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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does cholesterol in the blood have to do with binging?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age - I found an response you sent on April 19, 2007 to a woman who was binging on junk food and you said the following (this is just part of it)- quote "You don't purge (throw up) after binge eating but you do have some hallmarks of bulmia nervosa. I don't think your petite body ... (147 words)

I was at my happiest with this boy. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - the only time in my life when i was truly happy and even that didnt work out , and i do not know why ! you see this lad that ive got history with just isnt leaving my head atm. in summer he liked me, ill admit it he grew on me, then that didnt work out. but then came the second ... (217 words)

Nearly 35, single and child-less - HELP!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hello there - I am typing this after yet another failed relationship! I am nearly 35 and can't seem to meet anyone to settle down with. I'm attractive, fun, have a wide circle of friends and generally love life, but after one failed relationship after the other, I'm starting to ... (147 words)

How can I deal with it... I feel as if my head is going to explode HELP?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP, I have a real big anger problem... I get angry over little things, for example when my mum asks me a question, I answer, she won't hear me she will ask me to repeat and I just boil up inside and snap at her or storm off and punch the wall or whatever is in my way which ... (104 words)

He won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age - My Boyfriend of 3 years, recently made a statement to me that he won't "jump through ANY hoops" in this relationship. What does a guy really mean when they state something like this?... (33 words)

Love him still and confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my first love and I broke up almost 11 years ago. I always have had him in the back of my mind...We both moved on. I never got married but have been living with someone and had children. We are about to separate. I recently got in touch with my first true love and he was ... (122 words)

She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things, and that I ... (352 words)

How to handle a penis!!!??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I could really do with some help. Any answers will be much appreciated. Well I've had quite a few sexual partners but not very confident in bed. Basically I don't have a clue what to do. For example before sex when me and my fella are just fooling about he touches me and ... (121 words)

How do I get rid of genital warts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age - I need advice, I am a 47 year old male and I have genital warts. I have tried various creams with not much success clearing the problem, any advice please?... (31 words)

On the road again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope this is not the end. And although nothing has happened yet I would like a bit of insight. My boyfriend and I started originally as a long distance couple. He had ties to where I am..a few friends and his company's HQ were where I live. It began a good nearl... (406 words)

How do I go about gaining a relationship when we have already had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshmen in college at the moment. A couple of weeks ago I met an amazing guy. He is a junior. I made the mistake of having sex with him already. Every time I see him I like him more and I'm beginning to think that I want a serious relationship with him. How do I go ... (69 words)

Any tips on how to make our relationship grow without ruining things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I've just met the most amazing girl online. We really clicked when we flirted, and I want to continue that. The problem is, I live in Walsall, she lives all the way in Essex. I can't stop thinking about her though. I've just got out of an unrequitted love situation and th... (123 words)

I haven't told my family yet that I'm pregnant!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Im a 17 year old high school senior who will graduate in June 09. This year has been a good year for me, my grades have gone from a/b honor roll with the occasional c to all a's taking dual enrollment classes and planning to leave home to go attend a prestigous college ... (142 words)

My work is damaging my health!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question. I am having a meeting with my boss very soon and I wondered if I could say to him, that the work I am doing is damaging my health, as in, having sleepless nights, losing concentration, becoming reclusive and having bouts of crying? These are not his problems are ... (139 words)

He wants to get back with me but I don't know if it's wise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex recently broke up one month ago, and I don't know exactly why. Me and him were together since before my freshman year in high school. But he hurt me so bad, and now he comes back to me, trying to get back together with me, I told him I will think about it.. but ... (76 words)

What does a guy mean when he says he is "chicken" in getting together with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, We are both married and I asked him if he wants to get together? He said, we would have to be discreet. I was like good he likes me.. but when the time came, he told me he is "chicken" and didn't want to get caught! What does he mean by being chicken? Then i... (163 words)

How could someone do in seconds what I've been trying to do for ages!??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am a 17 year old male who has a serious problem affecting me. I have liked a girl for 5 years now, and slowly been trying to get her to be mine. Throughout the years it has been very dramatic and has gone up and down like a roller coaster. I like her, she ha... (338 words)

He broke up our long distance relationship and now I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me a few weeks ago and I'm going crazy. Our entire relationship has been long distance.. but we made it work. We talked every night for two years and this summer he started going out with friends all the time and would never be ... (394 words)

