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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a second cousin and I really like him more than a cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a cousin. Well he isn't my blood cousin. His mom is married to my cousin. So I didn't know what to consider him. I just say he is cuz I've known him since we were kids. Until a few months ago tho we have become really close. We talk a lot and we kinda flirt. I don't know ... (118 words)

Why do people get jealous of other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do people get jealous of other people?... (8 words)

I don't know if my wife and I will ever have sexual relations again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age - Well,Cupid, I doubt that even your strongest arrow can solve this problem. Oh. I hear the reply. "Whatever could be wrong?" It's kind of straight forward. The usual, man meets woman, woman and man marry, woman all the sudden doesn't want to be intimate with man. Man craves ... (726 words)

Should I meet him at Easter when I'm 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all... I cant believe I am even thinking about this nor asking for peoples advice, it's totally not like me. I was wondering what I should do... On msn, I recently starting chatting to a man the age of 44, he seemed decent enough, funny and a genuine guy, so I lied a... (302 words)

I've been stressed out for a few days now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been stressed a few days now.. about 2 weeks ago, I tried to finger my gf but she said it hurt so I stopped like probably 1cm in. And then afterwards, I rubbed my penis on the outside of her vagina for like 5 seconds. I rubbed it before cumming. Then around 4 days ago... (163 words)

The heart wants what the heart wants... and I want Brian!

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27 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I need some advice. I'm in love with an 18 year old named Brian and I really want to let him know. I've come up with many ways to tell him but none of them seem like they would work out and I'm not brave enough to tell him face to face. Now you're probably thinking I'm only 15 ... (110 words)

Oral Herpes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a woman with oral herpes have unprotected sex without giving it to her mate? Because you know oral herpes effects the lips and eyes and genital herpes effects the genitals. So if there is oral herpes is it all right to have unprotected sex without passing it on?... (51 words)

He says sex would be better if I would do anal. What does he mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had bad experiences in the past with anal sex. it was shoved in too hard or it was forced on me to do it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and he really wants to try it because he has never done it before. I am not a huge fan of it because of the past ... (156 words)

He says he likes me, but his dating site profile is still active.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi here we go: I am dating this guy I met on a dating website. We get on very well and last Saturday we had sex. It was our 5th date. I feel a bit insecure as I think i pushed him into it. He texted me next day and asked how I was and I replyed back. He does not text me ever... (127 words)

Could I get pregnant if he cums on my stomach?

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27 October 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I hope no one thinks this is a stupid question but can I get pregnant doing this? I've been messing around with this guy recently. We always use condoms during sex but he takes it off at the end and cums on my stomach area. I've never had a guy do that before. Is there a good ... (76 words)

How can I get him to stop spreading lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A few years ago I got out of a long term relationship and one of my friends, let's call him Mark (who is 10 years older than me) was right there to be my shoulder to cry on. The problem is that he got me really drunk and kissed me. It turned out that Mark had been in love ... (445 words)

My fiance had threesomes in the past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????... (49 words)

POZ man married to a woman and being gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hello everyone. ! i m here becouse i just googled married man to a woman and being gay. trying to find out answers. i have a woman in my life who has been with me for around 17 years. we had good sex and i was in love to her at the begining of our relationship. but ... (551 words)

Would you like to be second best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If you found out that your bf/gf was going to dump you for their ex, but then decided to stay with you, would you be ok with it or wud you end it with them ? how would you react ?... (41 words)

Am I really worrying for nothing or is my vagina actually abnormal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, straight up I am 15 and really self conches about my vagina. iv talked to 2 a close friend about it and they describe there’s basically the same to each others, but mine isn’t the same. i have like 2 flaps of skin like around my vagina (really hard to explain it), as well ... (260 words)

Recently my sex drive has just disappeared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I am 25. Recently however, my sex drive has just disappeared. Whenever he initiates sex, I get shivers down my spine and it just doesn't feel right. I avoid having sex now, and feel terrible for it. I do still feel desire to have ... (118 words)

