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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need advice on whether I should make one last attempt to have a relationship with my ex, or just try to let him go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on whether I should make one last attempt to have a relationship with my ex, or just try to let him go. Reasons for trying: I'm head over heels in love with him. He's a wonderful guy, and I'm crazy about him. It's not just that I miss him (although, even ... (313 words)

Why do I get hooked on guys so fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I get hooked on guys so fast. Theres this guy i see on the bus now and then on the way to college. i think hes really good looking, we normally kind of look at each other. He just randomly added me on myspace. I sent him a comment like thankyou for the add.. you ok? and wh... (205 words)

How do you know when a man is telling the truth or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when a man is telling the truth or not? This guy I saw for a bit a few months ago spoke to me on msn last night and was saying that he was looking for another job and I said are you looking abroad and he said he might. I just said just in conversation Id go ... (180 words)

What does it mean when a girl starts calling you "honey?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been getting close to this girl, but I wouldn't call it a relationship just yet. She was sick a few weeks ago, and I was nice and offered her water and to carry her stuff. She was very happy and thanked me. Since then, she has started calling me "honey." Doe... (67 words)

How do I forget him or at least stop hoping and waiting for a future which will never happen...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can't get over my ex who now lives in another country and is never coming back even though he says he loves me we met in our last year of school and immediately clicked. He made me so happy and we never argued. he was austrian and we both knew that one day he would return ... (416 words)

I don't know why I am bleeding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know why i am bleeding. okay so i stopped havin sex wit my boyfriend because our annaversery was coming up and i wanted to make him wait for about 6 weeks.but i jus told him i didnt want to have sex anymore. right after i told him i had my period so that made it easier f... (190 words)

Should I have 2 sleepovers instead of one? Suggestions please...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My 16th is coming up in a 2 months and i am just having a sleepover with about 12 people and a chinese which im looking forward too as i cannot do something mega big due to finances. However, i have two completly different groups of friends and want to invite both and no they... (136 words)

My friend is jealous of my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really good friend and I can trust her with anything. but i now have this new boyfriend and she keeps getting jealous of the time i am spending with him. I am always with her and try to tell her that i need to spend time with my boyfriend but she takes a huff and we ... (83 words)

I want my mum to accept my boyfriend. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for the past six months, but before we were going out we were good friends and introduced him to my parents. After 3 months i told my mum i was going out with him and she got angry, not because i have a b/f but because he is black (im ... (150 words)

Relationship troubles is he a dick and is he worth it? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunt(i know its long please help me! im so upset) Latley, i've been experiencing alot of problems with my ex-boyfriend he used to be quite mean to me but then things got better and latley he dumped me i'll start from the top to say how its been between me and h... (1397 words)

How do you "dig in"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i have a girlfriend and we have met(snogged) once before shes not my first girlfriend or anything but im getting really stressed out cause when we were meeting like its hard to explain but she was moving her head around the place going towards me and i didnt like do the same ... (168 words)

Lesson Learned.............

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been struggling on how to write this. However, after reading many, many questions on the same topic as mine I'm relieved to know I'm not alone. I am a married woman who is in love with a married man. He is six years older than me. We've known each other since kids... (698 words)

Is he really staring at me all the time or is he just daydreaming?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Erm you know how people say when guys stare at you it means they like you? Well how can you tell if he;s actually looking at you or just generally staring in that direction because he;s daydreaming? How can you tell if he;s actually looking AT you? Because surelyt when ou stare ... (109 words)

I'm confused between them both and don't know what to do, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is something i really need help on so please answer asap as my bm (best mate) who i always turn to for advice i cant get hold o :( well the thing is me and my ex b/f broke up nearly 1 month ago and then i got with some 1 new, i still had feeling for my ex but i wanted... (467 words)

My two friends are putting me in a fix!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im 14 and There is this guy (15 years old) who ive liked for a few years and i still really like him.. We stoped talking last year when he found out i liked him then things were sorted out in May between us but we didn't start talking until last week. We went on this sch... (358 words)

