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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help me lose the party animal in me... I want to settle down!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hello there Im newly single women, mid thirties how would love to settle down and have children. I worry that with my clock ticking that im running out of time to have children. Im an outgoing person and love to have fun.... but sometimes I worry Im just too wild. Peop... (202 words)

I don't know how to make him appreciate me and put more effort into our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He is the first guy I've ever had sex with. He told me he loved me pretty soon after we started dating. And we both sort of agree on not saying it often because we want it to be special. But the last few times I've said it he ... (224 words)

My girlfriend has terrible mood swings and has just broken up with me by text, I'm so hurt, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid readers, ive posted on here about 5 months ago about my ex and son all that is sorted out!! now this may seem strange but even after having a son with my ex i have never felt this love that im feeling for my girlfriend!!we have a wanderful love life we love each oth... (402 words)

I am put off by the thought of penetrative sex but enjoy oral. Does anyone else feel like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Im just over 40 and still a virgin, in the sence of penetration sex, for some reason the thought, puts me off, im ok with oral sex both ways and mutual masturbation, but find it hard to go any further, i know this isnt normal, Has anyone else felt like this? Many th... (59 words)

I am a virgin, how can I tell him I am not ready for sex, without losing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy at my school who I want to be my first. People have said that he only wants me b/c im a virgin that's very "blessed" in the way im shaped, front and back. I know for a fact that he doesn't act the same towards me as he did the other girls he f***ed. Still, when he ... (320 words)

My life has nearly been destroyed by my father. I need to find a way to either rectify the horror I went through as a child, or a way to let it go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem is my dad. I am 21 years old and my life has almost been destroyed thanks to my father. My parents married young, and from the very beginning of my short life there were problems. I was only a year and a half when he hit my hand so hard it swelled twice its size a... (752 words)

Why can't I stop having sex with him when we're both married to other people?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to get my self out of this situation. I'm not going to drag this out. I was friends with my ex boss and we have been having sex since April. He is married. His wife works away 4 days a week. the sex is amazing and there is no emotional stuff that I feel we are g... (218 words)

Feelings for one guy, sex urges for another... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who is a long distance one. We are friends, we are not dating or anything, just keep in touch by emails and do enjoy each others friendship and care very much for each other. I admit I have strong feelings for him and do want him sexually. Recently, I met this... (197 words)

As her fiance, am I wrong in asking her to break ties with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee (we're getting married next spring), and I have been dating almost 3 years now. My problem is, she insists on keeping in touch with an ex-boyfriend that she dated for about 4 years. I believe that people (even married ones) can have friends of the opposite sex, but ... (292 words)

She asked me to hangout then blew me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl at work about a month ago and we flirted, A few days later SHE brought up hanging out with me and when I brought up I might be quitting for a better job (pay) and she said dont leave because she'll miss me :O. Well I got her home phone number (not her cell be... (139 words)

Why is he constantly cheating on me... his wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years now, we married because we got pregnant, I was 6 months when we married, he works out of town and comes home every other weekend. One month after we married the cheating started, I was so scared to be by myself I stayed. He would tell me he... (221 words)

Sex 3 times in 15 years of marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age - We have been married 15 years, We had romance and a lot of passionate sex prior to marriage, my husband was using meth at the time on occasion. On our wedding night no loving sex at all. From then sex only 3 times in the whole 15 years. I am very sad and unfullfilled. I'm ... (124 words)

The Introvert... or is he? You tell me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my situation: I am 28 and met this great guy who is 27 and I have seen him 5 times. He is really cute and just seems like an all around good person: what's the problem you ask: copy of our conversation: I was asking him what he was looking for in a relation... (324 words)

How can I spice things up in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Just looking for some advice. basically I need some help on spicing up my sex life! I can't believe I am asking this at 20 years old!!! We have been together 3 years, he is 30. Recently we have gone through a rocky time, I just lost someone very close to me and over ... (220 words)