She wants a "back up" guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do maybe.... (57 words)

"Just friends" - what do you think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I trust him or not? Basically I have been going out with my bf for a year and know him about 7 years. We were best friends all through school but also knowing there was a little something more there. Finally we got together last year after months of "will we".. "won't w... (281 words)

He loves me but is confused... what does he mean???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Everything between is great. We love hanging out with eachother and we spend alot of time together...on the phone and inpesrson! but i don't know lately something doesn't feel right...like this other day we were on ... (357 words)

Why do I feel something for this guy even though I have a loving husband now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and married, got married Dec of '07. I love my husband very much. When we were dating it wasn't easy for us... no one wanted to see us together. Well like I said I love my husband very much but I want to know why I feel like I do. For about 2 years I had a crush on... (342 words)

We've only been married 3 months and he's been talking to his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are married for 3 months... one day I went through the phone and I saw his email was open and I saw he was still keeping in touch with an ex of his. I confronted him he said they are only friends and I don’t have nothing to worry about… what should I do?... (59 words)

My mum or my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have the worst situation in life, my mum and my girlfriend dont get on, I love them both a lot and I feel I have to choose but I dont want to... I need them both in my life and they both need me for emotional support but i dont know what to do... (58 words)

He's scared that I'll leave him, to be honest I really don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a situation here, and I don't have any idea what to do, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is very sweet with me and he does everything to please me, he is always very busy with work and college but he always manage to make time for me we normally see each ... (623 words)

I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in love with my ex I cared deeply for him we broke up because he cheated on me... well one month later I moved on and I found someone new, I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me... Why do I feel that way?... (58 words)

Time is running out....what can I do?!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to a girl from America for about 6 months. Around 4 months ago, we started to flirt with one another. Since, she has made plans for us to meet eachother before christmas. The only problem is, I have a girlfriend now! How can I possibly break the news to her? ... (110 words)

How long should I say nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently split with my girlfriend of 7 months. Basically, she started a 70 a week job in another part of the country and i felt i had to go be with her to make it last. I went there to try her job and live with her. Unfortunately, we fell out. She got two guys she was living ... (179 words)

Is there a cure for shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I keep on imagining myself in the ... (80 words)

I'm feeling the intensity slipping away.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi My problem is, that I've been seeing a woman for 8 months. Initially my feelings were very passionate. Up until recently I've noticed a difference in my feelings and I don't know why. Our love making is very powerful. We generally see eachother on the weekends, an... (239 words)

Am I pushing him too hard to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and i complain to him allthe time'when we going to get married' and he complains that he wants to give me the perfect wedding so he wants to basically wait till we have money well we are moving from ohio to south carolina ... (171 words)

How do you get rid of a broken heart?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age - How do you get rid of a broken heart when it’s been broken by 2 men at the same time? I’ve been married 25 yrs. and it’s been a rocky marriage. My husband is living in another state managing our 48 unit apt. complex which has caused a lot of grief for us. He can’t leave ... (296 words)

How can I overcome getting low when I don't hear from him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with a man who has a partner but says he will keep in touch with me ( we have just become good friends and I am happy as that)! - He rings on occasion - when he can get away - but on nights he doesn't I start to really panic that I will never hear from him ... (138 words)

Should I stay or should I go now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a situation here, and I don't have any idea what to do, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is very sweet with me and he does everything to please me, he is always very busy with work and college but he always manage to make time for me we normally see each ... (516 words)

Why can't he cum from oral?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been sexual active for a few weeks. but every time i give him a blow job, he just doesn't seem to cum. he has even told me that when he gets home and if he is still hard he can cum there, just not with me. is it me that's the problem, or is it something ... (62 words)

In love with one man but falling for another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused! I am in love with one man, and falling in love with another. I don't know how to choose! One is my ex.. we had a falling out and didn't talk for 2 months. During that time I met this amazing guy who I have the best time with. I think I'm falling for him. ... (539 words)