Pleeeeease say he isn't gay!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear people, I need help - me and by boyfriend have been going out for 5 years, I never used to wonder if he was gay until recently, I mean he has a friend who acts so strange and seeing them both together makes me wonder what kind of relationship they have. Anyways I recently... (106 words)

I don't want to get hurt by my ex again and feel we're getting too close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Early last year me and the ex split up and two weeks later he started going out with another girl, claiming he wasn't ready for a relationship. He cheated on her a few times with me and broke up with her twice. We had a few fallings out but were still really good friend which ... (261 words)

Stuck between a rock and a hard place.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So you all know me by now. lol my wife couldn't figure what she wanted. well the divorce is over been finalized. Well she has been seeing this guy for 2 months and she talked to me 2 nights ago saying she misses me that she started seeing herself comparing him to me and ... (273 words)

We both want to be together but our families are in the way? We're both sad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been married 17 yrs to my high school sweet heart. Got married at 17- thought i was in love- then I caught myself always searching for something. Started working for this company- where I found him- he was my boss- found out he felt the same way- he was always looking ... (507 words)

My jealousy is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i m a very jeluos person and everytime my boyfriend talks to other females i get so angry but i know hes not going to do anything and i think if i dont get some help with my problem then me and my boyfriend are going to break up and i dont want that because i love him so much i ... (63 words)

Break up to make up or should I drop her like a hot coal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so If you get a chance, read my other questions for a better history. Basically I was with this girl for almost 2 years, best relationship ever, lasted through a pregnancy with another woman. But In the end she started to go out a lot, almost every week end, and it seemed ... (206 words)

He's stressed out about a lot of things, is this his way of saying it won't work to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I've been going out with this guy for around 3 and a half months (4 if you count me going on holiday, but we kept in touch through email). I'm crazy about him and I thought he was crazy about me. Since I got back from holiday we've had some good times together. At t... (256 words)

If men see my qualities, why don't they approach me? My friend says I'm amazing but doesn't want to disappoint me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old woman, I have been told that I am good looking, smart and can talk to anybody.. if this is the case why do men never seem to approach me? they always come up to my friends. the only guy i think i truely love is one of my best friends..he used to have a m... (175 words)

We're 'friends with benefits' is that bad? and does he mean it when he says he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If I am not with someone anymore but were friends with benefits, is that bad? And if I am in love with him, and he says he loves me too, does he really mean it?... (35 words)

A woman should shud her mouth and sit in the corner - he's abusive and strange. what's goin on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My husband just beat me down to the floor last night and held me there. I refusd to be held down so I fought to free myself. He told me to calm down and stop being angry I was calm and I was not angry. I was fustrated I was being accused of somethng I did not do or worse... (488 words)

I really like this guy but he is straight, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there. there is this guy that i really like. he has already had sex with a girl, but I really, really, really like him. I mainly want to lay beside him or on top of him in bed, but he is straight and i dont know what to do. please help me thankx... (60 words)

There's no sexul chemistry, am I right for wanting to take a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years to the day. He is an awesome person and he treats me like a queen, however I have never felt a strong chemistry with him, especially in the bedroom. Recently I met someone with whom I have a great deal of physical and ... (147 words)

Conversation starters? I'm having trouble creating new and interesting conversation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a two yearrelationship and we have hit some bumps I need help with conversation starters we live 4 hours apart but we always ask the same questions each time we talk or at least I do I need help I love this man more than anything in the world but I need help with ... (93 words)

What does he mean by 'you reap what you sow'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my problem is with my dad he has lost his job again just like he did when he worked down the mines. Yet this time mum says he seems happier, he keeps saying to folks you 'reap what you sow'. What does he mean.... (46 words)

How can I get over my abusive boyfriend without turning to alcohol?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a friends place because i was worked up about my now ex because he beats up on me. My best friend had thought i needed a drink to clear my head and calm down. She gave me 4 shots and a couple of big glasses of alcohol 9 percenters. I got maggoted and whist lying in ... (111 words)

My husband left me, had me arrested and now I have a restraining order on me and he has a new love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband left me 2 weeks ago.he has his own place that he never gave up the entire 2 years of our realtionship.anyway,i went over and went in without permission and although i didn't find proof of infidelity,i found out he had a pay increase by 4k a year. he founbd out i had ... (98 words)

