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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Hurt and confused about about my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that I met about 5 years ago. At that time he had a serious girlfriend. Three years ago they broke up and we started hanging out all of the time. About a year ago, we were drunk and we ended up sleeping together. This continued to happen when we would go out, ... (305 words)

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for read my post, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but my problem with him is his lack of planning our dates, we both have a really tight ... (377 words)

What can couples do under 16 without going on the wrong side of the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I r both 14 and we both love eachothers company. But once we we were both at a sleep over at a friends house and we ended up sleeping in each others arms, with me wearing nothing but boxers. Neither of us minded excpt that one of my friends took a photo of us ... (100 words)

I wanna know if she's putting up a facade, or if these dreams are just something I can brush off and forget about.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who's been my friend for years, we're best friends. We tell each other our secrets like what guys we like and what was on our report cards. Twice she's told me that she's had erotic dreams concerning her and me. Other than that she's like lots of guys, and I can ... (87 words)

Now that we've split up he wants his money back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age - I was in relationship for 6 years. Last year money was getting tight so I borrowed some from my boyfriend. I twice offered to pay him back but no he said, you keep it. Now we have split up he wants it back!... (47 words)

Help! I don't want my girlfriend pregnant!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 years of age and sexually active. I'm the type of person that worries over everything; and i mean obsesssively. I've looked and researched into ways of making sure i'm careful as i have a very successful life which isn't ready for a pregnancy. I am aware that pre-c... (268 words)

He displays all the signs of being gay, do you think he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl. There's a guy in my class that's always hugging other guys and touching them awkwardly. Also, he talks like a girl (he has a guy voice but he talks like how a girl would talk) and sometimes he walks with his hand on his hip. He's never shown affection to girls ... (86 words)

I can't decide between two guys...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant decide between two guys! one is 3 years older than me, a complete sweetheart, my potential soul mate BUT THERE ARE NO BUTTERFLIES!!! he has just appeared in my life after transferring up from down south. we went on this amazing spontaneous "date" which ended in us find... (288 words)

My new neighbour is drop dead gorgeous! Should I ask him out???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there Dear Cupid's....I'm 40 have been divorced for 11 years, have had a few relationships since but nothing I consider special. My children are now late teens, so I'm pretty much a free agent. Well...about 6 months ago a new neighbour moved in...and well he's drop dead ... (142 words)

What can I do to stop ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and recently lost my virginity whilst drunk. I was nervous a lot before having sex but I finally got over it and did it with a random girl where I lasted about 45 mins. Since then I have recently got a girlfriend. The first two times I had sex with her I lasted quite ... (169 words)

His ex has muscled in and spoiled the surprise I had for my husband's birthday. What should I do? I feel really upset about this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I don't know what to do...I am married with a man which I love..But he have his ex wife and 3 kids..We are happy, kids are coming to us he is going to see them everything is good.. Next week is his birthday... ex wife call him and she says they are making Party in his birt... (120 words)

How do MALE teachers feel when female students develop crushes on them and it becomes obvious and apparent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!! How do MALE teachers feel when female students develop crushes on them and it becomes obvious and apparent? Do they find it frustrating, time consuming etc. I'm asking this because i have fallen in love with a teacher who taught me last year but left and dur... (168 words)

For the boys: What would you do if you found out your male room mate wore a thong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This is for the boys If You a male, shared a room with your best male mate and he was wearing a thong how would you react? Would you say something immediately or wait until the morning to say something to him, and would you make a reaction if you have always known he ... (85 words)

Is my ex confused? He's blowing hot and cold all the time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I call my ex sometimes,and When he picks up the phone we talk. When we first broke up he would never answer my phone calls AT ALL!!! The last time I spoke to him, I was tearful and upset, because he said that he was with someone else and that he was getting married. That was ... (159 words)

I am afraid that people will give me a bad time at school because she's a bit big.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right, there's 2 girls that fancy me. They're both friends. I like one of them but I am afraid that people will give me a bad time at school like people calling me and stuff, (because she's a bit big) and she won't go out with me or doing any thing with me because her friend ... (69 words)

