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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I date this married woman knowing that she'll never leave her husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright around 4 months ago I met this girl and her husband. Both very good people I was going through a rough time. She helped me through a lot of it and we became very good friends in the process. Well early on in the friendship I found out her and her husband have a o... (458 words)

Proving my love for him? How do I do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and seeing a 27 year old, we are in love and we got in a arguement the other day. he told me that I need to prove to him that I still wanna be with him.. How do I prove to him that I wanna be with him?... (51 words)

Really scared of being on my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. im really scared of being on my own ive only just split with my one and only guy, my first everything basically, im feeling really lonely seeing him has someone else, ive not much confedence and all my mates have guys of there own, i dot feel atractive eventho people h... (87 words)

About Puberty and stuff..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old male going through puberty and have some questions... I have attempted to masturbate but nothing comes out, I guess I would say... Is that ok? I have some hair under my armpits and other places I shall not name and I was wondering when will my voice get ... (75 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend for this other guy... now he doesn't want to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know where else to turn. I was with a guy for a year and 7 months. I'm 17. Hes 25. meaning I got with him when I was just gone 16. I believed I was mature enough to handle him, his daughter, and all his baggage. He cheated on me several times and the trust was ... (360 words)

Nervous about possible complication.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met an awesome man almost a year ago and we slowly developed our relationship but we never really spoke about what our expectactions of each other are and now I found myself confused because it seemed like we were together but I didn't feel a sense of entitlement to him or ... (102 words)

What can I say to make him feel better and get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay people yall really did help on my last question but now i need help with somthing else... Okay i have this guy friend who is gay. He has just recently came out of the closet to his close friends but ive pretty much always knew he was gay. He likes this guy a lot..... (272 words)

It's A Shame Am I Am Wasting My Life Away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age - What chance does a woman over 50 and divorced have of ever meeting a nice man when there are so many pretty young attractive girls around and many willing to give sex very easily? I have never been easy meat even when I was younger although of course have had relationship... (209 words)

Tampons won't fit up me - what if I can't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i need some help. I am 13 years old and i have been having a period for 3 years now. Recently i have been trying to use a tampon, but it wont go up. i am definatly putting it up the right hole. i have been masturbating so i am wet, and then trying to put it up, but i... (93 words)

Tips on how to flirt please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 16 and i want to know how to flirt? because i get really nervous when approaching women and dont know what to do and say.... (27 words)

NEUTRAL? What on Earth Is That supposed to Mean?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age - I met this man on holiday and we didnt sleep together -i liked him and he was trying but i didnt-we e mailed a few times but I think he has found someone close to him and in his last e mail he said he wasnt attracted to me (so why keep on trying and get nasty when i didnt ... (160 words)

Can "dry sex" make you pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my girlfriend and i recently had "dry sex", i never came and was dry(ish) she is due for her period, but 30 min (ish) ago she was complaining of pains in her abdomen. Could this be pregnancy or is this normal, thank you ... (44 words)

Is it just me or do people think she's up to something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've only just split with my b/f 5 days to be honest and i still talk to him over the phone, anyway he basically wants to get back with his ex the other of his twin sons, ive been out withhim for 9 months, anyway hes just told me that last nite he went out with her... (187 words)

Over the past year our relationship has taken a turn for the worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for five years and we have two children together, over the past year our relationship has taken a turn for the worse. He went to prison and then cheated on me and got another girl pregnant. It's actually at the point now where I hate him but I just ... (222 words)

Straight... or gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I absolutely love women, and men i think. i want to have the greatest sex but i dont know which gives the better sex. i know that men turn me on more than women, and that is simply because men have better bodies when they work out. i want a nice body to be having sex with me... (122 words)

I feel as if I don't get a lot of his attention any more...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda long, but I feel as though I need to explain. I have been with my boyfriend since december 2007. He is now 24, I am now 19. We became really close really fast. Everything has always been great. My dad loves him, my mom loves him, his mom loved me and I am close ... (1348 words)

