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30-35,
*awa
writes:It was my 17th birthday last month, ive been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year, he is the sweetest and funest guy ive ever went out with, he has never cheated or hurt me, he always texts to say he loves me and misses me.I've started going out to the pubs with my boyfriend and his friends, there is Stan-my cousin, sandy-my cousin's ex, danny-my boyfriends school chum and Darren, darren is one of his closer friends.I was 100% sure i knew what love was and thought i had it with my boyfriend, but since i met darren a few months back, ive been unsure, at first i dissmissed this and said it was a silly little crush, but now, i find myself gaving into his eyes, my boyfriend says he is noticing im getting very close to darren, he says i flirt with him infront of him and he doesnt trust me to go out for a drink with him alone.when i look at my boyfriend, i smile, and i know im happy, he always looks straight back at me and it makes me giggle.when i look at darren, i fill up inside, he is my forbidden fruit, hes funny, gorgeous, kind and creative, he looks into my eyes when no one is looking and gives me a cheaky smile, he buys me drinks and is always good fun.im caught up as to whether i break my boyfriends heart, after over a year of love and see if things could work out between me and darren, or if i dismiss the idea of darren altogether, or if i go behind my boyfriends back to find out if i love darren or if it is just a silly little crush.please help me, im so confused, and dont want to hurt my boyfriend unless its really neccessary.write back as soon as you can please,im going crazy.i miss darren right now, but i know as soon as my boyfriend texts me, ill miss him, untill i forget bout it then ill be thinking of darren agaain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): well my suggestion for u is to stick wid ur current BF bcoz the love word has much emotions if he loves u so much in the response u should thankful to him though u got such a nice BF well no male will like his GF roamin wid other fellow so make ur mind and heart and attention towards ur current BF
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reader, JustChillin  +, writes (26 October 2008):
 Awhhhhhh the glory of youth..."Puppy Love"..."First Crush"..."Infatuation"...hun you're 17...you'll experience many of these things as you grow up.
I would suggest that before you hurt your (year long) boyfriend's feelings, if you really do want to pursue something with this Darren, you would need to break it off with your current BF.
The sad part is, you might break it off with your current BF just to discover that you and Darren really don't have anything other than, as you'd already mentioned...a simple Crush.
I assume you must really enjoy your current BF as you mentioned the "Love" word...so I would suggest that you keep what you know and enjoy and let the relationship blossom further. =))
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