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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I change my behavior and my mindset so that I don't sabotage this relationship that I do not want to lose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we live together, and we love each other. But I am very insecure, and needy. I rely on him a lot for reassurance, and I really am trying to change that. We ... (295 words)

I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I am love with 18 year old boy who I have never met before. I believe he is my soulmate but doesn't want to get involved with me as I am so young but he claims he still likes me Please help :(... (46 words)

When I find out they like me, my feeling of attraction for them disappears...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and I'v got a problem. For the past few month, when I get to a girl relationship wise to the stage I realize that they may in fact like me all of a sudden literally on the very same day that I find this out, all my feelings of attraction just seem to disappear. It's ... (162 words)

Do you think the reason I don't have a boyfriend is because of my weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel RANK! I'm 5.7" and nearly 12 stone... I don't go round saying "eugh I'm so fat.. look at how fat I am" to everyone but I have told a couple of close friends how I feel about my looks and they say I'm not fat, but I think they're only saying it to be nice. I feel very se... (98 words)

I just want to be happy and have an easy carefree mind and life. Will I ever get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - (PREVIOUS QUESTION) I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really wanted t... (534 words)

What do I want? I don't want to be hurt anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - After a year and one-half of dating, my ex broke off our relationship six weeks ago. She sent me an email the next day saying he wanted to remain friends. I thought he was just trying to be nice. Two days ago, he called me and started talking as if we were still the best o... (198 words)

My friend is putting doubts in my head...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my boyfriend and I dont go to the same school, so I only see him 2-3 days a week (usually friday, saturday and sunday) During the school week (mon-thur) it seems like we're so busy that we barely talk (we talk about 1-2 days between mon-thurs) When I told my friend I ... (142 words)

Should I move or should I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I stay or move? I moved to Bolton to look after a family member, my aunt took very ill and i couldnt look after her anymore so she is in a care home. I found myself a job and a partner of 3 years, we bought a house last year and got engaged but have now seperated. W... (173 words)

He's only in love with me when he's drunk!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend drinks a lot. he used to be really nice, but now he's only in love with me when he's drunk. he's only a sweetie when he's drunk. he only wants to do sexual things when he's drunk. he'll only talk to me about personal things when he's drunk. I'm so confused. should ... (89 words)

I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen and I plan on having sex with my friend on Friday, for the first time. Will a condom be enough to prevent pregnancy? What else can I do besides take birth control? and what is the morning after pill?... (43 words)

A question to "Emilysanswers" and other aunts and uncles.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi I was looking throug the questions. I thought maybe there will be an answer to my question. This way I got half of my answer, but not the whole one. Emilysanswers wrote in one of her answers: "Scientists have proved that the feeling of "love" lasts approximately 3 ... (224 words)

I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be a sweetheart. but lately he's ... (192 words)

He is driving me to an eating disorder! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. There is this guy who I was "friends with benefits" with. Stupidly, I lost my virginity to him and after several months, I told him I couldn't do it anymore which is when he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even introduce me as his girlfriend to his friends and ... (272 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from a coworker.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm getting mixed signals from a coworker. He's my age and all summer we were just friendly. Two weekends ago he got really flirty with me and it was so comfertble I went along with it. He touched me softly and made a few jokes. He mentioned hanging out but didn't make any real ... (251 words)

New love disrupted by jealous ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age - I have been seeing a man I have know for a while for the past 4 weeks, and it is really special and lovely. I was friendly with the 39 year old Mother of his child who has been trying to pair us off for a long time (I was too cautious), but since I started seeing him she has ... (1623 words)

Where can I find information on the web about learning to drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to find a website that does driver's book info thingy online. Do you know any websites? I'm 16 and I want to get my driver's permit. I want my licence before I turn 18. I need something that's easy to understand, I get upset if I can't understand it. oh and... (68 words)

Love of my life or just fatal attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

