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My ex will not leave my house! How do I get him out of here??

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - my ex will not leave my house! im at my wits end with him.his girlfriend dumped him about a week ago,and right now he is basically homeless.he has tons of family members in the area that he could stay with.he came down a few nights ago and i didnt answer the phone becuz i was ... (257 words

Light bleeding after sex...is it because he's too large?

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1 October 2008 (? age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I began to have sex about 4-3 months ago and we didn't have any problems. The first time we had sex I was definitly aware he was bigger than the person I had sex with, before. The first 2-3 months the sex did not last as long as now and was not as intense or ... (158 words

I'm wondering..what are the chances that I am pregnant?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - SLIGHT PROBLEM! Opinions welcome. My period is a little over a week late. I've done 2 pregnancy tests and followed the directions precisely. They both came up negative. I've had some spotting for the past few days but have had no other pregnancy symptoms. What are the cha... (54 words

Was I wrong to break-up with him? Was I too impatient?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just broke-up with my boyfriend recently and everything that was said during the break-up and aftwards gives me mixed emotions on what he was really thinking. First he always said, when we had fights, that I am not good for you or you should be with someone eles. But he never ... (262 words

Is he a Controling husband or am I just weird?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - My Husband wants to know every where i go, gives me a time frame and hates that I am close to my family. if I don't tell him that I will have lunch with my mom and than I tell him when I am at lunch that i am having lunch with my mother he asks why didn't I let him know the day ... (130 words

Why am I losing my sex drive at this age?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone! ok i have a problem its not serious to me but to my husband it is. ok we've been together since about a month b4 my 17th birthday im now 21{almost 22}we've been married 2 years and for some reason i just really dont have alot of interest in sex anymore. like when ... (325 words

Is cellulite a big deal to men who prefer overweight women?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok weird question but here goes. ive met this guy online.we are meeting up in person in one month becuz he is out of state until then due to work.he realllllyyy has this thing for chubby women.i weigh around 158lbs and am 5'6 in height.hes attracted to me as i am now,i already ... (224 words

Another "he didn't call" question!

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all...another he didn't call question...I am the account rep for a company that does business with his company. Both of us are divorced with a child, no problems there. He asked me out to lunch one day and I was unable to go, then he asked me to lunch on a Sunday when ... (330 words

Would you go back to a cheater?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Just a survey to see what people would do if their significant other cheated. So, I got up the guts to tell my friend her boyfriend cheated on her. He's great at hiding it because he always talks to her, sends her presents, and is planning to go see her over spring break. Th... (102 words

How should I go about this FWB arrangement?

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1 October 2008 (? - So me and a friend are talking about messing around. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits thing. (no sex though). and well, i've made out a couple of times but only with one guy. Well my friend (the one that may become a 'friend with benefit') is really ... (142 words

Our marriage is devoid of physical intimacy. Any suggestions?

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1 October 2008 (M age - My wife and I are having problems in our marriage; I have been great difficulty living in a marital relationship that is almost entirely devoid of physical intimacy. This is with the kiss, touch, embrace and sex. For the past ten years we have had sex perhaps twice a year. ... (449 words

I don't know who the father of my baby is and I'm only 14 yrs old.

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14 and pregnant. I'm due in December. But... I don't know who the father is. It could be one of two people. My boyfriend who has stood by me or my friends cousin who i had a one night stand with. My boyfriend can't wait, but if the baby isn't his i don't know how i would ... (91 words

I need help! She's driving me insane....

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1 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Im 16 years old, and ive just started seein this girl since sunday, the thing is we have always had a soft spot for each other but nothing really came of it, until sunday when i went to see her. So anyway sunday went great got along with her brilliantly, kissed her hugge... (249 words

Could he have not liked spending time with me or am I paranoid?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - i went for lunch with a guy i work with today, usually he calls or texts me everyday but he hasn't tonight. could he not of liked spending time with me or am i just being paranoid? Im crazy about this guy and dont know what to do, pleae help... (54 words

Why has he stopped calling and stopped responding to me?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - met this guy in early summer. He was such a sweetheart but my head was somewhere else at the time. We talked everyday but it just was never like that. Then we actually started hanging out and going out things were great i was really starting to like him. He would pay for ... (170 words

I feel like I'm 'broken' and he won't want me.

