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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He went to go down on me and then stopped.. now I feel like the most insecure person in the world.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have to put this bluntly, otherwise i'm going to go off into loads of upset drabble and i don't want to bore you with that... I've always had trouble with my 'private' area, as a female i'm so worried all the time about what it looks like and smells like and even tastes ... (390 words)

I feel as though he resents me over uneven income.

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13 October 2008 (F)

age - Is there a solution to uneven finances? I am thinking that men have a harder time jobless and at a lower level income ( unemployment income) for the most part. Any ideas? I sense my boyfriend (well we are separated over this) harbors quite a lot of resentment and even ang... (183 words)

I fell in love with a man.. but he's really a woman... and now I'm so confused. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure where to begin and not sure of what kind of advice I'm looking for either. I met a wonderful 'man' online 8 years ago. He was the most caring, thoughtful, sweet and honest person I have ever met. We had a history... a love that was just everlasting. Somewhere along the ... (194 words)

How can I feel better after breaking up with my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i have a problem about me and my ex. we were recentley dating but he says he doesnt want a girlfriend at the moment. im not sure what to do i am still madly in love with him and i didnt want to brewak up with him. he said nothing would ever tear us apart. i trusted his... (97 words)

Do you think it's worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it woth it?? I like this boy so much.his names casey.I loved him since 8th grade.hes kinda short,has pale skin,freckals,has curly red kurly hair that like an afro,blue eyes and wears black punk clothes.he dies his hair brown.he looks across from chucky,a clown and carret... (180 words)

I'm trying hard to get over my ex but he keeps reeling me back in.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! I am in need of some good advice about a relationship with my ex boyfriend! We broke up about two months ago as I cheated on him. However we agreed to stay friends. He still talks to me a lot and always flirts with me calls me "hunni" and tells me he regrets breaking up ... (171 words)

More physically intamate with my platonic friend than with any boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend, whom I have known through mutual friend for a long time, but have become very close with in past few years and especially after his fathers death. I thought at one point, that he may have romantic feeling towards me and I towards him, so I asked if he would ... (371 words)

How do I go about living with someone again and trusting them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age - hello I am almost 46 yrs was married for 16 years which ended around 10 years ago leaving me with a settlement which got me somewhere to live which was mine (no mortgage) then i met my recent ex partner - sold my house , put the money into one with him - but he took all t... (246 words)

I feel like I'm suffocating. I don't know what I can do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if this is long or boring but I am really in need of some guidance. I live in Canada and have been dating my boyfriend Matt for two years. He lives in Ireland and for these two years, we've maintained the long distance relationship. We've been dating since I was ... (484 words)

My parents have just split up and my mum has moved out. I am having to watch my dad and sister fall apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I know that this isn't really a relationship problem, but my parents have just split up and my mum has moved out. I am having to watch my dad and sister fall apart. I honestly do not know what to do. All suggestions welcome. thankyou. j.p.mcveigh... (48 words)

I want to go to the prom but not without my girlfriend, how can I work around this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Prom is coming up. I am a junior and my girlfriend is a freshman. At both of our schools you HAVE to be a junior or senior to attend. I want to go but I do not want to go without her or without a date.... (48 words)

My long distance girlfriend wants to break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well it all started a year and half ago. I was 21 and she was 18. We met over a friends house. She chased after me and we evetnually started dating and were happy. We didnt see that we had much in common at first and almost broke up after a month but we stuck through it and ... (1161 words)

I really like him... a lot, but does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started to talk to my ex again and it's bringing back old feelings. I've called him every day and find it soo easy to talk to him, we talk about anything and everything. He tells me about the girls he likes and I tell him about the girls and guys I like. But last week he ... (167 words)

Could I ever tell him about these dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is weirding me out now. theres this guy on my bus every sunday afternoon. he's quite cute and seems to be my type. (shy, likes books, messy hair, wears hats :D) and for the past couple of weeks ive had dreams about him while asleep and awake about him being... (206 words)

