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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Found a long black hair in his shower...is he cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 or 3 weeks ago I found a semi-long black hair in my boyfriends shower. Kinda on the wall stuck from the water. I have very blonde hair and his hair is black but very short. None of his friends have black long hair and neither do any of mine. Should I be wor... (211 words)

Will she ever give me a second chance after something like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me one month ago and it absolutely broke my heart. We had been dating for two years and she decided to end it about a week after our two year anniversary. I have taken this hard and she has given me reasons for why she did it. She feels like I... (381 words)

I have a major crush on this guy--do I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - He's the guy in the year above, the one that everyone thinks is cocky and over confident (which to some extent is true). Do I go for it at a party in about a week by telling him/trying to hook up with him or do I leave it? I've known him for about a year but only as an acqua... (117 words)

He's passive aggressive, but he seems really messed up in the head! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) age - My husband is causing me such a big pain. I can't figure him out.. We live together long time ago, and he is really a nice man. I'm sure many woman would love to have a nice husband like him , he is not a cheater a drinker and he is nice to his children. Well, thats all sounds ... (324 words)

New girlfriend and I'm clueless! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people of the internet. I am 16 and just got a new girlfriend (that I adore) a few days ago. We went to the park the second day we started going out. Things are going ok, we're having fun and all, but it feels kinda awkward. I'm sure it's because we just started dat... (115 words)

After so many years of his lies, I feel like I hate my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, wondering if anyone can give me any advice? 7 years ago my husband went behind my back, went on holiday with his mate, both happy to keep me in the dark, my husband pretended to me he was going on a business trip.Just recently i decided to let bygones be bygones and said... (475 words)

Why do I feel guilty for turning him in, as a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel guilty? This guy my friend is dating is charming and smart. They are in a long distance relationship though, but he sends her presents, texts her everyday and has planned to be with her already at christmas and spring break. However, he cheated on her by making o... (88 words)

I feel like my bf is bored with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling quite down on things at the moment. Amongst other things, I feel like my boyfriend is bored with me. He has never said he is, and he wouldn't be as mean to, but he seems to not be that interested in me at the moment. Although I am doing the best I can in life, I ... (749 words)

Can physical attraction develop over the years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you become sexually attracted to the guy you want to marry? We have been together for 4 years, and things are perfect, yet i am not physically attracted to him, and sex feels wrong. I want to fix this, and feel it is all in my head. What can i do?... (56 words)

MSN messages from her ex has me concerned!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i am in a long distance relationship, recently i have found out my gf's ex bf has contacted her saying how sorry he is , he realises now what he lost loosing her. she says she only speaks to him as a friend and that he helped her a lot in the past with problems. but when me ... (166 words)

Intimacy with my first cousin..was it wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i had a intimate relationship with my first cousin, we were together for four months and then decided to have sex, but i became pregnant and was made to have an abortion because i was only 17 and my family didn't approve, now me and my cousin don't see each other because ... (160 words)

He sent me roses but I just consider him a friend, nothing more! Help!

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy back in summer and we got along perfectly. He's the kind of guy who's always helping others and you can always count on him; in other words, he's a very good friend. Even if we've just met each other we really get along together. In the beginning i was surprised ... (198 words)

Do I give in to his threesome request or let him go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfrend and I have been together for 6 months now. He is recently divorced. He left his wife because of several reasons but one of which was the lack of sex. He says our relationship is not based on sex, and yet he said if ever I start not wanting i all the time he'd ... (170 words)

What else can I do to help rid myself of this horrible pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age - It's been 3 months since a very nasty blowout happened between myself and the man I was sleeping with for 4yrs occured. I have honored everything he said to me that day in July (leave him alone,etc...)It just seems to me that I should feel better after all this time and to be ... (155 words)

What is this guy thinking...help me out here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy gave me his number..i text him n we was texting most of the day..then he said is the pub on the cards tonite then? (bear in mind havent spoke to this boy since primary but only on facebook).. so i said maybe, he said he mite go with friends, i said i was thinking on ... (153 words)

Should I do myself up even more to be good enough for him? And change my personality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend broke up with me a couple days ago.. and i'm still not over it. we went out for about a week but i really liked him. usually it wouldn't bother me like this but i guess i really do like him. i guess i wasn't good enough for him. he's went out with preppy girls ... (125 words)

