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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Caught my husband doing my sister!

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22 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I left work early cause I didn't feel well. And I caught my husband doing my sister (now my pregnant sister who I'm not talking too). Here's a surprise he's drunk again. We also have a 3 week son who's very needy. I'm so upset I threw my wedding ring at him ( I cant trust hi... (145 words)

Her words don't match her actions! What to I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, I am really confused by this girls actions. I have a new neighbor she is 20 yr old. I am 40 and single. She came over and introduced herself the first week and asked if she could her laundry since she does not have a washer/dryer. I told her no problem. I cooke... (346 words)

Period was due 2 weeks ago and nothing has appeared! Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that many of you have probably heard all this before but I'm worried I might be pregnant. I had unprotected sex about a month ago and I'm on no sort of permanent contraception. I was due on my period 2 weeks ago and yet nothing has appeared. In that time I have taken 2 ... (158 words)

Her dad is very overprotective, and won't even let me speak to her anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I met this girl awhile ago, and we didn't really talk until about a week or two ago. The fact is, we both really matured and we both REALLY like each other, I mean I have never ever felt this way about a girl before. I just want to be around her, I don't want to do ... (146 words)

He keeps asking for sex. Do you think I should have sex or should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my BF for 5 months and we have known each other for 1 and half years. We have not have sex yet. But we have french kissed and cuddled. He keeps asking for sex. He says that we should take it further because it is a natural progression. he says ... (131 words)

He cant forgive me because I had sex with someone else! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, and for a year of that was long distance and we were having major issues in our relationship stupidly i got drunk one night and cried on the shoulder of a friend and we ended up having sex. The next day i was sick with ... (315 words)

Why is my ex interfering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi( sorry this is long) im just back from meeting a friend of mine and my ex, basically we had a drink and a laught and nothing more, anyway i know for a fact that this mate i went out with likes me more then that,anyway i think he mentioned this to my ex which my ex replyed to ... (187 words)

What's the big deal? She won't let me see her naked.

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22 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) is through this phase thinking she's fat (trust me she's not). And because of it she won't let me see her naked anymore. We do make out but she lets got to the point where I can't control myself. Only she gain three pronds and to be honest ... (61 words)

Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ... (28 words)

It's killing me waiting for her to move on....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I broke up 6 weeks ago. She hasn’t gotten over it (i.e. she keeps sending me emails and we keep “accidently” running into each other) and I miss her a lot. I don’t think she’s the one (she's not a life partner - too irresponsible, undriven and unsupportive. Plus the ... (333 words)

What do I do about this coworker I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I like my coworker, but I am afraid she doesn't have the same feeling towards me. I don't know how to let her know, and if even I did, I don't know how she will take it. She is so cool, and I just like her. We work together all the time, and go to school at the same... (108 words)

Problems at school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im haveing these bigg promblems in school. im 15 and in the 9th grade.this boy i really liked asked me out i really like him ALOT AND HE LIKES ME but theres these girls that i guess hates me so they told him to brake up with me.he dident but i broke up with him becuz i dident ... (175 words)

Shall I finish with my current affair only to pursue another one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I feel so terrible writing this. This is more like a confessional than a request for advice. I got married four years ago to a man I first met when I was in university (ten years ago). He was my first real boyfriend. Late last year our relationship broke down and we are now ... (313 words)

Is there something wrong with me? I can't orgasm....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have this problem, during sex and foreplay i dont have the ability to have an orgasm, however i can feel it before but then the feeling just goes even if it feels appsolutely amazing. even if its after half an hour to an hour still nothing happens. Have i got something wrong ... (56 words)

Is four months long enough?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with a guy for nearly 4 months and im happy but he is asking about sex. im not sure if im ready and is 4 months long enough?? its just that everytime we're alone together we come so close to having it and i have to stop because im not sure if its right. is it right ... (67 words)

How can I get rid of the excess fat on my belly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. im 16 years old im about 5ft5 / 5ft6? and i weigh 10stone... FAT I KNOW! what is the best way to get rid of my fatty belly, and tone it up if not get a 6pack abs? i dont want to go to the gym. i would rather do it at home or on the park in my spear time when im at ... (88 words)

