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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He told me he did not love me anymore and I am heartbroken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married for 10 years and have 3 boys. I left my husband a year and a half ago and the boys too. I met my boyfriend a few weeks before I left my husband. Our marriage was already over long before this. It was instant attraction. I was falling inlove with him. I had never ... (1036 words)

Would friendly sex create any uncomfortable feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got this really good friend, she's 14 going on 15, and I'm 16, 17 next year. We are both virgins. I've done kissing, and dry sex and she's done pretty much nothing, she's never had a boyfriend either. We tell each other everything because we understand each other so well. ... (96 words)

Could I be pregnant without having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im probably just being paranoid but im startin to worry a little bit. me and my bf were messin around a few nights ago and i gave him a handjob then he was rubbing my clit later (thru some really skimpy knickers). if he had some spunk residue on his fingers while doing so ... (105 words)

Just found out the man I love is married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy online about 8 months ago. From the beginning, he seemed head over heels for me but I have already gone through a divorce and just wanted to take things slow and make sure that our relationship was progressing for the right reasons. Plus, we were both very busy ... (519 words)

The older sister likes me but I fancy the younger one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm nearly seventeen and I've recently met two sisters, one 17 and one nearly 16. I get on really well with them and I'm pretty much 100% sure that the older one likes me. The only problem is that I really like her sister, and I think she likes me back too because we... (151 words)

I have all the symptoms.... Am I or am I not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have not gotten my period in about 4/5months. I haven taken a test yet but I'm not sure if I am pregnant, my period was always quite irregular but I have never gone this long without my period in a long time. I have been getting back pains and I have been very tired and ... (167 words)

It's unrequited love on my side...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - To all of you that take the time to read this, Right well i'm just going to jump straight into this one. Basically, I am in love but it's unrequited. It's a difficult situation this one, I have had feelings for this man for just near enough a year now... We had some sort... (359 words)

Why do I still feel jealous when he flirts or looks interested in another lass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point. right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me bk, but im never going ba... (350 words)

What made the matter worse...he cheated on me twice!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband sent text messages to my sister before as if he's courting her. I confronted him and he said it was just a joke and no big deal. Recently, he played "Peeping Tom" to my youngest sister. What would I do? I'm thinking of leaving him, but he said he loves me and I lo... (81 words)

Should I walk away or should I wait? Is there any insight into my madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i dated a girl for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. we broke up because she found out that i had cheated on her. she asked me about it one day and i confessed everything. i know you are immediately thinking that i am an asshole and i need to move on. i get ... (364 words)

Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 17 years old and I recently met this girl, we know each other reasonably well and I quite like her but she is over 3 years younger than me and has asked me for sex. Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference.... (52 words)

I want her to move in with me, is it too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months. Things are pretty serious, we are best friends, and love each other. I hold a full time job, currently live with my parents, and will be getting my own place soon. Is it too early to ask her to move in with me?... (59 words)

My teacher is really freaking me out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I know you get many of these but I'm really creeped out to be honest- I've been taught by this teacher for three years now and he treats me so differently to everyone else. At first it was just funny, we just had a laugh, but then he kept making really strange comments about my... (187 words)

Partner looks at freaky and/or gay porn. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a great guy since the beginning of May. We get along very well and are currently living together. I have known from the start that he likes porn. I made an assumption that since he had been single for a while he looked at it to 'pass the time.' I thought that ... (384 words)

I was only trying to help a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - You guys recently rejected a question because it was a duplicate of one already accepted. I, however, didn't know it was wrong. I posed as the person who needed the advice when it was really my friend's story. She told me a week ago that she's feeling pressured to let him f*** ... (344 words)

I feel as if I'm in limbo right now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a complicated, intertwined one, so be ready. It started about one year ago, when I started noticing this guy in the grade above me. I didn't like him, I just noticed him. We just had common interests, thats all. I didnt know him and the only connection I had was one ... (797 words)

3 weeks ago my partner and I split up and I'm going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help me I'm going mad, after my 3 week split with my partner, well let's just say he has a new woman, basically I know that they are seeing each other but are not in a relationship yet just seeing how things are going. Anyway about 3 hours ago I got a mate of mine to drive ... (145 words)