I feel lonely, I am shy and always concerned about my looks! How can I surpass my shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My life is all messed up... My best friends are on other schools, I like a girl who I currently I just can talk with by phone, and I never feel happy... I hate to be lonely, but when I'm with friends I'm always smiling even tough I don't say many things... I'm shy. But I wasn't ... (189 words)

Is it weird for a 24-year-old to be dating me, an underage girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a boyfriend thats 24 and am 13.....i need help dont know what to do is it wierd for him to love me ?or is he a rapist and am i stupid for dating him ?... (37 words)

Head over heels for a married man.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I always follow my heart, no matter what. I was traveling far from home and met a marine that was stationed where I was visiting. I saw the wedding band on his finger right away, but we both were alone so we talked and kept each other company. I knew immediately that our chem... (609 words)

He says he likes small perky boobs and mines are big... HELP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I have had a boyfriend for five months now but he is always saying he likes small perky boobs and mines are big and there a bit not so perky. I need help, I am self conscious about them especially since he has has had a lot of girlfriends so help!!!!! What do guys prefer? ... (61 words)

I feel used by three boys all wanting sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last year and ive slept with 2 more guys since that, i know it sounds bad being 15 and slept with 3 boys. But its messed me up compleatly, the 1st boy i still talk to and im in lessons with him and everything, but he doesnt know that i had a misscarriage ... (421 words)

I saw him back on line on the dating site we met on, while he is still affectionate with me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online just about 6 weeks ago,we met and hit it off completely,he got very serious very quickly,talking about the future etc.We both decided we were gonna start seeing each other and have done,we both agreed we feel as if we have known each other forever.I had ... (145 words)

Does she fancy me and how do I get to know her better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and there's this girl I know- but not well- who recently has started to talk to me a lot and beam at me every time I see her. She's even come up with a nickname for me. Does she fancy me and how do I get to know her better?... (52 words)

I love her, she's beautiful, she's almost perfect but... I've never met her! What can I do about our LDR? I miss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am not out but my gf of 7 months is out bi, we have been together for 7 months(todays our anniversary) she has been in horrible relationships in the past and she says im the best shes ever been wit. shes madly in love with me, she adores me, thinks the world of me. i love her ... (137 words)

My boyfriend doesn't always cum during sex, does he have a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend doesnt always cum during sex does he have a problem? ... (12 words)

I am married and in love with my best (female) friend! It's a mess!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I am a mess! I am 26 and married, I love my husband with all my heart and can't see myself without him. I also am inlove with my best friend (famale), we have been best friends for 12 years. I am not attracted to girls, I am straight. It's not so much I am sexually attracked ... (180 words)

I'm really confused about this boy's behaviour, he teases me a lot... any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay.. i am 14 years old and i have just left my highschool and now im in year 10 at a college. i've been in year 10 for only 5 weeks and recently i've been really confused over this boy in my tutor he didnt go to my old school. We had induction day at our new school befo... (406 words)

Why can't my friends be grateful for their good health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and My life has been so hard over the past few years due to a condition which has taken me to the lowest of the low. I have had an operation this year and am slowing fighting the condition but i cnt help feel bitter about how all my other friends lives are so perfect. ... (141 words)

Our last kiss was magical but what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey,ok lets cut to the chase, there is this guy at schooland he is 3 years older than me. 2 weeks ago we shared a snog and i knowit was as magical to me as it wasto him but since then mi mum has been away so i had to stay at my aunts and havent seem him for a while but mi ... (78 words)

Where are the warehouse raves in London?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to go to an secret/underground warehouse rave somewhere in London? Where can I go... what can I do? How do you find out about things like this? Also... does anyone have any experiences of going to places like this? thanks... (50 words)

Do men shy away from relationships if they've been hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Are there any men out there who have shied away from beginning a relationship with a girl they like because they were still hurting from their last relationship? I’ve been given the bad timing, not over the ex line by a guy I have been spending some time with. Everyth... (305 words)