How much longer do I have to live like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hello , i'm a 38 year old guy living in nashville ,tn and i've been divorced ever sence i was 30 , i have had some brick walls to climb over to get where i am today i went to two boarding schools when i was younger and got pstd i was rapped by the students ... (285 words)

Have a given him too many chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this might be a pretty long story but please take sum tim to read it and please give me sum advice... Well the thing is, my ex split up with me just over a month ago and now hes asking for me bk but i dno cos let me tell u wat happend wen we were together well we were t... (452 words)

Men and games!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I Have been dating this guy for a few months and recently I have been living with him. He told me from the start that he wasn't emotionally ready for any commitment, but he told me I may find my way to his heart.......... ... (46 words)

I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life. I have a girlfriend and I want to have sex with her but I'm not confident enough. It's not that I have a small penis, it's that I have tight forskin and cannot ejaculate yet. What should I do...? Help... (60 words)

Should I stop answering his emails and risk hurting him all over again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a so-so marriage for 19 years. Thought of leaving many times but stayed for the kids. Recently my ex-fiance from 21 years ago saw my name on a reunion website and emailed me. He wants to keep in touch and be friends but, from what he has written it sounds like ... (126 words)

I'd love to have him back in my life again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner has moved out our home 3 months ago after 5 years together. At the moment he is living with his parents. He says he needs time and space and I know it is no point to make him stay or beg him. I said I understand and agree to let him go, but I think he finds it a bit ... (297 words)

Meds for sex...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Please suggest some medicine by which any lady gets horny and ready for sex?... (14 words)

Lesbian teen very attracted to my half sister...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this subject is frowned on by some, but I need to know if it can ever be right? Can it be made right? And I need some advice on how to approach my sister in the right way? I am 17 and live with my 15 (almost 16) year old half sister and our mother. We are ... (369 words)

How to stop flirting with my gorgeous chemistry teacher???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have a bit of a situation. I have a huge crush on my chemistry. The man is gorgeous and he's awesome which is an added bonus! I'm usually a flirty person with just about everyone. I can't really help it, I'm a natural flirt, but I do it a lot more with him and he ... (157 words)

Her dad doesn't want her to date...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, so I have PRACTICALLY been dating this girl for about 13 months (we have never called each other boyfriend and girlfriend). We do a lot together, especially talk on the phone, haha. She had gotten her phone taken away by her father 2 weeks ago, so we could not tal... (312 words)

How can I make the sex more satisfying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a female, I being a female myself and I just need some help or adivice. Well we recently started having sex and I was wondering how could I make it more satisfying for me? I don't know why but for some reason it isn't as satisfying as I thought it ... (57 words)

How common is it for a woman to be able to orgasm through penetration alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Just a quick survey: I have heard that about 80% of women can’t orgasm through penetrative intercourse alone. I have been with one girl who could and one who couldn’t. So in my very limited experience it’s about 50/50. What do you think it is? ... (57 words)

How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age - I have been seeing another woman for over 20 years. I made a mistake and got married to someone else and I am very unhappy. How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love.... (46 words)

I don't want to break his heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I wrote before about my boyfriend, and I am sure I want to break up with him. The thing is, he loves me like hell and I don't know how to do it! I know I sound desperate, but is there a way to break up with him without breaking his heart? xxx... (54 words)

I helped my friend out, now he's mad at me!

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22 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a friend who gets picked on a lot because people think he's gay (trust me he's not. He had a girlfriend but she dumped him because she got "bored' of him). The "popular" kids shoved him into lockers and beat him up. One day I talking to him (I'm one of the few hadn't ... (130 words)

Are my friends just jealous or genuinely worried about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was a perfect size 8 but because all of my friends are bigger than me (sizes 14+) I thought well I'm never going to be as big as them so I'll eat what I want when I want.. but recently I have put on around TWO stone!! I am now a size 12. A lot of people have been saying I... (196 words)

We're so different that it creates a strain on our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have our fights, but I feel like they are more often than should be in a normal relationship and they are becoming more frequent. I have a very hard time communicating without getting upset so I know that we equally ... (184 words)

