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Can someone please explain his behaviour????

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12 October 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am having trouble coming to terms with my ex's behaviour since we've split up I just feel I need to understand it in order to move on more quickly. My ex and I were together for three years in what increasingly became a tempetuous relationship, we have been split for six mo... (726 words

I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ever put his hands on me. He ... (127 words

I don't know what to answer if he were to ask me to marry him.

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I know if he is Mr. Right? We already dated for four and a half years and I don't know what to answer if he would aske me to marry him. We are both 26 years old.... (39 words

Are we a couple? How can I be more aggressive in moving our relationship forward?

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - I started at university this past fall, and I'm having a great time. What is especially exciting is that I am "out" at university and have even started "seeing" someone. He asked me out and we've gone out a couple of times the past few weeks and we see each other quite ... (93 words

Just thoughts please and general advice needed!

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Referring to the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-or-do-that-isnt.html Well since I posted that a couple of things. We have spent more time together and agree to meet at some point. One day as we were saying bye she was saying how she would like to... (275 words

How do I 'make the move'? He's still a virgin too. Does anyone have any advice they could offer?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay, well i wrote a qustion on here in august, about being raped on july 18th, the moderator deleted the part of my question, but it was the worst experience of my life and i would not wish it on my worst enemy. i got some fantastic advice back, and the replies actually gave... (426 words

How can I get my strict Greek parents to accept my boyfriend.

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone. please help me with this problem i have. i am an 18 year old girl who comes from a very strict Greek background. i recently met an amazing guy, but he is not Greek, so my parents do not accept him. i see him every weekend - but behind their backs, and i always h... (127 words

The Ex won't answer my calls or texts but views my Myspace daily.

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12 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up about a month and a week ago. Anyways, the breakup wasn't messy, and I am still good friends with her stepfather and her mother. I wrote her a text and called here about a week after the breakup but to no response(she said she wanted to ... (197 words

How can I avoid lockjaw with my new boyfriend?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm quite inexperienced with sex and I've recently met an amazing guy and I absolutely love spending time in and out of bed with him but I've hit a problem when giving blow jobs. Every guy I've ever been with before has been a bit small in the trouser department and has come ... (154 words

I need your help... I think I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - two month ago i asked my boyfriend to move out even though we have a 2 year old little girl because he cheated on me we are still together and we still see each other on a weekend because we are tryin to make things work while we not living together the only problem is i dont ... (207 words

Am I just not mature enough for a relationship?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi... I'm 14 and have never been in a proper relationship (basically i've never kissed a guy) I have "been out" with a few but those have only really lasted a few days becasue i got scared about it for some reason. Problem 1.I recently started to like this guy and found ... (390 words

I get jealous when my fiance looks at other women, for simple turns of the head, what's wrong with me?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I get really jelouse when my fiance looks at other women (and by looking i dont mean perving on them but just a simple turn of the head) because it makes me feel that im not good enough for him. I get a lot of attention and compliments from other men but it has no effect on m... (131 words

I really want to find someone for myself.

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've recently started to have feelings for this guy, when before he was just a friend...well a friend of a friend really and that's half the problem...i really want to get closer to him and i haven't had a proper conversation with him before, so how can i go about doing that ... (137 words

Do I risk telling my boyfriend and lose him?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with someone now for a few months and we're very happy together, he's starting to become special to me and i dont want to lose what we've got. but the other day i ended up kissing one of my other male freinds and i know if my boyfreind knew he would end it. its ... (101 words

She says she wants to get to know me and meet me but I feel her attitude is unacceptable and I don't want to meet her

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive been seeing my boyfriend for about 2months and we are really crazy about each other..it didnt go so smoothly in the begining i kissed another guy at a party i told him straight away and i though we had things back on track..our main problem is arguing over a female f... (228 words

I'm the third person and feel uncomfortable with this position. What should I do?

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12 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - Dear cupid. Im gay and have recently met a guy in which I work with. We became freinds and 3 months later we both realised we liked eachother and began flirting. I then found out he was seeing someone and had a boyfriend already for 8 months.This boyfreind is very jealous of ... (245 words

Feelings have gone completely...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got all my answers.. I regre... (285 words

My boyfriend is going too fast and won't listen to me when I tell him to stop!

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and my boyfrined is the same age. I had never really had a boyfriend before, and I am still a virgin. I'm really innocent and have never done anything bad, I never even kissed a guy. Then about 3 weeks ago we started going out, and about a week ago I fou... (407 words

Does this mean I cheated?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend split last Tuesday, on Thursday I went to a party and ended up kissing another lad, does that mean I've cheated on him or shall I just forget that it happened.... (35 words

I think I might really like him but I'm not sure how to handle it! Help!