Could I get pregnant from this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were fooling around one night with our clothes on and he came on me and neglected to tell me for a few more minutes. the whole time pretty much his penis was centered right on my vagina. he said his jeans were not TOO wet and my jeans were very wet from ... (77 words)

Should I get my tongue pierced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I get my tongue pierced? What is everyones opinion on whether it looks or is sexy or not? Alot of my friends say that it is very good for... pleasing a guy And can I take it off for serious interviews etc? What are the chances of it getting infected? p.s I am 16... (69 words)

Should my girlfriend be out naked running in the rain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Some days ago I talked to my girlfriend (it is a long-distance relationship), and she told me that earlier that day she and three friends got naked and ran out to shower in the rain. Two of them were boys. She said it was just something impulsive and fun. But somehow it wasn't ... (233 words)

What are the signs of an emotional affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

- How can you tell if your b/f has started having an emotional affair with someone else?....My b/f used to e-mail me during the day and share things with me. At the beginning of our relationship, he'd tell me everything and I always felt close to him because of his open nature. ... (296 words)

The things that need to be done are not difficult to do and well within his capability. So what is the problem???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

- I moved in with my b/f 3 years ago. He owned a large house, which he bought when he was involved with another woman who had kids. While he was with this woman (only 2 years) they had started remodeling the house. Then she left and the remodeling got stalled. The two years we ... (132 words)

Would it be more pleasurable without the condom???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having regular intercourse with my boyfriend for a few months now. He always wears a condom. Whilst I do enjoy it I was wondering if I'd get even more pleasure if I used contraception and felt his semen when he has his orgasm.... (45 words)

I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong? you have to take into account that i had a relationship with him for 4 months and then we had sex because we were in love and i still love him but i aint seen him for two years because the family dont approve. ... (95 words)

I'm so confused about my feelings towards this guy... and does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am really really confused.. I dunno if I like this guy from my college.. I mean I liked him... although I didn't know him too well.. later because I realised.. he had no feelings for me.. I tried to forget him... but since I see him every day in college it's pretty hard. I ... (148 words)

Shall I pleasure her downwards or upwards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Quick question if I may about oral sex and pleasuring women. Do most women prefer their clitoral hood being licked downwards - or upwards? Problem with the former is that the man cannot see his lover's face when he's pleasuring her - though my current girlfriend prefers ... (51 words)

Does my friend like me like I like him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 19 and its been a few months since iv been meeting up with my old best mate from high school weve always been gud mates and weve told each other a lot of secrects, but recently iv been starting to have feelings for him. Iv felt this way before about him, but i ... (197 words)

My friends have been stolen.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - recently i started high school, and i am in the same form as them (theres 2 of them), but theve found a new friend and i can tell she hates me by the way she looks at me and behind her back they dont link arms with me any more and there totally anoying me, i dont really know ... (145 words)

So should I stay friends with her or should I go with the plan of never seeing here again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with a girl. Me and this girl have known each other for around a year now and we enjoy talking to each other and spending time with each other. Now the problem lies in how we think of each other. I did ask her out but got a no and her reason was she was ... (237 words)

Would you ever date someone who doesn't have the same religion as you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 3 questions for you:#1:would you ever date some who doesn't have the same religion as you? #2:how did you handle a big love break up? #3:when you fall in love do you:your heart then your brain.or your brain then your heart? thank you:)... (48 words)

I'm nearly 16 and look about 12 years old because I have chrons disease.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 16 and look about 12 years old because I have chrons disease. I find it hard to be confident about myself. I am dreading going to college, having my prom etc because of the way I look. It's not only my face but my body as well so I can't really blame people for ... (87 words)

How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all the way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 an been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we haven't had sex yet but I have skipped a period an starting 2 feel sick in the mornings! I'm so scared I really don't want 2 be pregnant:(! How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all the way? Are there other wa... (65 words)

I don't want to get in the way if they are having a relationship but I don't want to get more attached and end up hurting more later.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Jermain (brother) 21 Natasha (friend)18 Selena (brother's Girlfriend)21 I met a friend of my older brother about 6 months ago since then I have been in love with her and I can't get her out of my head, it drives me crazy. My older brother has a kid but was kicked out of ... (216 words)