In love with my kids... and another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been having the same dream over and over for the last 5 nights. The dream involves both my children, myself, but not my wife, It's another woman in my dream in her place.. We have been having issues for a long while now. We have also been married for 2 years. Peo... (421 words)

Is my period just delayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Situation: my boyfriend and I came close to having sex. We weren't sure if any of his semen got near me, so I took the day after pill just to be safe. Problem is that I took this pill on friday (friday was three days before my period) so, come monday (monday is approxim... (127 words)

Our relationship is being ruined by this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, thanks for reading. I've been going out with this guy for about a month. Let's call him Bob. I love him to bits and he's really sweet. And then there is this other guy. Let's call him Ted. He has this insane crush on me and he won't leave me alone. He asked my out a f... (172 words)

How can I stop her from keeping baking me cookies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 13, my mum keeps baking cookies for me and I don't like them. I've spoken to her about this but she insists on baking them. The other day I opened up my lunch box at school and there they were, her home made cookies. I can't stand the taste of them, they taste bitter, ... (71 words)

Is it legal and okay for me to move in with him when I'm not 18 yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a girl of 17 in a wonderful relationship with a 27 year old guy. I am planning to leave home, transfer my college and move in with my boyfriend in 2 weeks time. My parent are not so happy with my decision but I have been with him for 6 months and realised he's a ... (110 words)

A lot of trust issues between him and I. Any advice?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend, "Pillsbury" for over 9 nine months. We met thru a mutual friend of ours. For the past 7 months he was doing drugs and standing me up and it almost ruined our relationship on several occasions! Now, for 2 months he has been clean from drugs, good ... (214 words)

She said there was no physical attraction...can we overcome this?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All I'm a nice normal guy in his early 30s who's never had a long term relationship and a few short term. I have interests and don't feel I meet the right sort of person for me. I recently went out with a girl from work for just over 1 month. She's similar to me in th... (272 words)

Does her crying mean she cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, please help. My girlfriend has a not so nice sexual history including having affair with a married man and also a history of cheating. I love her so much and won't let go but it upsets me. I asked her when she was with another guy sexually before me and she wouldn't ... (112 words)

I think one of my friends fancies my best guy mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i think one of my friends fancies my best guy mate. i think I love him and he knows how I feel, he fancies me too but is scared to 'tempt the friendship' Do you think he is secretely seeing her? she said she does nt have feelings for him but they have "kissed when drunk... (141 words)

Dud husband: he never wants to take a vacation!

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22 October 2008 (F) age - My husband and I have never taken a trip together (together 20 years), his choice. I take many vacations alone or with friends and love to travel. He won't go out to dinner, movies or parties. I do everything alone. He wonders why I don't want to have sex anymore? duh.... I ... (109 words)

I can't stop using the adult chat room!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 15 and have got many problems. Firstly I can't stop using this adult chatroom. This chatroom is mainly used by men and of course is only for people over 18. When I'm on it I completley reinvent myself and make up story's as I go along. Then theirs who I am, I'v... (174 words)

Can you ever REALLY be friends with an ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for about 6 months and I lost my virginity to him. I admit that I still DO have feelings for him, and on some level always WILL since he was my first, but I would really like to be friends and not have him simply disappear out of my life. People say you really ... (78 words)

Will this have a bad ending?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age - I have been divorced for 10 years and have had an off and on relationship with a woman for the past 5 years. The first time we split up, I think , after 2 years. I feel that we moved in together too fast and it created problems for us both. The second time we split up and she ... (323 words)

Should I stay with my son's father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have a 4 almost 5 year old son who is my life. I am still with the father, though we have broken up twice since our son was born. I love him but I'm not in love with him, and I think he feels the same way, but we are staying together for our son. We NEVER fight, it ... (77 words)

Is he falling for me? He says he doesn't want anything serious....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy we are in the same grad school program together and because of this we see each other everyday. We started getting close and becoming really good friends and one night we had sex. Since then we have had sex a few times. I really like him but he says he doesnt ... (95 words)