Does she still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Does she still love me? Me and my ex girlfriend have only just recently split up, i love her with all my heart, we were best friends before and still are, we went on a break just before we split up. she used to treat me really well at the begining of the relationship she... (232 words)

I've had offers to be with other guys but I want to stay with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for over 2 months now and we got on so well at the very start and we have told each other that we love each other. I dont no if i do love him because i have never felt love with a man before but it feels real. He is 25 and i am 17. Me and my best ... (410 words)

I'm a punk kid, loud with my friends... but shy around girls that I like. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 17 and extremely shy at times... especially when it comes to school and girls. It weird because i am a sort of a punk kid and have no problem yelling exactly what i think in the middle of downtown or at a show or when i am with my friends. but at school or when i am ... (133 words)

I shouldn't need to justify myself to my parents all the time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone... i kinda need some help about my parents... so here goes... last year i stayed out for my first year at university... i was based in uni halls and loved it so much... i did what i wanted came home when i wanted to and everything was great... recently ive moved ... (296 words)

I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but feel cheap and sleazy afterwards. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i really need some advice coz im not sure why im feeling the way i do.... recently i got together with a guy that i was unoffical with 4 about 6months we finaaly got together and only then i gave him my viginity... i was planning to wait for marriage but im not ... (175 words)

Do I act on my lesbian feelings or remain alone, for the sake of my closeminded daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age - I met this girl in a strange way, actually in a business setting. Now all I think of is her and anticipate our next meeting. The problem is I ve been attracted to females all my life. I ran from the feelings afraid of what people would say, fore I am also a woman. Now I have a ... (175 words)

I can't stop imagining my girlfriend's sexual history. How do I express my feelings to her without making her feel like a slut?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. We live together, love each other deeply, and I know she wants to marry me (though I feel we are too young right now to do so). My problem is that over the course of our relationship I have learned mor... (457 words)

My boyfriend ditches me for his friends. How do I talk to him about it without making him mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is always ditching me to see his friends. I see him at most 3 times a week, when i used to be able to see him everyday but now he's at collage, things have changed as the only reason i saw him every day was due to scchool. He always makes plans with me, so i do... (131 words)

Is it okay to confess to this girl that I like her? We're a little close but not that much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I need help. Anyway, I'm a tomboyish girl but many doubt my preferences. Some of them thinks I'm a normal girl while others think I'm a lesbian or bi. In truth, I'm into both but 70% of my attraction are into girls. Anyway, I still don't know if I'm bi or what so I'm ... (202 words)

Are they jealous that I was getting all the attention or was I really behaving slutty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to this party with my girlfriends. There were about 5 guys there that I used to be friends with and havent seen in a long time. I said hi and started drinking and dancing with them, while they were hugging me and flirting with me but I thought it was cool cuz they're my ... (294 words)

Confused about circumsised and uncircumsised...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i don't really understand what the foreskin is and what the difference between a cirucumsised and uncircumsised penis is? When you give a hand job/ blow job/ have sex with an uncircumsised penis do you roll the forewkin back or do you have to make sre it doesnt move at all to ... (100 words)

I'm not sure I want to be a doctor because the guy I fancy does so, or because I really want to?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have wanted to become a doctor for a while now but i never really decided if i could really be one. For the past year i decided to become a doctor. but i think the reason that i want to be one is because the guy i love is going to be a doctor( which by the way does not know i ... (113 words)

Am I wrong to be so calculating about losing my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 16 and literally the only person I know and am on a level with that hasn't lost their virginity. I dont think this bothers me too much as i DONT usually conform to peer pressure. However I am ready and do want to lose my virginity. The thing is, I have been thinking... (181 words)

Is my husband's sexual behaviour normal? Is he bi or gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice. I am married 11 years now. My husband had stopped kissing me shortly after our marrage. Always has a male friend around Who never dates an never been seen with a woman My husband expermented with me on several occasions with dildos and vibrators normal untill h... (121 words)