Girl fear! How do I make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey folks, I am 17 young and live in Sweden. I am originally from Iraq, had been here for 9 months and I have my first love during this while but won't make u bored by the story just my problem is this. Before I met this girl I had a problem of talking to girls cuz always I... (226 words)

I've always used a condom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've had sex many times but only using condom. the skin on the top of my penis is still intact, the one that is cut in many people when they are young(circumcision).(e.g. most jewish people)... Is this skin cut when you have sex without condom? does it hurt? what shoul... (98 words)

Why can he get hard and finish to porn but not me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has type 2 diabetes and cant get it up for me. He takes the pills to help with that and can sometimes get half way hard by that. But he has not been able to finish with me for about six months. My thing is he can get him self hard and finish if he is watching porn. I ... (225 words)

I'm not sure whether he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I like a boy from school but don't know how to tell him. I think he likes me too but I'm not sure whether he really does. I always get embarresed when other people know about who I like.I am 11. I know I might seem too young to be on this site but I have done sex ed in s... (121 words)

Am I a coward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having to ask advice for the first time in a while, a few years ago I got a divorce. It wasn't a good marriage and we would offen argue and both got physical once or twice. There have been few problems and the settlement was fairly amicable. I have had no contact with... (361 words)

What is this stuff material around my clit, after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sometimes after i have sex and dnt shower after.. ( which is not often i do btw) i get this white stuff around my clit what is this? it goes away after i shower and its fien. it doesnt hurt or anythin. Please help x... (48 words)

Tips about intimacy with my husband? I am sexually frustrated but most of all I am hurt that he doesn't care enough to give me affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi all I need some advice on how to improve sex/intimacy with my husband. ( He's 37, I am 30. No kids. )We've been together for 8 years and we love each other to bits. All is well except when it comes to sex and affection. He has always had trouble "holding it in", a.k.a he... (975 words)

I like him but can't date him because I was abused in the past. What can I do when I so badly want to be with him and just can't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone So among the guys im a pretty hot girl that they all like and also everyones best friend. When i was a little girl i was abused by a friend of the family and i cant seem to understand it but it has afected my ability to have a relationship with any gu... (423 words)

I can't get pregnant. What are my chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old petite 5"5 inch girl whos been tryin for 3 months of unprotective sex to get pregnant.. How high is my chance of getting pregant? And for my size, is it possible for me to give birth without problems? -Michell... (46 words)

We're best friends, but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F) - Okay I know this is gonna sound so bad but okay. I dated this guy about 5 years ago, and 4 years ago.. and we had a thing about 3 years ago (before my bf). I have a boyfriend who i've been with for 2 years and 7 months. Me and my boyfriend have had heaps of ups and downs a... (291 words)

How to deal with teh father of my baby dating my sister? They're both drug addicts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating my best guy friend after a bad break up. We slept together for a bout two months and then I fond out I was pregnant. I decided to keep the baby. The best decision I ever made. As soon as I said I was keeping my son My baby's father started saying he liked my ... (220 words)

How do I tell her to improve her hygiene?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem wich is kinda acward... My GF´S... Private part smells realy bad and when im "downstairs", shure i can make it, I made it once but its realy a anticlimax, I cant tell her or suggest she could be a little "cleaner" its just... I can do it if i have to but... ... (81 words)

Due to PMT, my girlfriend gets easily annoyed and has mood swings! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - When my girlfriend her time of the month she scares me a bit. She get annoy easley and gets mad at everyone (mainly me.) She also give tons of mood swings. I know its natural and she trying control it a bit but its not working. What should I do? ... (54 words)

Should it bother me that my boyfriend still speaks to former sexual partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The title question should sum it up nicely, but I guess I'll go ahead and tell a little more depth. While I'm still a virgin, my boyfriend is about a year younger than me, and has had three sexual partners. It doesn't bother me that he's not a virgin, and he has never attemp... (392 words)

