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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I actually believe I am in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Update. I actually believe I am in love. I am not going out with this guy, but he means the world to me. He has a gf so I haven't told anyone my feelings incase it caused trouble which isn't fair on his gf. But I just don't stop thinking about him. He is amazing. He is g... (343 words)

Does anyone out there believe in Soulmates???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is more of asking your opinions... does anyone believe in soulmates? and if yes how do you know when your find your soulmate? Thanks.... (28 words)

The anxiety is ruining my relationship and my life, help please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone, I have a problem that at this point in my life I don't know how to address, I have allways been a very logical, analytical but very very anxious person, recently I am starting to realize that my anxiety is taking a turn that is starting to interfere with my ... (500 words)

I want him to have the freedom he needs but also for us to spend quality time together too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and 4 days ago he split up with me. The main reason for this is because of a problem that has plagued our relationship for a long time. He works away from home Monday to Friday. This means our only opportunity to spend time ... (277 words)

He always told me he never wanted to try anal sex but now he's desperate to do it! What has changed him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - a little confused. need some help. me and my husband have been together for three years. he has always said he would never try anal sex and has never even thought about wanting to, but all of the sudden he wanted to do it. He didnt come out and ask he just kept tring to one ... (102 words)

I'm very hurt as my boyfriend doesn't trust me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

8 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm very hurt. My boyfriend doesn't trust me. Well he's always been jealous and when we first started dating he kind of "warned" me about this trait. He even asked me not to talk about my past when I let some details accidentally slip. He's my first boyfriend. Well we fell i... (685 words)

Do I wait until he knows me better or tell him so that if he has a problem with it I'm not going to get hurt????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a civil partnership in January - It ended in March. We are still great friends and live together. Problem is I've recently met someone and am unsure when to tell him about this. Do I wait until he knows me better or tell him so that if he has a problem with it I'm not ... (61 words)

I need help, I am obsessed. I want relief please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, there. I love a girl so badly. I am obsessed. I cant think anyone else. I guess that I am so weird. She doesn't even love me but I am the one waiting for her for long. She acts wid me so normally,but i believe i can wait for her my whole life.i love her for 2years now.she ... (83 words)

Was I being overly possessive in defining boundaries with his ex this early?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy that works at the same company as me only in a different division (but in the same town). We actually met through an online dating site (one of the sites where THEY match you based on your values, etc, and you can’t search for matches on your own). We knew a lot of ... (1557 words)

Should I tell him how I feel, based on this information?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I work with, we flirt alto, and he calls me every night to see how I am and stuff, we've been one date, and it was great and were planning on a 2nd date this weekend. He says he wants me to come shopping with him then he's going to take me for dinner. I rea... (107 words)

Why do I regret NOT sleeping with this guy after knowing him and his friends for 10 seconds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I know this might seem daft but I went out on Sunday with a friend, call her *T* and we went out as we do, met up with some other people, walked into town, hung out for a bit and stuff, had a good night, and then we walked back up to T's and I waited at the bus stop to go ... (455 words)

I am in a gay relationship but I cum after a couple of minutes, how can I last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am gay and I have had a boyfriend for about 3 years now. We have sex quite a lot, but at the moment I have been cumming really quickly. I mean without being so graphic, I tend to do it to him, but I have been cumming really quickly, I mean like after 2 minutes or so. I mean ... (78 words)

After 25 years, it is really over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age - Two weeks ago I came home from work and my husband told me he was leaving me, he had met someone at work and had been seeing her for the previous six months , he had packed his bags while I was at work. We had just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. We had been to Florida ... (171 words)

If he was interested in a relationship, he would have told me, right? Or do I have to pursue him a little more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I hooked up one night. I asked him later if it was just a one night thing or if we were going to be casual, or if it was something else. I told him I liked him a lot, and either option answer would be fine with me, but that I would really like a relationship with ... (206 words)

Why am I cumming so quickly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I need an honest answer from the ladies and guys if you have been in my situation.. Basically I'm cumming pretty fast lately, like 2-3 minutes, and it's becoming a habit. Which is weird because I used to be able to last longer. But now I cant. I don't know why. but anyw... (122 words)