I feel slightly inexperienced compared to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently in a relationship with a totally awesome guy, he treats me right, spoils me, and he loves me as much as I love him... He is also a really attentive lover, but that's not the point, he's the same age as me, but I found out his ex was an older woman by like 17 ... (96 words)

Am I losing my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I losing my mind? I'm in a long distance relationship, and recently my boyfriend and I had an "air clearing" session so to speak. He's told me how he really doesn't like it when he can't get through to my phone and it really pisses him off when he can't get through. We have... (254 words)

Why do men lie about anything and everything they can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men (husbands) mainly lie about any and everthing they can? They feel they have no need to tell their wife anything if he is feeling blue he just rather sits there to hiself than talk to me about it. I believe that's why our marriage is starting to turn sour because he ... (62 words)

Lesbian crush on my teacher..HELP

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and in year 11 at school, for 3 years I've had the same geog teacher and always thought she was lovely and admired her as she does a lot for the environment. I soon realised that I have feelings for her. She's so lovely but people would say she was a freak cos she has ... (156 words)

I desperately need to get out of this house and find a place of my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm still in same situation I was last time I left a question, a few of you said I should move out if husband won't. Is there anyone out there who has been in same situation, council house in both names he won't move so I need to know how to go about finding a private house ... (73 words)

I love my best friend, does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a huge problem. I have this best friend and he and I have been playing this game of tag for 9 years. I know I have very strong feelings for him but I am so confused if he feels the same. It seems like one of us is constantly dating someone else and we are never ... (219 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped? I have been dating a guy for 3 months now and I have not told him that I was raped 8 years ago and that is also the only time I have had sex, not sure what happened as I was unconcious most of the night so I also still feel like a virgin and ... (85 words)

Sexless Marriage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are in our early 30's. We've only been married one year (exactly). We've only had sex 3 times in our year of marriage. All three times we were drunk. We have no romance in our marriage, we barely touch or hang out, and it seems like we are more friends then ... (127 words)

If I don't agree to be her guardian my sister will go into foster care...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister (who's 3) was being abused by our parents. To cut a long story short child services called me asking if wanted to be her guardian or she'll be in foster care. I thought about it and her don't want my sister living with brunch of strangers but I'm 19 and I probably ... (91 words)

She enjoys sex in public!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - She likes the thrill of having sex in public and won't have sex with me in the comfort of our own home I get a thrill as well but sometimes I love to be at home so we can cuddle and lay with each other after sex.... I'm not asking for too much am I? She has recently sug... (86 words)

What can I say when I meet her for the first time to give a better impression of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I am going to be meeting this girl for the first time in the near future. Background: Found her a few weeks before I started university on Facebook. She was starting at the same time as me and we had some similar interests. I started flirting a bit and ... (399 words)

I WANT to cheat on my girlfriend...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - We've been together for 3 years and I love her... but the love could be "stronger." I have a great emotional relationship with my girlfriend and she rocks my world when it comes to physical sex. She gives me everything I desire in bed and we love to do the same things (bot... (319 words)

Boy "A" doesn't know a thing about boy "B"... who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..! I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (boy A), the other I got his num... (301 words)

Why am I with a man I hate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I be with a man I HATE so much? I am on pills because of him, all we do is fight every day and all he does is call me names or hit me, I have been with him for 6 years and he has never talked to me about getting married or having kids. I HATE HIM! What do I do I can't ... (78 words)

I really fancy my close friend's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this super hot and sexy boy that I like. He plays soccer and has good grades and did I mention that he is hot? Well I really like him and he knows it and I also happen to know that he likes me. There's one problem, he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend happens to be ... (321 words)

A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you some background infor... (1619 words)

He's been distant the last couple of days - is it the divorce? the kids? or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, first off I do not want to be slandered on here, I am truely asking for an opinion. My husband and I have been apart for almost 5 months. We filed for divorce last week. During the first 3.5 months I done everything in my power to get him back. THEN, one day I went to the ... (530 words)