I love her so much, but all we ever do is fight or have sex. We plan on marrying. Do we really have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There are a few points about my relationship that would help you understand my position. - i've known this girl since my 6th grade. we had a mutual crush when we were in 8th and then we just drifted apart but we maintained contacts. - when i entered college and came off to ... (820 words)

Would love your opinions! I don't understand boys.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Quick question would love your opinions! So i used to go to primary school with this boy (im now 20 by the way)..anyway so we started talking like a couple of months ago on facebook then he gave me his number..so i text him etc n we was chatting n taking the piss as you do..the ... (128 words)

I'm worried my height is inadequate for my future career as a model! Help me stay positive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - All i want to do is model and people tell me I look like a model and I`m really slim ,but I`m not tall enough.Its really getting me down .I am only 15 and everyone says I might still be growing but its getting me down. Any advice on how to try and stay positive? xxx... (62 words)

Is there any point to this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i need some opinions more than advise. I really like this girl who lives three and half hours away but i know i will only see her once in the next year and i keep saying to myself theres no point. What should i do cheers!!... (48 words)

How do I turn a hook-up into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been hooking up with a friend of mine for the past few weeks. We have a fantastic chemistry and I love spending time with him (and yes we spend time together beyond hooking up). He recently got out of a relationship (although not a very committed one, he admits) and ... (94 words)

How can I convince him that my boobs are an ok size?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

2 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend always seemed to like my body. But he was very critical yesterday. There are things I can change, but there's one that I can't: my breasts. Full B's. But he says he'd prefer they were bigger. He says I look good anyway, but if they were a bit bigger they'd be ... (151 words)

I'm not a lesbian but how do I avoid hurting their feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have two friends, lets call them Georgina, Laura and Chloe. For a dare a while ago i kissed all three of them. the other day we were having a sleep over and they all started talking about and then things started to get really raunchy. they all started making out and w... (94 words)

Where do I get advice about my 16 year-old having a stash of viagra in his wardrobe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - One day whilst I was off work this week, I decided to clean the house, since we have guests coming round. As I was cleaning my son's room, I found a large amount of Viagra tablets stashed in a wardrobe of his - all the tablets were unconsumed. My son is 16, and studyin... (232 words)

Boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me! Should I call him or just give him time to miss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 5 years recently broke up with me. I was completly blindsided. I knew that we had been aguring for about a month, but he is a college football player and he was away at training camp. I thought when he came home everything would go back to normal. He was only ... (384 words)

We had sex. Will he think I'm too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy over the internet and we started emailing on a Wednesday. We had a lunch date that Friday and liked each other, so we decided to have a happy hour that same day. We kissed after the happy hour. Then I saw the guy Saturday, Sunday and Tuesday each for a few hours. ... (138 words)

Why is he acting 'cocky'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes my boyfriend acts overly cocky towards me. It may be sudden, such as on the phone or in front of people. He has been doing this more lately. He doesn't always act like this, sometimes he acts really sweet but he has recently been acting "too cocky". I wonder what ... (138 words)

I dared him to put my penis in his mouth. He did. How do I pretend it didn't happen?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this really is annonomous. I can't believe that I'm even writing this. I have a really close friend, OK, my best friend named Tony. I've been married a little over 5 years, and been best friends with Tony for about 3 years. We are very close and share almost all of our ... (242 words)

He says he will go out with me when he returns from the army, but he is unreliable! I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been going out with this lad for a couple of months now and he is in the army but i dont no if he real wants to go owt with me i mean he tells me he is coming home and he dont i have also noticed he has been telling me lies all my frends tell me to get rid of him but ... (144 words)

How can she just leave me after four years together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I was with my girlfriend for 4 years. We have been through everything together, but we made it through. We have more love for each other than ive ever seen. We our each others first love. We just recently broke up, and she left me. I have been doing everything to get her ... (208 words)

How do I pretend nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this guy twice. The first time only lasted 1 day and the second time only lasted 6 days. We just broke up yesterday. Now people keep coming up to me telling me he only went out with me because he felt sorry for me. I asked him if this was true and he said no. ... (116 words)

How do I tell him my real age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married 4 years. When we met 5 years age I told him I was 31 when I was really 35. I'm turning 40 soon and must tell him. How, I'm scared?... (39 words)

Is this girl interested in me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this girl about a week and a half ago at the end of a night out, we started chatting, she offered her number and i gave her mine. She texted me the next day and we started texting each other quite a lot. She suggested meeting up, so I asked her for a drink a few days ... (268 words)