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am really having a hard time in this semi-new relationship (4 months)! Both of us have been through hell, emotionally. In short, his first marriage ended when his ex wife left him for another woman and he still has a hard time trusting women. As for myself, well I was ... (228 words

What are some intimate things to do with a woman?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - Are there other ways to do "intimate" things with a woman aside from intercourse?... (14 words

Annoyed with boyfriend needing space....

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Annoyed by IM with boyfriend...He's a boyfriend of six years. He wanted more space the last few months. So now we see each other one day during the week and on weekends. I am sticking to the days we agreed to. I had plans for the night on our scheduled night off . He wanted to ... (131 words

Will small breasts on a thin frame put people off?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - My breasts are really small. Ive got quite a slim frame. Do you think it will put people off? :(... (20 words

What's the crack with this 37 yr old guy?

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1 October 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ok whats the crack with this 37 yr old guy. He's been a friend from the pub i go in for the last 3 months. I went to his for coffee and a chin wag a week ago after he invited me. Basically see him as a friend but wouldn't say no to more if i got to know him better and we ... (305 words

Hurt beyond repair?

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1 October 2008 (F age - Hurt beyond repair? (I still love him) I have been married for 10+ years. We were really special when we met our friends referred to us a Romeo and Juliet. Over the years our kids have caused us to argue and fight verbally really bad. In all that I never consulted and x ... (371 words

Do you think he wants more than just friends?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - So I was seeing this great guy for about 3 months at the start of the year. Everything was great and we were like boyfriend/girlfriend except we hadn't actually had 'the talk'. He introduced me to all his friends and I got on great with all of them. Then he told me that he ... (375 words

If I stop caring for him, he smokes, drinks, and hurts himself. It's really upstting for me. Please help.

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, I'm Becca. I have been out with my now ex 3 times and have always dumped him every time. He is 4 years older than me an i am still friends with him after i have dumped him. I dumped him for these reasons: *He think's he's like the most fashionable person on ea... (523 words

If I get pregnant what would I do?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi another one form me My boyfriend keeps suggesting sex. But as I am only 15 and it is against the law at the moment, I am scared of what people will think or if I get pregnant what would I do? I do want to but above are my worries. What shall I do as I don't want to let him ... (87 words

Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I got married to a woman I havn't even known for 3 months. I should have thought it through more because this is horrible now. I didnt realize all that came with being married. She is even 6 years older than me. Whats even worse ... (217 words

Should my wife mourn me for the rest of her life or move on? I'm terminally ill.

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1 October 2008 (M age - I don't know how to start, but I've been diagnosed with a 'potentialy terminal illness'. There is about a 50% chance I won't live more than a year. If I go into remission, then I guess we take it month by month from there on. We have 3 kids, almost grown now, we're married ov... (432 words

Boyfriend in control....

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it or I want him to wait for it. ... (132 words

Do I confront my boyfriend about being gay?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - not really sure where to start but here goes..... i had been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and thought he was 'the one' i then discovered he had stolen all my savings and spent them on some online computer game. i also found out that he had been sacked from his job over a ... (247 words

Why am I obsessing over this guy?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok I have a problem which some people might think is a waste of time but im really confused and i dont know how i feel. Theres this guy that i cant stop thinking about, I literally spend every second thinking about him and wishing we could be together..however when I see him i ... (108 words

This woman sent a picture of a semi naked woman to her boss, my husband! Am I to believe this was a joke?