Should I return my ex-bf calls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-bf and I broke up a month ago. I want him back but he did not want to, he said just want to be friends. He called me several times before but we ended up arguing. Last time he called we were okay. He called me again yesterday, I did not pick it up because my friend told ... (73 words)

She says she doesn't want to be with me - so why all these texts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I broke up with my girlfreind about 6 weeks ago, because we had moved in a flat, and were both really home sick and not happy living together. We were both really distraught about it and a couple of days later, after we had both moved back to our parents houses w... (256 words)

We are having a baby through incest - what can I do?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - To everyone that doesnt understand, this will seem really wrong but i've been in love with my brother (no not step, my actual brother) for the past 2 years after he helped me get over my cheating ex. At the start i thought it was just an admiration i had for him but then i ... (130 words)

How do I explain I love his looks and personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! basically i've been going out with this guy for just over a week now and it's going really well. trouble is, his last relationship ended really badly and consquently he has some self esteem issues. he asked me the other day if i find him physically attractive at all. i ... (161 words)

What do older men see in younger women?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What do older men see in younger women? Why would a man want to pursue a relationship with a younger woman? I would genuinely like insight from those with experience in the matter. I'm a young female interested in a man 15 years older than me, we get along extremely well..... (119 words)

I feel so alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling so alone right now. It's been several months now since I broke it off with my ex boyfriend, he was heavily into drink and drugs, emotionally abusive and once physically abusive. I stayed with him because of the good times - he could certainly turn on the char... (230 words)

I am being emotionally blackmailed and harassed by my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am being emotionally blackmailed, and harrassed by my recently ex boyfriend. We work together. I broke up with him a few weeks ago because i was interested in this other guy. My boyfriend and i were only going out 4 months, and it was more a fling if anything. He ... (231 words)

Feeling like the cause of her divorce is making me feel guilty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a situation that is tearing me apart. I've fallen in love with a friend of 5 years. During our friendship, she was there for me and helped me deal with my divorce 3 years ago. It was very traumatic. I didn't even realize how close we were becoming. In the past year, ... (242 words)

I have a crush on my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what should i do now? I have a crush to my teacher in our summer class. when i see him in the campus, he is always with a female teacher or sometimes with a student. he is not that handsome and not that tall. my friends say that he is UGLY. but for me, i think he is hands... (182 words)

My teacher teases me and flirts with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This is really complicated... well maybe not THAT complicated but still. ANyway, I'll start at the beginning: When I started Secondary School I had this teacher who also started at that school. He is unbeleiveably funny and witty and he gets on with everyone, students and tea... (485 words)

I feel mislead about a job I've taken, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I saw a guest room cleaner job advertised at 15-20 hours per week. I took the job. I started thursday, and so far have worked 15 hours, and thats not including thursday the day I started when I was there for 3 hours filling in the paper work. I am even hoping I dont get paid ... (531 words)

I ran into my old college crush and we finally exchanged contact info...will he call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So it started off when I used to go to college with this guy. We were in a class one semester, and I could tell that he had a MAJOR crush on me because he was always staring at me and finding the most idiotic, stupid excuses to speak to me. I could tell that he really liked me ... (299 words)

I keep dreaming about him. Is it Love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been having dreams about this boy for months now, i get them every night. He is always hugging me and telling me he loves me. Sometimes i wake up crying because ive realised it was just a dream. I Really dont know how i feel about this boy. Do you think it sounds ... (81 words)

I'm in love with my cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd seen many people posted about this topic before. It's slightly the same as mine, but I feels that my situation might be different from them. Okay, let's get to the point. I'm 18. I'm a guy. I'm a new christian(protestant, which I know that marrying between cousins ... (616 words)

Is there a pill that induces abortion? My period is usually heavy at first, but now is very light. What could be causing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I know that you can still be pregnant while on your period, but I was wondering if it could be something else because my period is very light which is weird cause its usually heavy at first. I was wondering if it could be the way Im eating, sleeping, etc.. I am sexually active ... (88 words)