I'm obsessed about my height... I'm so damn short!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - I'm 19 and 5'6" tall. I feel so damn short. I used to be pretty tall compared to my class mates just a couple of years ago, now that I meet them on the streets it's surprising how much I haven't grown at all, as people who were shorter than me are now seemingly toweri... (118 words)

I can't get the graphic details of her sexual past out of my head!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi after reading different problems on this site it has given me courage to seek help. I'm 33 and my partner is 25, we met nearly two years ago and things were very confusing for me. She was very open in how she would talk about her sexual past - when I say very open I mean ... (530 words)

Is it normal to not have a wet dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK.... (44 words)

I can't show my feelings for anyone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me? I can't explain or show how I feel about anyone, not even my family :-| It's really starting to annoy me, I do try to tell them but the words just don't come out. :( it does make me feel really bad though, any way anyone can help?... (60 words)

Together for 2 years but I feel we are drifting apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My man and I have been together for 2 years, living together etc, but it seems like we're drifting apart. Every day he makes excuses for why we can't have lunch together; he's got a meeting, or he has to be in the field, or he needs to run errands. Which is okay, but it seems ... (188 words)

How can I get her to move past the condom thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate wearing a condom, especiall... (253 words)

Help...jealous daughters!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, I am a 37 year old woman who is engaged to a 47 year old man. We both have been divorced 2wice, so If we marry, it will be our 3rd time. He has 2 daughters, by 2 different mothers. One is 28 and lives far away, married with kids, the other is 15 and lives locally. Usually ... (362 words)

Best friends become lovers.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend for over 4 years (a guy) and I have recently made the transition from "just friends" to "more than just friends." Over the past couple months, we have developed strong feelings for one another and have become intimate. However, we have been proceeding very slowly ... (161 words)

Why am I feeling this way about my teacher being away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Today my teacher, who I was always very fond of, went away witht the year 8s on a school trip and they'll be gone til Thursday. When i first learned this last week i thought, oh, i'm gonna miss him loads, but until this morning i didn't realise how much i would actually miss ... (238 words)

Vicious cycle: I swore I wouldn't let him in again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Some advice would be great guys. Until April this year i thought i had control of the situation with my ex. He would ring me, intitate the convrsation etc i never put myself in a painful position after he changed his mind about getting back together 3 years ago (his idea)i ... (769 words)

What condom size should I use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - hello, is there a way i can measure myself so i know what condom to use, and none of them , seem to have a size on them... (31 words)

How can I clean my white tongue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so I was making out with this guy and somehow he noticed my tounge is pretty white.. embarrass me much? anywho, I use a tounge scraper! so what else can I do to clean my tounge?... (38 words)

Love or the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Eleven years ago i married. we have three children (girls.) He was perfect.....a month after the marriage he changed. Stoped having sex stoped being a husband. drank very heavy. would get drunk pick fights... many years we fought over all this....All the while the kids would ... (274 words)

Condom or the pill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Soo... umm... I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and shes already discussed with me about having sex, but shes a virgin and soo am I, but I'm not quite sure whats the best thing to do, bucause she doesnt want me to use a condom, she would rather go on the pill ... (92 words)

Dead skin around my vagina and I'm so ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey please help i feel so ashamed! Well i have been masturbating since i was 8 years old. i am now 13. But i have noticed some " saggy skin" all around the "button" between the vagina lips, the saggy skin is black! and it looks HORRIBLE. i am really scared boyfriends... (102 words)

Does he really like me or am I just a bed partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy (48) never married and has a girl friend for 15 years, goes over on weekends only and was my ex boyfriend started to email me back in April. He's a great guy and I've always cared for him. I'm married, but it's doomed to come to an end, as he won't go to counseling ... (157 words)

Do you think I'm doing anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my husband got into it last night. I just recently got a facebook account. I mainly got it to keep in touch with long distance family since i moved out of town. However i saw a lot of people from my old middle and high school and i accepted friend request and added ... (203 words)

Debts piling up, should I do some topless modelling?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm having a problem regarding my future, I'm a college student and working as a part-time model to afford my college expenses. I've been doing some simple body modeling, lately business been slow and I need money for pay my college fees, my agent told me that there is... (92 words)