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1 October 2008 (F age - I recently found an e.mail from my husband's receptionist displaying a photograph of a woman who had her boobs hanging out. He said this was a joke but why would she send this type of thing to her boss? Do you think she's having some kind of relationship with him or is sh... (62 words

I don't know what to think anymore. Everytime I leave the house I feel like she is talking to someone else. Any thoughts?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi. My situation seems like a pretty common one. But I don't know what to do. My girlfriend and I have been dating 8 months and we moved in together after 3 months. At first everything was great and it only seemed to change a month ago. She now seems a little distant with me at ... (207 words

Do I have to tell him the truth to save our relationship?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really need help! Ive been with my so called boyfriend for 2years now, wll I say "so called" because 9months into the realtionship he told me he had a girlfriend he had been with for 7years!!! I obviously finished with him but some how he wormed his way back in! Since then ... (229 words

How do I get his trust back?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay basically my boyfriend of five months split up with me because we were going through a rough patch and he didnt see the point in us continuing anymore as it was so complicated. I was absolutely devastated as I loved and still love him with my entire self. On the Friday ... (437 words

I clam up when I have to confront my ex, as a result of the abuse he's put me through. Then I explode on my wonderful husband, who thinks he's second best, not true! Help me.

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am happily married to a wonderful man that treats me with the utmost respect, love and he is so incredibly compassionate. My problem is that I was married to a verbally abusive man prior to my now husband and I have 2 children with him. I moved an hour away from him and now ... (410 words

We took a break during which I had sex with two guys. Should I tell him or not? He said he would not talk to me if I did this!

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month but we're really serious im in college and i stay with him... we are so in love..but, we recently took a break and i had sex with 2 other guys...1 which i regret and the other i'm happy it happened. but on the other hand i ... (109 words

Any advice on how to do better in Math?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have problems in Math since the start of my 7th grade. I'm now a Sophomore and I see the difficulty. My first language is French,I live in Belgium.I passed the Math exam in 7th,8th,9th grades with a percent of 55.I took courses with a special teacher who came to my house. And ... (271 words

Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?... (21 words

I feel very lonely and depressed, scared to tell my boyfriend, as I fear his rejection!

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello this is kind of long but I really need help. I have never been a needy person, one year ago I move to this country, to USA, because I received a job offer just out of college. I got the job of my dreams, and profesionally I feel very well, but my personal life ... (565 words

I'm lost in confusion...could he still like me?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was my first boyfriend and the ... (640 words

I want to have a threesome with my girlfriend and another man. Can anyone tell me of their experiences?

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1 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - want to do a threesome with my gf and another guy, what do you think ? i already let her have sex with other guys she wanted to do. i think its wicked hot. can everyone plese tell me about your threesome expreiences please ? i need to know if im going to do a mmf threesome. ... (76 words

Do I need help? Is their something wrong with me? I feel like this is bringing me down!

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi their i have a relationship problem. me and my bf have been dating for over 4 months and we new each other for atleast 4 months before that. we both got out of a relationship 2 months before we got together. sometimes in my mind i wonder if it was too soon, also its l... (461 words

My boyfriend of two years suddenly broke up with me with no warning. Now he tells me that he cheated on me and felt I deserved better. We both want to try again.

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - help, i need advice-- my boyfriend of over two years suddenly broke up with me, after asking for a reason he told me that he had cheated on me last year and the day before we broke, he said that he couldn't go on lying to me, he felt to guilty and i deserved somebody better, ... (303 words

I do not have enough money to continue my dream.

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I don't know how should I do. I want to study in Europe, but I don't have enough money. I love literature and history, and I have finished my college lessons. Now, I would like to find an opportunity to study abroad. I can speak some English. Maybe I can find a posi... (143 words

Should I get rid of the teacher and the girl or do what she asks?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm in love with a girl we schooled together, when i proposed to her she accepted my love, then not so long after she got proposed by her teacher and again she accepted! Now she's telling me that if i want her i must get a car and a mobile. should i get rid of the teacher and ... (62 words

He's a great friend but I feel like my boyfriend cares about him more then me! What should I do?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - It's basically a case of 2's company, 3's a crowd. My and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. My relationship was always me, my boyfriend, and his best friend (lets call him X to make this easier to understand). Im in a really long distance relationship, we... (334 words

My boyfreind of 5 months has totally lost his sex drive, I receive no cuddles or kisses and I'm being told it's not my fault. What can I do?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend who is 6 years younger than me has totally lost his sex drive. We have only been together 5 months. He says its not me and that he still wants 2 b with me forever. Yet he is shutting me off. No cuddles or kisses anymore. I want 2 help but dont know wot 2 do.... (58 words

From a failed marriage to an unhealthy relationship, what's next? I am left feeling sad, dissapointed, lonely and a bit resentful. How to shake off the bad feelings?