Why aren't girls attracted to nice guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it that girls aren't attracted to nice guys? I'm always nice and courteous to the girls I like, and always listen to what they have to say, yet they won't go out with me, girls say that chivalry is the best quality a guy can have, but they don't see it when it stands ... (78 words)

He's not there for me like I want him to be. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend and care about him and God knows I do but he can't do anything for me. He dnt give the kind of attention I need and not as affectionate as he used 2 be. Everytime I try 2 leave him . He blames it on me and I on the other hand dnt really wanna leave him.... (83 words)

Does he want me or his girlfriend? He can't have both.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I ended things with my ex over a year ago, it was hard and hurt me, but I had to becasue he wouldn't commit to me, in the way I wanted him to. He wasn't happy, and asked if we could jsut carry on etc, etc, I couldn't do it, even though I still felt for him. We agreed to be ... (475 words)

Is it unreasonable of me to ask her to stop contacting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I went through a recent breakup. We were separated for several months. During this time she dated someone briefly. She denies it but I know she was very attached, if not in love, with this guy. He was involved with someone else yet she repeatedly asked him ... (206 words)

He cheated on me, are the twins his? And problems with his daughter...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Message: 10356.1 (1 of 1) Whose ready for a long story??? Well I found out in Jan of this year that my husband of 8 yrs. ,whom I should say I adore more than life, cheated on me in December. it supposedly only happened once. I am 28, he is 42(41 a the time, and she wa... (319 words)

After a one night stand things have gotten really confusing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age - I had a one night stand with a man 3 years ago,we kept in contact perhaps three times a year since, with him just coming back to my place to stay , but no sex , This year we met up and have been on holiday abroad 3 times we stay at each others houses and enjoy the company ... (211 words)

My mum thinks I'm sleeping with her fiancé

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a really confusing problem thats been going on for a couple of years now. My mum believes im having an affair with her fiance (kind of my stepdad). she is wrong nothing is going on, she kicked me out of the family home last year and i now have a flat of my own (im 17 ... (286 words)

I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend had sex without a condem and I think that i'm preagnet but i'm not sure. I haven't started my period in I don't know how long and I have all of the symptoms of being preagnet. Am i preagnet?... (46 words)

He wants me, we've both got partners in the same company...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age - WHAT'S GONNA HAPPEN?? He wants me but his g/f won't let him go. She gets out of control when she sees his interest in me, like she's a psychotic wacko. I really want this guy - there's a mutual attraction between us and has been for at least 6 months. When he starts working ... (137 words)

Should I ask my friend to teach me to dance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This may not be your normal type of question so please bear with me... Intro: I am 15 yr old guy and I suck at dancing. My problem is that I thought of asking one of my friends(a girl) to teach me but the problem is that: 1) I am currently crushing on a girl in anothe... (216 words)

How do you make people fancy you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you make people fancy you? ... (7 words)

Does he love me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my (male) teacher. I think he loves me back but I'm not sure can somebody help me find out? thank you ... (28 words)

Worried about our friendship because I like her and she's in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I started university two weeks ago. There is a girl on my course who I quite like. We hang around together a fair bit, and I think our friendship is growing. However, I find myself feeling quite attracted to her. She's pretty cute, she has a sweet sense of humor a... (152 words)

He sends mixed messages and won't even come out with me without a reason. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

- Im unsure on what to do. please help me. 15. me and a boy at my school like eachother. He has confused me. But iv spoken to him and he says he isnt ready to progress anything. When i try and ask him to come out after school. he says and do what? like there has to be ... (188 words)

What is sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - What is sex?... (3 words)

We've broken up, and he's moving to iraq for a year - will we have a chance when he comes back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there everyone! Well, me and my boyfriend broke up 5 weeks ago,( we argue alot over stupid staff) after dating for a 3 years. We still see euch other, go to dinner, he is telling me that he still loves me, but he just want to be firends with me. He wanted to marry me but i ... (156 words)

We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we broke up.. we are so near i... (299 words)

Exclusive, non-serious relationship. Is it worth being in one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is, should I have hope in an exclusive non serious relationship turning into a serious relationship? Non serious meaning (nothing more physical than the occasional hug and holding hands, talking and going out and having fun). Basically the reason for the question... (265 words)