Is my vagina too large for my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts, I am worried that my vagina is too large for my boyfriend. I am 30 yrs old and have not had any children, and he has a large penis (it must be 7 or 8 inches and is quite wide - certainly the largest I have encountered). Although I really enjoy sex, It doesn't ... (247 words)

My husband disappears for hours at a time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband disappears for hours at a time. Some times he is gone half the day. He tells me he is going out for and ten minutes then he is gone for like 2 hours. Then he comes home, and leaves again, for a few more hours. I find this frustrating. We have two small children, ... (150 words)

Stomach cramps whilst on microgynon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! Im on 3rd pack of microgynon pills and have recently started having sex without condoms, just the pill as protection. Might seem dumb as I don't want to get pregnant, but contraceptive nurse said its the pill that stops the pregnancy. All okay in STD dept, so... ... (157 words)

He lives quite far away and it's hard to meet up with him but whenever we do meet up he wants to have sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to a boy who I had only known for a couple of months and we wern't even going out at the time. We were both drunk and regret it. He wasn't a virgin and I told him I wasn't a virgin and that I was experienced in other things as well which I'm not. He then ... (188 words)

I am not emotionally attached to him but it bothers me that even though I am attractive, well mannered and professional he doesn’t care about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy in a club and he asked for my number which I gave it to him, that night he mentioned about his job and where he lived and then I said good bye to him. Seven weeks went by and then one night I received a text message from him I replied and then we kept sending text ... (672 words)

The truth of the matter is I really love her dearly, should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend recently told me she regrets breaking up with me and that she misses me. She also says her boyfriend is being nasty to her and she feels lonely. Might it mean she wants to give the relationship another try? The truth of the matter is I really love her dearly, ... (58 words)

Okay, got her number, now how or what do I text her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, I got this girl's number after just asking (still a little suprised at that lol) now how do I ask her out? or what do I text her with? Should I be like I am with my friends?... (39 words)

Personality change!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been together with my boyfriend for 2 months today. And at the beginning of our relationship he was all sweet and always wanted to be with me and made time for me if he could. He always made me so happy when I was in a bad mood. He would always text me and hang out ... (680 words)

I like her but she is engaged to another person, how should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im really in love with this girl i work with but just dont no how to tell her she is engaged to another person at work but i no theres something between us we talk all the time and look forward to seeing each other when we go shift i want to tell her but im just afraid it ... (69 words)

His wife gave him permission from day one to have sex outside their relationship... and it's with me. He says he loves me and we're friends. What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am in an interesting situation. For the last 4 years I have been romatically involved with a man. We have absolutely amazing sex and we click so perfectly that people constantly wonder if we are married. Ok so now the catch, He has been in a relationship for the last ... (222 words)

He wants to have a threesome with the other woman not touching him or be touched by him!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend (28, I'm 24) of 6 months has been asking to have another woman join us in our 'bedroom time'. He says he will not touch and will not be touched by her, but that she will only touch me and I will be in control of the entire situation. I really am just at a loss o... (70 words)

Why does he always lie and lead me on about anything and everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really want another baby, but i think my husband is, once again, just saying we can to make me happy, and not going to fallow through. We have 2 children already. They are my life! I love my kids and want just one more to finally complete our lives. we had a misscarrage in ... (218 words)

I want to stop hiding my relationship from my mum but am not sure if she will understand and give her approval.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 years old and i have known this guy for a year we got together and i have been with him for 5 months now. my mom doesn't approve of me dating she would most likely get mad i just don't know why she doesn't approve. i want to be open with my mom because her and my dad ... (111 words)

Is he not worth the effort, or should I hang on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this guy, we go to the same university and basically we met each other for the first time a couple of weeks ago and he gave me his number. so i text him on the same day and he was like yes just let me know when you are free we will do something etc since thn i te... (175 words)

How do I get over her hairy minge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love to give my gf oral sex because i know she likes it but it is hairy down there. How can i tell her that without offending her? Please dont be saying we are too young to be doing this because we are only doing oral and nothing else. We have talked about sex alot and kno... (86 words)