My wife has asked for forgiveness re her affair but I have so many questions...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married 25 years and have three children She cheated on me about three years ago with a very close friend of mine. I had noticed that a couple of times she had gone out and did not come back till late and also very early in the morning. I had asked he... (204 words)

How do I get out of this tricky situation???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

- Hey guys! I have a bit of an issue concerning boys. I'll keep it short. Basically, I'm in my last year of college, and there's a guy, James*, who says he's in love with me. He told me this around two months ago, and we had a bit of a thing because I liked him too, but we kept ... (277 words)

Should I dump his ass or give him time to grow up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so quick background: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and have known each other for rougly 5. He's 24 and I'm 23. He's always been pretty slutty when single, (but not saying that I haven't had my share too..) but he seems to keep it in his pants ... (518 words)

Cheating and text messaging...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for almost a year. I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks before the wedding. We are 21 (me) and 23 (him). We both felt ready for marriage but the baby came as quite the surprise. An accident but not a mistake. Anyways, my ... (237 words)

Do I need consent from my mum at age 16 to go on the pill? I don't want her to know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with my bf for a year and a half and now we have decided that I will go on the Pill. Is there any way i can do this without my mum finding out? ... (36 words)

What is the reason people give hickies/lovebites?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, just a small question for you all. How do people give hickies/lovebites and what is the purpose of them? I was just wondering because I haven't come up with a good reason myself as to why people give hickies except for leaving a mark on your lover. Thanks for ... (54 words)

We compare notes together of dates we've been on but I want to date HIM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I was wondering if someone could please help me make some sense of this. I have my best friend who works in a city a few hours from me. I have only recently moved to this country and we met over a year ago when he was travelling. I have always had a bit of a thing for this... (243 words)

He wants to make another go of it with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people Having just got off the phone to my ex we split on Thursday he said he's gone back to his ex, the mother of his daughter, she already has a daughter from a another ex and he said to me that he would like to stay mates she won't let him so that's it, I'm allowed ... (148 words)

Can the test be wrong because it was taken early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, how are you all hope to be fine , Well today I did blood prganancy test and it was a negative result, my next period will be after 8 day but I feel the same symptoms of pregnancy Can the test be wrong because it is earlly (8 day after conception) I am afraid from getti... (65 words)

Is it really so horrible for me to want to know if my husband has quit smoking pot or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married two and a half years (Mar '06), and have been together nearly five. We have two children together, our eldest will be four in about a month, and our youngest is fifteen months. I first learned of my husband's marijuana use when our first ... (1310 words)

I annoyed her, she said, by sending her too many messages. Could you help me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Girls i really need your help... Okay im kiv... Theres this girl that im totaly crazy about but i havent even met her jus glanced at her once... I found out who she is and added her as a friend on facebook, well she accepted... We started chatn for a few days but then she ... (134 words)

This feeling of being smaller in size is very disturbing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My penis is just about 3.5" flaccid and 6" when erect. I feel it to be very small and feel like it has shrinked down with the passage of time. Currently I live without a woman for the past more than a year. However, I am not a failure with my women in the bed but this feeling ... (75 words)

Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we only meet few times a year. I ... (182 words)

What can I do to make him like me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I make him like me again? I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months and things were going well. We have known each other for a very long time and there had always been a mutual attraction between us so when we finally got together it seemed right. Howeve... (469 words)

Guys: Was marriage worth it? Do you miss the excitement of the single life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m getting married and I’m scared to death. I just want to take a quick survey and see if marriage worth it for the guys out there that took the plunge? Why did you get married? Did you remain faithful? Did she remain faithful? Do you miss the excitement of the single ... (91 words)

Should I stay in my current (troubled) relationship or make myself available for my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello y'all. I have quite a delicate situation on my hands. I've liked this girl for over 6 months until she became by best-friend. After we became my best friend, I found out she had a boyfriend and I tried to cool down since I didn't want her to cheat or anything. In the end,... (283 words)

I am very unhappy with being a referee between my wife and our daughter who constantly argue! Should I move out and start over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age - HI I have been married three times since I was eighteen years old until now 48..and have four childreen ,I don't know why but my latest wife loves me moore than all the rest put together.But I just cant seem ton feel for her in the way she feels for me.We have been together for ... (225 words)