Is my 'gay' best friend falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend acts gay, so I didn't care when he hugged or snuggled quite intimately with me because I didn't believe he could have been attracted to me. However, he just told me that he's straight, and has hinted several times about making out. This is all making me uncomf... (79 words)

Why hasn't he told everyone my real age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 16. His mother's side of the family know I am 14 but his dad's side think I am 15. The two families don't talk. He has recently started a new job, and goes to collage once a week. He has told all of his new friends that I am 15 nearly 16 and all the ... (125 words)

Deep down I think she really IS the one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys and Gals, I really need some advice. Me and my longterm gf of 3 years broke up just over a month ago, we havent spoken or seen each other since the break up. Today i get a txt from her saying she has some of my belogings and i have some of hers and we should meet up t... (243 words)

Has trust been broken? Can I love her agian? Lies?????

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man of 10 years. Recently I discovered my wife has been deceiving me over the amount of contact with an EX of hers. I was cool with the level of contact I was lead to believe was going on..... but it is about 4 times the amount I was lead to believe. ... (363 words)

Best friend or my ex???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I've got a bit of a problem. Earlier this year I had sex with my boyfriend. We only did it once and I broke up with him shortly after because I felt that the relationship was developing way too soon and he didn't want to slow things down. During all of this I was and ... (172 words)

Some might say I'm lucky...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - High... I'm a married man 10 years into it. My wife has thought, on and off, that I did not love her because I did not 'stick up' for her with my family. She has a small point.... they can be intrusive, but nothing was ever said directly against her. I have delivered... (232 words)

We were experimenting... could she be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and by girlfriend were experimenting the other day. She was wearing shorts and her pants and I had my penis our rubbing against her (on top of her shorts). I didn't cum, and there was hardly any pre-ejaculation cum (was practically dry). Could she get Pregnant? I'... (59 words)

I want to get to know my neighbour better as I have a huge crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've got a real crush on my next door neighbour but I am quite a shy person and don't know how to approach him. I also have a daughter so I often think that guys won't be interested! I have spoken to him but only briefly and I don't know if he has a girlfriend. He w... (92 words)

Is there any way of putting an end to this relapse of depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, For the last 2 years I suffered a lot of depression. But this year, I got over it as soon as I got a boyfriend, OB, who is absolutely lovely. But the thing is now, I'm having a relapse coz two of my supposed best friends, SM and AG, are being really mean to me. They are... (315 words)

Haven't had sex in over a year, I feel very bad about this, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21 years old and havent had sex for over a year and im desperate for it. i dont know what to do.... (23 words)

Is it her or her illness that caused her to behave so? Am I wrong to keep clinging to this hope of getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - While I was at work last night my ex girlfriend calls me to let me know that she found a babysitter for our child and was going out with some friends. We remain close friends so this is pretty normal. I told her to have fun. I haven't gotten over the relationship yet... (565 words)

Why does my friend try and hurt me? We're not kids, we're grown-ups!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have ben friends with J for 5 years now and the past 2 years she has been quite horrible to me. Not all the time but sometimes. We are both in a relationship and she always compares my partner to hers. She comes out with 'How come you got the good one'? Both our partn... (340 words)

Is she still a virgin if the penetration didn't succeed? Is it normal that we noticed blood later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i tried to penetrate my gf but it was too tight and couldn't get in so we couldnt have sex. no blood came out right away but she was saying that she feels a little burning in her vagina. 2 hours later she showed me little bit of blood on her underwear means that blood came ... (112 words)

He slept with her during our break up to get back at me (I had cheated), now she's pregnant, how do I cope and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been together for 3 years now. Recently we broke up because he was pushing me away and I ended up sleeping with someone. No excuse I know. Anyways. We broke up and he was introduced to this girl who is 2 years younger than him and ... (226 words)