I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related! Well to tell the truth it is three different guys. All telling me different thing and getting me confused! Firstly how do I tell if he really does love me?? That's the one bit I always mess up ... (243 words)

She found it weird having a relationship with me as we were good friends before that, so she finished with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the same thing so should I try and ... (70 words)

I am beginning to think that fate really does exist and departed loved ones really could be there watching over us and protecting us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - The other week after being told by my girlfiend by text that it was over I drove for 2 hours to see her to try and speak to her to sort things out (mistake no.1) As she was ignoring all my messages and calls before I just turned up I messaged her twice to ask her that if she ... (604 words)

My girlfriend always goes and parties and I stress about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend always goes parties and I stress about what if she does something behind my back? I trust her but I still don't know why I think that. When I first started going out with her I found out when she used to go out partying, she was grinding on the next boy. Help me ... (63 words)

How to resolve my recurring relationship problems due to anxiety?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this doesn't sound too pathetic. I have a problem about getting anxious which keeps cropping up. Basically, my current relationship has had a lot of problems for a long time, and I'm feeling that this will be the same in all my relationships unless I can resolve it. T... (696 words)

It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what to do should i stay with him ... (63 words)

How can I stop my wife from being so controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age - I am married since 1976, my age was 16 and my wife 9 months older than me. We have matured daughters 28 and 24 aging one is married second is likely to be married in a few months and one son 21. My wife does not allow me to talk my parents, brothers, she only allows me before ... (259 words)

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as this was my first time and we ... (78 words)

I'm so obsessed with a man who was in jail and who returned to his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't get him out of my head!! I'm totally obsessed with a man who I probably won't see again and who was in jail but now has gone back to his girlfriend! We had a definite attraction for each other and I asked him to call once he got out but he never did! I'm so ... (119 words)

I'm becoming really depressed since my mother passed away, I feel lonely and I want to stop what I am doing wrong but there is no one to help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK this isnt a relationship question or anything but... well my mum died 6 months ago.. and im becoming really depressed. Ive been to the doctors about it but they cant do anything because of my age (16) and ive started smoking drinking and occasionally doing weed. I just feel ... (165 words)

How does the contraceptive pill work exactly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii just a quick one really. Not really sure if this has been answered before so any help would be greatly appreciated. Basically, the contraceptive pill..i know that there are about 20 different kinds, but exactly how do they work? I mean of course i know that you take one... (109 words)

Is everything fair in love and war?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how many people out there actually believe everything is fair in love and war? what are your reasons? do you believe in fate? destiny? my boyrfriend he said fate interfered and brought me to him. things are complicated though, should i take a stand and fight for him ... (64 words)

Help me break up with him AGAIN... please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Kay , well ive been dating this guy for a year now and he wants to get married ... and im only 18 ! I cant get married !!!! Dont get me wrong ! I love him and everything but like Crap .... i need to focus on my life . AND ive already broken up with him 2 times , we just go... (109 words)

How can she be so cold? Could I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - About three months ago, I was madly in love with this girl I worked with. Turns out it was unrequitted. Beut, nether-the-less I still tried to get her. I sent her a valentine card and everything. Well, eventually she left, and I gave her a necklace as a leaving present. I'd ... (284 words)

Is it too early to tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i am 21 yrs old i know this sounds dumb, i am afriad to tell my boyfriend i love him. if i love him i should just tell him, but i am really scared. i am already crying. it was four months ago that he held my hand for the first time, and i guess thats when i think our rela... (462 words)

Why is this teacher being so strange? Is this allowed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i finsished yr 11 (last year of sc... (303 words)

I need some advice, I'm 15 and might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant... i havent gottin my period for this month and lately me and my bf have been having unprotected sex =/ i know i cant tell my family or friend because they'll all be very upset...and im not ready to have a kid me and my bf ar... (84 words)

John now thinks we should start a relationship, but I'm feeling incredibly guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago a guy who used to date my friend (let's call him Joe) suddenly announced that he liked me while we were both drunk at a party. We ended up kissing, but the next day I regretted it and thought that it must have just been a strategy to get back at her. This sort of ... (464 words)