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm really stuck at the moment. I haven't liked someone properly since my last ex, we broke up in June. Since i dumped him, he's dated this new girl, slept with her, and cheated on her by sleeping with her (he asked me for sex but i told him to bugger off). I couldn't trust him ... (144 words

How can we get out of this vicious circle of annoyingness!?!?

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12 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - Where do i begin? I love my girlfriend to bits in fact more than i have loved anyone before, and i know she feels the same. we are crazy about each other! We have been together for around a year (on and off), im british and she is dutch. I even moved over to holland a... (295 words

How can I use my tongue when I snog boys?!?

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - for some reason when i snog a boy i cant use tounge, why is this and how can i solve my problem n use tounge? please help thanks xxx... (32 words

How can I comfort my friend through this difficult time?

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12 October 2008 (F age 51-59 - my friend has had a baby to a married man,he has told her he is staying with his wife who he doesnt love even though he loves my friend in order to be with his kids.His wife will not allow him any contact with my friend or the baby ,he says that there is a chance he could still ... (187 words

Does not having a boyfriend make me immature or weird?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel kind of immature and left out when I hear my friends talking about their boyfriends. I've had a "sort of boyfriend" before, but I don't think it counts because we never even held hands or kissed. Actually, I kicked him to the curb when I figured out he just wanted me ... (174 words

Mens opinions needed! I saw pictures of his ex who had a really hot body and I can't understand why he wants to be with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok so this is all my own fault, but it's really messing with my head. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now, we took it really slow from the start, he didn't push for sex at all and in fact we've only been sleeping together for a week now. He is really s... (671 words

We're 15, we consider ourselves married but our parents don't wants us to be together and I hate them for this! I'm thinking about running away!

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay, let me start by saying I hate my parents! Now I'll explain why. I'm 15 and so is she. About 2 months ago I asked my girlfriend to marry me. We've never actually had sex but it has gone up to me giving her oral, she's never given it to me though. She said yes and we began ... (685 words

How do I stop myself from sobbing like a baby and begging him to come home

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 36 weeks pregnant. My husband left me about 1 1.2 months ago. He says he still loves me, but he said we are different people and I nagged him all the time and that he has been happy since he's been gone and that even if we got back together we would never make it anyway. ... (172 words

I have a crush on him, but he might be straight!

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - it all started when i was like in 2nd grade, i´ve always known am gay. i had a friend,we were best friends, we used to do everything together and i started liking him. But the problem was that there was another boy who was my best friend´s best friend, anyway, after that year ... (241 words

I'm afraid my boyfriend might leave me when he finds out I'm pregnant!

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have a couple problems that I need help with, so can somebody please answer my call for help? 1. I might be pregnant. 2. The father is a boy who doesn't even like me. 3. I've only had sex with two guys and now everyone who knows that treats me like a whore, and I'm s... (106 words

I don't know if I like him, but some other girl is after him! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im not sure if a like a guy. He told me he liked me about a month ago, but i said i didnt know how i felt. Ive met him like 6 times and never felt a spark, but last time i kind of did. We havent met for a while, and weve kept it as friends but kind of clear he still liked me.... (151 words

He was so nice to me, then he said some horrible things about me to another friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I really liked this guy at my work. We were really flirty with each other and kept in contact out of work. He asked to meet up a couple of weeks ago and I ended up sleeping with him. I know I should have waited, but at the time it felt right and it was completely 'in the ... (285 words

Her dad said I was being possesive of her! I don't know what to do

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Mmhhhm..technology is a wonderful thing but sometimes it gets annoying. Such as, my girlfriend and I were riding in the car talking(her dad :( was driving us) her friends txt her a lot and that's fine so do mine. But when we are talking or not and just enjoying each others ... (258 words

Why does my boyfriend act differently with his friends and brothers around?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friend (we'll call her... Lily) noticed something about my boyfriend (we'll call him... Greg) that I noticed too. See, whenever we hang out (just Greg, Lily, and I) he acts differently than when Greg, Lily, Me, and a bunch of Greg's guy friends are there too. For example, ... (189 words

I'm crazy about this guy I met at uni, and now we work together and I don't know what to do!