My family has always picked on me and I have had enough. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 years old, and i have been picked on by my mother and one of my sisters. it is like if they think they are more supirior. they will pick on every little thing possible, from the way i talk to my dog, to the way i walk , to the way i raise my kids, to the way i do ... (206 words)

I've lost my faith in relationships. Are all men going to hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just got out of a relationship that lasted just under five years. We were extremely close, never ran out of things to talk about, loved spending time together, shared many interests and we always put each other first. Things were, as far as I was concerned, pretty much ... (252 words)

Am I nitpicking or do I have a valid reason for having hurt feelngs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Be honest...am I nitpicking?? Last night I took my boyfriend to dinner, what I ordered was HORRIBLE, he even said it looked bad. I couldn't eat it at all..I had a few bites of my sides and then just didn't touch the meal. My boyfriend loved his meal, he ate every single b... (237 words)

Whats your opinion on me kicking out my lazy, work shy, immature partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have several problems with my partner of 4 years, we have a child together, I have a son from a previous relationship and he has 4 other children from other relationships that don't live with him. One major problem is that he is irresponsible and wont work, Eg he has worked ... (352 words)

How do husbands/wives of actors/actresses deal with this jealousy?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 2694 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Help Help Help. I think I might be overreacting, but then sometimes I think I'm not and I should feel jealous. My wife is a pre-school teacher, and an opportunity for a Kindergarten position came up (at more than twice the salary), but my wife and I got married soon after ... (563 words)

How To Find My Birth Father....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll be 21 in November 08...and for the last 21 years of my life I haven't known my father...my birth father....and I've asked my mother over and over again about who he was....because she continued to say she didn't know...and I've asked my grandmother who he might be and she ... (105 words)

I am curious about sex and want to know how to masturbate.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 13 years old and want to start masterbating.I was wondering if anyone had any idea how to masterbate. Are there differentways to masterbate or just one. ... (28 words)

Am I gay or just curious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am a 15 year old boy, smack bang in the middle of puberty. For the last year I have been getting off to gay porn, I want to have sex with other guys, I like the whole idea of being gay and Last week I had sex with a guy. The thing is, I used to get off to straight porn, ... (85 words)

My partner lies to me - but I love him - should I give him another chance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for 6 years after we met through one of the dating ads in a local newspaper. We clicked immediately, enjoying many shared interests, laughing at the same silly things and generally sharing life together. We did not move in together for 4 years, ... (619 words)

I just want to remain friends with him for now... but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18,female and go to college with a guy I like. We spent heaps of time together during the first term (approx 10 hours out of college +24 hours in college/week) but due to circumstances nothing could happen between us until July next year (don't worry he is also single too). ... (198 words)

Could my boyfriend be bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Could my boyfriend be bisexual? I have this weird feeling inside that something is not right in the relationship. My boyfriend would be happy only having sex every other week. He never gives me oral sex unless I ask for it. He acts like he is homophobic, but yet he has ... (87 words)

My ex is telling everyone about our sex life and it's making me feel cheap.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 15 and my ex boyfriend has started telling people about our sex life. He is also 2 years older than me and told people in my school. It's making me feel cheap and disgusting and I don't know what to do :( ... (45 words)

We split up 5 months ago but he won't move out!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I split with my boyfriend (and father of my 3 year old twins) 5 months ago after years of him lying and stealing from me but he still won't move out. Nothing has changed, I still do all the cooking and cleaning and look after the twins by myself, the only difference now is he ... (97 words)

He is so controlling, how do I get out of this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everybody well I have a problem and hope that any one can give me some advice. Well I was engaged with this man for 16 years and he never asked me to marry me, I have a 4 year old son with him and 2 teenage daughters from previous marrage. My problem is the last past 2 ... (588 words)

He lives 130 miles away and said the distance is too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend's nephew is older than her, (17 on Sunday) and she introduced us a while ago, I think we got on quite well, he's my exact type, kind, funny, I spoke to him on msn and bebo and I decided I really like him. Some people suggested I should tell him how I felt and I ... (175 words)

When her husband died my boyfriend "comforted" her too much for my liking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy at my work place for more than a year now, our relationship started a few months after I had joined the organisation, from the time we have been going out everything was going on well and I really enjoyed the relationship even though the guy ... (329 words)

When does the honeymoon period end?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for just over a year now. We started living together after just four months, and got engaged around the same time. My question may seem a little strange, but we love each other so much, our sex life is fantastic, we spend ev... (121 words)

He told me I had no "presence" as in when I was in a room I didn’t stand out and faded into the background.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

15 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is quite long! I went on a date last night with a guy who I've fancied for a while and who I was getting signals from, as in he kept asking in a roundabout way if I had a boyfriend and said a couple of times I looked "cute". I was too shy to flirt back and he'd st... (470 words)

He cheated and told me right away but I don't know whether to break up or give things another chance.