Does he mean it when he says "I love you"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you no if a lad really does love you when he tells you he loves you ? Well this lad keeps tellin me he loves me, but i have doubts abbout if he really does, cos he told me a few months ago that he keeps tellin people he loves them wen he dosnt really, and i said oh great... (131 words)

What should I do to make this a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am basically don't know what i am wanting, but i have been seeing a guy for almost a month, i don't even know if we a in a relationship or is just the sex, whenever we see each other, we either just french kiss and then have sex.. I wanted to make him feel i am special and ... (78 words)

He means more to me than anyone and I don't want to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This goes back a while, about 8 months to be exact. I went on holiday towards the end of March/beginning of April. It was a little place, no where fancy. I was never a believer of love at first sight but when I saw this bloke who worked there as an entertainer, I melted! That ... (423 words)

Jealousy is destroying me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

- Im so jealous of my ex's new gf its eatin me up inside. He split up with me for her 3 months ago now. At first I was really nasty to her, sednin her bithy emails etc and tryin 2 split them up. Ive stopped that now cos I realised it only makes u look like the idiot and pushes ... (122 words)

Do people with herpes have to be careful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering,if a person has herpes are they still considered the same as evrybody else who doesn't have herpes or are they considered to be different?also, how is a person with herpes supposed to be happy if they have a life long painful disease knowing that most people ... (84 words)

Am I pregnant already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I have been on ortho trycyclin lo which a birth control pilland then i was forgetting to take it all the time so i switched to the nuva ring which you stick in you once a month and take out the week of you period...well i decided i wanted to try and get pregnant so i took ... (125 words)

Do I drop a great relationship to sow wild oats?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been tossing myself back and forth lately about making a decision about a wonderful relationship I'm currently in. Just a little background about myself first -- I was an extremely "dorky" and awkward teeneager growing up. School was such a high priority in my l... (863 words)

My new hubby is proven to be such a disappointment!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My new hubby is proving to be such a disappointment. When we first met he was sexy and driven. He was flirty and dirty. He had boundless energy and thrilled me with his crazy plans and naughty antics. One night he drove me to a top hotel and plied me with champagne. He ... (356 words)

What is causing my eyes and lips to burn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do you know what std(s) causes a person's lips and eyes to burn very badly every three days after sex or intimacy?or you could even call it stinging without any bumps or sores?that's how bad it really is.sometimes i cry from how bad the burning is.especially on my lips.i mean ... (139 words)

Is it possible to bounce back from this "rough patch"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my highschool sweetheart since i was 17 im 21 now, I am engaged to him, he is 24. obviously i am young and naive about how the real world is most of the time. My fiance and I have been having a really rough time together. We havent been able to get along at ... (214 words)

How do I save my friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my boyfriend dumped 4 months ago we were only going out for 2 months but im still crazy about him. It feel really low, i don't want anyone else i get offers but refuse eventhough i know i can't get him. He's always on my mind. I think i am in love. If i am in love, why does ... (223 words)

Should I carry on with this long distance romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 14 and live in manchester in england and met this girl on msn. I really like her and she likes me and we are dating. Howevver she lives in aberdeen and is 12. We really like each other but should i carry it on??... (47 words)

Do men mean it when they say "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - While we were laying in bed the other night, he told me he had something he wanted to tell me. I got nervous and thought it was something bad, but it wasn't he said I love you. And I believe he meant it because men don't say the three words if they don't mean them. Am I ... (58 words)

He says he connects with me emotionally but not mentally. What does he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The same guy I have been dating said he hasn't connected with another girl emotionally since 6 years ago with the girl he was going to marry. He told me that he connects with me emotionally but not mentally and he wants to. How should I take that comment? ... (49 words)

We're dating but I feel like the last one on her list of people she wants to be with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately we've had problems with getting in fights over the stupidest things, we have been dating for 8 months and I know in my heart that I love her with all of my heart and she says so to but, either she's not really good at showing it or something. The most recent thing was ... (375 words)