How do I get over this? I am so angry at him! Should I believe him? How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age - Three years a go my husband and I lost our daughter to a life long illness. When she was dying (the last year of her life) he could not handle it so he spent a lot of time in the bars. I have recently found out that he was acting very much like a single man. Buying other ... (207 words)

Love confusion? What do I start to do to get him out of my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, i have liked this guy since the 8th grade. i was'nt allowed to date until i was 16, so we just had to wait. well 22 days after my 16th birthday we started datind and it lasted for about a month. i broke up with him for no apparent reason. (this guy goes thru relationships ... (213 words)

My husband never shows me any affection...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a beautiful love cum arranged marriage (my husband was engaged to other gal he didn't like, went against whole family took 3 to 4 years solid to convince all ..its so romantic and like movie story)...its been 2 years..Ive a baby even from wedlock............my problem is ... (221 words)

Is he stringing me along, or does he just find it hard to talk about emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I would love some views on my relationship situation. I have been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year. We are both late thirties/easrly forties, both divorced, and I have two children. He is very loving and affectionate when we are together, which is alternate weekends due ... (497 words)

Should I give him a chance???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just got out of an extremely self destructive relationship that I was in for 2 years. Now there is this guy who I had dated for about a week in 9th grade. Then I broke up with him and he took it really really hard. Now I'm 17 and we just started hanging out again. he ... (214 words)

I have tried everything to show him we need time together alone and am getting nowhere but I know he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have a young child together, we split up 2 years ago during which time alternate weekends were agreed for shared parenting. Since getting back together this year we live apart and I have tried to arrange dates and asked him for us to go out and spend adult ... (171 words)

I want to get pregnant very badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on ortho tri cyclen for four months, I decided to stop because it was making me very emotional and tired all the time (wierd). One month later to this day I have been having light periods (seven cycles to be exact). I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative, what ... (66 words)

My wife and I are separated, and I'm in love with her 34 year old daughter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) age - My wife and I are separated, and I'm in love with her 34 year old daughter. I have not said anything to her daughter about the way I feel, except to tell her that I love her and respect her. Is this wrong if she loves me and we become a couple?... (54 words)

Am I a sociopath???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem, I love relationships, I love being in love but I have issues staying faithful and lying... am I a sociopath. I have been with this guy for 8 months and in this time we spent 6 months apart as he was working and I cheated on him with 5 guys one I slept with ... (132 words)

I beat his score on the video game, now he won't talk to me! What's the big deal???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me were playing video games with his friends at his house. They were taking turns playing and one of his friends who was playing against my boyfriend gave me a turn. Usually I'm not very good at video games. The next thing I knew it I beat his high score by a ... (116 words)

My wife cheated on me a couple months ago...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I will make this quick and easy. My wife cheated on me a couple months ago. Is it possible that if there is semen somewhere in my house I can get it tested to see if it is the guy I think it is?or is 2 months too long?... (53 words)

Is this the build up to an orgasm that I'm preventing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my partner have sex, it's amazing. Only, I haven't yet reached an orgasm. When we're mid-action, I sometimes have to tell him to stop, just because it's TOO intense, and feels TOO good - it's weird. Is this the build up to an orgasm that I'm preventing? ... (50 words)

Is this abuse? Should I get out of my relationship now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I get out of my relationship now? I am currently taking a break from my relationship with my boyfriend because I am working on issues from my past. My question is if he is abusive. Since we've been together for about 7 months a few things have happened that i just can't ... (435 words)

We had great sex - but am I in love with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really difficult to write about because I'm hurting so much but I need advice. About 2 months ago I became romantically involved with my best friend. We basically grew closer and closer and then he moved in to a flat literally 5 mins walk from my flat, and we began... (270 words)

Is taking responsibility for his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know if my ex is sincerely apologetic. I broke up with him a year ago, and just emailed him yesterday asking if he is at all sorry for how he treated me. He said he made a huge mistake in leaving to Florida without me for two months right after we got engaged and is ... (268 words)