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do, I found out this weekend that my boyfriend cheated on me and he came clean straight away and said that he wouldn't blame me for leaving him but he said that he wished that after I've thought about it I would give him another chance and he would really ... (139 words)

How do I make her have sex with me again?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with me again during the December ... (89 words)

Do you think I should investigate further or just leave it?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my husband cheated/cheats on me. Last year I was pregnant, most of the time he was working, work functions,etc. After my son was born in February he slowed down. But there's this one cell number that always appears on his itemised billing. He said at first his ... (237 words)

My girlfriend says she loves me but I know of 5 other guys who really like her... should I be worried?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well my girlfriend says she really loves me but there are at least 5 guys that I can think of off the top of my head that like her so should I be worried that she'll cheat at all??... (39 words)

Now that I am single and make a few stupid decisions does that make me a bad person?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. Me and my ex girlfriend went out for 7 months, and it was the best 7 months of my life. Before her, I had not had sex before, she was my first. She had slept with 2 others before me. She broke up with me, and after that I was heartbroken. I went out with my ... (204 words)

My girlfriend thinks it's nasty if I "go down" on her.

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well me and my girlfriend have been talking about oral sex lately and she says wants to give me a blowjob but thinks it's nasty if I go down on her therefore she won't let me. Is there anything wrong there or anything I should be worried about??... (49 words)

I fell down the stairs at school... AND HE CAUGHT ME!!!

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone it's me again and my problems are growing rapidly. Today I told one of my best friends that I was gay and she said that's cool. I also told her about the guy I liked and she said he's cute and I should make a move. Should I? Again I'm still terrified but today I ... (103 words)

My husband says he 'needs space'. What do I do?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband needs space. what should i do and what does he mean? we are still staying together but am in another room. we already have two kids. ive done saomething bad three years ago and he cant forget. what will i do? shaina... (46 words)

Should I give him another chance? I found texts to his ex begging her to come back!

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I have been dating a man that when we first started dating still had feelings for his ex of 5 years, they have 2 young children together and have been broken up for 2 years He at the time said he did want to get back with her and is tying to get over her and ... (345 words)

Why can't I get over my ex of six and a half years?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't I get over my ex-boyfriend? It's been six and half years since we broke up. He has moved on but I cant seem to let go. We were together for seven years, he's my first and only love. I need help!!... (43 words)

I don't think I'm gay, but I only get aroused by gay fantasies! What's the deal?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi yeah i am only 19 years old I like girls but when i get horny the first thing that comes to my mind is gay sex, but when i am not horny anymore my mind tells me i am not gay,but i start to think and want guys in my life sexually everyday.....i don't even get that much ... (177 words)

My partner's friends don't like me, and my partner does nothing about it. Help!

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's the deal. I live with my partner, and 2 of his friends that DO NOT like me. One day, they used me as the scapegoat, and started yelling at me calling me nasty names such as whore, slut, skank, hooker. Things like that. When I confronted my partner about it and ... (127 words)

What is going on with my husband?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't remember when my husband had an orgasm last time. When I asked him today when was the last time he had an orgasm he said it was two weeks ago with me. In fact, it was over 3 months ago FOR SURE. A little background info: we had good sex when we've met. Then he quit dri... (326 words)

Can anyone help me try to repair my marriage and get over my affair?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I know I am going to get a lot of people getting mad at me for this situation but I need help and I am sorry if I make people mad. I have been married to a wonderful man for 10 years but I have been having an affair with a married man for the past year. I am a flight ... (923 words)

How do I get out of a GOOD relationship?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old and im dating a girl that is 17. We started dating 2 years ago as of march 3rd 08. ok so iv been dating her for a while as you can see and she is great. shes cute, kinda funny, sweet, and we have alot in common. she was my first steady girlfrien... (501 words)

When will I find another serious boyfriend? I miss loving and being loved.