Do you think this will end up in me being hurt again by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just want opinions here so i know im not letting myself in for trouble. This will be long! Was seeing a guy for five months, we never went out but i wanted to as was crazy about him. Reasons we didnt go out are because he didnt want to at the time and because we didnt se... (383 words)

I feel so completely insecure sexually with her now, and suspicious of her reasons of being with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear everyone. I think I am at a about to end my relationship with my girlfriend, but I really wish I could just get over this problem instead. I have become uncontrollably jealous and insecure in this relationship and regardless of what it takes, this negative pattern has to ... (711 words)

Is he just being friendly and just flirting? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a controlling relationship and recently got out of it and moved back home with my family. I have met up with an old guy friend a few times this week. We always hang out in groups but I always notice that his attention is always on me. No matter how many ppl are there ... (271 words)

My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep. When I wake up he laughs and says he's just joking around and I tell him to stop, but this is the second time it's happend. What should I do?... (45 words)

Why do I keep hurting people like this?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found myself in a predicament. I have been with my boyfriend currently for 2 years, but we have had a few problems. I have cheated in the past and told myself I would never hurt anyone like that again... Somehow I had a couple of margaritas with a close friend and we ... (74 words)

I've to meet my ex as he badly needs a blowjob! Is he serious???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I've just got off the phone to my ex boyfriend, he dumped me to go back to his ex, anyway cut a long story short they're not together yet but spending all their spare time together as basically she doesn't trust him, he cheated on her (not with me)when their baby was ... (207 words)

Why is he still looking? Is he trying to find somethng better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43, I've been dating a man for a little over 2 months now. He says he's not ready for a commitment right now and that's ok, we've only been dating for a little while. Yet, his brother, mother and most of his other family know me as his girl-friend. Yet, he has profiles at ... (98 words)

Pregnant by another man and my husband wants me to get rid of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I don't know where else to turn, I feel so sad an alone at the moment. I was in a relationship with two men, one of which was my husband, and yes they knew about each other as we lived all in the same house. I found out I was pregnant by the other man, an he ended u... (282 words)

He doesn't love me and I'm devastated!

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a situation here, and I don't have any idea what to do, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is very sweet with me and he does everything to please me, he is always very bussy with work and college but he always manage to make time for me we normally see ... (516 words)

How do I tell my wife about the tape I found in her drawer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some strong words of support, and a little advice about what to do. I'm asking for advice and a vote on which option I should do. My wife and I are married for a few years, and I know about her past, not much of a past but a few boyfriends (3) before we met and start... (609 words)

I'm HIV positive and I'm only 16!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 11 I was always on the pill but never used condoms I recently found out that I have HIV and I don't know what to say to my mum, she will kill me! I thought I was pregnant but the results came back as that I was HIV positive also so ... (90 words)

I need to find myself first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is a little background I have been married for 12 years year, have two children 5 and 12.. Have not been happy for sometime, husband is extremely verbally abusive to me and the kids and has basically ruined my self confidence. I have not left since the children need th... (1012 words)

What is happening to me, why am I getting so stressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so I'm sixteen. I used to be boys 24/7, and when I was fourteen, I watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend. I know, you'll say "underage" and stuff, but just don't. But, the lesbian porn REALLY turned me on. I used to get off to thinking about boys, but recentley, with ... (278 words)

Why is he behaving so strangely? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 9 months. We are both christians and I know he fears God and so Do I. I am 35 and he is 51. I understand that things will be a little different as far as sex drive. I had issues when it started to dwindle and he did not intiate it anymore. He still ... (447 words)

Relationship problem

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with partner for 15 years since I was 16, lost my virginity to him. He is 10 years older than me, never had a problem with that until recently I just feel alone, there is no sexual contact between us in fact there is no contact between us we don't argue but we don't do ... (105 words)