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been really crazy about this guy i met at uni.. i asked him out at uni he never really answered the question.. we always used to meet up after lectures and he used to be really flirty with me. he broke my heart one day when he told me he had a girlfriend.. Now years ... (129 words

Do other girls have hairy breasts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right I have a bit of a problem I have some hairs on my breasts and although their not like armpit hairs or anything I think their quite noticable am I the only one with this problem or do other people have hairs aswell??? ... (46 words

Should I go to meet this guy in Europe after what might have been a simple holiday fling?

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12 October 2008 (F age - I recently fell in love with a married man from a far-off land (something I personally don't approve of and yet it has happened to me!). He came for a visit a month ago to my country. I had met him five months earlier in his own country and while nothing happened during my trip ... (497 words

My boyfriend is very stressed out with his work, how can I change that and spend more time together?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a good while now, but here lately he's been very busy. He's getting signed(possibly)to a recording contract soon, so he's constantly been working on his album and he just doesn't seem to have the time for me. I know he's doing what he ... (85 words

I can be my siblings' tutor (husband disagrees) or give them into foster care. Should I go against hubby's wishes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

12 October 2008 (? age 41-50 - My sister (who's 5) and brother (who's 7) was being abuse by our parents who are now in jail. To a long story short the cops call me asking if wanted to be they'll guardian or they'll be in foster care. I don't want them to live with brunch of strangers. When I talked my ... (96 words

Do I tell my ex about my new love?

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12 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I am so confused right now so I really need some help with this! Here is the scenario: I ended a 7 year relationship with my girlfriend about 2 years ago as we had been together since the age of 17 and decided that I needed to see the world a bit as I didnt w... (232 words

My partner gives me love bites! I don't know why he does this.

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - i keep getting love bites off my partner. hes 2 years older but i dont get why he still gives love bites as hes 17. i know that its not a goth thing as hes very into the jeans and hoodys. but he really bruised up my neck and i dnt kno why he likes biting so much? ... (63 words

Can I move out of the country without my child's father stopping me?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - If i wanted to move out of ireland could i without the child's father stopping me? his name isn't on the birth certificate but he took me to court and he got a parental responsibilty thing. he isn't paying child support or anything like that. he gives me 30 pound in hand every ... (58 words

He was tickling me, does it mean he's flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - i went on a second date with a guy i like from work, i had such a good time On the way home when we were on the train he put his arm around me and was tickling my ribs, and we were both laughing is this a good thing? was he flirting?... (59 words

Should I give him my virginity?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - i fancied my best guy friend for so long and plucked up the courage to tell him how i feel (it took me months)..and he said he used to fancy me and has been messing with my head ever sence, blowing hot and cold and then saying he wants to be "friends" then asking to hold my ... (174 words

He made me sleep with him and now I'm pregnant! Help!

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, not really sure how to say this, I am 15 and slept with a guy a while a go, I didn't want to because I knew a)he was sleeping around, and b)he had just broken up with his girlfriend. He made me in the end saying he was going to tell everyone and that he would send people ... (79 words

My parents are interfering with my life too much and I can't take it any more...

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - I know this is long but please bear with me cuz I really need help. I am beginning to hate my parents because they never listen to me and because they treat me like some kind of kid and my two other brothers are given everything they want in a second because they will start ... (466 words

I have been involved with a married man for 9 months.

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12 October 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been involved with a married man for 9 months. When we first got together I was hesitant, but decided to be his friend, of course we fell in love. He texts and contacts me every day and night, over the past months she has found the texts and has investigated the numbers ... (198 words

I keep dumping one guy for another and can't make up my mind who to choose...

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - What do I do? I was going out with this guy when I broke up with him because he's really pressurising and really mean sometimes, however we'd been in a relationship on and off for 11 months. But about 4 days after breaking up with him I started dating another guy, "Jo". But ... (137 words

Stuck in a rut, how do I break away from an on and off bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I break away from a bad relationship? We've been on and off for nearly a year, what started off as a rebound thing has become a bad habit, we get together, he treats me great for a month or so, then turns into a complete prat. We break up for a couple of months then g... (123 words

I want to get married but he won't

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost five years and have two kids. He doesn't think marriage is important and he still talks to all of his exes that aren't married. I feel like there is such a lack of respect for me. Is he afraid of losing his stud muffin status or ... (104 words

Why don't I have a girlfriend?