Could he tell I was a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was too ashamed to tell this guy I was a virgin and we ended up in bed, he fingered me (which hurt!) then put on a condom and we went to have sex. Thing is he kept losing his erection (from coming quite a lot before and being on medication for a cold) and said I was really ... (147 words)

I get orgasms from porn but not from my boyfriend. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't get turned on at all nor do I climax during sex. I usually get wet at the beginning but after a short while I dry up and I lose interest and things start to get mechanical. I just can't seem to be in the mood for sex. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with my sex ... (189 words)

Can I find out who the semen belongs to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello,i recently found out my wife cheated on me about 2 months ago. is there any way i can find out who it was with? if i find semen anywhere in my house can i some how get it tested to see who it belongs to.what if i have a suspect and have him compare his semen to that in ... (78 words)

He's not my kind of guy. Should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just met this guy who I'm crazy about, he asked me out and everything was great. The thing is, he's a LOT different to guys I normally go for and he expects very different things from a relationship, and it would take a while for me to get used to. I really want the ... (101 words)

When does "No" actually mean "Yes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello! Are there any guys out there who have been turned down by a woman only for this woman to contact them a few months later expressing a change of heart? In other words, have any guys experienced a "When no [eventually] means yes." situation? Also, if a woman turns do... (108 words)

Is it wrong for me to continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am about to turn 40 and have been in a non-committed relationship with a man, who's about to turn 50, for the past 3 months. We've been on a few 'dates' but most of our meetings have been at his house for tv or coffee,talking, and then we'd end up in bed. We work together... (268 words)

What should I say when he tells me this stuff?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I've known this guy for couple of weeks. Our first date was great. We text almost everyday after that. Our 2nd date wasn't so good. He acted like a jerk. I wasn't going to talk to him again but he kept texting me asking if I liked him and if I wanted to see him again. I ... (156 words)

Will he leave her and come back to me - even though I've filed for divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband an i after 4 years of marriage we getting devorce,i fall for my devorce papers 6months ago,we have 2 years old daughter,now we're separated,it all happend before 2 years when i discover that he was with another woman,anyway that story is finish the moment when i ... (127 words)

How long should I give him to make up his mind about our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has just been on a 6 wk tour of Canada with work and came home 2 weeks ago to tell me that he no longer wanted our marriage. He said that he did not want committment anymore. He had enjoyed leading a single life whilst out there. He also told me that he had not ... (234 words)

I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my hair and things, the expr... (81 words)

3 magic words. How long before he says them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

She gets angry easily. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend gets angry/annoyed easily and sometimes when I'm with her, she seems to get angry with me rather easily, or maybe she doesnt, but I think maybe I overeact and take her being annoyed/angry personally. I lover her dearly, and know that sometimes if she has troub... (181 words)

Why do I go soft at the critical moment?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years (on and off). Im 16 and she's 15. its a little concern of mine which could turn into a majour concern. We've done stuff other than sex and its all gone fine but when it comes to intercourse, im not 'hard enough' to... (128 words)

Could there be something missing from my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Let me start by saying I'm happily married. We've been together for over 11 years. My husband is the best man on Earth and the best thing that ever happend to me. We work hard, both travel a lot, made good careers and have had no time for kids... yet. Now to the situ... (378 words)

Shall I just move on because he's not interested or is he just shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been getting to know a boy for two months now. we meet up, sometimes alone but usually with mates. The thing is nothing has happend between us, we only hug when saying goodbye and we text each other almost everyday. last night i told him how i feel on the phone. he said i ... (90 words)

I'm 16, I love the guy I met in the Internet but I said 'yes' to another guy that lives closer to me, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and recently i met i guy on the internet.hes twenty and goes to university.but another guy ive met asked me to be with him and i said yes but the problem is i love the other one but he lives a bit far from me and the other one lives closer to me but i want the one that... (79 words)

If a guy's fiancee makes out topless with another guy, is she cheater? Is she immoral?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - If a guy's fiance makes out topless with another guy in his bed when her fiance lives in another part of the state, is she a cheater? A s__t??... (29 words)