I'm 23 and have never given a blowjob. Will someone please tell me how ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is very embarrassing for me but it's something that bothers me......alot! I am 23 years old and don't know how to give a blow job for the life of me. I have had relationships in the past and they have never mentioned it, but i know myself i can't do it and it makes me ... (157 words)

I'm not in love with my husband any more, please help...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice please. My husband is just hateful and full of anger, nothing abusive. I left him once 2 years ago, which I use to be the one crying and begging all the time, now it's him, not as much crying as telling me how much I am "his world". We have been married ... (278 words)

I can't handle all their problems when I have problems of my own!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a group of us at school, we're all bast mates and hang out but recently everything's gone wrong for all of us. Two of them have got boyfriends [Jo, and Fran] who they adore but they're having prblems. Three of my other frinds all fancy the same guy who hates them all ... (273 words)

I am hurting so much right now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost two years. In that time he has finished with me two times and cheated once. He got back in touch with me the last time swearing that he would never hurt me again, so i gave it another go as my feelings for him had not changed ... (409 words)

How can I make my dad see sense?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted different questions on here over the last few weeks, about my gran being diagnosed with cancer and how do I cope. well next thing.. Today her house got put on the market.. Now I am very angry about this, she is only just dead 2 weeks ago, I have asked to rent from ... (244 words)

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for and abort the unborn child, or ... (67 words)

Gay or bi or neither?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old and gay! I have a friend who is 20 years old and claims he is totally straight. We live states apart but every time he visits which is a few times a year I always perform oral sex on him sometimes a couple of times a day. Yhe most he will do is give me a hand ... (120 words)

I had a total hystorectomy about 8 years ago, I would love to get my sex drive back.

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I had a total hystorectomy about 8 years ago. This seriously affected my sex drive which just seems to have frittered away to nothing now. Doctor has put me on HRT but doesn't seem to be making a difference. This is seriously starting to affect my relationship with my ... (92 words)

Having trouble with girlfriend's past experiences.

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old male and I've very innocent. I'm on my first girlfriend and I'm a virgin. My girlfriend is very religious but has gone to 3rd base with previous boyfriends. One day when we were talking, she misinterpreted when I wanted her to tell me and she said tha... (258 words)

How can I be less shallow?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - And now I find myself seeking the advice of strangers over the internet... I love my girlfriend very much and have been dating her for a little over a year now. Most of that time we have been long distance. My girlfriend is on the heavier side of average (Size 12 - 14). ... (323 words)

How do I sell myself?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just turned 18. Thinking about applying for a Apprenticeship. Problem is I'm a shy person and I get really nervous. I've also found out that I may need to take some kind of math's and english assessment which I really hate to do partly because I haven't taken a test in so long ... (145 words)

One orgasm in 2 months !!! Help !

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to death but there is just one problem... I been with him 4 a couple months now but we have known each other for 10 years and in those months I have only had one orgasm...ONE!!! and that's because I was on top... I fake it every time we do it because I ... (95 words)

Why don't my boobs match ?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my left breast is smaller then right breast.. please help me out. i am not able to tell my mom i want to recover with this problem ... (27 words)

Both married but infatuated with each other.

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend (guy) was working with me. Both he and I are married, he likes me a lot and once over the phone he kissed me and said he loves me. I kept silent. We both know that we like each other so much. I changed my job and went to another company, he was very very ... (108 words)

Why does he want to keep talking to me after breaking up?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my ex still want me to talk to him?, He also tells me the problams he has with his new gf and how he thinks it may not work between them, Like yesterday evening he rang me and said could not talk for long as shes going round her house, i no she doesnt like me but its ... (167 words)

Help, my love life is a mess!