I engage in sex with men I don't love, because I want to feel loved but they treat me like garbage instead! What's wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - iam verry clingy...i dont know whats wrong with me iam scared to be by myself, i take a lot of crap form guys...i still talk to my ex and even mess with him from time to time after he hurt me so much....stupid huh....i even have this stupid relation ship with a man thats ... (101 words)

How can I stop myself hurting over my 'toyboy'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and obsessed with a guy 20 years younger than me. We are both taking a class together a few times a week and up until recently, drove together. We sit at the same table and used to have a lot of fun but that has deminished as well. We no longer drive together ... (436 words)

I really liked him and thought we could become good friends and maybe more. But he vanished after 2 great dates! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had 2 great dates with a guy. The 1st one after 3 months of emailing nearly every day. He called to arrange a 2nd date and said he's looking forward to seeing me again. There was a 5 months gap between the 2 dates because we were both travelling because of work, but we stayed ... (333 words)

He told me he loved me in my native language, but it's difficult for me to trust people. Did he mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a problem with my boyfriend, I am a very defensive person, because it is dificult for me to trust in people, my boyfriend is a very good guy. The thing is that as I am forein he is learning my first language that is spanish, so obviously sometimes he would make ... (168 words)

I love my husband to death but he doesn't feel the same, never touches me or holds me, goes on dating sites, knowing I adore him and would turn the other cheek!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Gosh where do I begin. Well I have been with my husband for 5 years. Only been married a little over a year. I love my husband to death but I know he doesn't feel the same for me. Well he says he loves me but he never shows it, and I mean never as in he n... (418 words)

What are the effects of cannabis use?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x... (52 words)

How do we find out what our secret fantasies are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are both interested in exploring all of our sexual fantasies, we are both very kinky and uninhibited and want to go further. Is there any way for us to share our deepest darkest fantasies without the other knowing if we don't share the same? My idea would be some ... (139 words)

Please, how can I woo her back into my life - show her that I am a great guy for her and that I love her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. We completely fell in love the first time we met, it was like magic. She was 23 at the time and i was 18. For the first few months there was a lot of sex and passion and everything was great. it felt like someone really ... (565 words)

How can I prepare to live on my own without my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 23 years. Last year he had an affair with a girl that he worked with. I was devestated when I found out. I never even had a clue that this was going on, was hit totally blindsided when I found out. We worked things out between ... (313 words)

What can I do to make her like me more than just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have already asked about a girl who I thought was taken, first of all I would like to thank people who replied and second I would like to say that I can now cofirm that she is actually single, I got it wrong. The problem is I asked the girl if the feelings I had f... (113 words)

He's the one I want, and it would really help me if you told me what you thought.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I was with this lad for about 2 months (june + july). i've never liked anyone this much before, honestly in a way he changed my life. everytime i get a tex on my fone i always hope its off him but it never is. i got a one tex off him the other day but it was to the wrong pers... (333 words)

He has lied to me in the past but never cheated. We're trying to work on it but I found out that he lied again about a really small thing. I have no self-esteem, I am paranoid, and miserable. But I love him. Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been together for 4.5 years, since we were both 17. I love him so much and can't imagine my life without him. He is my soulmate and my best friend. We are sexually, spiritually, politically, romantically, and intellectually compatible. We mesh together so well. When thi... (1269 words)

What can I do to show him how serious I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy for the past 6 months. Things started off really well and we met and chatted frequently. Over the past few months however things have begun to change. He still loves me very much, but seems to be struggling with the fact he had his ... (117 words)

What should I do about my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The other week I kissed one of my boyfriends best friends and now I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and the majority of the time when we argue he gets abusive and hits me. His friend walked in on this happening about a month ago now and basi... (369 words)

Boyfriend problems, am I overreacting? He neglected me on my birthday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - of course I didn't expect to have a party or anything like that. I live with my boyfriend, so I expected him to at least do something nice. I don't care about a gift, I just wanted him to be nice/thoughtful because he never is. So I got home from work and started to make dinner ... (245 words)

Will he forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, i love him more than anything in the world! Lately, our arguments got worse, and it was mainly because of me,i get mad about literally everything to the point that i disrespected him, he told me we were done and i told him i ... (270 words)

How do I deal with my controlling mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am 25 and me and my mum are really close however she is a control freak and whenever i go against what she advises she comes back with "well if it all goes wrong i dont want to know" etc... Recently me and my boyfriend (who my mum adores) decided to go and visit ... (182 words)