Can I recive my answer in my personal email or will be posted here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I recive my answer in my personal email or will be posted here?... (14 words)

What will happen with our marriage? Will things sort themselves out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband are married 4 years, we have a daughter 2 years old, her date of birth is 01.august.1976.in the last 2 years we have had problems, I discovered that he was with another woman and I told him to live from our home. I was angry. 6 months ago we decided to get ... (181 words)

He said he'll give me a second chance and will ask me out again if I make him like me more than he does now! I'm confused what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy named Matt has been my boyfriend for nearly 6 months(since april 7th). I always ask him if he loves me or likes other girls. I always heard about him flirting with other girls. We always do stuff, except for sex. But then last day he dumped me(on the phone) for keep ... (533 words)

Why can he not cum all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, we have a 3 year old son together and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our second child. Just recently I've noticed he doesn't always cum during sex, we usually have sex about three times a week. A couple of months ago we would have sex ... (128 words)

I have so many questions... please give me your advice and thoughts here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He is a childish, sensitive, gentle,caring and affectionate man …Our long distance didn’t last for couple of weeks… communication has always been difficult as I am not good with long distance relationship… He and his ex have been together for 2 years before they broke up for a ... (1079 words)

I'm always the person that dispenses the advice to my friends.. but when it comes to my life, I feel absolutely and utterly clueless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm always the person that dispenses the advice to my friends.. but when it comes to my life, I feel absolutely and utterly clueless. I feel stuck inside a huge rut with no way out.. I feel paralysed where I am. If you could give me some advice, I would really appreciate ... (967 words)

Do you think it's over between me and him or do you think it's just a blip in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and those 2 years have been great. But over the last few weeks we've been arguing a lot. We never really used to argue a lot and whenever we did we sorted it out and went back to how we used to be. But this time it's been differen... (158 words)

Why won't he tell people of our plans to marry and why is he not as affectionate with me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend of one year proposed to me last fall. We are both 55 years old, have a lot in common and for the most part get along very well. The plan was to marry this upcoming spring. As of yet, he hasn't given me an engagement ring or made any anouncment to our families or ... (175 words)

Should I get my ex a birthday gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem. I can't think, I don't know what to do, I don't even eat :s Me and my girlfriend broke up a while back and I really want her back. We were doing fine, adorable couple, all of the sudden she broke up with me. She didn't even tell me why. Her birthd... (93 words)

Why do I miss someone who cares for me so little, and is always very mean? Or better yet how can I fall out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all. I have been in love with the woman of my dreams for a while now. But we also have broken up and been separated for a while now too. She has been with many an me few.... and yet my feelings for her are still strong. She shows no intrest in me or even how im doing at all ... (167 words)

I get too turned on about sex!! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am female 18, and i have had sex multiple times before, but it seems more and more that whenever i get horny or turned on just a bit (either by thoughts or whatever) that i start to excrete some cum, which i can not control, and sometimes its a lot of it. Is there any way i ... (130 words)

My ex has messed me up and I need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hi need some advice so here goes...i met my gf may 2007 she is 29 im 36 to be honest i was not really in to her to start but feelings developed she told me about her past and how she was raped 5 yrs ago , ourrelationship was always rocky especially when alcohol was involved we ... (362 words)

He said he'd never rape or hurt me! I believe him....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

5 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, Im a 15 year old girl and iv'e been going with with a 22yr old male on the internet for about 2yrs this year. We love eachother so much, I live in australia, he lives in canada. He's told his mum,sister,nieces and nephews about me, I want to tell my parents abo... (180 words)

What does this guy want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I normally don't write about things like this, but I am confused. I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 years. I have loved him since I have known him. I couldn't or wouldn't act on my feelings for him for two reasons. One, I was dating someone at the time and ... (387 words)

Am I bored or is the chemistry lacking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a date with this guy he was a pefect gentlemen.....we went to beach and we talked for hours...........he knows how to express himself very well.......we had a lot in common.......I mean a lot....he is something I was looking for........but im feeling a friend vibe ... (114 words)

I found pictures of him wearing my satin panties!