I don't want to turn up at uni as an unexperienced virgin, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an inexperienced virgin. cos i just ... (92 words)

Why does my boyfriend want to stay friends with this girl when he knows how she treats me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and he is still good friends with a girl that used to be MY best friend. He used to like her in 8th grade, but they went out for just a few days (you know how it was back then). He told me she was too clingy and he decided ... (412 words)

I want to tell him I love him after a year and a half but am afraid of his reaction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. The problem is neither of us has said I LOVE you. I love him but cant bring myself to tell him because im scared of his reaction. I like the relastionship as it is but just really want to tell him but I dont know what ... (77 words)

I just can't stand not knowing why my married lover doesn't return my calls, should I send him a card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need help. For the last 3 months I have been having an affair with a client of mine who is married and has been for 23 years (he has no kids). I have been married for 7 years and have a baby girl of 1 year. neither of us set out looking for an affair but we our ... (277 words)

She's decided to give away what seemed to me to be a blossoming relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of nearly a year told me a bit over a week ago that she was leaving me as she'd accepted a job in the country after going on a trip, and she's leaving in a few weeks. It was a very big shock to me as we had honestly been getting on really well. She said that she ... (299 words)

Should I stop seeing him because I slept with his friend in the past? His friend and I loathe each other.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently started a casual relationship with a really great guy, who I have known and liked for almost a year, we are keeping it casual even though we really like eachother as neither of us is in the right place for a serious relationship at the moment. The probem is ... (228 words)

I was molested by my brother who passed away, should I confront my mother for not protecting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, Here is my situation. I am a female, 31 years old who had been molested by my brother when I was 7 (my brother was 17 at the time). I remember it happening more then once. My brother had a jet ski accident several years ago and died at the age of 32. I never... (335 words)

Do I stand up and fight for what I believe in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - okay maybe im writing this because i want you guys to tell me what i wanna hear or see, maybe to get this of my chest i know I'm definity on here cause i got know idea what to do , ive done all the sums and all the possible senarios that could happen none of them lead to me ... (388 words)

My ex husband and I live together in my house...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age - My ex-husband and I live together in my house. We have been together for about 5 years he has a drinking problem and gets verbal abusive, he is in construction and hasn't had much work, I can't afford the house payment on my own so I am going to sell. I have not wanted t... (235 words)

Is she just not interested in me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question... I'm wondering if my girlfriend is not interested in my anymore. Both of Us go to different schools now and I feel like things are different. I'm a good guy and I do anything for her and lately it feels like things are falling apart. We used meet each other ... (315 words)

Why can he never "finish" when we have sex? Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months, and have had sex 3 times. The first time was the day after he tried blow. The second time I asked him if there was anything I can do, if there was something wrong, etc. He said he didn't know, and that everything was fine... (169 words)

Should I stay with my husband for the sake of my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years now and have four children with my husband. My children are aged 4, 3 and 2. There is nothing instrinsically wrong with our relationship apart from the fact that I just do not love him any more. I hate him touching me, and feel myself becoming... (291 words)

What do I say to tell him I really DO want to break up with him for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to the conclusion I can't be... (117 words)

My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence. I feel like neither of us are getting what we want out of our sex life. Is this something that will get better or is sexual incompatibility enough to end a relationship?... (48 words)

Why is my man being weird about getting physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with *Chris* for almost a year. We've been into each other since the first real conversation we had in January and never acknowledged it, thinking it couldn't work because of other forces complicating the situation. We began ... (723 words)

My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

20 October 2008 (F)

age - I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I think that's why guys don't like ... (259 words)

Should I meet up to put "closure" on things like he's asking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi all.. I posted this question a few weeks ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-can-make-things-work.html Well now, thing is that my (ex) lover and I had a very productive conversation recently (over the phone) and we got to say some important stuff to... (613 words)

I want to experience being REALLY loved by a guy...