We are dating and she doesn't text me as often as I'd like to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right... Ive been seeing (not a relationship yet) this girl since sunday, and we got along really well and all. that, but ever since i got home on sunday, her texts are really few and far between, I used to get constant texts from her, and she was jokin to me about on sunday h... (269 words)

I have a burning guilt for having used drugs at my friend's instigation! Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never done cocaine before, but my best friend does it a lot. Somehow when I was over at her house, I ended up doing it too, even though in the back of my head I knew my boyfriend wouldn't approve. Should I tell him I did it? Or is it okay if I just keep one little thing ... (63 words)

I have feelings for my best friend with whom I slept recently, but we then agreed to forget the incident, should I disclose how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful friend. She's clever, funny, attractive and unfortunately another good friend of mine's ex. There has been a lot of sexual tension between us for a long time now, and the other week, we ended up sleeping together. I felt guilty afterwards, but we agreed to ... (142 words)

I met this great guy but I'm bothered by the drama set by the mother of his baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this really great guy, Terry a few years ago. He is great! There is only one problem. He has this nagging baby mama. She calls, comes by to drop the baby off early in the morning, calls all night asking for diapers, saying the baby needs him and all kinds of annoying ... (107 words)

I don't know who is more abusive, my ex or my current boyfriend. Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if my ex or my current boyfriend is more abusive. I got mad at my ex once because I saw him checking out a girl in front of me on a camping trip, then in his RV i ripped up a note i gave him, and he said he would continue doing that because he thought i was being ... (456 words)

Is it possible to straighten a bent penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my dick erecrtion goes downward like a banana shape, and i am worried if that may not satistfies my gf, or any other girl i might meet, so my question is: could i make it straight through a medical surgent? ans is it dangrous? please if any body has experienced this or has any ... (62 words)

Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I feel depressed as he doesn't want me or his child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I love him so much and want this baby. He insists that he doesnt want to be with me and has been going out with his mates every night since he split up with me. I feel absolutely crushed. I dont want anybody ... (85 words)

Help me deal with stress! On the outside I appear so easy going but inside I keep worrying about silly things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi! does anyone have any tips on how to avoid stress as much as possible? sometimes i have problems sleeping and I know its down to stress.. on the outside I appear so easy going and happy but inside I am wound up and broken.. I worry about everything.. my friends.... (93 words)

How do I get over my abusive ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5347 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I need serious help. I broke up with my fiance a year ago, and I have been in a new relationship for 6 months. I broke up with my fiance because he was abusive on many levels, and plain disrespectful. He would constantly get mad if I didn't smoke or ... (692 words)

My wife's promiscuous past still haunts me after 28 years! Should I confront her or try and get help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 861 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I'm a 51 year old man, now married for 28 years. I was a 22 year old virgin when I met my wife. I had been in one long term relationship with a younger girl but we had not 'gone all the way' because we both felt that we wanted to save ourselves for th... (951 words)

I hate him for the constant abuse that he puts me through yet I cannot leave him for fear of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am constantly being told that I feel sorry for myself all the time from my boyfriend. I dont think I am like this, infact I would say I'm not at all. I hardly ever moan about things and when I do I save it kinda lol so it's like one big moan a month instead of 30 smaller ... (461 words)

Should I wait for him to show up or make a move myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there last year in november i was in love with the love of my life. we both loved each other and enjoyed each other 's company.this year in january i moved away for my studies ,he kept calling and everything was fine. in the holiday i went to our time and visited alth... (97 words)

I have had trust issues that I really don't want to have. Do you think they are justified? Can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This is really hard for me to ask for help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We live together and both have a child in the mix. We live like we are married even though we aren't. Three months into our realtionship a friend of mine, while we were out one ... (518 words)

He tells me he loves me but the way he acts is improper and tells me differently... what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I went to see my friend who has just had a baby boy last week. Before I left my boyfriend had said to me "don't get any ideas" talking about having a child which isn't like him at all as before he used to say I cant wait to have kids but it was me that was hesitiant. ... (543 words)

Why do girls give oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - do girls give guys bj's because they want to or do they just do it to make the guys feel good in a relationship... (24 words)

Is she simply trying to annoy me?