What are his intentions...is he desperate or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I hooked up with this guy a month ago. He said after the incident took place that he had a good time, but that he wasn't looking for anything more than that. Since then, every couple of days he has been texting me or emailing me asking me about what I'm up to and then he will ... (155 words)

Exactly how painful is it to lose your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it feel like to lose your virginity? I'm a smaller girl, and came close to losing it once, but it hurt too much for him to completely penetrate me, so I asked him to stop. I've heard it's painful, but I've heard it described to be enough to make you cry, and also... (106 words)

He was perfect, now he's gone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been over a month and I'm still in love with this guy. We didnt have sex, but we came very close. We are perfect for each other. I keep hearing our song.. its becoming more popular daily. Our signs are the right match. He was the first guy to have the same step as m... (194 words)

Can I continue making her cum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been lucky enough to be able to make my first (and older) GF cum every time we have sex. Usually within minutes, so I was quite surprised many females have never experienced this pleasure and my GF who has had several partners previously, never had it either. My motto is ... (125 words)

My boyfriend's sister acts like she suddenly hates me, should I talk to her or leave her brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and his sister and i where close i know her secerts and all. i use 2 take her to uni but once our classes did match she stop talking to me she hates me for her birthday i brought her a present and she didn't bother 4 mine. i can tell... (104 words)

Is it wrong to love your mother's girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am so deeply in love with my mom girlfriend and i know that sounds a little crazy but i never thought that it could happen..i have always been attracted to both man and woman but woman more so and i when i met her it was something that i just loved about her now my mom has ... (271 words)

How do I respond to being asked out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I was just wondering about this. If a boy asked me out, and I said yes, it's just how...do you be a girlfriend? I mean what do you do? just hang out with him as much as you can? Sit with him at lunch? What do you do? I mean i'm only 14. I just never planned as to what i'd ... (80 words)

Should I ingore her or just be her friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok everyone I'm SO confused and need major help and advice THANKS! I met this girl at my bowling alley (we bowl in the same league and have been for years). I told her how I felt about her, and she liked me too. she was dating this kid and they broke up on monday well I've bee... (434 words)

How can people be truly happy in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

4 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - From a guy's perspective, relationships cost a lot. From the first dinner on up until marriage, it's usually the guy footing the bill. From a female's perspective, she has to be miserable for 9 months and then raise the kid(s). Most of the time, the marriage ends in the ... (182 words)

Will this relationship ever be right again?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i was doing so good tell i start telling lies. it caused problems and i only did it for attention. i was going to parties having fun until then. then i went to a somewhere and this boy kissed me. he took that so hard. i never intend for it to happen cause i ... (127 words)

Should I move on with my life?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've previously posted a question in January (15/01) of this year. I guess this can be called an update.... For a clearer picturs, I am going to post my previous question here as well. What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past? I've recently g... (461 words)

How do I escape my sister's anger?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age - my sister is married to a narcisstic man and i think she is also narcisstic. her first marriage was to a physical and verbal abuse husband. 2nd marriage is the narcisstic person. her son and daughter from 1st marriage has lived under the verbal abuse of 2nd one. sister was ... (754 words)

I love her a lot but she told me she needs a break...is it over?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - She had a drunken one night stand the first weekend we were together. We had been dating for a week and known each other for about a month before that. I made it clear to her I was falling in love with her and she was hinting the same yet she still did this. I was devastated ... (511 words)

Is he..straight, bisexual or gay?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My best friend and I live together. We love each other very much, to the point that we function as each other's significant other. Many of our friends (and enemies) think of us as a couple. This has only been going on for 6 months. We are also in a rock band together. "Wes" and ... (432 words)

I want to 'come out' but how do I tell my best friend without losing him?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old, and i have known i was gay for a while now. I have yet to tell anyone about my sexuality and im worried that alot of my friends and family may not be ok with it. Particulary, the person i consider my best friend, i already think he is suspicious of my sexuality ... (254 words)