I like him but I think he sees me as a friend although flirts with me, what can you suggest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this new guy in my school and we get on really well we just clicked straight away and recently me an him and another guy have got close! this new guy told me all his problems and i started to really like him though i think he sees me just as a friend even though he ... (84 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend and the ex says he still likes me, should I give it a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well a in february this year i started going with this guy he was awesome but we broke up due to exams and too much happening! we didnt talk for ages an started going with another guy an he was amazing but my ex hated me not replying to him but i couldnt reply due to my bf! me ... (81 words)

I expect every guy to hurt me because I was raped three times, how do I send them to jail and what to do to become strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i was raped 3 times by 3 different men and its really distressing, like they all see me as vulnerable and its making me feel vulnerable... im scared cuz im expecting every guy i see to just jump up and grab me. i see a phyc and i have put 1 of the men 2 jail but the other two ... (109 words)

Why is the guy I like, lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have an issue with a guy that I like. Pleeease guys help me ! It may sound confusing but that really highlights my own confusion Basically I really like this guy, he's 19 I'm almost 18. He has told me several times he likes me, we met when he was on a break with his "... (365 words)

He's a friend... any suggestions what I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and in my last year of school. I've really liked this guy for ages about a year and we flirt all the time, but he has a girlfriend. Everyone says it's really obvious he likes me, we are always together in school and recently went on a school trip for the weekend which ... (190 words)

I have a cyst that causes an itchy feeling outside my vagina.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a cyst outside my vagina and it feels itchy. I don't know where it came from, the fact that I use a feminine wash.. Can anyone tell me what's happening to me please? ... (39 words)

Edwin and his sexy talk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I meet Edwin on tagged (it's like bebo) and I liked him I'll admit cuz he is very handsome, but the thing is we started talking sexually from the first time we meet, now what I want to know is how do I encourage him to have a normal convo with me so I can know if I truly ... (66 words)

I love my girlfriend but don't really enjoy having sex with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend and find her very attractive, but for some reason I don't really enjoy having sex with her. I can orgasm when she gives me a handjob or oral, but I never have been able to orgasm from sex with her or any girlfriend I've ever had. A lot of the times I h... (134 words)

My brain keeps hanging on to the past, how do I stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, thanks to anyone who reads this. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about 4-5 months ago now and it's been a slow process moving on. I've had other girlfriends before her, but she was what I consider my first love. Although I think about her less frequently these days t... (145 words)

Is it wrong for me to want a sugar daddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and not interested in men my age or a few years older- I have dated them but it's just not a turn on. I keep falling for men in their 40's. I want a sugar-daddy and I'm so attracted to divorced men with children who have a high powered job (I'm not to worried whether I ... (101 words)

Will I want kids one day? I feel so bad that I have no interest in them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks for taking the time to read this. Im 26 and have been with my fiance 5 years. He is a wonderful guy and im so lucky to have him. There is 1 thing that keeps bothering me though.I have never been the broody kind when it comes to children i mean i dont hate them... (251 words)

She left me and taken the kids to go out with a barely legal teen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my 27 year old girlfriend has left me for a sixteen year old boy,we have two children together and two more from her previous relationship.im not sure if she see's a future with him or if she is having some sort of mid life crisis.she's drinking on a daily basis and is being ... (77 words)

Did my constant questions push them back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared I can't get over him, after our split which was nearly 6 days ago, he's already moved on with going back to his ex having already slept with her, meeting her after work and stuff, so guess he's already moved on leaving me feeling really down and always thinking about ... (117 words)

Why did he break it off with me? It doesn't make sense.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing someone for 3 months, at first he was very attentive, calling texting every day/night. We worked together and he never wanted anyone to know we were seeing each other and he said he liked to keep his personal life private. He never introduced me to any family o... (278 words)

Long time for a response or just shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Guys would you go out with a girl who called you back for a date a month after you initially asked her out? ... (23 words)