- I been with my guy for some years now (more than 3) and the realtionship is ok and all.. I love him to death and he loves me too but this new guy that attends my school is a sweet heart respectful and is so interesting to me. for some reason i feel like me and this guy suppose ... (138 words)

I'm in a 5 year relationship, phone this girl and she says "I didn't know he had a girlfriend!!!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

- ok, i been dating my bf for 5 years and 4 months ago he and some friends went to a club and i dont have a problem with that but i noticed he was often hiding his phone when i was around and one day i asked to see it, he said hold on and was deleting stuff. i asked and come to ... (144 words)

I am a 17 year old male and I suffer from paranoia.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings everyone, I am a 17 year old male who suffers from paranoia. This has happened for a long period of time (1 - 2 years) and has started to wreck my social life. I have started to like a girl but I am paranoid people are speaking about me behind my back. I am a very ... (188 words)

My wife seems to be avoiding me at all costs, she's even sleeping in my daughter's room now! What's up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have four wonderful children. For the last 2 1/2 months she and our oldest daughter have been on gaia, talking too people. But it seems that my wife is on the computer talking more than the daughter is. I ask who she's talking to ... (149 words)

He asks lots of questions and says I’m mysterious.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There’s this guy I like at work but I can’t tell if he likes me. He’s teases me but he acts normal with other girl’s. Sometimes when we’re talking I’ve noticed he holds eye contact. It’s like when he’s talking he looks into my eyes a little longer. I feel shy and I don’t know ... (105 words)

He seems to have completely removed me from his life and I don't know what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He dumped me, didnt even care to tell me. Is it possible that I am at great fault and I should apologize, though I already did it once and he didn't get back yet? I miss him, love him. We were knowing each other for about 2 years.. since he was out of state we got to see ... (583 words)

I want him to stop talking to her but he's stubborn, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need all the help I can get right now, my boyfriend is going to drive me crazy, he's talking and seeing one of his ex girlfriends and I know 4 a fact that she still wants to be with him and I have the strongest of feelings that he is cheating on me with her when she's the ... (209 words)

My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

- My friend's having a bit of a crisis. Can anyone help him? He used to go out with a girl. But he finished with her. He still likes her but doesn't want a relationship and he gets jealous when she is with other lads. He kissed her earlier on and is really confused on what... (68 words)

How do you get your husband to open his eyes and see what he is throwing away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get your husband to open his eyes and see what he is throwing away? My husband told me he didn't think he loved me anymore. He told me this about 2 weeks ago. Up to that point he was giving me kisses in the morning and at night and saying he loved me. Now since he ... (386 words)

In love with a soldier

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 and dating a 24 year old man who is currently in the Army but getting out sometime next year. He likes me but he says he wants to hold off being in a serious relationship until he gets out of the Army and gets his house. But why is it so easy for guys to put there ... (126 words)

I want another baby but my partner doesn't. Am I wrong to want her to have another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 she's 48, we have 6 year old daughter and I want one more with her. She doesn't! In fact, when ever I ask, we end up having a huge fight. I know I'm partly wrong for asking, but is it unfair that I want another one before it's too late. I feel as though she's been ... (87 words)

I've found his profile on facebook, would it seem wrong to ask him to be my 'friend' or 'poke' him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy, (a rep from a company) that came into my workplace who I thought was good looking we had a bit of a chat and a laugh he then left. He returned a few days later to speak to my male boss, who at last minute wanted me in on the 'meeting'. During this meeting ... (138 words)

If I do go back with I ex I don't want things to be the way they were, I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely lost and confused. I don't know what to do and need help ASAP. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend because I can't get over my ex fiance that I broke up with and my current b/f doesn't possess certain qualities I want - he hasn't gotten his GED yet ... (248 words)

I truly am in love with my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Wow, so all day I have been going through everyones columns and reading the Q and A's about this topic and I have found some really good advice, but I figured it would be helpful to just get my story out there. Well to start out with I'm 15, almost 16. I am definitely head ... (416 words)