My boyfriend won't tell me why he loves me! Should I be worried?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and he won't tell me why he loves me. I think that he does, but he refuses to even try to tell me and it bothers me because it makes me wonder what separates me from one of his girl friends. It really bothered me and I told ... (108 words)

My husband and I argue a lot over small things. What can we do?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I argue alot over small things. He has been getting frustrated with me because I drive fast to get from point A to point B. I run out of gas quick, but its because I drove too quick and burn up gas alot. When he drives my car, he saves on gas. He threatens to ... (159 words)

Is she contacting me again because she wants me back or what?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf recently broke up. it was very messy for me but she seemed to get over it immediately, acting very cold. At first this hit me really hard, but then i realized she could very well be holding her feelings back so she wouldnt seem weak. We have been through a whole ... (175 words)

What's going on between us?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I spent the day with my crush a week ago at my house.we kissed, hugged, cuddled. So I told him that I like him and he didn't say it back, he just started putting his arm around me while walking and started acting like my bf. Now,it seems like were growing apart because we ... (216 words)

In love with my friend but he has a gf and I have a bf!

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! well.. i have the next problem, i think im in love with my best friend!! but... heres come the problem... he have girlfriend and i have my boyfriend!! but.. i dont know what to do, he´s so cute! but also i love my boyfriend, but the time i spend with my best friend is ... (79 words)

He was dating one girl and flirting with another female. So why is he mad that the other female moved on and is dating another?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age - Okay, here goes! So you're a guy who's chosen one girl over another to be your girlfriend, however, you're still flirting with the unchosen one when your girlfriend isn't looking, and she likes you alot. So as her hopes dwindle of ever capturing your heart, along comes ... (91 words)

How do I give her a "screaming orgasm"???

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have either a very usual or unusual question. I dont know how to give my GF a "screaming orgasm" I mean, i have given her one but it isnt enough... She doesnt cum and doesnt moan like my friends say she sould. The way i do is just rub my finger on her clitoris, it usualy ... (131 words)

What can I say or do that isn't too direct that would suggest to her how I feel?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently in university just started two weeks ago. I met this lovely girl waiting for one of the lectures. She seemed a bit lost and didn't know anyone. I was with one of my flatmates so we introduced ourselves. Anyhow, she (like me) doesn't go out a lot and isn't s... (249 words)

Question about sperm longevity---can someone clarify?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been reading other entries and many people have been saying different things in regards to how long sperm can stay alive outside the body. I have read seconds, 2 minutes and even 72 hours....can someone please clarrify?? ... (39 words)

Should I tell my husband about my one night drunken affair?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel horrible, before me and my husband got married I slept with someone else but I never told him because I know he would of left me over it, but it seriously a drunken mistake. I told him once before when I cheated and he forgave me. What should I do? Do I tell him now that ... (75 words)

I cant tell whether hes just naturally flirty or is he even interested in me at all?

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy about 3 months and that night we began texting each other and talking on msn. we got on really well but the next week i went on holiday but not before we arranged to go to a gig together. throughout the holiday he emailed me and when i got home we went out together ... (192 words)

He can't even get it up with me but after, he'll go watch porn and have no problem with erections!

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4 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my husband like porn more than me? He can't even get it up with me any more. He is not able to finish with me any more either. Is the real thing not better any more? How do I get him to want me instead of it. Every time I tell him he has a problem with it he just gets ... (115 words)

In love with my 14 year old cousin...how should I procees with her?

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4 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys n gals, I am 18. I have a first cousin she is 14. Dont choke hearing. I'm virgin and she is my first serious love. because this is normal in my country. actually i love her a lot and have loved her for 1 year, but i couldn't tell her. I care a lot for her. i dont ... (99 words)

Pains in my chest! Why is that?

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4 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im now 16years old and im a girl i had a heart operation when i was 15 i fownd out in ur 9 going up to year 10 i had a hole in my heart i still get pains in my chest is it cos my boobs are still growing or cos i had the operation can u help please xx... (85 words)