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writes:Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex, I'll get on top. But a few times when I was on top, out of nowhere, he said "owe". I immediately got off. Then he asks what is wrong and I don't answer him because I'm confused. Then he says that he thinks that HE did something wrong and he thinks that I'm mad at him because I won't say anything! Did I do something wrong? I'm confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
Yes you are doing something wrong, you are not saying anything.
Why don't you answer his questions? Why do you let him think you are mad at him?
If he says what's wrong then just tell him. "You said ow so I thought I'd hurt you. Did I hurt you?"
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (26 October 2008):
You might have bent his penis funny or if both of you are skinny you could have hit him in a painful way with your bone. The only certain way to know is ask him. By getting off and not saying anything you are basically telling him that even if he is pain he better not saying anything because he will hurt your feelings. Next time it happens just ask what hurt and how you can change it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): The only thing 'wrong' was, you didn't say what happened and left him to assume that he did something wrong. Next time you two have a relaxed moment together, ask him why he says "Ow!" when you're on top - are you bending him the wrong way somehow, for example? Don't leave things like this up to his imagination, you've already seen that he'll go for the (incorrect) worst case assumption. Really, neither of you did anything "wrong", something just happened, something that you both can probably prevent next time around, to your mutual enjoyment :-).
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I did. Oops.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (26 October 2008):
 Do you mean he says 'owe' in a painful way? As if you're hurting him?
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