I don't want to complicate our friendship, do I tell him I'm in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm in love with my best friend, but I don't know how to tell him, or if I even should. I'm certain nothing will come from telling him, since he's told me himself, he's not interested in a relationship. So I'm not sure if it would be a good idea telling him, since it could ... (82 words)

What can I do to help keep these friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This year I am starting to make these really cool friends but every time I want to be with them it seems like I did something for them to get pissed at me, or like might be a bother. I'm not sure if they're just in a bad mood or something else..... I don't know how to keep ... (70 words)

What should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been married to Hindu girl. Before marriage, she got herself converted to Muslim and accepted Islam as per me and my guardian’s wishes. We got married on Jan ’08 and started staying ourselves ( only me and her ). She got pregnant within the first month of our marriage... (802 words)

Lack of trust... or lack of commitment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a huge problem. I'll quickly tell you things before i get onto the main part. I'm 20 and been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Before her, i had 3 girlfriends who all cheated on me. Anyway to the story. About 8 months ago, i found a number in my girl... (420 words)

How many women out there enjoy sex as much as their mates do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Last week my girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needed to wait at least a week before having sex again. This was the first time since we started dating that we've gone more than a three days without it. The funny thing is, I think she had just as hard of a time going ... (226 words)

Any advice on how to get closer to him or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it's not a massive problem but it's something I really need advice on. When I was 11 to 13 14 I always prayed and wished for a boy friend and now in year nine I finally have a guy that really likes me and were together but have only been together for a 2 weeks and alre... (185 words)

Fight or Flight???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - If you love someone and you know its different simply by the way things are and the way they look at you and the history you have together, but it was for the best at the time you weren’t together. As time has moved on and those looks still exist, and you may have also given ... (247 words)

Terrified to get into a relationship again as my heart was almost broken last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just got back into a relationship after a year of being single, due to a very messy break up where my heart was left completley broken. I'm SO scared of being hurt by my new boyfriend and I'm so worried that he's using me because thats what happened before. I don't think ... (91 words)

How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a boy in the year above me at school (hes in sixth form and im in year 11) i really like him and i would like to get to know him how do i get him to notice me or talk to me. i saw him in the local shopping center the other day, he walked past me and smiled. does ... (73 words)

I want to move out of my parent's house but it's complicated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, here's my basic situation: I'm a 19-year-old artist who wants to move out of her parents' house. Said situation is complicated by the facts that my brother is seriously mentally and physically ill, my father has a drinking problem, and I currently can't drive [partly ... (151 words)

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend who is also a family friend, how should I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im breaking up with my boyfriend and ive never broken up with a boy before. i dont know how to do it. plus hes a family friend, will this make it akward when ever he comes over with his parents?... (41 words)

I'm a attracted to a new guy but when I mention break up to my boyfriend he says he might commit suicide!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, This may sound weird. I am going around with this guy for past 3 years. I met him online. Everythign was fine till 1.5 years back i met a guy in my office. We were gud friends and fond of each other, but my bf thought we both were too close and started behaving really ... (136 words)

Should I just shut up and put up, mind my own business or should I go out on my own and discover what pleasures me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 15 years, child-free by choice and am in great shape for my age. My husband and I get along pretty well, share same interests, have good discussions and laugh a lot. From the outside, it looks like we have the perfect marriage, but about 6 years ago I ... (1545 words)

It ended over bad communication... there's tension, do I say hello?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got all my answers.. I regre... (303 words)

Should I tell my best friend that I had sex with her, at then, boyfriend in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically two years ago in uni i met a guy i really liked, which subsequently was a factor that made me decide to split with my then boyfriend realising i was looking for someone new. However soon after a close friend started seeing this guy, in a non exclusive way. I re... (278 words)