Am I making a fuss over nothing or is any of this something to worry about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I love him very much. The thing is I feel like I'm always proving my love but he isn't. I talk about him on my facebook profile, but he mentions nothing about me, not even that he's in a relationship. (his friends know ... (111 words)

How different does orgasm feel in comparison to ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has endured a back muscle injury and for the last while has not been able to ejaculate during sex. He said that he is able to orgasm. I am wondering if this is true because according to online information, orgasms without ejaculation seem to only occur to men with ... (153 words)

I'm committed, but is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I love him dearly, and there is no question that he loves me. He's soon to be going through some life changes which include moving to another state (he's never been out of the state by himself before) for 3-5 years ... (314 words)

I feel he is having second thoughts about a relationship as he has become most distant and angry over nothing apparent.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently split with my partner of one year. I am quite upset by this yes, however his best friend told me that he would be interested in starting a relationship with me. Having had strong feelings for him in the past I said I would be most interested but suggested ... (113 words)

Is there a way to share your sadness with a girl without looking like a wimp?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I went out with my girlfriend the other week and I was really depressed about some stuff going on at home. But instead of telling her about it I just pretended I was having fun. I'm really scared to tell her when I'm sad cause she might judge me because of it. Is there any way ... (67 words)

My girlfriend always acts goofy, how can I motivate her to be more reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I like my girlfriend but she can get pretty goofy sometimes! Like one night we were making out and I though she was going to give me a hickie but instead she blew rasberries on my neck. And then another time we were having sex and she karate chopped my back! It hurt but ... (98 words)

I love him but how long should I wait for him to make up his mind about marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose to me? We have been together for 2 years now and have had a huge fight about marriage. He knows how important it is to me, and has even led me on about getting married. During our huge fight he told me that he didn't know how ... (86 words)

I saw my ex's girlfriend naked on some other guy's mobile phone! Do I tell my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old woman and am totally stumped on this one so please give your opinion, my ex boyfriend who I really care about and still love has moved on with his life and got himself a new girlfriend, I'm okay with that to a degree but I won't pretend I like her, but anyway ... (243 words)

This boy and I kissed and my friend spread the gossip so he is now upset with me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, meand this guy at my school kissed but he is 3 years older then me. i told my friend and she told every one and now all his friends are making fun of him and he tinks that i told them, i have tried to tell his it wasnt me but hes just not taking it.now he is an out cast and ... (119 words)

Did my ex return to me because I paid someone to do spells??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this is a bit of a random question but, i broke up with my ex last year and even after having no contact from all that time i couldnt move on, although he had, so i decided casting a few spells would bring him back to me, i payed someone to do it, an obeah and endless love ... (154 words)

I like the idea of a threesome but I'm worried I would be made to feel like the "second wheel"...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this dude for about 7 months and he and I are both great at exploring new things sexually. Lately, he has been asking me to have a threesome which i am okay with. I love trying new things and I want to have the threesome too. I am just concerned that sinc... (205 words)

I need closure with my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I need closure with my ex that I've been on and off with for almost 6 years. We always go through bad things, and we end up flipping on each other. I need some help on how to handle this.... (41 words)

Why did my ex treat me so strangely after we broke up, when she is the one that cheated? Is it bad to consider a revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I was with a girl for two year and found by chance she was seeing someone else. I walked away upset, but caused no problems at all,this was 10 month ago and all through this time she has constantly displayed strange behaviour to me. Sometimes talking soemtimes not, once or ... (288 words)

I don't know if it's right for me to always ask my boyfriend for sex, as I am always in the mood, could he lose interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a sexual problem: i dont know if its right to always ask my boyfriend to have sex with me and i want him to do it everyday how can i stop this before he loses intrest in me?... (40 words)

What if he caught an STD from his previos partners? How should I express my worry without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I need an advice, I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 29, we have been together for 8 months, we started to have sex after the third month ( yes I know, I made to poor guy waited too much) but we always have sex using condom, he is my second sexual partner, I have only ... (224 words)