What am I doing wrong? I want a boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna sound quite big headed,but i am a good looking girl and im a size 12 im clean and live in a nice home with an ok family. the onli problem is im 16 goin on 17 and i still havnt had a seirious realitonship ive only ever had one,that was when i was 13-15 but we split... (120 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to stop pressuring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My name is Jenny i am a lesbien who has just come out to my family and my girlfiend keeps pushing me further she wants to move in together i have told her that this is going to fast we have only dated for two months and i just dont know what to do? every time we talk abo... (126 words)

In a polyamourus relationship and my female lover is pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been part of a Polyamourus relationship for 5 months now, my girlfriend is married to my best friend and I love her very much. Her husband is completely understanding as he has a girlfriend of his own, and we do nothing that he doesn't know about. we are a very trusting ... (256 words)

What should I do with this great connection we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number out of it, so hes making an ... (108 words)

Where and when did I become public enemy number one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Here is one for you.. You see a girl for two years, she sees someone’s, you say fair enough ask no questions and say if its what you want good luck with it, heartbroken you get on with it. Weeks later she cries saying it is all a mess you are kind offer words of support but ... (579 words)

Any suggestions on clearing up acne?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This isnt a relationship question but i didnt know where else to ask this so any answers would be appreciated thanks! I have black and whiteheads and alot of red bumps on my shoulders and upper back and going to my triceps area, is there anything that i can use that works r... (85 words)

Read her journal: did she sleep with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There is one particular ex my GF has that for whatever reason, more than her others, rubs me the wrong way. I don't like this guy one bit. However, he was her first boyfriend, and stopped dating I think at 16 years old. We are 22 now, but she is still friendly with hi... (371 words)

Why are my periods so out of whack? Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i am starting to be really confused and this story is getting longer and longer. my husband and i have been married for 5 years....2 children. our youngest is 2.5yrs old. any way...aug.4th/08 i had a regular period that lasted 6-7 days...first 3 days being heavy, then slo... (242 words)

Is it possible to change someone's mind about being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - In what way is it possible to change somebodys mind about been single at university? This girl inparticular isnt like alot of other girls. She wants to be single to have fun with her mates, be able to only have to think about herself and not be tied down. Also probably ab... (122 words)

Is she giving me mixed signals to play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend split up about 5 months ago now. We were together for 1 and a half years ish. I believe it ended because she didnt want to be with me because of how i had become, how my life revolved too much around her, how controlling paranoid i became, the nasty things ... (308 words)

What is going through her head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down after her and met her. we ... (271 words)

Am I wrong for letting him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My heart is SO heavy...i was seeing this guy for almost a year now.Things were going great between us but we never spoke about what's going on btwn us, we just went with the flow!im not very good with ambiguity in relationships cos if things are discussed then you can never ... (164 words)

Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand why? Secondly,why do my nip... (106 words)

I don't like to go out drinking, or be be around people who drink. Where can I, then, meet girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Briefly: As I have mentioned before I am overweight, but am trying to work on it. I know I have a good personality and am caring, considerate etc, am a gentleman and so on. Now here are my questions: I am uni, but I don't like to go out drinking, or be be around peo... (146 words)

Problems in my current relationship drove me to another man, who I developed feelings for after a brief affair! Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 11 years and we have 2 young children who we both love very much. We have experienced many problems in our relationship together but we're still struggling along through endless battles. Last year I hit rock bottom after my partners lack of r... (187 words)

Is it legal to have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 17 year old girl and seriously in love with a 27 year old. Is it legal if I have sex with him as I love him so much and hes been saying no to me. Pls help. anonymous.... (45 words)

What can I do to strengthen the weakened parts of my long-term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a long term relationship for over ten years. I met my partner when I was in my mid twenties and had only dated briefly before I met him. We have had few problems until last year. I started to become a bit more sexually adventurous though I am not entirely sur... (1638 words)

Can a person resist temptation and survive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can a person resist temptation and survive? I have fallen in love with someone that I have no business loving. Ya, it started innocent enough. It was a situation where it was SO not a worry, I guess I didn't protect myself, the way I would for guys who come on to you at par... (516 words)