Do women have less sexual desire than men on an average???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Do women have less sexual desire than men on an average. Women I feel are more romantically and emotionally oriented while men are into doing the thing. One prof of it is the women rarely initiate sex. Since man has such a high libido that the less of women is still a... (68 words)

I can't get over my first love and I don't like the guy I'm with... I can't hurt him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

- hey there I really need help! I just started goin out with this lad called lewis who asked me and i said yes 2 days ago, i have never really liked him that much but i said yes becuase i thought why not. but now i really regret my decision you see i got unbelieavbly hea... (193 words)

I'm not pressurised into sex but I'm worried he will cheat on me if I'm not good in bed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im worried that if im not very good ... (107 words)

My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day I get even more sick to my ... (130 words)

Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside? Me and my boyfriend have regular intercourse but last weekend we found a quiet spot and had it outside for the 1st time. We were both nearly fully clothed so found the sensations "down there" more noticeable and ... (80 words)

After a strange encounter with girls who asked him if he was seeing me, he stopped answering my calls!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im really confused! this lad asked me for my number about two mounth ago. i said no although i did like him. anyway he didnt give up so i gave in. hes 19 and im 25. we called and txt most days an got on really well when we met up. i thought we could have had something and he ... (166 words)

What to do when you're on the verge of a breakdown?? I feel my husband is not interested in intimacy with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really know where to begin other than the fact that I am seeking advice,...help. I am married to man who is 23 years older than me, we have 1 child together. The reason I am writing is to get an outside look and maybe some good advice as to how I can possibly save our ... (168 words)

Found birth control pills in my wife's drawers....is there a way to confirm if she is taking them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age - I found various birth control pills in my wife’s drawer. I had no idea she was taking them. I have wanted to have a baby for some time now. Is there a way to medically confirm she is indeed on the pill? Any other way? She won’t admit she took them. ... (51 words)

I was wondering..is it far too soon to move in with my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and our planning to move in together. We are still in college, and marriage is no where coming soon ( i dont want it too). I love him very much, and I know we have had our ups and our downs already. We sleep ... (104 words)

I'm pregnant and have an older child at home and my husband left me! Will I be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband left me a month ago and last week i found out he is seeing someone else, we have a 3yr old son and i am currently 22weeks pregnant with our 2nd child. my world is collasping around me i can't do anything other than cry i am upsetting my son and i feel nothing ... (267 words)

I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lovely. I'm also considerate... (441 words)

Is it okay to ask a girl's number if you just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at a party and she was really fun. I asked for her number cause I really wanted to hang out with her again. But now I'm wondering if I did the right thing cause I'm not interested in her sexually, I just want to be her friend. Is it okay to ask a girls number if ... (66 words)

Should I just try and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i'm new to this but i just don't know what to do about my problem? Me and this boy have been basically on and off for about 3 years. I like him so much we were going out but we agreed to stop going out because we both thought we were better friends. We were still ... (207 words)

Due to my social phobia, I tend to be too shy around women! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, heres my problem i like this girl in my class in University. we are both in the same project group as well which makes my situation a little better I think that she likes me as well, one day in class she said I was Gorgeous, but the way she said it sounded more like sh... (355 words)

What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in which I will not be able to see m... (265 words)

I got married after a LDR, but she is not the way I thought she was...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i just got married after long distance relationship, but as i went back to marry now my wife i just discovered that i had no feeling for her.She is no longer beautiful as i thought and nobody else has told me that she is beutiful.after our wedding I struggled to make love to ... (219 words)

When you're at fault and apologise is it then best to try and make it up, or is temporary space sometimes the best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We're both 21. We've had the most blissful, easy, uncomplicated and fun relationship for virtually the entire time. We are often labelled as the perfect couple and his friends think I'm the cool girlfriend coz he can hang ... (460 words)

He kissed me, got another girlfriend, then kissed my neck when we met again, what's going on and how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14, but I think I might be in love with this guy. He's in my friends band, so I have to be friends with him. But a couple of weeks ago we kissed, a lot. Then about a week later he got a girlfriend, then he sent me Instant Messages saying that he didn't regret anything ... (224 words)