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's the thing, I am 21 and single and am wondering if there is something wrong with me... but before anything... I was sexually abused when I was in my teenage years for a long time by a family member. A few years ago I gave my heart to God. I believe he healed me and a... (180 words)

Lesbian affair?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK.. I am 17 and she's 17. We're best friends, and one day we were laying in my mom's bedroom and she said she has never had anyone feel her up (Squeeze her boob) So I squeezed her boob for her playing around and stuff and she was laughing and then she was like sitting up so I ... (229 words)

I am happy with my partner of 19 years so why does this other man almost consume me?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with my partner for 19 years, we are both 35, have 4 children, a happy family life, very satisfying sex life, we are great "friends" as well as partners... I could not imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else....But.... There is this guy, actually... (353 words)

He makes me feel second best next to his son.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age - I am a 48 year old widow who met a man at work. I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He is the one that insisted on us seeing each other and being committed. He plans on marrying me even though he has not asked. The problem is that he has a son who is almost 23 years ... (232 words)

Help,I want to be with my (female) best friend.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my names Kanja,im 16 and I have this friend that I've known my entire life,she's always been my best friend, ever since we were about 12 people have been calling us lesbians because we hug and hold hands in public and tell each other I love you. I've always known she was ... (268 words)

Do men say the opposite of what they think?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy on the last day of a week trip to Hawaii. He knew I was leaving soon but wanted to get me out for lunch. We did so and had a great time. Really good connection. Over the course of the "date", he suggested numerous times that we should be pen-pals. He even asked ... (126 words)

Affection to a gay-like.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in the campus that looks like a gay but some says he's not, the proof is.. he admired a girl and tried to court her. The first time I saw him was I was amazed that there is a gay-lie guy that tries to court a girl. The girl said to him that she will answer ... (163 words)

Can hair be straightened after a perm?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, can you straighten your hair AFTER getting a perm at any time? Because my hair is boring straight and I'm getting tired of it. Like I want a perm but thing is I'm not going to want it curly EVERY DAY, somedays I just might want it straight, is that possible... (69 words)

Is my ex saying all this to try to make me jealous?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When on the phone to my ex the other day he told me that he was with his kinda girlfriend and that one thing lead to the other, meaning did they sleep together? He said that he wasn't going to do anything yet after our split was so recent so why did he tell me? To make me jea... (73 words)

What if he wants to get back with me... should I say yes?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all Bit of help please, me and my boyfriend split last week. He's saying he still had strong fellings for his ex, and that he liked me but didn't love me after 9 months together, thing is she's still with her current boyfriend. My ex and her have already slept together... (164 words)

She says I am like her brother!

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20 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a 'friend' who I have been seeing a lot lately whether it be a date, at my house for a swim or even we go shopping together. She has even called in sick at work just to spend the day with me (in my pool, lunch, then the movies). She is very sexy and I am al... (498 words)

Does internet dating when I'm already with someone count as cheating?

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I am Roran Cullen (Not real name) and I need advice on a Realationship Problem that I am having right now. I don't usually use internet as my source to get advice. You see the thing is I've been dating my girlfriend for almost three years now. And what happened last ye... (151 words)

What should I do to make my breasts most attractive?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do to make my breasts most attractive???? Secondly, my mom urges me to wear a bra. I don't like it and so does my boyfriend. In this case, What type of bra would you suggest??... (39 words)

Why does this make me feel 2 inches tall?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my name is Loriann and I can't get over my husband's ex girlfriends. They were all smart, beautiful, good at every thing and from what I've heard, great in bed. I don't know how to get over it, it just bugs me and makes me feel like I am 2 inchs tall and not good enough ... (73 words)

Why won't he introduce me to his 12 year old daughter?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I Am 22 years old my boyfriend is 33. We have been dating for a year now and I am a secret to his family and daughter. We met online and were both rebounds for he had just broken up with his girlfriend and baby mama of 12 years. As for myself, I had just got out of a really ... (209 words)

Will I lose my friend?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - have a friendship question. I have a friend who I have known for years as an acquaintance, never really knowing each other much, but in recent months we have become closer and are now good friends, there is a good frienship connection there. She has an eyesight problem ... (212 words)

I don't want to be used again, opinions needed, is he into it?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21, the guy I am seeing is 32 he is my friend's neighbour. He knew i had a boyfriend when he kissed me the first time, i made out with him because my boyfriend and i in a long distance relationship and were falling apart. it is two weeks later and my friend invited ... (588 words)

Is he a dead end OR does he have serious commitment issues that can be resolved ??