His porn hurt me so much, but I kept going back. How do I stay strong now I threw him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dearcupid, because of my husband, i have put up with crystal meth and porn for seven years. about 2 years ago is when i started leaving. i have left my husband for those two reason many times, and at one point joined the army to get rid of him. but like always my love for... (269 words)

My teacher liked me and is now being prosecuted! How can I help him save his job?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have just been reading all the student teacher relationship questions and answers...and i really need help one of my teachers has told me he really cares about me and that he could imagine us spending the rest of our lives together i have known for about a year t... (432 words)

Any advice on anal sex? I'm scared I might poo!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have tried anal sex a few times.There were on a few occasions that after my guy pulls it out there will be "air" coming out which is similar to passing air.But i know for sure that its not me.Im guessing its because of the thrusting of the penis in and out of the anus that ... (152 words)

Good friends or something more, I can't tell anymore?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I work with this girl. I originally got her number to text her a bit when I was bored.So we started texting each other a bit. Then we would text all day long. Then we ended up talking every single night and became really good friends. I started developing feelings for her... (259 words)

Innocent lunch or something more. I need help to know the difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a man asks a woman out for lunch instead of dinner? is this just a sign of being friendly or could it also mean romantic interest?... (31 words)

Why a play instead of out to dinner? Does he not want to talk face to face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this guy im interested in didnt want to go for dinner/ lunch with me but instead invited me to a play. I find it quite strange, does he find it uncomfortable to sit and talk with me face to face? do you think he's just being polite or he likes me and i'm reading too much ... (60 words)

Would you still go out with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi this question is for the guys but girls you can give your input too. If you asked a girl out but she responded by saying she is busy for the next week and will call you after a week but actually only calls you after a month, what would you think of the situation and the ... (66 words)

Why does he make up excuses for not seeing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 weeks now. at first he was very attentive and always all over me. but about 2 weeks later he changed and hardly talked to me anymore. i recently just saw and spent time with him after not seeing him for 4 weeks.(half the time we were ... (168 words)

Why do I still dream about him?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dreams, I know this will sound strainge but almost twenty yrs ago i had a scret love. he was married i was young, we both moved on. after all these years I still dream of him and even from my dreams he still makes my heart race like nothing else. Some advice on this please.... (59 words)

Everything happens for a reason?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey you guys well me writing this question is proof that i'm still here!!! LOL!!! well i know everything happens for a reason. well the day i met the str8 guy was like destiny. well a new kid just transferred to my class and he took my seat, me being nice let him have it, but i ... (197 words)

I slept with the guy I like's roomate! How do I fix this?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - like a year ago (nov), i met B, who i worked with at a pub, i was very shy at first and i liked him, i used to hang out with him and his two roomates and party at there apartment after work, now i always had a thing for ben, but i befriended his roomate M so i could get to know ... (235 words)

Should I move on even though I love her with all my heart?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well for starters i am 20 years old and I live in Minnnesota. I have seen the same girl for 2 years and 22 days alright... so I play college football but am also very musical. both singing and playing the piano, in fact thats how i met my girlfriend which we will name her 'LU". ... (1672 words)

How do I guide my boyfriend during sex so that I feel pleasure, too?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - male comments please :) Im in a relationship with a guy we have been dating for 3 months and our anniversary is tomorrow, i am young, and people usually look down upon sexual activities at such a young age. any ways, when my boyfriend and i perform sexual practices, it is... (126 words)

Keep thinking how it would be like to date around, I'm 25, too young to feel tied down. I'm confused about my relationship.

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being two and a half to three ye... (384 words)

I've been through so much, will I ever be happy again?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for someone to help me through this stressful period in my life. I got out of a relationship a couple months ago, we dated for a good eight months. I loved him. I gave him my virginity. We went there hell and back together. Breaking up was one of the hardest t... (417 words)

My girlfriend tried to cheat on me with a cyber-lover. What do I do? We have two children together.