Love quadrilateral, advice needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my 'boyfriend' has two other girlfriends and we all know about each other. well ,two of us know exactly what's going on but his real,legitimate girlfriend doesn't. the thing is his real girlfriend 'T' really likes me even though i try to keep away from her obviousl... (174 words)

Revenge is sweet... or not???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - REVENGE... a powerful word.. Has anyone tried it yet? Is it true that it makes you forget the pain? (I just want him to feel the same way I am feeling).. any comments?... (37 words)

I don't like being in a long distance relationship where there is no physical interaction.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I (male) have been involved in an international long distance relationship with my best friend (female) for the past month and a half - she came to visit and we acted like boyfriend and girlfriend (including sex and general togetherness). She went home and we continued to tal... (528 words)

I love my girlfriend but I think I love her younger cousin too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 yrs old, I've been with my girlfriend(19yrs old) for 3 yrs now and i love her, but over the years ive grown feelings for her cousin too(16 yrs old) i was first very atrracted to her and i thought that was wrong because she was only 13 and i was 17 at the time, but then ... (240 words)

He's a great guy and very very good to me.. but I need someone who wants to be close to me physically. I feel so unsatisfied. Should I give up on this relationship?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in a relationship with a guy who's got a pantyhose (tights) fetish. I'm totally fine with it and wear tights regularly to turn him on. In fact it really turns me on knowing what gets him going. I've got my own fetishy aspects that I am open about. However, he never ... (263 words)

I so want to have sex with my boyfriend but am frightened in case I've caught anything from previous boyfriends!

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I went through a real slutty stage and had 4 one night stands for the fun of it. The trouble was each of these times I had unprotected sex. My dilemma is that I want to have sex with my now boyfriend but im putting it off (even sex with a condom) because im so worried ... (252 words)

I performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening and now have a real sore throat, could I have caught an STD?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I briefly performed oral sex on a man early Saturday evening. He didn't cum and there was no precum. Early the next morning I woke up with a sore throat and it has been a bit sore ever since, well not in the day but each night. Could I have caught an STD or would the next ... (93 words)

He has financial difficulties and I feel that is stoping him proposing to me... what should I do in this situation?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am running through the most terrible phase in my life. I have been dating a guy for over a year now and in the beginning he was really sweet and was coming on too hard on me. He tried everything till I let him in. After life 5 months he started to change not ... (620 words)

How can I regain my confidence and get out there to meet people again?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year-old guy who previously enjoyed going out and found the ability to have sexual relationships a relatively easy one. Unfortunately, I hit a bad patch regarding that matter about two years ago, one that I have not been able to recover from since. My close frien... (155 words)

She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 months now, and i am getting more... (108 words)

He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?... (48 words)

Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her in Japanese. We've been tog... (594 words)

The only place I feel I fit in is at home with my mam and dad. Please help.

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this is a bit stupid to be honest. I just don’t feel I fit anywhere, I think, would people notice if I wasn’t here? (I’m not suicidal or anything like that). I do get involved with friends but I always feel like I’m the odd one out. I’m quiet and shy normally but I’m fine ... (807 words)

After 12 weeks, would you say we were a couple or not?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts just a quick question. I met a guy off a dating site around 12 weeks ago. He is amazing. Cute, funny, kind etc. If we dont catch up he calls me every day, we go out to dinner all the time and have met each others friends. I'm just about to meet the family too. The thin... (200 words)

I told him I wouldn't call her, but today I did. Please help, I don't know what to do.