Problems with self image, how can I enjoy my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I am really self concious about my body. I have a problem with eating and I overexercise and have some unhealthy habits. I don't do anything extreme, and I manage and hide them well, but I still am not satisfied with how I look. I'm not fat or anything really, ... (182 words)

What can we do about my brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a bit of an awkward one, its more for advice im seeking rather than me asking a specific question. The general background is that, our father died when we were young and my oldest brother always used it as an excuse to get him self out of trouble. At this stage that has ... (218 words)

I am scared that it will be too late for me to have children soon and I want to feel not just loved but also desired.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice I am 32 years old and have just embarked on a new career after a period of unemployment and ill health. I have been with my partner for five years, we do not live together and when he stays with me for any period of time we argue. He finds his work stressf... (240 words)

I don't see how I can compete with a friend who's known her for so long and is there for her when I'm not moving back until next year.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ten months ago I met this girl who was just amazing. The only problem was that we had both just gotten out of serious relationships with people whom we thought we were going to marry. However we got along so great we ended up together and the sex was just amazing. The problem ... (237 words)

Obsessive girlfriend or sneaky boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a (mostly) amazing relationship with someone I am truly in love with. We have been dating for over a year. In the beginning of our relationship, we had a lot of problems because of his previous girlfriend. They talked on the phone, emailed and texted a lot... (246 words)

I'm falling in love... should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling in love with this guy that I'm in an unofficial relationship with. He says that he wants to wait and see if were compatible enough to be together and I guess I can understand. We live about an hour and half away from each other. We've known each other for ... (159 words)

How can I get over my husband's infatuation with my sister?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am happily married, most of the time, to my husband of 9 years. I have a younger sister who is absolutely gorgeous in every way, shape and form. I am also very good looking; just not as good looking as her. About two years after we got married, I was awaken in the middle ... (363 words)

I'm worried I'm going to lose him over not letting him ejaculate in my mouth!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age - Hi I have this problem with my man, i am 52, he is 63 and he wants to cum in my mouth, up till now i have never wanted to do this ever in my life, but my man is diff and now i do, - to begin with, I didn't want to with him either, but now i do he knows this but is still aff... (123 words)

Keep or wait to have this baby? We may not be financially stable to properly care for another being that needs us. Your thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We are planning on getting married but have been putting it off so that we can save for a big wedding. We both want children one day but my issue is, I just found out that I am pregnant...right now. So, I'm struggling with the idea to keep or ... (169 words)

Is there a way to go about regaining his trust? He says the chances are slim. However I never cheated him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - thank you all for reading this..hopefully you will be able to help because I am in need of some advice.. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half now..we've talked on and off but never got back together..I do still have feelings for him and want to be in a relat... (185 words)

Does she only want him because I've got him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age - I recently starting seeing someone who has an ex girlfriend. Mark broke up with her and she was alittle upset but nothing big, they were still going to be friends. But now she found out about me and she is pissed. She has come over to my house and banged on the windows and ... (97 words)

Could me seeing the man hanging be causing my horrible nightmares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i would just like to start by saying sorry that this is not a relationship question but i find this site to be best for great advice. Well here goes... This may seem crazy. I think so. But as a lil girl i had been walking with a friend to my place when we had seen inside a mans ... (125 words)

My friend was assaulted by women on a hen night and doesn't want to press charges, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was dining out in a sushi bar with my Japanese friend over the weekend and he got physically assaulted by a group of around 15 women on a hen night. I urged him to press charges, but he said that would make things worse. What do you think, should he press charges?... (54 words)

Could you recommend wipes for intimate care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started to use Johnson's Baby Wipes to stay clean, but I don't like the smell, can anyone recommend wipes that don't have a smell or are you better to get the always wipes.... (36 words)

I'm nervous around men as I have no relationship experience, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am loiking for some advice. I am in my 20s and I have never had a boyfriend, I work with a lot of guys and have recently fallen for one of them, although I have no experience with men I always come across as a bit of a flirt because I am so nervous, and I am even worse wt... (178 words)

When I go to church my new hubby watches porn. Makes me feel unworthy and small and picture him doing it.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do. My relatively new husband is surfing porn. It makes me feel unworthy and small, unattractive and all the rest. He tries to tell me that he isn't fantasizing about other women but I feel it is the first step he is taking towards being unfaithf... (132 words)