My live-in partner treats me poorly, his brother who always helps me has fallen in love with me, what will I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - after having a boyfriend of 2 years, i lived in his house with his mother and brother, he always hurt me physically but i still love him after that i notice that i am pregnant to him but he does not treat me good he always leaves me and 2 a day go home,his brother is the one ... (144 words)

My husband includes his mother too much in our lives!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband lacks inertia to things happened around our home but very eager to help out when his parents need assistance. He shares thoughts with his mother but not me. I feel emotionally very distance from him. He gives his money every end of month and not my mother. if we ar... (170 words)

I am attracted to this man who works at a shop but I am too shy to aproach him. We may work together soon.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 28yrs old, a full time time mum to my gal aged 5. we live above a shop that opened a month ago. the thing is i've fallen for a guy who works there, when i see him i say hello etc but then i clam up as i'm really shy. i cant stop thinking about him, and i just dont know ... (97 words)

How to tell my ex that I want to get back together? He said it was my attitude and my arguing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i finally broke up with him...we thought i was pregnat, i'm not..ok..so the same day i found out..i wanted to have sex, he was scared...which i could see where he was coming from, but his whole attitude had been changing...now...its like i miss him sooo!!!! much..he just wants ... (150 words)

We broke up because he had some really strange fetishes, are there others out there who enjoy these?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend of 1 yr and I just broke up. He was into some really strange fetishes and over time I agreed to participate in them...things like spanking him, using a strap on with him, peeing in his mouth while he performed oral sex on me, and then came spitting in his face or ... (95 words)

Is there any point in discussing what we each want out of this relationship when I cant see it going anywhere? Should I just break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

- I think my relationship is in trouble. You know how you can go out with someone and it's pretty good, not too dreadful, and you start dating regularly, and it just stays sort of OK and doesn't really go anywhere? That's how I feel. I've been with my girlfriend five ... (245 words)

My husband says it is all my fault. I think it is him. Can this be fixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help my husband of ten years is not the same person. We fight almost everyday and a few times they have become physical in front of our two kids. He says it is all my fault and that if I was to change and get on some meds. that it would fix everything. He does nothing wrong ... (97 words)

He says spending less time together will save the relationship. Is he being honest here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 7 months, said to me the other weekend that we need to spend time apart so like instead of me seeing him everyday i will see him on the weekends, tuesdays and thursdays and sometimes fridays nites after we both finish work,we use to argue a lot and he says hes tryinh ... (166 words)

I am attracted to a much older television personality. Is it ok to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - am a bit attracted towards older men rather than men of my age. It aint sexual thou', but lately i found out that i'm very much sexually attracted towards british television writer who was popular with the series Zoo quest(born on may 8th 1926) i mean very much...can u juz help ... (67 words)

Is this a definitive break-up or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner is 27 years older and we have been together almost 2 years. Until a few months ago everything seemed to be as perfect as life can be. We were so much in love we wanted to live and spend the rest of our lives together. But since 3 months ago things changed. My partner ... (404 words)

Should I be angry at my husband? He sent a nude pic of someone else's wife to a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my husband and I are both military he is away in training and was using another man's phone (Joe) when he came across pics of that man's wife naked. He then sent them to another one of his friends (Bob). That friend then turned around and sent it to my husbands cell ... (206 words)

MEN if you love your children will you always love them more than anyone else in your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Men, I need your help. Please answer this: if you love your children very much, will you always love them more than anyone else in your life? Can you leave your family and children for another woman and not regret the decision? What would it take for you to leave your family? ... (53 words)

When we broke up he went on a date with someone else. We got back together, but when I found out I was so hurt I want to break up again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. We broke up for a week, he went on a date with another girl and then asked me back out. I went back out with him before I found out that he went on a date. I just recently found out and called him to break up with him because ... (76 words)

Is it ever right to leave your husband for a new love? Or do I have to work on fixing my marriage to be 'right'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I'm falling out of love with my husband of 12 years and in love with this man at work... Checked out advice everyone gives in such cases and the overwhelming majority says 'work on your marriage, forget the other man, it's just a crush, recreate love for your husband... (205 words)

She went back to her ex, but asked my friend if I remember her. Does that mean she still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - theres a girl i met a few months ago. we both really liked each other and started meeting up and pulling eachother for a while. she was just broken up from her bf but she then went back to him. hes her first love and she was telling me she was finding it hard to get him ... (227 words)