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i found love msgs from a girl in my boyfriends phone which he gave me to take for repair. i asked him about it he said that we would talk about it when i visit him (am currently away at school). i started going out with him in may 2008 and those msgs are for december 2007. i kn... (139 words)

If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?... (13 words)

Should I just give up and accept the fact that him 'going down' on me just isn't going to happen?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now, but I have known him since we were in Junior High. We were high school sweethearts that just barely realized it. We started having sex about 1 week into the relationship but only because we have already known each ... (238 words)

My best friend's involved with the married women, can you help?

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14 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My best friend involved emotionaly with the married women, who is working in his own office. they were having a gud relationship from last 4 years and he was protecting her from every bad thing just like her husband do. from last eight months they were not doing sex, as my f... (299 words)

Should a woman text/call, or should she wait until the man contacts her?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on a couple dates with a guy i really like, and have known him for a month now. We have a great time when we see each other. He has told me he liked me before. I just dont know how long i should wait until i call or text him. I dont want to seem like im not inte... (141 words)

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but after a few fluctuations i di... (316 words)

Is this a trust issue and should or could this effect our future marriage?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my Fiance and I have been together for 1.5 years and are incredibly happy. I have always had a weird intuition about a relationship in his past and just recently found out they got pregnant and got an abortion. He hasn't talked to her since this happened and has not interest ... (101 words)

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the country. I didnt mind at first as I ... (438 words)

Not sure where we should be as a couple, whether I should be starting to think to settle down, or whether I am being unfair to both of us by continuing the relationship?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am confused. I have the perfect man, willing to give me everything, and has been for the past 3 years. For some reason however, the feeling of going out and dancing, joining clubs, hanging out with friends, going to parties etc appeals so much more to me than staying home ... (217 words)

What can I do to fix our marriage, or is it time to call it quits?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a big issue right now, I am married, and I am wondering if it is time to call it quits. It seems that he has changed a lot in the last 2 years, and tried to cheat 2 times, but got caught each time. I can not trust him now, and I question everything around him. We hav... (136 words)

My boyfriend hides everything from me, the computer is more entertaining then me, but he loves our daughter. Do you think we can make it?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think about my relationship... Can we make it? I've been with my man for 4years we havent gotten married but we do have a two year old.... Any how where can I begin... Well it's come to a point in our relationship where I cant take it anymore... I try to be stro... (269 words)

She said she didn't want to rush into anything, I'm afraid I'll annoy her by breaching the subject again?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been chilling with this girl for awhile. we go to break together talk kiss have a great time . now we went on a date to my place(per) her request and we started getting into it and it stopped and she left. she said she wanted to postpone this to sometime during the week ... (161 words)

I'm a self proclaimed clingy girlfriend. How do I stop doing all these? How do I make my relationship better? How do I make myself better?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... I am in desperate need of help. I am a self proclaimed "clingy girlfriend." I have been with my man for two years and some, and I have always been that girl who needs to know where he is, who he's with, what he's doing, what time he will be home. I have tru... (190 words)

What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?

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14 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talking about how great sex has be... (222 words)

I'm confused about my sexuality - do these feelings make me gay, bi or what?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm a 15 years old girl who's a little scared and confused about her sexuality! I'm attracted to guys by their appearance and personality. But, I'm attracted to girls sexually, appearance, and personality! Does this make me gay/bi or what?! I'm not sexually attracted t... (55 words)

Why didn't I feel myself cum?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - is it bad that as a male i didnt feel myself cum.? i felt it a little bit, but the sensation isnt like it usually is? why couldnt i feel it?... (31 words)

Am I screwed up for falling for my cousin?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago i came into contact with my first cousin again at his moms house for a family party.. we drank carried on had a blast! but i have to admit i enjoyed myself too much.. I didnt know at the time i was falling in love with my cousin.. and it didnt seem bad i didnt ... (209 words)

What do you guys think, is he falling for me? Is this love?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 almost 23 the guy im seeing is 24. Well im wondering if he is falling for me by this statement: "I dont know, this whole thing is scaring me i just know that when i kiss you everything feels right" Both of us have been in really bad relationships. his last real rel... (249 words)