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a guy now for 5 months. (were both expats from big cities in a small foreign country hes been here for 12 years and I've been here for 4. He knows I'm not completely happy here ) we see each other almost every day, which took some getting used to for me as not ... (410 words)

I feel like I'm getting the short end of the relationship.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs like any relationship. All of my flaws that he disliked, I've worked on for him. I've become a better person. But it's not the same on his part. I've told him that it bothers me that I gi... (510 words)

I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex boyfriend gave me oral a while ... (135 words)

What do I need to do, to make things right again? Help!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My now-fiancée and I have been together for 4 1/2 years (We broke up one time for 6 months – back in 05) So actually only 4 years together. We had taken a couple small breaks in the past, but within the past year, we have stayed together and things have been great for the most ... (1328 words)

Our sex life is going down the drain! help!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now, and our sex life is going down the drain! He masturbates everyday and anytime I try to resolve the issue he ignores me or comes up with an excuse on why we don't have sex very often. Is it normal to only have sex once a month ... (63 words)

Is it wrong for me to just want to walk away? Has he changed?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a live-in relationship for three years. In year 2 I became depressed and thought I was losing my mind and I realized just recently that it was because I was in a bad situation. My partner asked me to stop drinking out of respect for his beliefs. I compl... (753 words)

Obsessed with big boobs!

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - how do i stop my obsession with big boobs i have been married for 7 years now my wife has got really big boobs 38jj bot i still have a really bad obsession with big boobs i cant stop thinking about them. i love my wife loads and fearer that my obsession could break us up. i w... (84 words)

What are the signs to look for... to know if my hubby is gay?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been on the internet all weekend reading about in the closet husbands. I am confused because I am getting conflicting information and am thinking I may be in this to deep to really be objective. Advice from those who are gay or have been in my shoes is greatly appre... (1252 words)

What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar? I swear sometimes I think my b/f has at least a mild version of the disease. We go along for weeks getting along just fine, everything is mellow and sweet between us and then all of a sudden, he just switches gears for the next 3 ... (171 words)

I'm an emotional basketcase here! Need advice on how to recup from this break up!

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in an emotional mess and slowly moving on from for all I know, the messiest break up that I have ever heard of happening to anyone. I'm in a doctorate program in a small college town meaning my society of friends are extremely small. Being a foreigner doesn't help. An... (1577 words)

He says sex hurts him! Is this normal?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf is 22 he was still a virgin we've only done it twice but he says it hurts him alot is it normal? ... (24 words)

My bf kissed a girl from his work..what should I do?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he moved to Australia to be with me 3 months ago. My friend caught him kissing a girl from his work. It was the girls going away drinks and he was really drunk. I don't know if I can forgive him or not, he said it was just that ... (78 words)

Is she cheating..because I just can't tell for sure! Advice?

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I dated this girl for about two months then she decides we should break up. Her reason is that she just got out of her first hard break up with her first love. She tells me she needs some "me" time and I give it to her. After a week or so she starts wanting to hang out all ... (314 words)

Forced to cancel my flight plans because she changed her plans. Should I talk to her about this?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age - In June I flew to Florida to visit my best friend, M. from High School. We hadn't seen eachother in 10 years but we always kept in touch. We had a great time and were so happy to be together. I live in NY and she lives in FL. We both have daughters the same age and we ... (309 words)

She says she's showing signs of a pregnancy and is threatening to sue me for child support! What should I do?

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and I know for the fact that she ... (299 words)

Why doesn't he want to make love to me? I don't understand this!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey hmmm well ive got a bit of a situation.. here goes: well my boyfriend is 9 yrs older than me, Im 16 and hes 25... Initially, I was really unsure about him, becuase hes older, attractive, sucsessful and intelligent and a genuine caring guy, and has no problem getting ... (203 words)

Very attracted to him, but I haven't had the nerve to ask him if he is married. What do you all think?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - As a teacher I am off for the summer. During the school year, I frequent a coffee shop in the morning before going to work. When September rolled around, I met up with the morning gang. This is comprised of sanitation workers, police officers and truck drivers. They are all men ... (424 words)

I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he never tries to pressure me i... (112 words)

I don't understand why she's avoiding the issue of my illness..is this too hard for her to bear?