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12 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 22 and i have a problem that im trying to do something about. I really want a gf but i have never had one before when ever i go out places or go on holiday i see couples together and i get really jelous and think why is this never me?. I go out clubbing and stuff with my ... (248 words

Been on a few dats, but I don't know how to break it off now

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been on a few dates with this really nice sweet guy but I've decided now that I just don't feel anything for him! He still keeps texting me but I don't know how to break it off- whether to be honest and explain that I just don't feel a spark or whether to act a bit cool ... (104 words

I met a guy on Myspace but I don't feel that spark

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Theres this boy, we met on myspace, then we met up. We met about 4 times but i didnt feel a spark , he told me he liked me on a text...but hes never treated me like a boyfriend, hes not kind of boy to be all touchy feely or anything, maybe if he acted like that more id like him... (181 words

I'm 13 and my parents say I have to have an arranged marriage

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi. im 13 years old but ive been told by my mum that im going to have an arranged marriage when i want to marry. my parents arent really religious or anything but they both had an arranged marriage. i dont mind having one its just i really want to have a chance to date, ... (164 words

I'm depressed because I'm not in a relationship

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok i know this is going to sound stupid but over the last half a year or so i have started to get depressed because i am not in a relationship. All of my friends have been in relationships and I have never had one and feel stupid and immature when they are talking about what ... (262 words

Is it normal to have doubts about your partner?

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12 October 2008 (F - hey aunts, i'm just wonderin. is it normal to sometimes have doubts about your partner? i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we've had our ups and downs and he's hurt me heaps before but we've gotten back together becoz thats what we always do *rolls eyes* ... (344 words

My ex found me online and wants cyber sex despite having a girlfriend

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently was found via a social networking site by an ex from over 20 years ago. We had exchanged the odd email - nothing major just catching up and thought that's good. This weekend he started sending more flirty type messages, I tried to remain cool and make jokes to ... (316 words

I'm a virgin in my late 20's and scared of having sex with my girlfriend

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12 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi I am in my late twenties, vigin, and got my first gf about 6 months ago. I love the girl but everytime I am just too nervous about having sex with her. I had a fear of losing erection when it comes to sex. When I attempted to have sex with her few months back, I lost my ... (217 words

Do I tell my best friend her boyfriend slept with a prostitute?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a small problem, I just found out my best friends boyfriend slept with a hooker. What should I do. If I tell my best friend, She will think I am trying to split them up (as I was not happy with getting together in the first place). If I don't tell her and she finds out I ... (68 words

Ended over bad communication and now his feelings have all gone and mine haven't!

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey.. Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got all my answers.. I re... (248 words

The married man I'm seeing wants to work at his marriage but also have me

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12 October 2008 (F age - I have been with married man for approx. 1 year, we fell in love with each other within 2 months. In the past couple of months he has had tough times in his marriage once she found out about me. he has decided to work on his marriage, but he still doesn't want to lose me. So ... (105 words

Why does she keep picking my spots??

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12 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing this hot chick for a while and we love each other to bits. However, she keeps scratching my spots off and it really hurts. I keep asking her to stop but she won't. What's wrong with her?... (40 words

I met an amazing man online and life was bliss but it now seems to have all fallen apart

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi All, I hope someone can help. I met the most amazing man online around 4 months ago.......a little background tho, its long winded I know...... He was engaged for 7 years, the relationship broke down which spiraled him into a dark depression. He moved in with a c... (1506 words

I met a girl on holiday who seemed interested but now she's not returning my calls

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello, this message will probably end up pretty long so if you do end up reading it. I thank-you alot. Here goes.. So I went to Spain in July with a few mates, we went by coach which took like a day. There was a big family infront of us on the coach, and the one daughter is ... (577 words

My dad's girlfriend moved in, violates my privacy and tries to turn my dad against me, help!

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi my dads girlfriend moved in with my dad and I a couple of months ago and I am finding her unbearable. She is trying to take over my life and control me in any way possible. I am 17 and have been very independant for years. However she is constantly calling up my friends and ... (150 words

I told my good friend I have feelings for him, but he doesn't want to ruin our friendship

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey everyone :) i am really in love with one of friends (and have know for just over 3 years)...i like him from the day we met and initially i felt he felt the same way about me! anyways, we didnt really go out and ending up becoming really good friends...but now i have falle... (510 words

We are not right for each other for marriage and we know it! How can I break away from him as I am so addicted to sex with him??