My husband's best friend who is also married wants to have sex with me, I refused yet he does not listen to me, what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husbands best friend wants to have sex with me.he is also happly married. his wife is my friend.i have already told him to control his emotions cause it will ruin our marrieges.but he is not ready to listen to me.what should i do?i dont want to hurt my husband cause i love ... (56 words)

She said she wants to focus on her girls, but why does this mean that she has to completely shut me out of her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All- Looking for some opnions and advice here. Ive been seriuosly dating a woman for about five months now. After being in previous relationships Ive come to appreciate what a normal, healthy relationship is supposed to be. We are both single parents, she has 4 girls, i ... (524 words)

Once, twice then enough!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years. my concern is when we go out in public my fiance will home in on a woman and then keep looking at her until he get her acknowledgement. he tells me he loves me very much and time will tell in the next ten years how much he loves me. ... (119 words)

He's giving me mixed signals... What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a guy, but I can't be sure if he likes me or not. Sometimes he is really sweet, he's teasing me a lot, he smiles and sometimes it seems like he doesn't care. I'm really confused and I have to do something to understand if he likes me or not! Any suggestions? ... (80 words)

I am scared of sex!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am actually 13 and one of my friends has been having sex (or so she says she does) and I was thinking maybe I should but I'm scared and my parents are overprotective -- not toooo much but I want to, now will I be a virgin forever if I'm scared to have sex???... (55 words)

I can't get my boyfriend turned on... Guys opinions wanted!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend just doesn't get turned on! He won't get hard EVER. I do so many things. I spent over $100 on two little outfits to make him happy cuz he said he liked those but it didn't work very well. It's so frustrating and I don't know what to do. How do I turn this guy on? ... (68 words)

My boyfriend likes his female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been going out for a year and a bit more.. but recently.. he's had something going on (not cheating)his uni friend.. he likes her, like next potential gf. a few weeks before today he was suddenly cold to me.. from a buildup of the things i did (apparently)... (420 words)

My friend gave this guy my number but denies it when I asked.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Yesterday I got a call by a guy I don't know. He said he was giving a good friend of mine shit for not being a virgin and my friend said 'I screwed this chick!' and gave a bunch of boy's my number. My friend denies it but then how did they get my number? Please help me make ... (71 words)

Feeling super lonely after finishing my master's, where can I find people with similar interests? I'm too old for the youth clubs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been feeling super lonely since I finished my masters. This problem is compounded by the fact that two of my close friends have left the country for good plus I find it very hard to meet girls (who are relationship worthy). Other friends have settled into relationships and ... (276 words)

I want to protect my single insecure parent but don't know how...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, gonna try 2 b straight to the point, I met a guy in phych ward (u may of read my 1st question, in troubled relationships) we stay in touch after we get up, meet up, move into gether, and have a rocky relationship, i was such a drunk and so was he, every night after a few ... (647 words)

My boyfriend is allergic to condoms and our sex life is somewhat confusing to me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend dont use condoms but are very careful on what we do. he doesnt use them as he is alleric to the lube on them. the thing is, we could be haveing sex, and all of a sudden he would stop, and then about 30 seconds later, he continues, what does this mean.... (56 words)

My boyfriend is suspicious about my friendship with his friend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, me and my boyfriends best friend has been texting, nothing about love or anything like that, just harmless chatting, we have become best friends and other people think we are cheating. My boyfriend has found out and is cross with the situation, he believes nothing ... (89 words)

My married lover suggested to abort our child. Does he love me as he says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. He said he loves me very much n he is absolutely jealous over me that even my girl friends are a threat 2 him. I told him last night that I'm pregnant for three months and he suggested that i should abort. Does he love me? I want the child. ... (87 words)