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in so much shock!! I've been with my loving boyfriend for almost two years. I just found pictures of him in several of my satin panties. He's positioned in different ways to show off the panties he's wearing. Some pictures actually have him wearing matching fishnet... (211 words)

I like straight and gay porn. Am I bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 19yr female. I think Im bi curious, but Im confused. I masturbate and get off to both straight and gay(guy/guy and girl/girl) porn, i dont know what this means? Is this normal?... (35 words)

Any helpful sites on giving blow jobs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I have a pretty awkward question here. I gave my first blowjob ever a few days ago. TBH, I had previously read up on them online and such, and though I'd be pretty good. The problem was, my mouth was a lot smaller than I expected, or his penis was too big. Either way, ... (158 words)

There's a mosquito bite on my eyelid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am worried about an insect bite that had bitten me on my eye lid. i think it was a mosquito. now my eye lid is red, swollen, and itchy and i don't even have an eye lid anymore. it's only the first day now. it feels uncomfortable. please help, i need to know what to do. will i ... (95 words)

Is it normal to have a swollen vagina after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - is it normal to have a swollen vigina after sex? what does it mean?... (15 words)

I get mad when she messes with other guys so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright, now I know this question probably won't be answered as seriously as most of the other questions, seeing that I am really young. However, I found this girl at my school, I've liked her for a year, she's liked me for a year. It used to be just a smile and a short ... (371 words)

Am I going into this FWB thing with the right mindset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met this guy and I just want to know if I am going into this FWB thing with the right mindset...really, all I want is someone to mess around with and stuff, maybe occassionally cuddle afterwards. I mean, a boyfriend would be nice but at this point in my life I have so much ... (92 words)

There are two girls in my life....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There are two girls in my life. The first, she and I met a while ago, through friends, kept in touch through emails and MSN and the likes, always talked of meeting up, just the two of us, but it never really happened. She met some guy, and out of the blue started dating h... (392 words)

How can I make him cum quicker?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, when I give my boyfriend a hand job I usually swap hands because my arm gets sore after a while... but recently I broke my arm, so I can't do this. Is there a way I can get my boyfriend to cum before my arm gets sore when I give him a handjob...in otherwords is there ... (69 words)

I found out some bad things about him. What now?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in my first serious relationship for the past 4 years. I started dating the guy with I just turned 16. I had never been sexually active until him and to this day I am 19 and have still only had one partner, but I later found out some things from him. After about 2 ... (296 words)

I caught my wife cheating with my brother!

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5 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I caught my wife cheating me with my brother. We manage fix marriage but I'm still worried that she'll do it again. We two have kids (ages 1-4) and don't ruin their childhoods by getting a divorce. What I should do? ... (41 words)

He broke it off and now I'm suing him!

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My exfiancee left to his bachelor weekend only to return and tell me he no longer wanted to marry me. He said he had doubts. He never made it clear what those doubts were. He broke it off and now Im suing him for money I spent on the wedding. He recently wrote a letter ... (110 words)

Why do I miss someone like this?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss him, this is so painful, why? My bf and I broke up again, it's been on and off for about a year. This time he told me he never wanted to talk to me again, he was done with me, that I'm delusional and off my rocker. I know he thinks he has tried his hardest and has just... (319 words)

Should I stay or move on? She has a boyfriend....

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5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this girl for 2 months but she has a bf. She says she she wants both of us, but her bf doesnt know anything yet. She said that i make her happy. Do i convince her to date me or do i just move on? - All her friends like me rather than him, and he has alot... (114 words)

What should I do with what she told me?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend just told me last night that her brother let his best friend do nasty things to her when she was only eight years old. She also told me that her brother made her give him and his friend oral sex when she was eight. When she told me this I broke down and started ... (73 words)

If I had a way out, I'd take it!