He has moved on and I am still stuck on him. I cant get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16. I dated(unofficially) this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was my first boyfriend ... (869 words)

We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral on each other. The thing is, ... (149 words)

Should I choose the good boy? Or the bad boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i posted this on yahoo, so the 3 bottom paragraphs are in response to questions. that is why they are phrased strangely. they are pertinent info though so i left them Went home for my cousins wedding, met a boy, hung out with boy, liked boy, boy liked me, boy kissed me, boy ... (708 words)

Will the first time hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time, since im a virgin im scared to know whether i will bleed or it will hurt as ive heard from my friends, im totally ready for sex just have my worries that it will hurt, does your first time hurt?... (53 words)

How can I feel alive again?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age - I was with my children husband for 26 y/rs I left him 1 1/2 yr ago. The relationship was abusive and he the past few yrs was diagnosed bipolar. I know I did the right thing to leave and so do my children. Last yr I quit my nursing career due to the fact mentally I had it with ... (305 words)

How to build a family if my husband is too focused on his son?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We started dating almost a year ago and are going to marry. i Love my future husband and have promised him that i will never leave him, because he has been much too scared that i could leave him like others did. I want to follow my words and stay faithful to him till the end. ... (877 words)

I don't believe he didn't cheat!

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im going to rephrase this question, as Im not seeing any responses yet with the other one. My fiance of 4 years and I have recently just moved in with each other and we both have one child each of our own. I snooped (wrong I know) and found a letter postmarked last year that ... (197 words)

Do you think there is something wrong with him?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I was just wondeing if you think this situation is normal. I have been dating a guy for 3 months who is 32. I just found out im his first girlfriend EVER. This explains why the sex was lousey at the start (he was a virgin but never told me, he is a VERY quick learner ... (126 words)

How long after removing a contraceptive implant, can we start trying for a baby?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, i want to try for a baby but i have the implant in do you know if i take it out will it take a while before i can start trying please help.... (35 words)

My wife is pregnant after 4 miscarriages, but the baby might have brain damage. Help?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife have been trying for a baby for over 3 and a 1/2 years now. In that time we have had 4 miscarriages. We are delighted to know that my wife is pregnant, but we have just found out that this child has a 94% chance of being brain damaged. I dont know what to think ... (63 words)

He has been cheating on me, what do I do now?!

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have found out that he has cheated and Im not sure if I can get over it. He has not wilinginly admitted to it and he has been with the same girl off and on for over a year every time we would supposedly break up..which mind you was quite a bit. That is another question did he ... (159 words)

I love my husband but I'm not "in love" with him. How can I get the passion back in time?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i wonder if anyone can give me some advice, ive been with my fiance for 4 years and we have a beautiful baby boy together, i was happy until about a year ago when i started feeling differently about him, he is the most kind caring man in the world but the passion in our ... (332 words)

How can I change her mind about not seeing me anymore. I think I was too slow to propose!

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner (36 yo - I'm 39 yo) of 3 years just broke off with me again (4th time). She said she was "settling", was quite firm, said for me to make no contact and that we could no longer be friends. However, she said I ticked all the right boxes to be her partner. She's been ... (262 words)

How can I forget my ex, he was my first love and my fiance.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with my ex for about 3 months now and he was my first boyfriend. We were engaged and everything! but its over and im seeing someone else but i cant get over him... is it really true you'll never forget your first? i mean when im having sex with another man i think of ... (78 words)

Does this message mean he wants to marry me?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I just asked a bunch of questions but I want to know the answer to this one. while he was on the plane he sent me a text saying he would miss me and to keep thinking about everything about us and what we talked about. So does that mean he wants to marry?... (54 words)

My new boyfriend's grandfather died. He distant now. How can I support and comfort him?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three months now, but before then we were total strangers. we are both students in the same university, but different campuses; we don't really spend time together, so there's still alot we don't know about each other. few days ago ... (193 words)

