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Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting?

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Question - (26 October 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting or is it just something few women are born with?

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A male reader, mxbnyc United States +, writes (14 March 2010):

Female ejaculation is not a myth. From my experience you can make most women (but not all) squirt but the amount of liquid varies. What you want to do is have her lie on her back. Take your two middle fingers and insert them into her, rubbing in an upward motion while rubbing her clit with your thumb. To maximize the effect, press down on her public region towards where your fingers are stimulating her from the inside. Move your two fingers that are inside of her towards you as if you are giving a "come here" motion. Think of it more of a massage of her upper pussy than a fucking motion with your fingers. Long strokes with your fingers back and forth is the key, keeping pressure on the area the whole time. Do not press too hard as this can be uncomfortable for her. Think of the amount of pressure that you would apply for a back rub. Firm and steady but not overly aggressive.

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A male reader, Multipartner dreamer United States +, writes (21 April 2009):

I think it is a learned thing with women.

My wife only began doing this, with me, and since we have been married, some 7 yrs ago. I was at work. LOL and b/c I do the laudry discovered it being my nosey self.

Ever since then my wife does it sporadically. I think for most women, its a mood thing, being in the right frame of mind, the right setting, say in the bed room, etc. For her, she needs be totally comfortable, no pressure, and relaxed. My wife loves my cock. and the feel of it it inside of her when she squirts, but it is uusually the wand vibrator on the clitoris which does the trick. Get one!

When it does happen I love it, not to mention she does too!

It is a turn on for both.

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A female reader, gazellegirl United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

Yes there most definitely is - virtually any woman can learn to squirt, it's not so much about learning how to as being aware about what it is, what the sensations feel like and then trusting your body. Many women think they have an urge to pee during sex or stimulation of the G-spot, even if they emptied their bladder beforehand. This is actually the first sign that you are apporaching female ejaculation - the Skenes glands produce fluid and these feels like you need to pee - and as most of us know nothing about squirting (female ejaculation) we hold back for fear we're about to pee everywhere. However if you have the right info you'll know this is not the case!

You can find out everything you need to know from this free to use site:

Happy reading and let me know when you have you're first squirting orgasm!

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A male reader, Cowboy United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

Cowboy agony aunt

I'm still not sure that I believe the whole 'squirting' thing.

I've had it happen a good few times with a good few girls, and it has invariably been pee.

There's no mistaking the taste of pee!

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A female reader, x..BabyGirl..x United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2008):

x..BabyGirl..x agony auntWhen you are about to orgasm have the man take his penis out and you have to push as hard as you can. I'm 14, I masturbate and I squirt like a water fountain. I was just born with it though. Good luck.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (26 October 2008):

Sandman agony auntI'm not sure. There are some websites (and of course books) touting how to teach the female how to ejaculate but I have never read (or heard) of any female being able to learn through these teachings. Of course, it is something you are wanting to do, then I probably wouldn't hurt to try.

For the most part though, I think women who are "squirters" are naturals. Meaning it is something that comes naturally for them. No teaching or books.

Do a simple internet search of "learning how to squirt" or something else to that effect to see what kind of information you get. Be warned, some of the websites that are sure to pop up are porn sites. So if you are not willing to see these sites, be careful of your search criteria.

Hope this helps.

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