Should I email him at his new job, to apologize?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy I worked with left work 2 days earlier than he should have. He sent the Head Boss an e-mail. Before he left there was a disagreement in the team and after he left I found out that another team member had e-mailed our direct boss at home while on holiday about this, I ... (103 words)

I'm 23 and I'm meeting my new date who is 42, tonight. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys a bit of help hear, My ex bf just rang me to say that one of his and his new partners mates wants to meet me, ive said yes and agreed to meet me on my own in a public place, m ex is 28 and the guy im meeting 2nite is 42 where im 23 is there any advice people could gi... (97 words)

This break up has really messed me up...help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im feeling so rubbish at the moment, so many feelings and emotions are getting to me. My boyfriend left me a month ago, we had been together for about 2 and a half years, and he was my everything. we split up once before and then got back together last year and our relationship ... (486 words)

He is ignoring my texts...should I carry on and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of a couple of months broke up with me a week ago, he originally said he couldnt handle the long distance relationship (whihc was never an issue before) and eventually i dragged it out of him a few days ago that he thought our relationship was going nowhere cos ... (168 words)

My bf says he loves me but he's really better off single. I don't get it *guys opinions please*

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok iv been on and off with my boyfriend 3 times now and he has recently said to me that he is not happy being with me and that he was better off single and i asked him why and he said because i feels like i dont love him and i said 'if you're so unhappy then why are you still ... (98 words)

My bf isn't working and just lives off me! What should I do?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is nearly 23 years old, we have a house which we rent in a village near our parents houses. We've been together for nearly 4 years now and while ive been with him he hasnt had a job. I find myself having to pay for everything for him. He asks me for money all the ... (112 words)

She doesn't want me! I need a solution, besides just moving on!

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in love with my first cousin and have been through a lot with her in a few months of our relationship. We start of well and now in a long distance relationship. I am a posseessive and full of insecurities and that messed up our relationship. Now I told her that I am taking ... (164 words)

His ex is a pathological liar--I am sick of dealing with her! Advice?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey every one, have a bit of a dilemma.my husband's ex is a total bender, i am sick of dealing with her.i want some help. let me start. she befriended me as soon as she found out who i was and as our children went to the same school i wud see her every day. she was gettin a ... (425 words)

He cheats with his ex constantly. Puzzled and confused.

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the case. My boyfriend and I have already been dating for almost 7months, actually it's our monthsary tomorrow. He has been with his ex for almost 4 years, though within that 4 years he's constantly cheating with that girl. I always ask him if he really loves me,... (172 words)

My gf doesn't want sex that much...has the spark gone?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 years and at the moment I feel like we are an old married couple. We only have sex once a week, when we do it is amazing but it leaves me wanting more. We are only young after all! We have tried all sorts of things in bed, but her view is, ... (154 words)

How long after taking the last pill does your period come?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started taking the contraceptive pill last month and have finished my 21 pills. I was wondering how long after taking the last pill does your period come? Thankyou ... (36 words)

Which cousin should I have sex with?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating two guys who are often cousins, they are both very cute, and looks alike, they speaks the same way and has similar characters, the problem is i love both both the very same way and i do not want to let go of any of them. but then things has to change and am the ... (146 words)

How can I help my cousin?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my cousin is just 16, but she is dating a 24 businessman, the problem is she wants to know wether this guy really loves her or he is just playing around with her , she is not really in love with him but she is getting to like him too much that she wants to see him almost ... (76 words)

Is he using the excuse of phoning his daughter a smokescreen for talking to his ex?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my boyfreind nearly a yr.but the problem is his ex!!!they have a little girl together and he says he never rings or txts the ex any more.but when we first met i find out that he had rang her 43 times in 1 day and when i asked him about this he said it was to ... (96 words)

Can we continue to live together as a threesome?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a few years now and recently i met a girl and she moved in with me and my wife, i have got children with my wife and after sitting down and talking for a long while we decided it would be best that we stay together but introduce someone else into our ... (129 words)

Am I too tight or is he too soft?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried to have sex with my first bf a year ago, only he couldnt seem to enter me. But then i tried it with someone over the summer and it actually worked, so i figured problem solved. Except now the problem is back. And this time im in a relationship with a guy i really love, ... (132 words)