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Help, my love life's a mess. There's this guy right who I dated once and I think I fell in love with him, either way he dumped me (this was months ago) and I'm going out with someone else now. I thought I was over him but I found out he still likes me and umm well, I kinda ... (94 words)

Why would he do that if we're having a baby in 4 weeks?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and I am 8 months pregnant. The day before yesterday he got a text message from his ex that said "why would you send me a text that says arm" I asked him what she was talking about he said he didn't know and she was a psycho and he ... (743 words)

How will I know when I've found true love?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! I have a question in my mind that always bothers me. This is, how wil I now if I already found my true love? I have never had a boyfriend nor a close friend that is a boy. I am just curious. I need your advice please.......... ... (66 words)

My gf is the one for me but I kissed a girl in a club whilst I was drunk...

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have been through everything together. She even stayed with me through depression. I vowed i would NEVER cheat on her because she IS the one. I love her so much. Last weekend i went out with some mates of mine and got ... (272 words)

Pregnant and confused...

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love, and i have a boyfriend, Im in love with my boyfriends best mate, and i think he likes me 2!! im paranoid my boyfriend is going to cheat on me, is that just because i know how i feel for his friend? and to top it all off i think im pregnant with my boyfriends child, ... (108 words)

Should we have a threesome?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife of 8 years is now fantasising about her having me and another man , when we have sex she gets really turned on talkin about taking 2 of us in both holes at once , the talk gets dirtier as we progress , should i give her ,her ultimate and bring in another man ???... (57 words)

How can I deal with this hurt and pain and learn to trust my husband again?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 5 years and I have had a rocky marraige. Not only does he suffer from Bipolar mood disorder, but he also has a drinking problem. A few days ago, I got home from work to be told by my husband that he needed a break and was going out. He told me he was going to ... (415 words)

I would love to sing and dance professionally, but is it too late...I'm 38...

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27 October 2008 (?) age 51-59 - When I was younger, I dreamed of being a singer/dancer/actor. But this was back in the 70's and 80's and my parents considered it to be a poor career choice and wouldn't send me to drama school. I was told at my own school that I had talent but as the years have gone by, and ... (187 words)

Confused and unsure of my sexual orientation...

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really do not know what my sexual orientation is. I mean, i thought i was straight, then i thought that i was bi-curious, but im not sure. when im online, and i meet new people, i prefer girls and they have to look attractive. but i date guys. ive never thought about dating ... (195 words)

Help! I can't hold an erection!!

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and and been having sex with the same girl for more than 3 years. At first, my main problem was that I would cum within minutes of having sex. There was always foreplay. We always started having sex when I was fully erected as well. I still have this problem sometimes, ... (386 words)

I'M SO CONFUSED!!!

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is, I don't understand whether I love him [still] OR/AND why I'm feeling this way? Here is my story: When I moved [Beginning of school] , I obviously didn't know anyone but i got close to this guy [ill call him batman] who sits beside me. I mean, who wouldn't be?... (623 words)

Why should I suffer like this??

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - with reference to my previous question "I'm attracted to a man who is as old as my dad" tagged "boss". I REALLY NEED HELP. It all went wrong, I have told him " I admit I like you and that you are making it hard on me cos I have started this new job and i like it i als... (272 words)

We kissed and now I don't know what to do!

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well, my friend and i are really close. one night we stayed up and then we fell asleep. then i woke up an hour later and he was watching me sleep and was closer than ever, he was in my personal space. then he asked if we could cuddle. i was like i dont care. then all of a ... (145 words)

Why is my boyfriend unattracted to me?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and i have just recently found out that he no longer finds me attractive sexually. At first i was devestaed as i am already quite self concious. However he explained that he was still in live with me and did not want to ... (209 words)

Should I believe him??

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he loves me. Should I believe ... (64 words)

He says he doesn't want to date but continues flirting? What do I do?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok I like my guy friend,and have since we were in 8th grade(were in 11th now).he dated my step sis and then after they broke up he told me he loved me.i told him i liked him but didnt want to date because my sis still liked him. so 2 months later he got a girl friend.i wa... (272 words)

Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?... (52 words)

Why does he feel awkward around me now? Nothing happened!

