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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Don't bother eyes, I read it too, and it sounded fake in the newspaper and it still sounds fake here....
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 October 2008):
 I just HAVE to change my newspaper subcription.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Dear Deidre. The Sun. 25th October. Copied in toto.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (28 October 2008):
 Hi Hunny
I was very curious first because if you woke up and thought it was your b/f. Did you not no who you went to bed the previous night with. Plus if it was your b/fs best friend then your b/f must have been somewhere around as I'm sure his best friend is not going to be there without his best mate i.e your b/f. Your b/f was obviously around as you say you thought it was him, So why when you found his creepy mate in your bed did you not scream the house down for your fella..This would have been my reaction, but then I do feel I could tell the difference between my guy and another stranger in my bed. And to be quite honest he wouldn't have had the chance to blackmail me as Id have kicked his arse and more..Where was your boyfriend? This all seems a little strange to say the least
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): forgive me BUT don't women know their boyfriends oral technique? unless it's a new BF shouldn't women be able to tell - both oral & mish sex? Vice versa - don't men know their GF's bodies, smells sounds etc. I find these stories a bit hard to believe (excepting newness). finally to answer the q u tell ur BF.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 October 2008):
"and I know I should have checked who was giving me oral!"..ya think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): You've gotta admire the guy's style!
Seriously, this is the funniest posting I've read in ages.
Obviously untrue.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (26 October 2008):
 He raped you. You didn't give him permission to do it, that's rape. Also, he's harassing you, and assaulting you. Tell the police and your boyfriend.
Out him for what he is, tell the police everything, he'll be arrested and you wont be bothered with him for a very long time.
Good luck sweetie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): i read this story in yesterdays sun newspaper except it was her boyfriends son who gave her oral and now threatens to tell his dad if she dont do as he says
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 October 2008):
This is harassment and blackmail, and sexual assault.
Tell him you are keeping a diary of everything he says and if he says ONE MORE thing to you about it then you are going to the police. That should shut him up.
Do you have any threatening texts or anything? Try and text this boy and ask "why are you doing this to me?" That way when he texts back something horrible then you can have something to show police / parents / boyfriend.
Also I think you need to tell your boyfriend. If he doesn't believe you then he's not worth being with but this boy will leave you alone as it will all be out and he will have no power, and if he does believe you then everything will be ok.
You should not have had to check who it is giving you oral sex. As a woman you have a right to assume you are not going to be molested in your sleep by someone who you were supposed to be able to trust.
Facing your boyfriend has got to be better than what is happening now which is awful.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Tell him what happened as soon as you can! It was not your fault. BEFORE his best mate tells him, because if he does your B/F would think that you were keeping it from him because you were obviously guilty. And if you tell him a long time later he'd be mad even further because he would feel you had something to hide to be guilty about and would find it hard to believe you aswell.SOON AS YOU CAN is the answer!
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reader, xSpacexDementiax +, writes (26 October 2008):
 Well I think that you have to tell him - what are your other options? Either you tell him, your boyfriends 'mate' tells him and will make it look like it was your fault, or you have to go with his friend!Just tell the truth. If you two trust each other he will believe you anyway, and he needs to know just what kind of a friend he really has.
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