Are there any ways to distinguish whether or not he is attracted to me?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been enrolled in a French class for the past couple months. My professor can't be more than 6 years older than me, and I feel as if there's a connection between us but I'm unsure of how to approach it. Obviously he's not going to make the first move since he doesn't know ... (403 words)

Can anyone tell me if this is an orgasm?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a loving relationship for 5 years and we are both very open minded where sex is concerned but i'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm. (Please don't reply you'll know if you've had one - that doesn't help). I get to a point where every muscle in my body tight... (173 words)

Why are men so distant with a woman who they have been with in the past?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age - i have slept with him off and on for over 30 years. it has been an off and on thing. he was married now divorced and im married. we have loved each other since we have been 19. i saw him a few weeks ago and found out that he has a new woman in his life and when he saw me he ... (81 words)

What should I do to make this right?

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22 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my best friend is kind of obsessed with this guy we go to school with named ''todd'' who's a year older than us and is a sophomore. she knows practically every single thing about him: his hobbies,b-day,class schedule, middle name, everything. well, the other day she found out ... (96 words)

How will I cope with his 16 year-old slob of a son?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i just dont know what to do i met this wonderful man in rehab (imagine that)alittle over 4 years ago his problem was alcohol mine alcohol and meth. When we met i had just got out of prison fresh off the bus. i had been busted for drugs two times lost my kids just been down a ... (313 words)

I can't orgasm. How is it done?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i dont know if this is normal or not. But I have been sexually active for about 5 years and i have a boyfriend and we engage in sexual activity often. I have never been able to cum. And i mean Never. Even if hes doing all he can to satisfy me he cant. It feels good and ... (108 words)

Does he really love me if he can do that to me?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years now and i recently realised that he started going out with my workmate as well, I asked him about it and said he wasn't serious in the relationship, he called the lady on her mobile in my presence and told her its ... (94 words)

Guys, what do you like girls to do with their tounges in your mouth?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, i no its lame, but ive never been kissed like all my friends have. when we were 12, they played spin the bottle every weekend at the skating rink (yes, im from a small town in the midwest), while i was/am busy living a sheltered life with the worlds most strickest parental ... (215 words)

He had the chance to walk away and be with his "secret relationship" but he tries to win me back, do I accept him?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am engaged to be married to a man I have been with for almost 3 years. I love him whole heartedly and more than life itself, but we have some trust issues that recently came acrossed. I was promoted through my job so we had to relocate- I thought it was a good thing for ... (179 words)

We can't stop fighting, how can we get better?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 9 months now and i am completely in love and i know that he is too, but we fight almost every couple of days, and not little fights, most of the time we say we are going to break up (even though we both know we wont really do it). An exampl... (643 words)

If we are just going out, what can I do to get her in the mood for sexual things?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I sexually turn on a girl??? for example, my friend and I were hanging out together, and me being a guy, i was basically turned on by looking at her, lol. However, she did not want to do anything sexual that night. My question is, if we are just hanging out, is ... (126 words)

My boss says he loves me, but its more of a sick infatuation.

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boss that frequently hits on me and claimed that he loved me. It's very uncomfortable and I tried to make it clear i was not into dating him. he write messages with strange "i love you's" or things like "When we are married in vermont," or other strange things. ... (201 words)

Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?

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22 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely to happen to man and to woman? M... (158 words)

(I'm in love with this older professor, but I'm married to someone else!

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Please don't judge, but I am in love with my professor. I don't know what kind of love it is, if it is how a daughter loves her dad, or how a woman loves a man, but I have been in love with him for over a year now. I am 21, and he is 58. It's crazy, because,... (575 words)

I have personal issues about this woman from his past! Why am I like this?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my Fiance, and we are getting married in 5 months. There is a relationship in his past that really bothers me. She was divorced and with a child. She was a bartender at a trashy young bar and lived at home with her parents. She also casually did hard drugs (as did ... (439 words)

Angry because he won't have sex but he still masturbates daily! Help!