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I caught my fiancee trying to cheat on me. She'd been cybering guys on the net for a while (one on which worried me because he was a local) I told her this upset me but just accepted it as a bit of fun. I told her not to give her phone number to anyone and keep it online. She ... (213 words)

I want to tell her that I love her but am afraid she won't say it back?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for only a week but i know from all my past relationships that this one is really special and i can honestly say i love her, but i dont know if i should tell her yet. I really want to tell her that i do but im afraid that when i say it sh... (73 words)

My friends tell me I'm a bad friend when I go out with my boyfriend instead of them...

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have a new boyfriend. and it's going really good. he asks me to hang out all the time and i love it. but my friends don't. and this happens every time i get a boyfriend. they ask me to hang out but i already have plans with my bf. cuzz he actually acts like he wants to ... (165 words)

I need help making a good second impression!

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19 October 2008 (M)

age - Had a 5.5K road trip with my father to Alaska over a month ago. During a Scenic stop we got out to enjoy yet another BEAUTIFUL site in and along Alaska's Great Hiways. During one particular stop we met a woman that took some pics of us, and I returned the favor. She was ... (1091 words)

People tell me that I'm still single at my age because I'm too picky, should I settle for someone that I don't love with all my heart?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, you can see my age range, and I still haven't fallen in love and gotten married and sometimes I feel sad, wishing I had someone to share my life with. I have my heart set on finding someone (don't know who) that I truly love, who loves me just as much as I love him. ... (1017 words)

Having a smaller-than-average penis, can I find women willing to commit?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it worth trying to find a woman this day and age, that is interested in a "commitment relationship" when you only have a 4" penis? ... (26 words)

I'm worried in case he can't deal with a-few-times-a-month sex, but there are past issues that inhibit my desire. HELP!

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been best friends with someone for 9 years, dating for 5 years, married for 3 months. Both he and I are in our 20s. I really love him with all that I have, but we don't get "intimate" too often. We work similar schedules, but he always goes to sleep an hour or two ... (467 words)

We broke up two months ago, can't make the pain stop or go away, any support or ideas of moving on?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age - How long does it take for a broken heart to heal? Hurts so much and I cant make the pain stop or go away..I cant get her out of my mind.. I was with someone else for a night and all I though was of her and how guilty I felt..we broke up 2 months ago..any support or ideas of ... (66 words)

Do I tell him how HOT he is?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I mean he screams S E X , big time. Absolutely a hunk baby, he's really hot, everything that he has. I would like to tell him how hot I think he is. Will he think I'm a slut for saying do, I mean do you guys like girls telling that stuff to you? It's not like I'm sleeping... (105 words)

We are working overseas away from our families and have become involved for a few months now. What is the right thing to do at this point?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my situation is complicated and confusing and sounds relatively similar to all the other stories posted. i don't want to believe that i could be the exception to a happy ending because realistically, the odds are against me but it is difficult to completely shut out the ... (751 words)

I'm so lonely! How do I deal?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,im in college and even though i go to a school of 14,000 people, I have never been so lonely in my life. I dont have any close friends here, just acquaintances and the people who I live with dont have anything in common with me and think i am a slut, which i am not! I lost ... (167 words)

How do I convince her parents?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Heres my situation, me and my gf ahve been dating for about three months and her parents wont let her see me unless her mom goes. And her mom wont let us hang out at each others houses. Also i have family in vero beach which is about two hours away from our houses and her mom ... (200 words)

In love with a girl, but she has someone. What can I do?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Over this past year, I've met the most beautiful person of my life. She's funny, smart, and just makes me get the most biggest smile on my face when I'm around her. I met her about a year ago and we've worked together ever since. I've liked many girls in my life but never ... (215 words)

How can I get into a strip club?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am only 18 years old, but I am wondering what I could possibly do to get into a strip club?... (21 words)

Corsage or flowers? Which one is better to give to her?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Homecoming is coming up and i was wondering if i should bring a corsage or just flowers. Like i dont want to over do it. And if not what should i bring?... (32 words)