Could it be true that he slept with the ex? I don't know what to believe after reading her text.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was out last night with my boyfriend, and I knew that his ex girlfriend was hassling him by sending texts and calling him a lot. She sent him one last night whilst I was there and I happened to read it. He'd previously sent her a text telling her to leave him alone and that... (181 words)

My wife has this fantasy of watching me having sex with another man, I don't understand why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man for 11 yrs. Recently during foreplay and sex talk my started telling me how hot and horny she gets when she has fantasies of me have oral and anal sex with another man. Just watching her getting her self worked up and touching her self made me nuts. I have ... (144 words)

Underage sex with someone who is under aged too and I could be pregnant. Please HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My next door neighbor is 14 years old and he and I have been dating for about 6 months. He used to just finger me but, a month ago I lost my virginity to him. We have sex early everyday cos both our parents aren't home when we get home from school, so we have the time. I real... (204 words)

I feel it's my turn to be happy after being nice and generous to all people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey you gus it's lotmoney13!!!! i'm not sure if this'll be my final or not question. everyone who reads my questions knows i'm in love with a straight guy and i can't tell him how i feel just yet. i just wanted to say that i've been so generous and nice and kind-hearted to ... (119 words)

Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the perfect model type in most porn?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the model perfect type in most porn. I mean do they really prefer a mommy body with scars and sags (not overweight)as they say, over the scarless pre baby bodies on playboy and hustler??? I know amatuer porn ... (120 words)

Why do I feel the need to be a mother at only 17? I'm aware of all implications of teenage pregnancy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was a little girl i've been very motherly, I take care of everbody and I developed my period among other things quite early (10 ish) My dilemma is that lately I have been wanting to get pregnant. I'm aware this isn't normal considering i'm 17, but it seems to be a need ... (142 words)

Should I propose on her birthday? How to make it the night she will never forget?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I been thinking about proposing to my girlfriend of 7 years (haven't got the ring yet). Her birthday is coming up (she's turning 25) and do you think I should do it on her bday? How to make it the night she'll never forget? ... (46 words)

Best friend trust or love for the boy we both loved as kids. Truth or lie now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

18 October 2008 (F)

- I need advice asap! Okay, there this boy we'll call him Tom and there's my best friend in the world Kim. We tell each other everything and are super close for so many years now she is also my blood cousin.Well here's my problem when I first met Tom years ago I liked him ever ... (294 words)

Don't know what to do about my ex dating another man. Should I wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my g/f broke up about 2.5 months ago. We dated for about 2 years. Our relationship was good for the most part. We had fights but we got past them because we loved each other. We were both each other's first real loves and first to have sex. Anyways the last 3 we... (593 words)

Am I stressing over nothing? Should I give her space over the exam period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am long distance relationship for 4 years now, my Significant other is currantly doing her hsc, we spoke the night before her hsc started and i asked her what she will be doing during her exams etc and she said she will be studying etc, so 3 days after her exams/hsc have ... (315 words)

I don't want her little sister to live with her as I don't like kids!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

18 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My girlfriend's sister (who's 5) was being abuse by her parents. To cut a long story short, child services called her asking if she wanted to be her guardian, or she'll be in foster care. She told me she doesn't want her sister to live with brunch of strangers. When she talk... (92 words)

Young love! On and off around other people, what should I do?

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18 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Mkay, if this helps... I'm 14 years old, haha. Alright, so I have liked this girl for a little over a year and we so has she..... We've gotten pretty serious this month, and whenever I get a chance to talk to her, I do so. The main problem is that at the varsity football ... (356 words)

How can I get her away from these abusive dates of hers? I really do care for her.

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18 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with a girl i want to date. it seems that she wont even notice me. im nice to her, ive even asked her out once. i have listened to her problems but she keeps on going out with total dirtbags. she's abused in these relations - both physically and mentally, and ... (78 words)

After a year he's suddenly stopped paying attention to me, why?