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who I was friends with last year. We hooked up but we didnt go all the way cause I wasnt ready. After that, it felt awkward and we stopped hanging out with each other. I saw him at a party, he was drunk and so was I. I was trying to get over my ex boyfriend by ... (231 words)

Why am I the secret girlfriend??

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my early 20s and dating a guy in his late 40s for about 3 months. We're both successful and have a great time together. There's one problem though, he tries to hide me from everyone in his life. There are very few mutual friends that know we're together, he really wants ... (86 words)

How do I get more comfortable with sex?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a new relationship...about 3 months old and my boyfriend is ready to have sex but im not sure that i am ready. I am a virgin...well he penetrated one time and there was some blood but he didnt penetrate again because I was nervous. I can tell that he is getting ... (118 words)

Do girls like giving oral sex?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls actually enjoy giving oral sex? Or do they feel obligated to do it?... (16 words)

What do you make out of this, is it selfishness?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband left the house 5 months ago, stating "you don't care about me and I don't care about you" you didn't make me feel loved too much has gone on in the past, and he feels can't get past that. During this time we have gotten to gather many times and made love. We have ... (118 words)

Confused and in Love...

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with this man. We are about 6 years apart in age difference. We've known each other since about 9 years now. He says he never wants a relationship with anyone. Yet he says he loves me, and he knows I love him. He does not want me to get too close to him cause he ... (124 words)

My bf kissed my sister, I ended it, and now my sister keeps trying to talk to me! What should I do?

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27 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend (im 17 and he's 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with me. My sis (she's 15) was watching it with him well I was in the bathroom. Than I came back and I saw them kissing but I could my sis was push off. I yelled at them then kicked him out. I ended it with ... (101 words)

I don't understand! Should I contact him?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met an older man online that lives out of town. He is about 30 years older than me. He flew into town for business. While he was here we went out a couple of times and he treated me very well both nights. Even holding my hand in public and opening doors and being very gen... (295 words)

How can I be happier with the size of my chest?? Should I get implants..?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all...I know that this isnt a relationship question, but i just wanted to know if this would be a good choice. I am a twenty year old female and my breast have grown..but they havent even grown off of my chest. I am considering getting breast implants but im afraid of the ... (150 words)

Why do I fall for the girls with a past and something going on?

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27 October 2008 (M) age 30-35 - First off, im a pretty good lookin dude, i could have alot of different girls and i get along with everyone. Ive had a good past with girls but recently its been pretty crappy. So about a year ago I moved to this new school and started going out with this really amazing g... (233 words)

Am I still a virgin? We had anal sex.

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in at a catholic school college and I am catholic. I want to save myself for marriage, but one night me and this girl (we were both drunk) went to my room and started making out. One thing led to another and our cloths were off. I didn't have a condom so in the ... (148 words)

Why does he still have these nude pictures of his ex???

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lets me use his computer for school. Well one day he left his email up and i saw an email he sent himself back in June (we had been together 6 months then---it's almost 11 months now) it had 4 pics attached, so naturally i assumed it was pics of us that i had given ... (235 words)

Should I take his virginity?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't believe in waiting till marraige and that abstinance crap. I know that in this era, no one's gunna make it till marraige. everyone has an urg, and at some point ur gunna give. But my boyfirend is still a virgin and his friends all tell him that he HAS to lose it ... (113 words)

How do I tell my selfish boyfriend that I want to get something out of sex without sounding selfish myself?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have always had a great sex life until the past coupld of months (we have been together almost 11 months). Used to, he would make sure I got what I wanted out of sex first then he'd take what he wanted. He would tell me "Honey, you be selfish and get what you ... (316 words)

Why do some guys feel guilty after the first time they masturbate?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that most guys that have sex their first time, feel guilty after they cum? Many have told me after they masturbate they feel kinda guilty.. why is this?... (31 words)

I have little or no interest in things- is this temporary or will it persist?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a psychotic mental disorder that had me very busy in delusional thinking until just recently when I finally found the right medication at age 30. My life isn't a disaster, but I managed to make mistakes and mess it up temporarily. I've since stabilized but t... (420 words)

I want a gf but can't ask one out! Help!