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my last serious bf was over a year ago.. I've met a few guys since then but I don't feel like I felt when I met my ex.. I want another serious relationship and it sounds corny but I miss loving someone and I miss the love from a bf. when the hell am I going to find someone ... (99 words)

How do I know if he is truly interested?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an old flame who I am very interested in getting to know again. In messages he sounds very interested and excited but he doesn't call at all even though he says he is going to. He claims he is just really busy with school and work so how do I know if I'm getting played ... (63 words)

How can I ask this guy to spend a little more time with me?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for a little over a month, and have a date out once a week. Usually we go out on a weeknight. I would like to maybe hang out on a weekend some time or hang out more often with him, but I don't want to come off pathetic. I've been really patient and ... (91 words)

How do I deal with my 'too-close-for-comfort' neighbour?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a menyally ill neighbor, that is stalking me, she is obessed with me because i rejected her friendship. she had five cats in her apartment and i complained about them because they crawled on my fire escape. also she would put the cat liter in the incrator with out bags. ... (112 words)

I've been told this guy likes me, but is too shy to make a move. How do I approach him?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So,there's this guy that i have been into for quite a while now, and i have heard from many people that he has an interest in me. i've talked to him a couple of times mostly online, but sometimes in person, and i have hung out with him with a bunch of other people. the probl... (117 words)

How can I make our wedding night special?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 31 and will be getting married in a month. Me and my b/f has never had sex with anyone. Though we have been having a lot of foreplay together, we have never experianced vaginal intercourse. I want our wedding night to be a very special one. Please give suggesti... (95 words)

I can like a guy for months, but if I go out with him, all the attraction disappears - what's going on?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I have a problem. It's like I like a boy and I can talk to him everyday for 6 months {without being with him} and still like him. But when I finally go with him all my attraction to him is gone [like it was never there]. It happening now. I'm going with this boy that I ... (78 words)

How do people act on a date?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past month and half my crush and I have been talking everyday.Yesterday he asked me what my answer would be if he asked me out and I told him that I would say yes..so then he tells me "okay but lets hang out first''so I said "okay"..I really like this guy but I've never ... (103 words)

My mum wont respect my privacy- even steals my underwear!

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my mother has no respect for the privacy of me or my brother and treats our rooms like shops where she can take things from. if we try and confront her she just laughs. i have recently to my horror discovered she is even wearing my underwear, and i've found this deeply ... (383 words)

I'm worried about what will happen if I have sex with my boyfriend.

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay first off I'm fifteen years old and my boyfriend is seventeen. We've only been going out for two months, but we've known eachother for a good chunk of eachother's lives. (his dad dated my mom for awhile, but they broke up. I then dated his best friend for a couple years ... (335 words)

I'm a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife! Advice?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a newlywed and I can't seem to get aroused by my wife. I never had a problem with that before we were married. she is gorgeous, and sexy, and I truely love her and enjoy my time with her, and yet I cant seem to get hard, I can however, when i resort to the dirty habit of ... (62 words)

Stuck in a love triangle! How do I let him down gently?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. i mostly seem to get what i want. im talking about with guys. i start liking someone and they end up liking me too. the last guy i went out with i wanted him so bad and he liked me and we went out. i thought it was going good and i got what i wanted but he broke up with me ... (214 words)

Is it possible that guys don't ask me out because they find me intimidating?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is merely a curiousity question. I'm not desparate for a boyfriend or anything. I've never thought much of it before, but people are always complimenting me on how pretty I am (nice hair, good figure, or whatever is what they say). I'm not vain about it and I don't let ... (246 words)

I seem to sweat alot for no reason. what is wrong with me!

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am a very clean person! i take a shower every day and clean myself up good. but i seem to sweat a lot. and its disgusting. but if im just sitting there i feel my underarms getting sweaty. and it makes b.o. i use deoderant. and ive changed it many times. im so sick of it. ... (161 words)

Is what I'm feeling for her....love, or infatuation?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am so confused about the feelings I have for my friend. I have "liked" my friend for over a year now, with no signs of those feeling going away. I care about her a lot. I've never felt the same way about anyone else before. But since I've never been in love before, I'm ... (64 words)

He asked for my number twice but never calls, don't know why..what do you think?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, i have met this guy online, he sent me a friend request i accepted and we began talking this has been going on for the pass two months, during this time we found out we had basically almost everything in common, we love the same music my favorite singer his my ... (178 words)

His porn viewing makes me feel like nothing!