I don't trust him and I'm getting paranoid. Can this work?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a man I don't trust. I check his e-mails behind his back, I go through his phone, I am just so paranoid!! I never used to be this way but he cheated once and I just can't seem to get over it. Do you think there is any point carrying on with this? I hate ... (100 words)

He has a girlfriend back home, but he said he has fallen in love with me.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay this is my problem: I have been with a man for 8 months now.He is 9 years younger then me,and never told me he had a girlfriend back home that he has had for a year and a half.One day he finally broke down and cried and told me he had fallen in love with me. Well I cried ... (452 words)

My online friend has become arrogant and disrespectful since he found a girlfriend. Should I get rid of him?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear agony aunt...im a 17 year old girl. i have an online friend since the last one and a half year. we used to very attached to each other. and were the closest friends. but since the last couple of months since he has started dating this other girl ,he has changed ... (216 words)

Should I stay over my boyfriend's house while his parents are away? I'm worried he might pressure me to have sex.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend's family is going out of town for a month. And my boyfreind wants me to sleep over atleast once. We both have kissed each other but didnt have sex yet. I am a virgin and plan to be so till I get married. He has promised that if I come and stay with him then he ... (112 words)

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I help my boyfriend to get in the mood?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im always in the mood to have sex with my boyfriend, he is never in the mood. What can I do? It only happens 1 time a week. I am sexually frustrated. I need him to want me more! When I talk to him about it he gets angry, so now I just satisfy myself, but it is not the same.... (121 words)

My wife lied to me about her past relationships. Should I doubt her faithfulness?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Would really like all your thoughts on this one. We have been married for 11 years and have a 9 year old daughter. Just after marriage my wife told me that she was a virgin - not that i asked her but it was her own input. Well good for me as I was one myself. Then within t... (409 words)

I'm stuck with my abusive, dependant partner. Help!

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Iam a mother of 3 kids 2 daugters from previous marrage age 16 and 17 I was engage for 15 years I broke the engagement 6 months ago I have a son of 4 years with this man While I was still engage with him I met this man it's about 7 months ago he now what is going on in my ... (588 words)

Was she flirting with me? She will be my new room mate soon!

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8 October 2008 (M) - ok so it turns out we are getting a new roomate and I finally gotto meet her at a party we had. I fall In love with this girl the moment I see her cause she reminds me of this girl back in high school I had a major crush on. Well it turns out that she has a bf and all and she ... (210 words)

My 43yo boyfriend has no ambition or drive, and won't attempt to change. What's wrong with him?

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8 October 2008 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend drives me nuts. He is so lazy. He is a decent man, caring and loving but he is 43 years old and doesn't have a career and has no drive. I have spoken to him about this so many times but he is content to do nothing all day apart from being on his laptop, doing su... (241 words)

How long should a couple be together before "I love you" is said?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've Been Talking To This Guy For About A Couple Of Weeks Now And I Really Like Him And He Really Likes Me We Started Off Chatting On The Internet And Then Texting And Now We Talk On The Phone Alot I'm Afraid That We May Be Falling In Love With One Another And I Think He's ... (105 words)

I had light diarrhoea after eating spicy food, will this effect the pill?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I would just like to confirm something. On Saturday i had sex with my fi. I had eaten abit of spicy food and i took my pill in the night. However due to the spicy food, i had a slight but of diarrhoea (abt half an hour of taking the pill) what are my chances that i c... (94 words)

The man I'm seeing doesn't want commitment and is controling our relationship. How can I get things back on even ground?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i'm dating although he has told me that he doesn't want a serious commitment sometimes he is very sweet and friendly. Because we have talked a lot about us i think that i have lost the control of the situation and he is the one that can actually control everything. ... (111 words)

I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I had very little foundation of ... (674 words)

We've been fighting a lot so I went to stay at a hotel, he says he is sorry so should I get back?