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27 October 2008 (M) age 30-35 - why is it that i wanna girl friend so bad yet could never ask one out. i wanna have sex but im scared to do so ... (26 words)

Why won't husband admit to cheating even after getting caught?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am agonizing over the thought of accusing my husband of something as terrible as cheating. I have evidence; however, he continues to deny cheating on me and as a result we are in the process of getting divorced. I need to know from people who don’t know me or him if they ... (1423 words)

Is it fair to stay with someone you aren't in love with?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship and have been for almost a year. Im 25 and he's 28. We don't call eachother boyfriend/girlfriend. We don't say I love you. We don't talk about a future together. He is the nicest guy and treats me bettter than any guys has. I am pertrified of losing ... (149 words)

Should I keep trying or just let her go?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My girlfriend broke up with me this week because shes going through some personal issues. She says she wants to deal with it on her own but i want to be there for her. I don't know whether to give her her space and let her deal with it or keep trying to prove that i can ... (106 words)

Is he my bf or not?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have known i meet his guy 8 weeks ago. i am 22 by the way and he is 32. well he is my friends neighbor but that was like the first time anything more than pleasantries was said. 5 weeks ago we made out, it was also the first time we had hung out since the first time. ... (362 words)

I like my best friend, but I don't know if she likes me back; .

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i wasnt sure if i was bi, until i realised i was attracted to both males and females, ill be okay with that one day. i wasnt sure if i liked my bestfriend, or maybe i always wanted to deny that i did, until a few weeks ago when i just admitted it to myself. Shes the most,... (393 words)

She seems 'put off'' by me..what can I do?

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who I like, except I don't think she feels comfortable around me. Like whenever I try to talk to her she avoids eye contact and looks for other people to "save" her. Also today in my youth group we were doing the "knot game" where people hold hands to get in a ... (107 words)

Need advice on how to 'make a move' on her!

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27 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - 'ello, just gone to uni few weeks ago, met a girl who i can be myself around which is good cos im not the best at makin new aquaintances...anyhow i sorta like her, and i think she sorta knows i do...however we talk a fair bit and even after she found out i liked her through one ... (126 words)

I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy xx Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible. a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on. Bt now his bro contacted me and and we really hit it off.. w... (289 words)

Should I break up with him again or not? (very long)

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only fifteen and about two years ago I had the biggest crush on this boy, we will call him Alex, but he did not like me back. I was sad for a really really long time and I just could not seem to get over him. I started to date another guy foolishly because ... (460 words)

I still love him after all these years! Are we soulmates?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met the true love of my life when I was 17. From the start it was a long distance relationship. He joined a band and moved even farther away before I graduated highschool and while we kept in touch, it was difficult and I ended up moving across the country with another man ... (566 words)

In love with my best friend (girl) and my ex bf! And now this other guy is in love with me! What should I do?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm bi. Thats a huge problem for me. I'm in love with my best friend, a girl. I've been bi for about three years and havent told a soul. My parents are very religous and deeply frown down on bis,lesbians,gay marriges etc.. and it really bothers me because I feel so trapped. I ... (309 words)

My bf thinks I have an eating disorder! What should I do?

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27 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - So my boyfriend caught me making myself throw up and he freak out. Now he keeps asking me if I have a eating disorder. I mean can make myself throw up without having one. Plus I have a modeling contact and the agency that im with says I to be need 80 pounds so I fit into th... (87 words)

Stood up by this guy...why didn't he call?

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27 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a guy im dating asked me to go to the cinema, this would of been our 4th date, he asked me friday night and i said yes. We were supposed to go today but he didnt call or text to tell me a time or anything, or he didnt text me to tell me he didnt want to go anymore. Why ... (72 words)