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20 October 2008 (?)

- Hello, I have a really good female friend and I am female as well. We have been fighting an attraction between us for over 2 years now. There is no doubt she loves me very much and at the very least I would be her very best friend ever. Anyway recently I have gotten sick, she ... (177 words)

Why does my ex bf insist on causing me misery..after he dumped me?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my ex insist on making me feel miserable after HE DUMPED ME? He keeps insulting me and calling me names, I already have a very low self esteem and this only makes matters worse. He already dumped me because he said he was fed up with me, when all I did was love him... (216 words)

He accused me of stealing money from him! How do I get past all this?.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for two years. We recently broke up after he accused me of stealing money from him. Keep in mind I have handled thousands for him and this is over $100.00. He is an alcoholic and has become out of control. During the past 2 years he has been to rehab ... (130 words)

Are we cousins? Please help. I'm confused, hope you're not!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a question, please help me? So here it goes, my aunty's mom was married to my aunty's husband, and she has a kid from my aunty's husband, and the kid wants to ask me out, but im afraid that he is my cousin. Does that make him my cousin? Because we are really attra... (73 words)

Have I sacrificed way too much on this man? Advice is appreciated!

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Right basically I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and I feel really annoyed because all the responcibility with everything is put on me and I can't stand it. When I first met him years ago we were friends and because of my drug problems I went away for a year and a ... (580 words)

How do I convince myself that he is not sleeping around?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy and myself have not been having sex for the past 2 months. We did not even have time to meet for that same period of time. We met a few days back and I was puzzled when he lasted longer during sex which is not always the case. He always comes very fast even when we hav... (176 words)

I slapped him and he left me! What can I do?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I lived with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. For the period of time we lived together I am always the one initiate sex. I'm always hurt when he postoned to make love to me, coz he is always busy playing cards or playing with his Xbox. I know he is not cheating on me, coz he ... (213 words)

My future is very important to me, but I don't think he understands that.

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being two and a half to three ye... (450 words)

Why is he so scared of relationships?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - He tells me he loves and protects me, but I still cannot figure out why he's so scared of relationships,... (21 words)

I'm developing feelings for him, but don't know if he feels the same, please help

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i meet this guy about a month ago online but we only went out recently for a date. Date was ok ,wasnt fantastic, but we could carry convertsations well, which i found important, as chatting online with someone and in person is very different. Also doesnt hurt that i found him ... (513 words)

I am attracted to my tutor, fours years younger than me, I want to be closer, how do I keep this going, until we can move forward?

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20 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Until last week I did a 10 week employment course which was so easy that I was bored. During this time I built up a friendship with one of the tutors who is 4 years younger than me. We'd have discussions about the course which led to flirty conversation when we were left ... (149 words)

My boyfriend and I don't argue, is this healthy?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a bit of a random one , normally in relationships, i get easily wound up if the guy does something wrong, like if im meant to pick him up when hes drunk and isnt there, i would go mad, and other stupid things that drunken guys do , but with my current partner , it doe... (239 words)

I am 38 years old, a widow, and a 19 year old, who knows my age, wants to date me, is this proper?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all I work for a travel firm, i am 38 and a widow, a work collegue has asked me out, the trouble is that he is 19, i do like him and he knows how old i am, his reply to the age gap is that he wants to go out with a older woman because they are more experienced, is ... (79 words)

I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?

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20 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a lot about of this issue. ... (107 words)

A boy I liked a lot, broke up with me, now likes my best friend, what do I do noe?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i really liked and have done for so... (238 words)

A new employee came in under my employ, and started to text me, with stalking, personal messages, how do I stop this?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently acquired a bit of a phone stalker... problem is, it's someone who really should respecy my position in the workplace as their boss. I try to mainatain a good relationships with everyone who works for me in my work - I try to be a friend as well as a senior, and... (364 words)

Threesomes are a "must have" for him but I panick at the sole thought! How do I work this out?

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20 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy for months now and have fallen hard for him...and in turn him for me. I want to be with him but one thing that is a must have for him is having threesomes and/or foursomes. While I am bisexual and have been with other women and have even had 3somes ... (168 words)