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8 October 2008 (?) age 41-50 - My husband amd me have been fighting a lot mainly about money. We just had huge fight about who's paying the bills. It got so bad he yelled I want a diorvce. I got so upset I went to stay at a hotel (I didnt tell him where im staying at.) Hes been leaving massages saying hes ... (68 words)

I want to marry him, but what if this means tearing my family apart? They dislike my boyfriend.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got back together with my ex bf of a year. I am more in love then ever. I am 20 years old, 2 years into college, and I am having a difficult time telling my parents that we are back together, purely on the fact that he was arrested this past summer...for some dumb ... (211 words)

I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i became close friends with ... (358 words)

Should I emigrate with him? He has shown his cruel and cold side to me, but I want this to work.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Following good advice before i have recently spent some time with my boyfriend who emigrated away from me and life in the UK 18 months ago to be in Melbourne, Oz. During my stay I tried to live as if I was living there - not doing tourist things etc - and have looked into all ... (1114 words)

Help! I love a woman but am attracted sexually to a man who I live with!

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a woman--we've been dating for just over a year now. I am happy with her, and love her very much. However, I am bisexual. This has not been a problem until recently. I live with a very, very attractive gay man who is also one of my closest ... (134 words)

I dislike that my girlfriend hides things from me but she does this because she knows I'm extremly jealous!

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend knows me well and she knows i get jealous a lot...but its not to were i ask her to not talk to them or w.e...but she just doesnt tell me anything because she knows itll hurt me...I wont denie it..it will but i want to hear the truth...i keep telling her to tell it ... (67 words)

My manager makes me feel uncomfortable while watching me. Is he jealous because I now have a boyfriend?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in an entertainment based job. i see my coworkers every couple of months depending on which show we are working on. At one point we got together and my lead stage manager sort of ran the show, which came out to be a huge success, surprisingly. It's been about eight... (194 words)

Who makes the first move?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell if a guy likes you or not? And if they do should you make the first move or wait for them to?... (26 words)

I'm pregnant after a one night stand. Should I tell the guy? Should I tell my father? I feel so stupid, what am I going to do?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should i tell a guy that im pregnant if it was a one night stand? i know his name, where he lives but i dont know how to approach him, or what to say. Im not sure what im going to do, i havent told anybody, is that wise? and if i do tell my father that im pregnant i wouldnt ... (86 words)

I wanted some closure - but do you think he thinks I want him back now?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my ex think I'm trying to get him back? I broke up with my ex a year ago. Shortly after the breakup i changed my phone number so he would stop harassing me. He was emailing me up until July-so i changed my email in July. Well, on Saturday i emailed him asking if he is at ... (270 words)

How can I make it official without it being weird and awkward like last time?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This may seem like a easy thing to do but how do i ask this girl to be my girlfriend? We met through a friend and talked for about a week before meeting in person, last week we had our first date and it went really well, and we ended up hanging out again, and it also went wel... (133 words)

We're each others 'first love' and things are great, but he sometimes wonders if we should see what dating others is like - is he right?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. We are both 20 years old, and really do feel comfortable with each other. We moved in with each other just last month, and everything is going great. We are both each others first relationships. I don't feel like I n... (141 words)

He tells me he's tired of me and my children, he treats me like a roommate now - but I don't want him to leave, I'm so miserable what should I do?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make my story short. I have been living with my boyfriend for two years. He is younger than me. I am 25 and he is 23. I have children but they're not his. When we first got together everything was great. It all started because he wanted to go out and have some fun. ... (234 words)

Is economic security more important than being treated 'right'? Should I go back to the ex or stay with the BF?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder if it is worth it to dump my bf of 8 months to go back to my ex, who threw me out of his house, after leaving together for 2 years and being engaged for 4, and after all that he tells me he asked me to marry him because his aunt recommend it to him. He bought me a car, ... (286 words)

I just found out I have a teenaged son I knew nothing about - how do I tell my wife and our children, and how do I talk to this other child?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Alright im going to try to make this short as possible. Ok, when I was in my early 20s I had a friend that I was really close to. He had a sister that was I'm guessing 6 years younger than him (I can't rember). So she had a thing for me, but of course I was older than her, ... (557 words)

I've had two miscarriages now, should I wait to try again like people keep saying or listen to the Dr's and try when I feel ready?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had two miscarriages close together (April 08 and August 08) - at around 8wks each time. My husband and I are quite devastated following the second. The first we put down to bad luck, but when it happened again it got us worrying. However, we have a healthy child (2 ... (322 words)