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2 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, here is the long drawn out story. My ex and I were together for 10 months. We broke up in July. She emailed me saying she couldn't be in a relationship with me anymore. We were perfect in the beginning and found out she had been my friend online 5 years before whe... (797 words)

I think my little sister is having sex. How should I handle this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 20 male and have a 15 year old half sister who leaves with my Dad. I know she has had a bf for the last 4-5 months of which I didn’t think anything of it. The problem is, whilst I checking her social networking site for weird people and stuff I found out the th bf is 19.... (191 words)

Whats with him? I am unable to understand.

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - The other day something strange happened to my boyfriend. I dunt know why but he suddenly kept comparing me with another girl we both know. He compared my ways of talking, my abilities and even a the way I care for him. I dotn know what had happened to him. He never did this ... (110 words)

Should I risk our friendship by telling her how I feel?

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2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I need some major help here: I love my best friend, she is the most beautiful, interesting, amazing woman, and I have known her for about 4 years and 9 months, and been in love with her for about 4 years and 8 months, she is 23, I am 24. I can still remember the day that I ... (475 words)

I feel so shallow for feeling this way, my boyfriend's such a great guy, and my best friend, but I just can't get over his bad hair, and skinny body!

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! My boyfriend and I have been together for the last three years, and we were very much in love. However, recently I feel like my eyes have been opened up, and suddenly I'm not attracted to him like I once was. I still believe that my boyfriend is an amazing perso... (149 words)

Do I stay with him and be miserable - or what?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship on and off for 3 years, I am now finding myself less attracted to my boyfriend. He has put on lots of weight and I am finding it hard to get the same feelings I did for him. Don't get me wrong, I still love him, but I just wish he lost some weight ... (213 words)

Is there any way I can get him to invite me over at his house? I suspect he's still living with the ex? Can I get him to change his mind or feelings?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about 7months now. He has been to my house many times. I havent been to his place yet. He says hes stayin with his sister due to a recent situation. However, a couple weeks ago his "ex" or "g/f" lives a few blocks up and has started to flip out ... (307 words)

I'm so confused - did he ever really like me?

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2 October 2008 (F)

- Im 19 years old and feb this year i met this guy in one of my university classes. hes 19 as well. The first day of class I was sitting by myself and he was too. He came up to me and asked me if i wanted to work on a project with him. I said yes. From that very day, he wo... (680 words)

I try to hurt his feelings back... because he hurts mine so much. I just don't know how to cope with it. Am I selfish as he says?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Where do I begin... I've been with a man now for a year (we live 40 min. apart)... but for the last 2-3 months now we've been fussing quite a bit. It's usually over a couple of things. 1. he wants me to do oral ALL THE TIME! and I don't want to all the time. He thinks... (869 words)

My wife is pregnant (again) and our sex life is DEAD!

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2 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is 4 yrs. younger than I am. Since she's gotten pregnant (again, 2nd baby now), our sex life is terrible. I feel like I have to nearly beg. She says 'okay', but then later on says "I'm too tired" or "let's do it later on". Later on never comes. I feel like I have a ... (114 words)

Is he beating around the bush in asking me to hook up with him again? Or is he just friendly?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hooked up with this guy about a month ago, and we exchanged numbers and stuff (I had hooked up with him a few months prior to that but never got each other's numbers or anything, and by hooking up, I mean we performed oral sex on each other and then cuddled and fell asleep ... (282 words)

My old flame and I talked about our mutual feelings. Now we are both going through nasty break ups. But she has begun to date others now and only treats me as a friend!

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently came back in contact with an old flame in June. We saw eachother for the first time in a long time, exchanged info and began speaking on a regular basis. Initially the conversations started out flirty, then they got downright dirty. While this is going on we both... (471 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend to be with him, we had sex once but then he seemed uninterested?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy ages ago through work and we went to a party one night and seemed to click, nothing happened because I was with my bf.. After I broke up with my bf we started seeing each other. went to the pub, out for dinner, we kissed, had sex once. My problem is that I feel like ... (145 words)

Where can I go to actually get started with my "social life", now that I'm a graduate? I'm single!

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2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - While I was in high school and my early college years, it wasn't that hard to meet new people. Now that I am a graduate, it just feels a heck of a lot harder. As I am getting older (22 next month), it bothers me more and more that I am single with no relationship in ... (153 words)

My hubby's always tired and needs to be left alone. I feel the need to cheat, but I love him, how do I do this?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My hubby works alot, 12 hours a day, 6 days a week. He is always tierd and he wants to be left alone. He tells me he is too tierd to make love to me, but it's now been 3 months and I can't take it anymore. I tryed everything! I am home all day w/ our 6 month old baby girl and ... (186 words)

He had sex with another girl during our break up and also asked for sexual favours from another girl when I was on vacation. This upset me, what do you think? Am I too controlling?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do? --- My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. I love our relationship because we have so much fun when were together. The history of our relationship is this: We started dating in March, when after about a week he ended it becau... (617 words)

He says, I am the only one for him, but I think he has feelings for his ex! Help!