I sit by as I watch her struggle with guys and it still kills me! . How do I deal with these feelings for her?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so here's a place i can finally write without friends knowing who i am. it's been 2 years with her. well that i've been chasing her. she's my absolute best-friend and i love her with everything i've got. we had a relationship forever ago. when we first met. it lasted a w... (505 words)

I'm obsessed with her! How do I move on and forget about her?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Have had an infatuation turned obsession with a lady that was my neighbor, employee and wife's friend. Both she and i are married. I became attracted to her in 2006 when she came to work for me and we had to work closely. She slowly took an effect on me to where she is all I ... (374 words)

I am majorly confused over his committment issues! Advice?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He and I have spent a long time together, two years this month. He decided to move out two days ago. We've stayed together longer even got a place together. Throughout our time of getting back together, he would always talk about marriage. I was so happy to hear that he was ... (249 words)

My pubes aren't growing back in properly... did I mess up down there?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to shave my pubes but a few months ago I broke out really bad and I have really bad scars. Now I'd like to keep that "triangle" to cover it up but my pubes don't grow back right? They're very short, coarse and straight. Did I mess up down there? ... (52 words)

Is it true that having sex in the early weeks of a pregnancy can increase the risk of miscarriage?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted on here previously about having had a couple of miscarriages this year. I was speaking with a friend recently who happens to be pregnant - she's had a couple of he incidents with bleeding although so far everything seems fine thank goodness. She was discussing how ... (115 words)

We broke up, mainly because of my actions, now a mutual friend wants to be my man. I feel scared to hurt my ex but also so happy, how can I handle this?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i broke up wit my "ex" cuz things were never going well i done some things wrong didnt respect our relationship *** if u know what i mean *** cuz he was never paying attention and he just wouldnt care about anything important i had to say and that ive been thru a whole lot ... (219 words)

We got close dancing but nothing happened, now my boyfriend won't speak with me. How can I fix this?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm currently in a two year relationship, where i've know my boyfriend for 3 years. we have had many ups and downs in our relationship for its duration, where i mostly was the one at fault. currently i celebrated a birthday and he didn't spend it with me. i spent it with a ... (175 words)

Am I too old to go to graduate school and persue a career, and if I do will it mean giving up on marriage and kids?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old and really want badly to have a career, and I would like to go to graduate school, but I am so scared that it's too late. I realize that technically a graduate school might accept someone of my age, but that at 29 I would be in a sea of 21-22-year olds, and I ... (893 words)

Tell me how I can pick up pretty women - I need advice!

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How do you pick up pretty women????... (7 words)

We lost out virginity to each other, I want to do it again but I'm not sure he feels the same, he's been different - what should I think?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were officially together for 3 weeks when we had sex for the first time. i know it was too soon but we both really wanted it. we were both also virgins. after that we didnt see each other for four weeks. and we still havent had sex again. we only did it once ... (126 words)

I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?... (37 words)

How can I stop obsessing about her and maximise the chnaces of this long distance relationship working?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Last month I spent 8 incredibly romantic, wonderful days with a young woman who lives 6,000 miles away. It will be 3 or 4 months before we can see each other again (we have talked about it). We had been penpals for 2 years before that. I really fell hard for her, but we both ... (221 words)

I can tell her what I want to do on the phone, but when it comes to actually doing it I feel worried she won;t be satisfied, any advice?

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19 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok...well both me and my gf r both virgins and have decided 2 have sex...the thing is that i can tell her what i want 2 do to her over the phone...but when i think about actually doing it i feel unconfident...i think that when i do those things 2 her i think she will be ... (64 words)

Still devastated with what this man did to me! Any advice?

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19 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband left me for another woman after 11 years of marriage. Worst of all its a woman we knew from our sons baseball team. I am still devastated at all the horrific things he's done to me since we separated. We have two kids, 10 and 2, and he has three other kids from two ... (518 words)