My girlfriend is self-conscious about her weight and very distressed about her maid-of-honour dress that doesn't fit. How do I approach the subject?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Since I have been dating my girlfriend (for over 4 years) she has been self consious about her weight. It is not uncommon for it to fluctuate 30 lbs in a year. She knows it doesn't bother me and I love her no matter what. I always console / support her when she is upset ... (480 words)

We met on line, I don't know if he remembers that I have a child, I want him irregardless of the distance and all of his flaws... but does he want me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi! please help! i've met this guy online and we connected instantly. was only a member for a day or two when i came across his profile and i thought i'd send him an interest. he got back to me and since then we have been chatting via ym for months. i was skeptical at first ... (678 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from him and I'm getting sick of this. Any ideas on what made him change his persona on both occasions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I work at a local theme park. Over the course of the summer I have become friendly with Mike. Two weekends ago we worked side by side all night. He was very flirty and nice. He gave me his hand warmers and placed one on my forhead. He asked me about school and made fun of me ... (333 words)

I talked to another guy at a party, he was entertaining and made me question my relationship with my boyfriend, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im feeling really confused just now, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and its been great ive never wanted to be with anyone else... he makes me feel happy just knowing he's around but the other day we were at a party and i met a guy who i spent half the time ... (123 words)

What does it mean when a girl says "I like you a lot" during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey could anyone tell me what does it mean when a girl says 'I like you a lot' in bed? I don't know how to take it, Is it just a heat of the moment thing to say or is it a time when all the truth slips out?... (49 words)

My biggest crush at school.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a guy in my school, and whenever I stay behind after school with the intention to meet up we never get the chance to, but just after some few hours I left school my friend would tell me he was asking for me. What should I do to meet up in private and tell ... (113 words)

Still hopelessly in love, is it worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i am stll in love with my ex who is the father of my child we are really good friends Now...well before i cut him off from sleeping with me he use to go to me whenever he broke up with a girl to sleep with me again i was tried of being treated that way so now were good...g ... (238 words)

Why is sex causing my boyfriend discomfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - When I have sex with my boyfriend I rub him raw... I know I'm small in that area and he's larger than I'm used to, is that the problem or is it because we are doing it too long and I'm not wet enough?... (44 words)

Do you think that a bachelor of 52 years old will ever be ready for marriage or commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am 35 years old and in a new relationship with a wonderful 52 year old man. This is not the common is he to old for me problem, however, he has never been married and never had children. Me on the other hand am divorced and have a 15 year old daughter that stays with me.... (161 words)

I have asked him for a break so I can get my head together, am I doing the right thing for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, this is kind of long I hope you don't mind. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and I've just split up with him. I've been having a really hard time recently with a lot of thoughts going through my head so I took a break from him for a week so I could sort it out thin... (309 words)

Couldn't he have put it a nicer way other than to say "I don't fancy you!??"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age - I met someone on holiday and whilst he tried every day to get me into bed I didn't. There was one "girl" on the ship who said to me she thought he used to be a woman because he had such a squeeky voice-I turned off her he didn't understand why-but I did not want to hurt him by ... (300 words)

His family hates me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age - Well, here I am again... I have been on here a number of times. Pretty soon you all will know me because I am the 65 year old woman that has been dating a 69 year old man for 3 years and 10 months with no engagement or marriage in the future. He has a son-in-law that is a ... (646 words)

I'm in love with a guy who isn't my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, basically, I'm in love with a guy who isn't my boyfriend. A few months ago, we dated for a few weeks, and it was one of the most amazing times of my life. We'd go back to his house, and just lie on his bed hugging. However, he was working crazy shifts for a week, an... (216 words)

I don't know what words to use to tell my parents I am gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 15, gay and proud to be. I am "out" to my friends but not my parents. I am nervous to tell them. Not because I think they will react badly. It is because I just don't know how to phrase it. When I came out to my friends I put it bluntly I just said "I'm gay" ... (122 words)