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for a year now.im in love with this guy no matter what happens however lately, we have been having arguments. usually its always my fault really, i bring up something to get him arguing with me. this is because i did something ... (207 words)

He snorts pills! Should I stay or should I leave him?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We both are so in love. He had a problem with snorting pills when we first got together. He's promised and sworn on my life that he has stopped for a year and a half. Recently his Mom has told me that he was doing ... (154 words)

My friend is like a clone of me, it's driving me crazy! How do I put a stop to it?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - oh my god!my friend is just like a clone of me and i hate that!she wants to do everything i do!dress the same..wants to become friends with all of my friends,she just has a FAKE personality! if she ever has a problem with someone she asks me to fight that person back!she... (73 words)

We can't break social customs - so is it wrong that I adore her?

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2 October 2008 (M)

age - I am 54 with a cute wife, in spite of that i was allured to a cute widow co-worker with 3 kids who's 42. I feel happy to look at her and talk to her, i have not had an affair but have a sexual fantasy. She is aware i am fond of her, but we cant break social customs. Please ... (79 words)

His young kids are out of control and are effecting our relationhip, should I stay in this or not?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone dated a man that has kids that are out of control????? He has full custody and the kids don't listen, fight constantly. What scares me is they are only 3 and 4. He minimizes their behavior!!! We have been dating only 4 months and at the time we met he didnt have ... (131 words)

I'm teased at school, why do they do it and why do I have to put up with it?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I didn't have a good day today. Couple of my classes there are these people that make fun of me, talk about me, and tease me. For example these jerks make fun of me like the way I look and my appearance, and say I am ugly and look gross. I never did anything to them and I don't ... (110 words)

I'm not ready for marriage and babies yet, am I sabbotaging this relationship with my worrying?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I was hoping for help with a question that's been grinding away at me for a while now. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and our relationship is wonderful, warm, and loving. We are both educated professionals, and share many si... (183 words)

He says he's not ready for a baby - how can I change his mind?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband have been together for almost 4 and a half years and we have been married 1 year. I want to have a baby like yesterday, and my husband says hes not ready but i know he is. He is great with children. Im a nanny for a little boy and they play and have a great ... (175 words)

Am I wrong guys or is he just not that into me?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have dated a man twice in three weeks. Because his 17 and 19 year old sons live with him, he says he is really only available to see me after 8 pm weeknights and, so far, has not been available on weekends. He called tonight and left a message saying he didn't know what we ... (203 words)

I think he's having an affair, now it's very awkward, how should I handle this situation?

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2 October 2008 (F)

- I am needing some insight and help here and where better a place to ask..many level headed answers I have noticed. About three months ago I went out for drinks with a man at work to whom I was attracted. Things got a little hot and heavy but, to his credit he stopped things b... (220 words)

I feel like sex is a chore for him, is there a way to change this or lower my sex drive?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years.. He was always so into me and wanted to do alot of sexual activities.. but now he never asks to have sex with me!! .. not only sex but anything sexual.. I'm so attracted to him that i want him ALL the time. And when i ... (119 words)

I know I do need to make changes, so why does she still call and can I win her heart back?

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2 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello my I want to explain the whole situation so bare with me because I do appreciate advice and want you to be on the same page and know the story. Here it is...I met this girl last year and my life was in a rut because of the death of my grandfather who was more of a father ... (424 words)

I feel second best to a stupid computer game, what should I do?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I live together. I am currently 6 months pregnant with his first child (this problem was happening way before i got pregnant though). He does have a job, and if this wasnt a problem i think our relationship would be almost perfect. My boyfriend spends most his ... (326 words)

Is it illegal for an 18 year old to have a 15 year old girlfriend?

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2 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - (sorry this is going to be long) Hi everyone, I have a question...[but heres the story first] last Friday September the 26th, I decided to skip school. I am currenlty in the 8th grade and im 14 turing 15 in March. Ok now the reason why I skipped school was because my best ... (507 words)