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15 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey my boyfriend looks at porn and lies about it and it makes me feel like nothing and not good enough and insecure and upset and it was going on for way to long so i broke up with him. if it is making me this upset is it right for him to continue doing it in our ... (106 words)

Is he ignoring me now, because I wasn't receptive?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, my guy asked for a time out, i wished him good-luck and never called him, when he came back a while after, my phone was off so he called on my sister's and also left me a msg .. 15 days later when is witched on my cell i repleid to his exact words in a msg .. he ... (123 words)

My friends make fun of me! What can I do?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - what can i do? My friends are always being mean n making me feel bad about my self like the make fun about my wieght what should i do? ... (30 words)

Does my step sister like me?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i like my step sister and i'm pretty sure she likes me is there any way i can find out for sure without asking or telling her how i feel it's just i keep dropping massive hints like i got something to tell you which you won't like then she thought i was dying i said i wasn't ... (91 words)

Upset that my bf looks at dirty pictures! Shouldn't he respect my feelings and stop?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i was really upset that my boyfriend looks at dirty pictures as it made me feel like i was nothing and not good enough... I know he loves me but he goes on about that its just a guy thing and i should just get over it! i have tried to get over it but seriously couldnt and ... (111 words)

I'm meeting this guy for the first time...what do I do?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, i have been chatting to this guy online (yes i am gay) and have fallen deeply in love with him. we are meeting soon and i dont know where to start with anything, especially things like do we kiss, hold hands etc. what do i do.. thanks... (48 words)

How do I get my BF to enjoy oral sex?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years whom i hope to marry. For the first 6 months of our relationship he gave me oral sex. Since then it has been an uphill battle. How can i get him to enjoy giving me oral sex? Yes i am healthy down there, and he says he has a mental b... (72 words)

I'm afraid to talk to him in person...what should I do?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Like everyone else im haveing love troubles. but my question is a LIL more complicated. So here's how it began. My friend invited her to her sweet 16 party. Of course im going to go she's like my best friend. so its me her a bunch of her friends her boy and then two guys... (209 words)

People make fun of how I look! I feel like I'm not a normal teenager anymore...advice?

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15 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm a male and 17 years old and over the past few years I feel like I've drifted away from being a "normal" teenager. It's my senior year in high school right now and during my middle school years up until my freshman years I was happy. I could hang out with my... (220 words)

Guys, I need honest input! Does he think I'm desperate and does he even like me??

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Boys how would you feel or act like if.. u was talking to a girl u knew from primary! you gave her your number, she text you like 4 days later,then that weekend, her mates decided to ring you up and tell you she really likes you and ask if you fancy her or not? you then reply... (138 words)

His texts are shorter and there are no more endearments! How can I get him interested again?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met this really nice guy at work he and I have been chatting for along time now at work but because we work in different departments its been hard to talk for long periods. so one day he said we should meet up outside of work, so we did and went to the cinema. we ended ... (514 words)

Should I just stop talking to this guy I met, online?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and chatted for months before eventually meeting, we got on really well and met a few times. i am moving away with work (only a few hrs away), something he was aware of but he still met me. after meeting the last time i didnt hear back from the guy for... (225 words)

Girls, what do you when..you like a boy but your impatient?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Girls what do you do when..you fancy a boy but doughts he will ever ask you out? not because your minging just coz well..i duno? Thanx for all opinions..do you just leave it because your the girl or what? ive texted him..then my m8s decided to tell him i really like him when ... (83 words)

My husband got jealous of my guy friend! Whom do I choose?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so heres the thing.... I just got married in July... and had been seeing my now husband before that for nearly 5 yrs but, sometimes I miss the attention and desire you get from men when you are single. My husband has a friend (not a super close friend, but a friend) (lets ... (278 words)

I'm not a bad looking girl..what's a girl gotta do to get a date?

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15 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey this is really bugging me.. im not an ugly girl but im defo not stunning but i have a gud figure..Anyway i dont understand why boys aint interested.. I get comments like your well sexy or your a sort n that rubbish but no1 actually asks me out ever..ive been out with 1 boy ... (223 words)