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am a 28 year old woman,divorced a year and a half ago,i have been a very horny girl from the begining.I've had good sex partners before i got married and i've had a few sex partners after i got divorced too.My ex-husband however did not satisfy me,i was married for 5 ... (191 words

I like someone else but I have a boyfriend, is this a sign I'm unhappy in my present relationship?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - please help ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years and he is 6 years older than me so he wants the whole settling down thing im still only young and want to enjoy myself. I really fancy this guy at work i flirt with him all the time. i would never do anything ... (97 words

Failed relationships leaving me feeling down, am I not worth more than this?

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I broke up from a serious relationship back in December 2007, which left me quite broken because my ex kicked me out of the flat we shared, just after my birthday and Christmas. It took me quite a few months to get over it, especially as he pestered me for months and months to ... (375 words

My boyfriend has anger management issues, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - You know when you really love someone, and you think your boyfriend's freat, but he just has that one glitch that when it pops up, it really makes you wonder if he's going to be the one for you? I have been with my boyfriend 10 months. 99% of the time he is great, he treats... (278 words

My best friend cheats on his girlfriend all the time, but she is a really nice girl

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12 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - my best mate regular cheats on his girlfriend everytime we go out,he sleeps with these women and get us to lie for him. his partner is a really nice girl and he treats her like shit at home and everywhere else.but the thing is shes really obsessed with him and i think she knows ... (195 words

Is my long distance lover trying to distance herself from me?

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello everyone. Im new here and I've read many articles about long distance relationship which is my problem right now. Well I am a lesbian...and I have a girlfriend who now works in Worsley, Alberta, Canada. We've been apart for a month now. Im here now in the Philippines and ... (297 words

I have what seems like white skin all around the vaginal opening, is it because I've used soap and shaving gel to clean my inside? Sex is uncomfortable and I'm panicking!

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is going to be long so ill apologize in advance! Im really embaressed about this, and im sorry but im going to have to tell you everything to get the answer as im going on holiday tomoro and im panicking! Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and weve been having se... (599 words

I have come to hate my wife because I gave up many things for her, including jobs and my single life. What's left to do?

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12 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm married and havin a one year old kid. Din wnt to get married bt ma gal forced me sayn if u love me u'v got to marry. And she wanted a kid out of love. Finally i found that im givin her every thing and i get nothing. I get blamed for every little wrong thing i do. And sarc... (222 words

Which guy gets the girl in this scenario?

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. Ladies, who would you rather sleep with: 1) Guy who is superconfident and very successful who has a great sense of humour, but is not particularly good looking and although he fancies you he does not have feelings for you as such. or 2) Guy who is confident and suc... (164 words

So, is this relationship already doomed to fail? Has my ex changed?

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Has my ex changed? I broke up with my emotionally abusive ex a year ago, and just talked to him for the first time yesterday. He said he has been seeing a girl, but that it wasn't serious (yet he had sex with her) and that he stil missed me and loved me. One thing I didn't like ... (386 words

Been asked for a booty call but the "fun" only lasted for two minutes. What's up with that?

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12 October 2008 (F age - Why do some guys ask for a booty call and when they get all in to it they last 2 minutes into the act and then blame it on their selfishness..What's up with that?It upsets me when they say "what wasnt I good? Did you enjoy it? Obviously the answer is... NO! I havent gone with ... (65 words

I want to know what's up with him and why won't he talk to me???

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - The other day I was hanging out with a really good guy friend of mine. We were having tons of fun, but suddenly he leaned over and kissed me. It was a lip-kiss, and it was really quick. But now he won't talk to me! Whenever I see him, he'll turn around or walk away or hide ... (79 words

How do I tell my wife that she needs to lose weight? I love her but am having problems with her neglecting these aspects.

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12 October 2008 (M age - How do I tell my wife she needs to lose weight? We have been married for 8 yrs, 2nd for both of us. When we met she was much thinner ans said she worked out and stayed in shape,but over the years she has slowly gained weight and seems to have lost any interest in doing anyt... (152 words

We really seemed to have a connection and we have kept in touch but all of a suden he is ignoring me, why?

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy and had an instant connection. He gave me his contact info, and we kept in contact for several months. We planned to meet again and had a great weekend. During the weekend, he brought up relationships several times, but not directly. Such as: when you find ... (157 words

Does this this guy like me? He seems uncomfortable when I am around since the note I sent last year?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok this kinda a long story and I hope someone replies! theres this guy I've liked for a year now. last year when I first started liking him we talked some and were kind of friends. my best friend thought he liked me to and said I should ask him out. well I took her advice and I ... (448 words

Burning sensations during fingering, after period, any help? Also, how can I stop thinking about my girlfriend's past lovers?