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm angry at my boyfriend, he masturbates daily and lies about it. We don't have sex anymore and when I ask him about it he comes up with a different answer every time. I don't know if he's lying or not. We are always talking about breaking up and part of me thinks he's just ... (147 words)

My gf's sex drive is lower than mine! Is that unusual?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and my girlfriend of two years is 34, she is rarely the one to initiate sex and seems to have a lower sex drive than me. recently she told me that she could go months without needing an orgasm, but she has one nearly every time that we have sex, which is usually 2-4 times ... (81 words)

Three College Roomates...One BIG Secret...Advice Needed!

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay.... I'm looking for some positive advice on a delicate situation that's developed. Steve, my dorm-mate and i are sophmores in college. We have been best friends since we were freshmen in high school. We purposefully went to the same college so we could room together for ... (442 words)

I have an unusual vagina opening..what can I do about this?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, i'll start here, i love my boyfriend. i'm almost 17, and he wants to get engaged, i know, sounds soon, but we really love each other and we've known each other since the beginning of january, fallen in love. me and him, we can read each other's minds, saying the same ... (242 words)

She just told me she was forced to go down on a guy, how long do I have to wait to ask her to go down on me again?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Over the course of our 13 month relationship my GF has gone down me maybe 10 times, and only once did she stick it out til I came. She swallowed, and it was glorious. When I ask her to do it, she usually obliges, but rarely initiates it herself. I found out last week that o... (203 words)

I have problems talking to girls..any tips on changing this?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have problems talking to girls. I guess its that i am very shy and always think of things that can go wrong if i do talk to her. I am scared of rejection and of being embarrassed. I dont think i am that bad looking, and girls talk to me alot, but i have a hard time asking ... (75 words)

I can't stop phoning and texting him!! Help!

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm seeing someone new now. i've just come out of a 2 year relationship.............i can't stop ringing him, texting him all the time. how do i get a handle on the crazy????... (32 words)

We got involved and she went to break it off with her bf! Haven't heard from her..should I be worried?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I started to see a girl 3 months ago thing escalated pretty quickly she practically lives at my place over 5 or 6 nights a week its great we started as friends and i knew she had a boyfriend oversees after on month of friendship it turned into this dating situation half w... (119 words)

My anus is bleeding from a foreign object. Too embarrassed to go to the doctor..will I be ok?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a young woman. I have stuck a foreign object in my anus and it started bleeding last night. It is still bleeding when i try and make bowl movements. Its only been a day but i am worried that it will keep bleeding. I know i probably only ripped tissue and it needs time to ... (91 words)

She can't date me until she's 16! What can we do?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i have liked my friend for 1 year or less but she cant go out with anyone till she is 16 and we r the same age wat should i do should i take her out to the movies but not for a date... (44 words)

Do I have cause to think he might be cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I made arrangements with my boyfriend and some of our friends to go out for my birthday last weekend (Sat eve/all day Sun). Up until the Wednesday of last week he seemed very enthusiastic, but then he text me saying 'shall we see what the weather is like on Sun?' in reference ... (737 words)

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22 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Just out of my mind... Whats so fasinating about pornography? Now i want to know this.... Would i be able to move out of my parents house at 17 years of age? Even if i had a well paid job, and money to support myself? I would really like to know. -Thanks... (60 words)

He's not fulfilling his promises to me...should I still date him or not?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I work in the nightclub industry as a dancer for three years, and have begun to really hate it. Then about a month ago, I met a guy in there whom i liked, and he promised to take care of my bills and whatever i needed, so long as i didn't strip. He has a good job, so i ... (713 words)

I'm 2 days late! Should I worry?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 my boyfriend and I had protected sex almost a month ago now I'm supposed to be on my period but I'm 2 days late and really worried I know it sounds bad and yes my parents are very religious...I have been with him for more then a year and it was my first and only. I did ... (98 words)

I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he wanted to end our relationship ... (111 words)

Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?

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22 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go for that girl in real life, woul... (80 words)

I think he thinks I'm not interested, but I am. What should I do?.

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22 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very confused and have no idea what this man wants. I met a guy a month a go and we went on couple of dates. First date was perfect but the second he acted like a jerk. I stopped talking to him because i didnt want someone like that in my life. Well he kept texting me ... (203 words)