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been Married for 10 years, and we dated for 8 before. If I had a way out I would take it, but with 2 kids and a faltering economy, I can't see a way. Some of this is finance, we live with seperate checkbooks, he doesn't have accses to my income and he doesn't offer an... (298 words)

I wanna have my own baby!

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im 13 and i wanna hav sex i already told ma mom to put me on the pill. she already made the appointment. i wanna have a baby wat do i do. i raised ma little brother all by myself and i loved it i want to do it again but with ma own baby. ... (56 words)

Is he giving me the proper signals here to start dating?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. So I work full time and recently we got this new guy in. He's really nice and everything and we get on really well. But I have noticed, that he is always calling me pet names, such as 'gorgeous', 'doll' and other such things but he doesn't call any of the other girls na... (193 words)

Do you think its right?!

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5 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well here's the thing, I'm gay right! I have a boyfriend who I been with for 1 year and 5 months. We live together and currently planning our wedding! I have one problem with him?! My problem with him is that he tells me that his family and friends mean more to him than his ... (241 words)

If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?

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5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?... (27 words)

Breaking up for the first time--and for the first time, online. Tips? Help?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never broken up with someone before. I ended up having to move--and overnight--with my 1st bf and we lost all contact without even wanting to break up. My second BF broke up with me. I walked up to his locker on valentines day just to say hi and walk with him to bre... (326 words)

What does 'putting it behind her and moving on" mean? Did she break up with him?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just told my friend her boyfriend cheated on her. She was shocked, as I expected, and told me she could never be with someone she can't trust but she was also in denial, as I also expected. However, when I went to ask her later how she was, the response I got was: "I'm p... (91 words)

I'm wondering how to go about making new girlfriends

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering how to go about making new girlfriends. I'm a 24 year old girl, and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now. I have always had trouble making new girl friends, but have never had any trouble with male friend. I moved away from my home town to be with ... (360 words)

Is it wrong to have a friendship with a married guy like this?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago, I made a business deal with a military base near Nebraska. One of the guys was pretty friendly with me, he was rather flirty to the extent of making me feel he liked me. I felt like chemistry like I had with no one in my life before. I was crushed when I s... (305 words)

How do I get him to open up more?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am in desperate need of advice, I'm having a lot of relationship problems. My boyfriend had a bad break up with his ex and I think he didn't get closure. He's very to himself and doesnt like to share personal things with me, even though he opens up sometimes it's not ... (116 words)

Please help me find out how to get this guy to like me.

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - please respond - hi, I'm katie and I'm in sixth grade I know I know I shouldn't be dating in sixth grade but there is a guy I really like but I don't know if he likes me back and this is the worst time for me to like him because his girlfriend just broke up with him and I think ... (208 words)

Does anyone know what EMO means?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. I'm a 12 going on 13 and I want to know what is emo. My ex boyfriend was emo. but he stopped 4 me. He won't tell me what emo really is. I really want to know so I'm asking you. What is emo?... (45 words)

Should my partner and I of 6 months (age difference 18-25) have a baby?

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5 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have a baby. I'm 18, and my boyfriend is 25. I know I sound like a massive bogan saying this - but I'm not. I work in a hospital and I am currently studying nursing and health services managment and a good university in Queensland. My boyfriend has a stable job and ... (300 words)

I feel like a failed mother as my son masturbates all the time.

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5 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am I concerned mother, my son is 14 years old, and he masturbates, but the thing is that, he masturbates anywhere he wants, last night we were having dinner, whith my husband, my other son and my two daughters, and he just started masturbating while dinner, he has done this ... (105 words)

Attention to all the Dear Cupid Uncles and Aunts

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5 October 2008 (?) age - Dear Uncles and Aunts I have noticed sometimes some of you are replying to questions that are so outdated. I cannot help but ask, don't you look at the dates of the questions? It is annoying to see some of you answering these outdated questions, not to mention how sometimes... (159 words)

More than just friends???

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5 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I just recently broke up with my girlfriend, it was a sour end and she had just been with someone else. It was each of ours first relationship and first person to have been with. We had been going out for 2 years, but fought alot near the end over being able to se... (820 words)