I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me out. i dont know why? its ... (69 words)

I thought it was my 'dream job', but since starting it my life has felt so empty. I feel alone and worthless and it is getting hard to put on a fake smile - what should I do?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I thought i had it all the perfect friends the perfect man and the perfect job .... i worked all my life to get the job i have now and at the end of the day I'm so miserable! my job took me away from home so i grew distant with my friends and my relationship fell apart because ... (240 words)

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically attracted to her anymore. I ... (465 words)

We've been apart six months now, we aren't 'commited' but he's all I think about. He seems to be moving on with his life, should I do the same?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at work and initially we connected on a level i've never experienced. We met at work as we both work away from home in our kind of business, I fell in Love with him ... trouble is he had to leave and go back to the uk (we were in germany) He said he couldn't ... (275 words)

How do I win this other man over so I can be with him without hurting the guy I'm engaged to?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am engaged, but love someone else, but he wont talk to me though because i am engaged. i want to know how this other man feels before i decide what to do, the question is how do i find out without asking him, or how do i win this other man over and not hurt the man i am ... (63 words)

I need some consistency, am I being selfish or just realistic?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband very much but I have been very annoyed lately. His company closed in July '08 and ever since then he has been trying to get a construction company off the ground. I NEED stability and not knowing if he will have work next week much less $$ makes me sick. He ... (137 words)

My boyfriend says I'm lazy because I am too exhausted to go out on weeknights, how can I make him see how wrong he is?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend says I’m lazy and he gets upset with me because when I get home from work, all I want to do is just relax. I usually get home from work around 6 p.m. Once I get home, I have to empty the dishwasher, re-load the dishwasher, wash a load of laundry, fold laundry,... (114 words)

Is it wrong to lose your virginity to someone you're not going out with?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I wonder - im still a virgin and this one guy wants to have sex with me but we are not going out , do you think its wrong to lose your virginity to someone you don't go out with ? and yeah im jst 16 years old ... (49 words)

It's worse than cheating or drinking, I don't know what he thinks! Should I stay or go?

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14 October 2008 (F) age - I think about leaving my husband everyday. I don't know what I should do , I just don't trust him. A Few years ago he started to have impotence, and his sexual desire was gone. He is ok medically,but he is just not ever sexy with me and stays soft. Well I feel unloved and ... (264 words)

His desire for a threesome has made me really insecure sexually, what should I do?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. We had an unusual start and were practically living together right after we started dating. it has been fine and we have not had any big problems but recently he has been saying he wants to have a threesome with another ... (264 words)

Will finally having intercourse effect our married life negatively?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 31 and will get married to my longtime boyfriend in a couple of months. Despite the fact that we have been together for so many years, we have never had intercourse. We both haven't slept with anyone else before aswell. Reason was we both wanted to remain virgins ... (220 words)

I don't want to be a homewrecker so I don't call him but I think about him all the time, what should I do?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relationship for three years from 15 till 18 im turning 20 in a week and i cant stop thinking about my first love he was such a good boyfriend but i was the crazy the type and he was a home body so we split up i moved to gainesville for school, had a bf over their ... (158 words)

He seemed surprised I'd called him, should I take this reaction as a rejection or see what happens?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend with whom I haven't see for about a year and a half, since he moved to a different state. We have kept in touch by emails. I decided to call him to finally make a different contact. He was very surprised and almost speechless. I guess he didn't expect it... (151 words)

My daily hobby is checking out charming women - is this normal or a vice?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age - I feel pleasure in looking at beautiful women every day,it's become a daily routinue just like food and water. If a charming lady is sighted on that day I feel comfortable, otherwise I feel something is missing. That is my recreation and hobby since my adolesence.Is it a common ... (53 words)

Could he like me, even though I'm only a freshman?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - so i'm a freshman in highschool. and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. everytime i pass by he gets red, and when i look at him he gets red too. i have no idea if he likes me or not. maybe he just wants be be my friend. and knowing me im not shy at all. but anyway i... (195 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to understand that school is important?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for quite a while now, and I have grown attached to him and he has grown attached to me. As much as I love him, I do not think I can stay with him for much longer, December at the most. Why? Because he will not get a job to pay for his school. We ... (301 words)

I feel very alone and unwanted, and I don't know what to do.

