, and support our daughter half the time. Through ou relationship, I stuck by him (because ... (157 words)

How do I become more than just a "close friend" to her?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been friends with this girl for almost 8 years. we date for a little while years ago and after we broke up we became really close friends. i have helped her through many breaks up and we have work together for about 5 years. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of 3 ... (133 words)

How do I express my desire for my classmate without being punished by my school?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - in our school, we are forbidden to have an affair to our schoolmates or classmates because they may ruin our studies. there is called PDA or Public display of affection. it is a rule that if someone sees you in the campus with your boyfriend or displaying affection, you and ... (94 words)

How come men seem to have more sexual urge than women?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age - Do they males have more sexual urge then females.generally males show much interest on ladies and sex. similar desire is not seen in females, Is it gender variation or indidual variation... (32 words)

After two weeks of texts I said we should meet up- she gave no reply. Did I scare her off?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - met this girl at uni last week. She's great. Had an hour long chat. Exchanged numbers etc. She text me next day, than day after. I replied. Just general stuff. Than few days later she rang to see how i was. Than i rang few days later and she was busy. She text next day sayin sh... (135 words)

We've been dating on and off for a year, he says he loves me, is he playing me?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok theres this guy i have been dating on and off for a year... he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me..... everytime we break up he says he always loves the gurl he is dating and stuff is he playing me or what help me please cause im tired of ... (61 words)

Am I being selfish with my boyfriend?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a situation, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is the best, he is very nice and sweet with me, but he is always very bussy, he always try to make time for me we normally see each other 2-3 times a week, we always try to be 3 times,so we mostly see each ... (433 words)

My 100 pound girlfriend is trying to lose 20 pounds so she can be a model.I caught her throwing up, what do I do?

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26 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) wants to loss another 20 pounds (she's about 100) with diet pills. That just doesn't sound healthy to me. I am willing to the gym with her but the pill idea has to go. I once came home early cause I didn't feel and I caught her throwing up in ... (115 words)

What exercies can I do to tighten my vagina?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what exercise besides kegel can i do to make my vagina tighter or do hot baths work because i tried that already... (22 words)

I decided to go on a break with my LD boyfriend of 7 years because I have cheated on him so many times. I miss him already, what to do?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So, here is the background information. I have been with my bf since i was 16, hes 7 years older. we have been together for 5 years now. When i finished high school, i went 400 miles away to go to college. we always talk every day, multiple times in the day. by this point i am ... (427 words)

I've have 2 guys to choose between and it's driving me nuts!

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here is my problem. I feel really silly about it because it almost sounds more like a stroke of good luck than a problem. That is, I have two guys to decide between. Guy # 1: I have known for years, since high school. We have always been very close and we have been throug... (791 words)

Girlfriend was off sequence with her birth control, please help!

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26 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend takes Otho tri-cyclen lo and this month while taking the pill everyday she notice the week before her period she was a day behind on the order she was taking her pills. For example she was taking Thursday's pill on Friday, how in the hell this happened I couldn't ... (121 words)

I have no sexual desire for my wife but I want to have! What is wrong with me?

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26 October 2008 (M) age - Hello, I have been struggling with great confusion and I don't know where to turn for help. So I decided to try it here. I have no sexual desire and my wife has been struggling with me for years. Really, she is very patient with me, but now she has less and less energy, ... (168 words)

I feel I am nobody to her... what should I do?

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - 2 weeks ago, I had a huge fight with my gf. She ended the relationship after few days. A week passed, I started to feel better. However, she called me. We talked a while on phone. The next day, she called again. For the first time, she called me 3 times a day. It happened... (231 words)

How can I get out of this very awkward situation?

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a married a couple a months ago and I love my husband so much but we are living apart due to work requirement. We talk every day on the phone and sms. He is a great husband and I don't think another man could ever give me such a great love to me as him. ... (218 words)

Nothing turns me on apart from my female foot fetish.

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, I sent a message earlier this month about my female foot fetish, I began to lose it but I am still worried because I can't get turned on by anything, any help or advice thanks for reading. later... (42 words)

He has a history of self harming... but I want to break up with him.

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and in my first real long term relationship. We've been together for just over a year, but for at least four of those 12 months, i have been wanting to get out of my relationship. I really care for this guy, but i don't love him. I understand that ending a relation... (151 words)

I had sex with my boyfriend and didn't feel anything.

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26 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, Okay, so I'm going to get right to the point. I'm 14, and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex with each other for 2 months. I know for a fact that I am not pregnant, and up until 3 days ago, the sex was normal but on Thursday we had sex and, I didn't ... (134 words)

I didn't want him to to kiss me.... now I feel bad.

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26 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm confused and have a question for someone. Me and this guy are both 15 and have been best friends since we started high school together last year. we had a lot in common and was very comfortable telling each other things. we learned that we both liked to masturbate ... (189 words)

Good sex bad situation

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26 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My sister got caught cheating on her husband recently. He is planning to divorce her. My sister is devastated. She had been having sex with her boss for 2 years. He knew something was going on but she never thought he would find it out, but he did. He moved across town into his ... (187 words)