He left me because he wasn't able to commit just yet, should I stay in touch till he's ready?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, I really need some help. I am a 15 year old gay boy and my boyfriend of two years left me a couple of weeks ago. Me and my boyfriend where incredibly close. We liked the same things, we hAd the same sense of humor and we where totaly on love, we had sex countless times ... (242 words)

I just started a relationship with a girl who's really happy about it but now that girl that I'm in love with wants me back? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with this girl since January. We fell for each other and i love her so much. We recentl broke up though in August because of a bump in the road that i thought we could work through it. But I guess she didn't think we could. It was last weekend though ... (344 words)

How can I control my panic attacks??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I hope someone can help.Every now and then,i get panic attacks.I think about death,and not being able to see family or friends again,e.t.c,and start shaking,get out of breath,and a couple of times,have even screamed with fright. How can i control this ?... (49 words)

After falling in love with him I find out he's married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - It's complicated. I met this guy in my new office and in a month we committed to have a relationship. We're from a different race and religion, in our family culture it's not common to have relationship indifferent race and religion. (There's an opinion that his race is high... (637 words)

I really don't like my body so I won't let my bf touch me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i need helpppppppppppppp!!!! i have been with my bf for 4 months now. i love him so much but theres 1 problem. i dont like my body i will never show any skin and i wont let him touch sertain areas.eg belly legs boobs n bum. i dono how i cn over come this. i know he likles ... (79 words)

I love my teacher and he love's me too, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all,, uhmm... I've confused now,, im really love my english teacher... well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,, man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's handsome or not,, but. . . ,,w... (253 words)

Anyone with positive experiences of a threesome in a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

13 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Has anyone ever had any POSITIVE experiences of a threesome? Either MMF or FFM? I'm talking about within a long term relationship.... (22 words)

I get really insecure when we don't have sex for a couple of days!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've bin with my bf for almost 6years now. the problems started after giving birth to our baby girl(5mnths). i became so into sex, i would get turned on by just looking at him or feel him pass by, but 3mnths afta, things changed. i have to really make an effort to have sex. ... (175 words)

Why won't he pay me any compliments?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, but he has never paid me a compliment. I have often made a considerable effort to look really nice for him, but he doesn't seem to notice. I spoke to him about this a couple of weeks back, and told him that it would be great if he ... (168 words)

I'm still sleeping with my ex, even although he's had a girlfriend now for 11 months.

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well last year I was with a lad for 8 months, he told me he was in love with me and we were so close, it was amazing. He was my boyfriend and my best friend and made me feel the happiest person in the world. We split up after a few arguments, then I found out a week later he ... (298 words)

Thoughts and general advice on this situation would be appreciated!

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Referring to the question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-say-or-do-that-isnt.html Well since I posted that a couple of things. We have spent more time together and agree to meet at some point. One day as we were saying bye she was saying how she would like to... (331 words)

Do I still love him? I take him for granted but he doesn't deserve it.

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so so confused. I just cant figure out whether i am in love with my man, or whether i just love being with him. We have been together on and off for 4 years. Recently, I have been feeling very little in the way of chemistry and sex drive whilst we are together, an... (185 words)

We are meant to be getting married but he keeps starting fights about how much sex we have. Any advice?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is there any advice for us???? I have gone from being so very very happy when my now fiance proposed to me 2 months ago to feeling like I just want to cry. Basically we had a huge argument last week which resulted in lots of screaming and shouting and him breaking some things ... (180 words)

She terminated our long distance, online relationship. Should I still call her?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x. Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I want to read it when we are n... (478 words)

I have tried to talk about sex but all he does is take is as a joke and go to sleep?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 11 years and have 2 kids. My husband and i have had sex 2 times this year and I am very scared of rejection so i guess it is sort of my fault but i have tried and all he does is take it as a joke and go to sleep. I am only 35 and he is 39. What should ... (70 words)

What should I do to clear my head of this obnoxious secret she kept for a year?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfiend told me that she had slept with another guy in the past. According to her, she swore that nothing happened between them. Is it hard to believe that, even with the circumstances that were given. Ever since she told me I've been confused and enraged with her...... ... (66 words)

Is he cheating or falling out of love with me, or am I just paranoid?