She has feelings for women but wants to stay and work on intimacy with me. I think after 15 years of denial she deserves some peace - what do you think?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a manogomous relationship with my girlfriend for 15 years. About 10 years ago, she started having very close relationships to straight women. These relationships were very close as in she wouldn't give me the time of day, but lived to be there for these women. ... (282 words)

I am bisexual and have a husband and a girlfriend - the problem is I am not attracted to my girlfriend and never really was. Now I don't know how to end it without causing pain - any ideas?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in my 40's, married to a husband who encourages and supports my bisexuality. I have a girlfriend who is also married. The problem is that I have never been physically attracted to her because she is older than me and looks more like my mom than my girlfriend. I look young ... (427 words)

I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'm infatuated with another guy - why?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have a serious problem and I want to know honest opinions on what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now (I'm in my 20's) and I love and care for him very much (I don't believe I'm in love with him anymore for a number of reasons) ... (270 words)

He lies about smoking weed now, I don't want to push him away - how should I handle this?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact that he lies about it or just ... (133 words)

His fantasies about other girls bug me, but also kind of turm me on too....is this abnormal?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 25 years old. Have been with my bf for over 5 years and we live together. We have a good sex lfe and he is so much into sex. He has strong sexual feelings about other girls too tho. He loves looking at photos of girls in the internet, not porn, but girls with sexy ... (272 words)

He's cheated and I have tried to forgive him and move on - but I can't seem to get it off my mind. What should I do?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Where should I start... Well my boy friend and I have been together for 3 years now and I cant help but feel disconected. We have been through a couple big break ups over him cheating on me when I was pregnant and just after... So far I have forgiven him. But I ca... (139 words)

I maturbate frequently and am worried because recently no sperm comes out when I orgasm. Has anyone else had this problem?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I masturbate around 2 times a day. I used to be able to ejaculate, but recently my orgasms have been with no sperm. I think I have retrograde ejaculation since after I usualy have to pee when I didn't before and it's cloudy after masturbation. This started around F... (175 words)

I don't want to be seen as her best friend anymore - I want more, what can I do?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I've really liked for 2 years right? She considers me one of her best friends. She's so open with me, she tells me EVERYTHING, (bra size, what she does, fantasies, everything). I could do anything and she wouldn't care. But she just thinks of me as a best ... (57 words)

She's denying we're even friends because her boyfriend doesn't like it - I have feelings for her, what should I do?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl I like...she has a bf and well she likes me too but LOVES her bf...We are super close buddies...one day her bf found out I liked her and that she had feelings for me aswell...and now she denies our friendship too because her bf doesnt want her talking to ... (109 words)

He's my ex, he's kissed another girl...but he says he loves me and I am still in love with him. Should I wait for him?

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up maybe 3 weeks ago or so, and we're still friends and see each other everyday. I am still head over heels for this boy and we were together for a year and 4 months, but sortly before we broke up he was chating with some girl that lives two ... (317 words)

How do you fight attractions to the opposite sex when you're in a committed relationship?

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8 October 2008 (F)

- How do other people fight attractions to the opposite sex when you're in a committed relationship? I don't want to do anything to jeopardize what I have, but my b/f has a male friend I am strongly attracted to and find myself thinking about him sometimes. When he comes over, ... (147 words)

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for a few days after that and the... (567 words)

I have images of g/f's past haunting me, and I can't stand it!

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me. My gf’s past is haunting me. I have images of it everyhour everyday and its killing me inside! We are in a long distance relationship but I go see her every three months. From the start, my gf has been very honest with her past. She didn’t have a good past and... (571 words)

I want her to be with me but I don't know what to do or say. She feels we're drifting apart. Help please?

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8 October 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old, my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. She told me just yesterday that she feels we're "Drifting Apart". She doesn't know what's happening or what we can do to help it. I love her so much and she says she loves me too. Shes one of the ... (130 words)

When I look in the mirror I think I'm ugly.

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8 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello....... now that I'm growing up and all... i am starting to think I don't look as good as I used to... I used to be able to say I was cute... I never bragged about my looks... but when I look in the mirror I say I'm ugly and someone will say no you're not. I'm never ... (122 words)