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - First off, I'm young, and honestly inexperienced when it comes to any of this. Yeah, I'm a virgin, and a guy, get over it. My partner, however, isn't. It bugs me, yeah, but I live with it. I have three questions, and any feedback is greatly appreciated: First off, I don't kno... (373 words

Does he have feelings for me, or am I just fooling myself?

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for 8 months. He's going to work 2 hours away in another town for 3 months. I expressed my disappointment to him that I won't see him very much. He said that it was only 2 hours away and that he would come home on weekends. Does it seem that he may h... (101 words

My ex and I want to try reconciliation, but he is not sure, should I move on or what?

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12 October 2008 (F age - I would like to reconcile with my ex husband. I filed for the divorce and now after 15 months, I want him back. I know he starting seeing another woman about 3 months ago...he says they are very good friends, but they are not yet intimate. I am trying to give him time to... (158 words

My in-laws are making my life miserable, my husband will not stand up for me, what can I do?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please help! me and my husband have been married for 3 years now and we have dated for 9. everything was fine until we got married and had a baby then they started to controll everything even him! they would tell him to tell me things that aren't nessicary, they would even tell ... (1164 words

My wife is wonderful, but I have fallen in love with a married woman, what do I do now?

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12 October 2008 (M age 51-59 - I've been with a wonderful woman for 11 years. no kids. we are best friends, we have a solid relationship, communication has improved over the years....we don't have sex much. once every couple months. I recently met and fell in love with another wonderful woman, unhappil... (137 words

Five years ago I got drunk, and naked, friends took pictures, and made me famous around town, I am humilated, should I get over it?

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12 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really wanted to just see the funny ... (372 words

Is my penis an average size?

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12 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey im 15 and i have a 7.5 inch dick ... is that an average size?... (16 words

My child's father is abusive, I am confused, should I leave him?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am currently staying with my daughters dad, in which he lives with his parents. everything was going great until we started arguing and now he is extremely aggressive. he punches me in my legs and threatens to kill me over the smallest arguments. I then proceed to tell him ... (297 words

How do I approach this boy I like?

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12 October 2008 (F age 26-29 - well.. ireally like this boy but i'm not sure wether he likes me should i tell him and wen?? HELP how should i approach him.?... (31 words

I am living in a sexless marriage, what should I do?

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12 October 2008 (F age - My husband of 43yrs. all of a sudden decided he has no desire for sex or affection. I asked him what am I suppose to do and he said he didn`t know. He has affection for the children and grand children but not me. Now the kicker--we haven`t had sex for three years. I feel so ... (190 words

Is my ex playing a game with me?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - so here's the deal.. my ex-bf and I have officially been broken up for almost a year and a half now..we had opened and closed the lines of communication since then until recently.. we began talking and seeing each other (hanging out..not exactly dating) again..he would ... (204 words

I'm wondering...is my bf bi sexual?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a very loving relationship with my boyfriend. But recently I've started to think my bf is bisexual, because of some things he says, the way he talks about other guys and the way he acts. I've spoken to my bf about this before and he says he doesn't think he likes bo... (103 words

He says his internet cuts out online and doesn't reply to me. Does he not want to talk to me?

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12 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - im talking to this guy and we connect extremely well.weve only talked via instant messenger,and im waiting for him to get back from another state next month so we can meet.he is there for work.anyways,just lately ive been feeling a little uneasy.his internet cuts out a lot ... (278 words

We love each other but we have a lot of stress in this relationship!, help please

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12 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I need an advice here, my boyfriend is really wonderfull, he treats me like a princess all the time, my problem with him is that he is very affectionate physically talking, he hugges me, he kisses me all the time, and he is always complimenting how I looks ( I have always ... (406 words

I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?

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12 October 2008 (F - ok so i know this is going to sound really stupid, but im ready for my 1st kiss and i dnt no wat to do. i dnt no anythink even were to put my lips (bottom or top lip) and i just need a step step detail on how to kiss. thankyou xx... (57 words

What does it mean when someone says they need to get their thoughts straight. Do they really mean it's over?

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12 October 2008 (F age - This may be a stupid question but when someone asks to give them some time to get their thoughts straight because there is too much emotional involvement and they cant handle it. Does it means good bye?... (37 words

Going to move in with my bf and my parents flipped! How do I handle this?

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12 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi,well im a 20 yr female in college and i going to move in with my boyfriend of 3 years. Im having a hard time with my parents. When we told his mom, she was happy for us, and wished us luck. However when i told my parents, they flipped. My mom started to say that i should ... (319 words

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