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1 October 2008 (M age 51-59 - I have recently come out of a divorce where the breakdown was very long and drawn out and quite messy at the end. For a long time before the divorce was completed i suffered with a terrible depression. I was in quite a state for over a year which was a very hard time for me and ... (714 words

The guy I used to hook up with when younger asked me to sleep with him, I'd like to but I have a boyfriend, should I do it anyway?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - This sound so terriable and I know that before even asking. So please don't be to mean. I've been with my b/f for six years. I love him very much and he's a wonderful person. But were both young I'm 22 and he's 20. I have this friend whom I did used to sleep with when I was 16 ... (137 words

My ex FWB keeps sending me dirty messages when I've moved on with someone else. Is there any way we could be just friends now?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay me and this guy was really close friends for like 3 years. We always flirted with each other and hung out all the time, but were never dating. We did however start having sex and continued to until I found someone new that I actually started dating. I wanted to be friend ... (110 words

I just want to forget him and move on, don't know if it is because I am tired of him or he is not giving me what I need!...

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am now 20 years old, me and my boyfriend met when i was truning 19 at the time he was 35..our sex life was good now today when we would have sex i dont feel the same (as if i dont like men). i love him with all my heart but its just not the same and when i would try to lead ... (111 words

I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who just stole my attention immedi... (1108 words

I love my wife but since I resumed contact with a girl I liked 14 years ago, I feel very sad and lost as my old feelings came flooding back.

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1 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been happily married for 7 years and with my wife for a grand total of 14 years. I can honestley say that in all that time I have never looked at another woman. Before I met my wife there was another girl that I had strong feelings for and I know she felt the same for... (232 words

We were arguing a lot so he broke up with me, can you help me get over him now?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend broke up just over a week ago we were together for 6 months and he just suddenly decided to brake up with me. we were arguing a lot. its just im finding it so hard to get over him, im still in love with him. he means so much to me, can you help me to get ... (63 words

We had sex, then he told me he didn't want to lose my friendship, why? Now we are together and he says he loves me, but it's hard to believe him. I need a confidence boost!

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I have never used this b4 but here goes, i was engaged to this guy and we were together for 4 1/2 years, i got very bored as it was a long distance relationship. he was alot older then me but he looked after me always put me first. Now there was this guy at work who w... (242 words

Am I too small and how can I last longer?

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1 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok,hey well im 16 and my penis is a quite bit bigger than 7inches am I too small? Also im worried because I only last like 10 minutes is there anything I can do so I can last more? Please help... (42 words

I;m self conscious because of my sexual history - is there any way to get things back to normal 'down there'?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I used to party all the time and now i have a bad reputation for being a slut. Im actually a very loving, smart, good person. I regret everything I did and I wish i could take it all back. I think about it everyday and I feel bad about myself all the time. Im t... (171 words

We've been married four years and I still haven't met his family - should I be worried by this?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my husband are in our fourth year of marriage , blessed with two beautiful girls, but the problem is, up to now i haven't meet any of his family knowing that they are just a minute away...sometimes i kept asking him "why?" but i cant get enough reasons from him.We're not ... (85 words

We think he's being used but what can we do to help if he won't listen?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - so my guy friend is infatuated with this girl he met about a year ago. he insists that he is in love with her and tells her that almost everyday. the thing is that she has a boyfriend. about her real boyfriend, she's "officially" in a relationship with him but doesn't see ... (326 words

My ex's anger is stopping us being friends - how can I make things right so I don't loose him altogether?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - We've dated on an off for four years. Last February, I lied to him, told him the truth a week later. We broke up. I felt like a fool. He was furious. Told me he had lost all respect for me and for the first time in our relationship that he truly loved me and he didn't ... (336 words