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been together for almost a year, everything was going great, now all of a sudden he can't pay attention to me. He calls me or sees me once a week, when I call him he talks for a while then says he'll call me back and doesn't for a few days. He never took me o... (143 words)

Am I right to feel somewhat insecure, and maybe all of this wasn't just my fault?

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18 October 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things..i wish my ex would come back but i have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years i was with him. i wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a cycle that i guess i couldnt ... (1550 words)

Is this guy-bipolar or what? I've held my peace without exploding! Please help.

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad have been so negative towards and at me. His words are extremely hurtful however, I've held it in for a long time. I've take it like it didn't bother me. I've gotten to the point where, it was it. I've exchanged words over text messaging. After, sayi... (220 words)

....and that's the kinda relationship I want with an elder brother.

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18 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I am getting a step brother and one of my friends had this problem, and I'm afraid it will happen to me: is it possible or likely that I will fall for my new step brother?It's been eating at me, and I just want to clear it up. I saw 'Life with Derek' and the two siblings seem ... (82 words)

Please.. anybody that has a chihuahua, please help me!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this may have nothing to do with sex, or relationships, however it does have to do with LOVE. I recently got a new chihuahua puppy, she is the love of my life, I'm really worried that she might have Hypoglycemia. She isnt eating well, and she's been sleeping ALOT, sh... (74 words)

My masturbation addiction is affecting my life!!!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just turned 18 and have had this habit since I was 3 years old, though it only got to be a problem around the age of 7. Usually when sitting at a desk, on a sofa or lying in bed reading, I have a habit of crossing my legs and squeezing my thighs together in such a way ... (477 words)

Please tell me what to do? I'm a nervous wreck!!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to a man for several months now via phone and email. We went out on our first date and it was wonderful, we had so much in common and everything just seemed to fall into place. He asked me out on a 2nd date and everything seemed to be going wel... (177 words)

I don't want to have sex for a while, but he gets angry and says I don't love him!!!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and were so in love with each other. im 14 and he is 15. Now dont judge me or think im a slut cause i really didnt mean to or want to do it. But we had sex and i almost got pregnant. My mom found out and completley freaked ... (119 words)

I'm just looking for a little guidance on who and how to choose out of the two.

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18 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's my problem, it's one of those two girl problems. About a year an a half ago, I met my current girlfriend, who happens to be my first, and we've been going out since then, she's the only girl I've ever been physically intimate. It's been a great relationship so f... (312 words)

I am wondering what this is doing to my body?

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18 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I was just wondering what this is doing to my body. At the moment I am eating nothing all week apart from on Fridays when I have a binge. After this binge I am sick but I only make myself sick three times after each binge, no more and no less. I also exercise one hour a d... (90 words)

She has a boyfriend but I have far more in common with her than he does!

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18 October 2008 (M)

- Hi, I want some advice about a girl I have known for about a year and a half now, she's called called R and I'm C. She's 19 and I am 20.. we both met through a friend of ours. We established a really good friendship.. we talk about lots of things and have so much in common it's ... (413 words)

Best mate's father... and me!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what I should do as I'm in an awkward postion here.. I am actually in love wih my best friend's father, and I know he feels the exact same way. We always talk to each other about our feelings but how we can't do much being around my best friend. We have got so c... (217 words)

I'm now pregnant by someone else and fear I'll never get him back now...

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy broke my heart a year ago and since that day I just cant stop thinking about him. I want to see him everywhere I go, I want to have him back. However I got pregnant with another guys boy who just doesn't care at all and in my mind that pretty much ruins any chance I... (111 words)

I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot of people say he wants to ... (402 words)

A bit confused but I think I might be pregnant!

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you get your period the month after you have intercourse and be pregnant? I need an answer!... (18 words)

His wife is in denial about the divorce and keeps harassing me online.

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18 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wonderful fiance' for nearly a year and we planned to get married by the end of next year. However, his ex found out about him getting married by hacking into his email account and she went livid. (She is really obsessed with him) I start receiving really b... (221 words)