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13 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for over 2 years. We have a 16 month-old together. For a while now he has been changing a lot towards me and I think he is either cheating on me or falling out of love with me. It is too the point to where he wont call, then when I do get ... (322 words)

Our relationship is not the same as it was when we started. How do I bring back the spark?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it so hurt so when you fall inlove with some one. I just wish my boyfriend knows how much i love him, care about him. I miss the old time we had, the fun etc..... now it is not the same and everytimes i think about it, it makes me cry and cry. I love him and i dont ... (110 words)

She flirts with both of us... who does she actually like?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i work with this girl who is always flirting with me, we've gone out partying like every weekend and are close, i really like her. but she also flirts with this guy who i really hate, i don't know what shes thinking, she says that shes only friends with him and nothing ... (76 words)

Should I say goodbye to my emotionally abusive ex once and for all?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my emotionally abusive ex fiance a year ago. Then we started talking a few days ago because i called him. he said he still loves me and wants to give it another shot. i felt the same way, but i can't seem to forget about the past. and whenever i want to talk ... (287 words)

I have trouble committing. What do I do?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I met this girl during "vacation" and we had a one month "affair" (she was in an LD). She got in some minor fight with her bf and I could tell that she was waiting for me to ask for some kind of commitment. But every time the opportunity arose, I got scared. That suc... (319 words)

Do I wait and let him have his space, or do I move on?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Myboyfriend of 18 mo suddenly says he needs space(no time limit). He says he loves me and does not want to split just needs space to figure out what he wants. I haven't spoken to him for a few days, and it is hard. I love him and my kids love him((11 and 8 mo.(we believed seth ... (80 words)

Does my ex still care, or was her jealousy just lingering attachment?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a couple of months out of a 3 year relationship with my ex-girlfriend. She says we lost the spark and have no chemistry anymore. I have been an emotional wreck for most of this period and my ex knows about it. A couple of weeks ago I decided to make some changes in my ... (431 words)

I feel neglected by my married boyfriend. I cheated and now he won't call. Help!

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone it has been more than a couple months since since i use that site and now here im, back again seeking for help. My boyfriend and I have been togethere for 11 months now, but i keep on asking myself if we are still boyfriends, everything is not the same any... (361 words)

A few tricky questions... Help please.

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13 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I have a few questions...help would be nice. 1) My bf lives over seas so i have hard times calling him. Should i tell him i had phone sex with my friend? I want to tell but i dont want to tell. 2) My other friend has a gf now and wont talk to me now....why? i dont mind th... (139 words)

How can I get my friend to back off without runing the relationship?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is an amazing guy. He calls me while im working to leave sweet messages on my phone and would do anything for me. I love him more then anything, but after we started having sex, which i was a virgin before hand, and now i feel like i understand things going on... (112 words)

How do I let him know I don't feel that way about him?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey evryone it's me again and i have another problem. for everyone who looks at my questions you know that i already have my heart set on a straight guy. well what happens whrn another guy comes on to you? i was supposed to go to a bowling meeting and something came up, so i ca... (171 words)

I had underage sex a year and a half ago. Could the guy still go to jail after all this time?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I'm not sure of what the statutory rape laws are in texas, so whoever can give me an answer, I appreciate it. I was 15 and started having sex with my step-aunt's son, who was 25, I am 17 now and he is about to be 27, my mom found out a few weeks ago, but she was not angry. ... (102 words)

How do I make sure I don't scare this guy off?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm feeling tired of my marriage after 16 years. My husband and I are sleeping in separate rooms - I can't stand him touching me. We do not quarrel/argue that much - in fact, we hardly communicate. Right now, I have a crush on my young hairstylist. He's from China and he's... (178 words)

Do I ask him about this supposed porn collection?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was friends with my current boyfriend for two years before we started dating. Back when we were just friends, he told me all about the porn he'd make with his girlfriend. Now that we're dating, I find myself wondering whether he still has all that stuff on his computer. ... (65 words)

My parents fight every day, and my father hits my mother. What do I do?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello my name is cha. Im from Korea and I live in Ameria. I just want to get off from my chest. I came here when I was 15. When I arrived in America, I didn't know any of Western cultures especailly Enlglish but as i have been educated in public school, communicating in English ... (127 words)

What should I do about my classmate's eating disorder?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This girl S in my class has an eating disorder. No one really likes her, and I'm the only one in our class who even tolerates her, but she thinks we're friends and always tags along with me at school. I feel bad about it, but my friend came up to me the other week and told me ... (293 words)

Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?