I want to be the girl who stops him having open relationships- but how?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey,i met a guy one week ago,and he thought that i was hot,anyways,we started talking,and i got to know him better and he is so great,the thing missing is that he doesn't like serious relatonships,because of his past(he has been hurt before)he has only been in open ... (79 words

Should I ask about his wife or just wait and see what's going on?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well, my friend is going home in a week now, he's what I always thought of as happily married. This is his 2nd marriage. He's military - on a duty right now. I wrote him to see what's up and asked if now that he's going home he'll rest. He said he'll definitely take ... (158 words

Why have I lost my sex drive at such a young age and what should I do?

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1 October 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone! ok i have a problem its not serious to me but to my husband it is. ok we've been together since about a month b4 my 17th birthday im now 21{almost 22}we've been married 2 years and for some reason i just really dont have alot of interest in sex anymore. like when ... (325 words

She never wants sex, how can I spark her interest again?

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1 October 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old male in a relationship with 1 girl for going on 2 years now. We plan on getting married in a little over 2 years after we both get out of college. When we started out having sex, it was perfect. Every weekend we saw each other almost always we'd have sex, but ... (243 words

Talking to her on myspace but having trouble approaching her in real life. How can I talk to her in person?

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1 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl i want to date. I added her on myspace about 2 weeks ago. We have been talkin on there. Since then, I gave her my number to txt me but she still hasnt. I havent talked to her in school yet I see her all the time. I never no what to say but on the other ... (125 words

Can a marriage survive when sex is so important to one person and so not important to the other?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have not had sex in 5 months. I am pregnant - 6 months pregnant. We have other children and have been married for six years. We have gone to counseling for our marriage because we do not have sex nearly as often as I would like. This has been a problem ... (385 words

Should I tell my cousin that I really do like her?

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1 October 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my cousin liked each other since we were at least 10, but we never did anything. but now we are older and we still know that we like each other but sometimes i resist cause i know we are third cousins but i still have feelings for her should i just stop resisting and ... (61 words

I'm dating a wonderful man, but he is dependent on medication, which makes it hard to connect. Do I walk away?

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1 October 2008 (F age - I am a 48yo female dating a wonderful 50yo man, the thing is that I realized he was dependant on oxycodone for a shoulder injury and I confronted him. He is on suboxine, however he seems to be in a deep depression, one day he would seem great, then have no motivation to want to ... (165 words

I'm the other woman. Your opinions?

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i currently am involved in a workplace r... (152 words

Why did he start pushing my head down?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - For the first time the other day i gave my boyfriend of 6 months a blow job... he started to hold my head and at times push my head down? when he pushes my head down what does this mean? is it because hes enjoying it? or is it because its not good enough and hes tryin to mak... (70 words

I'm dating a woman, but I prefer sex with men.

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a straight female. But for 9 months I have been dating my best friend who happens to be a female also. I do not find girls sexualy attracted at all I am attracted to men but I guess we fell in love. I cheated on my girlfriend with men for 5 months of our relationship. I ... (157 words

I don't know if I should stay with my boyfriend, I feel so lonely

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1 October 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello this is kind of long but I really need help. I have never been a needy person, one year ago I move to this country, to USA, because I received a job offer just out of college. I got the job of my dreams, and profesionally I feel very well, but my personal life has beco... (776 words

I had my period after we had sex, but now the next one is late. Am I pregnant?

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1 October 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex on aug 12, 2008 and today is September 30, 2008 i got my period in aug 21, 2008 but its now the end of september and i still havent gotten it yet, am i pregnant? i need help... (45 words

I found naughty pics on her phone, but she says they were for a job at a strip club. Is she hiding something?

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1 October 2008 (M age 41-50 - i think my girlfriend is cheating i found some naughty pics of her on her phone and asked her who she sent them too. she said it was a strip club for a job. i dont think strip clubs do job interviews over text messaging. then she sais the lady she sent them too knows a guy that ... (106 words

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