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do im 18 i have very frew friends cant seem to find a girlfriend i hardly ever talk 2 my mum or dad we can sit in same room without speaking 4 days i feel very alone and unwanted i dont no what to do any help... (52 words)

Am I overreacting by being jealous of her former lover?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and i have been married for a few years now but one of her former lovers has always cast a cloud over our marriage as far as I'm concerned. Whenever she sees him she just acts like I'm not there and they get talking for ages and laughing and stuff. At our wedding ... (183 words)

Is it normal for a boyfriend to forbid his girlfriend to make new friends?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - tottaly dig this girl but she chose to remain in her current relationship. All is fine , I found peace with her decision as i do have a crush. Tho , I would like to know her and hang around as friends, not that strange feeling right ? I don't demand her breaking up, just to ... (211 words)

How can I get her to be more physical with me again? I miss the attention.

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need help! I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we are running into so major problems, I will try anything to make it work so please give me your best. Things were going great as usual till about a month's time ago when she went out to a club,... (586 words)

How do I help my family deal with the loss of my gran?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My gran passed away last week and I'm just a complete wreck right now. Her death is affecting so many people in such a big way and I havent even began to grieve myself because I'm so worried about everyone else. My mum is a complete mess - she's been crying hysterically in t... (224 words)

Why didn't she text me after the movie?

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14 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked my girlfriend to txt me when she was done watching the movie she was watching with her family at her house and her brother started txting me around 8:00 and we got to talking and he told me the movie was done at 5:00! I talked to my girlfriend at 4:00 when I asked her ... (92 words)

Are guys ever nice to girls they arent attracted to?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I sit next to in class and he is super sweet to me. We dont really know each other that well but we do talk a lot, he always asks me what i did/what im going to do. Today, he offered to give me a ride to my house. I know he is a nice person in general but ... (86 words)

People said he abused me when he didn't! Is he going to jail?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i got into a fight? We were yelling outside and i guess people thought he was physcially abusing me because he was trying to stop me from walking. The police arrested him and im 17 he is 18 but he really didnt hit me. BUT everybody is saying he physcial... (76 words)

Am I obsessed or is it just a crush?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in desperate need of help. I really like this guy, but he's too old for me (legally). I'm fifteen years old and I just want to know if I'm obsessed, have a crush, or am I a stalker? You see, this guy isn't like other guys. He's nice and pretty young, he looks nice too. ... (166 words)

He tries to force himself on me, then tells me he loves me?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really dont know what to do!! i cant even sleep. ive tried, and tried and its runnin through my mind like christmas does!! its awful! today, i was in school (6th form) and i got a text from my *friend* call him bob. and he said to me 'come to your school gares' so i went to ... (443 words)

Is he being sincere or does he think he can get "benefits" again?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this guy I lost my virginity to. he's 23 and we were friends with benefits for months but i felt like I was being used so I said I couldnt do it anymore. He then asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his girlfriend but then he started to ... (307 words)

She wants to have a 'break'. How long should I wait for her?

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14 October 2008 (M) - My Girlfriend and I are on break, its been a hell of a week thou...Today, i went to her house and talked to her and saw her for the first time in a week. She says She loves Me and She promised To come Back and be my baby again. We Kissed And hugged and did things we used to do ... (76 words)

He said he 'might' want to sleept with other women. Am I over-reacting?

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14 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long term relationship and just recently got married. Through out our entire relationship we've always had problems with the way he acts around other girls. He's a big flirt and recently it's become a big problem because it's been with one of my best friends. ... (133 words)