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13 October 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm if my GF can be pregnant. Actual... (163 words)

Love triangle gone wrong... Some advice, please?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating a girl who was the seven year girlfriend of the brother of a three year roommate of mine. He is also a co-worker with me. The girl I was seeing was dumped by my friends brother and had been apart for 3 months. We started seeing each other for a month. She brok... (123 words)

Did he really mean it? Or it was just said in the heat of the moment?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was having sex with my 8 month's boyfriend yesterday, and I told him that I loved him while we were having sex. I do feel it, and I am very emotional, and we have shared that we have strong feelings for each other, so when I told him that I loved him, he answered, "me ... (76 words)

He knows the smell of smoke turns my stomach, but he won't quit!

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband started to smoke after we had a big fight. He did it and said he did it to spite me. He knows how i feel about smoking. I was raped by a man who smoked and that is the one smell I just cant be around! everytime i am it triggers horrible memories...and I have told him ... (454 words)

Do you think this is true love?

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I thought i was in love with my ex when we were together but this relationship is so much better!, is this what love feels like? Me and my current Girlfriend started dating almost 2 weeks ago, and it feels totally different than anything i have felt before. i think about he... (154 words)

I love him, but our families don't get on...

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 30 and my boyfriend is 20, we love each other but i dont get along with his family and he dont get along with my family. what should i do? when he was locked up i was the only one there for him not his family. so should i just move on and love him from a far? he says we ... (89 words)

He called me by MY FRIEND'S name when we were having sex!

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend was drunk and called me my friends name during sex. They have only met twice, and I know they are not seeing each other. How should I take this?... (31 words)

We've been fighting a lot recently and now she seems really distant...

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice please... 3 weeks ago me and my girlfriend it seemed like we hit a rough patch I dont knw what happened but over night it seemed like things changed abruptly like she stopped talking to me as much, we didn't flirt as much, hold hands, even making out became ... (353 words)

Why am I so dry down below when we make love?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why, when me and boyfriend have sex I'm horny but when it's time for him to penetrate me, my pussy is very dry, why is that???... (26 words)

Age difference - I need your advice please!

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just recently got into a relationship. ... (263 words)

During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards.

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - During an orgasm my abdominal muscles tense up causing my back to arch forward and then I get shivers down my spine for the next few minutes afterwards. This has been happening for the last year or so and I can't avoid it. My question is does this happen to anyone else? Is it ... (70 words)

All my new husband wants to do is save save save!!!

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm having serious concerns... I recently got married to my 2 year boyfriend .. and we love each other a lot but my main concern is MONEY! ... He is a pilot and pretty well loaded... I just found out he has a bunch of money saved up in the bank... before we got married ... (293 words)

Is this love or something else?

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start off by saying that I'm a 15 year old girl and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend, 17, for over 5 months now. He recently just told me that he loved me. We're both so young. Is it possible to be in love at our age? What if he thinks he loves me but it's ... (66 words)

I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it.

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13 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm very young and I'm worried about a lot of things. This is going to sound weird but I have a female foot fetish and want to lose it because I don't like my attraction to female feet. Secondly I am worried about future relatioships and sex you know. Does anyone have ... (62 words)

He said I just don't "do it for him". What's going on???

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13 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My gay best friend told me he was "experimenting" when he took my virginity! We were both virgins and he told me for months and months that he liked me, I liked him a lot! I was practically in love with him, we used to spend hours on the phone every night, (I'm 16, he's 19). ... (300 words)